Failed Attempts to Date Black Women in Brazil
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- Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
- The challenges and racial preferences in São Paulo's dating scene, and why Black women in Brazil aren't interested in dating me.
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I watch your videos every now and then bought a few of your products Auston. Your experience is your experience, but I think you come off feminine more than masculine in your approach I feel if you fix that you wouldn't have a issue at all because it will come off naturally without pursuing. Here in the states I don't approach or pursue just like I did in Brazil and got the same result. The laws are different but the algorithm in closing the deal is still the same. God bless you and peace on your journey Auston you have an amazing life ahead of you. I love when a brother is living a life with no regrets and you are most definitely living yours #respect
There’s no way I’m in the wrong when I introduce myself to a group of people in a new location and then get an unfavorable result. I then decide to share this experience online to provide awareness for newcomers to this area. It’s unappreciated I can see which is why all dating information will be behind a paywall from now on.
Won’t waste my time for anymore
@@AustonHolleman I don't agree that you're feminine at all, but are you saying that you're approach is perfect and that the hypothetical group of people that didn't look favorably upon that approach are all in the wrong about their own opinion about that approach? How can you be more correct than they are about their own opinion?
@@KerryBuchanan I said it was perfect?
Dude who the hell wants to deal with people where it’s wrong to introduce yourself to people? Why are yall trying to debate me over this shit are you serious?
@@AustonHolleman Perhaps it's not that you introduced yourself, but how.
@@KerryBuchanan unfucking believable. So I just had to do something wrong. Got it
If I want to experience racism, I’ll stay right here in the good ol USA. There’s no way in Hell that I’m gonna waste my money flying around the world just to experience more racism. The whole world is insane and no one wants to admit it
That's definitely the right mindset. Some men are so delusional in thinking that if they go to another country, it will be "better." When it comes to racism its like that everywhere you go in some way.
You ain't never been nowhere
Because of the racism in Brasil, a lot of black women looks at dating white = success. It's a common theme world wide
Which is what I was trying to tell the guest
He is playing dumb 😂
@@AustonHollemanBlack women in Brazil Will always be suspicious that Black men are poor (Even if You are american, because they think that blacks in América live in ghettos and stuff). Most of them would love to date a White guy, but White brazilans do not like them that much let alone date them or have a family with them, unless they are kind of lighter skin because they were already more mixed.
The guests possibly dont understand because he's considered White there in Brazil. So he doesn't experience any of it... 🤔
@@rickdavis2053exactly dude is playing dumb
I'm married to a black/brazilian. She came to Houston 5 years ago. When she first came to the U.S. she couldn't understand why I felt the way I did about race or people of no color. She understands now. Lol😮
Are you black white or what?
You introduced her to real racism. What she thought was racism in Brazil was not
I came to understand it after spending quite a few years since the pandemic started and ngl it made me ultra depressed because even being an mixed woman with more proeminent indigenous features i am born and raised in salvador and what i see the rest of the country talking is very depressing, like people just dont have the same sense of community or the same sense of seeing you as an equal, in that sense i like some aspects of being in a more homogenous city or having my identity focused in the people who grew up with the same values as me
@@msa565 Welcome to the United States!
@@krazyjnva2up2down55 Yes!😀
I’m a black guy and I went on a dating site in Brazil, and I only got play from non-black women.
All you wanted to do was trick. The black women there know that, and they aren't interested in you.
You can’t give them those mejor la raza babies with good hair thats why, those non bw dont have inferiority complexes about that.
@@Will-td3rdthe white ones get tricked by white men.Why you think white men always went there in larger numbers?
We've been taught to hate each other!
The Spanish and the Portuguese taught these pplnthe conceptnog "Improving the race" aka black erasure
I don't believe him just be honest you don't want a BLACK woman 💒
Men are in love
Woman are in business
And it needs to be the damn opposite. Women in love and men about their interest and business
FACTS!! Men are still out here looking for a relationship, while these women out here finessing brothers for the bag.
It’s taken centuries for men to figure that out
What's wrong with men looking for love when they are becoming or got they got they're shit together? what's wrong with looking for a help mate to proceed even more success together?
@@ezmarktc2696 - He will not find that in america.
