MOVING VLOG + HOW IT’S GOING

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  • Опубликовано: 29 дек 2024

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  • @bellabana
    @bellabana 2 месяца назад +12

    Matt is the one that’s always talking so unless Jesse interrupts occasionally he’d never get a word in or give his opinion as Matt has a very dominant personality.

  • @lesliedavid6379
    @lesliedavid6379 Год назад +292

    I like when Jesse "interrupts" you Matt. It makes the conversation more natural and authentic. Jesse is so sweet and your dynamic together makes the videos genuine. Don't change a thing.

    • @LovePeaceGratitude369
      @LovePeaceGratitude369 Год назад +5

      Agree!❤

    • @Marcela.Sridevi
      @Marcela.Sridevi Год назад +10

      Jesse is the nicest and sweetest person, any "interruption" is very welcome, I love his insides in the videos.

    • @mindkillergames
      @mindkillergames Год назад +12

      exactly it's impossible NOT to interrupt someone who is always talking lol

    • @riannapiatt7231
      @riannapiatt7231 Год назад +6

      I agree, it also makes it more of a collaboration rather than Matt controlling everything lol

  • @lukespurgeon5964
    @lukespurgeon5964 Год назад +594

    I love all the videos you and Jesse make, but these last few about the move have been extra special. It feels like you've both kinda peeled back the curtain a bit and are showing us the real struggles, emotions, and excitement that you're both experiencing through this journey. You both always show us the real you, but it's often about fun stuff, little projects here and there, events, etc. And we absolutely love it!!! These past few vids have just been showing us another side of life, a new adventure, and everything that's going into it. Thank you for sharing, thank you for letting us come with you through this, thank you for being so real. I'm so glad you've had Jesse's parents, Dominique and Nic helping you. Being surrounded by people who truly love you is so important! And Jesse, like Matt said, keep on interrupting as much as you want! It's exactly that dynamic between you two that is so magical and that we love!

    • @ruthbickerstaffe1915
      @ruthbickerstaffe1915 Год назад +7

      I fully agree with everything you say💗🍁

    • @ruthbickerstaffe1915
      @ruthbickerstaffe1915 Год назад +20

      I normally do not say what I do, but watching this video and seeing your stress ( and a little sadness) at leaving your home where you had done so much it’s very hard. I am a long time Realtor here in Canada and I am always with my clients, especially on moving day. Selling a beloved home is always very stressful and as it gets closer to moving day, it is very hard. Especially when you sell your very first home and you have to leave behind your memories that you made in that home. Matt I am so pleased that you are so “strong”. Jessie needs some extra TLC at this time. This is good that you are sharing your true feelings for others who will be watching and moving. These are perfectly normal feelings. I discovered your channel a few months ago and I love you both and your horses. I grew up on a farm in Ireland, I loved farming and especially our Dairy Herd and the few horses we had but I had to spread my wings and make my own way in the world and here I am now. I look forward to seeing you settle into this location for some time while you search for your forever home. Blessings on your new home and stables.☘️🐴🐴🐴🌠

    • @fionaweiher3808
      @fionaweiher3808 Год назад +12

      I think Jesse is having more of a problem with the move

    • @donnapalmeri9573
      @donnapalmeri9573 Год назад +4

      WELL SAID,PERFECTLY!!!

    • @lukespurgeon5964
      @lukespurgeon5964 Год назад +13

      @@fionaweiher3808 I think they are both experiencing a lot of emotions regarding the move, good emotions and the tough ones. I think they just express and show what they are feeling differently. I'm just glad they have each other to lean on through the whole journey! How lucky they are to be able to share this life with the people, horses, and dogs they love!

  • @euneiros
    @euneiros Год назад +147

    Jesse raising his hand when he wants to speak is so cute 😭

  • @donna3786
    @donna3786 Год назад +232

    Jesse, you're adorable ❤❤❤ interrupt as much as you like ❤❤❤....sorry Matt

  • @Keeper0fmyHEART
    @Keeper0fmyHEART Год назад +129

    I personally think Jesse bring comic relief to Matt. Matt, your wonderful, but you have a tendecy to get stuck in 1 thought. I do the same so i can appreciate when another does it. Jesse just nails these random seeming thoughts that pull Matt out of the thought hole he's falling into. Its absolutely the funniest dynamic to watch and you just know they do this all the time.

  • @Wonderwomanstarlight
    @Wonderwomanstarlight Год назад +171

    In Jesse’s defense, if you’re not the one always talking you do have to interrupt.😂❤

    • @Dwell_In_Magic_369
      @Dwell_In_Magic_369 Год назад +10

      Exactly.

