I found you through following Brandon. I knew he was in love with you before y'all started dating. I just want to say how genuinely happy I am for the both of you! BBG you and Brandon deserve so much!
My father would say “you are two good people but not good for each other” compatibility is deeper than love ❤️ that’s where liking someone is important
When my parents got divorced a lot of people in our community were shocked. Whenever it came up I would tell them "They're good people, just not good together."
I’ve been asking for a sign to just let me know it’s okay to leave. Then I found this. Thank you so much for this video. Everything you said is what I’m experiencing. It hurts so much but it hurts more to think about it staying this way.
i agree i left my ex and i fully thought i had no reson to for a while and i just went home unhappy and when i left i didnt get a chance to let go because i felt that that was wrong but seeing this has made me so much better i felt like i couldnt greeve or be sad about it because i made the dissishion but i feel so much better
I can’t stop crying because I know exactly what you mean. I’ve known my kids dad isn’t my soulmate but I can’t find the strength to leave. 7 years together and with 2 kids. This video literally broke me down. I’m so happy you found your happiness and I wish I could do the same one day.
Same girl I got with mine when I was 18 I left with him cuz he was my way out of my horrible situation at home and now we have 3 8 years together and I feel like things have changed or I have changed so much but one day I know we will get our true partner
Same, especially since my bd and i have been together for 15 yrs and 2 kids. I wanna be happy but at the same time dont wanna take my kids away from their father. Id be moving out of state if i left. There would be no reason for me to stay, i technically moved from texas to nyc so we could be together.
Ladies please don’t settle. Know your worth. It took me decades and 2 abusive marriages and bad relationships to finally come to and realize not all men are like my ex for my situation that is. I had 3 kids and was so young and scared. But had to remember my kids needed their mom to be happy not be scared or sad etc and they deserved a happy mom. Even if you have to move out of state. You ladies can figure it out and co parent. It was so hard but I wish I had done it sooner. I was 16 when I met their dad. I’m 41 now my kids are grown and I just got married for my 3rd but last time August 2020 to my best friend and I had no idea my worth and to be honest I’m still learning my worth and I’m finally in therapy for the first time in my life. As I deal with depression ptsd anxiety etc. i haven’t learned how to love myself and I can’t wait and hope I can learn to. Many times I don’t feel worthy of my husband and his kindness. My heart knows but my brain messes with me bc of the decades of abuse by a narcissist really messed me up. So please know you’re not alone and there are ways just have to do what’s best for you and your kids and choose happiness and a healthy relationship with yourself. Please don’t settle. I wish I had help 20 yrs ago to help me and tell me and had RUclips to listen to amazing an amazing women say what she has said here. To show you ladies. You can do this. Don’t waste your time. Choose you. The rest will work themselves out. I promise and also seek therapy to help you. It can really help. Keeping you ladies in my thoughts. Sorry for the novel 💜
Such a sweet comment , but bonus dad . idk about that. id be devastated if my daughter called me that after i raised her from birth . not bonus dad . just DAD . Gloria and brandon you deserve the world . your such great people and Brandon you are an inspiration to men . Thank you for showing the world that we as men CAN care . nothing made me feel better in life than my adopted daughter , you know MY DAUGHTER said to me YOU ARE MY FATHER . Not my dad .
@@RetroHartTTV at that time, (since my comment was over a year old already) there were more then a few mentions made that her bio dad was still in the picture as well, hense why I said bonus dad. What I should have said was to have her beebs (since that is what she always calls him, at least in the videos)
@RetroHartTTV sorry if my reply came off that way, I didn't think you were disrespectful at all. Just wanted to explain why I wrote it that way because I completely understand what you were saying there.
I BAWLED my eyes out watching this. I am in the same spot you were in so many years ago and struggling to choose myself over someone else’s feelings and I NEEDED to see this today. I am SO happy you and Brandon found each other and have built a life you are so proud of! ❤️
When i tell you i almost cried at the end. I’ve never been through a divorce but i did spend 3 long years with someone i knew wasn’t treating me right and now i’ve been with my person for 2 years and we’re engaged. & i know that may seem fast but it’s crazy how you just know who your person is once you’ve been through heartbreak. Thank you for sharing this with us and being vulnerable. We love you and it’s crazy what you deserve too. ♥️
I needed this. I’ve been in my relationship for 7 years, i feel like i have wasted my 20s with him when i know he’s not the one. Having a child with him has made it 10x harder . Everything you’ve said is exactly how i feel. I love you Gloria, you are the best!
My divorce was real painful, it took so much from me, but it did take a lot of time to find me again. 7 years later and I'm proud of myself for overcoming the hardest chapter of my life. Thank you for sharing and everything you do ❤❤
For a long long time, I was mad at my parents for getting divorced. My dad tried to explain to me what my mom did to him and how she abused him and I believed him but this video helped me realize more about what he was saying. Thank you.
I was married to my high school sweetheart who cheated on me the entire year after we got married. (11 years together) Our divorce wrecked me. January 2020 I was free and alone. And now, I’m SO happy! Who would’ve thought divorce at 29 would end up being such a beautiful gift.
I'm finally starting my divorce and found my person,your story sounds so much like mine and I am happy and appreciative thank you Gloria you deserve the best and so do I 💝
Goosebumps, every time I hear this story it gives me goosebumps. I began my social media addiction with you and Brandon and I absolutely love this video! Seeing y’all so happy makes me so happy!!☺️
I married young and also divorced for similar reasons. There were more things that factored into it also. I then found my person. We were friends first and built on that relationship. He is an amazing man. He helped me raise my older boys from my first marriage and we have a son together. Like you, I saw the bad that can happen to a relationship. It became very toxic and stressful. I am so glad that I am no longer that young woman with my ex.
Listening to this on my way home and couldn't help but cry.. I got married at 22 for the same reason "wanting to leave my parents house". Young and naive. Now working on myself, for myself and for my son. One day I will find my soulmate. Thank you for this video ❤ and I am really happy for you.
I am 5+ years out of finally walking away from my toxic marriage and even though there have been struggles, even on my worst day, things are better than they were in a marriage where I'd lost myself entirely and had forgotten what real happiness felt like. Similar advice to what you said, but to anyone trying to decide if they should stay or go, if you fight more than you talk: Go. You owe yourself happiness. You owe your kids (if you have them) a non-toxic home. You don't owe anyone else anything. Thanks for sharing this, MG ❤❤❤
My parents only married because they wanted kids. They fought and fought. They were different people, my mom thought she could change my dad. I’m happy that you got out so that Autumn didn’t have to see you two go through your things. I’m so happy you’re with Brandon, someone who absolutely loves you. Thank you for putting this out there showing that people go through this and can get through it. You’re amazing, strong, and inspiring. This video is lovely.
