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There's a deliberate systematic time released destruction of the black family dynamic taking place here in the United States of America. Started with backbreaking during slavery and forcing the black women to watch, she knows he can't protect her but she stays, continue with welfare in the 60s where black women were made to choose between feeding herself and the kids or does she keep her man, the 90s began the increase in black women's education and increased pay and now she believes no need for her black men, and has absolutely no respect for her black men and says he can't do anything for her but f..k her and pay her bills. The next generation of black women have no love or respect for her black men, she doesn't want broke uneducated black man that can't do anything for her so she doesn't want to be with him let alone start a family so she chooses to be single. She over the years has been trained to become the black man she's always wanted, and she will never be able to see a black man like her in her eyes, and the destruction of the black family unit is complete. She's already been taken through education and money, next turn the system will convince black women to begin to vote against their own best interest and the interest of the black family unit. The black family has been destroyed and the system used our own women against us to make it happen. You ask a majority of modern black women what's more important to them, the bag or the family?
Let's be clear here, this being single and putting the bag in front of relationships, marriage and family is statistically a thing with black women, no other race of women is on board with this trend.
Why is it every time I go on social media and I hear about sisters talk about their finances and they're all doing exceptionally well? They all have a job or a business in which they make a lot of money, they all have second and third streams of income, they all are business owners, and they all have a significant amount of money in the bank? But, when we look at the Department of Labor Statistics it says something completely different.
@@DECEPTICON33not lying. We used to only have to declare payments above $10,000 now it’s $600. What if you don’t declare the income to Uncle Sam? But if you do…. How much do they take in taxes as a self employed single person in NY? Think about it …
its called cap. they made 5 sales and decided to call their side hustle a business. i sell stocks and made 5 successful sales. that doesn't make me a day trader (yet) but someone would call themselves that after 1 because it makes them feel important and faking it till you make it makes money.
Shorty in the black was real independent before the show started. 30 minutes into conversation “I don’t wanna do anything on my own” ……. You can’t make this shit up
Question, why is it that everything seems to revolve around happiness? When happiness is a fleeting emotion and change like the wind. I think this speaks to our selfishness as people. Because in order to make a relationship work you must be willing to be selfless a lot more than you may like.
Another nail in a coffin. Bruh very few people understand this which is sad and hopeless when this obvious truth is lost on so many ears falsely claiming to have the will to listen.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It's interesting to reflect on how our obsession with happiness might be tied to our own selfishness. It's a reminder to prioritize selflessness and consider the needs and happiness of others in our relationships.
Happiness can come and go but no one wants to live in a state of unhappiness.. nor does anyone want to be with someone who is a constant source of their unhappiness..
The reason that our society is so screwed up is, because modern women are becoming letsbefriends.....Life is knowlonger about leaving something implanted into the next generation. Now it's about finding constant happiness & gratification and as soon as the new 🚘 car smell runs out they're out.
I think the basis of being happier single as a woman is not having the added responsibility or expectation of "keeping a man." So not having the expectation to cook or have sex "x" times a week. It's like I can come home from a stressful day and order food and decompress vs feeling like I have to clock back in. Sometimes people prefer being single because they are honest with themselves about how limited their capacity is.
Actually as adults we all have added responsibility when we get in a relationship and we should understand that when we go into a relationship that I'm not only required to evaluate my ups and downs but I'm also required to someone evaluate my significant others ups and downs.. most women nowadays can't even cook the way our mothers and grandmothers cook so a lot of men do the cooking so it's not just about cooking and as far as sex women like sex just as much as men some even like sex more than men so I don't think it's sex either ..the reason why I don't believe women when they say they are happier single is because statistics show that women are more depressed .. record numbers of women are on antidepression meds now, and also all the women who get divorced still seeking another mans company! and women who are single are always in and out of different men's lives with their situationships but they are still having these men babies! And a lot of women like to be so called single so they can sleep around with a lot of different guys and get money from different dudes they can get more money from a lot of dudes then getting money from just from one man..! Females be up on social media fibbin & cappin.🎉
On a short term basis, I can see what you mean. However, do you honestly believe in the long term those would be most women's preference? Being able to come home to no expectations?