Bro Austin doesn’t realize his color equals blk identity around the world. Some mixed dude or dude that doesn’t look universally blk not going to be treated like Austin. I hear him say he can see things. But people world wide don’t care about that like he does.
I never had any problems dating Black Women in Brazil at all! Never had problems dating Black Women in Colombia, never had problems dating black women in France, and never had problems dating Black women in the USA. I think it boils down to the individual and your personality, charisma, character, looks and charm. Some guys just dont have it and thats all too it. That is why the terms are coined by either He is HIM or He is NOT HIM.
I never had problems dating black women in Brazil either! Only São Paulo!
@@AustonHollemanall you have to do is stand on your money in SP. You will win
Good to know im.looking for a city @AustonHolleman
Just checked out your page homie. 🤔
This is a ridiculous statement of course there are small amount of guys that are not going to have problems but Black women as a whole are not conditioned to like the presence of black men in western culture and Auston is showing places where they are not hiding this fact.
Don’t interview this guy again on this topic. It seems like he was avoiding your questions or not being completely honest.
He always comes off soft & feminine. They don't want his type Lol
No woman want a criying baby man...
Literally. I think thts his problem exactly.
I was in Sao Paolo for two months and I agree with Austin’s assesment.
The lightskinned Brazilian don't want black guys?
You should have gotten a different guest. This guy cannot relate to the black experiance, he can be classified as a mestizo or mulatto in latin america. Which gives him different privileges. I notice he menouvers around every question you ask him. He is privileged and doesn't understand the black experiance.
Or maybe he's picking up that Auston is not all there. Auston is attractive but at times he appears simple-minded. He seems to make these moronic conclusions about simple encounters. Perhaps the reason he can't attract these women is simple; he doesn't project the necessary confidence!
😅STOP being VICTIM damn!
Now I can understand. Because of a woman's refusal, he now calls the whole of Brazil racist. looooooooll...
You do understand Brazil has been known to be racist for centuries right?
@@AustonHolleman .racist because a woman said no to you? .looollllll🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 the only way you Have sex is paying a wore. South American women ARE not só easy to take It.
Otherwise, latin American problems we solve it by ourselves. We dont need a fkin imperialist Yankee tell us what to do. If you ARE calling racist a whole nation, só we can call you American the thieve Empire. Go And call your government stop supporting palestinian genocide, stop stealing Syrian Oil, stop blocking CuBa And Venezuela. How can you ser, you got so many problems to deal with.
@@AustonHolleman And you know USA is the thiev Empire?
loool...the point is:
- you being American dont make woman fall in love to you.
- Latin girls are not só easy you thought.
If a woman say no to you, respect And Go away. Don't blame a whole people cause your frustrations.
By the way, our political And social problems ARE our problems. We don't need a imperial yankee say us what to do.
@@AustonHolleman at least we are not Oil thieve, like you americans.. loool
@@AustonHolleman you do understand USA has bêem known to be imperialist for centuries? At least we dont use o stolen Gás, And Oil from Syria. Bunch of Hip_crites
The anti-black and Latin community is very heavy and a lot of Latinas like mestiza and Afro Latinas dating white men is like dating up keeping it 💯 I prefer my black American women or other black women in the diaspora like Africa or other Caribbean countries like Jamaica,Barbados Haiti I rather get me a top notch black women
Anti black n latin community is heavy alot of latinas dating white men? What is comical is what about latin american men. Notice they dont date out. They prefer white men? U do realize most latinas are using them for their money
😂😂
Some countries in Africa has black women with that same mentality. They checking for the “white saviour”
A mestiza woman dating a white latino and a Afro Latina dating a white latino are two very different experiences. Unless the mestiza woman is 30 percent or more indigenous she just be seen more or less as a white counter part.
Idoits. Latino has absolutely nothing to do with race. Wtf is afro Latino? It's just Latino.. I never heard el chapo being called the mestizo Latino or Pablo Escobar the euro latino
IN LATIN COUNTRIES WOMEN ARE THOUGHT TO FIND WHITE OR LIGHT-SKINNED PARTNERS. I'M A MAN AND MY MOTHER USED TO PREACH THAT TO ME ALL THE TIME.