Thank you sooo much for opening up and speaking about such a hard subject. Growing up in a Mexican household I’ve seen how much divorce in my family is frowned upon. I know a lot of people who stay in a relationship just for the kids. But I’m glad you thought about Autumn and what would be the best for both of you. I am so happy for you 💗💗
God this video is amazing. You are so articulate, and it is incredible to have someone that is so genuine and honest and open about such a tough subject. Thank you💜
I’ve finally found my person after being used to abuse and hearing you talking about Brandon made me cry. Exactly how I feel now, and I never thought I’d ever have this❤️❤️
Girl I needed this. I am going through a divorce and while it is mutual and we’re both very civil and he is still very much in our sons life, it’s been hard trying to find myself again after 5 years with him. I am 10x happier now than I have been in the past 2+ years but I’m learning and getting to know the woman i am now. And I am so excited to see what happens in the future.
I love how vulnerable you allow yourself to be for thousands, maybe millions of people. Mrs. Maria, you are such a light in the darkness that surrounds subjects such as divorce. May God stay with you and please keep doing what you do!
I’ve been watching Brandon’s channel for a few years now, through him I found you and immediately attached to this channel. Seeing how happy you both are together is so refreshing. I may be a few months late to seeing this, but you’re a beautiful family and a beautiful couple, and most of all you’re a very beautiful woman. Thank you for sharing your story love ❤️
I am going through a breakup right now and it ended because of this exact thing. I knew I deserved more but I loved him and didn’t want to go through the pain of loosing him. I know now that it was the right thing and I’m working on myself. This vid was exactly what I needed to hear ❤️😭❤️
That’s beautiful how you and your ex don’t bash each other, the only ones that get hurt are the kids. Seeing their parents friendly will help a lot. You’re very brave
What an amazing message to anyone that is going thru a similar experience! Just as you did, I choose myself 19 years ago, I went thru heartache, loss, and came out a better person for me, my family, and now my husband that I can honestly say he is my person! Thank you for sharing such an uplifting story!
Hun, you touched me. I was married at 18. Was married for 15 years. Went through abuse and emotional pain. I had three beautiful children with him and thought you just work it out. It took me years to love myself and now I'm engaged to my best friend. Your story hit all those feels. I tell every woman now they are queeens. Thank you hun. You and Brandon's video's got me through some super hard times. Thank you, thank you, thank you.....
Thank you for sharing this. Most days I invalidate my feelings of loss and suffering because I’m the one that chose divorce for the same reasons as you. Im still going through it and most days it seems like I’ll never get to the end but you’re giving me hope and that I still deserve to love and be loved in return
I am so happy for you and Brandon! I know the feeling of being happy with the man you are suppose to grow old with. I have been married for 15 years. We have been through a lot together and it just brings us closer. Your children are lucky to have parents like you all.
Thank you for sharing. Going through a separation right now. From a not a bad man but we weren't happy. I also didn't want to lose my marriage despite us being toxic at times and apathetic the rest. It is comforting to see and hear other people's story that despite there not being some huge drama, being unhappy is a reason. Love you always 💓
I just got out of a relationship with a person who manipulated me for 9 years, and honestly your videos are a big reason I had the strength to do that and that I realized I deserved to do that. So thank you for teaching me, and thank you for sharing your story with us 🖤 I remember watching your videos from around the time you were going through your divorce and feeling your pain through the screen. That was really the turning point for my own life.
No one has ever described a divorce situation that I could identify with so much… except that it took me 15 years. Everything you said was so familiar and so true…
I did the same thing when I was 19 I moved out because of my strict parent! To get that freedom that I wanted I remember when we did feel out of love n when he did! I wish I would of heard this words back then! But still makes me think that I was not the only one that went theu something like this that it was not just me being rebellious thanks for sharing your experience! You can’t imagine how much your words are helping me! Even if it has been years since then! But no one ever really understood my pain I had keep going forward baby girl I am so glad that your have your family now! And happy n thriving!
I came to your channel thinking your Brandons girlfriend so you will have funny videos. I stayed watching your videos because you are so open and honest and just an amazing person. You are making me actually properly think about myself and want to improve myself. You are such an amazing person and you deserve the absolute best life. Thank you for being you x
I never write comments or speak openly about my personal life via the internet…. However when you said “get out, get out now”, I felt as though you were speaking directly to me and anyone in my current situation. I just broke up with my boyfriend last night, not because he’s a bad person, but because we just aren’t right for each other. I keep having doubts about it…. But you saying that helped assure me that I made the right decision. Thank you
I am so happy for you finding your way out of the dark 💓 I am so happy you found your person in Brandon . . I def had tears through this because you honestly gave me hope that I can find that someone someday that will accept myself and my kids 💕 thank you for this video
Oh man.. I felt this so very hard. I was married when I was 20 and I now know that it was because I wanted that freedom coming from a strict Hispanic family. I had changed so much and didn’t recognize who I was trying to make our marriage work. With a son 3 years in and tried everything I could for 3 more years. I got out because I knew it wasn’t something that my son should look up to. We went through the same thing! Lol and then I met my soulmate. He’s the one i was meant to be with ❤️ WE DESERVED BETTER AND WE GOT IT!
I’m so proud of you & how much you have grown , I first found Brandon on here and then I found you and since then I been so happy to see your videos every day you boost my confidence as a mom and a women ❤️ I love to see how much positivity you give
I can’t stop crying I am so happy for you. I have watch y’all for about 3-4 years now and I have watch you relationship grow and become so good. I have watched you over video being to to glow and blossom with so much happiness. Both of y’all videos are amazing and get me through my day sometimes. And I am sooo happy for you. You are amazing, gorgeous, and a wonderful mother.Abd I hope 10x more happiness come in your future cus you deserve it. You deserve all of it.
This gives me hope. Honestly as a single mom of 2 I’ve been super broken and I’ve had to fix so much of myself while constant giving to my kids. I know things will work out and get better, so thank you for sharing your story 🥺
I'm SO GLAD YOU MADE THIS VIDEO!😊 YOU ARE AMAZING!!!! I'm happy you and Brandon got together... FINALLY! Both of you are AWESOME, and I've been watching you both grow for over 7-8 years now! I think Autumn was 3,or 4 at the time... BOTH you, and Brandon gave me much more happiness in my life, as I was SO DEPRESSED, and needed a laugh, and something to help me back to being the person I used to be. I'm SO THANKFUL FOR YOU BOTH BEING ON RUclips, and sharing your lives with me, and so many others! I've been housebound for so many years, and struggle with COPD. I look forward to seeing your videos, and wish you more success in your journey (s)! Best wishes for the future, and the new baby on the way! God bless you!
