Story 1: the bf found someone else and now that he needs a place to stay, she's done with him. Story 2: Benedict WANTS Zee and can't have her. So, he wants her gone. And, yes; Sarah from story 3 needs to find herself a man who has NO kids. It's the only way to be sure.
Story 1: He was in the parking lot at his work until 2am after they ended it. He had a coworker in mind and she wasn't down for some reason now he wants OP back. Nope.
Lol nah, Benedict has the hots for the friend, and regrets that he's marrying her and not the friend. (lbr, the friend is probably out of his league and he knows it, but it isn't stopping him from wishing...)
There is zero indication the best friend even knows anything about this issue? For all we know, Benedict is lusting after her and never even talked to her and now tells his fiancé in private to uninvite her? What did the friend do here? Thats just a wild leap of assumptions
@Scarlett.Granger We don't know that is the truth either. All we can do is speculate with all the stories we hear. Our opinions are our own. We are not in their shoes or have personal relationships with them to ever really know what went on & since there was no update, unfortunately, thats where it ends for us. I'm sorry to have upset you.
@@SelenaJarvis-Jordan i'm not upset, i don't care and you can assume whatever you like. I'm just saying, that it's a huge assumption to say the friend is suspicious because to the best of our knowledge she knows nothing
First story: He got what he wanted. Why is he upset? Too many people don’t know what they have until they lose it. Life lesson for him. Second story: Benedict needs to cut a hole in his belly so he can see where he’s going, because he has his head shoved so far up into a certain body opening. He’s trying to control her contact with her friends. This will only get worse as time goes on. Third story: Sarah is interfering with the relationship between the children and their mother. Marrying someone who has children from a previous marriage is hard. Acting like a jealous jerk makes it harder.
#1 don't take him back unless he agrees to counselling and a mental health assessment. Guy has issues and needs to get them treated, not to mention figure out what he wants. #2 two causes for this. Ben either fancies Zee, or he's trying to isolate his fiancee from her friends. Neither is good!
0:05: OP's BF wanted to break it off with her and now has regrets? OP needs to tell him that he made his bed; he needs to lie on it. You never know what you have till it's gone. 2:59: Why is Benedict so focused on Zee? Is it because he wanted to get with her, only to be rejected by her? Did Zee screw over Benedict in some sort of way? OP needs to get to the bottom of this for the sake of their upcoming marriage; otherwise, this wedding could be doomed before it even gets started. 5:48: Sarah is jealous and insecure about OP's ex, which is necessary because of the kids involved. Is Sarah afraid OP getting back together with his ex? Sarah doesn't have the state of mind to be in a relationship, and OP should be glad she's breaking it off with him. OP deserves much better.
I don't really understand the 3rd story. If OP's kids live with him full time, what is he communicating with his ex about? I can't see a reason they'd need to communicate daily and certainly not to share personal details about his current partner and have them get along, because they wouldn't be seeing each other often enough for it to matter, I'm assuming
Story 1: I was kinda like this in previous relationships, avoidant/anxious attachment, now I try to communicate my feelings to my boyfriend, and it always works out in the end. But this guy, he waited until after the breakup to communicate his thoughts and feelings? Something feels off like he's been stepping out of the relationship. Story 2: Benedict wants Zee, heck he's probably crushing on her, he thinks she's beautiful enough to "overshadow" his own fiancee! He wants to uninvite Zee to get rid of that thought, or like everyone is saying, he probably made a move on her, he got rejected and wants her out of the wedding. Story 3: Sarah should not be dating men who have kids with someone else if she's going to act this immature, she went through his phone, found no evidence of lingering romantic feelings between op and his ex-wife, and still broke it off? What did she expect from a man who was communicating about his children? Honestly, op dodged a bullet here.
I've been in the same situation with my partner and his x...turned out.they were sleeping together still. Just for old time sakes guys! Nothing to see here....like its Nothing.
How are you doing sweetie? How are you feeling? I hope just great!! In the very first story, this is completely understandable because sometimes people just fall out of love with each other, but they still remain close with each other as friends. Y'all spent ten years together only for him to fall out of love with her, but now he wants her back because he realizes how hard the dating scene is. She shouldn't take him back at all because he completely disappointed and let her down for no reason at all. In the second story, please don't go through with this wedding because your fiance Benedict is a two-timer and he's just waiting for the perfect opportunity to sleep with your best friend Zee. All of his focus should be soley on you and you only because after all you ares the one who he's about to be married too. In the third story, this is something that his fiancee just has to get over quickly because he has kids with his ex wife so of course they are still going to be in communication about their children and only their children. There isn't anything explicit going on between them. I love you!! Have a great day!! Stay safe beautiful!!
1st Story: OP was too calm. He thought she would cry, plead, interrogate him, and/or try to change his mind. Since she kept her composure, he's like, "Wait! She's ok? She can live without me!!!? Maybe I need to rethink this." 2nd Story: Benedict might love his fiance, but I think he secretly has the "feels" for Miss Zee. They need to have a talk and get some things straightened out. Last Story: She seems sincere but very immature for 36 years old. She needs to date a young, childless man. 🤨
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Benedict is the one feeling insecure 😂
Irony.
Story 1: the bf found someone else and now that he needs a place to stay, she's done with him. Story 2: Benedict WANTS Zee and can't have her. So, he wants her gone. And, yes; Sarah from story 3 needs to find herself a man who has NO kids. It's the only way to be sure.
