Special Forces Commander: The Weird Trick For Overcoming Anxiety, Laziness & Low Confidence!

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  • Опубликовано: 16 май 2024
  • Jocko Willink is a retired U.S. Navy SEAL officer and New York Times bestselling author, he is also the host of the Jocko Podcast, and co-founder of the leadership training organisation, Echelon Front.
    00:00 Intro
    02:04 “I Wanted to Be a Navy SEAL”
    03:50 What Is a Navy SEAL and the Special 'Hell' Training
    06:58 What It Takes to Become a Special Force Agent
    08:59 What Is the Point of Working This Hard?
    10:25 Can You Teach This Crazy Drive?
    12:23 Is Our WHY Important?
    15:36 Your Excuses Will Destroy You
    20:10 The Hack to Build Confidence and Belief
    25:04 Why Imposter Syndrome Is Necessary
    29:22 Why the Special Forces Leaders Ask Their Team for Advice
    34:03 The Craziest Missions and Things I've Seen...
    36:56 The Dark Side of War and Losing Friends
    47:44 Dealing with Sadness & Grief
    52:39 Decision Making & Taking Action
    01:00:19 From a Leader POV I'm the Proudest When My Team Does This
    01:02:09 Why You Should Serve Others
    01:05:16 Don't Do This If You Want a Promotion
    01:08:31 Leaving the Military
    01:13:39 Why Discipline Equals to Freedom
    01:18:40 Create a Routine System in Your Life
    01:22:11 The Biggest Misconceptions About the Military and Myself
    01:26:02 Toxic Masculinity Traits
    01:34:45 Finding Fulfillment & the Importance of Bonding
    01:39:57 The Answer to Achieving Success
    01:42:09 Work and Life Balance
    01:47:24 The Last Guest Question
    You can listen to the ‘Jocko Podcast’ and purchase Jocko’s products here: bit.ly/3Uk75hj
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Комментарии • 1 тыс.

  • @TheDiaryOfACEO
    @TheDiaryOfACEO  29 дней назад +221

    If you like this episode please can you do me a little favour and hit the like button on the video! I really appreciate your kindness x ❤👊🏾

    • @jackiekinner3826
      @jackiekinner3826 29 дней назад +4

      You should of researched this man better as what’s being said about and backed up about him in the SEAL community at the moment is not good.

    • @AllensStories
      @AllensStories 29 дней назад +2

      @@jackiekinner3826 , what has been said?

    • @jackiekinner3826
      @jackiekinner3826 29 дней назад +2

      @@AllensStories That he’s a bully and when on missions endangered Soldiers lives with bad leadership.

    • @soldieron9965
      @soldieron9965 29 дней назад

      Interview Eric Deming. Don’t be fooled by jocko. He has a lot of innocent blood on his hands 🩸 🇺🇸 🩸 🩸🩸

    • @tienkhoavu8980
      @tienkhoavu8980 29 дней назад +1

      gg

  • @barkerboy0308
    @barkerboy0308 28 дней назад +627

    I listened to this yesterday. This morning, I dragged myself out of bed at 6am. I walked/jogged 5km, for the first time in 2 years. 2 years of mental and physical health issues that I thought were never going to end.
    I just wanted to say thank you.

  • @NavvyH
    @NavvyH 28 дней назад +481

    I love that Steven uses silence so brilliantly which allows his guests the space to reflect more, talk more and share more.

    • @gerardlewis4634
      @gerardlewis4634 28 дней назад +17

      Its what amazing interviewers do, they dont but in, they listen and leave silence to make the guest start reflecting and word vomitting. louis theroux does it too, very well.

    • @nikobellic570
      @nikobellic570 27 дней назад +6

      He's a natural at this.

    • @SmilusMusic
      @SmilusMusic 25 дней назад +4

      Yes that’s one of his gifts. His trademark I want to believe. That space speaks so much. You learn soooo much after those pauses 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @Vestu
      @Vestu 20 дней назад

      Yep Rick Beato does this pretty well too

    • @kutlwanomataboge
      @kutlwanomataboge 15 дней назад

      I was thinking the same thing. It also reflects his understanding.

  • @Veronica-zg7lg
    @Veronica-zg7lg 29 дней назад +384

    "Your excuses will destroy you and take everything that you ever wanted...if you let them" 🔥🔥🔥

    • @mastermill79
      @mastermill79 28 дней назад +2

      Uff. That cut deep.

    • @crysteltse8611
      @crysteltse8611 28 дней назад +5

      So true also being afraid will destroy you too.

    • @othmarihartwig2011
      @othmarihartwig2011 28 дней назад

      No! I don t. Because of these suckers and their admirers in the self-proclaimed value-based West, the chosen ones are backed to slaughter an entire nation, bomb the embassies of other states, .... the us can wage proxy wars against other nuclear powers (over 100 interventions since 1991) , etc. etc. . Because these fools can't think for themselves. They can t distinguish between propaganda and the truth. Ask the Cia-agent wether I m right.

