And I thought I was dealing with a hardcore covert narcissist... now I see I might of been dealing with a sociopath! Still emotionally traumatised and trauma bonded a year later... I need to start healing more 😥💔
At first i thought he was a codependent then i thought he was a vulnerable covert narcicist but that didn't seem right either. Now I think he's a sociopath.
It's not easy, take your time to heal. My last relationship was 2 years ago and I'm STILL healing, lol. Be good to yourself and seek therapy, that has helped me a lot.
My ex is also a sociopath. I almost lost my family because he not only stole from me, but he stole from them. Not even a small ammount but he stole an amount capable of getting him a grand theft charge. I was homeless and staying in shelters because of him. He deceived me into thinking he was really in love with me. He was my first love. I lost my virginity to him at 14. I kept being his puppet who he has used for about 7 years. Not only that. He was recently DIAGNOSED as a sociopath by doctors. He is that bad.
The only difference between a sociopath and a psychopath is that both lack empathy but sociopath develop this due to upbringing while psychopaths its inherent from birth. That's it, their behaviour doesnt really differ, that depends on the individual. The names even indicate this, socio = social, psycho = psychological or inherent mental condition. Narcissism is a separation condition, it can overlap with any other condition but it's not the same thing, it's not a lack of empathy its prioritising ones self over anyone else but they still have empathy they're just very self orientated.
Thanks so much..your video described sociopaths the very best of what I've seen...I was married to 2 sociopaths and couldn't figure out how to fight my way out of those paper sacks (so to speak). Married again..after 4 months of marriage he attempted to kill me Easter morning. The police had pictures of what he did to my body. He served time in jail. During the divorce he attempted to get my house.my funds..and even my 78 year old mother's personal monies. So...I'm in therapy and I'm not planning on ever getting married again.
Personality wise, I'm a guy who has deep traits to helping others, in fact my career evolves helping the critically sick. I met a women who at one point in time was my dream, but 4 years our relationship ended. I then stuck around for another 7 years attempting to mend things, create a future, and build that family we had always talked about. It's only now that the denial has passed and I've been dealing with a 100% Sociopath. Looking back I believe the potential for her to be a sociopath was there in the beginning but I think only parts of the behavior were showing due to how things were at the time. She had a very troubled upbringing, and given what I did not know at the time, it's possible she did a very good job at hiding it, and I was just oblivious I'm not sure. However what I do know with certainty, is she constantly got herself into bad situations, but would NEVER be wrong. She could always spin it around, and would even go as far as to blaming the very people who were helping her. She would sometimes screw me over to the point it was blatantly obvious it was intentional, but then argue it was my fault, absolving any kind of responsibility. She would not feel any type of remorse for her actions, only to argue why it was justified despite being borderline evil in some cases. Looking back, everything I went through was by far the most difficult, costly and painful thing I've ever done in my life. Do not ignore the signs, it can literally cripple a healthy mind.
My husband did all these things. Forged bills of sale, stole my car multiple times, lied non stop... I didn’t catch the lies for years and years because I was so smitten. He really seemed surprised that I was upset over some of these things, I thought it was an act. I guess it was a disorder. Unfortunately he went to extremes and is now in jail for murder. I’m told that I’m very lucky that I wasn’t killed. And the sad thing is that I still love him so much. I’m glad I have years to work on myself before he gets out and can manipulate me again
I understand that you still love him, it's the trauma bond. I still have it over a year later myself. You might want to get the book Women Who Love Psychopaths by Sandra Brown. She's the best resource for healing from this type of abuse. I wish you well and that you stay safe.
4:27 "And I was really kinda just vibrating at this place of adventure and freedom and sorta happy go lucky kind of an attitude..." When youre feelin yourself WATCH OUT! You are prime steak for a fkng #narcissist
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And I thought I was dealing with a hardcore covert narcissist... now I see I might of been dealing with a sociopath! Still emotionally traumatised and trauma bonded a year later... I need to start healing more 😥💔
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Hmmmm.... I thot 🤔 I’m dealing with a hardcore covert narc too, now possible sociopath is more accurate.
All sociopaths are Narcissists
At first i thought he was a codependent then i thought he was a vulnerable covert narcicist but that didn't seem right either. Now I think he's a sociopath.
It's not easy, take your time to heal. My last relationship was 2 years ago and I'm STILL healing, lol. Be good to yourself and seek therapy, that has helped me a lot.
