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True love and respect for your neighbor is loving him enough to be honest with them regardless of how harsh the truth is
@@RonDoncombe - it's just a pity that blk men can't accept this.
Facts. Holding your own ppl accountable is not hate!
And holding other people accountable isn’t hate either so long as you practice what you preach.
It’s real Love!
Yup. No one is holding anyone back they are hoding them accountable. Expecting better of someone is not hateful, it is loving.
It's called tough love.
Anyone name 1 country with worse women than the American black women??? 🤔
It’s weird how black women are completely exempt from criticism in the media narrative.
The media narrative, workplace, the church community, school board, and any place where black women overtake the majority of attendance. The odds are in their favor and can be exempt from accountability whether they are right or wrong.
Black women get criticized all the time. Dumb comment
No they're not
@Jay-jb2vr Yes they are, and it's people like you helping to stop it.
They aren’t.
Also, you can criticize people without generalizing an entire group. But that’s just me 🤷🏽♀️
Some people are beyond hope which is why I keep my distance...BM here.
I’m white but I feel you, brother. I keep my distance from people. Society is toxic af.
Wrong video 💯
You had BETTER bro
Fine is fine but often you can just find less of a headache elsewhere.
Yup.
So true. As well as keeping your hair in your head too. That stress will endure you for a long time with sadness and no relief.
Loser logic
Yup. Unfortunately, there are members of our community, who believe that any criticism, no matter how constructive, is hatred towards them. But it is also a way to get the person delivering this harsh message to shut up and be silent about their poor behavior so that they can continue to do the things that draw the criticism without reproach.
Couldn’t have said it any better ❤
The liars are usually the ones trying to silence other people.
I love how they wanna talk about “womanhood” yet they can’t even define what a woman is, nor correctly identify if someone is actually a woman or not.
Yes its beacous they have been indoctrinated and brainwashed into THAT way of thinking....
You're telling the truth, and you are not alone!!! We need to help the community.
Indifference is actually the opposite of hate.
i really like that handle
So true bro, resonating with it allows the offence to it.
The claim of hating BW or women in general has always been an argument women have tried to use to undermine men when the truth is being told, even when it is in a genuine and constructive way to try and improve women. I used to watch a lot of Tommy Sotomayor videos and he got the same treatment even though he was trying to help the black community by trying to change toxic and ridiculous behavior in BW.
As a black woman never been so happy as when I stopped playing into the racist BS. Hope these ladies find their way. It’s hard to be angry and upset all the time
Congrats to you! Most black folks would feel the same way if they dropped identity politics.
@@user-rw2em7kv7n best to leave the democratic party, I'm black but democrats always looking to blame, and hate accountability.... no morals, boys in girls locker rooms and bathroom, trans reading to elementary schools I can't do it no more,,,,and most democrats have no clue the democrats were the confederate south fighting to keep slavery intact and formed the kkk from the democratic party...
This is just a simple yet powerful effective explanation. 💯💯💯👏🏾👏🏾
Really good analogy. Very true also.
I had to leave my last gf because of the things you’re talking about. Because I was a “white cis male”, everything I said was taken as an attack of some kind, despite the fact that all I did was look out for her best interests and tried to lead her down the best path. It’s funny how I was considered “wrong” despite helping her complete college by constantly driving her to school and all that entails.
She became a stripper against my wishes (because she couldn’t hack having a regular job with a set schedule), yet somehow she thought she could say I was “insecure” for not being okay with it and that I had “trust issues” (which I most definitely did, and for good reason). I spent 7 years with this woman and her insane manipulative behavior before I finally called it quits before I made the mistake of moving with her (and her mother) to Vegas.
Yohhhhh 😳
Ooh goddamn. I’m glad to hear that you did not move to Vegas with her and her mom. The high price of rent, housing, the alluring scenery of Las Vegas, and the temptations to gamble all of your money away is a life not worth living. But it’s good to know you finally got that stressful weight off of your shoulders from being in a seven year toxic and manipulative relationship from her. Never let anyone like that get you down in that state of being within your future.