    • @MrSeanPeake
      @MrSeanPeake 24 дня назад

      100

    • @OldSchool1947
      @OldSchool1947 22 дня назад +3

      Cadets at West Point are trained to say, “No excuse, sir.” (Even if there may be a valid excuse.)

  • @kimberlymatthews4480
    @kimberlymatthews4480 29 дней назад +342

    That amount of emotional intelligence, self awareness, gratitude, humility, respect, logic and appreciation this man displayed in this interview just wow!

    • @jaygio
      @jaygio 28 дней назад

      Wow, even the JIDF bots are coming to this army recruiting video. You people are literally the sickest on earth.

    • @nevermind4679
      @nevermind4679 28 дней назад +2

      Yes!

    • @JesusFollower596
      @JesusFollower596 28 дней назад

      You sound like a beta smh 🤦

    • @irenapvp5365
      @irenapvp5365 28 дней назад +3

      He is one of the best of us.. huge respect

    • @Sunnydazeknits
      @Sunnydazeknits 26 дней назад +2

      Very impressed

  • @kahrhoshe
    @kahrhoshe 28 дней назад +325

    Listening to jocko talking about not letting your feelings rule your emotions really hits home for me as I lost my wife a year and 3 months ago on the 23rd. I’ve been off the rails with my drinking and I needed to hear this to help me move forward. I started a no drinking during the week program and today will be day 4 of not drinking during the week. This helped me solidify that I will not drink during the week and maybe expand on it.

    • @matthewcollier9011
      @matthewcollier9011 28 дней назад +16

      Good for you mate, keep going with it

    • @maximusthe1st
      @maximusthe1st 28 дней назад +10

      Brilliant man, good for you, keep going, you can do it, I think you’ll slowly feel better and better

    • @user-qz7zx2sd4v
      @user-qz7zx2sd4v 28 дней назад +6

      🎉congratulations! You are going in the right direction. Counseling helps to manage cravings and triggers.

    • @ChanceCard9
      @ChanceCard9 28 дней назад +6

      Good for you, baby steps 👍🏻

    • @MEDANNY20
      @MEDANNY20 28 дней назад +6

      My prayers for you and your loved ones stay strong & focused 🤝🏼

  • @meetandinspire
    @meetandinspire 29 дней назад +318

    "Train, study, work, practice, train, study, work, practice, train, study, work, practice, and eventually you will increase your confidence."

    • @garnhamr
      @garnhamr 29 дней назад +17

      or have a nervous breakdown

    • @SaintsUnited144K
      @SaintsUnited144K 29 дней назад +15

      Consistency.

    • @elunac2362
      @elunac2362 29 дней назад +13

      ​@@garnhamr just be balanced & chill about it, don't get in your head about it. show up, do what you can rest, recover & reset also

    • @hook8535
      @hook8535 29 дней назад +2

      @@elunac2362so hard to do

    • @synesthesiafilms
      @synesthesiafilms 28 дней назад

      Study may be not working anymore. It will not bring any money in a dying middle class. AI is coming too they say..

  • @katepadget-koh6910
    @katepadget-koh6910 29 дней назад +79

    This is incredible. This guy has no ego. What a truly extraordinary human being.

    • @gambar
      @gambar 19 дней назад

      he tamed the ego and made it his b!tch :)

    • @TheThetruthmaster1
      @TheThetruthmaster1 16 дней назад

      Hey. I only sleep 2 hours a day.... 🫦

  • @marry9894
    @marry9894 21 день назад +24

    Hi Steven, I’m a 64 yr old woman and I started following your RUclips afew weeks back. As I listened to this podcast I cried! This man Jocko Willink told my life story!!! I feel despair and great sadness as I listen because he is speaking the truth about discipline and lack of it. Everything he said was so truthful right to the core of my being!!!! I’m not sure how or what I can change but I’m going to change my life! Thank you for having such a tremendous influence on RUclips 🙏🏽

    • @Hairitage2023
      @Hairitage2023 День назад

      Start by walking out to your mailbox and back every day if you can. ❤

  • @7msjster
    @7msjster 29 дней назад +109

    I'm 68. female, train at 4 am and still train bodybuilding style. I used to weigh 110 as a teen. Now 125, 5 feet and buff. No it doesn't just happen. This sets the pace. I challenge myself for two hours. Loving calisthenics and boxing, just added those two things and I have rediscovered the "monkey bars". I quit being self-conscious. I have earned my place at the playground! My attire is a simple pinkish plaid with tights or sweats. No, I don't show my stuff. I'm not competing like that. But I know I'm one of the strongest women in my gym. The kids just move out of the way. I'm not snobby either, they just move. It feels good to not be on medication or need help getting up. I am so grateful. Reduced anxiety? I feel good about myself. The anxiety, I have learned, is outside of me. Breath it out. Oh and stay hydrated. It really does make a difference too.

