Caller one: that girl is NOT your friend. I repeat, THAT GIRL IS NOT YOUR FRIEND. That’s an undercover hater. No true friend would ever want another friend to be in the pain that is when you have an affair with a married man. Someone who loves you, cares about you and wants the best for you wants you to have someone who is available to you. This chick just wanted revenge and she used the caller to manipulate that to happen. And the girl who is with the married guy…seldom do those types of relationships work. Best case scenario, he grows a pair and leaves his wife to be with you. Now you question the rest of your relationship if he’ll do the same. He did it once, why not again. Worst case scenario, this drags out forever and gets emotionally ugly. You keep believing it will end with you two together and he promises it will, but it doesn’t happen. You get resentful and become someone you never thought you’d become. And you waste time with the wrong one when there could be a right one. So seldom do these types of situations actually work, like two long lost soulmates being reunited. Not to mention the obvious, but this is a testament to where both the caller and the guy are at emotionally right now, and it’s not in a mature and selfless place. That doesn’t bode well for a relationship.
This is the two scenarios that can happen: He never leaves his wife and she will eventually stop seeing him, second: He leaves her wife and she won't find him as attractive as before and they will separate, that is what happens. It is never a great idea to see a married guy.
The first caller not only has horrible character and is completely delusional about the guy she’s having an affair with but clearly does not care about her own child. She puts all her energy into this affair and is putting his care to the side. Even her talking about this gross affair infront of her child is just icky. Stop pretending that man cares about you and start caring about your self, your child and your life.
The first caller is delusional and has terrible character. She doesn’t realize how the world around her is going to crumble and vilify her when people start finding out, which they will, when the wife does. Those children involved deserve so much better than selfish adults creating an environment where they will have to pay the ultimate price. Their parents could potentially amicably separate without infidelity involved vs the wife experiencing the ultimate betrayal and affecting every decision thereafter in the divorce. Please first caller, grow up. Get some therapy. As should your “friend” that set you up.
There was definitely a them of people being in unhappy relationships and needing to get out. Build your life first and the right healthy relationships will follow. Don’t force a person into a relationship because you don’t want to be alone
3RD CALLER It’s so crazy to to hear 22 year olds talking and I think wtaf lol I was 22 when I met my husband and now I’m 34 and we are approaching 14 years later.. That’ said ITS HARD when you find your forever person at that young of an age, your not just falling in love you are growing into yourself with LOVE. Just as much as life has phases so will love. You have to literally still just like them as you grow into self let alone still love them through each one of those phases. I don’t think at 22 when I met my husband him having a new born in those circumstances it would not have worked.! That’s LOGICAL thinking .Be careful to the young lady because the worst thing that will cut the deepest is being someone person that helps them pass the time until his REALITY BECOMES THAT! I know that sounds crazy but it’s true! He hasn’t even healed the baby mama, how could he have they dated then broke up then he obviously went back she gets pregnant 🤰🏻 and now he has you!? Last point him suggesting couples therapy isn’t a green flag it’s him realizing that YOU ARE HIS ONLY STABILITY RIGHT NOW AND HE DOESNT WANT TO LOOSE THAT! You have literally become the monkey 🙊 🙉 🙈 in the middle that is now wrapped up in a family literally a family dynamic. Your body is feeling insecure for a reason BECAUSE HE HAS A OPEN BOOK 📖 his life decisions are NOW DICTATED BY BEING A NEW FATHER. That said if that’s not his focus than that’s not even the person for you.
I never thought I’d love Nick and agree with him so much. Unfortunately I feel into the path of liking a married man and he told me all the bullshit. I ended up blocking and deleting him completely when I realized how he told me all the lies even after he said he was legally separated and was not. This girl does not want to leave. I hope she does though
I love the way Nick talks to the so called homewrecker. Love that. Real homewrecker is the guy, but she's pretty shitty herself and she knows that. She thinks she's too special. Wow
I don’t think I missed it in this episode, but can someone point me in the direction of the episode where the male caller called in about his wife coming out?
Am I the only one confused about the baby mama age thing? She was 17, he is 36. How old was he when they had this baby? Was he also a teen or was he 36?
These callers are examples that women don't mature much either. Most people create their own problems via bad decisions, repeatedly. And they don't even have real friends or parents they can turn to for advice rather than some podcast.
