Finally Single (Legally) *my divorce journey*

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  • Опубликовано: 16 окт 2024
  • Today I sat down and talked about my divorce journey, the emotions, the legal process, and everything related! We also celebrated my legal divorce!
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Комментарии • 128

  • @nikkiyef
    @nikkiyef 2 года назад +163

    The fact he lawyered up first and couldn’t do a simple mutual agreement definitely shows me where most of the problem could’ve been

  • @blankspace823
    @blankspace823 2 года назад +116

    one of the best quotes i’ve heard that helped me in my own time of self discovery was “learn to be okay with people not knowing your side of the story” - you don’t owe anyone an explanation for anything that you’ve been through! moving in peace and contentment is 100% the move 💗

  • @haleyfarris544
    @haleyfarris544 2 года назад +92

    Girl, you’ve been absolutely glowing lately! So happy for you and that this chapter has come to a close officially. 💛 on to better times!

  • @make.it.rainer
    @make.it.rainer 2 года назад +29

    I love hearing you talk so positively about being divorced! I feel like the fact that divorce is so taboo makes a lot of people stay in unhappy/unhealthy marriages simply to avoid getting divorced

  • @mlwalston1
    @mlwalston1 2 года назад +47

    sydney, i have watched you for years. I ve had varying opinions about your behaviors. HOWEVER, you’ve shown so much growth, compassion and resilience. Go Girl!!! A proud watcher from Dallas, TX. (I love that you’re exploring other cultures of people)

    • @maggie-vp3yx
      @maggie-vp3yx 2 года назад +8

      I’m pretty sure people have varying opinions about you too. No need to say that.

    • @sydfrances
      @sydfrances  2 года назад +8

      difference in opinions are what make us human! thanks for support ❤️

  • @mollie9672
    @mollie9672 2 года назад +10

    i absolutely love the way you explained about how you don’t regret getting married, but wish you both weren’t pressured by the position you were in! you are absolutely glowing. ENJOY single life !!! 🎉❤

  • @Cristina-mg2uu
    @Cristina-mg2uu 2 года назад +49

    It’s the Olivia Rodrigo and Taylor Swift at the end for me!!! Congratulations on getting out of that situation you are very brave to do so! Enjoy your being a single lady!

  • @ginakuo8964
    @ginakuo8964 2 года назад +20

    I'm so proud of you Sydney. This is a very hard thing to go through. Can you make a video for us young people in our 20s like relationship advice, do's and dont's, things you wish you knew about dating/relationships/marriage

  • @kennedyrussell1642
    @kennedyrussell1642 2 года назад +20

    I’m so happy you’ve found Jesus! I’ve been here since 8th grade Sydney and your growth is amazing to watch. Love you Syd!

  • @kstuartsfilms
    @kstuartsfilms 2 года назад +7

    i wish I could give you a hug! girl you went through hell and back and it’s soo nice to see you glowing and being happy 🥺

  • @BronwynAlexandriaa
    @BronwynAlexandriaa Год назад +2

    I have never been subbed, but I’ve been watching your vids for a while (before y’all were dating or even engaged) and I just….. never.. felt right about it… and I’m sad to say I saw this coming. But I am PRAYING over you!!!! I am a Christian and I’ve always had a heart for you. Praying for peace and clarity in your life 💖

  • @multistan9650
    @multistan9650 2 года назад +25

    I’m so happy to see you so healthy and (hopefully) happy! ❤

    • @sydfrances
      @sydfrances  2 года назад +3

      thank youu and yes I am happy!!

    • @multistan9650
      @multistan9650 2 года назад

      @@sydfrances ❤️❤️❤️

  • @star-km7qq
    @star-km7qq 2 года назад +4

    I’m so happy for you, seeing you so happy now, with amazing friends, independent, and you finding your faith makes my heart so full. I’ve been watching you since the beginning and seeing you grow is so magical. Sending you all the love!! Congrats on this new chapter of your life

  • @oliviaarundel6553
    @oliviaarundel6553 2 года назад +4

    I've been watching you since you were in high school and I'm so happy to see you happy. Congratulations and sending love and positivity your way!