    • @Stranger_In_The_Alps
      @Stranger_In_The_Alps 28 дней назад +15

      Queen behavior 👑

    • @jaygio
      @jaygio 28 дней назад +3

      ​@@Stranger_In_The_Alpsstop using drag-queen LGB terminology.

    • @lauraashley1
      @lauraashley1 28 дней назад +4

      This is really empowering 😮🎉❤

    • @Photik
      @Photik 28 дней назад +1

      Great to hear!

    • @gabriellaluzpm
      @gabriellaluzpm 28 дней назад +1

      Example

  • @scarletteloiseau7995
    @scarletteloiseau7995 29 дней назад +70

    This is one of the best 2hrs of life advices/lessons in life

  • @Mecks_Music
    @Mecks_Music 29 дней назад +66

    "thank you" two words that ment so much. that last bit was powerful

  • @ReflectionsofChristianMadman
    @ReflectionsofChristianMadman 28 дней назад +36

    Jocko is a national treasure. Anyone humble enough to learn from them will grow and excel.

  • @verneezymedia
    @verneezymedia 25 дней назад +28

    Wow, that ending was so powerful. The silence speaks volume of what Jocko has gone through and continues to carry with him through life. And i think that's one of the most important lessons he tries to teach: life won't be easy, but you have to keep pushing. Not just for your sake and the sake of those you love around you, but for the ones that have sacrificed and fallen who will never get the opportunity to. Truly powerful.

  • @SmilusMusic
    @SmilusMusic 26 дней назад +33

    Why did I cry so much at the end when he spoke about his wife taking up the slack. And when he mentioned the brothers he lost. I totally lost it. Thanks for a great episode. 🙏🙏🙏

    • @miaowcat09
      @miaowcat09 25 дней назад

      Same

    • @elpanchosancho2
      @elpanchosancho2 21 день назад

      Weak.

    • @alexashleigh8787
      @alexashleigh8787 День назад

      Same. Because I know from his podcasts exactly who those SEALs were to him. God he’s such a fucking good human.

  • @taylormariee2288
    @taylormariee2288 28 дней назад +23

    I needed to hear this.. lost my fiance / father of my kids, and two of my best friends back to back In a short amount of time . Loved his humble response on grief . his words were so comforting. “ Remember but dont dwell “

    • @thisisjovanna
      @thisisjovanna 28 дней назад +2

      Sendinggg✨and🙏 during this unfathomably difficult time🫶

  • @CounterMan-ny8xo
    @CounterMan-ny8xo 29 дней назад +29

    This is the only podcast channel i find educational and worth watching.

  • @leslynmoore
    @leslynmoore 29 дней назад +20

    Jesus, I freaking love this guy. I served in the NAVY! and what it would take to literally grow up in the SEAL teams? that is unmistakably one of the most difficult things that a person can do. I can only imagine how great and difficult his life would have been simultaneously. I find it so amazing that he is both steadfast in his strengths and empathetic. Thank you for this conversation Steven.

  • @JoBanks
    @JoBanks 29 дней назад +82

    Love Jocko. Says it just like it is. No BS. No political correctness just because he's scared of being cancelled (he's definitely not!). 👍🏼 We need more people like Jocko!

    • @ChiefThanos
      @ChiefThanos 28 дней назад +2

      Look up the Green Beret Chronicles. God Bless.

    • @lordjim6323
      @lordjim6323 28 дней назад

      He is a lying criminal. Check it out for yourself.

    • @1Deejay7
      @1Deejay7 28 дней назад

      just like budlight getting canceled , no fs given

    • @lordjim6323
      @lordjim6323 27 дней назад +1

      @@1Deejay7 Who gives a toss about Bud`s. Good Ole` Boys drink Miller. You know that as well as I do. Jocko is a lying scumbag.

    • @lordjim6323
      @lordjim6323 27 дней назад +1

      @@ChiefThanos Hear, hear. The truth is slowly emerging. it will catch up to you Jocko.

  • @PHARA0H
    @PHARA0H 29 дней назад +66

    Its hard to think about my childs mother after she passed a couple o' years ago. This man helped me with my perspective on grief.

    • @codyfiest9376
      @codyfiest9376 27 дней назад +1

      Think of how proud of you she must be for carrying on and being there for your child. That is the true test of a man. Carrying on when the going gets tough for the ones we love.

    • @jenniferbrown3782
      @jenniferbrown3782 27 дней назад +2

      I’m not to that part in this video yet, but in case this helps, I’ll leave it here.
      I once heard someone ask- would your loved one want you to grieve for years and years, and be a mess, letting yourself fall to pieces or would they be rooting for you to *live* your life full bore - to the fullest?

    • @pollauritsabrahamsenjq1618
      @pollauritsabrahamsenjq1618 18 дней назад

      Your child's mother? Was that all she was?

  • @HisLilyPrincess
    @HisLilyPrincess 18 часов назад +2

    Reminds me of my college experience. Advisor said, "my goal is to make you cry. I want to see if you'll push through when the work world kicks you in the face." 80% dropped out. The world isn't scary to me because of that man.