You deserve every happiness love. Honestly. I'm a domestic survivor. The things that were done, even though its been 17 years, still haunt and torture me. And when I finally got out, I swore I was done with dating. I wanted to be alone. Two months later, I met my best friend. At a tattoo shop. He was the artist. I went back every weekend for tattoos just to hang out with him. The age difference kind of made us stand offish at first, he's 25 years older than me. I was 20 at the time. But it decided to take the leap. He had been hurt too, and had been through a bad marriage, so it was a hard road for the both of us. Our lives have been so full of road blocks, and the craziest scenarios that would have crushed either of us alone, but together, we've made it through. We have 2 beautiful kids, and I couldn't imagine living one day without him. When you know they're the one, there's no denying it. And the love that you and Brandon have for one another is eternal. I've watched him since he was living in his car, and I've seen the changes in the both of you, and you can tell how happy you both truly are. And I couldn't be happier for you, cause you both deserve it. And you can weather any storm if you have each other to lean on. 🖤
And now she is married to her person, And they make the cutest couple! So happy for you, Brandon, Autumn and Jameson. I wish you all a lifetime of happiness and good health!
Brandon is father material. He puts so much effort to take care of autumn and Jameson. He takes care of Gloria the way she wants to be taken care of. Brandon is a big softie for his family.
The universe is crazy. I am sobbing because I needed to hear this so much. I love my bf. He's incredible in so many ways. But I'm not happy and there are things missing that can't be fixed. Thank you for these words.
GIIIIRRRRLLLLL you have me in tears, like you I didn't think I could leave, it took me 14 yrs to realize this. I'm in a wonderful relationship with someone who is supportive and my friend. I have to teens and I love their father for helping me bring them into this world, but we were not good for each other. I chose me and decided to leave, working on my own divorce currently, it's been about 3 years.
Just found this video and cried through the second half, currently living in the middle of the video. Not yet divorced, but hoping one day I have what you and Brandon have! Love your little family♥
You never owe us anything but we appreciate you so much and love that you tell your stories on your time. I think it’s been 3 years or so that I’ve started following Brandon, and then you and from the first videos of you guys, you could tell he was in love with you. I met my person when I was 18, I got out of an abusive 3 yr relationship and met my husband 2 weeks after moving back home, getting a new job and turning 18. We’ve been together 22 years now. You have a beautiful family and I love that you let us follow along 💜🖤💛🤍
You are so strong and amazing. I am so glad you have made these huge steps and are so happy now ❤ seeing your life now is amazing you can see your happiness
Wow. You made me cry! I'm on that crazy train of a divorce. Been on it for over a year. But you have given me hope. And, you know what? I am worth it. Thank you for this video.
BBG... from the bottom of my 🤍, thank you for this. The beauty, integrity, and fragile vulnerability that you shared will help so many that watch this (and many of your other) videos. All my love and appreciation 💕
So so true! Thank you for being so honest and vulnerable! So glad you're happy now. 🥰🖤💜 I needed to hear this today. I'm struggling so bad in my marriage, and I have no clue what to do. 😥💔😭. I come from divorced parents who separated on and off since I was 6yrs old and my sister is divorced times 2 now. Happiness is everything. I just want to feel it again.
I had to let go of a 7 yr situationship that I was in. I felt like this person was only wanting me for one thing and never wanted me for me and I wasn't happy. I feel so much happier now that I can focus on what I want and am working on how to communicate my feelings. It's gonna hurt but in the end, you have to go through that hurt to get to your true happiness. So now I'm juat waiting on God to send me my person and I'm just gonna my time with myself. This video is beautiful and inspiring. Thanks for sharing your story love
This was so emotional… so raw.. thank you for this! You are such an amazing woman! So inspiring! I love love love you! I’m so glad I followed you when I did.. I wasn’t in the best place.. I now have an amazing cute little family!❤️
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve watched this video. I’m going thru the same thing, however I keep getting held back because I don’t want to hurt him regardless of the pain he continues to cause me. Thank you, thank you so much for reminding me that happiness is in fact attainable, and that I do deserve it. I’ve watched you grow so much and am so happy for your little family! It gives me so much hope! Blessings!
THANK YOU! From the bottom of my heart, thank you for this video. I left an 8 1/2 relationship that I was staying in for reasons that weren't for myself and I finally was also selfish for once and it led me to the most amazing man and I'm finally happy. This video sounded like you were speaking for me, my story, and it's so amazing to know other people have gone through the same journey, and feelings as me. This made me realize how truly co tent and happy I am with my decision. So thank you! Soooo much love from AZ! 💜💜
It’s so weird when you think you love someone and go through all this bad stuff..then you find your actual person and it’s SO much different and you are HAPPY all the time..I’ve been in the same situation. So glad you chose yourself and your happiness!
Thank you for opening yourself up to us! You will help so many with this video. And the way you spoke about Brandon and your family legit made me cry and that is rare when it comes to RUclips vids! I felt it in my core when you said bbg it's crazy what you deserve, today especially! Much love to you and your fam Gloria 🖤🖤 Edit: can I just say how gorgeous you look 😍
Looking back, I can say honestly that my first marriage was out of being young/dumb/wanting to believe it was love...I accepted lies and betrayals and abuse thinking that I had no other choice because I was IN it. I had to get out of it, twice, to learn. It's strange though, the one who ultimately was "my person" was someone I knew years before. It was a long and slow realization, and I think that's what gave us the foundation to find each other again. Solid footing built on years of lessons. We all deserve that kind of happy. I've followed you two on here for so long now and I am so happy for you both.
This video made me cry. You are an inspiration to SO many of us! You have such an honest, caring and beautiful soul. I guarantee by posting this video that you have given alot of women the courage to walk away and not look back! Thank you for sharing this. My relationship started at 15. We got married at 18. We got divorced at 26. I wish there was a video I had watched back then because I definitely wouldn't have stayed as long as I did. ❤
Thank you.. I was never married, but I fully understand what you mean after being with someone for 4 years. It's been 2 years now me being single but I'm understanding myself more and more as each day passes. I'm afraid I already met my person when I was in the relationship and he may not want to see me anymore (which I understand) but I feel something great coming my way. Thanks for reminding me.