Story 1: He was in the parking lot at his work until 2am after they ended it. He had a coworker in mind and she wasn't down for some reason now he wants OP back. Nope.
I would never have waited around, wasting my time for a decade.
Lol nah, Benedict has the hots for the friend, and regrets that he's marrying her and not the friend. (lbr, the friend is probably out of his league and he knows it, but it isn't stopping him from wishing...)
Sarah is a flashing Red Flag. Let her go. You don't need her Drama.
4:11 Ding! Ding! Ding!
But the best friend not saying something is also suspicious
There is zero indication the best friend even knows anything about this issue?
For all we know, Benedict is lusting after her and never even talked to her and now tells his fiancé in private to uninvite her?
What did the friend do here? Thats just a wild leap of assumptions
Idk though because it sounds like Benedict is the only one acting strange.
@Scarlett.Granger We don't know that is the truth either. All we can do is speculate with all the stories we hear. Our opinions are our own. We are not in their shoes or have personal relationships with them to ever really know what went on & since there was no update, unfortunately, thats where it ends for us. I'm sorry to have upset you.
@@SelenaJarvis-Jordan i'm not upset, i don't care and you can assume whatever you like. I'm just saying, that it's a huge assumption to say the friend is suspicious because to the best of our knowledge she knows nothing
Staying together out of convenience is a thing
But also i think he wanted to cheat but not get in trouble or her calmness threw him for a loop
First story: He got what he wanted. Why is he upset? Too many people don’t know what they have until they lose it. Life lesson for him. Second story: Benedict needs to cut a hole in his belly so he can see where he’s going, because he has his head shoved so far up into a certain body opening. He’s trying to control her contact with her friends. This will only get worse as time goes on. Third story: Sarah is interfering with the relationship between the children and their mother. Marrying someone who has children from a previous marriage is hard. Acting like a jealous jerk makes it harder.
#1 don't take him back unless he agrees to counselling and a mental health assessment. Guy has issues and needs to get them treated, not to mention figure out what he wants.
#2 two causes for this. Ben either fancies Zee, or he's trying to isolate his fiancee from her friends. Neither is good!
a decade is crazy
0:05: OP's BF wanted to break it off with her and now has regrets? OP needs to tell him that he made his bed; he needs to lie on it. You never know what you have till it's gone.
2:59: Why is Benedict so focused on Zee? Is it because he wanted to get with her, only to be rejected by her? Did Zee screw over Benedict in some sort of way? OP needs to get to the bottom of this for the sake of their upcoming marriage; otherwise, this wedding could be doomed before it even gets started.
5:48: Sarah is jealous and insecure about OP's ex, which is necessary because of the kids involved. Is Sarah afraid OP getting back together with his ex? Sarah doesn't have the state of mind to be in a relationship, and OP should be glad she's breaking it off with him. OP deserves much better.
I don't really understand the 3rd story. If OP's kids live with him full time, what is he communicating with his ex about? I can't see a reason they'd need to communicate daily and certainly not to share personal details about his current partner and have them get along, because they wouldn't be seeing each other often enough for it to matter, I'm assuming
Story 1: I was kinda like this in previous relationships, avoidant/anxious attachment, now I try to communicate my feelings to my boyfriend, and it always works out in the end. But this guy, he waited until after the breakup to communicate his thoughts and feelings? Something feels off like he's been stepping out of the relationship.
Story 2: Benedict wants Zee, heck he's probably crushing on her, he thinks she's beautiful enough to "overshadow" his own fiancee! He wants to uninvite Zee to get rid of that thought, or like everyone is saying, he probably made a move on her, he got rejected and wants her out of the wedding.
Story 3: Sarah should not be dating men who have kids with someone else if she's going to act this immature, she went through his phone, found no evidence of lingering romantic feelings between op and his ex-wife, and still broke it off? What did she expect from a man who was communicating about his children? Honestly, op dodged a bullet here.
I've been in the same situation with my partner and his x...turned out.they were sleeping together still.
Just for old time sakes guys! Nothing to see here....like its Nothing.
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How are you doing sweetie? How are you feeling? I hope just great!! In the very first story, this is completely understandable because sometimes people just fall out of love with each other, but they still remain close with each other as friends. Y'all spent ten years together only for him to fall out of love with her, but now he wants her back because he realizes how hard the dating scene is. She shouldn't take him back at all because he completely disappointed and let her down for no reason at all. In the second story, please don't go through with this wedding because your fiance Benedict is a two-timer and he's just waiting for the perfect opportunity to sleep with your best friend Zee. All of his focus should be soley on you and you only because after all you ares the one who he's about to be married too. In the third story, this is something that his fiancee just has to get over quickly because he has kids with his ex wife so of course they are still going to be in communication about their children and only their children. There isn't anything explicit going on between them. I love you!! Have a great day!! Stay safe beautiful!!
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3rd story: Maybe Zee was the one that made a move
So many insecure partners
... or Zee made a move on the finance.
1st Story: OP was too calm. He thought she would cry, plead, interrogate him, and/or try to change his mind. Since she kept her composure, he's like, "Wait! She's ok? She can live without me!!!? Maybe I need to rethink this."
2nd Story: Benedict might love his fiance, but I think he secretly has the "feels" for Miss Zee. They need to have a talk and get some things straightened out.
Last Story: She seems sincere but very immature for 36 years old. She needs to date a young, childless man. 🤨
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all 3 of these stories just scream insecurities
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