  • @KaylaJo96
    @KaylaJo96 26 дней назад +7

    It's really interesting hearing him speak from this perspective, because he's addressing people who shift blame by making excuses, whereas I'm used to hearing the perspective of people who come from a background of childhood trauma where their default is "Everything is my fault," who have the opposite trajectory in that they have to come to understand that they are not responsible for someone else's mistakes. Watching this it's clear he is able to identify his emotions and patterns (especially when talking about pattern recognition after multiple friends were killed), whereas someone with childhood trauma, specifically emotional neglect, often can't actually identify their emotions, much less notice patterns, without specific, focused work and awareness.
    I like seeing someone who, according to the beginning of the interview, did NOT face adversity in childhood talk about how he processes these things. I also appreciate so, so much that despite the horrors he saw, he does not put trauma on a hierarchy, but rather respects the subjective nature of the experiences that have a deep effect on people.

  • @avertthymortaleyes3460
    @avertthymortaleyes3460 29 дней назад +40

    This guy is pure fire and steel. I love his advice, very inspiring.

  • @MaternityTrendsOrigins
    @MaternityTrendsOrigins 28 дней назад +22

    The episode was absolutely incredible, especially the last 10 minutes. You can see the raw emotion and honest truth in everything he values.

  • @pirateslife4me
    @pirateslife4me 20 дней назад +8

    Episode saved directly to my "Be Better w the Greats" RUclips folder 🥇

  • @tsin002
    @tsin002 28 дней назад +14

    Man, I have bought so many of his books and read them all and even gave his children books as gifts to my friends children. This podcast is greatest podcast about life, family, and leadership. Thank you Jocko!

  • @serendipitytwo777
    @serendipitytwo777 29 дней назад +23

    Grief will be with you always and its accumulative, bcos u live ur life its inevitable to lose ppl. I always believe that you learn to live alongside your grief. But it never truly goes away. That's because you loved someone and that's beautiful. ❤

    • @user-qz7zx2sd4v
      @user-qz7zx2sd4v 28 дней назад +3

      Yes! Live with the grief in a positive manner. Acknowledge the pain and accept it. But then redirect and live your life ❤

  • @Dreadfullclips
    @Dreadfullclips 29 дней назад +129

    Making Jacko cry is like unlocking a bonus level

    • @soldieron9965
      @soldieron9965 29 дней назад

      He is really crying for all the innocent people he and his team mates killed. Don’t be fooled. He is a psychopath 🇺🇸

    • @mj2745
      @mj2745 29 дней назад

      And yet he readily caused himself to cry.....well...tear up at least.😂

    • @amitabhsharma3916
      @amitabhsharma3916 29 дней назад +9

      I mean, if you've heard Jocko's own podcast enough, you'll know he has been close to tears a few times. And in the Jonny Kim episode (where they also talk about Mike Monsoor and Marc Lee) he was practically sobbing

    • @carlyellison8498
      @carlyellison8498 29 дней назад +11

      ​@@amitabhsharma3916- please don't start a sentence with "I mean". Just say what you mean.

    • @jonathanmutepuka4574
      @jonathanmutepuka4574 29 дней назад +1

      I SWEAR DOWN

  • @danamckerrow9902
    @danamckerrow9902 29 дней назад +22

    Whenever I have a tough job to do, I listen to Jocko's collaboration with Akira the Don, "Get Some", and get the job done, every time 💯

  • @mrmarc8494
    @mrmarc8494 28 дней назад +7

    I have been following DOAC from the first episode, I have never commented before, I’ve watched tons and tons of guys but this interview stood out so much. Very importantly because Steven was very honest about how little he know about Jocko’s life and what he might have been through as a seal. Which enabled him ask the seemingly dumb questions which are really the questions most of us would have had in our minds but maybe too shy to ask. Thank you for this episode! Everything about it is perfect!

  • @punkmonk7475
    @punkmonk7475 27 дней назад +10

    Wow, this gem is one of your best interviews in my opinion. Ive listened to many Jocko interviews and this is my favorite. Your genuine sensitivity brought out the best. Masterpiece

  • @vinilion
    @vinilion 27 дней назад +6

    The vulnerability of Jocko at the end made this whole conversation even better. Thanks Steven, and thank you Jocko for helping young men create their definition of what means to be a man in today’s world. It’s a manheim out there

  • @unamurray4279
    @unamurray4279 29 дней назад +29

    This was brilliant....well done guys

  • @craig.jones19
    @craig.jones19 29 дней назад +9

    One of the best interviews so far, brilliant work!

  • @amazon2.022
    @amazon2.022 3 часа назад +1

    I like this man, he has this ''old school'' raw manly energy, if I can say so.
    Strong values and a behaviour in line with them, no BS and straightforward mindset.

  • @TamaraJoy7
    @TamaraJoy7 28 дней назад +8

    Wow Steve! You’re interviewing style in this one was so good in how you created space and time for him to answer. It kept me hanging on for each answer and gave me time to digest each answer he gave! A truly remarkable , thoughtful and insightful man with absolute gems of wisdom! Just WOW.