Yup
You dont know nothing about latin america. we are mostly mixed race. We are not birracial like USA Empire.
@@donramonn12Correction. They don't know anything about their own country because the United States is part of Latin America. Half of the country was Spanish/French terroritory and settlements. I descend from French and varios others. I'm heavily mixed and so is my family. Mulatto has been documented since the 1600s in current day US. They don't like to acknowledge us because they are full of hate and excuses. Most of the so called black leaders were all MULATTOS. Charles Drew, Maggie Walker, WEB Dubois, Booker T Washington, Thurgood Marshall etc OBAMA!!
LOL! Think about that.
@@donramonn12 The United States is in Latin America so is Canada. I'm French Creole don't confuse us with black american anglos. Also bi racial is just some made up nonsense. I prefer Mulatto
Dudes just crying now lol
Highkey!
🤣
He’s been crying from the start
Yep
facts the word is out women aren't as stupid as he thinks he's the type that will usually play himself
I guess everyone fails at their preference.
that was a profound statement...
It's probaby why that's their preference to begin with.
That guy needs to STOP BEATING AROUND THE BUSH. He knows AUSTIN is talking about the ONES MOST MEN go down BRAZIL LOOKING FOR and they are NOT WYTE.
1. Some ladies may recognize you
2. Maybe they don't feel your vibe?
3. Not Sabotaging or actually Preying on?
4. Many seek to Diversify to "Uplift the Race".
We don’t care about the why
why are you discussing this issue with this guy? he dont know about this issue...
Lol right he s pandering to a yt audience u know the blkans not as desirable
He knows , he is just playing dumb
@@rickdavis2053 I agree with you. They have a racial caste system in Brazil so he's being disingenuous
This dude is not even from Brazil, he is not qualified to speak for the country
He is qualified to speak from his experience though
@@nathancasey7712which he has none lol
@@nathancasey7712 everyone has different experiences, but you cant speak on a whole country like he did.
I think you Brazilians are butt hurt that he is telling his truth through his experience. This is nothing new about the black women of Latin America/Brazil.
@rafaelw8115 yep been there done that dudes just a international lame
I think maybe they don’t prefer African American men.. we can’t play the race card.. maybe the ethnicity card.. They probably prefer their own BRAZILIAN BLACK MEN.. or maybe they just don’t like you lol 🤷🏽♀️
Yea you clearly don’t understand history
@@AustonHolleman I definitely do. I understand hurt little boys too. I have a 2 year old son lol.. You don’t have to diminish others character everytime they reject you. Some people just simply don’t want to play with you, and that’s ok 🥹🤣 Sidenote: Would you consider all the black American women who aren’t interested in you as racist also?? Seek therapy bud
@@Jetlife904 I guess I’m racist too because I wouldn’t even want him as a friend lol.. a lot of these “passport boys” are running from something.. they’re looking for love from foreign women that they can’t get back home.. then go on RUclips and bash and insult the ones who don’t want them.. looks weird on their part
@@Queen.323 its really not that deep you clown, he has dating experience with women in many countries..
@@Queen.323 Finding a good American woman is like finding a diamond in a sewer.
I got nothing out of this. Learn Portuguese & then report on the experience.
Ignore who ignores you, and date who is interested in you. There is really no point of trying to please them. If you got money and you look fresh, and intelligent, take the yt women that come your way. Those black girls will be hating on you from afar and that's what I like.
Yup
Lol then if we do that in the midst of this gender cold war where most of us are unmarried & having children by a small sample size of men, then we’ll cease to exist. Our replacement rate is negative already, so if we ignore each other even more than it will be over. We will have to be find out why even ignoring each other in the first place….
If you’re having problems with black women you’re just not that dude Brodie … white women are easy work gullible asf….
@afro the unmitigated gal to call yourself Afro global and the nerve to think u are trolling BW by dating yt women. Bro you clearly have self hating issues and fetishizing yt women just to troll BW is screaming beta and loser male. Clearly BW dont like you and u have rejection issues with them so u blame BW instead of fixing ur own self hate and value. 🤡
@burgundyskinned we already know why we ignore each other, But black people to prideful and ignorant to try to uplift each other and come together. We have too many representation of black women on TV being hoeish, giving bad advice, always chasing a "bag" and our kids and young adults soaking it up.
