The night I lost my boyfriend to chemsex drugs | Henry Hendron speaks about party and play addiction
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- Опубликовано: 13 окт 2024
- The night I lost my boyfriend to chemsex drugs | Henry Hendron speaks about party and play addiction
London barrister Henry Hendron’s life was turned upside down in January 2015. After taking drugs with his partner, Miguel Jimenez, Hendron awoke to find his partner had overdosed.
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Emergency services declared him dead at the scene, and Hendron was promptly arrested. He recounted that day, and what happened next, to Gay Star News, as part of its exploration of chemsex drugs.
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Something not right about this guy.
To those of you who are making cruel comments please listen to him . He mentions he doesn't do public displays of emotion. He's lost the love of his life, and more. How can you judge and claim to know how he feels by his expression? Where's your compassion? If he didn't care why would he expose himself on a public platform? There's so much hate and intolerance outside and within the gay community. These cruel insensitive comments are a reflection of this. He warning other of the danger of drug taking so they don't lose their lives and pointing out the devastation left behind.
DITTO ❤
Agree!!
Well said
He endangered someone younger than him and not to mention that person was quite young to be dating someone in their 40s. Shame on you for defending a groomer. 😠
@@nightslasher9384 bullshit
The way the tells the story is so weird . If I had a bf dying from overdose I would be crying even if it was 20 years ago . He called him a dead body ! So many red flags! This guy needs to go under investigation. Shame
He is a selfish person that only talks about money!
Hes white, he won't
Yeah. He killed him
This guy is on something. Speech is slurred whilst doing this interview.
I agree
I cannot understand a word he is saying. Thought it was me, couldn’t pull a cogent full sentence. Maybe I am going deaf?
@@Lisabug2659 Yeah, I decided not to bother to listen to him because I could only understand about half of it.
the way he talks about his "boyfriend" sounds like he never cared or saw him as a person
He was property akin to a sex slave for a colonist… literally atypical sociopath and look he will and is getting more sympathy
This is such an important topic but it is only directed towards men that are gay. I'm a straight man. I've been suffering from the addiction of stimulants and pornography together for over 20 years, ie stimfap..how my heart hasn't stopped don't know..praise God that it has not. Sta People who Suffer from this very same type of addiction are alienated videos pertaining to the addiction that almost impossible to quit without enough vocal people that can attack the problem regardless or gender or sexual orientation. I want to reach out I want to talk about this but I feel like I can't, because I'm straight and not gay...
This is a great 1st attempt. Be strong keep reaching out.
The love of my life has been a sex and porn addict his entire life...post puberty. He became horribly addicted to meth in 2017 and the combination of those things ruined our lives. I tried very hard but finally left in Nov 2020. He still cannot admit to himself that he has a problem
He uses meth, G and METH are paired together. You only fall asleep with G, so he needs si meth, he gave too much g and overdosed him, i was a drug addict with meth and g, it’s so sadly common in the gay world, lured in when young. I’m glad i woke up every single time.
AND YOU'RE PROUD TO FUCKIN TALK ABOUT IT ? GO PRAY.
@@latrolettteeeeeee Because of people like u, many people are just in silence and it causes many young people to die of drug overdose. Shame on u.
La_Trolette He never said he was proud of anything, the man was simply sharing his experience.
Now why don’t you go pray for yourself? Last time I checked spreading hate was a sin.
Wait, he was 18??
He was the love of your life? Were you in a relationship with a minor???? Gross
This dude could be a predator. Someone needs to call the police
He was an older man who probably introduced him to chemsex, he is also smiling through his video. He is disgusting
Being attracted to someone under 18 doesn't make you a predator. By nature once you hit puberty you are ready for sex and people will be attracted to you as well when you look like you hit puberty. Certain ages for relationships is law its not mother nature saying you shouldn't have sex with them. Law is man made, you can't tell mother nature no and you can't deny mother nature, you will automatically be attracted if they hit puberty, you don't have a say in that buddy. Murder is illegal but most people have thought about it in their life because it is mother nature and laws are put in place to stop us from our animalistic ways, because we are wild animals, but we have all been raised by the school system and elders to be humane and not act like the true wild animals we really are. You have really been raised well by the system, look at you, the perfect slave who does what they say, you are perfect for the government, you don't question it you just do it, the perfect slave lol
@@ThePeacePlant being attracted no, acting on it it's another mother. There's a power differential
@@ThePeacePlant
Yea yea hakeem. Keep herding camels and wiping your ass with left hand no paper....