  • @Xchamonix1
    @Xchamonix1 29 дней назад +24

    Don't often comment but wow jocko, listen to him regularly and crazy to have his perspective on life on your platform, honestly thank you

  • @manickramasubramania9000
    @manickramasubramania9000 27 дней назад +3

    There are too many wow and goosebumps moments from this episode.
    Hit me real hard on many levels.
    Steve did a marvellous job in pacing the whole interview.

  • @beecarmody
    @beecarmody 17 дней назад +2

    Jocko’s jewels of knowledge are so simple yet profound. No over complicating, no wordy language just get it done.

  • @grantjohnson952
    @grantjohnson952 28 дней назад

    It's special when we get an interview like this. I listen to a lot of different podcasts, interviews, speeches, etc. Every now and then, you get one that is just amazing. When you are totally engrossed for hours. Thanks you guys!

  • @Buffmafia84
    @Buffmafia84 29 дней назад +4

    Hell yeah Jocko! Love seeing this combo

  • @chrisxishida
    @chrisxishida 29 дней назад +6

    Jocko an absolute legend! thank you for brining him on the show

  • @skyfreezr
    @skyfreezr 11 дней назад

    This was one of the best interviews I've ever seen. On both sides. Jocko has changed my life 180 degrees, and his words mean a lot to me, but this was a whole new experience. I need to watch it again.

  • @bonehead007
    @bonehead007 25 дней назад +1

    This is hands down one of the best podcast episodes I have ever listened to anywhere. The pure raw intensity of the emotions in the last 10 mins had tears rolling down my cheeks. Brilliant work, look forward to the question by Jocko in the next one !

  • @ajnacsoma4242
    @ajnacsoma4242 29 дней назад +3

    Wisdom, value. I just sent it to my son. Thank you both!

  • @adommanso3949
    @adommanso3949 28 дней назад +3

    Amazing interview, soo many nugget ! 👏 . One of the best interviews Jocko and DOAC have delivered so far... 👏

  • @thomashyland8952
    @thomashyland8952 23 дня назад +1

    This is arguably one of the best podcasts I’ve watched and listened to. Just to see how Jocko handles his emotions in-front of you with such control by simply stopping and reflecting. I learned a lot from this and will try to do better each day as that’s all any of us can do.
    This was something I needed to watch for myself and I’m glad I did. Thank you

  • @SteviePortuguese
    @SteviePortuguese 28 дней назад +2

    The collab of 2 of my favorite podcasters is exactly what I needed

  • @PodcastClipsMD
    @PodcastClipsMD 29 дней назад +8

    Great podcast It’s honestly one great moment after another, most podcast can’t even fit in 3 great moment. Congrats Stephen 🎉

  • @iamchicharon
    @iamchicharon 29 дней назад +22

    If you ever need a definition of humility and compassion 34.5 minute mark. For a man that's gone through literal hell, what a humble and compassionate perspective Jocko has.
    I didn't think I could respect him anymore, but he keeps proving me wrong

    • @STST
      @STST 28 дней назад

      Maybe look at the pinned comment and read a post on there. This is not a good dude.

    • @iamchicharon
      @iamchicharon 28 дней назад +1

      ​@STST I've followed Jocko for many years, he's been pretty much him all throughout, nothing fake. Same thing happened with David Goggins. Envy and ego are an insidious thing

  • @jayvyasa4514
    @jayvyasa4514 28 дней назад +1

    That “thank you” in the end !!Had so much emotion.

  • @Bri_K_333
    @Bri_K_333 29 дней назад +4

    People want to know what goes through a genius mind.
    Imagine what goes on in a soldier of war mind…
    Brutal.
    Thank you infinitely for your service.

  • @BCCBiz-dc5tg
    @BCCBiz-dc5tg 29 дней назад +14

    GOD Bless Jocko Man and all who serve and have served. ❤

  • @issys456
    @issys456 28 дней назад +1

    Absolutely incredible interview. Thank you.

  • @beckmillan
    @beckmillan 28 дней назад +1

    I've learned so much from Jocko over the years-from his books and podcasts. He relentlessly puts the ball back in YOUR court and I love him for that. And it sucks. And it hurts. But you know it's the RIGHT thing to do; the only way forward. Remember, don't dwell. Embrace the emotions but don't let them embrace you. Regrets are worthless unless you learn from them. Onward! 🇺🇸

  • @PrincessMargaretJoacquim1111
    @PrincessMargaretJoacquim1111 29 дней назад +7

    Amazing topic ❤

  • @jamienicholl9412
    @jamienicholl9412 29 дней назад +3

    Wow progress, initial viewing, intensity, knowledge, wanting to know more, yous have nailed this one, behind the ceo makes sense, well done team ❤️

    • @soldieron9965
      @soldieron9965 29 дней назад

      Look up Eric Deming, he knows a lot more of who jocko really is. The truth will soon come out . Kyle rotz

  • @adrianabetancourt5861
    @adrianabetancourt5861 День назад +1

    I love Jacko! He has helped me grow so much and I learn something new about myself each time. Thank you for this interview

  • @reretno
    @reretno 2 дня назад

    Thank you Steven for the work, and Thank you Jocko for the insight. I truly appreciated it ❤❤

  • @AceBoogie_
    @AceBoogie_ 29 дней назад +5

    Favourite podcast!

