Do This So You Don't Repeat Toxic Patterns

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  • Опубликовано: 23 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 58

  • @amandamilobooks
    @amandamilobooks 2 года назад +18

    12:10 "We repeat the class until we learn the lesson the class is trying to teach us. And the class shows up in human skin."

  • @Utubeuser777
    @Utubeuser777 Год назад +6

    Wow! Well that answers a lot of questions. Also allows me to see and act on red flags in the future. “you will never heal that longing
    in a romantic relationship
    because you're not looking for romantic
    love you're looking for parental love
    to fill an empty hole
    that either mom or dad or both didn't
    fill
    and that can be healed.”

  • @Brian-rs4ug
    @Brian-rs4ug 2 года назад +28

    When we attract toxic people into our lives, we have got to take a close at ourselves. When we works on ourselves and deal with our own stuff. We will clearly be able discern healthy and unhealthy people. True genuine change starts with us.

  • @acpgiga
    @acpgiga 2 года назад +12

    I'm glad I'm not a therapist - I think I'd cry day and night just listening to some of these things ...

  • @phoenixrising33
    @phoenixrising33 6 месяцев назад +4

    'And it can be healed.' This statement gives me hope and reminds me that
    my hope is in Jesus. Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life. He is able to heal the hurting.

  • @pattyduerr1168
    @pattyduerr1168 6 месяцев назад +3

    Thank God for giving Dr. Cloud this wisdom..

  • @reej2023
    @reej2023 2 года назад +23

    I pray this young girl gets the support you mentioned. I suffered those longings in relationships almost my whole life. It's sad. I didn't have the resources she had when I was young. Not one ever turned out good. Now I'm closer to 60 and happy single. Took me awhile to learn.

    • @Lynn-wf3ys
      @Lynn-wf3ys 7 месяцев назад +1

      Me too 😢

    • @godzillamanstreb524
      @godzillamanstreb524 5 месяцев назад +1

      I’m right there with you….no more excuses to be in relationships that make me feel terrible about myself

  • @cathyjohnson4792
    @cathyjohnson4792 Год назад +5

    Self confidence issue. Get counseling and break it once for all the toxic relationship. Believe me people don’t change!!!

  • @phoenixrising33
    @phoenixrising33 6 месяцев назад +3

    Fantastic info! Thank you Dr. Cloud.

  • @autumn_o-222
    @autumn_o-222 10 месяцев назад +4

    So good! I feel like I'm sitting in a counseling session. This is something I am learning to heal from as well ❤

  • @Lynn-wf3ys
    @Lynn-wf3ys 7 месяцев назад +1

    🔥 Eye opening!!! So true. will be 67 this summer and just now learning how to identify and deal with the root cause of multiple toxic marriages. 😢

  • @timm9306
    @timm9306 Год назад +4

    Thanks for sharing this Brittany. I’m going through something kinda similar… 6 years on and off and I cut it off for good… it’s not easy so thank you for sharing babe, you sound like a wonderful woman, You can find someone better who will love you and have a healthy relationship if you just get right with the Lord. 🙏🏼

  • @Humbirdhippo5475
    @Humbirdhippo5475 2 года назад +18

    Wow. Introspection really is key. I’m so glad she was strong enough to move on and miss out on the toxicity!

  • @cathyjohnson4792
    @cathyjohnson4792 Год назад +2

    He doesn’t love you if this stops with him and move on. There is someone out this who is dying to be with you and loves you. Get out and look for that guy instead of wining about a looser!!

  • @swim610
    @swim610 2 года назад +2

    I need to heal my parental wounds.

  • @sylviacolon1640
    @sylviacolon1640 4 месяца назад

    Amen! Thank you again Dr. Cloud. I needed to hear that because that has been one of my problems, along with not having self esteem and feeling guilty if I " so called complain" ; when I only need to voice my feelings.

  • @nateperez6587
    @nateperez6587 2 года назад +4

    I really hope that girl gets a grip on herself, she is allowing herself to be stuck in this hurtful pattern she’s in and she’s the only one suffering because of it….

    • @princepesa
      @princepesa Год назад +1

      The guy isn't suffering he's moved on. So can she!

  • @CocoShade
    @CocoShade Год назад +2

    This was brilliant!!!