Auston going to Brazil is like going back in time in Louisianna in the 19th , leave it alone ,
That's when Louisiana was great. The Anglos hadn't damaged the French and Spanish culture so much
Idk what it is with this guy but when he speaks I can't get a clear picture of what he saying. Is it me?
No it's not just u. Same here 😂😂. U talking about the Brazilian guys right? Lol
He was rejected by a brazilian girl, now he blames racism. loool.. wounded American pride
@@donramonn12😂exactly! Perpetual VICTIM…in the STATES and ABROAD😂
“They don’t love me” lol 😹
He has to be playing this role unpurpose. Dude is a good looking guy who’s in shape and has a good business . My man plenty of girls like you and if they don’t then your personality needs some work because you have the rest
Could also be that in some cases the “black” women are use to black foreigners coming to Brazil to chase the stereotypical light skin Brazilian woman and so their rejection of you is kind of a self defense mechanism
It's very simple: women reject men whom they don't find attractive enough. And by watching Auston interact with women in his youtube videos, it is clear to me he seriously lacks game which is why he only enjoys some short-lived success with women here and there by accident and in spite of himself. Also, he's always paying very close attention to people's skin color as if it were as important to people in general as it is to him. I would say Auston is an attractive man who lacks game. And having game is way more important than just being physically attractive because lacking game puts women off. Men who are good with women know that women are high level players of this game who often reject men even when they find these men attractive. Attracting seducing and retaining high quality women is an exact science. Thus there's an exact method to it. So, don't hate the player, learn to successfully play the game. Cheers!
@@evolvetv3594 Exactly
Having game to me means, being comfortable in yourself and being yourself unapologetically. That's what I learned and now I'm married to a beautiful woman who accepts me for everything.
If you don't accept you, no one else will.
You started off by saying women reject men who they don't find attractive. Then ended by saying women want men with game. Be hot or cold. Lol
@@xpmedia8660 And what exactly does "being yourself" mean, according to you?
@@ralphacero2785 being the truest version of yourself that you can be. Don't compromise your morals, principles or beliefs to please anyone.
Calling your viewers stupid now!
Im sorry the majority that disagree with me in the comments are
From my reading and looking at videos, in Latin America it is baked into the Black community that ladies should try to date light-skin guys to lighten up the race in order to be more accepted in their societies. I have also experienced it in Latin America, the ladies that are not Black are more okay in dating a Black guy than Black women.
When you talk to these milk bottle white Brazilian chick they mostly of the time want some more color in their DNA....
This makes sense, that’s why black females went out their way to date/marry light skin men and it still happens today in the black community
It is official when you guys say black, what you all really mean is light skin or biracial. I can’t speak for Brazil but I noticed that is a thing with Latin countries with a noticeable Afro-descent population. The white or pale women will be on you all day. They may even go as far to have romantic relationship and talk about marriage. I believe that stems from mejorar la raza. Mejorar la raza was not just men, but even women as well. Yes they would have a mix child, but the blanca mother would tell the child to marry someone of a lighter skin like hers.
Exactly
So as light skin dude like me would gett plenty of poon if I go down there lol 😂😂😂
I hate how he’s referring to blacks as “Ni&&a” black. A bit ignorant for the conversation.
Maybe Brazilian women don't want you to "fetishize" them bro?🤔
I would say nice try but this comment doesn’t even deserve that
His assumption is black women should be like women in America,trying to see women in other cultures just like America is totally simplistic.
I dont think he has assumptions(he has stated this many times). He travels he attempts to interact. That is what viewers want to hear about or understand how a black american would experience social situations. Are you a fan of his or trolling?
@@liveyalife08 I have been following since he was in America,I have seen him change over time but he has a long way to grow.
Just because someone eats fast food don’t make them an expert on food.