You absolutely amaze me...every bit of you. You've got to be one of the strongest women I get to interact with through the internet. You give so many women so much strength. I'm happy for you, and so impressed. Sending you so much love
I love this message!! I was in a terrible toxic relationship that was mentally abusive and physically not okay. I found my person when he left for deployment we only knew each other for a couple of months prior but then got super close when he left and we FaceTimed everyday. When I was going through my bad relationship he was there for me every step of the way and one day I messaged him saying I love you, and not as a friend cause you are my best friend but more and he told me he did too and we got married shortly after he got back from deployment cause we never wanted anything to separate us. We not have a beautiful baby boy who is nine months and we are moving to Georgia.
As someone with separated (never married so no divorce) parents, having parents that dont crap on each other and can be amicable is amazing for a child involved in that. When they first split it was rough, when they legally and financially separated it was worse, the few years following it was hell. But 10 years after my entire family (both my parents, my dads partner, my siblings and their partners) sat down for a family Christmas, and it was one of the best most relaxed times we've ever had as a family. My parents get along just fine now and theres zero bad feelings or anything now. It's to the point where my mother and I stayed a week at my dads house with him and his partner. The difference between the conflict of them both saying bad things about each other to being amicable and not being nasty is a massive difference. Its important to remember that people dont have to be bad people for people to hurt and say bad things. People also dont have to say bad things just because theyre sad or hurt.
I am here to say that i am so thankful for the woman you have become! I went through a really painful divorce about 10 years ago, I am still recovering from my traumas. Buy I am thankful because without realizing that I deserved more from life, I would have never met my best friend and heart mate. He is literally me just in big Teddy bear man form. I am thankful for everything I had to endure to get to this point in my life. Thank you for bringing awareness to this topic! 🖤🖤🖤
also a january 11 capricorn and my first serious relationship was toxic. the first few months i was just so glad to be wanted and so happy to not be alone. then i found out i was pregnant and i was so afraid that no one could love my daughter like her father. i also thought that if i gave him a family, like the one he didn't have, then he would grow. after 4 years, he did something awful and unforgivable and i reached my breaking point. a few months later i met my husband and my daughter fell in love with him and then i fell in love with him. we got married within two years and had a second daughter. i relate to you and your story so much. i found brandon through a video of him talking about you and autumn and i found you through him and i'm so glad i did. so happy life lead you where you are.
Another reason I'm happy I found Brandon Farris on RUclips back in 2018 was that I got to be introduced to royalty, aka you, Queen. I'm not even into make up, but listening and liking your videos that just are you expressing yourself and the kind of person that you are, has me always watching your videos. Plus you're extremely attractive, sorry haha I'm a still a guy. lol I remember watching videos of haha "black hair, flat cap, low beard" Brandon and you making videos together with baby Autumn! Dooder Family, I'll always love you guys!
Wow! This really hit me hard. Currently going through a divorce but my light is knowing I have found my person. He makes me so happy. It meant a lot to hear you being so open and honest
What I love about this is that you accept your role in things not working out and you arent putting all the blame on other things. That's real maturity right there to be able to look back and say, i know I was wrong when i did this or that. Beautiful Edit to add: watching this I finally understand where your motto came from. It's crazy what You deserve MariaGloria!!
This video was beautiful. As someone who left as well, I second this. Theres beauty in strength, but strength doesn't always feel beautiful or easy. Theres a lot of pain in fighting for yourself, but the reward that follows is something we all deserve. Thanks for sharing, and I am sure it will impact a lot of people. I am so happy for the life that you have created.
💜💜💜 Real and raw. I love that you mention your “faults” in the situation and that he isn’t a bad guy because he wasn’t right for you. Love this! Good for you, you deserve all the great things in love and life!🤩
I'm new to your channel and much older than you. There are so many women that needed to hear this. I made my choice many years ago, it wasn't easy☹️ But I raised my 2 boys on my own and I was HAPPY!!!!!! Things weren't always perfect but everything worked out in the end. I would say the worst mistake women make is thinking they can "change" someone. You have a beautiful soul, so glad you found the happiness you deserve. Never let someone dull your shine❤️
I needed this so much today. Thank you for being so transparent with us. I'm sitting here in tears saying "Baby girl, it's crazy what you deserve" The impact of that statement hit me in my core. I can't thank you enough 💜
Thank you Maria, everything you just said is what happen to me. I went through the same thing, my divorce was not fun. I wasn't sure what to do, I was not happy and was mad at myself for feeling like that. Like you said, I thought getting a divorce must only happen if your spouse beat you or cheated on you, but no it was not like that. I was just not happy and I did not like my ex husband, I was confused. I had three kids and I did not want to leave their father just for my selfishness. But I had to do what made me feel happy and sadly was to get the divorce. It was rough at first, but later I did find the one, my best friend my lover the one I will always be with. I am glad you are happy with Brandon, Brandon is such a good guy and a loving father. You deserve all of that and more.
I found you through following Brandon. I knew he was in love with you before y'all started dating. I just want to say how genuinely happy I am for the both of you! BBG you and Brandon deserve so much!
My father would say “you are two good people but not good for each other” compatibility is deeper than love ❤️ that’s where liking someone is important
When my parents got divorced a lot of people in our community were shocked. Whenever it came up I would tell them "They're good people, just not good together."
This is absolutely right.
Not grounds for divorce
I’ve been asking for a sign to just let me know it’s okay to leave. Then I found this. Thank you so much for this video. Everything you said is what I’m experiencing. It hurts so much but it hurts more to think about it staying this way.
Sending you positive vibes and strength love
i agree i left my ex and i fully thought i had no reson to for a while and i just went home unhappy and when i left i didnt get a chance to let go because i felt that that was wrong but seeing this has made me so much better i felt like i couldnt greeve or be sad about it because i made the dissishion but i feel so much better
I can’t stop crying because I know exactly what you mean. I’ve known my kids dad isn’t my soulmate but I can’t find the strength to leave. 7 years together and with 2 kids. This video literally broke me down. I’m so happy you found your happiness and I wish I could do the same one day.
ITS CRAZY WHAT YOU DESERVE. Just remember that babygirl 🖤
I feel this same girl 😭 2 kids and I get treated like shit
Same girl I got with mine when I was 18 I left with him cuz he was my way out of my horrible situation at home and now we have 3 8 years together and I feel like things have changed or I have changed so much but one day I know we will get our true partner
Same, especially since my bd and i have been together for 15 yrs and 2 kids. I wanna be happy but at the same time dont wanna take my kids away from their father. Id be moving out of state if i left. There would be no reason for me to stay, i technically moved from texas to nyc so we could be together.