You seem to like pubescent individuals much like this man 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
@@victorgonzalez2499
Thank you....
Actions speak louder than words
A deeply unpleasant, narcissistic man who is not telling the whole story here.
What do u think the whole story is?
Agree
Yup…
I felt that soon as I seen him 😒
look in the mirror...
His lover was so very young. How truly sad
He should've been charged for manslaughter or some sort. He did eventually killed his teenager bf by offering the drugs so in my eyes he is a killer. Recently in March 2023 he has been charged again asking his client whilst working as a barrister got caught by cops but got let off again. He really needs to go jail. I work in courts and we are surprised he isn't in jail. What a let down.
very alarming to see the slight smile on his face while telling such a terrible story. no remorse in his eyes at all
yup
He's a sadist, he more than likely got off on it. There's something not quite right about about this man.
Don’t judge, as you don’t know them, you were not there..... shit does happen and life changed in a second
@@marcoliao1973 Does matter. His facial expression was all we need to know.
So if there were only two of you and he downed the wrong G, then are you saying he downed yours and you could just handle a lot more? That’s what it sounds like, which may be true but isn’t a great excuse. If you knew his tolerance was a lot lower you should’ve safeguarded him and made sure he knew the right one to take.
Exaaaaaactly
Yeah and i hear no remorse.
@@michele21auntiem none its a tragic crying shame
@@michele21auntiem that’s because he couldn’t give a shit. He is smiling through the video and then said: it’s a death person. No dude, it’s your dead boyfriend, not a dead person
guy basically killed his bf and is trying to distance from it
One of the consequences of drugs is death!! So sad that so many have died this way. Families are left absolutely devastated!!
The biggest lie it’s. “We took some drugs “. Why can’t he just say. I give him this drug. . Of course that’s never gonna happen. So hypocrite
True, true. I totally see what you mean.
as a 20yr black dude i'm glad these days are over. He's lying, you know he gave him the G. i was spiked, was out for 8hrs scariest thing coming back round... or did I ever fully come back?
He is now jailed for further conspiracy to buy similar drugs to what lead to the death of his partner
His facial expressions tell a story of success. I can't believe he got away with it and is now able to tell his triumphant story.
No remorse at all in his face.
He really doesn't care
He wants to burst out laughing 😂
Not remorseful
Disgusting, isn’t he. 😠
maybe it's just me but this guy is telling this very safe story as if it is a casual interview. I mean look at his body language it's so relaxed😞😟
He lacks empathy for others.
All you body Experts are so silly and disgusting at the same time!! You are NOT in this persons mind or Heart, all I hear everyone talking about is acceptance & love!? Yet, yall are ones who are critical and have No Empathy!
He’s a wolf ready to devour his prey. In this case, penetrate them. 😠
I found my friend after he hung himself in my kitchen. It's like getting in a car wreck. Slow motion.
God bless I'm sorry, I found my best friend passed away in bed. It was in his sleep at least.
It was very hard to clearly understand what was being said
That’s because it’s word salad, it’s meant to be confusing
He killed him. He took the wrong glass? Nah. Weirdos like him is the reason why I don't do drugs anymore.
And he was an unaware 18 y.o. many predators out there
who bought the drugs and who was distributing them ?
