How Curating Secretly Changed How We Think

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  • Опубликовано: 3 дек 2024
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  • @caylalikescats
    @caylalikescats Год назад +190

    took me 8 minutes to notice your laptop's true identity

    • @caylalikescats
      @caylalikescats Год назад +4

      @Andres-wl5cm he has an apple sticker over his HP logo so if you're not paying attention it looks like he's using a macbook laptop which is probably more expensive than the one he's using.

  • @mrfamilyfriendly4370
    @mrfamilyfriendly4370 Год назад +126

    Honestly my problem with curating your own life on social media is that you literally forget what you are actually doing. I never used to take photos on vacation until I was like 16/17, because I didn't need them, but the older I got the more I understood that social media (not necessarily people) rewards depriving yourself of a experience for the sake of promoting your "experience" outwards.
    This comes down to creating the perfect life, but not living it.
    People post on social media because attention is a good thing, we like it and it isn't terrible or even bad to want attention, but actually becoming addicted to it and craving validation, seeking it actively over anything is a bad habit to fall into.
    Excellent video.

    • @nn-hx8oe
      @nn-hx8oe Год назад +3

      goes both ways, i didnt take shit of the concerts i went to a couple years ago or even some vacations and i wish i shared some good stories or took some decent photos to have those memories in my social media, now im grinding life and i have to romantizice my shitty city life until i can do other things

  • @codeninja100
    @codeninja100 Год назад +34

    I came to this same realization recently with my art journey. I forced myself into an identity that I felt obligated to maintain. I was plotting my next art work around trends, data, and likes. Had to take a step back. Now I only wish to make the avant-garde. Releasing my most personal and niche ideas into the world and seeing which paths they may open up. The work has become the tool and brush. Life is slowly transforming into the artwork.

    • @ayodeledavid3034
      @ayodeledavid3034 Год назад +1

      Same, I used to think that if the stuff I made was to a certain level and feel intimidiated that my work was realistic or look like other people, but then I realised i wasn’t happy making work for other people so I just said fuck that I started making stuff I like whether it’s not advanced or not I’ll create my own audience

    • @XxSHadICxXx
      @XxSHadICxXx Год назад

      do you post your work online?

    • @4nem0ne
      @4nem0ne 11 месяцев назад

      I worry about doing real work since so many steal

  • @SKY.STARSIGNS
    @SKY.STARSIGNS Год назад +74

    The epilogue, you were really hitting the core of what I feel too (fashion designer now having a team and making second collection) I would love to follow your thoughts on this search more. Please don’t make content that fits into a certain box or topic, I found you because of fashion but I stayed for you personality and the way you seem different than other fashion channels. Even if you’d make a video on gaming I’d watch it because I’d figure you could give me some different perspective on that because you are so genuine and only talk about things that really interest you. Thank you and love you!

    • @TasteOfChange
      @TasteOfChange Год назад

      Ditto this sentiment. Well said @estherverbeek, thank you!

  • @olumideakingbade982
    @olumideakingbade982 Год назад +8

    The most significant part of this entirely brilliant video was the epilogue. I truly respect your honesty and openness. Your vulnerability, sharing that you indeed don't have everything figured out, and that you're also subject to the pressures of a social existence, was incredible charming. Your point of view is always appreciated and I will follow your work whatever direction you decide to take it.

  • @coolman000099
    @coolman000099 Год назад +15

    I agree with your statement “if I make it a career then it’s no longer genuine” I agree , I feel like money taints things and it’s made me nervous to pursue to a full time art career .
    I rather have a day job and use it to fund the art stuff I do. Which is specifically for me & my enjoyment. I’ve always felt like once you add money it no longer becomes only about you and fulfilling your creative urges
    & you’ve known me another perspective on that thought. Thanks for another great video.
    Btw Make whatever you want cus I’ll watch it cus it’s you :)

  • @bshaliii
    @bshaliii Год назад +10

    I think it’s easier to keep going on RUclips if you look at it as a way to document your growth and add dimension to the viewer’s individual perspective. If you niche down to one particular topic, then ofc at some point, you’re gonna be on the hunt for "content" but as most of the comments say, people have come to enjoy your personality and will keep watching if you branch out. Wishing you the best of luck in your journey!!