@ I appreciate the response and reinforcement. There were MANY other things, both major and minor, that played a role in my decision but ultimately I believe I made the right choice. It’s just a bummer to go from thinking “I met the perfect woman” to finding out most of that was probably manipulative at worst or just a byproduct of her infatuation with me initially at best. It felt real for the most part, and overall seemed good like 90% of the time, but that other 10% had a bigger impact especially when I started to really question everything and saw all the cracks in the foundation of what I thought was a great relationship….
Damn. Good on you for being able to walk away. Many wouldn’t
This is so fake
❎ Manipulating is influencing someone for YOUR benefit WITHOUT their consent.
✅ Educating is influencing someone for THEIR benefit WITH their consent.
🙏 Thank you for educating me.
Education is imparting knowledge.
Manipulation is invoking behaviors.
Education is not guaranteed to influence any one form of thought.
I'ma be honest the black woman I been with have been loud and headstrong. Compared to the few other races I've dated. And it is not even close
How old are you?
@@djlivvy46 I wish to learn about how this is relevant. Would you please enlighten me?
@@djlivvy46why? You trying to date him? That’s creepy
That’s a well known fact
@@djlivvy46 calm down drake
First black women I went on a date with used me for free dinner lol shame on me I guess
That’s typical of them. 🤣 no other woman gonna waste not even her own time using somebody on a date just to eat.
Unfortunately that is a risk with dating women of any race these days. Just hold yourself in high esteem and remember that you have a say in who is with you just like women always claim to say about themselves.
@@richardbossman9875that’s true tho. Gotta let ‘em know what you’re looking for upfront instead of playing the go along get along game.
First one i dated said why do you talk like that, basically saying i talk white and dress white bruh, my parents are african but idk maybe it's certain one
Yup. Dating is 1,000% trash now. I am OK dying single at this point.
Love your honest reporting 🙏
As many folks have said these they are offended by everything but ashamed of nothing. So someone advocating for rationality and accountability is going to look like an attack to them.
That said I hate hypocrisy. Furthermore, I hate when people will advocate for something totally unfair and hypocritical yet want to gaslight you into going along with it.
Its not what you're called, its what you answer to.
Very articulately pointed. Thank you. Charity cares for others above self. Once indifference comes, it's not simply because someone never cared. Sometimes, someone has had enough of individual persons or concepts, after having cared for so long.
why do these people dont understand that critique is more often then not a tool to help someone.
Because it isn't. A critique first as foremost is the expression of an opinion. Most people who critique are doing just that without any extra intent on helping.
A critique also isn't helping if it doesn't offer solutions. I mean if you're going to give an opinion seriously nay as well offer a solution otherwise whats the point of sharing your opinion.
Most people who critique black women don't give them honest solutions. Or give them shitty ones and are mad when they don't work.
🗣🔊
@n1rvana_
"Most people who critique black women don't give them honest solutions"
The solution is self-evident.
Be better.
@@MikeJones-m6r
That's like if a woman told you "go get rich". It's possible but never that simple.
You see that would make sense if it was that simple. You know people who grow up in dysfunction don't simply get better. They don't simply get better just by trying to do the right thing either they can but FEW do.
They have to make plans and find and flow the right type of info. Often check in with medical professionals or do extensive soul searching if they can't identify the root of why they commit to particular toxic behavior.
Right people don't just get better than need plans for that.
Meaning that if you can't bare minimally offer POTENTIAL advice your criticism isn't constructive or helpful.
In fact criticisms definitionally include thought out analysis to the point of being a theory of sorts. So if you're talking about black women and your "critique" of them couldn't be called something of a mini-analysis or theory it isn't even a critique.
The track is 🔥
I am an African American woman who grew up in a 2 parent household, and my parents were married for 42 years until my father passed away. I grew up in a predominantly black neighborhood and went to a not so good high-school. I will say that as I've become older and have educated myself on various topics, I look at things differently. Sometimes so differently that I defend my fellow African American people. I despise ignorant people of any race. I tend not to date African American men because the disrespect is off the charts. Nedless to say, I'm looked at as a threat because I have a decent career and no baby daddy's trailing behind me. It's crazy how your own people will look down on you for wanting to live a peaceful ✌️ prosperous life. I've even had to cut off family members. Be blessed 🙌 😇
Are you single ❤no disrespect
@thmoney25 Exactly. They have a tendency to be very disrespectful no matter their education or upbringing. They see you as a stereotype off top and aggressively demand you prove them wrong versus being kind and getting to know you as a person. Then they will say we are lying and assume ugly things about us with no proof. That is bigotry and hatred.
