I get hurted many times with toxic men, When I was blind and innocent and now I'm uplifting myself from all these emotions and It's really difficult 🕯️
Agreed!! Life is hard enough already, who would want a partner who's playing games? Anyone has their weak moments and the partner should never try to take advantage of that..
Same games, different men. There's no escaping it at this point. I just stopped responding. It was exhausting and I know there's nothing I can do to stop it. Communicating will not work ( in fact, it will only be used against me in the near future ), nagging won't work, yelling, screaming, sweet talking, nothing ! It won't work. So, I just stopped responding to him. It's best if he takes the hint and let's end it.
I am a naive girl, I am learning slowly slowly how men manipulate because I think everyone good as me so I get dumped for many times for years and years and I'm still learning slowly slowly 🌙✨💙💫🌙✨✨
My boyfriend tried to test me to see if he could play me. I don't think it was intentional, more subconscious. I told him I am not someone he met at the hoochie coochie lounge. I pulled away and he straightened up immediately!.
Just the usual nonsense. Not wanting to 'court'. Asking to hang out like we are in the 9 th grade. I'm over 50! Taking forever to call..or playing hard to get. Asking to be friends with benefits. Oh no he dint! Hey, I'm a follower of Christ, booboo. A sustah. He knows I'm high value and is being good to me now. He knows I'm the real deal. God is able. Ladies don't put the ----- on a platter.
Grow yourself some crocodile skin and his silly little games will be like water under a bridge. Just laugh them off or simply turn a blind eye but do it with a pure heart with no hard feelings❤
Having emotional control and not chasing men is the best advice I have taken from your preaching. ❤ Please make a video about high-status alpha men cheating especially if you have kids with him. It's hard for women to leave the relationship because most men are not interested in dating single mom so we are stuck. I'm not a single mom but I appreciate it if you could talk about other topics not included in your channel.
@@cheekymonkeygirl3378 Cheeky gal..you have no choice but to leave. Your being abused. I was there with my ex-husband. Unless he changes radically, it only gets worse.
Thank you for content. I found your channel over 2 yrs ago by accident when I was researching whether emotional cheating and online flirting is cheating, subscribed to your channel because not only are you spot on on observations and give good advice, which helps to just relax and but also because you are a believer. Truly none of this matters of we don't have a relationship with God first and foremost. Boys playing stupid is in itself a whole topic. I cannot find your video where you talked about men having a new game called 'what do you bring to the table', I want to re watch and can't find it! 😂It was really good! God bless you and yours!
Maybe it's one of the videos why not chase a guy or diferences between woman and man? Greta talked about caring (without mothering, more like supporting and believing in him), admiring a guy (without putting him on a pedestal), and fallowing his lead (but having boundries in place). Femine energy in his life and ekhm... 's**' also, because guys don't have an access to whenever they want, especially not to a HV woman.
I have the same question.... sometimes I feel that we aren't allowed to ask for anything or express any kind of needs this is crazy, what if the guy comes the day after and then acts like nothing happened, if he was an a***hole are we supposed to let him be, because we don't say anything at all???
I also had hard time to understand this. I have few ideas: 1. he may feel stupid and regret his button push, 2.he may feel insecure that we don't care because we didn't react 3. he may stop doing it in the future, because it 'didn' t work', 4.he may ne setting a boundry because we acted low value/attention seeking/controlling, 5.we can be colder and distant after he pushed out button (but don't escalate, this needs to be done subtly. Man are not stupid. He knows what he did) 6. If he has any values and life experience and he observe that we behaved HV most of the time he will be afraid to lose us 7. The advices it's not being dormaty but setting a boundry and pulling our attention away from the guy. So there is a consequence. But it's classy way to give the consequence. It requires knowledge of the games and focusing on our life and goals instead of the guy.
Im tired of him looking at other women when we are in the gym.He stares them down.He is not subtle at all.I just ignore it and i stopped working out with him.
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I get hurted many times with toxic men, When I was blind and innocent and now I'm uplifting myself from all these emotions and It's really difficult 🕯️
Where I am in my life the minute I smell games I’m gone.
I really think it's unconscious. Maybe a way to build testosterone. Who knows? If he's overall a good man with character...give him a chance!
Agreed!! Life is hard enough already, who would want a partner who's playing games? Anyone has their weak moments and the partner should never try to take advantage of that..
Same games, different men.
There's no escaping it at this point.
I just stopped responding. It was exhausting and I know there's nothing I can do to stop it.