I actually agree with you and essentially how you worded it. I will say however, "keeping a man" that you respect, is far more rewarding than being a name on a piece of paper for a corporation that views you as a replaceable commodity that will work you till there's nothing left all while paying you crumbs in comparison to the value you bring. You know, closer to modern day slavery. But then again, it's all in perspective.
Men need to stop being in these fake relationships...just be friends and hangout once in awhile...if you need sex? Then just pay for it and keep it moving...if you pay a professional. You dont have to worry about having a baby with the wrong person. No child support or alimony
Bro men exceed this stat. Women in marriages and relationships take More meds than single women. Certain depression (like bipolar) are Genetic~ it’s a chemical imbalance in their brain (not solely based on feelings) this is needed to regulate their chemical output - just like insulin does sugar. Men also take their lives 35% more times then women. Trust single women are the happiest demographic compaired to all others - which is why we are choosing singleship.
@@masixchell men don't say they're single and happy while on depression meds 🙃. Women live life on easy mode so they live longer and commit less suicide.
I always tell women to be happy if you are happier alone, but stop complaining when you are single. I've never heard happy people complain about something they don't want or need. Where they do that at?
It depends on the person. People are all different with different personalities. Many people get stressed out when they have to constantly interact with someone and prefer to be alone most of the time. There is nothing wrong with that. Plus women throughout most of modern history didn’t really have a choice not to be married- you literally could not have a bank account with just your name on it. Now there are more options for one’s life and many women are choosing differently AND are incredibly happy and fulfilled. Guess what.. that’s perfectly OK. Women don’t need someone else to cater to their every need at every moment. They can find happiness and peace in just them and then contribute emotionally to their family and friends (when they want to). It’s a beautiful thing imo!
Had the kids had the marriage I’m cool with my cat … relationship n kids that family life is not for everyone… it’s ok to be single and childless u was born by yourself …
I wasn’t happy single until I went thru hell in a couple relationships. I’ve been single and celibate for 3 yrs. I had my son at 20, I’m now 37 so it’s not like I’m needing a man to have children. I am content being single now because my life is more peaceful.
Relationships aren't easy, but there is a huge potiental for growth for the both of you. It's not about being happy or peaceful, it's about cultivating your character. My relationship has taught me to be more patient, tolerant, forgiving, understanding etc.... I would have not developed all this on my own. With a child, when they get out of line, you can put your foot down and tell them what to do, that same mess ain't gonna work on a spouse, you guys gotta learn to work shit out, and it's hard. A relationship is very challanging, but it's rewarding if you find the right spouse who is willing to put in the work. Like going to the gym, sure it's easier not to work out, but working out has benefits that you can't get sitting peacefully on the couch.
@Joshua-eo5hr who bottle girls and escorts, broken impoverished sexy red baby mamas...so low self esteem, never had a role model women..and u really think all women fit that..once again..u and them..tragic
@@meldonsleep5298Stay single then . Oh but yall don’t want high earners . I’m in college for the third time, guess who doesn’t have student loan debt. Most of yall don’t even go to college to have that debt , and most black men don’t make more than 50k a ( check the statics ) yet yall are always complaining about the “debt “ you swear all women have! Some of us , a lot of us actually have our shit together and black men are bums for real . Women are opting out of these bullshit struggle love relationships , even if you might ( and I use might loosely) be a decent dude all be broke as fuck , I work for the school system where young black men are under performing ( shit 40 percent of adult black men can’t read past a fourth grade level) more than half of our students from 4-8 do not read on grade level. Man I could go on y’all are not worth the time and attention you think you are !