    • @Squimbelina
      @Squimbelina Год назад +20

      Haha exactly! Matt is obviously a lovely guy but I can imagine it might be hard to get a word in edgewise sometimes 😂

    • @IrishMist640
      @IrishMist640 Год назад +3

      👏👏👏👏YES!!

  • @silke4fitness762
    @silke4fitness762 Год назад +87

    I Think its normal that Jesse says something too. Just natural. Jesse is such a nice person. Everybody loves Jesse and Matt.

  • @paulamckibben1317
    @paulamckibben1317 Год назад +88

    Matt give Jesse an extra big hug from all of us mother hens who want to hug him and tell him it's all going to be fine ❤❤

  • @coldnuit
    @coldnuit Год назад +57

    Also people need to stop getting offended on other ppl's behalf. Matt literally said Jesse can interrupt as much he wants, he doesn't care. So why can't others just let them be.

  • @scyla3969
    @scyla3969 Год назад +63

    Jesse looks like he desperately needs a big hug and some time to morn the home he had to leave behind. Matt is already plotting the future and so much that it feel overwhelming, even for me as a viewer. Prime example for Typ A and B personalities 😅 i hope both will settle well in the new temporary home and that the next home will be an absolute dream where they both can live out their dreams. Great to see that the horses are doing great

  • @audrey3334
    @audrey3334 Год назад +15

    Love how that pet psychic -horse communicator was told by your beautiful stallion Emperio that you would be moving- a year ago (I came here from that video)! Amazing

  • @madison2535
    @madison2535 Год назад +103

    2:25 "Excuse the mess" He says while showing off the most stunning spaces hahaha. But very excited for you guys! I hope things haven't been TOO stressful or exhausting. Eager to see what the future holds for the both of you ❤ For now though, I hope you can rest and reset for a while amidst the changes.

  • @lavignemorte
    @lavignemorte Год назад +99

    Jesse is just adorable! 🥰

  • @potterlinda02
    @potterlinda02 Год назад +95

    Jesse you are absolutely adorable...I see why Matt loves you.....hang in there guys...it gets better...

    • @tesva0604
      @tesva0604 Год назад +1

      Can I ask? I am like new follower here and I am still not sure, if they are together or if are they just friends? 😅

    • @Ninntjeee
      @Ninntjeee Год назад

      @@tesva0604they are just best friends haha

    • @ellaburton4650
      @ellaburton4650 Год назад +22

      @@tesva0604they are together x

    • @donnapalmeri9573
      @donnapalmeri9573 Год назад +2

      I believe they are "together",i.e. more than "friends".😊@@tesva0604

    • @PinkAnxmal
      @PinkAnxmal Год назад +22

      @@Ninntjeeeyou must be blind if you can’t see they are together x

  • @lelandpeck4585
    @lelandpeck4585 Месяц назад +2

    You both a very special. I love how you talk things out (go ahead and interrupt all you want Jesse) Matt is very gentle and accepts your interrups very graciously. Looking forward to catching up with all the older vlogs.

  • @sinthaasmara1720
    @sinthaasmara1720 Год назад +37

    It's actually very common for a person with ADD to interrupt someone. We don't do it with bad intentions, we just remember Random stuff at Random times and we otherwise forget what we wanted to say haha. He means well and it's so sweet how u handle that Matt. You seem like such an understanding person and know how to deal with a personality like that. Love you guys, greetings from Denmark.

  • @maria-k3g9u
    @maria-k3g9u Год назад +32

    With the interrupting point, nothings an issue until people on the internet decide to make it an issue. Love this more lifestyle home/moving series!

  • @sunflowermyeyes9758
    @sunflowermyeyes9758 Год назад +11

    Their dynamic is so sweet cause Jesse can be all over the place and emotional and hyperactive. He’s an open book and feels a lot all the time, and can also be snippy when irritated or grumpy haha and Matt has to have everything and his thoughts in order, is very level headed and eloquent. But can also be a bit serious or too much of a perfectionist. And Jesse brings light and chaos and warmth into Matt‘s life, whereas Matt seems to ground Jesse and help him calm down and feel secure and safe. And they both don’t take themselves too seriously and are evidently each other’s biggest supporter and fan. The level of trust, fond and connection these two have, is really lovely. And also on top the hilarious bickering 🥹 haha all the best for you two and all your future endeavours, dreams and life together ❤

  • @danielscott8180
    @danielscott8180 Год назад +14

    I'm not even interested in horses, but I'm enjoying these couple dynamics. Hilarious. I didn't even know you both existed until about a week ago.