  • @kobbibanks5999
    @kobbibanks5999 10 месяцев назад +6

    Miss you fashionlover4, pray you are well

  • @P.Aether
    @P.Aether 10 месяцев назад +4

    You introduced me to Kiko and he's my favorite designer now. I hope you return some day. Good luck with all your projects!

  • @harsh9905
    @harsh9905 Год назад +5

    "If you never speak to another person, do you have any value at all?"
    This made me think of where different kinds of values sort of intersect, and what it means to hold one aspect of life over another. In this hypothetical, as you said, you would not have any social value, but does the worth of having social value even matter if most of it is curated for the sake of benefit for the curator? I don't know, I'd say thats for the individual to decide. But, in this age, I don't think that people even consider that deciding to place value in something other than social value is an option. Where you would go from there, idk

  • @solomonpnq
    @solomonpnq Год назад +9

    I relate to this video, especially the part you said about people needing to ruminate and think about topics longer now that we see a lot more on the internet. The way you articulated yourself in this video brought out something I couldn't myself atm, so good on you, Mr.4!

  • @charliealien5830
    @charliealien5830 Год назад +9

    You’ve got an entertaining way of making videos that shows your personality and the topic in such a superb way. Keep up the great work

  • @FoSkEtTcHy
    @FoSkEtTcHy Год назад +5

    Best video on RUclips I’ve seen in a while. You truly are very intelligent and the way you analyze is impeccable and relatable.

  • @hhhenge
    @hhhenge Год назад +3

    youre so real for that epilogue

  • @bbbbbb3734
    @bbbbbb3734 Год назад +4

    Easily my no1 favorite youtuber i think the way you think about things is great and love to hear the thought process whatever it concerns

  • @titosatyamaja
    @titosatyamaja Год назад +5

    Hi, I watched your video about good taste a while back and this is my second video of yours I’m seeing. Thank you for your insight on curation and how it plays in today’s digital atmosphere ! It’s something that I think about every now and then as well.
    I learnt something new from your video about social value and how it is a perpetual cycle enforced by the curator/influencer and the consumer/viewer. Such an interesting topic and I feel like you’re on to something !

  • @rotisseriechickenlover-jb4cc
    @rotisseriechickenlover-jb4cc Год назад +3

    last part was so real. relatable

  • @pugloveranna
    @pugloveranna Год назад +5

    thank youuuu your video was so fun it really inspired me to write a blog/ comment for one of my uni courses. super interesting and in line with a lot of thoughts I've had recently. love your videos! always like to hear your opinion

  • @manudehoyos1
    @manudehoyos1 Год назад +3

    You are going through a glow up you look great! :)

  • @bromulrich483
    @bromulrich483 10 месяцев назад +3

    please please share and post whatever you wish, I absolutely love your voice in the world, any really value what to have to say

  • @kylieelizabeth6522
    @kylieelizabeth6522 Год назад +2

    OMGGG THE LAST MINUTE YESSSS WOW, TALK MORE ABOUT THAT

  • @Gahdsmuseum
    @Gahdsmuseum Год назад

    this is how I think we all feel. we also appreciate you for the guininess and honesty. its real

  • @beatrizsantos-ve9df
    @beatrizsantos-ve9df Год назад

    i completely understand what you said in the epilogue. i graduated high school this year after spending years thinking i'd get into fashion school, but the more i started making clothes and acessories and trying to sell them during high school, the more i felt uncomfortable doing so. it really stopped being genuine. this last year i focused more on creating for myself and everything started feeling mine again, yk? i realized i liked fashion too much for it to be a job or something to share with others. or maybe i didn't like it enough to pursue it as my career. either way, at least i started getting genuinely excited about fashion again.
    about your channel, although i got interested in it because of my own interest in fashion, i actually stayed because of how sincere your opinions seem and because i find you entertaining, not really the subject you're talking about. i'd probably stick around even if you talked about your other interests, and i think that's the case for many people that watch your videos as well.
    anyways, i hope you find genuine joy in making youtube videos again, whether they're fashion related or not. thank you for all your amazing videos, wishing you luck!!