People in the comment section need to chill about the woman dating the married man. It’s more common than you think. Im happy Nick is able to help her. That’s what this is all about. Giving advice to people who need help.
Just because it’s common doesn’t make it right. It is a big deal. She is blind because she has developed an emotional attachment, she’s not seeing how it is going to affect her son & her in the future. Not to mention his own wife and their family dynamic, ignoring this is selfish mixed with a whole lot of delusion. She’s saving herself a lot of trouble by getting out if she does.
That much being on the make , with a married man . What is society saying ? America was , is the greatest country in the World to live in . A war in 2023 , Palestinians that live in poverty , but have intellectual thoughts. All young generations have their hookup culture . Temptation is two people make an Ultra couple.
Nick - your realistic and cut-the-bullsh*t approach to advice is appreciated! I think the world needs more of that
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Loved Amanda telling her "you're not a lost cause" sometimes when we make the worst decisions it can feel that way
That is absolute BS and just feeding the delusion to make the caller feel better.
@@seven92023amen !
Caller one: that girl is NOT your friend. I repeat, THAT GIRL IS NOT YOUR FRIEND. That’s an undercover hater. No true friend would ever want another friend to be in the pain that is when you have an affair with a married man. Someone who loves you, cares about you and wants the best for you wants you to have someone who is available to you. This chick just wanted revenge and she used the caller to manipulate that to happen. And the girl who is with the married guy…seldom do those types of relationships work. Best case scenario, he grows a pair and leaves his wife to be with you. Now you question the rest of your relationship if he’ll do the same. He did it once, why not again. Worst case scenario, this drags out forever and gets emotionally ugly. You keep believing it will end with you two together and he promises it will, but it doesn’t happen. You get resentful and become someone you never thought you’d become. And you waste time with the wrong one when there could be a right one. So seldom do these types of situations actually work, like two long lost soulmates being reunited. Not to mention the obvious, but this is a testament to where both the caller and the guy are at emotionally right now, and it’s not in a mature and selfless place. That doesn’t bode well for a relationship.
This is the two scenarios that can happen: He never leaves his wife and she will eventually stop seeing him, second: He leaves her wife and she won't find him as attractive as before and they will separate, that is what happens. It is never a great idea to see a married guy.
Amanda and Nick are the salty and sweet balance of advice great job all of y’all ❤
The first caller not only has horrible character and is completely delusional about the guy she’s having an affair with but clearly does not care about her own child. She puts all her energy into this affair and is putting his care to the side. Even her talking about this gross affair infront of her child is just icky. Stop pretending that man cares about you and start caring about your self, your child and your life.
Nick: “car-part-mentalize” 😂😂
I love love love the way Nick goes in hard on these cheaters! That girls sounded so self absorbed and stupid.
He actually doesn't go hard enough. He sugarcoats it too much. I would be much more honest and hard on her, especially since she is 34 and single mom.
@@seven92023THIS!!!
The first caller is delusional and has terrible character. She doesn’t realize how the world around her is going to crumble and vilify her when people start finding out, which they will, when the wife does. Those children involved deserve so much better than selfish adults creating an environment where they will have to pay the ultimate price. Their parents could potentially amicably separate without infidelity involved vs the wife experiencing the ultimate betrayal and affecting every decision thereafter in the divorce.
Please first caller, grow up. Get some therapy. As should your “friend” that set you up.
Right. We need to bring back shame in our culture. There is way too little of it.
Damn. You are EXCELLENT. Women need to LISTEN. This is not how women should treat other women. This is not how women should treat themselves.
39:50 oh my gosh Amanda is such a ray of sunshine 😭 empathetic queen
I really appreciate how Amanda still goes back to the “do you want a shot at the title? -line. it’s a classic and should never be forgotten 😂😂😂
caller 1's friend is a very bad friend. so sad that no one told her how manipulative the "boyfriend" was being. great advice nick
First caller is painful.
The first caller needs to go to therapy…..how sad and how could you feel good about yourself???
Shameful. The fact that people don’t know to leave married people alone is beyond me
Awesome advice Nick 👏
NIck's face throughout the entire first call is why I listen/watch these on RUclips
The lady having relations with the married man has no character. Grow up and quite putting children and other spouses in the middle of your affairs.
When we heard the kid in the background I needed to touch grass.
There was definitely a them of people being in unhappy relationships and needing to get out.