Living with your adult child is a mutual decision, not a luxury. It is often a mutual necessity. Calling these strategic decisions a "luxury" minimalizes the intricacies of the household dynamic. I was surprised to see her say that. She knows 1st hand as the present benefactor of a healthy home.
I've been happy being alone, not getting used abused and cheated on, I've been successful had my everything since I was 19, all I needed was love, all I got was used abused and pain.
Sorry for the bad experiences, keep ya head up and enter into relationships in good faith. Usually those men start with good will n run into heartbreak by 15-16 kuz women already have options and usually choose the older more experienced guy which turns the younger guy into the guys that return foul behavior…. Horrible cycle 🤷🏽♂️
Yall love saying this after choosing the RayRay's and Pookies, then judge all men cuz the guy YOU WANTED wasn't the man that was good for you. I hope you heal tho cuz real men BEEN out here.
You cannot place your value in materialism but just like being single or in a relationship there are pros and cons i choose to be single and avoid mistreatment or under value myself
What was the last celebrity that we heard about taking their own life because of materialism? Or did we hear about a celebrity ending themself buy a drug overdose
So glad I don't have the pressure the young ladies have now to "chase the bag", especially in this economy. There is nothing wrong with getting your money, you just have to put things in perspective and make sure it's what YOU want to do and that you're not out here trying to compete with other ladies on the innernet (misspelled on purpose lol) or even around you who are walking around "drippin'".
I think it's because women provide each other emotional support during lonely or challenging times. So we can cope with singleness better because of it.
Good convos no doubt I liked all the ladies on the panel. Everybody view point was valid and I liked how all the guys upped eachother can tell y’all really respect one another that’s wassup
My partner and I got each other's back, with an understanding that the need for help isn't because the money is gone cause you was not managing your shit. Legit help and receipts to show...it's just clear.
Love the show it’s possible to be unequally yoked. If both people make a significant amount and they want or spend money differently. I e 10 high end designer bags and savings don’t match he can really be in to her but don’t agree with how she spend. Like the homecoming sendoffs thousand for school dances not the marriage.
It's definitely possible for couples to have different spending habits and financial priorities. Communication and finding a middle ground is key in maintaining a healthy relationship!
I have noticed that when talking about being single vs in a relationship, most women always bring up damn near the worst scenarios of being in a bad relationship to justify why its better to be single.
Cos most women have bad relationships to speak of. It tells us women to stay away from the male race. There’s a movement in Korea by women- no sex, no children, no dating, no relationships/marriages. It’s spreading worldwide. Even Africa, women are done with men. Men can’t be bothered to change so y’all can date each other 😂. Y’all campaign on women backfired. Stop shaming us for being single. Us being single, makes yall single too lol
I think most people especially women don't really understand the true meaning of the word "Happiness", there's a very thin line between "happiness" and immaturity We human are divine beings, we were not brought here on earth to find "happiness" We're here for a purpose. A life full of regrets is what awaits most people
The study that showed unmarried women are happier, was done by Paul Dolan, who has since retracted this statement. He claimed that he misread the study.
@@meganakinsanya4702Cats don't kill? Six endemic species of birds have gone extinct because of feral cats. And they don't just kill for food, they kill for sport, research it if you want. I tell women this all the time, if you don't like men, go live in mother nature, see how she treats you. Everything in the wild wants to kill you, even water that's full of bacteria and parasites. The plants want to kill you, animals everything. You wouldn't make it a year in the wild by yourself, without the infrastructure created by men you would die. I think women forget how comfortable men have made the world. Sure there are a few bad apples, but it's far better than dealing with mother nature.