  • @pxzr
    @pxzr Год назад

    holyyyyshit bro u jus condensed the past 5 yrs of my life nd existential crisis thoughts into 1 video. truly couldn’t have worded it btr. i relate 2 every word ure so well spoken it blows my mind. ty 4 this.

  • @WillThessen
    @WillThessen Год назад +1

    Very thought provoking video. Loved it you are giving me genuine interest

  • @l00r0lll
    @l00r0lll Год назад +1

    that was so slick at the end

  • @angarchives
    @angarchives Год назад +1

    Loved this video!! Felt like it was meant for me to see at this moment. I deleted my Instagram and made a new one because I felt like I wasn’t being authentic in my last one. I’m getting to know myself more and what I like and the audience I reached wasn’t my kind of audience. So starting a new is helping me understand who I am and what I like and put more intention into my posts and projects. Thank You!!

  • @sawsankraiem6902
    @sawsankraiem6902 8 месяцев назад

    I applaud you for this video, you slayed! It’s really good! Thank you for making this

  • @stefanandreev8117
    @stefanandreev8117 Год назад

    Good point and well executed. You touch on some interesting stuff. As a professional in fashion I'm glad to see people like you pop up on the scene and offer a different perspective. It's a breath of fresh air honestly. The current state of fashion with all the media's finance coming directly from the power houses (something you've talked about in previous videos) renders the art form one dimensional and hinders growth. It's good to see someone building a platform on constructive criticism. I'm interested to see where this takes you. Hope you don't get too discouraged and quit because it would be a shame. Cheers!

  • @noahdenhartogh2942
    @noahdenhartogh2942 Год назад +3

    Talk about smaller designers that focus on quality and garment research

  • @aetherjag5670
    @aetherjag5670 Год назад +9

    Hey... I almost never comment on videos. I just wanted to say that I would watch videos that you make on whatever topic interests you. I watch your videos because I think you have interesting taste, and I think that would extend to other things - it is too bad that the algorithm is a monster and your livelihood depends on it. I certainly wouldn't mind if you sprinkled in lesser known video topics with more view-oriented ones. I'm sure most other viewers of your channel wouldn't mind either.

  • @Devananta-Rafiq
    @Devananta-Rafiq Год назад

    Brilliant video as always. You always have the most unique pov in the whole RUclips. Just trust your feeling where it going to bring you. We are gonna be here nonetheless.

  • @4nem0ne
    @4nem0ne 11 месяцев назад

    I felt the same recently. I can't honestly decide whether social media is a tool for me for my self expression or if it's professional or to bring value to other people... I think you got to find the inbetween? I think money can definitely color things but, if you don't put a value on it... it's free real estate

  • @BootsieBumfield-kc1pu
    @BootsieBumfield-kc1pu Год назад +1

    First video I've seen of yours. I'm subscribing.

    • @BootsieBumfield-kc1pu
      @BootsieBumfield-kc1pu Год назад

      I'll probably watch whatever you make tbh. This was enjoyable and inspiring.

  • @MikayeYakovlev
    @MikayeYakovlev Год назад +3

    I really hate how art, especially avant-garde art has been emptied of its contextual meaning by 'star curators'. Also, I physically fear people who don't sleep.

  • @spieleaffi7605
    @spieleaffi7605 Год назад +7

    clicked the vid for sam sulek

  • @sarthakjoshi319
    @sarthakjoshi319 Год назад +1

    As a fashionlover4 lover, I would like to share that I recently got into fashion, although I want to learn more about clothes as a subject like the construction and other technicalities so that I can better understand fashion as a whole. I have no intention to pursue design as a career but just wanna know enough to truly appreciate the amazing art form. I sometimes have a hard time following stuff. What would y'all suggest I do and what path should follow to learn? Any suggestions/resources are greatly appreciated.

  • @MarkRhoades1
    @MarkRhoades1 Год назад

    I love your videos and what you do! You are so talented! Keep doing it! You have close to 70k followers! Wow! You are the man! I do not comment enough and I wanted to give you a shout out tonight! -Mark

  • @tidalphantom0277
    @tidalphantom0277 Год назад +13

    if you read me a bedtime story i would watch it

  • @okuni1
    @okuni1 Месяц назад

    loved this video! miss ya mate

  • @peppermatch2984
    @peppermatch2984 9 месяцев назад

    one of your best videos

  • @TAFROB29
    @TAFROB29 Год назад +1

    Whats the song at 0:24?