  • @scott609
    @scott609 Год назад +18

    I just recently discovered you guys. It is great to see a young gay couple living their lives to the fullest. Folks like you and others (e.g. Tom Daley and Dustin Lance Black) are serving as great role models for young gays trying to navigate the world around them. Being 16 and seeing that you can be gay and very well adjusted and happy can give young gays hope for their own futures. I am so happy for you two and for your love and success.

    • @choco3424
      @choco3424 Год назад +3

      fyi They haven't really put a label on their relationship publicly so us fans just kinda sit here and watch them be whatever they are. It's great! Also we know nothing about their sexuality. All we really know is no girlfriends :)

    • @scott609
      @scott609 Год назад +2

      @@choco3424 I take it that because their focus is always on the horses, discussing their relationship is not something the horsey set would find interesting.

    • @choco3424
      @choco3424 Год назад +3

      @@scott609 Yea and it also helps keep fetishizers away yk

  • @ady1gilb
    @ady1gilb Год назад +13

    So like Jesse to offer a caring, supportive, physical gesture to Matt when he himself would so greatly appreciate the same act of kindness! 🥲

  • @kerrylaw100
    @kerrylaw100 Год назад +18

    Matt I feel Jesse has to jump in because you do all the talking haha I’m glad you said online that you’re happy for Jesse to speak up anytime he is gorgeous ❤

  • @yummboy2
    @yummboy2 Год назад +9

    Moving is always stressful. Matt and Jesse are lucky to have each other for support. They are young and healthy, and they will be OK.

  • @stevec404
    @stevec404 Год назад +57

    Moving is always stressful, even when it's for improvement. Give yourselves time to get away and relax...even a short distance from the new place. When you return, the issues will still be there; and you will be refreshed enough to tackle them calmly.

  • @jhorvers
    @jhorvers Год назад +11

    I wished I could crawl through the screen, give Jesse a hug and crawl back again. Moving is always stressful, especially when you don't know where your next "permanent" home is going to be. Try to take it day by day for now and please just be you.. Just keep interrupting everyone when you want to say something.. You are no more or less than anyone else and that's just a wonderful part of your personality. It will help you get through this emotional rough patch if you just throw it out there so it's not getting stuck with the rest of the worries, feelings and all the other stuff that's going through your mind. You will be okay.. You will find the perfect house to turn into your perfect home again together! Just keep putting one foot in front of the other, slow down when you feel you need to and sprint when you feel you can! Give all the beautiful horses and the dogs a kiss, take a moment to breath and remember that tomorrow their will always be another day! ❤️

  • @RiverWoods111
    @RiverWoods111 Год назад +9

    I am 59 years old, and I have lived in around 40 houses or more. I am planning my next big move 3000 miles across the US. This time I want to use a moving company. You two will find a perfect wonderful ranch perfect for your businesses and horses with a beautiful home on it to make your own. By the way, I still hate the moving process, but I love the new adventures!

  • @plarkin6433
    @plarkin6433 Год назад +21

    Im glad you have each other.
    Loved Jesse dancing with doggy😊
    Thank you
    God bless you

  • @ingriddevries2637
    @ingriddevries2637 Год назад +10

    I am a mum to a teenage boy, and I just want to give you both a motherly hug! I can see the emotions going through both of you, and it is going to be ok ❤

  • @debbiethomas3687
    @debbiethomas3687 Год назад +9

    Walks into living room, "Nothing from in here is coming with us..." Dog on sofa looks like he hopes that doesn't include him! I love the flooring you had put down in there, it's really beautiful. Moving is stressful. You put a lot of yourselves into that house to make a home, and you did a damned good job so it was going to be hard when the realisation actually hit you. It will be lovely to look at other places and know you can make them into a lovely home to suit yourselves, but you'll never forget your first "own home".

  • @Maine931
    @Maine931 Год назад +15

    I”m sorry, but Jesse is the cutest. For the record, we don’t care if Jesse interrupts:)

  • @morganshellswell9753
    @morganshellswell9753 Год назад +30

    I adore you both so much ! My heart is with Jesse you could tell he was very attached with the house change is hard ! Can’t wait to see more of your guys journey !!! So nice having the horses in one place !

  • @JD-dg8lu
    @JD-dg8lu Год назад +45

    Letting go of a place you’ve loved and created is very hard. I know the feeling. It’s not just a house/a property…it’s your beautiful home. And you will create another beautiful amazing space I have no doubt. Take some time to digest and settle in. Thanks for taking us along on your journey.