  • @nobodyimportant5485
    @nobodyimportant5485 29 дней назад +9

    Jocko is the most practical, pragmatic and grounded person I’ve ever had the pleasure of listening to.
    @TheDiaryOfACEO your podcasts are simply fantastic. Thank you!

  • @jennifermarshburn7731
    @jennifermarshburn7731 28 дней назад +2

    Wow! This one was powerful. Thank you for this episode. 👏🏻

  • @sharonnnnnnnn
    @sharonnnnnnnn 16 дней назад +1

    All I can say is wow. I'm a 27 year old girl, I learnt and took so much from this podcast. Thank you for sharing your experience and knowledge Jocko, thank you Steven for giving us this space.

  • @thisisjovanna
    @thisisjovanna 28 дней назад +3

    Wowww Ohhh WOWWW😲 THISSS was SOOO SOOO POWERFFUL🥹 I’ve been an admirer of Sir Jocko’s books and work and I am JUSTTT BLOWN AWAYYY by this interview of his!! Woww Steven!! THEEE wayyy YOU SO INCREDIBLY and brilliantly got into some of his experiences around loss had meee😭 I just lost my MOSTTT BELOVED Sister and besttt friend so hearing Sir Jocko’s take on grief and sadness and of emotions gave me GREATTT comfort for the years ahead when I get “hit” with the OVERWHELMING and INEVITABLE waves that DO in FACT occur when someone SO SIGNIFICANT in your life is no longer here!!
    Againnn…BRILLIANT and BRAVOOO to YOU BOTHHH👏👏👏
    Anddd OHHH SOOO GRATEFUL🙏

  • @lululovestoplan5401
    @lululovestoplan5401 29 дней назад +3

    This is by far the best guest speaker you've had on this podcast, along with Jimmy Carr. They both speak sense to me, in my opinion.

    • @Photik
      @Photik 28 дней назад

      Dr. K's and Tim Dillon's interview were pretty good too, both on different levels though. Hard to compare.

  • @mabelstevens3247
    @mabelstevens3247 28 дней назад +2

    Wow!
    I can’t help but keep watching this over and over again- very powerful interview!
    Thank you both❤

  • @cronusradonsystems2036
    @cronusradonsystems2036 28 дней назад +1

    Wow, that was a good one. It's so good to have a constant source of highly accomplished people to give me the inspiration to everyday become a better me.
    What you are doing is what led me to start a business that I just sold a couple of weeks ago and start another business. (Two going at the same time for a while). You are changing people's lives for the better. I'm somewhat new to your channel, but you are adding to the collective of positive messaging that's out there.
    Years of putting the right stuff in my head and, most importantly, acting on it. Has put my life on a totally different trajectory.
    So, thank you. Thank you for what you do, and being so very good at it.
    The ones that really want to make a change will listen, and they will take action.
    Unfortunately, most people won't do anything. They'll just wish, complain, blame, and vanish into nothing.
    That being said, just realize that most people won't understand what you're doing. They're not bad people, they just don't understand. To them, it's all fear and scary stuff. Stay the course, collect the reward, and ignore the distractions. Get it!!

  • @Brad_ley
    @Brad_ley 29 дней назад +16

    Phwoar Jocko Willink! What a guest

  • @kayrobinson29
    @kayrobinson29 28 дней назад +3

    This man's comprehensive explanation of grief was next level & the 'remember don't dwell' was exactly what I needed to hear. Thanks guys 🙏🏼💙

  • @yadenichimdessa1862
    @yadenichimdessa1862 28 дней назад +1

    This is one of your best interviews Steven.Jocko is one of a kind.

  • @PinkWip
    @PinkWip 11 часов назад +1

    This is the best interview I have watched in this channel so far! I have watched many valuable episodes, but this one speaks so deep about so many things and it is so encouraging, strong, but also humble and human. Thank you Steve for bringing this guy into the show! You have paid for my subscription with this episode, as you promised! ❤🎉great work!

  • @Kunzopolis
    @Kunzopolis 29 дней назад +28

    long have i awaited this moment

    • @soldieron9965
      @soldieron9965 29 дней назад +1

      Jocko and cris Kyle have a lot of innocent blood on their hands. Don’t be fooled

    • @MelFlagg
      @MelFlagg 29 дней назад +7

      ​@@soldieron9965bro, what soldier doesn't? It's war. War never changes.

    • @ReaveIdono
      @ReaveIdono 28 дней назад

      ​@MelFlagg Right. It's like people don't understand what war is in 2024. In most cases both sides are fighting with innocent people...