  • @understitchYT
    @understitchYT Год назад +2

    Do you enjoy making videos though? You dont actually have to give it up if you dont like the statistics side, youre quite talented, so seeing a different part of your personality Id enjoy

  • @understitchYT
    @understitchYT Год назад

    Me having only one thumbnail ever: 👁️👄👁️

  • @unknwnfrequency
    @unknwnfrequency Год назад

    Really appreciate the epilogue

  • @Plupish
    @Plupish Год назад

    ok, where did you get that beautiful dresser behind you?

  • @pxzr
    @pxzr Год назад

    would defo watch ur videos no matter how niche and unrelated they r because i genuinely enjoy hearing ur insight nd pov on things- evn if most of ur content is fashion related the way u approach topics in general would translate into other niches and things u enjoy- thats mainly y i watch u- bcuz from the content u put out there i kno ur interest in other stuff is fueled by the same morals(?)and principles/povs u apply to ur content that b fashion related or not.

  • @rotface6969
    @rotface6969 8 месяцев назад

    the apple sticker covering the HP logo is crazy.

  • @auno_music
    @auno_music Год назад +3

    Great epilogue, and video ofc. The fct that youre analazing the industry and your surrounding with this mind set already puts you in a different position while making your art/craft . keep it up , you only need to find a source of income that dosent contaminate teh rest that you do and bum. you will be contibuting to a geniunine indepent underground antiindustry world

  • @millycohen5080
    @millycohen5080 Год назад +3

    Kind of seems like a boomer take, that curation is devalued since everyone online is a curator now? In a way, its kind of beautiful how fast ideas have to evolve since novelty gets attention. Even though the individual instagram curated profile feels permanent, what is on your feed is very impermanent. People are still curious and the idea train is moving fast. Shit posting is the new curation/ quantity over quality.

  • @sketamine3
    @sketamine3 Год назад +2

    How is the life in Antwerp going ?

  • @Blackjeans6002
    @Blackjeans6002 9 месяцев назад +1

    whered all the time go 😖😭

  • @yellowjackx5996
    @yellowjackx5996 2 месяца назад

    I can back to this video to say this has hit the nail in the coffin.

  • @redhelium4314
    @redhelium4314 Год назад

    Whats your thoughts on the brand Nofaithstudios

  • @joshuatelem8796
    @joshuatelem8796 9 месяцев назад

    My only disagreement is that I don't believe that influencers are curators. Simply because influencers are paid to promote particular products over others, therefore, they aren't curating anything, just promoting what their paid to.

  • @coolman000099
    @coolman000099 Год назад

    I can’t wait for you to have a million subs

  • @decoder478
    @decoder478 Год назад

    Love to listen to you ❤

  • @karigrandii
    @karigrandii Год назад +1

    My fav artist: VAN HOH

  • @-ryn-
    @-ryn- 11 месяцев назад

    any book recommendations ? (doesn't have to be fashion based)

  • @thehllw
    @thehllw 9 месяцев назад +1

    New video whenn

  • @l30D
    @l30D Год назад +6

    This guy is such a cutie

  • @buchola1081
    @buchola1081 Год назад +2

    I was thinking that maybe data isn't a really form of curation, but being a reaction of the curation of an algorythim, for example, the youtubers do not only think about the content of the video based on quality, they also think in a appeal to the algorithym, as some contents ( ex sensitive content) it won't get as much views as a more family friendly video would get, so the public already gets this curation from the social media based on what's best for youtube to have that content linked with it's image, so the data doesn't always mean a curation when that visibillity is not organic and spontaneous, which means a curation, coming from an algorythim. (Sorry for the shitty english, writting on my phone and not native english speaker)

  • @thecycle2001
    @thecycle2001 9 месяцев назад

    Miss you man

  • @YoogiNation
    @YoogiNation Год назад +3

    we’re social creatures. brain atrophies without it.