As a man 26 years old neva being in a relationship ive gottin used to being single 💯 I occupy myself with other stuff n find myself not even thinkin about em I actually choose to be single its not easy but yeah
17:00 at that moment that could have been a teachable moment for her. By explaining to her, you see how you reacted to what I stated is exactly what we have already. Just said you don't want to hear us telling you our emotional intelligence when it comes to our feelings because you automatically assume it's attacking you except taking that ass while I hear you. I understand you less work through it together. You took it ass. I hear you. This is what you actually meant and this is what you wanted to say to my face and went from comprehension to anger. If Amanda doesn't feel comfortable enough to open up to you because you making an area of anger, gaslighting or shaming tactics, then why should he trust you?
It’s my choice. I’ve been waiting my whole life for this moment and if I want matching shoes with my daughter then I’ll have that. You seem to also miss the part where I said she also has a bank account…
11:21 She's wrong sixty percent of women report stashing money for a backup plan...... Men don't do that because we have to use all our money to provide for the household.....
Thank you for sharing your perspective! Some concerns may indeed be more relevant to young people, but it's important to remember that relationships and their challenges can vary for everyone, regardless of age.
Lol, yeah I don't even introduce to them Haagen Daas till they're 12 and if they can buy it themselves...they don't know how to appreciate good ice cream before then.
That young woman in the hat she keeps making the statement that living with your family is a luxury it's not a luxury. You can have all you work hard to get ava have a major set back in life. Morning is ever, ever guaranteed to any person except death and taxes.. get real.
oh yeah, I charged my oldest...he's a good husband, daddy and son. Now I'm on my second...I charge her ass too!!! She work hard and who knows, she might be working at Hell's Kitchen soon..in the kitchen...I will continue to charge her ass. LOL.
Women swear that they're single by choice, but still have a sexual partner! You're single by his or her choice! When I say that I'm single by choice, I has custody of my daughter... I wasn't bringing some woman with a bad attitude around her! I wasn't trying to have someone imprint on them when I was raising them to be the opposite of a masculine woman!
Semen retention refers to the practice of avoiding ejaculation. Proponents suggest that it has many potential benefits, from physical to emotional and spiritual.
choosing to be single means that you are being pursued by your ideal partner. for a man it means that the woman available to you are wifeable but you decide not to engage with them.
The young lady who still standing with her family at 28 has the right idea.. I mean she's grown if she wants to stay out and spend the night with someone she can but this is the reason why the black family has split so far apart because as soon as they got of age a lot of the moms put their daughter's out because their ( men)/ boyfriends were looking at their daughters and they were in competition with their daughters..! Living with her mom she can stack her money and she still has to protection of her mother and her scandalous friends can't come over and cross her up and shack up at her house.! And anybody who doesn't understand that most of the world lives like that doesn't understand that when a woman leaves her mother and father's house she is supposed to have the protection of her fiance or husband.! Single women keep other women single!😊
You CAN it’s just not legally binding. I negotiated childcare on my prenup. It’s more for setting expectation purposes. I do not want my kids to live without both parents before 18. So my prenup says we will cohabitate until the youngest reaches 18. But this is not legally enforceable in court. It’s still want I want and if I ever get divorced and we go to mediation it’s what I would push for
Big business want single people. Workforce is doubled so business can keep labor cost down and sell more products. Double in. How do you think CEOs make tens of millions of dollars.
As a surveyor for the CDC y'all are wrong. We try to reach out to most Americans and y'all hang up when we call and ask to be put on the do not call lost. If you don't answer numbers you don't know and won't be on the phone for up to an hour and a half, Then don't try to say "they didn't survey me" it makes y'all look like a bunch of idiots 🤡🤡🤡
Y did bro say his girl would be checc to checc if they wasn’t together 😭, don’t put ya girl business out there like that at last have everyone else think she’ll do great even if you know different
I really would like to know where are they meeting these women. No matter what anyone says it seems like western women ain’t shit. It’s the exact thing which promotes the passport bros. Like so you two have NEVER came across a real woman?!🧐🤨🤔
Jeju be lying his ass off. Ain't no judge throwing out prenuptial agreement. He just lie to have a rebuttal when the guest be making sense. So annoying
You can have your pre nup thrown out if it was signed in duress. So, if you get a prenuptial, make sure you get your wife her own lawyer to walk her through the prenuptial. That's the only way it will stick. Talk what you know.