    • @Kunzopolis
      @Kunzopolis 28 дней назад +2

      @@soldieron9965 I do not need to like someone to learn from them. this is something almost nobody understands in 2024.

  • @KB-bw1zu
    @KB-bw1zu 29 дней назад +4

    *urgently watches through the first minute long teaser to see if Steven manages to ask the one question that makes Jocko cry* 😱

  • @amandalepape6056
    @amandalepape6056 27 дней назад

    Steven, I think this is the best one yet. I was deeply touched by Jocko's story, and you are becoming even more skilled as an interviewer. Well done. I'll be sharing this with my 3 children.

  • @dmistry8304
    @dmistry8304 28 дней назад

    I love how Jocko talks about humility as such a strength. So many of us need to hear this where our default (often due to company culture) is to hide what we don't know.

  • @onthelowofficial
    @onthelowofficial 29 дней назад +9

    This guy is real. Big him up 🎉

  • @tindets
    @tindets 29 дней назад +44

    steve making his guests cry again

  • @lissetteruiz5636
    @lissetteruiz5636 27 дней назад

    This episode is your best one yet. Thank you for having Jocko on your podcast!

  • @Genious_Trades
    @Genious_Trades 26 дней назад

    I have seen a new side of Jocko today that I didn’t know existed. Going through a hard period in my life right now and this episode really struck a chord with me. Thank you, Jocko and thank you, Stephen.
    Cheers

  • @producedbypodcast
    @producedbypodcast 29 дней назад +10

    Cannot wait for this one! Jocko, what an inspiration. 💪 One day, dream guest on my podcast! 🎙😄

    • @soldieron9965
      @soldieron9965 29 дней назад

      Interview Eric Deming, or look into what he has to say about killer jocko and dead ass cris Kyle.

  • @morsmitt3126
    @morsmitt3126 29 дней назад +3

    It's simple, I see Jocko I click

  • @user-os3jk3ui9n
    @user-os3jk3ui9n 28 дней назад +1

    Such a helpful & powerful episode! Thank you for sharing 😊

  • @NikWend-fo1qe
    @NikWend-fo1qe 28 дней назад +1

    I would follow this man all the way. Respect

  • @kanthiwiralang
    @kanthiwiralang 29 дней назад +3

    When is David Goggins coming?!😭❤️

  • @seadhnabourke
    @seadhnabourke 29 дней назад +3

    Jocko looks like Jim Norton and Matt Damon cloned with Hulk DNA - how are they gonna cast the biopic!? - he's an example of humanity we can show aliens and A.I's to show we're worthy of existing. His mind, spirit and drive are singular. Great Episode!

    • @soldieron9965
      @soldieron9965 29 дней назад +1

      You have no idea what you’re saying. Jocko and cris Kyle have a lot of innocent blood on there hands. 🇺🇸

  • @carieyoung1111
    @carieyoung1111 17 дней назад

    I love Jocko Willink! As a woman he’s always been one of my favorites to listen too- he got me thru some hard times. His book about discipline and extreme ownership changed my life. Great interview….where I am today from 10 years ago blows my mind!

  • @marlo8253
    @marlo8253 25 дней назад +1

    Im a 25 yo woman who has lost her bff last december, ive heard the news 1 month later, i was waiting for her texts cuz we were talking a lot and coudnt wait to see each other during christmas or summer and basically i wrote on my card thank you for everything. Thank you for you. Ill never thank you enough for everything you brought in my life. Hearing him say thank you for everything made me cry because i understand this so much. I never met someone like her and i know sadly how unique she is. I cant believe i have to live those next years without being able to reach out to her and talk to her. Even tho i do everyday

  • @PhonkAttack4DX
    @PhonkAttack4DX 29 дней назад +3

    He looks exactly how I'd imagine a hard-core navy seal masculine dude to look like.

  • @sashamellon822
    @sashamellon822 29 дней назад +5

    You don’t need to be a man to run a business or do a thing else. If it’s mental task, focus on doing it good instead of “doing it like a man” . It’s hard enough trying to do something well, without trying to do it good “as a man”. From a old genetic man who got through life well without trying to be “a man” . I lived my own version of masculinity, reliable, stoic, and there in time of need to family and friends and provide when needed. Your version can be what you can do best. Not every man is designed to be a navy seal and that’s fine.

  • @parisalotfi3181
    @parisalotfi3181 15 дней назад

    Those moments of silence were gold! It allowed for deep thinking and emotions were everything! Steven you are amazing at what you do! ❤️

  • @stephanieann87
    @stephanieann87 27 дней назад +2

    I love you Jocko! I have a son and I can only hope that he can grow to be a strong man like this !