  • @SallyTuckey
    @SallyTuckey Год назад +10

    Jesse, you are L.O.V.E.L.Y…….and yes, you keep interrupting Mattia!
    After all, he’s very good at interrupting you!!! 🤣

  • @cyndiebill6631
    @cyndiebill6631 Год назад +66

    It’s hard to move from a place you Love. Just think of it as another chapter of your lives. You have your horses and your beautiful dogs. Think of it as another adventure in you wonderful, amazing lives. ♥️🤗👍

  • @susanfitch1994
    @susanfitch1994 Год назад +8

    A very large blessing with parents helping - and friends.

  • @CarterCarter-up6gb
    @CarterCarter-up6gb Год назад +24

    Thanks for being so authentic. Moving is tough for so many reasons. I have moved numerous times in my life and I have this sense that it takes time for our spiritual selves, if you will, to make the transition. It takes some time to feel "whole" again. Just breathe!!

  • @liesbethopen
    @liesbethopen Год назад +6

    Thank you Matt, for saying “leaving the house, you love, hurts”. I realize now what hurted so much a few moves ago. It never appeared to me that even a 15th time moving can hurt.

  • @denisebair9542
    @denisebair9542 Год назад +6

    Jesse don’t worry bout the interrupts! You’re perfect! You and Matt are perfect! You don’t need to change a thing!

  • @joannekucks4343
    @joannekucks4343 Год назад +9

    I loved seeing all the bobbing horse heads with Jesse in the new stable!

  • @be-happy
    @be-happy Год назад +27

    Lol, when Jesse raised his finger!!!😂 I would just like to bring out, when Matt talks, he hardly takes a break, so Jesse can hardly get a chance to say something, lol

  • @emialice3825
    @emialice3825 Год назад +8

    Moving is super stressful and it’s perfectly okay to be emotional :) you aren’t leaving behind the memories, each other, the doggies, and the horses! They are all staying with you and staying the same ❤

  • @KellyAnn1997
    @KellyAnn1997 Год назад +14

    Aww I always want to give Jesse a hug lol.

  • @law7897
    @law7897 Год назад +9

    I love how you both said Jesse was moving things around and was literally just dancing with Mazy. Good luck in your new home. I hope you and your horses are very happy xx

  • @shinebright3789
    @shinebright3789 Год назад +54

    All the best ! You two made my daaayyyy,
    much love.
    Also, I don't think Jesse is interrupting ! He is joining the conversation which is super fun. I love it when both of you converse and specially when Jesse spice things up in Matt's vlogs ahaha. In all honesty though, I rewatch the parts where Jesse and Matt are communicating because the dynamic is super fun and Jesse's chaotic energy combined with the calm energy of Matt calms me down, so I wonder who the heck commented that Jesse is "interrupting". If having a conversation is called interrupting, hope Jesse will continue to do JUST that because I love watching those convos, and Matt is cool with it
    Amazing vlog, Matt. Love how solid, composed and well-thought you are. Thank you for taking us through your journey.

    • @chasingfences1302
      @chasingfences1302 Год назад +16

      I love hearing Jesse add to the conversation and hope he continues to do so. 💖💖

    • @audreymaqks
      @audreymaqks Год назад +14

      100% agree. Who ever said Jesse interrupts was wrong. In my world that is called a conversation. You two know what you want and where your going . Ignore negative comments. ❤

    • @chasingfences1302
      @chasingfences1302 Год назад +10

      I was curious to see how many people commented that Jesse was interrupting. Out of over 1100 comments, I found just ONE person said Jesse was interrupting so they had to stop watching Matt's video. I love to hear Jesse join in the conversation and hope he doesn't stop 💝💝

    • @paulamckibben1317
      @paulamckibben1317 Год назад +8

      Jesse doesn't interrupt.. he contributes in the sweetest way ever.. don't ever stop "interrupting" Jesse!! ❤️ ❤️

    • @donnapalmeri9573
      @donnapalmeri9573 Год назад +2

      I fell in LOVE with JESSE the very first time I saw Him!! He is my DREAM!!😊❤💘

  • @MiriamPendleton
    @MiriamPendleton Год назад +4

    Hang in there, Jesse - you seem so sad. I hope you and Matt find a suitable property quickly and can make it more beautiful than your old place. This is on a way smaller scale but my husband and I just remodeled our kitchen doing all the work ourselves. We made a rule: No Yelling. It was very helpful and reduced the stress of two amateurs doing a tricky and protracted project. It came out great, by the way. I hope your move comes out great, too!

  • @debbiegroshong1363
    @debbiegroshong1363 Год назад +8

    It’s very hard to close a chapter and start a new one. You learn about each other and grow together with those changes. When hard times come you’re better prepared to manage them. Losing your privacy in such a big way must be very stressful. You went from a private home to a public stable which must be truly scary knowing how much you both value your privacy. You will weather this change and find happiness and comfort in this new chapter. My thoughts are always with you both!

