DO NOT FEAR... According to the Bible, God knows everything, including the past, present, and future. God is omniscient, which means God is all-knowing. Some things that God knows include: The universe - God knows the number of stars, and even the name of each one. He also knows every detail about all creatures, including humans. Humans - God knows every human's unique fingerprint, the number of hairs on their head, and every atom in their body. He also knows their genetic weaknesses, past injuries, current health, and future challenges. God even knows what humans will think before they think it. Secret things - Deuteronomy 29:29 says that God has secrets that no one else knows. This can include the "why" of a tragedy, which God may keep hidden as part of his plan.
This is a very well done interview. Bravo to the interviewer for his great questions, and as always, Rabbi Manis Friedman's answers any question with calm and brilliance. Or with equally provocative questions! Thank you for posting this daring interview on a subject that is so often "taboo".
"And it shall come to pass in that day, that l will seek to destroy the nations that come against Jerusalem." Zechariah 12:9 K.J.V. Bible I don't think He means just Jerusalem or even Israel. I believe He's speaking about the traditional Hebrew/Jewish ways and spiritual beliefs - rather the lack thereof.
Rabbi. Hatsoff to your wisdom. I was telling this to many of family members and friends but they think im a fool. Their main agenda of marriage revolve only around money and prestige. For that so many arguments day in and day out, hurting and destroying each other.
Not sure we were watching the same interview. Interviewer seemed awkward and slightly embarrassed that'd he'd taken on some sort and of religious extremist.
how was it should be ,what of an experience we've shared! question or statement depending on your partners reaction,as a man happy wife means happy life and respectful feed back goes a long way !
Coming up on our 45th anniversary yet I have to say I don't know if I really understand this view of marriage. Yes my husband and I feel very familiar with each other, and we give a quick kiss, etc. It was never something that was only done 2 weeks out of the month. I know everyone is different but for us we've working for nearly 45 years. I love listening to the Rabbi's talks but I just don't know about this one. Oh well....for me it's not broke so I don't feel we did anything wrong with regards to our relationship/marriage
i love everything about her should be she is everything that i love because as one progresses through life appearance ,profession circumstance and capabilities change its about being in the garden with intimate conversations . Timeless experiences that define ones relationship !
@@Y1836Y I think it's a bit more complex. People have been hurt, burned, from past relationships, even if these relationships were from a dysfunctional homelife in childhood.
@@elysejosephs7302 we're not supposed to be focused on loving ourselves. That's what I'm saying. We're not supposed to be focused on loving others. Or on finding love either, only on getting married before getting involved happens. We're supposed to be repairing the world for G-d as He needs it done. That means looking to assist others. It's not about the "me" or as people too often incorrectly say "I"
Good morning Rabbi Freeman and thank you I have been watching you for years and I have never heard you talk about the subject matter in which they interview or is asking you yes you speak to couples but you only speak of the relationship and how we could be better to one another how we could have a better relationship with GOD. Yes you wrote a book on it. On intimacy
I think it is like language or cultural meals. You have a mother-tongue you speak out, foods you are respectfully familiar with, and you have additional languages you have to think through more and foods whose taste you teach your tongue. Once intimate, you have "Adam and Eve knowing each other", ie you learn each other in a fluent and indivisible manner. It is not a performance for an audience for sure, it is living.
I get the thing about the difference between loving things about your spouse and loving your spouse, but what does loving your spouse mean? Im a little fuzzy on this. People become what they habitually do, to my understanding. So if my spouse does things habitually that i find admirable, im likely to love her more. But what if nothing she does is admirable to me? How do i love her?
Rabbi, Question: I understand that 2 become 1 as Holly scripture is written I am a very womanly female.. I like alpha men....ie leadership, respect is important but what happens when one or the other is shy?