The first time ANY human being sees you their implicit bias will always kick in. Its natural and nothing we can do about that. This is why its best to spend time with people. Show them who you really are and I can assure you that overtime they will overcome all those biases and be more receptive towards you depending on the the type of person they are of course. All this will not work with hook up culture. Not enough time to even know people. But yes here again Auston is correct IMO. I've never been to Brazil or South America but if ever I plan to visit I would seriously control my expectations as a black man. I would expect to be treated very different compared to other races.
Why does he keep referring to blk people with the n word? Wth?!
We couldn’t come to an understanding on what a black person was so it seems everyone realizes who’s black and who’s not when it include that work
@AustonHolleman Aahhhh.... you could just use 'Black' ! You do know that the n-word is a derogatory play on the word negro (ie Spanish for Black). Is that too simple?
@@AustonHollemantrust me he would have understood you clearly if you didn’t use that word. Love yourself. When you do you’ll start to see a more positive light. Bless your heart.♥️
@@JadaBryant-c6w I love myself that’s why I go to the gym everyday lol. I don’t have to turn into Malcom X and use the word brother every 3-4 words to love myself
@@AustonHolleman loving your self is not just a physical thing, it’s also a mental thing as well. No one said you have to use the word “brother” to love yourself lol. It seems like you see certain people in a bad light which is totally fine. That’s just not how everyone is. Maybe you endured plenty bad people based on your past environments and bad experiences but it’s still good people. Just recommend meditation, yoga, and the Bible. It will help you a lot. I went through the whole identity thing too and I came a long way. It would help. I just hope you make these videos not for kids to watch because this stuff could seriously hurt someone, especially someone’s daughter. Wherever you go make sure you be safe and spread love ☮️
To be honest both of you could be right, some black women may chose not to date you because let’s be honest dark skin is not conventionally liked but at the same time Austin could have had so many bad experiences that when he sees a good black woman he already sends negative energy her way from what he has experienced in the past
Total bullshit
@@AustonHolleman I don’t mean it in a bad way, I’m actually on your side mate
@@reubenhugo6450 well I can tell you this I’m not one of those guys that had a bad experience with black women and so I generalize them all. Absolutely not
Bro São Paulo is like New York… you gotta have stuff going on. So many options in São Paulo!
“Race” is CULTURALLY DEFINED Not Aesthetically Demarcated !!!!!
Austin is trying to fit Brazil into American view of black people,most other black people don’t call themselves the N word.
They actually refer to blacks as negros and negras in Latin America
@@AustonHolleman it’s not the same as America
@@AustonHolleman Man, what? Do you think that's the same thing as N*ggas?? Come on, man, you are not that slow lol
I have no idea what the relevance of this is but it’s hilarious. The issue is Brazilians go for a more mixed looking culture. It’s engrained in them. They probably want a white Brazilian he’s not that.
@@AustonHollemanNegros or Negras have a different meaning than the N word used in the states.
Sao Paulo is a big city like NYC… where people are a bit colder and more preoccupied with money.
Rio is a beach city and Brazil’s top tourist destination. The vibe there is much more laid back and people are looking to have fun. Far more people there (even Brazilians) who are in “vacation mode” compared to SP.
That accounts for the differences in difficulty when it comes to dating. Good conversation though. I like this other guy and the fact that he wasn’t afraid to share a different perspective.
That’s an compelling take I wish you could have interviewed some of those women so we can get a clear understanding as to why they’re not interested…
Came across this interesting discussion. However, was appalled at the use of " n" word - totally unnecessary. Both gentlemen have valid points. It has to be understood that the colonizers have left their mark and inserted into the mentality of the colonized that to be better and or improve yourself you must gravitate and or transform yourself into one closer looking to them. It is this mindset that is so pervasive and disturbing that is not allowing people to unite with whom they want and have happy, genuine unbiased relationships. My advice- never select a mate based on race base on qualities.
I say the N word because that seems to be the only universal understanding of black. Outside of that people have a million excuses on what black is.
Your comment is useless by the way
@AustonHolleman ...You might wanna be clear and say you're talking about North America/ Texas/ DFW because anything outside of the above, you can't fully speak about (as an authority knowing what you're talking about) and to be honest, I'm very sure that people who live in the above places would also definitely disagree with you on your above statement (and produce the facts to back it up).
I was only trying to help. I hope you find success in finding a mate. My intention was not to offend. My apologies.
