Ten Years After Netflix's "Hot Girls Wanted" Rachel Bernard wants to talk about pornography

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  • Опубликовано: 14 ноя 2024

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  • @sgcarney
    @sgcarney  Месяц назад +7

    Get early access on substack. Sgcarney.substack.com

  • @nozwelo44
    @nozwelo44 11 дней назад +16

    This is a great interview. You asked thought provoking questions while being compassionate to the lady

  • @afterthestorm221
    @afterthestorm221 Месяц назад +23

    Most underrated RUclips channel I've come across in a long time.

  • @notiddymothbirlfriend
    @notiddymothbirlfriend 10 дней назад +6

    I love how you interview. You perfectly showed off exactly what she wanted to say with a bit of structure. ❤

    • @sgcarney
      @sgcarney  10 дней назад +2

      I’m getting better at live interviews.

  • @noidea91
    @noidea91 Месяц назад +20

    Thank you for what you do here. This is real journalism. I'm watching the documentary now

  • @SeaweedHero
    @SeaweedHero Месяц назад +39

    Hopefully, this introduces many new people to the great journalism of Scott Carney!

    • @sgcarney
      @sgcarney  Месяц назад +8

      That’s the hope!

  • @SnakeAndTurtleQigong
    @SnakeAndTurtleQigong Месяц назад +23

    Rachel, thank you so much for being willing to share your voice!

  • @therabbithat
    @therabbithat Месяц назад +25

    Looking forward to watching this!
    I felt the doc was very infantalising, anti-sex worker and anti-informed consent and not sex positive. But I'm very familiar with the arguments of porn stars and other sex workers and their ideas about reforming the porn industry so I really appreciated getting the other point of view, personally. I just didn't like that the doc didn't show alternative points of view.

    • @sgcarney
      @sgcarney  Месяц назад +18

      I had mixed feelings from it. And my mind changed again after talking to Rachel.

    • @kf1439
      @kf1439 25 дней назад +6

      They were basically kids though. I mean, I am not saying that the doc struck me as the whole truth on the matter, but what it depicts should not be anyone's reality.

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 18 дней назад +3

      Idk if absolute informed consent exists in sex work, tbh...highly nuanced

  • @bellydancefae
    @bellydancefae 4 дня назад +2

    The irony of a documentary, purportedly on the abuse and exploitation of young women, exploiting those same young women... 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @ReturnOfChef
    @ReturnOfChef Месяц назад +12

    bro i love your work but please dont use your music in the background when you speak. I could listen to you for hours, but not with that.

  • @CCP_yb
    @CCP_yb 21 день назад +5

    Wow… I actually remember watching that documentary waaaay way back when I still had Netflix-it was really illuminating seeing this interview, and perceiving the young ladies featured in that more completely beyond just what the documentarians showed us. It’s upsetting (though sadly unsurprising) how their stories and lives were exploited for a very particular purpose, but it was really interesting and encouraging to hear her tell her own story and add important nuance to the conversation. Things like adult content often only get really sensational representation (either great or horrible), and very rarely do we get an honest critique of the grey areas in-between the extremes. Thanks for sharing this great interview-love the work you do!

  • @yanik.ottenbreit
    @yanik.ottenbreit 12 дней назад +5

    Documentary was game changer when it was released and unfortunately brutality against women isn't gone. This is why Sex Ed is so important. Otherwise, people learn about sex through violent sex videos online. Ava is a queen 👸

  • @starlettetwinkles6933
    @starlettetwinkles6933 3 дня назад +1

    This was a great interview

  • @raulbeienheimer
    @raulbeienheimer Месяц назад +21

    I am sorry that she doesn't realize that sometimes (most) there is just no reason for something to happen and no connection with one's present. The acceptance that things don't happen for a reason is intriguing, but ultimately reality. We have the need to find a reason, and that is valid on itself.

    • @vidark.6301
      @vidark.6301 23 дня назад +1

      True we do have a need to find reason, and some times that can be good. Even it we know it's really a lie. Like religion can be highly beneficial for the believer, even through he/she is doubting it. The choice itself can have merit and help us in many ways. On the other hand, believing there is no reason or meaning for anything, and no meaning, can also go both ways.

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 18 дней назад +1

      Everything has a reason, not necessarily a purpose.

    • @BasedKungFu
      @BasedKungFu 5 дней назад +1

      ​@@Heyu7her3 not even.