Ladies please don’t settle. Know your worth. It took me decades and 2 abusive marriages and bad relationships to finally come to and realize not all men are like my ex for my situation that is. I had 3 kids and was so young and scared. But had to remember my kids needed their mom to be happy not be scared or sad etc and they deserved a happy mom. Even if you have to move out of state. You ladies can figure it out and co parent. It was so hard but I wish I had done it sooner. I was 16 when I met their dad. I’m 41 now my kids are grown and I just got married for my 3rd but last time August 2020 to my best friend and I had no idea my worth and to be honest I’m still learning my worth and I’m finally in therapy for the first time in my life. As I deal with depression ptsd anxiety etc. i haven’t learned how to love myself and I can’t wait and hope I can learn to. Many times I don’t feel worthy of my husband and his kindness. My heart knows but my brain messes with me bc of the decades of abuse by a narcissist really messed me up. So please know you’re not alone and there are ways just have to do what’s best for you and your kids and choose happiness and a healthy relationship with yourself. Please don’t settle. I wish I had help 20 yrs ago to help me and tell me and had RUclips to listen to amazing an amazing women say what she has said here. To show you ladies. You can do this. Don’t waste your time. Choose you. The rest will work themselves out. I promise and also seek therapy to help you. It can really help. Keeping you ladies in my thoughts. Sorry for the novel 💜
I love how much Brandon loves Autumn and you can just see that she is his daughter, she is lucky to have an amazing bonus dad
Such a sweet comment , but bonus dad . idk about that. id be devastated if my daughter called me that after i raised her from birth . not bonus dad . just DAD . Gloria and brandon you deserve the world . your such great people and Brandon you are an inspiration to men . Thank you for showing the world that we as men CAN care . nothing made me feel better in life than my adopted daughter , you know MY DAUGHTER said to me YOU ARE MY FATHER . Not my dad .
@@RetroHartTTV at that time, (since my comment was over a year old already) there were more then a few mentions made that her bio dad was still in the picture as well, hense why I said bonus dad.
What I should have said was to have her beebs (since that is what she always calls him, at least in the videos)
Gotcha ( no disrespect btw , just commenting ) .
@RetroHartTTV sorry if my reply came off that way, I didn't think you were disrespectful at all. Just wanted to explain why I wrote it that way because I completely understand what you were saying there.
Hehehe it's all good. All Dooders are cool w me :D
I BAWLED my eyes out watching this. I am in the same spot you were in so many years ago and struggling to choose myself over someone else’s feelings and I NEEDED to see this today. I am SO happy you and Brandon found each other and have built a life you are so proud of! ❤️
When i tell you i almost cried at the end. I’ve never been through a divorce but i did spend 3 long years with someone i knew wasn’t treating me right and now i’ve been with my person for 2 years and we’re engaged. & i know that may seem fast but it’s crazy how you just know who your person is once you’ve been through heartbreak. Thank you for sharing this with us and being vulnerable. We love you and it’s crazy what you deserve too. ♥️
Timing is so weird sometimes bbg, either way I’m so happy for you 🥰🖤
I needed this. I’ve been in my relationship for 7 years, i feel like i have wasted my 20s with him when i know he’s not the one. Having a child with him has made it 10x harder . Everything you’ve said is exactly how i feel. I love you Gloria, you are the best!
The tears are flowing right now. Thank you so much for being a voice for so many women❤️
It’s what I’m here for bbg, let’s get you yours now ✨🖤
My divorce was real painful, it took so much from me, but it did take a lot of time to find me again. 7 years later and I'm proud of myself for overcoming the hardest chapter of my life. Thank you for sharing and everything you do ❤❤
For a long long time, I was mad at my parents for getting divorced. My dad tried to explain to me what my mom did to him and how she abused him and I believed him but this video helped me realize more about what he was saying. Thank you.
As someone in the middle of a divorce now, I needed this. Thank you 💕
Im praying for you , you can pass this I believe in you ✊🏻❤️
You got this babygirl, I promise you you do 🥰🥰
I was married to my high school sweetheart who cheated on me the entire year after we got married. (11 years together) Our divorce wrecked me. January 2020 I was free and alone. And now, I’m SO happy! Who would’ve thought divorce at 29 would end up being such a beautiful gift.
Im getting divorced and im 29 . This gives me hope that it will work out even if it doesn’t look like it now
This video is everything. The insight on you & Brandon’s love story is so beautiful. Wishing y’all nothing but blessings and happiness forever 🥺♥️
I'm finally starting my divorce and found my person,your story sounds so much like mine and I am happy and appreciative thank you Gloria you deserve the best and so do I 💝
When I tell you I haven't clicked on a video faster in my life. I needed this right now. Thank you for sharing💕
Goosebumps, every time I hear this story it gives me goosebumps. I began my social media addiction with you and Brandon and I absolutely love this video! Seeing y’all so happy makes me so happy!!☺️
thank you bbg 🥰
I married young and also divorced for similar reasons. There were more things that factored into it also. I then found my person. We were friends first and built on that relationship. He is an amazing man. He helped me raise my older boys from my first marriage and we have a son together.
Like you, I saw the bad that can happen to a relationship. It became very toxic and stressful. I am so glad that I am no longer that young woman with my ex.
I have been separated for almost two years and a divorce coming soon. I can't tell you enough how much this video means to me
Listening to this on my way home and couldn't help but cry.. I got married at 22 for the same reason "wanting to leave my parents house". Young and naive.
Now working on myself, for myself and for my son. One day I will find my soulmate. Thank you for this video ❤ and I am really happy for you.
I am 5+ years out of finally walking away from my toxic marriage and even though there have been struggles, even on my worst day, things are better than they were in a marriage where I'd lost myself entirely and had forgotten what real happiness felt like. Similar advice to what you said, but to anyone trying to decide if they should stay or go, if you fight more than you talk: Go. You owe yourself happiness. You owe your kids (if you have them) a non-toxic home. You don't owe anyone else anything. Thanks for sharing this, MG ❤❤❤
My parents only married because they wanted kids. They fought and fought. They were different people, my mom thought she could change my dad. I’m happy that you got out so that Autumn didn’t have to see you two go through your things. I’m so happy you’re with Brandon, someone who absolutely loves you. Thank you for putting this out there showing that people go through this and can get through it. You’re amazing, strong, and inspiring. This video is lovely.
Thank you sooo much for opening up and speaking about such a hard subject. Growing up in a Mexican household I’ve seen how much divorce in my family is frowned upon. I know a lot of people who stay in a relationship just for the kids. But I’m glad you thought about Autumn and what would be the best for both of you. I am so happy for you 💗💗
God this video is amazing. You are so articulate, and it is incredible to have someone that is so genuine and honest and open about such a tough subject. Thank you💜
I appreciate this bbg, thank you for watching and listening 🥰✨
MariaaGloriaa always popping up when I need her most! Dinnertime here, and I always watch youtube. Thank you, MariaaGloriaa! I really appreciate it!