@@AustonHolleman As a black man in the diasopha, I expected better from you Austin, with your above comment. The "N word" is highly offensive and only normalised in American Black culture, you may have heard of a few people say it in Africa, but it's by no means the norm. Even in my last 3 trips to Brazil over the last two years, totalling 5 months, I only heard 1 Brazilian guy say that word, and it was to be offensive and stir negative sentiment. Hopefully with age and wisdow you will know better and do better, especially in public spaces, when you likely have a global audience.
@@Veronica-vl2ht You have nothing to apologise about. Whether he agrees with your comments or not shouldn't be the point (you have a right to express your opinion in a respectful way) ...He is just in his feelings because you didn't agree with his behaviour.
He has issues. The way he refers to the girls using the n-word is appalling. He is the problem. However, I agree that Brazil's ideas of race are different. South Africa can be argued the same too.
São Paulo really isn't the best place to find women. Sampa is f3minism central in Brazil.
Where would you say is the best ?
@@KingdomofKinship Belo Horizonte and the state it's in, Minas Gerais.
@@bhutchin1996Could you expand on why ? I assumed Rio would be the best because the girls are likely to be the most carefree. I’m visiting in February and was torn between Rio and Salvador. My friend works in São Paulo
@@bhutchin1996 I've heard Fortaleza. Why Minas Gerais ?
Fortaleza is popular with foreign men, especially Italians, but I don't know if they're going there to sow their wild oats or find wives. Years ago I talked to one woman from there, and she told me she loved me and the next thing you know, she asked me for money. Of course, the vast majority of Brazilian women are not like that, but the northeast is one of the poorer regions of Brazil, and in one documentary I watched, it seems like P4P is popular there.
You can find good women in Rio, but it's a popular destination for hooking up. If that's what you're looking for, then you'll have fun there. Check out the gyms as well as the beaches.
Salvador could be good, but there are a lot of green card chasers there, and just because most of the women are black doesn't mean they're going to be into black men. I'm white myself, and I've had this experience with at least 2 women from there. You could still try it. I know a black American expat who moved there and got married. Same for Rio, but he moved in with her in a favela and it's been years since I've heard anything from him...
One Brazilian dude from São Paulo told me that Minas Gerais has the best women. On a flight to Brazil the woman next to me was from Belo Horizonte; she was married to an American and lived in the States. When Roosh V's book "Bang Brazil" was still available, I got the Kindle version and he said that women there didn't want to get with him because most likely he wasn't going to stick around long enough to be worth getting into a relationship with. Minas Gerais is a racially mixed state, about equal numbers of white, black, and brown women, so unless you're into Asian women, you can find what you're looking for there, but it has to be boots on the ground, and Portuguese will help a lot.
I play soccer with lots of friends from Brazil, Colombia, Ecuador, DR and other LATAM countries, and they have told me how racist their countries can be. For spanish its "mejorar la raza" and this phrase has been used for centuries in these countries. The guy in your video is going to have a better experience because he has lighter skin. They will think he's mixed. Just like in America, lighter skin is favorable for non blacks. Unfortunately some Afro-Latinos think the same way. Everyone who is calling you feminine or saying "its your approach" cannot relate. Skin tone plays a role for sure and hearing that you had this problem in SP and not Rio makes sense. SP has the headquarters of corporate companies in the country so you'll find more middle and high class locals there that think like this. I've traveled to 17 countries so far and this seems to be a common theme around the world whether people like it or not. I feel that only countries with a majority black population don't have this issue, and if so its minor. Otherwise, keep up the good work brotha, I'm a fan of your videos.
Brazil is a mixed race country as that was the policy and America is a segregation country still to this day,the culture is different get used to it.
I ain’t getting used to shit
@@AustonHolleman well you won’t learn anything with that attitude,same mentality as your government to other countries in the world.
think you need councillor as most Americans do
@@AustonHolleman just like the Brazilians don’t have to get used to your Sh-t either
Yup they just promote mestizo culture lol
One thing, Skylar doesnt have these problems.
He folds them all 😂😂😂
Skylar is not in São Paulo
Skylar a lame too. Don't believe everything he says.