  • @gurlin2fashion
    @gurlin2fashion 2 года назад +6

    Have you heard of Michel Janse here on RUclips? Her timeline of events is so similar to yours its crazy!! She also just officially got divorced and threw a party. I think you would really enjoy her video and she also talks about her close relationship with Jesus!!!

  • @Mark_B585
    @Mark_B585 2 года назад +3

    It's hard but the growth after divorce is incredible. Work on your emotional health. It's worth it.

    • @Mark_B585
      @Mark_B585 2 года назад +1

      Been divorced for 10 years now

  • @mikaaeelaaa
    @mikaaeelaaa 2 года назад +2

    you look so good sydney! you’re glowing and your hair looks amazing !! so excited for you! congrats✨

  • @oliviaelyce2035
    @oliviaelyce2035 2 года назад

    I have been watching your videos for years, like I have seen you go through many seasons, and I seriously forget that you are the same person that I was watching 1 to 2 years ago when you were in/getting out of your marriage because of how much you have grown into your own person, and that just makes me so happy. Congratulations!!

  • @kstuartsfilms
    @kstuartsfilms 2 года назад +2

    you have gone through soo much this year. I’m soo frickin proud of you

  • @Forreminiscing
    @Forreminiscing Год назад +1

    So so so proud to see how much you’ve grown, I pray you continue to find joy and peace in Christ ❤️ you’re glowing ✨

  • @charisem3595
    @charisem3595 2 года назад +1

    SO EXCITED FOR YOU SYD!! May God bless this new season of life for you! love you!

  • @cybrlion10
    @cybrlion10 2 года назад +1

    So happy that chapter of your life is officially closed now to open new healthy chapters for your new life❤

  • @kstuartsfilms
    @kstuartsfilms 2 года назад +1

    this year really is Sydney’s year

  • @estherlawson6823
    @estherlawson6823 2 года назад +1

    I watched your first divorce video weeks before my husband left me ( both 21, Christian the whole thing) I really don’t think it was a coincidence ❤️

  • @siennakay3922
    @siennakay3922 2 года назад +4

    haven’t even watched but wooohooo for the papers all being signed and this chapter officially closing for you ♡

    • @sydfrances
      @sydfrances  2 года назад +3

      yayyy!! thanks for sticking with me ❤️

  • @Jieralyliah
    @Jieralyliah 2 года назад +6

    Love you Syd you made my day so much better ❤

  • @iHiseu
    @iHiseu 2 года назад +15

    I had unsubscribed during your whole marriage because I noticed vibes were off between the two.. like forced, at some moments in time. Of course, the ceremony was beautiful, and there were many moments captured for us that we enjoyed, but this video made me teary- realizing how happy you now are is the best part. Recovery is eternal, but so is peace. I’m happy for you girl, can’t wait to see more content ❤️‍🩹

    • @mistyobrien4754
      @mistyobrien4754 2 года назад +1

      Omg that’s so weird same I felt the same thing!

  • @hiimynameisdanielle
    @hiimynameisdanielle 2 года назад +2

    You’re so strong & im so happy for you. You seem truly happy. Also. You’re so pretty & this is my favorite hair on you! ❤️

  • @moss_fore4883
    @moss_fore4883 2 года назад +9

    Part of me thinks it would be amazing if someday, some how, some way, you and Dallin could mend things to the point you could do a video with you two just talking about getting through a divorce and what mistakes you think you both made entering the marriage and what helped you both grow and heal after the marriage. It'd probably be like a 4-5 or 10(!) part video and I know it's unlikely (and maybe the idea makes you cringe), but I think that would be an amazing video and would get crazzzzzzy views. Regardless, you both rule. I started watching you way back even before the music video. I still go back and watch those old vlogs. They are so damn comforting. I can't explain it. I watch tons of youtubers and obviously I love your current content but those old Vlogs are the most cozy and calming and comforting videos on all of youtube. You and your brothers and friends just hanging out at that huge amazing house, playing games on the driveway, jasper being jasper, all the food and festive atmosphere. I used to watch those videos as therapy. That probably sounds crazy lol I swear I'm not a nut, I just feel super lucky I randomly came across your channel back then and have got to watch you grow up from living in the tiny room under the stairs and staying up all night editing your (amazing) vlogs to being an independent WOMAN (not girl) living on her own down in Texas with a whole new set of friends who all seem awesome. I'm super, super proud of you. I know it hasn't easy and I want you to know that we (your viewers) know that, and appreciate it. We know sometimes you're dealing with a ton of stress and anxiety yet you still take the time and effort to create videos for us. It means a lot... you're seriously one of the most authentic and sweet and amazing RUclipsrs I've ever come across and I think the reason you have so many supporters is because finding someone who is real and not pretentious or ego-driven is pretty rare on this platform. Always keep that spirit!