I’ve finally found my person after being used to abuse and hearing you talking about Brandon made me cry. Exactly how I feel now, and I never thought I’d ever have this❤️❤️
Girl I needed this. I am going through a divorce and while it is mutual and we’re both very civil and he is still very much in our sons life, it’s been hard trying to find myself again after 5 years with him. I am 10x happier now than I have been in the past 2+ years but I’m learning and getting to know the woman i am now. And I am so excited to see what happens in the future.
I love how vulnerable you allow yourself to be for thousands, maybe millions of people. Mrs. Maria, you are such a light in the darkness that surrounds subjects such as divorce. May God stay with you and please keep doing what you do!
We love you Gloria, and thank you for sharing this with us when you don't have to, you choose to because you care ❤️
I truly do 🥰✨
Hi Maria! Your hair looks gorgeous and thank you for talking about this. Divorce is really hard. ❤ I'm so glad you found your person.
I’ve been watching Brandon’s channel for a few years now, through him I found you and immediately attached to this channel. Seeing how happy you both are together is so refreshing. I may be a few months late to seeing this, but you’re a beautiful family and a beautiful couple, and most of all you’re a very beautiful woman. Thank you for sharing your story love ❤️
I am going through a breakup right now and it ended because of this exact thing. I knew I deserved more but I loved him and didn’t want to go through the pain of loosing him. I know now that it was the right thing and I’m working on myself. This vid was exactly what I needed to hear ❤️😭❤️
That’s beautiful how you and your ex don’t bash each other, the only ones that get hurt are the kids. Seeing their parents friendly will help a lot. You’re very brave
I'm sobbing. Thank you for sharing your story and all your strength!!! Love you so much BBG. 🖤
Thank you so much for sharing and allowing us to hear a little bit of your story. It’s crazy what you deserve when you allow yourself to be happy.
I wasn’t prepared for these tears 😭. I also need to add how adorable Jameson is 😍
What an amazing message to anyone that is going thru a similar experience! Just as you did, I choose myself 19 years ago, I went thru heartache, loss, and came out a better person for me, my family, and now my husband that I can honestly say he is my person! Thank you for sharing such an uplifting story!
Hun, you touched me. I was married at 18. Was married for 15 years. Went through abuse and emotional pain. I had three beautiful children with him and thought you just work it out. It took me years to love myself and now I'm engaged to my best friend. Your story hit all those feels. I tell every woman now they are queeens. Thank you hun. You and Brandon's video's got me through some super hard times. Thank you, thank you, thank you.....
So inspiring so 💪
Thank you for sharing this. Most days I invalidate my feelings of loss and suffering because I’m the one that chose divorce for the same reasons as you. Im still going through it and most days it seems like I’ll never get to the end but you’re giving me hope and that I still deserve to love and be loved in return
I am so happy for you and Brandon! I know the feeling of being happy with the man you are suppose to grow old with. I have been married for 15 years. We have been through a lot together and it just brings us closer. Your children are lucky to have parents like you all.
Thank you for sharing. Going through a separation right now. From a not a bad man but we weren't happy. I also didn't want to lose my marriage despite us being toxic at times and apathetic the rest. It is comforting to see and hear other people's story that despite there not being some huge drama, being unhappy is a reason. Love you always 💓
After 15 years I started thinking and believing that I deserve BETTER! Thank you Mariaa ❤️
Better late than never bbg 🖤🖤
It was 13 for me, haha! Can't believe how long I stayed!
So proud of you. What a great little family you've built! Good job babygirl!
I just got out of a relationship with a person who manipulated me for 9 years, and honestly your videos are a big reason I had the strength to do that and that I realized I deserved to do that. So thank you for teaching me, and thank you for sharing your story with us 🖤
I remember watching your videos from around the time you were going through your divorce and feeling your pain through the screen. That was really the turning point for my own life.
It took us a while but look
Where we are bbg! I’m so proud of you and I’m so happy I could play a small role in your masterpiece of a life 🖤✨✨
No one has ever described a divorce situation that I could identify with so much… except that it took me 15 years. Everything you said was so familiar and so true…
I did the same thing when I was 19 I moved out because of my strict parent! To get that freedom that I wanted I remember when we did feel out of love n when he did! I wish I would of heard this words back then! But still makes me think that I was not the only one that went theu something like this that it was not just me being rebellious thanks for sharing your experience! You can’t imagine how much your words are helping me! Even if it has been years since then! But no one ever really understood my pain I had keep going forward baby girl I am so glad that your have your family now! And happy n thriving!
I came to your channel thinking your Brandons girlfriend so you will have funny videos. I stayed watching your videos because you are so open and honest and just an amazing person. You are making me actually properly think about myself and want to improve myself. You are such an amazing person and you deserve the absolute best life. Thank you for being you x
I never write comments or speak openly about my personal life via the internet…. However when you said “get out, get out now”, I felt as though you were speaking directly to me and anyone in my current situation. I just broke up with my boyfriend last night, not because he’s a bad person, but because we just aren’t right for each other. I keep having doubts about it…. But you saying that helped assure me that I made the right decision. Thank you
I am so happy for you finding your way out of the dark 💓 I am so happy you found your person in Brandon . . I def had tears through this because you honestly gave me hope that I can find that someone someday that will accept myself and my kids 💕 thank you for this video
This just hit me so hard. Thank you for making this. Even if it was hard for you to make, I'm sure so many people needed to hear this.
Oh man.. I felt this so very hard. I was married when I was 20 and I now know that it was because I wanted that freedom coming from a strict Hispanic family. I had changed so much and didn’t recognize who I was trying to make our marriage work. With a son 3 years in and tried everything I could for 3 more years. I got out because I knew it wasn’t something that my son should look up to. We went through the same thing! Lol and then I met my soulmate. He’s the one i was meant to be with ❤️ WE DESERVED BETTER AND WE GOT IT!
I’m so proud of you & how much you have grown , I first found Brandon on here and then I found you and since then I been so happy to see your videos every day you boost my confidence as a mom and a women ❤️ I love to see how much positivity you give
We are so happy for you and your journey and so blessed you have Brandon. You two are amazing 🥺
I can’t stop crying I am so happy for you. I have watch y’all for about 3-4 years now and I have watch you relationship grow and become so good. I have watched you over video being to to glow and blossom with so much happiness. Both of y’all videos are amazing and get me through my day sometimes. And I am sooo happy for you. You are amazing, gorgeous, and a wonderful mother.Abd I hope 10x more happiness come in your future cus you deserve it. You deserve all of it.