  • @KonaLatner
    @KonaLatner 10 дней назад +1

    Wow, I am wondering if you told her of the video you did covering meditation & yoga 😊

  • @LuvableAF
    @LuvableAF 5 дней назад +1

    I saw that documentary when it was just released , it was eye opening.

  • @NofirstnameNolastname
    @NofirstnameNolastname Месяц назад +4

    I've been watching the original movie currently before I watch this video.
    I wanted to know who Rachel is/was back then first.

    • @NofirstnameNolastname
      @NofirstnameNolastname 27 дней назад +2

      In the end she mostly rambled and it wasn't very interesting I have to say.

  • @Boahemaa
    @Boahemaa 3 дня назад +2

    So many people watch porn. So few people care how its made🙁

    • @sa8die
      @sa8die День назад

      some watch and make,lol

  • @sa8die
    @sa8die День назад

    i cant believe this i totally rem this when i had NF,. so interesting,. THX

  • @lichtetred
    @lichtetred Месяц назад +7

    Tressa Silguero (Stella May in HGW) was interviewed about this same topic about a year ago.. might be interesting to hear as well.. ruclips.net/video/m_RCmtk9d74/видео.html

  • @ianlawton7421
    @ianlawton7421 28 дней назад +2

    Is there a word missing from the video title?

  • @silkroadgypsy3953
    @silkroadgypsy3953 3 дня назад +1

    She wanted to move up so she could be on the creative side and not have to take the abuse….there’s your answer

  • @VuNguyen-fv5jl
    @VuNguyen-fv5jl Месяц назад +7

    First 22 min in, and it’s wild how the documentary had puritan agenda and backing

    • @brianbelgard5988
      @brianbelgard5988 Месяц назад +5

      John Rohnson’s book had a really good quote from a producer “it’s a big industry, you can find stories to tell whatever narrative you bring into it”.

    • @VuNguyen-fv5jl
      @VuNguyen-fv5jl 28 дней назад +1

      @@brianbelgard5988makes sense because documentaries have to tell a narrative. Nothing like journalism

  • @eris7070
    @eris7070 4 часа назад

    wait... she found her way out of acting and moved on to directing and having choice and are now subjecting *other women* to the stuff she escaped, so that makes it all good? like because SHE got out of it, we have to forget about everyone else?

  • @Nclk619
    @Nclk619 16 дней назад +7

    "There is no one person that doesn't go thru something traumatic..."
    Yes, there are plenty people in life that just always had it easy. Of course some make a huge drama about a bad hair day, but the concept that everyone goes thru deep shit in their lives is total bs

    • @laundroismat
      @laundroismat 10 дней назад +4

      @@Nclk619 everyone on earth goes through the trauma of losing a loved one.

    • @sa8die
      @sa8die День назад

      @@laundroismat not true,. sociopath and psychopaths not sure u know

  • @exposingamerica7378
    @exposingamerica7378 27 дней назад +2

    U should watch Common Sense Skeptic expose on tates brothers

  • @skitza95
    @skitza95 26 дней назад +6

    can someone clarify her position about shadowy republican figures pulling the strings of the hot girls wanted documentary? she says Jones' husband manages a hedge fund but if you google it says he plays in a band. I don't really understand her theory, is there any basis to it? also as an aside what difference would it make if the husband works for a hedge fund?

    • @TimJohnson-x1o
      @TimJohnson-x1o 14 дней назад

      There is a HUGE push from the so called Christian Right to effective make all porn illegal in the US. So yes anti pornography "activism" or whatever you want to call it is very real and very well funded, and connected to the GOP and this so called documentary is right up that alley.

  • @kellistrong4244
    @kellistrong4244 Месяц назад +23

    I think that Ava sides with whoever she is speaking with. She is full of excuses and contradictions.

    • @CZTachyonsVN
      @CZTachyonsVN Месяц назад +7

      Can you give some examples please?

    • @VuNguyen-fv5jl
      @VuNguyen-fv5jl 28 дней назад +5

      It’s very human thing. We are always going be with contradicting beliefs, unless we have rigid philosophies

  • @VuNguyen-fv5jl
    @VuNguyen-fv5jl Месяц назад +4

    49:00 shows the lack of accountability by the producers and directors of the documentary

  • @stevsteve0694
    @stevsteve0694 Месяц назад +3

    Anyone interested in this topic should also read an article about the studio FA (i cant use the actual name) by Paul Mulholland.
    Be prepared to be depressed for the rest of the week after you read it though.

