Fearful Avoidant & Dismissive Avoidant Power Struggle In Relationships

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  • Опубликовано: 21 авг 2024
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Комментарии • 20

  • @feliciah8758
    @feliciah8758 Месяц назад +19

    We test in relationships BECAUSE we are AFRAID of REJECTION AND ABANDONMENT!!! Mic 🎤 drop

  • @tmreaves1
    @tmreaves1 Месяц назад +5

    You are spot on. I am an anxious attached who was involved with a dismissive. The power struggle is real and will break you if you let it.

  • @ibechilllin
    @ibechilllin Месяц назад +8

    Bro we need a video on Ayo’s body language with Jessica lol

  • @kristapulley5012
    @kristapulley5012 Месяц назад +1

    Mannn I know this fearful avoidant analysis didn't just break me down and DRAG me LOL. Very very helpful!

    • @LittleBlackBook91
      @LittleBlackBook91  Месяц назад +1

      THAT is what we want...cause they been draggin my edges with attachment style

    • @kristapulley5012
      @kristapulley5012 Месяц назад

      @@LittleBlackBook91FACTS

  • @alienmoonmom1361
    @alienmoonmom1361 Месяц назад +1

    This was an eye opening interpretation of a REAlL COUPLE/ REAL SITUATION. I can’t wait for part two

  • @chrissy__xo
    @chrissy__xo Месяц назад

    I’m FA, Kojo you hit tooo many points! 😮‍💨😮‍💨 I’m trying to work on it but it’s hard!!

  • @Msladyrae92
    @Msladyrae92 Месяц назад +1

    1:42 there’s a way to handle conflict and the conversation post argument. In my opinion, she’s being a bit immature and unnecessarily flirtatious. They are not on the same team if the post argument convo sounds like “ you started it “. It should be “ how did we get here and how do we handle it in the future “. One team! There is a power struggle for sure. Milli wants a man to lead but her past and upbringing won’t allow her to take a step back.

  • @jessicat2304
    @jessicat2304 Месяц назад +3

    Millie and those faces she makes

    • @katrinaraymond9726
      @katrinaraymond9726 Месяц назад +3

      Seems very immature! I liked the guy I knew they weren't going to last after the show sad.

  • @suziesmith9076
    @suziesmith9076 Месяц назад +8

    Hmmm I know this video is true because I’m a Fa and often date DAs but I feel like you were hard on her.
    I don’t think you addressed how hard it is for a FA to feel secure in relationships and how painful it is for any attachment to be with a with a DA particularly a FA because DA activation triggers us further into flight and fight.
    The guy could’ve very easily held her and said I know you’re scared I’m scared too. da often go from cold to rage which is also hard for FAs
    I think she does like him she just doesn’t want to be used and left. So she is withholding physical intimacy. He too is withholding emotional intimacy they are both scared of vulnerability.
    Anyway I thought I’d come to the comments and back my FAs. We often don’t play games intentionally we are just scared

  • @gotobbsm
    @gotobbsm Месяц назад

    How you explain anger is so good‼️

  • @shaybutter3403
    @shaybutter3403 Месяц назад +1

    This reminds me of the show girlfriends dynamic how Joan was with the s3x addict..... And pretty much every guy honestly now that I think about it 😂🤔
    Don't mind me.. I'm re-watching the series

  • @tanw.5149
    @tanw.5149 Месяц назад

    Faith comes by hearing!!! I trust the same God you trust in KoJo hence it's easy to receive your wisdom so I'm my whole self in that Godly relationship.

  • @gladysab4267
    @gladysab4267 Месяц назад

    Great video….thank you!