@@e.paradigm7415 it took me a full year to get over it. I hope you are well now
This video should have more views
My ex is also a sociopath. I almost lost my family because he not only stole from me, but he stole from them. Not even a small ammount but he stole an amount capable of getting him a grand theft charge. I was homeless and staying in shelters because of him. He deceived me into thinking he was really in love with me. He was my first love. I lost my virginity to him at 14. I kept being his puppet who he has used for about 7 years. Not only that. He was recently DIAGNOSED as a sociopath by doctors. He is that bad.
U must be an empath so fell for the sociopath just like me
Red flag is they are shameless took me three years to stabilize my health
The only difference between a sociopath and a psychopath is that both lack empathy but sociopath develop this due to upbringing while psychopaths its inherent from birth. That's it, their behaviour doesnt really differ, that depends on the individual. The names even indicate this, socio = social, psycho = psychological or inherent mental condition. Narcissism is a separation condition, it can overlap with any other condition but it's not the same thing, it's not a lack of empathy its prioritising ones self over anyone else but they still have empathy they're just very self orientated.
They are master manipulators and extremely good at getting your money.
Thanks so much..your video described sociopaths the very best of what I've seen...I was married to 2 sociopaths and couldn't figure out how to fight my way out of those paper sacks (so to speak). Married again..after 4 months of marriage he attempted to kill me Easter morning. The police had pictures of what he did to my body. He served time in jail. During the divorce he attempted to get my house.my funds..and even my 78 year old mother's personal monies. So...I'm in therapy and I'm not planning on ever getting married again.
Oh sweet girl. I have felt that same shame. Thank you for sharing this with us. Many blessing and much love ❤️🙏
Personality wise, I'm a guy who has deep traits to helping others, in fact my career evolves helping the critically sick. I met a women who at one point in time was my dream, but 4 years our relationship ended. I then stuck around for another 7 years attempting to mend things, create a future, and build that family we had always talked about. It's only now that the denial has passed and I've been dealing with a 100% Sociopath. Looking back I believe the potential for her to be a sociopath was there in the beginning but I think only parts of the behavior were showing due to how things were at the time. She had a very troubled upbringing, and given what I did not know at the time, it's possible she did a very good job at hiding it, and I was just oblivious I'm not sure. However what I do know with certainty, is she constantly got herself into bad situations, but would NEVER be wrong. She could always spin it around, and would even go as far as to blaming the very people who were helping her. She would sometimes screw me over to the point it was blatantly obvious it was intentional, but then argue it was my fault, absolving any kind of responsibility. She would not feel any type of remorse for her actions, only to argue why it was justified despite being borderline evil in some cases. Looking back, everything I went through was by far the most difficult, costly and painful thing I've ever done in my life. Do not ignore the signs, it can literally cripple a healthy mind.
My husband did all these things. Forged bills of sale, stole my car multiple times, lied non stop... I didn’t catch the lies for years and years because I was so smitten. He really seemed surprised that I was upset over some of these things, I thought it was an act. I guess it was a disorder. Unfortunately he went to extremes and is now in jail for murder. I’m told that I’m very lucky that I wasn’t killed. And the sad thing is that I still love him so much. I’m glad I have years to work on myself before he gets out and can manipulate me again
I understand that you still love him, it's the trauma bond. I still have it over a year later myself. You might want to get the book Women Who Love Psychopaths by Sandra Brown. She's the best resource for healing from this type of abuse. I wish you well and that you stay safe.
This is one of the best well presented and sincere narratives I have ever come across. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. Wow!
*I married a sociopath too* 😓
Its funny how alot of sociopatic/ narcisstic stories involves spirituality. Mine did too...
4:27 "And I was really kinda just vibrating at this place of adventure and freedom and sorta happy go lucky kind of an attitude..." When youre feelin yourself WATCH OUT! You are prime steak for a fkng #narcissist
I think i was with one.... He left me pregnant n blocked me. Moved on like nothing happened.....
14.08 u said sociopath are born...no sociopath are made and psychopath are born
thank u so much u really helped me out a lot !! stay safe and keep ur videos going beautiful soul!
Continued success in all you do great information 🙏💕
This is so true except my ex money hungry orderly but highly deceptive
Hmm... As you see from my name, I'm a man. This makes me think. I've seen this in others; both men and women. Thanks for sharing.
She Remind me of miss daisy off meet the browns
Thank you for this video, I found it very helpful! I see that you were searching for spirituality at one point, have you considered Jesus?