  • @callbainis
    @callbainis 2 года назад +7

    This is a very very good message- I needed this. I am taking this into my therapy

  • @Dotdata
    @Dotdata Год назад

    This is an example of the pearls I want to share with someone in a similar situation.

  • @AnalystAyi
    @AnalystAyi 2 года назад +8

    This was so helpful Dr. Cloud ⛅️

  • @laughteraddict1003
    @laughteraddict1003 5 месяцев назад +1

    Girl, you dodged a bullet ! End of story

  • @freetobememe4358
    @freetobememe4358 2 года назад +1

    Attracted to this problem. WOW, yes. A great question I will be asking myself.

  • @rhondamiller7748
    @rhondamiller7748 Год назад +2

    Thank you Dr. Cloud!

  • @Mindsetolympics
    @Mindsetolympics 2 года назад +15

    I was bound to toxic relationships for 10 years too like her (Just released from it this year) just not with one guy !
    Jesus has been repairing my heart with your book Dr. Cloud, the bible and prayer and worship. 🙌🏾
    I gave God a yes! And said no to fantasizes, sexual immorality, obsessive thoughts, longing, emotional abuse, manipulation, demons agendas overall. It wasn’t easy and hasn’t been easy but God is so faithful and good and she can get out of this cycle too in Jesus name!

  • @amyolmsted4004
    @amyolmsted4004 Месяц назад

    Nicely done!

  • @traceya9119
    @traceya9119 2 года назад +1

    Good luck prayers going out to you.

  • @firefighterps2
    @firefighterps2 2 года назад +1

    So very helpful. Thank you.

  • @hollyberry86
    @hollyberry86 2 года назад +1

    This is amazing 😢

  • @relanaallen5513
    @relanaallen5513 2 года назад +4

    Where can you find a healing community?

  • @lidijailic1283
    @lidijailic1283 Месяц назад

    👏👏👏 For this doctor!

  • @a.d.b535
    @a.d.b535 5 месяцев назад

    Similar to my situation, but my dad wasnt the trigger.

  • @sharieallen2719
    @sharieallen2719 3 месяца назад

    How do I heal from a mother that was needy. I keep repeating the pattern, accepting needy men.

  • @anitarobertson2833
    @anitarobertson2833 2 года назад

    How do I walk awaý from a toxic person when I am 70 years old and dependant on his finances. I cannot support myself..

  • @erinmariebaker712
    @erinmariebaker712 2 года назад

    Thank you!!

  • @robyncooperramsey8323
    @robyncooperramsey8323 2 года назад

    Excellent.

  • @marielang9552
    @marielang9552 2 года назад

    Wonderful!

  • @rochellecaffee1417
    @rochellecaffee1417 Год назад

    Where would you suggest that Brittany should go?

  • @dvic8491
    @dvic8491 Месяц назад

    Wow!

  • @eleanorjordan3404
    @eleanorjordan3404 2 года назад

    You look so good! Is knee surgery done??

  • @tawanacalamari5712
    @tawanacalamari5712 Год назад +1

    omg if this lady was my friend i would've hung up the phone at ''the baby wasn't planned''.......really and who cares, he's some else's problem now not yours. omg you want to have a child with a moron....

  • @moniquemcdonogh698
    @moniquemcdonogh698 9 месяцев назад

    Amen amen🎉

  • @peggygarcia1131
    @peggygarcia1131 Год назад

    9:40

  • @freetobememe4358
    @freetobememe4358 2 года назад +1

    Those dang magnetic waves……..

  • @biznachos1
    @biznachos1 Год назад

    Hahahaha.... Back when I was a caring good man, no one wanted me. NOW I am happily married with 2 kids.
    Women are funny.
    "Indifference makes the difference"

  • @leecooper1459
    @leecooper1459 2 года назад +3

    where do u find healing communities. ne oklahoma, churches here do not do outside the church groups, CR and UR recovery groups are not relevant to, i saw your group video from 10 years ago , is that still functioning?
    i am willing to host in my home but how do u find ppl authentic, safe, and willing to commit to one another, like u said ladies groups dont heal manliness gaps, thanks,

    • @lorarooks5515
      @lorarooks5515 2 года назад +4

      If it applies, Al-Anon, CODA, Divorce Care and Grief Share are great resources. Lina Abujamra has a good online group also.

    • @lorarooks5515
      @lorarooks5515 2 года назад +2

      Church communities with small groups can be a solace also.