  • @nang.s.8869
    @nang.s.8869 Год назад +8

    A lot for two 27 year olds to take on, I am sure they will be okay as long as they lean on each other. Good luck guys❤

  • @EvaAliceD
    @EvaAliceD Год назад +5

    The voice of Jesse is so emotional it talks to your heart ❤ You both are such adorable people and your horses wow they are divine 😍😍

  • @davidhorwood6741
    @davidhorwood6741 Год назад +7

    Oh feel for you both! Moving is stressful especially when we have loved where we lived, but need to move as you are growing in all directions. So wonderful that your animal family are with you. The horses looked super chilled. ❤

  • @ashleighmackenzie8670
    @ashleighmackenzie8670 Год назад +3

    Jesse has nice manly working hands. And yes I know he’s gay but I can still appreciate his attraction. Aside from his face obviously. And just the sweetest soul. ❤They are so well matched. Cause Matt is clearly stunning and seems a real polite, well mannered person who is really thoughtful and considerate towards Jesse ❤

  • @karenbeisterveld6923
    @karenbeisterveld6923 Год назад +16

    Yep, it's not easy...and especially when you don't go straight to your new place..It's downsizing first which is a blow in the face when you realise you are more attached to comfort than you thought..Well a good school to get back to basics with love and understanding
    You will get this..don't worry❤❤

  • @paulamckibben1317
    @paulamckibben1317 Год назад +8

    Moving is such an upheaval.. you can never underestimate the toll it takes physically and emotionally.. so glad you had friends and family to help carry you through.. means so much to get that support. You'll no sooner get yourselves settled and your dream property will come along.. You two are just the best.. especially when Jesse "interrupts" 😍 😍

  • @susiew.9012
    @susiew.9012 Год назад +18

    Thank you for taking us along for the next chapter. Yes moving is very stressful especially with the amount of stuff and animals also. It will get better what you learned this time will be useful to you as you gallop your way to your forever home you Matt and Jesse are a joy to watch as you all navigate this lovely journey. Love and hugs from the UK. 🐕🐎💝

  • @chanteuse1978
    @chanteuse1978 Год назад +7

    Moving is so tough! It’s chaotic, emotional, and exhausting. Thanks for being vulnerable and letting us see the struggle. All the best to the two of you as you search for your dream home!

  • @ninakaiser2930
    @ninakaiser2930 Год назад +6

    It’s so nice to see you sitting down to talk to us. I enjoy watching the dynamic between the two of you. „Double the amount of time you need then you might be fine“. That’s it 😅 It takes some time to really feel at home at a new place. You will be fine. And it will get better. Thank you for sharing how you feel at the moment with us!

  • @ProFriend
    @ProFriend Год назад +3

    Moving is nearly always a stressful time. It can negatively impact even the most solid relationships, so keep that in mind and devote some time to caring for each other's mental health.

  • @bkm2797
    @bkm2797 Год назад +22

    Aww, moving is always stressful, even when you are organized. Not surprised to see you feeling so much all at once, I was amazed how matter of fact you two were moving from your lovely jewel of a property in your last Vlogs. I still think you are handling it well, it's a lot! When you are ready Love to see what your apartment looks like. So glad you and your beautiful animals are all together now, this is going to be fun. Matt and Jesse, Thanks for sharing, see you soon!

  • @pjk1714
    @pjk1714 Год назад +4

    Guys, you literally created a home together. So many changes and personal touches. It's only natural it hits you square in the eye when you close the door for the last time.
    Working and temporarily living in the same place doesn't create separation between the two and feels like camping until you find that special place.
    Look for good bones and total the projects in phases to determine changes after viewing. That gauges the efforts to live there and validates how far you want to fall into that hole.
    Make a list now of need now's vs compromise now until fixed. Otherwise confused debates will add to stress.
    Very happy for you walking this path together ❤

  • @tia4263
    @tia4263 Год назад +6

    I'm super excited for your next chapter. All the horses are now in the same place- no traveling in-between or spacing out your time, you are in a much smaller living place- less time on cleaning or worrying about 'house'- I think the energy that you were putting into your old property is going to be going into both your creativity, ridding and careers; VERY exciting. Your old house was beautiful and an amazing starting point, but there is so much more for you both.

  • @Inconcvable77
    @Inconcvable77 Год назад +6

    Funny Matt mentioned Jesse interrupting him on here because on Jesse channel when he has videos with Matt, Matt is always interrupting Jesse🤦😂🤷♥️ Love these two ♥️♥️♥️

  • @normanseagull4027
    @normanseagull4027 Год назад +4

    It makes so much sense to have your horses at your own place. Manifest the ideal property.