U have any half siblings?
The moment you hold a black women accountable they will call you Anti Black Woman
That's why the word "anti-black" was invented lol.
When you say the truth, you got trouble
Should have taught that when we were kids
There are different types of women in every race. All are not the same. It's unfortunate that the less than cream of the crop is the loudest, most ignorant, and the most seen. Acceptance, Accountability and Honesty is key. Keep being the voice of reason, but please be sure to address the differences within.
Thank you! Some of these comments are hateful. Just pure animosity. I’m not offended by what he’s saying but to kind of use black women and ratchet as mutually exclusive terms just because of a group within us that choose to engage in degeneracy is unfortunate for the bw who become grouped into this idea that we’re all like this because a consensus being made where men have a bad experience with a bw and hold that same mental bias for every other one they meet.
@505humbug Absolutely, and it doesn't help that movies, rap and hip hop promotes this image as well. You are correct, we are not mutually exclusive, there are differences.
Tbh, black ppl REALLY need 2 stop vids like this complaining about their race. No other race does that. It's such a weird phenomenon.
Truth sounds like hate to those who hate the truth
You hate black women because you won't let them crashout and do whatever 😆
Accountability Again is a word a lotta people run from...BW definitely
The truth doesn't care who tells it, and it'll piss you off before it sets you 🆓
What is there to love about them ? Only hate remains and after it boils over, only cold apathy and indifference exists in that spot.
I’m sorry you feel that way. You can’t find something to love in an entire race of women? Have you met every black woman or are you generalizing based off of a biased experience? just like not all black men are thugs, not all black women are ghetto/shady/angry women or whatever negative thing it is yall specially have against us
@@505humbug Becouse dip shiet, they are worthless and not worthy of anything but scorn, why are people not allowed to loathe them when thats what they worked for all this time ? You want black men to just take all this disgusting shit and not react as is natural and just...gfy.
People trying to tell ANYONE how they should talk is so tiresome. 😆
If women dont like women, and they know them the most intimate, that should tell you something.
Accountability is a real concept.
Very insightful video
I just found this channel and when I say I’m obsessed…I mean it. I’m even randomly singing your outro throughout the day 😂🏆 Keep it up!!
Those words are said to emotionally manipulate you. This is not exclusively black women behaviour. It's also happens in a toxic religious groups and some communities. Like 'You hate our religion.' No, we just hate your reckless behaviour.
Bro you wasting your time, any correction or accountability towards BW is called hate in their eyes, no is allowed to do that not even BW, That’s how bad it is now, there at the bottom of the dating market for a reason and it’s not because their unattractive. But don’t Stop because it’s just a shaming tactic to get you to shut up about BW… Don’t!! Keep your foot on their necks until they change as a whole.
Dude. BW were literally the least desired when black families were mostly married and the men lead.
BW even when they were feminine have always been the least desired. There has been a systemic destruction of the black family since the 1960s.
There's even a few in these comments going off like usual lol.
BM are supposed to be the leaders of "the community (TM)" so I think the focus on changing as a whole needs to be on them. Men need to keep each other accountable
@@BienAimee868how exactly are you going lead people(women ) who don’t know how to follow and refuse to learn, let me answer that rhetorical question, you can’t! Did you ever think it’s not the leaders but it’s the people who refuse to follow? No other race of men have the problems we do and by design of course.. we just want our women to see that, work with us not against us, is that too much too ask🤷🏾♂️
"Being a California native I have a disdain for the likes of Gavin Newsom"
SAME
Same. I’m ok with most ppl but Newsom and Fauci… There’s a special place in hell for those two.
As a fellow Californian, SAME! I can’t stand Newscum! 😂
Google
California AB 1955 🤮
Do you know all black women on this earth, even us outside the USA?
Well, they hate themselves and want to be like someone else but themselves!! SMH
They've been indoctrinated and brainwashed....
self hate is prevalent in many races of women (and men too) which is why women of all races, not just bw, alter their looks with cosmetics or surgery to “be like someone else”
My friend married Nigerian as soon as she got visa she left him for a gangster
No one is above criticism.