    • @therabbithat
      @therabbithat Месяц назад +3

      I recommend the Last Days of Summer podcast. Very empathetic and not exploitative. No preaching any viewpoint

  • @Bossplaier-px1ic
    @Bossplaier-px1ic Месяц назад +3

    He just said he wanted to do some porn research. He forgot to say for a friend 😂

  • @search620
    @search620 Месяц назад +1

    extuly I am surprise how much smart she is. I have watch her video's then and she's look then not so pleased and now she look like more happy and accepted her self. and her answer was pretty much intelligent. and in terms of the host you was shocked to hear some of her thoughts I know 😉. and to keep it short and simple I will say "Wild nature is part of us" we just hypocrites as a society about our real desire and stuff. which in the old greek time they just know what they are in a sense. So... we just need to grow again from open directions and do a lot of meditation because other wise we are all nuts :)

  • @noelofficiallyoffice8580
    @noelofficiallyoffice8580 28 дней назад +2

    Christianizing the US? Omg that sounds horrible 😂😂

  • @Nclk619
    @Nclk619 16 дней назад +3

    Did anyone count how many "like" and "you know" she says in this video? Because, you know... I like... lost count. 😂

    • @sgcarney
      @sgcarney  16 дней назад +3

      Use the transcript feature and report back.

  • @sidecardude
    @sidecardude Месяц назад +8

    Anybody quoting the Kinsey institute immediately gets me to turn off the video and block the channel, don't want to be associated with pedos.....

    • @hyperadapted
      @hyperadapted Месяц назад +2

      source?

    • @ekaterinastaneva9922
      @ekaterinastaneva9922 Месяц назад +5

      Are you ok?

    • @faze-ys6tn
      @faze-ys6tn 29 дней назад +1

      ​@@hyperadapted Research about him yourself. He was diabolical

    • @hyperadapted
      @hyperadapted 29 дней назад +2

      @@faze-ys6tn hitchen’s razor: What can be asserted without evidence can also be dismissed without evidence

    • @faze-ys6tn
      @faze-ys6tn 29 дней назад +1

      @@hyperadapted Nope, you have to read his stuff and experiments he did on infants

  • @whoisthispianist194
    @whoisthispianist194 22 дня назад +8

    The trick to porn is not doing it. Why was Rachel unable to figure that out at 18 years of age? Billions of other 18 year-olds found it easy to understand that getting paid to have sex in videos that will be uploaded to the internet is a shit idea, so they didn’t do it.

    • @loriEntropy
      @loriEntropy 3 дня назад +1

      ​@@whoisthispianist194 what does this comment do for you? Getting satisfaction from being judgemental and condescending is something most of us have learned how not to do, at whatever age

    • @whoisthispianist194
      @whoisthispianist194 3 дня назад

      @ firstly, do you honestly think you’re not a judgemental person? Are you telling me you never make judgements? I’m here to tell you that you actually judge people every day. You won’t fly on an airline that doesn’t have a good reputation. You will avoid trusting people if you know they cannot be trusted. You’re glad some people are in jail - you don’t want dangerous criminals steeling your stuff or harming you or your loved ones. Am I right?
      Secondly, the purpose of my comment is not to be condescending, it’s to be clear. There are many people who are trying to persuade others that doing porn is a good idea - I’m not one of them. There are very few people who have done it that don’t sincerely regret it later, particularly when they become parents or want to get a job outside the adult industry.

    • @starlettetwinkles6933
      @starlettetwinkles6933 3 дня назад

      Lack empathy skills much? Clearly you didn’t listen to the interview or pay attention or else you would have heard what she had to say about it and could understand her frame of mind better

    • @whoisthispianist194
      @whoisthispianist194 3 дня назад

      @ you realise you’re telling me off for being judgemental, and in so doing you are being judgemental? The hypocrisy.

    • @whoisthispianist194
      @whoisthispianist194 3 дня назад

      @ as if there has ever been a good reason to do porn! She could have done just about any other job, now that she has done porn almost every employer will fire her on the spot the moment they find out, her parents will be devastated, and her children might accidentally watch her doing explicit acts with strangers. Great life choice!