  • @XXfallenangel
    @XXfallenangel Год назад +1

    15:37 keep watching above Jesse's hand, I saw an orb. And for the next few minutes there's a few orbs flying around Matt & Jesse when they were being emotional and honest. I think that's a good sign that you guys made the right decision, and loved ones who may no longer be alive are with you right now to support you on your new successful journey. ❤

  • @anna_jl
    @anna_jl Год назад +1

    Every person goes through their own story. Saying you aren't allowed to feel your feelings because you have a different lifestyle than others is so immature. Those things don't take away the feeling of loss and grief in any way.
    Take it from someone who lost their job with a 2 week notice while at the same renting 2 apartments bc we're in the middle of moving and are also in the middle of a very stressful education application process.🥶 I have no sense of security in my life right now, but I'm still grateful for being where I am. I just want it all to be over soon. 😂 Life just gets stressful for everyone sometimes.
    I'm so happy and excited for you guys (and the horses and doggies) to get to open a new chapter in your lives. Definetly went over and subscribed to your IG, Matt. It's going to be so fun seeing all the behind the scenes! Much love❤

  • @EleanorNeville618
    @EleanorNeville618 Год назад +11

    Love seeing Jesse’s parents ❤

  • @maryvallas772
    @maryvallas772 Год назад +4

    I feel for you guys. Moving is always a major stress, especially when you know that your current situation is only temporary one and you will be moving again. Now atleast you know to give yourself more time to transition. ❤

  • @brendasimmons8149
    @brendasimmons8149 Год назад +17

    Thank you for being real & honest about how your feeling. It’s important to say it out loud. With that, you guys have so much to look forward to & hopefully your uneasy feeling will turn into a lifetime of joy once you get settled in a new home. Bless you both 🙏🏻💕🙏🏻💕

  • @KaitlyntheGardener
    @KaitlyntheGardener Год назад +6

    Matt, you’re such a great rock for Jesse. Your relationship is darling. ❤

  • @merklingassoc
    @merklingassoc Год назад +4

    Change is never easy, especially when you loved where you were before. Deep breaths and remember to open your minds and hearts to the wonderful new experiences in front of you. Also, it's important to congratulate yourselves on getting through the move & sale. It was a huge undertaking and you survived it. Love & hugs ❤🤗

  • @crystalhealingme
    @crystalhealingme Год назад +10

    After 10 moves around the world. Whenever I feel stressed I say to myself that this is the creation point or the starting point of a amazing chapter in my life. Try to laugh and rest as much as you can. May this transition station be as amazing for you as possible and I hope you find your dream property soon.

  • @annejarvis7002
    @annejarvis7002 Год назад +2

    I do feel for you both. It's so hard to leave a home where you have invested so much - not just financially, but emotionally & physically. You created a beautiful home with a work ethic, which was amazing to see. I strongly believe that these things tend to work themselves out - your forever home is out there. Your temporary 'caravan' looks lovely & the facilities for the horses are fab. Hang in there & look after yourselves - you both must be exhausted. Best wishes for all that comes next🤗

  • @sydgarcia
    @sydgarcia Год назад +3

    Learning to live in a smaller space means understanding from both sides. I wish you the best of luck adjusting. Be kind to each other.

  • @alisonjegat258
    @alisonjegat258 Год назад +4

    Jess I know how you feel when you had a meltdown I get them even when I live at my home for 23 years hope you both find a property. To make your own and do it up even better I love your old place but getting excited for the new like you said you got your horses that’s the main thing .love you both ❤

  • @dd3wc
    @dd3wc Год назад +17

    You guys were so blessed to have had the help you did. You must realize any move is going to be stressful, as it involves change. You also didn’t really have to deal with a lot of belongings because they were left behind … and as sad as it was to have left what you did, having to move it would have been way more stressful.
    The home you sold was absolutely stunning … you both did an amazing job on it. The outside gardens alone are gorgeous and breathtaking … truly it was a fairytale place. The whole property in its entirety was Best Homes magazine worthy, hands down! I hope you got a pretty penny for it … like more than you would have, had you listed it!
    Once stuff is behind you and you’re more focused on the now and moving forward, things will seem calmer. The trick is to understand there are many things you can’t control and by overreacting will not change what has, what is, or what is about to happen. Just go with the flow and control what you can and know you will get through even tough times.
    The future is exciting … I only pray you get a place that allows you to have all the horses together along with indoor/outdoor riding arenas, along with plenty of pastures for all the horses.
    Enjoy life while you have it and live with no regrets!
    🙌🙏

  • @pamelapeterson2987
    @pamelapeterson2987 Год назад +1

    I didn't know having an in-fridge ice maker was "living the American dream" LOL. You guys crack me up. So excited for you and your new adventure. I know it's just temporary for you, but several years ago, I downsized from a very large house in the city to a small home on 60 acres, and I only brought with me my very favorite possessions and sold/gave away the rest (about 75%). It was stressful, but my new home immediately became a sanctuary where I was surrounded only by everything I love and that had meaning for me, including my horses. Never have regretted it and never have missed anything I didn't take with me. Again, congratulations on this next phase.