Communicating will not work ( in fact, it will only be used against me in the near future ), nagging won't work, yelling, screaming, sweet talking, nothing ! It won't work. So, I just stopped responding to him. It's best if he takes the hint and let's end it.
Definitely going to get the book. Congratulations!!!
Thank you love xx
I am a naive girl, I am learning slowly slowly how men manipulate because I think everyone good as me so I get dumped for many times for years and years and I'm still learning slowly slowly 🌙✨💙💫🌙✨✨
Same 🥲🩷🙏🏾 we got this.
My boyfriend tried to test me to see if he could play me. I don't think it was intentional, more subconscious. I told him I am not someone he met at the hoochie coochie lounge. I pulled away and he straightened up immediately!.
What did he do exactly?
Just the usual nonsense. Not wanting to 'court'. Asking to hang out like we are in the 9 th grade. I'm over 50! Taking forever to call..or playing hard to get. Asking to be friends with benefits. Oh no he dint! Hey, I'm a follower of Christ, booboo. A sustah. He knows I'm high value and is being good to me now. He knows I'm the real deal. God is able. Ladies don't put the ----- on a platter.
Every women genuinely needs to watch this!!!❤
Thank you
Grow yourself some crocodile skin and his silly little games will be like water under a bridge. Just laugh them off or simply turn a blind eye but do it with a pure heart with no hard feelings❤
Having emotional control and not chasing men is the best advice I have taken from your preaching. ❤ Please make a video about high-status alpha men cheating especially if you have kids with him. It's hard for women to leave the relationship because most men are not interested in dating single mom so we are stuck. I'm not a single mom but I appreciate it if you could talk about other topics not included in your channel.
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When I was a divorced, single mom I still had plenty men who wanted to date or get serious. My kids were little but no shortage of men.
@@danilaroche1156 That's good.
@@cheekymonkeygirl3378 Cheeky gal..you have no choice but to leave. Your being abused. I was there with my ex-husband. Unless he changes radically, it only gets worse.
Amazing content! Thank you Greta! 😊
Thank you for content. I found your channel over 2 yrs ago by accident when I was researching whether emotional cheating and online flirting is cheating, subscribed to your channel because not only are you spot on on observations and give good advice, which helps to just relax and but also because you are a believer. Truly none of this matters of we don't have a relationship with God first and foremost. Boys playing stupid is in itself a whole topic. I cannot find your video where you talked about men having a new game called 'what do you bring to the table', I want to re watch and can't find it! 😂It was really good! God bless you and yours!
Thank you love, totally agree x
Maybe it's one of the videos why not chase a guy or diferences between woman and man? Greta talked about caring (without mothering, more like supporting and believing in him), admiring a guy (without putting him on a pedestal), and fallowing his lead (but having boundries in place). Femine energy in his life and ekhm... 's**' also, because guys don't have an access to whenever they want, especially not to a HV woman.
I leave them, no games. When they are trying to make you jealous provably they will cheat to, I will speak with other guys too.
I always enjoy watching your vids.
What to do if the guy pushes your buttons and then act normal & expect you to act normal too?
I have the same question.... sometimes I feel that we aren't allowed to ask for anything or express any kind of needs this is crazy, what if the guy comes the day after and then acts like nothing happened, if he was an a***hole are we supposed to let him be, because we don't say anything at all???
I also had hard time to understand this. I have few ideas: 1. he may feel stupid and regret his button push, 2.he may feel insecure that we don't care because we didn't react 3. he may stop doing it in the future, because it 'didn' t work', 4.he may ne setting a boundry because we acted low value/attention seeking/controlling, 5.we can be colder and distant after he pushed out button (but don't escalate, this needs to be done subtly. Man are not stupid. He knows what he did) 6. If he has any values and life experience and he observe that we behaved HV most of the time he will be afraid to lose us 7. The advices it's not being dormaty but setting a boundry and pulling our attention away from the guy. So there is a consequence. But it's classy way to give the consequence. It requires knowledge of the games and focusing on our life and goals instead of the guy.
Thank you for this video Greta❤️😊 I have a question ,do high value guys play games?
Yes
They do but it's often unconscious. Keep your cool, gal.
Greata❤
Hi Greta have you got any videos coming regarding online dating or online communication long distance relationships
It’s more or less same as short distance
👍👍👍excellent
Im tired of him looking at other women when we are in the gym.He stares them down.He is not subtle at all.I just ignore it and i stopped working out with him.
Hi Greta....
What if the guy uses abusive language, also insulting...what do you do?
Set boundaries
Have you ever thought to make affirmations for high value woman
I don’t believe in them
Do i like him and he likes me but he has a relationship