  • @darrentaylordigital
    @darrentaylordigital 29 дней назад +9

    You made Jocko f**king Willink cry? Stop it Steve 😂

    • @soldieron9965
      @soldieron9965 29 дней назад +1

      He is crying for all the innocent people he and his team mates killed. Don’t let him fool you. He is a psychopath

  • @semihkzlkeci6272
    @semihkzlkeci6272 29 дней назад +3

    Bro why are you making everyone who comes to your podcast cry? :D

    • @soldieron9965
      @soldieron9965 29 дней назад

      Don’t be fooled by this clown jocko, he has a lot of innocent blood on his hands, so does cris Kyle, pure evil.

  • @10cherylann
    @10cherylann День назад +1

    One of my favorite interviews!

  • @cindyd1042
    @cindyd1042 28 дней назад

    Thank you for this episode, I truly enjoyed it.

  • @marsh8417
    @marsh8417 29 дней назад +2

    Its a shame you can only 'like' once

  • @johnhastingsinfo
    @johnhastingsinfo 29 дней назад +3

    There is nothing so useless as doing efficiently that which should not be done at all. Peter Druker.
    You can block emotions and apply discipline to climb to the top of the ladder, only to realise it’s against the wrong wall.
    Hence, the mentality of war. A hand full of psychopath’s send millions of their own people to the grave and convince them it’s honourable.
    Very sad on all sides.

    • @wendellbabin6457
      @wendellbabin6457 29 дней назад

      Unfortunately you need your own psychopaths to stop all the other psychopaths that surround you at all times.
      There are always a hundred apocalypses happening. There are NO solutions, only trade offs. And maybe the hope that you are choosing to deal with the highest priority potential disaster correctly yourself and in the best order you can manage.

    • @johnhastingsinfo
      @johnhastingsinfo 29 дней назад

      @@wendellbabin6457
      You can’t think of any solutions to mindless War?
      1. Educate people with critical and first principles thinking. People who are coerced to blindly follow orders at mass are dangerous. Add discipline and suppressed emotion and you have an army of soldiers who have no real idea about why they are fighting.
      2. Re-design the economy to optimise human health. Build infrastructure and security around Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. We have the technology to free people from modern work slavery. Optimise resources for sustainable living.
      3. Take extreme ownership. Work on yourself. Work on your family. Work on your community. But also understand that you are part of a system in which self maximising could destroy everyone in the long run. Learn about systems thinking and its implications on human behaviour and wellbeing.
      If we don’t find solutions it will be game over for everyone. Psychopaths who control computer geeks and Robots will blow us all up.
      It’s always fear or love.
      Which one is your discipline coming from?

    • @johnhastingsinfo
      @johnhastingsinfo 29 дней назад

      @@wendellbabin6457
      You can’t think of any solutions to mindless War?
      1. Teach people the skills of critical and first principles thinking. People who are coerced to blindly follow orders at mass are dangerous. Add discipline and suppressed emotion and you have an army of soldiers who have no real idea about why they are fighting.
      2. Re-design the economy to optimise human health. Build infrastructure and security around Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. We have the technology to free people from modern work slavery. Optimise resources for sustainable living.
      3. Take extreme ownership. Work on yourself. Work on your family. Work on your community. But also understand that you are part of a system in which self maximising could destroy everyone in the long run. Learn about systems thinking and its implications on human behaviour and wellbeing.
      If we don’t find solutions it will be game over for everyone. Psychopaths who control computer geeks and Robots will finish us all.
      It’s always fear or love. Which one is your discipline coming from?

    • @johnhastingsinfo
      @johnhastingsinfo 29 дней назад

      @@wendellbabin6457
      You can’t think of any solutions to mindless War?
      1. Teach people critical and first principles thinking. People who are coerced to blindly follow orders at mass are dangerous. Add discipline and suppressed emotion and you have an army of soldiers who have no real idea about why they are fighting.
      2. Re-design the economy to optimise human health. Build infrastructure and security around Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. We have the technology to free people from modern work slavery. Optimise resources for sustainable living.
      3. Take extreme ownership. Work on yourself. Work on your family. Work on your community. But also understand that you are part of a system in which self maximising could destroy everyone in the long run. Learn about systems thinking and its implications on human behaviour and wellbeing.
      If we don’t find solutions it will be game over for everyone. Psychopaths who control computer geeks and robots will blow us all up.
      It’s always fear or love. Which one is your discipline coming from?

  • @francoutah
    @francoutah 26 дней назад

    Thank you, gentlemen.
    Invaluable information.
    Required viewing/listening.
    Move forward.

  • @GabyApaez
    @GabyApaez 27 дней назад

    One of my top favorite episodes. Thank you Steven ❤

  • @davidoneill402
    @davidoneill402 29 дней назад +4

    Imagine being 18 year old now and heaving to deal with this constant bombardment of how to be this or that, this food will kill you, this is why you’re not this or that…
    I like some of Steve’s podcasts but ‘How to be a man in 2024’ is just not the one

    • @dorisday4765
      @dorisday4765 29 дней назад

      I think how to be a man is the most important topic right now.

    • @otodidact9923
      @otodidact9923 29 дней назад

      Better than letting the winds guide a young man. This is guidance. Not the end all be all to manhood but definitely a needed projection for the youth and men in general.