  • @lindaallen78
    @lindaallen78 Год назад +3

    Wow, lovely comments from everyone. I kept going to put something and then thought, it's all been said. It will all be just about getting into a new routine now. Looking forward to the future, the loyal followers of this channel will be right there too. Good luck from the UK.♥

  • @cathyn3391
    @cathyn3391 Год назад +3

    The places in Matt's private channel are filled, and there is a waiting list. I, for one, am wishing they could open more places for those of us on that list, but who knows how many of us there are. I have my fingers crossed, though. I would love to have an inside look at their property hunting and eventual move. They are so good at such things, and seeing the evolution of their new home will be fascinating. Best wishes guys!

    • @chasingfences1302
      @chasingfences1302 Год назад +3

      Where do you see the waiting list? I clicked the links both times and initially saw posts that are no longer on his regular channel, so I don't have access to his private channel. I'd like to see the behind the scenes and wish he would open more spaces.

    • @cathyn3391
      @cathyn3391 Год назад +1

      I didn't see the waiting list, but got a notice that I was on it when I clicked on the subscribe button. (The second one-- the first one didn't work at all, and after some people mentioned it, Matt put up a second link. Nothing since then.) @@chasingfences1302

  • @Nomames619
    @Nomames619 Год назад +7

    Matt and Jesse. You both are Beautiful together ❤❤❤❤

  • @SunnyaNaveed
    @SunnyaNaveed Год назад +3

    I really love you guys dynamics, i am like jesse myself lost in thoughst and sentimental person so dont ever lose it you guys complement each other really well ❤❤

  • @donnasteinberg1398
    @donnasteinberg1398 Год назад +6

    Love hearing from both of you together. The next property, you will make even more wonderful than your last one. You both have exquisite taste and alway treat your horses wonderfully. Move stinks for everyone, but your moving forward. Try and get extra rest! It will help with the transition. Thanks and ENJOY!! Much love from Massachusetts 💕

  • @EleanorNeville618
    @EleanorNeville618 Год назад +2

    I think you both have so much creativity, and you used it to create your old amazing home. But the creativity is still there wanting to be used, and now there is a new opportunity to use it. You’ll create a new home even more wonderful than the last one. I can’t wait to see how that creativity unfolds ❤

  • @kathleenchild
    @kathleenchild Год назад +6

    Originally, you may have been thinking of the sale of your home from a transactional perspective until reality set in when you were packing up the life you built to move to a temporary place. You’re now unpacking your emotions (along with your clothes 😂) which I think is healthy to do. I also think it’s would be difficult to feel at home in a place you know is temporary. Maybe try and establish daily routines to help you settle as an effective routine can help reduce stress, which can lead to better mental health and less anxiety. Thanks for been honest and vulnerable about how you’re dealing with the move.
    I think Jesse interrupts Matt for clarification purposes and it is no big deal. My husband is a verbose speaker and I’m a succinct speaker so I do sometime interrupt him to get to the point faster or bring him back to the point at hand.

  • @QuineL08
    @QuineL08 Год назад +14

    so happy for you guys!

  • @livesoutdoors1708
    @livesoutdoors1708 Год назад +4

    Thanks for sharing. You and your herd are just awesome.❤ Take care of each other moving is one of the most taxing things a person(s) can do so make sure you rest too! We love watching your progress.

  • @eshaw9826
    @eshaw9826 Год назад +2

    You created such a beautiful home and my heart goes out to you for having to give it up to make way for your more expansive future.

  • @ahnie771
    @ahnie771 Год назад +10

    Thank you for bringing us along. Change is so often hard and you are young and growing. I love that you have faith in the future. You seem to complement each other and that is a great comfort when going thru these massive changes. Wishing the best for you. 😊

  • @HF19358
    @HF19358 Год назад +4

    Matt, let Jesse speak ! He was letting you know how emotional it was moving the horses. Be supportive, dont speak for him. Aww, Jesse, you are so thoughtful, supporting Matt.