  • @phoebetaylor4407
    @phoebetaylor4407 2 года назад

    You look like you’re absolutely thriving! Keep being you lovely we’re all so proud🥹🤍

  • @taraleanne
    @taraleanne 2 года назад +1

    i love your hair right now, it looks so good!

  • @jessicafehr5529
    @jessicafehr5529 2 года назад +2

    I’m happy for you and you are so beautiful Sydney congrats on your new chapter in life❤️

  • @kstuartsfilms
    @kstuartsfilms 2 года назад +2

    Summer of 2022 is gonna be hot girl summer girl for syd!!

  • @kstuartsfilms
    @kstuartsfilms 2 года назад +1

    you have grown soo much omg I can’t! you are such a baddie

  • @NoelSeymourEST2023
    @NoelSeymourEST2023 2 года назад +3

    Praise Jesus! Even through the storm Our God is GREAT

  • @autumnmarietaggart
    @autumnmarietaggart 2 года назад +3

    I would love to know tips or advice for others choosing to get married young. I know that is a sensitive topic though so no rush ❤️ proud of u

    • @MichaelDeMersLA
      @MichaelDeMersLA 2 года назад +1

      Lol well this chick got immediately divorced so maybe don’t do it?

  • @victoria-gy6gh
    @victoria-gy6gh 2 года назад +2

    sis… my husband and i just watched a documentary about the FLDS (i know there are *huge* differences between them and LDS) it reminded me of you. i started watching your channel years ago right before you two got married, and this documentary made me think of you so i went scouring youtube to try and find your channel. i’m a disciple of Christ and an ECSTATIC to hear you have found your way to Christianity and out of Mormonism!!! thank you for sharing the story of your relationship- i will truly be praying for you and you heal and learn more about Yahweh🤍

  • @emilyb8230
    @emilyb8230 2 года назад +1

    I love this video and the celebration. It honestly shows your healing! Praise the Lord for the divorce and Him healing you.

  • @wonga72
    @wonga72 2 года назад

    I'm so happy for you! Hope life goes better in the future and you find the perfect one ✨️ 💕

  • @abifaithh
    @abifaithh 2 года назад +4

    so happy you found yourself with God girl💛💛

  • @kellymcsherry
    @kellymcsherry 2 года назад +4

    We love an independent queen 👸

  • @lucir.7452
    @lucir.7452 2 года назад +1

    Yes! You go girl! Enjoy life it's so beautiful just like you ♥️

  • @kasonbertrand7082
    @kasonbertrand7082 2 года назад

    I’m so happy for you , you have been through it and look at you now you are finally HAPPY and I love you for that you will forever be my idol ❤️❤️

  • @betho2445
    @betho2445 2 года назад +2

    so happy for you sydney

  • @anaclarissalee6145
    @anaclarissalee6145 2 года назад

    Been following you for years now I’m so happy for you ❤️

  • @brittanyt0616
    @brittanyt0616 2 года назад +1

    You have the best friends! So happy for you

  • @Forreminiscing
    @Forreminiscing Год назад +1

    “Happy divorce day” LOL ILY

  • @israelkoumtog8113
    @israelkoumtog8113 2 года назад +2

    Must be a lot of hassle going through the legal system but now you’re officially divorced and single ❤️❤️

  • @kstuartsfilms
    @kstuartsfilms 2 года назад +1

    ahhh bestie lookin happy & healthy!!

  • @katie19g
    @katie19g 2 года назад +2

    I completely understand getting divorced I was married at 22 and divorced a year and half later but I did all on my own and paid $200 fee

    • @sydfrances
      @sydfrances  2 года назад

      exactly what i wanted hahahah, i’m sorry tho, glad you got out of a bad marriage tho ❤️

    • @katie19g
      @katie19g 2 года назад +1

      @@sydfrances yeah me too I wanted the divorce so he made me do it all and pay for it but I am happy for you and I did exactly what you did I went drinking with friends to celebrate

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa 2 года назад +1

    Good morning Sydney happy Sunday morning and I just wanted to say that you are grateful because you are sweetheart and you are amazing Supporter and you are grateful

  • @annamciver
    @annamciver 2 года назад +1

    cheers to a new chapter!!!