  • @DetGest
    @DetGest 4 месяца назад

    this is such an utopian idea at this point, but the internet and youtube started as a way to connect and share ideas and build community (and originally as a military technology I guess but whatever). Your approach to whatever topic you choose is what makes your channel so interesting, its a winning mix of style and substance. Maybe its a good idea to be less restrictive of the type of topics you choose, could it be fashion and also art or music or whatever. All the best

  • @undercooked13
    @undercooked13 Год назад

    at it's the guy again!!!!! the youtube guy

  • @tomm.w.d.3824
    @tomm.w.d.3824 Год назад

    Yes

  • @rupertheem7839
    @rupertheem7839 Год назад

    Just make what u want and starting a brand doesn't necessarily mean u have to take outside influence if u don't want to

    • @ayodeledavid3034
      @ayodeledavid3034 Год назад

      Exactly that’s what annoys me about me brands I see today they just try to copy trends and what people are doing

  • @marieastbury6905
    @marieastbury6905 6 месяцев назад

    What a genuinely "nice " guy (sorry to be generic!). But stumbled across you -new subscriber- great content ✅💯‼️

  • @antonioaugusto9872
    @antonioaugusto9872 Год назад

    Way too good

  • @78pt23
    @78pt23 Год назад

    really good video

  • @_narcissist
    @_narcissist Год назад

    bro went from old money to opium in 2 weeks

  • @mbsfashion
    @mbsfashion Год назад

    Idk what to comment. I have to watch this a few times before I can give my opinion.

  • @PERSONAIOS
    @PERSONAIOS 9 месяцев назад

    come back bro

  • @stasdemchuk5272
    @stasdemchuk5272 Год назад

    Best video

  • @Petidonutdestroyer
    @Petidonutdestroyer Год назад

    the beard is W

  • @xDemoFMJ
    @xDemoFMJ Год назад

    So glad l clicked on this video

  • @danielhakimi
    @danielhakimi Год назад

    You would probably enjoy Status & Culture by W. David Marx.

  • @lifeguy3000
    @lifeguy3000 Год назад +1

    im youre #1 fan but i dont really like the nicer background youre using. goated video tho i started learning to sew after getting inspired by your vids

  • @ellennaughton3802
    @ellennaughton3802 Год назад +1

    U make me never want to post on Instagram again

  • @skrawberrries
    @skrawberrries Год назад

    i've gotta be me.

  • @sergioolave7782
    @sergioolave7782 Год назад +1

    Fashionlover4? More like Artlover69

  • @ganggang2176
    @ganggang2176 Год назад

    Real Rare

  • @slash364
    @slash364 Год назад

    thats not a macbook

  • @meibhferrell392
    @meibhferrell392 Год назад +1

    I share your feeling of dissatisfaction with curation in art. Capitalism seems to rob all the joy in life. The vibrancy of art in the creation of the bourgeois order has decayed to such an extent it's tragic. That's not to say there is no good art, but the general malaise if our society infects art itself. As artists we do not live outside of society. We are conditioned by it. Valuing art for art's sake is untenable while art is geared towards commodity production instead of individual fulfillment.

  • @bzztthundaa
    @bzztthundaa Год назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @jameslangford4451
    @jameslangford4451 9 месяцев назад

    Come back fashionlover4!!

  • @user7kdb82b6f5
    @user7kdb82b6f5 9 месяцев назад

    sam sulek is different

  • @Midichi
    @Midichi Год назад

    Why was someone moaning in the beginning from 14 -22 seconds?

  • @BlackMetal2Fan
    @BlackMetal2Fan Год назад

    Myselflover4

  • @goodbyelucas4434
    @goodbyelucas4434 Год назад

    Deeeeeep

  • @3lbsOfBeans
    @3lbsOfBeans Год назад

    UwU XD :3

  • @Megaman.ExE7
    @Megaman.ExE7 Год назад

    I feel incredibly triggered by this video lol

  • @missquinnnn
    @missquinnnn Год назад

    no more uncomfortable breathing in background please darling

  • @julyfirst
    @julyfirst Год назад

    1st

  • @max.a.trillion3217
    @max.a.trillion3217 Год назад +4

    damn! bro looking hunkier. 🥵

    • @tidalphantom0277
      @tidalphantom0277 Год назад

      fr

    • @rennzen
      @rennzen Год назад +1

      beyler bi sakin

    • @pseudo148
      @pseudo148 Год назад

      I’ve never seen an e-boy with them lumberjack forearms 👀