8:00 Does not seem its true. I mean, the woman achieves the pleasure so difficultly, while the man get it so easily and, sometimes, so fast. I dont think it is wrong to learn how to give pleasure to the woman you are with. Its not a matter of being good at it, is just about learning how to do things properly. And there is no way it can be categorized as a way of/to/from pornography. Its just 'understand that she is different than you and have different needs that you do'. Seems like is a very unhappy woman who marry this type of guy
Rabbi, I overheard you saying that marriage is biblical, and man and woman get married to become ONE. Giving the percentage of women in the world 51% against the percentage of man 49%, some women wouldn’t be able to get their mates. How hassidic religion resolve that dilemma in the confine western environment. Since polygamy is not prohibited in the “eyes of God” can a person be married to 2 or more at the time, or allow the standstill of feminist vue: One man, one woman, - your view. Right from Ivory Coast, (Africa )
@@Y1836Y Did God makes a mistake to create more women than men? Abraham has 1 wife and a concubine. David, “ God’s friend” had more than 7 wives, Still he went after his general’s wife after killing her husband. At that point, God was upset to the point that God reprimanded David by saying if you wanted more women I could have given to you. This statement implies that polygamy is Godly. Salomon, blessed child of David, the ointed of God had countless of women and many more prophets in the Bible we’re polygamous. How polygamy can be “un-G-fly”? Also, in your view polygamy and homosexual which is more condamnable? Thank you
money cant buy happiness or satisfaction , Bill gates, Jeff Bezos, Kanye West to Tom Brady everyone is looking for something! Happy wife Happy life, Adam and Eve didnt worry about materialistic wants or needs with spirituality and intimatcy is all a soulmate needs as everything else is the cherries on top !
in the Book, an Essay, by “revolutionary” Psychotherapist Giulio Cesare Giacobbe, titled “per gli Uomini il Sesso non è Amore” we would say that “Sex” or “Sexuality” is different from “Males” and for “Females”: isn’t this actually correct? “Shlom” or “Salvation, Wellbeing” to everyone, simultaneously.
No it's not. G-d did not give man s*xuality. He gave us marriage. People changed it into s*xuality. The rabbi teaches about G-d. You're talking about other things.
Presume you mean the rabbi? Rabbi Friedman is talking the talk and walking the walk. What's insincere about that? Or the interviewer? He's genuinely curious.
Not good to ask the rabbi his age nor is he still intimate with his wife. Very insensitive and slightly disrespectful. Sorry brother you did not do well in that part of your interview
I’m almost halfway through reading “Creating a Life That Matters”. I’m learning so much from your wisdom. Thank you, Manis Friedman.
What an important message
Gratitude 🙏💗
As a 19 year old virgin this helps Rabbi god bless you
Don't justvtell me you love me, SHOW me ❤
This is how I came across you Rabbi and it changed my life.😊
DO NOT FEAR...
According to the Bible, God knows everything, including the past, present, and future.
God is omniscient, which means God is all-knowing. Some things that God knows include: The universe - God knows the number of stars, and even the name of each one. He also knows every detail about all creatures, including humans.
Humans - God knows every human's unique fingerprint, the number of hairs on their head, and every atom in their body. He also knows their genetic weaknesses, past injuries, current health, and future challenges. God even knows what humans will think before they think it.
Secret things - Deuteronomy 29:29 says that God has secrets that no one else knows. This can include the "why" of a tragedy, which God may keep hidden as part of his plan.
This is a wonderful interview. Thank you for sharing it with us.
This is a very well done interview. Bravo to the interviewer for his great questions, and as always, Rabbi Manis Friedman's answers any question with calm and brilliance. Or with equally provocative questions! Thank you for posting this daring interview on a subject that is so often "taboo".
Nothing is taboo anymore lol
STDs are rampant in this day and age, your teachings are very much wanted in this day and age.
"And it shall come to pass in that day, that l will seek to destroy the nations that come against Jerusalem." Zechariah 12:9 K.J.V. Bible
I don't think He means just Jerusalem or even Israel. I believe He's speaking about the traditional Hebrew/Jewish ways and spiritual beliefs - rather the lack thereof.