Preach!!!
Man you killed it. As a white guy who finds black women to be amongst the prettiest women on earth, I really struggle with all you have said. They are largely undatable because of their emotional trauma.
Mr. Aquarius, never engage in argument with a fool.
Hi, I wanted to share some feedback with you. I’m a Black woman who has been in an interracial marriage with my husband (who’s white) for 16 years. I’m 40 years old, and I’ve really appreciated your topics and perspectives, which is why I started listening to you in the first place. I thought, finally, someone who thinks like me!
That said, I’ve noticed something in your tone and demeanor that, at times, comes across as biased against Black women. It’s not hateful, but I can see what some people have been mentioning about it. A lot of the comments you like seem to be from guys complaining about Black women, and that has started to shift how I feel about the channel.
I still like the idea of holding people accountable-trust me, I’ve faced criticism from people, including Black women, because of my interracial marriage. But lately, it’s starting to feel more like the vibe of certain individuals who made a career out of putting down Black women.
You’ve got great content and potential, but I think you might lose part of your audience if this continues, especially women like me who resonated with your earlier topics. I know you probably don’t mean it this way, but your tone can come across as dismissive at times, and that might alienate people. I’d just love to see more balance in how you approach topics and highlight different perspectives. Hope you understand where I’m coming from
One more thing I wanted to add: Every woman in my family is highly educated, married, and successful. We were fortunate to grow up in stable, well-off households, and now, my family-including myself-is financially stable. We all own our homes, and our households earn six figures.
I think it’s important to recognize that not every Black woman comes from the same background. It feels like, sometimes, your commentary overlooks the diversity of experiences within our community. There are so many nuanced stories and perspectives among Black women, and it would be great to see that reflected in your content. Just something to think about as you continue to grow your platform, unfortunately this is the last video of yours I’m watching , I wish you the best in the future
This thencomment is gracious , well written and spot on!
Like you , I am a Black woman (first generation American) and I noticed this different tone when it comes to Black women. There is no question that there are Black women who engage in the toxic cultural behaviors he has highlighted in many videos . However statistically, you will find more Black women who are not the stereotype. This issue of how so many Black men (with status or platforms ) are so comfortable putting down Black women is especially troubling . I used to be a flaming liberal and am now politically independent and socially conservative due to growing in my Christian faith. It’s been really sad to see this trend exists amongst so many Black men of all political spectrums.
You don’t see folks like Michael Knowles , Ben Shapiro etc spending such large amounts of time talking this way about the women who look like their mothers. Or “liking “ comments that basically talk about the terrible white/jewish /(fill in the blank) women they dated . To be clear : this is NOT about criticism in general. No one is above criticism. This is about the tone , the energy the things “co-signed” especially by folks who claim to be open minded and objective.
Another thing : The notion of not being able to find a decent , feminine , classy Black woman is more stereotype than facts. I say this as someone who went to professional school/ attend church with Black women from America , Africa, the Islands. Some are stay at home moms , married professionals , single etc.
The women who are blatantly toxic come from environments with toxic men too. For some reason - this isn’t discussed as much either . At least , it seems the men are criticized in a more objective tone. Also- I don’t see tons of Black women flooding the comments talking about those deadbeat Black men they dated/ married (nor do I see the channel “liking” those comments )
I even noticed that when the education of Black women was brought up in one video - it was to dismiss it saying “having an education does not mean you are competent “. Something about the tone and angle seemed a bit hostile/dismissive IMO. Especially when you consider that African- American men underperform academically, when compared to African-American women or to their male counterparts from other racial groups.
This is a widespread and long standing problem. It’s sad bc as a Black man who will attract so many folks who are conservative or independent and who are not Black- they will pick up this same narrative and may not have actual interactions with normal Black women .
I agree with you. I noticed that the black female conservative channels speak more highly of black men than the other way around. The tone is definitely different. Brandon Tatum is the same way, even his supporters noticed that. I'm all about holding people accountable but I definitely see where you are coming from.