  • @MrsLovelyPendragon
    @MrsLovelyPendragon 10 дней назад +1

    She is very well spoken but also very incorrect and I think that comes from her immaturity and her inability to take accountability for *her* decisions. Right wing republicans didn’t make her do porn, Catholics do not want eye candy, the patriarchy isn’t out to get her. She’s running from herself because she cannot accept who she is and what she did and be ok with it. I do commend her for talking about it but it’s neither the truth nor an enriching conversation when _everyone else_ is to blame. I know plenty of people who grew up poor and in bad situations who *_never even considered porn_* which is a vast majority of the planet. My question is _why is she uncomfortable with the fact that she sold her body for money and why did she see it as a viable way to get money when there were other options_ I am sure once she answers that *truthfully* to herself she’ll begin to heal. I honestly wish her the best.

    • @BasedKungFu
      @BasedKungFu 5 дней назад +1

      Shes not uncomfortable with that fact.

  • @shivapazoki1881
    @shivapazoki1881 28 дней назад +2

    ah god! this woman is full of contradictions! imagine if journalists had to keep up with ALL their subjects!!! they had a job to produce a docu about your job! would it be rational for them to expect you or your agent to go and comfort them for expriencing /witnessing so much violence?! or pay for the therapy they had to take after the work was over? and also, why do you talk about doing an honest real job as such an inconvenience? most of the adult population on the planet is doing it and we are not complaining. or dont go take our cloths off for the world. and also, be sure the bf who is so "understanding" and "supportive" about your only f** thing, is only ok with it because you most def. pick up the bills. or at least do not expect him to pay your epxpences. try quitting and you will see that he makes an excuse to get out of the relationship. don,t be fooled by yet another man.... And also you keep going on about how catholicism thought you to look for validation from men, but then you spent a good 5-10 minutes of a 70 minute interview explaining how his validation and acceptance of your past helped you overcome it. and also yes, anyone who gets a scholarship/grant for a course at a college or university MUST meet the social/ moral/ political requirements of the sponsor. Imagine if all the ppl who receive sports scholarships would be shocked if their school asked them to maintain a good diet, lifestyle and training to stay fit for the duration of their studies at the college. yes, an athlete would be dropped by the organisation that has provided the funds if they tweet things that are not compatible with their social guidelines. and also imagine again if all the ppl who received scholarships/sponsorship expected the financial providers to keep in touch with them... grow up

    • @angelamaryquitecontrary4609
      @angelamaryquitecontrary4609 12 дней назад +4

      Aha! The old 'Bitches be Crazy!' argument. Well, you haven't immediately grabbed my vote. Also, the word 'clothes' is spelled 'clothes'.

    • @bellydancefae
      @bellydancefae 4 дня назад

      That's a whole lot of words for "I don't view women as fully realized, complex people and so I don't actively listen to what they say."

    • @shivapazoki1881
      @shivapazoki1881 4 дня назад

      @@angelamaryquitecontrary4609 congratulations for being able to spell clothes. You should be proud of yourself

    • @shivapazoki1881
      @shivapazoki1881 4 дня назад

      @@bellydancefae or may be it is you that views women as lesser beings who are incapable of managing their own emotions, judge the choices they have made throughout their lives and learn from their own past?

    • @angelamaryquitecontrary4609
      @angelamaryquitecontrary4609 4 дня назад

      @@shivapazoki1881 Well you can't, so you have nothing to be proud of. Also, phrases and sentences end with a full stop. Like this.

  • @mrslave41
    @mrslave41 Месяц назад +3

    i would love to debate you on this topic. you are wrong about everything.

    • @sgcarney
      @sgcarney  Месяц назад +12

      Which topic? Also please correctly state my position.

    • @mrslave41
      @mrslave41 Месяц назад +2

      @@sgcarney your position is: "ban porn / porn is bad / people are dumb / i am smart / i need to run the world / i'm a philosopher king / the masses are too dumb to allow them freedom / freedom is bad / i hate america / i'm voting for kamala". lol. let's debate already.

    • @sgcarney
      @sgcarney  Месяц назад +46

      That’s a terrible summary of my position. I won’t debate straw man arguments. Not worth my time.

    • @jnnx
      @jnnx Месяц назад +1

      It seems like you might have a giant conflict of interest. . .

    • @SnakeAndTurtleQigong
      @SnakeAndTurtleQigong Месяц назад +8

      @@sgcarney 🤣 I am so sorry that you have to deal with this kind of stuff.