Build your life first and the right healthy relationships will follow. Don’t force a person into a relationship because you don’t want to be alone
Special Forces is what gets me through the week. Two weeks without it? I can't. 😂
3RD CALLER
It’s so crazy to to hear 22 year olds talking and I think wtaf lol I was 22 when I met my husband and now I’m 34 and we are approaching 14 years later.. That’ said ITS HARD when you find your forever person at that young of an age, your not just falling in love you are growing into yourself with LOVE. Just as much as life has phases so will love. You have to literally still just like them as you grow into self let alone still love them through each one of those phases. I don’t think at 22 when I met my husband him having a new born in those circumstances it would not have worked.! That’s LOGICAL thinking .Be careful to the young lady because the worst thing that will cut the deepest is being someone person that helps them pass the time until his REALITY BECOMES THAT! I know that sounds crazy but it’s true! He hasn’t even healed the baby mama, how could he have they dated then broke up then he obviously went back she gets pregnant 🤰🏻 and now he has you!? Last point him suggesting couples therapy isn’t a green flag it’s him realizing that YOU ARE HIS ONLY STABILITY RIGHT NOW AND HE DOESNT WANT TO LOOSE THAT! You have literally become the monkey 🙊 🙉 🙈 in the middle that is now wrapped up in a family literally a family dynamic. Your body is feeling insecure for a reason BECAUSE HE HAS A OPEN BOOK 📖 his life decisions are NOW DICTATED BY BEING A NEW FATHER. That said if that’s not his focus than that’s not even the person for you.
You either decide to live your life in integrity, or you don't.
I never thought I’d love Nick and agree with him so much. Unfortunately I feel into the path of liking a married man and he told me all the bullshit. I ended up blocking and deleting him completely when I realized how he told me all the lies even after he said he was legally separated and was not. This girl does not want to leave. I hope she does though
“you cart-part-mentalize it”
the first caller triggered my fight or flight
1st caller has no morals and needs new friends
This is insane. Y’all shoulda cussed her out. (First caller). That’s the only way to handle those types
I love the way Nick talks to the so called homewrecker. Love that. Real homewrecker is the guy, but she's pretty shitty herself and she knows that. She thinks she's too special. Wow
Great Ep Nick!!!!
I don’t think I missed it in this episode, but can someone point me in the direction of the episode where the male caller called in about his wife coming out?
27:07 😂omg she is so a pawn
I love you Nick but you gotta cool it on the “you know” hahaha 😂
I think the birthday wish is something!! I did that with my boyfriend and we worked together
i’m only here for amanda. 😊
does he ever do updates on these stories?
Why is special forces season 2 not on hulu?
Am I the only one confused about the baby mama age thing?
She was 17, he is 36. How old was he when they had this baby? Was he also a teen or was he 36?
36 minus 17 is 19. He was 19
When do you start talking about the person dating a married man?
It's the first caller...she's nuts. Literally doesn't care about children or anyone. Terrible person
24:50
Here early 🎉🎳
These callers are examples that women don't mature much either. Most people create their own problems via bad decisions, repeatedly. And they don't even have real friends or parents they can turn to for advice rather than some podcast.
That massage story in the beginning was so sketch. Please go to a spa next time. You deserve a normal, relaxing experience 😅
I miss Ali! I am always disappointed when the episode isn't her and Amanda together... I almost stop watching.
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People in the comment section need to chill about the woman dating the married man. It’s more common than you think. Im happy Nick is able to help her. That’s what this is all about. Giving advice to people who need help.
The girl is saying I don’t care that I’m doing something shitty. So yeah she deserves the comments actually
Just because it’s common doesn’t make it right. It is a big deal. She is blind because she has developed an emotional attachment, she’s not seeing how it is going to affect her son & her in the future. Not to mention his own wife and their family dynamic, ignoring this is selfish mixed with a whole lot of delusion. She’s saving herself a lot of trouble by getting out if she does.
Tell us you’re a side chick without telling us you’re a side chick 😂😂😂
I take it you sleep with married men?
It doesn’t matter if it’s common - it’s a really shitty thing to do and she deserves to be called out for it
I don’t think burning that candle with all of that soot around it is healthy, Nick :/
That much being on the make , with a married man . What is society saying ? America was , is the greatest country in the World to live in . A war in 2023 , Palestinians that live in poverty , but have intellectual thoughts. All young generations have their hookup culture . Temptation is two people make an Ultra couple.