Thank you so so much Rabbi for saving my relationships with this
Thank you so much for sharing...
Rabbi. Hatsoff to your wisdom. I was telling this to many of family members and friends but they think im a fool. Their main agenda of marriage revolve only around money and prestige. For that so many arguments day in and day out, hurting and destroying each other.
This teaching is so natural, true and sincere to life. Thank you Rabbi, every time I listen to you, I feel like normal human being.
Not sure we were watching the same interview. Interviewer seemed awkward and slightly embarrassed that'd he'd taken on some sort and of religious extremist.
Someone had posted you on tictok too
Rabbai 😊 Thanks a lot for the great information
Good interview and nice discussion by the Rabbi
I’m married 33 years…it’s like fasting so the meal is amazing 🔥❤️
What is the point of writting a comment that makes no sense? What exactly is like fasting?
@@luciatat4084 you fast?
@@luciatat4084 the 14 days of no touching. The comment makes a lot of sense if you have listened to the whole interview
Proud to say I've seen the full interview when it came out years ago. :)
Thank you 🙏
I needed this right now
Thank you Rabbi Friedman
Thank you for this-I just bought the book
Thank you Rabbi Friedman!!
✡️🙏❤🔥
Rabbie Manis is the greatest smart, marriage cansouler.❤
Spot on.
btw, the person interviewing Rabbi Friedman is truly ignorant
Love Rabbi's sense of humor
Genious....and clarity.
I'd like to see a follow-up during which you find out if the interviewer implemented anything you said Rabbi. And how it impacted his marriage.
Thanks for the wisdom, Rabbi.
Thank you❤
how was it should be ,what of an experience we've shared! question or statement depending on your partners reaction,as a man happy wife means happy life and respectful feed back goes a long way !
Coming up on our 45th anniversary yet I have to say I don't know if I really understand this view of marriage. Yes my husband and I feel very familiar with each other, and we give a quick kiss, etc. It was never something that was only done 2 weeks out of the month. I know everyone is different but for us we've working for nearly 45 years. I love listening to the Rabbi's talks but I just don't know about this one. Oh well....for me it's not broke so I don't feel we did anything wrong with regards to our relationship/marriage
Dear Rabbi, please bring your book to Brazil. We will love to have the book translate to portuguese 🙏
i love everything about her should be she is everything that i love because as one progresses through life appearance ,profession circumstance and capabilities change its about being in the garden with intimate conversations . Timeless experiences that define ones relationship !
How many people are truly capable of loving another person? Of truly accepting and loving themselves?
Most people. We look out for ourselves instead of others. Once that's resolved to be as G-d wants us to be, love happens naturally.
@@Y1836Y I think it's a bit more complex. People have been hurt, burned, from past relationships, even if these relationships were from a dysfunctional homelife in childhood.
@@elysejosephs7302 it's complicated for people who exist outside one that's Torah guided.
@@elysejosephs7302 we're not supposed to be focused on loving ourselves. That's what I'm saying. We're not supposed to be focused on loving others. Or on finding love either, only on getting married before getting involved happens. We're supposed to be repairing the world for G-d as He needs it done. That means looking to assist others. It's not about the "me" or as people too often incorrectly say "I"
Good morning Rabbi Freeman and thank you I have been watching you for years and I have never heard you talk about the subject matter in which they interview or is asking you yes you speak to couples but you only speak of the relationship and how we could be better to one another how we could have a better relationship with
GOD.
Yes you wrote a book on it.
On intimacy
I think it is like language or cultural meals. You have a mother-tongue you speak out, foods you are respectfully familiar with, and you have additional languages you have to think through more and foods whose taste you teach your tongue. Once intimate, you have "Adam and Eve knowing each other", ie you learn each other in a fluent and indivisible manner. It is not a performance for an audience for sure, it is living.
Peter's series on Hasidic Jews was nice
B''H Amen
Your amazing
I get the thing about the difference between loving things about your spouse and loving your spouse, but what does loving your spouse mean? Im a little fuzzy on this. People become what they habitually do, to my understanding. So if my spouse does things habitually that i find admirable, im likely to love her more. But what if nothing she does is admirable to me? How do i love her?