Thank you Henry for sharing your journey. It will help so many people. I’m so sorry about your loss. I do hope you will find inner peace in your life and find your life purpose 🙏🙏 Everyone deserves happiness 🙏🙏
If someone downed G they’d be dead within 30 min. You’re expecting us to believe you both took G and he took the wrong amount and you didn’t learn about it until morning? Nah sis.
Speak on it👏👏👏👏
Apparently they lose themselves mentally on that G.
Yeah who just goes to sleep without checking on the CHILD they gave drugs to
Like hell he did. Shame on this pathetic groomer!! 😠
I’m confused as how take ghb makes your face bleed? Can someone explain please 😊
No one is explaining and a man in dead
Purge fluid….when a body is dead a while it leaks
I think he mixed it with alcohol or it was too much
you cannot resuscitate a person you already know to be dead.
Sorry but something Is not makes sense
When you play with fire you always get burned...
A really important lesson. Thanks so much for the upload 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Lesson, how about not doing it in the first place especially with an 18 year old
What a name for a channel!
Swear I was just thinking omg who named this
One guy in our design firm died from this. He'd become addicted to sex parties living in the gay subculture of San Francisco. He got to the point where nothing less than hyper-sexualized activity would satisfy him.
I know how you feel. I lost my partner, my love. Not the same way however a loss of any kind is too much. There will be times, if not already that the need for answers will be great, even huge. When you get there remember how much he loved you. All those times, years of laughing being together. That’s the most important, not those few minutes where it just stopped. You are so brave. Talking helps, helping others grief with you, heals you & those hundreds even thousands of people looking for help.
Stay strong..
Trace Dial
Sounds like he pushed him over his limits. You killed him
You would think being a magistrate he would know better Just goes to show how crooked systems are all over the world
Don't do drugs kids!
This needs more likes 👍👍👍
I Ko Don't do 'too much' drugs
A E haha agree
Or do the right ones in moderation.
He knew big was using him for a come up so he let him take as as he wanted. Suspicious!!! He knew he would get away with it, all he has to do is entertain the family once In a while.
Really?! You didn't care about him, that's why you gave him all those damned drugs!
He should have gone to prison for some years.
Yes he was older and presumably supplied the drugs.it should have been his responsibility to make sure his partner was safe..I don't see any reference to his acnowledgement of this..all he can go is boo hoo about the loss of money.
Please stay away from drugs people
This story is very shocking and chilling!! God bless them both but whats more shocking is the hatred and vitriol in the comments under this video.
I'm a Brexiteer and am ashamed we had people like this on our side. Truly sinister man. 40 year olds with 18 year olds is weird enough. We need Christianity in this country ASAP.
Well they threw christianity out, that's what they are left with. Consequences
Um no we don’t. The God of the Bible said slavery is good and we should own human beings as inherent property. Our Christian founding fathers used the gospel to enslave the people of Africa in the name of Jesus Christ.
Leviticus 25:44-46 Your male and female slaves are to come from the nations around you; from them you may acquire slaves. You may also acquire some of the temporary residents living among you and members of their clans born in your country, and they will become your property. You can will them to your children as inherited property and can make them slaves for life, but you must not rule over your fellow Israelites ruthlessly.
@@lucifersapphire8412 you are obviously delusional 😳
@@lucifersapphire8412 Blacks and arabs sold each other way before and still do.
Cus the bible is against 40 year Olds with 18 year Olds... Oh wait...
It’s either this story was made up just to get famous. If it is true you don’t overdose from smoking he must of been doing other things plus if he’s never tried it he doesn’t understand why some of us love chemsex
So, you were in a happy relationship, planning for your future together and it still was not enough? So you looked for a high in drugs. Gosh. Valuable lessons here for every one else. No judgement from me. Love, courage, hope and happiness to all. ❤️🏳️🌈
You cannot follow up a rhetorical judgemental question with "-No judgement from me"....It's still definitely judgemental.
He was young...
Greedy for drugs end of story, imagine plying an 18 year old with drugs, not something on the top of my list or something that I would do, an 18 year old is still a kid to me
Dont judge this man He didnt need to do this public video If he didnt care He wouldnt have put himself out here to be judged by everyone
Its really sad that so many stoop to this level. Trauma makes ppl do such stupid & dangerous things !