@@lindab3340 I completely agree with everything you said 💯. Just as you mentioned, the channel has unfortunately turned into one that targets Black women, and I was so disappointed to see that shift. When he said, ‘If this message isn’t about you, why are you offended?’ it completely missed the point. The issue is that we’re all tired of hearing the same old negative narratives. The channel used to focus on meaningful topics, but now it feels like it’s heading in the same direction as so many others. I also noticed he liked comments where men were being negative toward Black women-just go look, it’s clear where he stands. Because of that, I decided to unfollow and won’t be watching his content anymore. I was genuinely happy for the channel when it addressed important topics, but since it’s taken this new direction, it’s just not for me anymore. If this is the direction he wants to go, that’s his choice, but I’m choosing to move on
@@xAgirlfriendthe channel is definitely going into another direction now , how disappointing
I was told I hate black women cus I didn't like Cynthia Ervio's version of Defying Gravity 🤣🤣🤣
i find bw to be the most caring most compassionate loving heartfelt sweet kind and considerate people on earth the only problem is that i cant find one
We exist my friend ✨🫶🏽
Great message. My wife is black and we have 2 mixed daughter's..
Hold someone accountable is one thing. Everything is always one-sided when it comes to women. There’s bad on both sides, black males and black women. Tech be very tactful when it comes to your own people that’s not what I see half the time.
Hatred for actions and behaviors is fine. Hatred for words and thoughts is fine.
But it's another step entirely to hate a person.
The honorable Tommy Sotomayor would be proud of this video
Sorry to hear about your addiction.. You have come a long ways since then though
"You HATE Black Women!"
As a man, I do. I didn't used to hate them back then, but I do now.
Well this sucks. Didn't want to but I guess I should hate you back.
@n1rvana_ You already do, the envy drives you towards hate. Probably happened in your childhood.
I’m sorry you’ve been wronged in some way that it’s turned your attitude sour towards all of them.
I only hate how black women DISRESPECT black
MEN…
Yeah i heard that so many times
Yes. Yes I do. Why? Because they act like this. Stop acting like this.
🙏🏻 same snake different color
Much respect brother
12:37 like the people who go out and buys a tickets to a comedy show then bitches at the jokes. Its why did you go then 😅
8:02
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I stopped dating black women back in 2018 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I got my passport renewed already ✈
You didn't even try Africa?
Yeah. That's why ppl call yall haters.
You have a bad experience with mostly american women and the moment you get the chance instead of checking out different diasporas you leave the race altogether. 😅 They were never really your preference and you never really liked them then.
@n1rvana_ I have a question. What are some places in Africa where they have good black women???? 🤔
@@SuperheroJuniorTANZANIA AND UGANDA 🇺🇬 FACTS
NO GENDER AGENDA
@n1rvana_ You're a BW aren't you? Lol, even through a screen it stinks of envy and hate.
@@n1rvana_then they find out foreign women just want their money
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6:45 A what ? New word .
Pooh Shiesty: He’s a Rapper from Memphis who’s serving time for being well, Shiesty
Ignore most women brother. These mind games they play to deflect are old and played out.
I once asked a black woman to marry me. She said no, and we broke up. All I wanted was to provide a home and car and have a family . Guess she didn't like a white husband. 25 years later she has 6 kids w 5 guys, renting a apt with no man. She had different goals.
Hate no. Disappointed yes
Different day, same old shaming tactics. 😒
Old and tired, to be honest.
Truth tends to be repetitive.
To me it’s just creating a negative biased generalization on all BW. If even he’s only speaking about a certain group, all the other bw who aren’t this way still get lumped into the hate as you can see in the comment section. I don’t see much of a productive dialogue being had other than “they all suck”
If Beyonce is black, I am an Irish Chinese Pygmy
Beyonce is black though
@rybackfrankie8679 Used to be until she became white
@rybackfrankie8679 She used to be, not anymore
@@SuperBoomshack LOL what did changed ? She's still black.
@@SuperBoomshack Lol why ? What did changed ?
If you snub your toe or hit your elbow, very often it feels like those areas then draw injury over and over again. Black women get it in the music, we see attack almost every second on tv, home, professionally; its not a figment of imagination. That would be so unnecessary.
As far as the music and most other forms of entertainment black women are buying, watching and listening to it. Black women also diss black women. I am a black woman and for most part I avoid the people as a whole but, especially my so called sisters.