This gives me hope. Honestly as a single mom of 2 I’ve been super broken and I’ve had to fix so much of myself while constant giving to my kids. I know things will work out and get better, so thank you for sharing your story 🥺
I'm SO GLAD YOU MADE THIS VIDEO!😊 YOU ARE AMAZING!!!! I'm happy you and Brandon got together... FINALLY! Both of you are AWESOME, and I've been watching you both grow for over 7-8 years now! I think Autumn was 3,or 4 at the time... BOTH you, and Brandon gave me much more happiness in my life, as I was SO DEPRESSED, and needed a laugh, and something to help me back to being the person I used to be. I'm SO THANKFUL FOR YOU BOTH BEING ON RUclips, and sharing your lives with me, and so many others! I've been housebound for so many years, and struggle with COPD. I look forward to seeing your videos, and wish you more success in your journey (s)! Best wishes for the future, and the new baby on the way! God bless you!
You deserve every happiness love. Honestly. I'm a domestic survivor. The things that were done, even though its been 17 years, still haunt and torture me. And when I finally got out, I swore I was done with dating. I wanted to be alone. Two months later, I met my best friend. At a tattoo shop. He was the artist. I went back every weekend for tattoos just to hang out with him. The age difference kind of made us stand offish at first, he's 25 years older than me. I was 20 at the time. But it decided to take the leap. He had been hurt too, and had been through a bad marriage, so it was a hard road for the both of us. Our lives have been so full of road blocks, and the craziest scenarios that would have crushed either of us alone, but together, we've made it through. We have 2 beautiful kids, and I couldn't imagine living one day without him. When you know they're the one, there's no denying it. And the love that you and Brandon have for one another is eternal. I've watched him since he was living in his car, and I've seen the changes in the both of you, and you can tell how happy you both truly are. And I couldn't be happier for you, cause you both deserve it. And you can weather any storm if you have each other to lean on. 🖤
And now she is married to her person, And they make the cutest couple! So happy for you, Brandon, Autumn and Jameson. I wish you all a lifetime of happiness and good health!
Brandon is father material.
He puts so much effort to take care of autumn and Jameson.
He takes care of Gloria the way she wants to be taken care of.
Brandon is a big softie for his family.
The universe is crazy. I am sobbing because I needed to hear this so much. I love my bf. He's incredible in so many ways. But I'm not happy and there are things missing that can't be fixed.
Thank you for these words.
GIIIIRRRRLLLLL you have me in tears, like you I didn't think I could leave, it took me 14 yrs to realize this. I'm in a wonderful relationship with someone who is supportive and my friend. I have to teens and I love their father for helping me bring them into this world, but we were not good for each other. I chose me and decided to leave, working on my own divorce currently, it's been about 3 years.
13 for me. Isn’t it insane how long it took us to realise?
@@missionsquirrel yes it is
Just found this video and cried through the second half, currently living in the middle of the video. Not yet divorced, but hoping one day I have what you and Brandon have! Love your little family♥
Thank you for opening up to us, even though it's not necessary. Growing from pain and frustration is a beautiful thing.
You never owe us anything but we appreciate you so much and love that you tell your stories on your time. I think it’s been 3 years or so that I’ve started following Brandon, and then you and from the first videos of you guys, you could tell he was in love with you. I met my person when I was 18, I got out of an abusive 3 yr relationship and met my husband 2 weeks after moving back home, getting a new job and turning 18. We’ve been together 22 years now. You have a beautiful family and I love that you let us follow along 💜🖤💛🤍
You are so strong and amazing. I am so glad you have made these huge steps and are so happy now ❤ seeing your life now is amazing you can see your happiness
Wow. You made me cry! I'm on that crazy train of a divorce. Been on it for over a year. But you have given me hope. And, you know what? I am worth it. Thank you for this video.
We love and appreciate your honesty bbg🖤🖤
BBG... from the bottom of my 🤍, thank you for this. The beauty, integrity, and fragile vulnerability that you shared will help so many that watch this (and many of your other) videos. All my love and appreciation 💕
I watched this yesterday and really took in your words. I am going to be selfish for once and come back from the darkness. Thank you for sharing.
So so true! Thank you for being so honest and vulnerable! So glad you're happy now. 🥰🖤💜
I needed to hear this today. I'm struggling so bad in my marriage, and I have no clue what to do. 😥💔😭. I come from divorced parents who separated on and off since I was 6yrs old and my sister is divorced times 2 now. Happiness is everything. I just want to feel it again.
I had to let go of a 7 yr situationship that I was in. I felt like this person was only wanting me for one thing and never wanted me for me and I wasn't happy. I feel so much happier now that I can focus on what I want and am working on how to communicate my feelings. It's gonna hurt but in the end, you have to go through that hurt to get to your true happiness. So now I'm juat waiting on God to send me my person and I'm just gonna my time with myself. This video is beautiful and inspiring. Thanks for sharing your story love
This was so emotional… so raw.. thank you for this! You are such an amazing woman! So inspiring! I love love love you! I’m so glad I followed you when I did.. I wasn’t in the best place.. I now have an amazing cute little family!❤️
The power of sheer will 🥰🥰🖤🖤👏🏽
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve watched this video. I’m going thru the same thing, however I keep getting held back because I don’t want to hurt him regardless of the pain he continues to cause me. Thank you, thank you so much for reminding me that happiness is in fact attainable, and that I do deserve it. I’ve watched you grow so much and am so happy for your little family! It gives me so much hope! Blessings!
I am cheering for you so hard bbg I am so proud of you!!!
THANK YOU! From the bottom of my heart, thank you for this video. I left an 8 1/2 relationship that I was staying in for reasons that weren't for myself and I finally was also selfish for once and it led me to the most amazing man and I'm finally happy. This video sounded like you were speaking for me, my story, and it's so amazing to know other people have gone through the same journey, and feelings as me. This made me realize how truly co tent and happy I am with my decision. So thank you! Soooo much love from AZ! 💜💜
I needed this. Thank you. I know my person is coming, I just need to be patient. but I'm SO ready. You are SO amazing and such an AMAZING role model.
It’s so weird when you think you love someone and go through all this bad stuff..then you find your actual person and it’s SO much different and you are HAPPY all the time..I’ve been in the same situation. So glad you chose yourself and your happiness!