  • @ariellatal5972
    @ariellatal5972 2 года назад +1

    You’ve grown so much girl!

  • @kstuartsfilms
    @kstuartsfilms 2 года назад +1

    the fact you have found you’re people makes me so emo!

  • @kstuartsfilms
    @kstuartsfilms 2 года назад

    loving the hair

  • @KelliRoseVlogs
    @KelliRoseVlogs 2 года назад +2

    Girl your glowing 😁💛💛💛

  • @AussieMumVLOGS
    @AussieMumVLOGS 2 месяца назад

    Im so confused. Im a new subscriber and havent been watching your vlogs in order.
    Have u been married twice?
    Because i thought i saw a title of your video saying eloped and i saw a video with u and your husband when you celebrated your cats 🐈 1st birthday.
    Im very confused

  • @kstuartsfilms
    @kstuartsfilms 2 года назад +1

    you look soo happy ahh I can’t

  • @mdmd1851
    @mdmd1851 2 года назад

    Congratulations.. time for new chapter.

  • @Abero12
    @Abero12 2 года назад +1

    I LOVE YOUR HAIR

  • @_simangele_
    @_simangele_ 2 года назад +1

    I love this for you, sis.

  • @keilynsb
    @keilynsb 2 года назад

    Aw you look so happy! Congrats❤️

  • @kylebagget774
    @kylebagget774 2 года назад +2

    I went to high school with Alyssa! We were on the track team together haha 😆 small world

  • @rachelma
    @rachelma 2 года назад +2

    We can only turn to a scripture for our walk with God.

  • @AussieMumVLOGS
    @AussieMumVLOGS 2 месяца назад

    Im so sorry

  • @autumn7247
    @autumn7247 2 года назад

    so happy for you💜

  • @sh-fe2zn
    @sh-fe2zn 2 года назад

    so proud and happy for you

  • @nanwade2133
    @nanwade2133 2 года назад

    I love your hair like that.

  • @kaydenceking5548
    @kaydenceking5548 2 года назад +1

    Sydney!!!!!!!!!You look beautiful! I have been following you for years! Praying Jesus’ blessing over you 💜 Jesus help us grow in the knowledge of Your Son Jesus!!!! I you grow to know Him even more!! His love for you is abounding!!! Even when you don’t feel like it and things get tuff!!!

  • @devynsmith8838
    @devynsmith8838 2 года назад

    love the cake photo op lmao

  • @daughterofthemosthigh6869
    @daughterofthemosthigh6869 2 года назад +1

    Stay in love with Jesus and pray bold prayers for him to guard your heart. I know it feels good to be single and the hope of the possibilities but Satan comes to kill, steal and destroy. Be wise and patient. Trust in God and seek him in ALL things. I say this with love and as a sister in Christ that went her own way and suffered greatly. But God is a redeemer of all things. Praying for you on your new journey. 🙏

  • @johnsaxongitno4life588
    @johnsaxongitno4life588 2 года назад

    Your looking really amazing and stunning please stay safe and strong prayers and thoughts to you and I am happy that your looking forward to a amazing future love your honesty love your Australia fan John xxx

  • @stephaniedasilvaox
    @stephaniedasilvaox 2 года назад +2

    You’re so beautiful

  • @rachellobb6904
    @rachellobb6904 2 года назад

    a cool video idea i think, if youre willing to do it, would be having people ask you about your religion! I'm curious to know what being christian is about

    • @sydfrances
      @sydfrances  2 года назад

      ask away!! id love to do that

  • @nikkiyef
    @nikkiyef 2 года назад +1

    There’s such a big misconception about god not “allowing “ divorce. In the Bible god says that divorce is okay if there’s cheating or abuse

  • @aprilkearby6963
    @aprilkearby6963 2 года назад +1

    Good for you girl thumbs up

  • @javabeans830
    @javabeans830 2 года назад

    Let’s collab! I remember subscribing since the beginning but need to catch up

  • @beckycrocker2293
    @beckycrocker2293 2 года назад

    You look so good!