I just would like to see you focus on your positive interactions more. Success sells and spreads good vibes.
Hard concept for Men outside of the ‘Matrix’: leave the scarcity mindset back in the States!! In Brazil it’s called “não forçado”. Brasilieiras talk about the “vibe” they feel from a guy as foremost in their initial impression which is usually 90% of the battle. You left the Matrix but if the angst and tension of the Matrix has not left you Austin; women will perceive that.
I appreciate what the guest is saying about the black museum but you got to go there and see how depressing that is anybody talking about black empowerment after going to that black museum obviously hasn't taken it clear. Look at it. That was depressing.. You I left there feeling like what on Earth did I just walk through. That is white supremacy. It is very fine. It's make no mistake you go there. You walk through that place. I assure you you will leave feeling like you are on the losing team. If you are of the darker complexion that museum is nothing to cheer about
Why do you this way about the museum?! Can you elaborate more on this
@@Haitian_Vagabondthat was not a black empowerment museum. That was like those black slave movies where they show you taking a beating and always in a downtrodden State .. You being a Haitian you know how much beautiful history there is in terms of successes in terms of resistance and success stories. They don't need that. It was like pictures of bad wenches fight white man while the black man is out in the field working beating slaves downtrodding people just a very very sad place and I went out of my way to make sure I got there before my flight in the evening. I went out of my way to take a taxi there and I was very much disappointed with the whole experience. It was actually a sad afternoon and I'm not an emotional type, but you could not leave that feeling like it was a good experience. At best you might say that's terrible. Nothing positive about that.
I went through that myself; the chics were reading my serenity, my inner-peace and aplomb. Once I became insouciant, even-soul and truly indifferent as to outcome; surrendering grins led the way to everything else. It got to the point of not even trying.
I've been to Brazil several times. All shades of women I was able to socialize or date. I didn't spend enough time there in Bahai, where the skin is mostly darker. Now, the vibe was different there. So, I didn't get a chance to shoot my shot a lot because, as you mentioned, they were not on a lot of social media or apps.
Im referring to São Paulo in this video
Yes. I understand, but when you mention the African women there, they always migrate throughout Brazil. Maybe I’m wrong, but the vibe hits differently in each city there. You may be seeking them, but they aren't accustomed to that in Sao Pablo because most American men go to Rio, the more famous of the two. You can’t determine that until you have been there for an extended time.
Awesome! They can say anything under the sun. He just doesn't understand because he's also not black. I agree with you 100,000% on this. In many cases, I don't agree with you some other topics, but after being in Brazil for a substantial amount of time and traveling the whole country, not the whole country but from north to south along that East coast. I've got a very good idea of exactly what you're talking about here and the energy you picked up is 100% right. The black women there want a white man to level up in a very segregated society again. Most everybody has some black in their family, but they try their best to breed it out to be held in a higher esteem in society. That's just a fact we can make a whole bunch of content about this. We can split hairs above the details and have extra opinion, but no what you said is exactly true
A difficult conversation, but dialogue like this must me made to continue moving forward. This is why I gave this video a like.
Have you tried Madureira? Around Casa Black Rio It's VERY black... I wanted to try staying there for a while. Also had no luck in Rio with black girls (outside of pro's)...just white & mixed & indigenous..
I had good luck with black girls in Rio, I’ve been to madeireira too
Its because you don't give off "pookie energy". I prefer black women and a couple of black women i dated thought i preferred white women initially. I guess its the look.
Sometimes we mistake the pookie energy wrong. N... Just be having that "Him" attitude and the other black guys don't. It's equivalent to us wanting baddies but look over that innocent ugly chick that's wifey material
They can sense he’s soft
I really like Austons content especially his own POV to things but i more so really appreciate him dropping content like this with someone who doesn’t agree with him 💯
Brazilians are very proud people. Sometimes they can’t see the truth that’s right in front of their faces.
Y he asking the dude from the raid about black women 😂😂😂
I hear brazil.is more racist the further south you.go.. north is better
Facts. Lots of ex-Nazis fled to the South of Brazil.
@@worldtraveler3560 there's a whole German community down south. Im still waiting for a black vlogger to go deep south Brazil so-as to get a wider viewpoint of the country...
