Hi Kenny, This is how I feel. I couldn’t understand how I got on his radar. Now I know it was things in my childhood which wasn’t so great. I’m ready to lean in and embrace the pain. Thanks to you I am so much better. You are really a blessing to us!!!!!
I think that’s the normal male reaction but that’s societal conditioning and just because men like to go do something does not mean that they’re not being equally affected just like women. They have just been conditioned to suppress what they’re feeling so they’re detached and don’t notice how they’re being affected. We know neuroscientifically that men and women feel emotions equally, women are not more emotional than men, they’ve just been raised and conditioned to express their emotions. For a man, the emotional obsession will get expressed somewhere? Through addictions to work, hobbies, substances, affairs, porn, health issues… Just because they have become experts at detaching from their emotions does not mean they are not experiencing them.
I agree it's conditioning, but I acknowledge and accept while doing. I'm just saying that sitting down and talking is less helpfull than doing for myself. I like how you talked about learning. I'm currently in the middle of a nursing program and I feel so accomplished whenever I learn a new idea, submit an assignment or write a test. @@kennyweiss
"wanting to think thoughts (before we give into thoughts)" or "thinking thoughts (or rather thoughts thinking)" is by itsef a kind of "feeling" if we see it in context.
I love purple! 💜You must love purple too! The purple draws me to you. I got suckered into a relationship with another Narcissists!🙄 1st one was overt!👿 This one was a covert!😢 But I Did Recognize, and Ran away! I have had to go homeless twice now, to get away from these toxic people! I need to study up more, to figure out Why I keep doing this to myself?😢💔 TY 4 what u do! I appreciate your insite! Your brutal truths! 💜 I hope I can find someone who Loves me, the way narcs promise they will love you?🙄 It's a trick, tho? They just Say what u want to hear! They don't Actually DO what they say? 😢💔 I am going to watch a bunch of videos, from you and others, and figure this out, and finally find happiness and Real Love!💝💜🍑🍑
I don't want to be entirely disconnected ... alone. And I'm certainly not going to dream anymore. It never happens. Been 44 years.
Hi Kenny,
This is how I feel. I couldn’t understand how I got on his radar. Now I know it was things in my childhood which wasn’t so great. I’m ready to lean in and embrace the pain. Thanks to you I am so much better. You are really a blessing to us!!!!!
Adults who had secure childhood attachments don't seem to suffer
You are so very right and describing it perfectly how we should live .. love ourselves.
For women it seems helpful to talk about your feelings, for guys, (personally speaking) I just go do something.
I think that’s the normal male reaction but that’s societal conditioning and just because men like to go do something does not mean that they’re not being equally affected just like women. They have just been conditioned to suppress what they’re feeling so they’re detached and don’t notice how they’re being affected. We know neuroscientifically that men and women feel emotions equally, women are not more emotional than men, they’ve just been raised and conditioned to express their emotions.
For a man, the emotional obsession will get expressed somewhere? Through addictions to work, hobbies, substances, affairs, porn, health issues…
Just because they have become experts at detaching from their emotions does not mean they are not experiencing them.
I agree it's conditioning, but I acknowledge and accept while doing. I'm just saying that sitting down and talking is less helpfull than doing for myself. I like how you talked about learning. I'm currently in the middle of a nursing program and I feel so accomplished whenever I learn a new idea, submit an assignment or write a test. @@kennyweiss
some men go do something and end up talking about stuff. I prefer this as well since moving the body helps with stress while talking about stuff.
Great video Kenny! 👍
"wanting to think thoughts (before we give into thoughts)" or "thinking thoughts (or rather thoughts thinking)" is by itsef a kind of "feeling" if we see it in context.
Thank you Mr Weis
Thank you thank you thank you! You help me more than ANYTHING else I am trying to learn!
Wow right on point Kenny! Thank you for opening my eyes and my soul❤
You look good in purple Mr Weiss .
You've made me laugh so much...😂🎉 I wonder about the dopamine...
How do you feel without being a victim?
One feels so light after the obsession is over 🩷💃💃
❤ and 💡 😇🙏✨️
What is wrong with the small finger of your hand?
Broke it several times, and have had multiple surgeries
I love purple! 💜You must love purple too! The purple draws me to you. I got suckered into a relationship with another Narcissists!🙄 1st one was overt!👿 This one was a covert!😢 But I Did Recognize, and Ran away! I have had to go homeless twice now, to get away from these toxic people! I need to study up more, to figure out Why I keep doing this to myself?😢💔 TY 4 what u do! I appreciate your insite! Your brutal truths! 💜 I hope I can find someone who Loves me, the way narcs promise they will love you?🙄 It's a trick, tho? They just Say what u want to hear! They don't Actually DO what they say? 😢💔
I am going to watch a bunch of videos, from you and others, and figure this out, and finally find happiness and Real Love!💝💜🍑🍑