Imagine thinking the most protected class in US history was ever "under attack" lol
I feel a lot of hate in these comments so I don’t really wanna say much, but I understand what you mean.
Look at my identity not my behavior.
I hate the Denver Broncos and Kansas City Chiefs.
Me too with a passion. GO RAIDERS
I am a great grandma ( probably your oldest viewer) who resonates with your content very much. I love you, I love your ideologies, and your channel. You are a thinker and I simply love seeing that in young people. My observation has been that there may not be quite enough balance when speaking of the black woman. What you say is true of some but not all. However your tone comes off as absolute. As you probably know, the number of “quality” black women would exceed the ones you are speaking of. They are looking for “quality” men, which according to them, are difficult to find. There are good and not so good out there in every race and culture. Many black women today are marrying men of other ethnicities just as men do. This is more common than most people realize. I would only suggest more balance when speaking on this issue. Love you and keep up the great work❤
Bro, when are you gonna leave the kitchen!? 👨🍳 sheesh !
Aquarius, the is not topic related but can you make a ideo about the Lord Jamar embarrassing himself against an educator.
8:41 thats just disrespectful and rude. somtimes its not even resignation.
As a white man if you want a good wife from experiences if you want a good woman meet beside right beside you in a relationship with start looking for a woman in Africa they have traditional values and they know how to cook
I don’t think that is completely accurate. There are plenty of women in Africa who use men too, they have one for taking them out on dates, one for paying their bills, one they use for this or that…etc..
Is it even normal to "hate" people you dont know? Lol. They are so childiish.
I love your channel we agree on most things but maybe work on not repeating yourself so much. You explained your righteous indignation like 3 times and scenarios about the being lied to and teaching lies that didnt relate much to the original topic anymore, then ended it on once again repeating yourself, which happens when you upload so often. Gotra fill the video with dialogue, but maybe work on that just a bit. Its just me perhaps, so ignore me if you like but its getting more apparent. You mention the 3 out of 5 friends like eeevery video. I hope you understand where im coming from
Saw a video of a dog barking and growling at a TIGER! As you can imagine it didn't end well for the dog. The point? Pick your battles wisely. Don't be the dog!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Do we hate the women, or the sad, sorry way many of them act?
It's too much effort and summoning of negative energy to hate people. I definitely despise the certain behaviors and actions that many of them have, but it's the BEHAVIOR, not the PERSON.
It is not the color of your skin it is your character that sucks😮
Yep, that’s the one!
Bro can you please have Tommy Sotomayor on your show?
Your not !!! Don’t worry about,it’s just facts they can’t handle the truth
Nope just sick of haters so what you're point Goddess do you hate people?
So fact you do hate keep lies up God .
Yes I do 92% of them.
Why did he like this comment lol
@@niecienorth5880 because 92% of them voted for Kamala because she’s a strong “black women” the 8% that didn’t I love them because they aren’t anti white race baiting gullible liars who fake hate crimes and only think about skin color. I worked retail for 8 years black women were the absolute worst customers to deal with they are extremely rude and racist lazy entitled idiots with a victim mentality.
@@niecienorth588092% voted for Kamala because she’s a “ strong black women” yet they were pissed about HCBU playing in the inauguration. Pure hypocrisy.
The truth always speaks out
Sad.
Well to be honest, I had to tell my mom the truth, she asked, son do you h8 black women, I paused, I said yes and no,do I h8 American black women, yes I do, do I like Jamaican,Haitian, and african black women yes.😊
I had to leave my last gf because of the things you’re talking about. Because I was a “white cis male”, everything I said was taken as an attack of some kind, despite the fact that all I did was look out for her best interests and tried to lead her down the best path. It’s funny how I was considered “wrong” despite helping her complete college by constantly driving her to school and all that entails.
She became a stripper against my wishes (because she couldn’t hack having a regular job with a set schedule), yet somehow she thought she could say I was “insecure” for not being okay with it and that I had “trust issues” (which I most definitely did, and for good reason). I spent 7 years with this woman and her insane manipulative behavior before I finally called it quits before I made the mistake of moving with her (and her mother) to Vegas.