This makes more sense than the eucalyptus folks telling me to look at my inner self
@@AustonHolleman lol
Auston check out this book:
Elizabeth Hordge-Freeman
The Color of Love: Racial Features, Stigma, and Socialization in Black Brazilian Families
Confirms what you are talking about
Not a very good conversation. Maybe bringing in woman from those different cultures and putting those questions to them.
So what is the complain???
Who's this Mexican dude?
I DONT GET IT ,INTERNATIONAL ZOE IS MUCH OLDER BUT IS CRAWLING WITH BEAUTIFULL WOMEN IN BRASIL ,HE GOT NO PROBLEMS ???
I meet all kinds down there, afro black women love me its the light skin afro blacks like they clearly got an afro but so light she like drakes complexion they be putting their nose up but lets be for real american lightskins do that too
I think brazil has a caste system doesnt it? Dude you are talking to is being disingenuous, he knows
Antidotal examples are not something you can conclude on. Women pop the ballon for dumb reasons...
There’s truth to what Auston is saying but it’s still possible to bag the Afro Latinas fam. Just be intentional and only go for them, you’ll be alright.
Selfhate😂😂😅
Dont give up
Austin keep doing what you are doing, you are doing a great job...Keep it up, Brazil is colony of Europe. These actions taken by Europeans and African descent is not surprising, this is just how it is. There is no way around it.
Why is this one brother here if he is unsure of the issue
Lol, don't interview this guy again, he's obviously a slay queen and was just rambling around the bush.
Bro this is how it works in Dominican Republic and Brazil. Black males with white / light female. White male with dark women. Go for white women
Bro I see your eyes. This is affecting you. But bro the future is mix. Don't fight it.
Claro
Opposites have always attracted each other. But i believe the suspicion here in Sao Paulo is possible Mejor la raza based. Im curious if Auston is having this experience with very dark sisters there.
Here's a tip no eye contact then don't approach her
Guy in the leather jacket on the right has strong gaslighting energy
This was a great interview
Rio LOVES the color. I clean up there every year that I go. Who cares if the locals don't approve it. That's their problem, not mine. I'm going to stay blazing their hoz out
The negative stereo type but are you for real for one in other countries the women are more serious about the man also more family thinking now street girls are just what they are hey mister you got some time
Never had that problem , there colorism in South America .. I been in their households and hanging out with their family Dining out with their family in restaurants snd at their homes Sound like you trying to get atttention .to your youtube channel.Stop the madness and ignorances you putting out There colorism in the country.🙄🤔
I had a wonderful time in Brazil one the highlights of my career as a musician was touring in South America. Meet a fine chocolate girl there and beautiful copper tone honey and a fair skin babe. All of them were good vibes and fun loving.
Auston mano, you should come to bahia again, it's black love here
I have the opposite problem. The braquinhas don't like me but the pretas and morenas love the kid. A good problem to have I guess lol
Seu amigo descreveu tudo que acontece em São Paulo
haircut is dope...boffem
When I was in Brazil I did better with white woman than I did with black woman. Am a black man. Black woman wasn’t showing me any love.
Brazil has numerous color classifications, the country is a color stratified society on so many levels .
Yea! Idk why Latin people say they don’t identify by color. They DEFINITELY do
There's only 3 main classifications. Pardo, white, black. Quite simple. The pardos/mulatos, mestizos, and amerindians have to preserve their racial homogeneity in Latin America because they exist nowhere else on earth. Blacks have over 65 countries to themselves already, whites have a lot too.
@@ProudMulato yea I just don’t like it when they make it seem like they don’t see color. Blacks are usually janitors while whites are doctors. Make it make sense
@@AustonHollemanAt least Brazil has tuition free options for university education. I'm sure they offer more than just bachelor's degrees in Janitorial Science. 🤣
@@ProudMulato 😂
Peace
Rio
🏃♂️💨 Bust & move
Mulatas are prettier so......
Tow gorgeous man.pramila u.k
He has to be playing this role unpurpose. Dude is a good looking guy who’s in shape and has a good business . My man plenty of girls like you and if they don’t then your personality needs some work because you have the rest