  • @kharmaiz
    @kharmaiz 10 месяцев назад

    I’m a new subscriber and I’ve been binge watching all the videos on Jesse’s channel and yours, Matt. I appreciate that you have let us into your world and that you are sharing the process of moving and the struggles that come with it. A lot of people comment that Jesse is or at least seems to be having a harder time but I think that you Matt are going through a lot as well. Moving is hard, so hard. I want you to find your beautiful, new, forever home. Just remember, lean into each other during this time. Communicate and be patient with each other. I know I’m new here but I’ve been through a lot of changes in my life and looking back, I wish I had handled things differently at times. I wish you both the very best and so much happiness and a beautiful life for both of you and for your animals. I love your channels. Your videos bring me such joy. ❤️ Also, the apartment is cute. You’ll make it beautiful until you find your new place. You can make wonderful memories there until you find your forever home. ❤

  • @LoveLight9079
    @LoveLight9079 Год назад +2

    Moving is an upheaval in so many ways, emotionally, mentally and more, even if it all goes well 💕 I like real, life has its ups and downs.
    Flowers 💐 for your new home .

  • @lifebyhannah392
    @lifebyhannah392 Год назад +6

    You guys are doing great considering. Moving is always a lot even If you do it often, which I have! It’s not your age that was a factor, just less experience picking up your entire life over and over. It’s a lot of work and on mental health!
    Also, you’re “living the American dream” cracked me up 😂 I had no idea fridge ice makers were an American dream thing. Lol, but hey, I’ll take it!

  • @gailwarnock2764
    @gailwarnock2764 Год назад +2

    You are so funny I love the way you interact with each other the interruption conversation was a giggle just love watching both your vlogs they are alway enjoyable and am excited to see what happens for both your future endeavours. Cheers from the South Island of New Zealand.

  • @Wendy-bd9zu
    @Wendy-bd9zu Год назад +2

    I could never leave that beautiful house! But the new place is fantastic to, you guys are so blessed ❤ Moving is so stressful, matt is used to living everywhere but Jesse has a hard time, i hope you feel better soon! you are doing great 💪

  • @michelineduvieusart2439
    @michelineduvieusart2439 Год назад +6

    Thank you for sharing this vlog with us, and especially for doing so with sincerity and emotion. Leaving the house and moving into the appartment was a lot of work. Thank you to Jesse's parents, Dominique and her husband for all their help.
    The transfer of the horses went very well and they are enjoying their new stable and the days out in the fields.
    Jesse is a sensitive man and I discovered that Matt was just as sensitive. No criticism, on the contrary talking openly about his feelings is certainly not an admission of weakness. I like your way of life, the way you work together and the way you care for each other.
    I send you lots of positive thoughts 🤗🥰💖

  • @LiquidSummer95
    @LiquidSummer95 Год назад +3

    your matching tattoos are very cute :)
    and i know you'll get through this because you've got each other 🤍

  • @AMJDG
    @AMJDG Год назад +2

    I was a military brat and served in the military myself - so, I have moved a lot - when I was 10 years old, we moved 4 times in one year and I had to attend 4 different schools. I can't say I always liked moving but I got used to it. I always have found something great to latch onto at every new place. I hope you guys can find that something great wherever you wind up next...

  • @deborahpetschel5633
    @deborahpetschel5633 Год назад +4

    Awwww, I love you guys. This was so meaningful, to hear you share your process, but logistically and emotionally. You're doing great and it will all be wonderful. Give yourself time to process and breathe. ❤❤

  • @mariefraher8725
    @mariefraher8725 Год назад

    We sold our large seaside home in MA and downsized to our retirement home in Florida three years ago. We rented in FL and looked for a new home. We had to break down the big place with our life collections etc in two weeks. Gave much to friends and relatives, sold to new buyers, and donated so much. It is very stressful. You are on a new adventure. We are very happy where we are now, and currently helping a friend do the same thing. The new home is perfect for our stage in life. Moving is bittersweet: but once you move on and find your new home that will suit you even better, you will be happy. Life is a journey. I am with the man who, "loved the gypsy soul in" me. Much love and happiness in your future home with all your furry friends. Soon to come: all the excitement of finding your new perfect home!

  • @sharonsiegrist7183
    @sharonsiegrist7183 Год назад +3

    Hey guys I've been watching your channels for awhile now I just don't comment much. But I wanted to say it's nice to see all the horses poking their heads out of the stables. They're finally all together! Everything will work out fine just try to enjoy the journey along the way!

  • @nanetteedu
    @nanetteedu Год назад +1

    You two do so well keeping each other positive and reaching for better feelings. It's beautiful to watch.

  • @lisamclain2549
    @lisamclain2549 Год назад +2

    We just love you guys and look forward to what comes next. Great things ahead, my dears, great things ahead. Xo