Thank you for opening yourself up to us! You will help so many with this video. And the way you spoke about Brandon and your family legit made me cry and that is rare when it comes to RUclips vids! I felt it in my core when you said bbg it's crazy what you deserve, today especially! Much love to you and your fam Gloria 🖤🖤
Edit: can I just say how gorgeous you look 😍
Looking back, I can say honestly that my first marriage was out of being young/dumb/wanting to believe it was love...I accepted lies and betrayals and abuse thinking that I had no other choice because I was IN it. I had to get out of it, twice, to learn. It's strange though, the one who ultimately was "my person" was someone I knew years before. It was a long and slow realization, and I think that's what gave us the foundation to find each other again. Solid footing built on years of lessons. We all deserve that kind of happy. I've followed you two on here for so long now and I am so happy for you both.
She's so amazing. Love everything about this channel
This video made me cry. You are an inspiration to SO many of us! You have such an honest, caring and beautiful soul. I guarantee by posting this video that you have given alot of women the courage to walk away and not look back! Thank you for sharing this. My relationship started at 15. We got married at 18. We got divorced at 26. I wish there was a video I had watched back then because I definitely wouldn't have stayed as long as I did. ❤
Thank you.. I was never married, but I fully understand what you mean after being with someone for 4 years. It's been 2 years now me being single but I'm understanding myself more and more as each day passes. I'm afraid I already met my person when I was in the relationship and he may not want to see me anymore (which I understand) but I feel something great coming my way. Thanks for reminding me.
You absolutely amaze me...every bit of you. You've got to be one of the strongest women I get to interact with through the internet. You give so many women so much strength. I'm happy for you, and so impressed. Sending you so much love
I love this message!! I was in a terrible toxic relationship that was mentally abusive and physically not okay. I found my person when he left for deployment we only knew each other for a couple of months prior but then got super close when he left and we FaceTimed everyday. When I was going through my bad relationship he was there for me every step of the way and one day I messaged him saying I love you, and not as a friend cause you are my best friend but more and he told me he did too and we got married shortly after he got back from deployment cause we never wanted anything to separate us. We not have a beautiful baby boy who is nine months and we are moving to Georgia.
As someone with separated (never married so no divorce) parents, having parents that dont crap on each other and can be amicable is amazing for a child involved in that. When they first split it was rough, when they legally and financially separated it was worse, the few years following it was hell. But 10 years after my entire family (both my parents, my dads partner, my siblings and their partners) sat down for a family Christmas, and it was one of the best most relaxed times we've ever had as a family. My parents get along just fine now and theres zero bad feelings or anything now. It's to the point where my mother and I stayed a week at my dads house with him and his partner. The difference between the conflict of them both saying bad things about each other to being amicable and not being nasty is a massive difference. Its important to remember that people dont have to be bad people for people to hurt and say bad things. People also dont have to say bad things just because theyre sad or hurt.
I feel like you took the words out of my mouth!! ❤️ just like you, I went through the same. Everyone deserves happiness and to feel loved.
Yes ma’am, 100% 🥰
You are an amazing person. It took me 7 years, 2 kids and multiple affairs for me to realize my kids and I deserved so much better.
I am here to say that i am so thankful for the woman you have become! I went through a really painful divorce about 10 years ago, I am still recovering from my traumas. Buy I am thankful because without realizing that I deserved more from life, I would have never met my best friend and heart mate. He is literally me just in big Teddy bear man form. I am thankful for everything I had to endure to get to this point in my life. Thank you for bringing awareness to this topic! 🖤🖤🖤
also a january 11 capricorn and my first serious relationship was toxic. the first few months i was just so glad to be wanted and so happy to not be alone. then i found out i was pregnant and i was so afraid that no one could love my daughter like her father. i also thought that if i gave him a family, like the one he didn't have, then he would grow. after 4 years, he did something awful and unforgivable and i reached my breaking point. a few months later i met my husband and my daughter fell in love with him and then i fell in love with him. we got married within two years and had a second daughter. i relate to you and your story so much. i found brandon through a video of him talking about you and autumn and i found you through him and i'm so glad i did. so happy life lead you where you are.
Another reason I'm happy I found Brandon Farris on RUclips back in 2018 was that I got to be introduced to royalty, aka you, Queen. I'm not even into make up, but listening and liking your videos that just are you expressing yourself and the kind of person that you are, has me always watching your videos. Plus you're extremely attractive, sorry haha I'm a still a guy. lol
I remember watching videos of haha "black hair, flat cap, low beard" Brandon and you making videos together with baby Autumn! Dooder Family, I'll always love you guys!
Wow! This really hit me hard. Currently going through a divorce but my light is knowing I have found my person. He makes me so happy.
It meant a lot to hear you being so open and honest
I made it to 11:11 before tissues. Honestly, it's probably a record. Y'all know how I feel about you. 🖤💜
What I love about this is that you accept your role in things not working out and you arent putting all the blame on other things. That's real maturity right there to be able to look back and say, i know I was wrong when i did this or that. Beautiful
Edit to add: watching this I finally understand where your motto came from. It's crazy what You deserve MariaGloria!!
Wait autumn is not biologically hers?!
Yes she is😂😂😂😂
I have felt alone for years with all this..I now feel inspired....you have saved me
This video was beautiful. As someone who left as well, I second this. Theres beauty in strength, but strength doesn't always feel beautiful or easy. Theres a lot of pain in fighting for yourself, but the reward that follows is something we all deserve. Thanks for sharing, and I am sure it will impact a lot of people. I am so happy for the life that you have created.
💜💜💜 Real and raw. I love that you mention your “faults” in the situation and that he isn’t a bad guy because he wasn’t right for you. Love this! Good for you, you deserve all the great things in love and life!🤩
I'm new to your channel and much older than you. There are so many women that needed to hear this. I made my choice many years ago, it wasn't easy☹️ But I raised my 2 boys on my own and I was HAPPY!!!!!! Things weren't always perfect but everything worked out in the end. I would say the worst mistake women make is thinking they can "change" someone. You have a beautiful soul, so glad you found the happiness you deserve. Never let someone dull your shine❤️
I needed this so much today. Thank you for being so transparent with us. I'm sitting here in tears saying "Baby girl, it's crazy what you deserve" The impact of that statement hit me in my core. I can't thank you enough 💜
Thank you Maria, everything you just said is what happen to me. I went through the same thing, my divorce was not fun. I wasn't sure what to do, I was not happy and was mad at myself for feeling like that. Like you said, I thought getting a divorce must only happen if your spouse beat you or cheated on you, but no it was not like that. I was just not happy and I did not like my ex husband, I was confused. I had three kids and I did not want to leave their father just for my selfishness. But I had to do what made me feel happy and sadly was to get the divorce. It was rough at first, but later I did find the one, my best friend my lover the one I will always be with. I am glad you are happy with Brandon, Brandon is such a good guy and a loving father. You deserve all of that and more.