  • @NoelSeymourEST2023
    @NoelSeymourEST2023 2 года назад +1

    Don’t regret things (I know it’s easy for me to say) but guess what through this process you Found Jesus the REAL GOD!

  • @nicoleschock8744
    @nicoleschock8744 2 года назад +1

    Do a photoshoot destroying your wedding dress!

  • @carlford2137
    @carlford2137 2 года назад

    You know. God never told someone they have to be a door mat and they have to be abused and cheated on and in a relationship where they are just absolutely miserable where it’s better to be alone

  • @maggie-vp3yx
    @maggie-vp3yx 2 года назад +1

    Good for you. He’s immature for that.

  • @claireroland7820
    @claireroland7820 2 года назад +1

    I am so happy for you Sydney! I don't mean this in a hateful way at all but your ex just seems not independent at all. Seemed he had no clue or common sense during the divorce process lol. Congrats to you by the way!!!!!

  • @Jerry-vm7nm
    @Jerry-vm7nm 2 года назад

    You look very familiar

  • @Itsclarabell3
    @Itsclarabell3 2 года назад +1

    I dmed you a little bit ago and it would mean the world if you responded to it!

    • @moss_fore4883
      @moss_fore4883 2 года назад +1

      I bet Syd gets so many dm's across all these different social media platforms. It's probably super overwhelming to have so many people wanting her attention :/

  • @rengrimes
    @rengrimes 2 года назад

    ❤️❤️

  • @RayanKadriRK
    @RayanKadriRK 2 года назад

    ⚡⚡

  • @Brewster907
    @Brewster907 3 месяца назад

    Wow you pretty

  • @kstuartsfilms
    @kstuartsfilms 2 года назад

    i may ended up crying lol

  • @dannymillerdejesus7562
    @dannymillerdejesus7562 Год назад

    U look beautiful

  • @annamciver
    @annamciver 2 года назад +1

    hot girl single summer!!!!!

  • @davidparnell4675
    @davidparnell4675 2 года назад

    Awesome

  • @kashlynsmith5684
    @kashlynsmith5684 2 года назад

    whoever is reading this, GET RIGHT WITH GOD! GOD IS SO AMAZING! TRUST GOD! HAVE FAITH! GOD BLESS!

  • @kelsiesmith20
    @kelsiesmith20 2 года назад +3

    he definitely cheated on you

  • @zander88990
    @zander88990 2 года назад

    I'm sure you were not that sad, Fact is that you got married before you grew up but I'm sure you are blaming your ex. You tell your side how ever it works out for you. Growing up you have a lot of that to do yet.

  • @dannymillerdejesus7562
    @dannymillerdejesus7562 Год назад

    I didnt like ur ex husband first place I was sour bout it like ur new bf better

  • @cBit64
    @cBit64 Месяц назад

    was your divorce wet wet?

  • @kelsiesmith20
    @kelsiesmith20 2 года назад

    i guess that’s what happens when you wait to have sex until marriage..he must have not liked it :))

    • @taylorbieber1103
      @taylorbieber1103 2 года назад +5

      Wow!!! What a crappy comment.

    • @lmm-op7em
      @lmm-op7em 2 года назад +1

      does it help you to feel better about yourself to be horrible to other people? genuine question.
      you need to sit down and seriously think about who you are as a person and the gross things in your heart that you feel the need to harass people you don’t know on the internet over something as sensitive as their divorce.
      get help

    • @kelsiesmith20
      @kelsiesmith20 2 года назад

      @@lmm-op7em cry

    • @lmm-op7em
      @lmm-op7em 2 года назад

      I’m sure you’d enjoy that if I did.

    • @probablynicole6090
      @probablynicole6090 2 года назад

      I mean that twig of a guy looks like he’d be pretty bad in bed :)) but ya Kelsey’s a b*tch lol

  • @SelenaLuvGomez
    @SelenaLuvGomez 2 года назад +1

    I love seeing your growth!! Stay young and focus on yourself Syd 💙 it’s so good to see you smiling !

  • @keshia4207
    @keshia4207 2 года назад +5

    so happy and proud of you. you deserve all the happiness in the world ♾. Love youu🤍🤍.