All of this hyper-sexuality, sex parties, drugs & alcohol......
THIS is what it gets u. Not love.
Doesnt matter of youre gay or straight, this type of behavior only holds 💀 !
Another reason to stay away from em
Older ⚪️ men !
Being the older guy he should have known better disgusted he got away w it
Make sure you take care of your puppy. That dog loves you and needs you.
He kind of looks like Ronaldo. The fat Brazilian one. With hair.
I honestly think a lot of gay men have no capacity to actually love others. It just feels like sex, social status and other bullshit that matters and nothing else. Saying this as a gay man. RIP young man x
Wtf happened to him? His face his looks hes lost so much weight. And in other news, i overdosed on G for 8 hours. Not fun
He’s obviously still using
@@trackjuniorkey clearly
Get yourself another mail-order groom and do it all over again
🤣🤣🤣🤣🐝🐝🤣🤣🤣
Ur sick his bf died wdf
@@craigcoyle5482 So what. Just buy another mail-order groom.
For someone that good looking and that rich. I really don’t think this was a mail order bride case. He seems a nice caring person unlike you: who seems horrible.
Sounds like you have a lot of experience in that department, paying and expecting something in return. Miserable f**
Don’t take drugs.
Simples
You are Full of S
Nice way to get away/way weyyyyy
From morder/murder charger
Bravo
Hummmmm ok
You are great/amazing professional
Congratulations
Some of the comments on here are wel not nice everyone is in charge of their own body and mind I don’t think we should be judging as the only people that know what when they on that night is them how sad tho
At least you have the luxury of being alive
Lol the dog waived as he mentioned it somewhere around 6:21
dude is high as a kite! what an unhealthy lifestyle.
It’s sad that Miguel passed like that this freaks me out the LGBT Q and the chems not good even tho I m part of the minority
very sad
it could happen to any of us
Now he’s in hell ! It’s called free will
the "queen" doth protest too much...
I don’t feel sorry for him at all. I wish he went into prison.
God get a better microphone
This man looks scary for some reason.
Because if you take the audio out, and ask someone is he talking about his love of England or about his death boyfriend who he found in his bed? Which one do you think they will choose when they see him smiling an casually sitting and not shedding a single tear
Poor guy in the fiery pits of hell now! It’s called free will
I feel so sorry for you I hope you have all the best luck on the world
Sad story
WTF is a BARRISTER??
A lawyer. That expression is use in London
LOL you’re an idiot
Looking sick
Ur story same have mine...
He is sick and vulgar
JAJAJAJA THIS SHIT IZ FUNNY
NEVET TEN - Funny? No. Sad, unfortunate, possibly criminal... absolutely.
My bf and I just did a bunch of g and t last night and it was hot
THESE PEOPLE GET WHAT THEY DESERVED!! THEN THEY WANT YOU TO FEEL SORRY FOR THEM!!! YOU MAKE YOUR BED YOU LIE IN IT!!! MAGA!!!👮➕🇺🇸
tRump doesn't approve of your kind, cupcake. Be best!
Lol man trolls are always lurking in the shadows
The cruel comments on here are shocking to say the least. I bet most of you have no idea what it means to watch the love of your life die. But I do. It’s earth shattering. And it can leave you incredibly numb. There is no rule book on how you “tell your story” or “behave” afterward. Leave this poor man alone. He’s been through something truly horrific and he’s brave for sharing it.
Sharing in a narcissistic rant, he should SHUT UP! If that was my son who died he would be under the jail.
Yes, poor man has been traumatized and we are watching him retraumatize himself.
@@tmoore7049 lucky it’s not because you lack empathy and understanding of grief and mental health.
@@tmoore7049 Why would you bury your son under a jail?
I agree and I am so sorry for your pain and what you went through...I hope you are doing ok...