The rabbi looks great to a 74 yo
Rabbi, Question: I understand that 2 become 1 as Holly scripture is written I am a very womanly female.. I like alpha men....ie leadership, respect is important but what happens when one or the other is shy?
8:00 Does not seem its true. I mean, the woman achieves the pleasure so difficultly, while the man get it so easily and, sometimes, so fast.
I dont think it is wrong to learn how to give pleasure to the woman you are with. Its not a matter of being good at it, is just about learning how to do things properly. And there is no way it can be categorized as a way of/to/from pornography. Its just 'understand that she is different than you and have different needs that you do'.
Seems like is a very unhappy woman who marry this type of guy
Rabbi, I overheard you saying that marriage is biblical, and man and woman get married to become ONE. Giving the percentage of women in the world 51% against the percentage of man 49%, some women wouldn’t be able to get their mates. How hassidic religion resolve that dilemma in the confine western environment. Since polygamy is not prohibited in the “eyes of God” can a person be married to 2 or more at the time, or allow the standstill of feminist vue: One man, one woman, - your view. Right from Ivory Coast, (Africa )
Polygamy is un-G-dly.
@@Y1836Y Did God makes a mistake to create more women than men? Abraham has 1 wife and a concubine. David, “ God’s friend” had more than 7 wives, Still he went after his general’s wife after killing her husband. At that point, God was upset to the point that God reprimanded David by saying if you wanted more women I could have given to you. This statement implies that polygamy is Godly. Salomon, blessed child of David, the ointed of God had countless of women and many more prophets in the Bible we’re polygamous. How polygamy can be “un-G-fly”? Also, in your view polygamy and homosexual which is more condamnable? Thank you
Ahaha if it’s so good the wife will ask for more !! 😂😂
Regarding familiarity: Familliar, as a hell-ish creature 👿 (imp) breeds contempt.
Just a loose thought.
spiritual philanthropist !
I don't understand how a couple who come together to become "one" can become too familiar? That is a contradiction.
money cant buy happiness or satisfaction , Bill gates, Jeff Bezos, Kanye West to Tom Brady everyone is looking for something! Happy wife Happy life, Adam and Eve didnt worry about materialistic wants or needs with spirituality and intimatcy is all a soulmate needs as everything else is the cherries on top !
Peter Santenello!!!!🤗
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in the Book, an Essay, by “revolutionary” Psychotherapist Giulio Cesare Giacobbe, titled “per gli Uomini il Sesso non è Amore” we would say that “Sex” or “Sexuality” is different from “Males” and for “Females”: isn’t this actually correct? “Shlom” or “Salvation, Wellbeing” to everyone, simultaneously.
We're not looking for salvation, a xian concept. You can keep it for yourselves.
No it's not. G-d did not give man s*xuality. He gave us marriage. People changed it into s*xuality. The rabbi teaches about G-d. You're talking about other things.
Tell us about the the Talmud and sex with minird
That's sick.
The bald interviewer does not seem to appreciate the knowledge much
If you saw the full interview which is in another video you might think differently.
Spit or swallow?
Disgusting
05:33 dont agree!!
Shave head so convenient
I’m sorry - but this guy does not seem sincere.
Presume you mean the rabbi? Rabbi Friedman is talking the talk and walking the walk. What's insincere about that?
Or the interviewer? He's genuinely curious.
Spit or swallow rabbi??😂
No not Rabbi Friedman. The interviewer. I don’t know his name. He is not really here to learn.
@@deborahs1430 if you saw the full interview which is in another video you might think differently.
Not good to ask the rabbi his age nor is he still intimate with his wife. Very insensitive and slightly disrespectful.
Sorry brother you did not do well in that part of your interview
It's an assignment 🎬 best performance required 🎬Sir_ evenly Yoked🎬💯❤️ HAS GOD'S GOALS