Ask Nick - My Boyfriend’s Emotional Affair With His Cousin | The Viall Files w/ Nick Viall
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- Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024
- Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We’re back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we discuss how to navigate family photos with significant others. We also read a submission from someone whose boyfriend wants to take a trip to somewhere he’s gone with an ex. We debate recycling dates, trips, and activities with new relationships, and if it’s just ego getting in the way of doing so. We then get to our callers.
Our first caller recently found out she’s pregnant, and is scared to tell her boyfriend, who’s moving home soon and also may be married. We help her craft a message to tell him. Our second caller’s friend is moving to another country soon, and she’s debating whether to tell him she has feelings. We encourage her to reach out and confess her feelings before it’s too late. Our final caller’s boyfriend was having an emotional affair with his cousin. We compose the perfect break-up text to end things.
“You’re a Jedi Knight when it comes to avoiding.”
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Nick’s approach to these Ask Nick callers is perfect. He is the big brother everyone needs, who will tell you to your face what you need to hear instead of what you want to hear. Keep it up, Nick!!
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He is pandering and serves feel good Kool-Aid most of the time.
Agreed and his advice is always solid. I agree with him 99 % of the time. (And I’m always right, so…) 😂😂🤷🏼♀️
Completely agree girl!! Everytime I listen, I'm like "he nailed it on the head!" It's exactly what I would want from the situation stated!
Caller #1 is scary because how can she think she’s ready to be a mom yet is so emotionally immature and can’t have basic communication. Hopefully she experiences a lot of growth in the next 9 months
Today's podcast has me convinced Nick is going to be the absolute best girl dad!!
Hopefully he doesn't raise a delusional girl like most of the callers.
Caller #1 is terrifying lmaoo
Number 1 caller is scary. This is not funny. Your child will most likely have an absent father. She needs help.
And she kept laughing! So crazy. She won't be laughing when reality hits.
Totally agree. There are a lot of people out there who should not procreate and this dingbat is one of them.
lol the type of people who call into this pod holy shit at caller number 1
I was thinking the same thing!
I NEED an update on the chick who got pregnant. Someone, please!
Well done Nick and Ali and Amanda what a satisfying episode. Great advice and support. Let’s go.
Caller #1- let’s hope the woman he keeps ignoring isn’t one of his BMs! Sorry sis, otherwise that’s you’re future!
I really liked the action theme of the episode. I wish more callers did something as a wrap up and next steps to grow or change their situation.
I went to my ex’s cousin’s wedding with him when we were still together but knew it wasn’t working. We took family pictures I was in and then I pulled him to the side to privately ask if he wanted to do pics without me. He agreed and told his aunt, who proceeded to announce to the entire room “ok everyone we’re doing one with Kayla and one without!”
It was very uncomfortable but, i’m sure they’re glad they have versions without me 😅
21:56 "I think he really likes me but I'm also scared he has a wife." I DIED LAUGHING AT NICK'S REACTION TO THAT STATEMENT
If this podcast was around when I was in college I would’ve left my ex so much sooner 🤦🏼♀️😭
I really like how you guys go deep with every situation and walk people through it! It makes it fun and different than how other people/creators only just give advice without talking to the person really! Keep it up!
1000% talking about Serena and Joe's wedding the bachelor group photo-Andrew and his new bae
100% he didn’t like her
Came to find out who it was in the Bach photo
@@bethanysimonson9286 Andrew and his new girlfriend
If I was a betting person, I’d guess that Nick is referring to Andrew Spencer’s new gf being in the bachelor nation photo at Joe and Serena’s wedding hahaha
Nick was WAYYYY too hyped by the time they got to the third caller. Not him saying "send nudes" 😂
Ali and Amanda: we are optimistic!
Nick: I am NOT but here we are 😭
I’m literally laughing so hard at how often he called that first girl delusional 🤣🤣🤣 she is me and I am her
these are my fav episodes ✨✨
“We put Nick in a van…👀”
My friend has been dating a guy for over 4 years and he goes on vacation with her family every year and still isn’t allowed in the big family photo haha (he’s a trooper about it)
Is there an update on this!?
I love how Amanda is always so kind and understanding towards all the callers. I find Alison pretty rude and disrespectful watching her laugh at peoples situations while Amanda is trying to show compassion towards the callers. Always noticed that.
Are there any follow ups to these callers ?
also big no to family photos if not married
That second caller is delusional!! Wow!
My ex husband and I were waiting to announce our divorce until after my sisters wedding to not have that be a focus of her big day or to have marriage negativity leading up to her wedding.
So during family pictures I suggested doing one without him (knowing he wouldn’t be around) without them being suspicious or an asshole to him by just saying “let’s get a picture with just couple and bloodline” AFTER we had him in some pictures.
That way it didn’t change those and it was just added pictures which are now the main pictures and still in my house and theirs 7 years later. So that picture has me, my parents, my daughter and my sister and her husband.
They looked at me like I was a little crazy. But they are forever thankful!
Good show
Caller #1 is insane
She is not going to be a good mother. I feel bad for the child
First caller is irresponsible, naive, delusional idiot. At 30 she has to be making better decisions than that.
Second caller is red flags if she was banned from Tinder for using it under 18.
Triggered Amanda needs to calm down, the BF hasn't done anything illegal to be in prison.
I am pleasantly surprised how in depth and how involved Nick gets with these callers & their situations. I didn’t have the best POV on Nick prior to listening to his podcast due to watching him on the Bachelor shows, but slowly but surely he’s grown on me a bit more- basically I don’t hate him anymore lol. Interesting podcast, I enjoy it & his interviews.
PS- the caller w the foreign bf who’s probably married is an idiot…sorry 🤷🏼♀️. No self respect & no balls. Why would she allow this man to get away w most likely being married?? How can she not care enough about her own character & self respect to not ask those questions!? I’m baffled. It’s absolutely pathetic & ridiculous. And then she went and let herself get knocked up by him?? Glad Nick called her out about her character. She needs to get it together. Nick read her like a book 😂 he gained more points w me for that, that girl needs help & I’m glad he told her what’s reality since no one else in her life seems to be doing that.
Love Genevieve!
39:10 Wrong move. He already offered to come over. You’re giving the man strong hints which could cause him to bail, get advice from his friends score even showing up who might tell him to bail, or go into the convo with the wrong mindset because she hyped up the situation negatively. The advice was going so well until this
Second & third caller are switched in the description
I have a strong opinion about the writer iner. She’s being very silly and insecure about not going to those places. I used to not like to go to the town my ex and I lived in together and would give me anxiety entering the town. But now we’ve replaced enough memories that I feel fine going there. Even like restaurants and stuff that our exes put us on to I like sharing w my husband. Just bc someone else showed it to me doesn’t mean I hold attachement to my ex. Relationships form you in a sense and you can’t cancel out things you like or places you’ve been in a certain amount of years just bc you didn’t know your current partner yet. I love replacing the memories with new ones with my husband now.
And I think it’s really sweet when my husband wants to show me stuff from his past that he likes. Maybe that me being confident in our relationship but I truly love learning about his past even if it were somewhere he and an ex went on a romantic date w. Take me there so we can have a better date. Lol
is caller #1 ok??? she’s laughing at this situation thinking it’s ok to avoiding communicating about something this serious while she’s bringing a whole other life into this world????!
You guys are doing God’s work here. Awesome job!!!
lol my "cousin" was once in love with me growing up, he is now my husband. (we are family friends, not cousins :) ) good advice!
Where’s Amanda??
Vacation
I’m calling it that Nick's comment about the newbie inserting themself in a recent group photo is 100% about Andrew Spencer's new boo at Joe and Serena's wedding lol
agreed. did you catch that "multiple red flags" comment he kinda said under his breath?
Yep, he did not hide that well at all.
@@mrsjessicasmith yes!
@@cbradymolly22 doesn’t seem like he was really trying to hide it
Wait I missed that in the video, when did he talk about that?
Definitely talking about Andrew’s new gf😅
Housekeeping, just a suggestion. Clean the inside of the candle's glass and straighten the rug. Love you guys.
The way Nick is so unhinged in this episode😂
Just now listening, sending caller #1 so much love. I see in the comments people not saying the nicest things. So i thought I'd send some LOVE , her way :) and to the baby. I hope all is well
Oh my god this episode is fire 🔥 ! Love the real time action 🤣! X
This one was so good !! You all had such great advice. Nick, let’s see more of this side of you. You were honest without being harsh.
One of my best friends wedding - the fiancé of the groom’s brother is in all the photos. They broke off the engagement
I cackle every time they all clap together lol
This was such a great episode for proactive advice and direct action like yes!!
My ex and I were high school sweethearts and both truly believed we would be together forever. I am in one of his dad’s wedding photo’s, not all of them purposefully just in case. I hope they’re not hanging that one in their house😂😂
My family is having a group family picture in January and my grandmother is organizing it. She reached out to tell me that my boyfriend of about a year is invited if he wants to be, but my initial reacting was that’s awkward. I see a future with him and hope he is the one, but I feel like if you’re not like married or engaged then the family photos are a little uncomfy lol
My ex and I had been dating for only 6-8 months and I was asked to be in their professional family photos. I felt so awkward and voiced my concern of being in them since it had been only a short amount of time. But his mom begged me LOL. Ended up being in them, my ex and I dated two years after that, and then broke up
This episode was so good! These ladies who called in are so strong and badass ❤
I’m sorry but I’m really over Allie and Genevieve. Please reduce the commentary
I like Allie and Genevieve ‼️
They’re my favorite part lol
i think they both add a really nice balance with nick !! they both are super funny i think
genevieve was so funny this episode , i am really starting to like her !!