I am so tired of hearing people say this made up term call a high value man. I think since the pandemic and we had all this time everybody just came up with everything
I can understand your frustration. It seems like new terms and concepts are constantly popping up, especially with the rise of social media and the pandemic giving everyone more time to think.
@@Januarycap well you see how it turned out for him in the end and that will forever be funny🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
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There's a deliberate systematic time released destruction of the black family dynamic taking place here in the United States of America. Started with backbreaking during slavery and forcing the black women to watch, she knows he can't protect her but she stays, continue with welfare in the 60s where black women were made to choose between feeding herself and the kids or does she keep her man, the 90s began the increase in black women's education and increased pay and now she believes no need for her black men, and has absolutely no respect for her black men and says he can't do anything for her but f..k her and pay her bills. The next generation of black women have no love or respect for her black men, she doesn't want broke uneducated black man that can't do anything for her so she doesn't want to be with him let alone start a family so she chooses to be single. She over the years has been trained to become the black man she's always wanted, and she will never be able to see a black man like her in her eyes, and the destruction of the black family unit is complete. She's already been taken through education and money, next turn the system will convince black women to begin to vote against their own best interest and the interest of the black family unit. The black family has been destroyed and the system used our own women against us to make it happen. You ask a majority of modern black women what's more important to them, the bag or the family?
Let's be clear here, this being single and putting the bag in front of relationships, marriage and family is statistically a thing with black women, no other race of women is on board with this trend.
Who tf wrote the book saying you are supposed to be happy all the damn time. 😂😂😂 Happiness is a luxury in life. Survival is put above everything.
Why is it every time I go on social media and I hear about sisters talk about their finances and they're all doing exceptionally well? They all have a job or a business in which they make a lot of money, they all have second and third streams of income, they all are business owners, and they all have a significant amount of money in the bank? But, when we look at the Department of Labor Statistics it says something completely different.
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Facts
Because these women are lying.
@@DECEPTICON33not lying. We used to only have to declare payments above $10,000 now it’s $600. What if you don’t declare the income to Uncle Sam? But if you do…. How much do they take in taxes as a self employed single person in NY? Think about it …
its called cap. they made 5 sales and decided to call their side hustle a business. i sell stocks and made 5 successful sales. that doesn't make me a day trader (yet) but someone would call themselves that after 1 because it makes them feel important and faking it till you make it makes money.
Shorty in the black was real independent before the show started. 30 minutes into conversation “I don’t wanna do anything on my own” ……. You can’t make this shit up
Lmao hahaha 😂😂😂
😂 leave me alone ok … I CAN but that don’t mean I WANT to 🫣
@@iamgenesisnyc it’s like you CAN hold your breath for a really long time. But do you WANT to? At what cost? I feel you tho fam 💯🤣
This is the most peace I’ve had…being single
Lol lol lol lol
Women would be happier without social media. Until they figure that out, it will be a cold summer 😂
Even tho Ace was gone, yall can still carry the show and thats why yall continue to succeed. Keep it up. Bring my boy Ace back tho lol.
Question, why is it that everything seems to revolve around happiness? When happiness is a fleeting emotion and change like the wind. I think this speaks to our selfishness as people. Because in order to make a relationship work you must be willing to be selfless a lot more than you may like.
Another nail in a coffin. Bruh very few people understand this which is sad and hopeless when this obvious truth is lost on so many ears falsely claiming to have the will to listen.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It's interesting to reflect on how our obsession with happiness might be tied to our own selfishness. It's a reminder to prioritize selflessness and consider the needs and happiness of others in our relationships.
Blame disney
Happiness can come and go but no one wants to live in a state of unhappiness.. nor does anyone want to be with someone who is a constant source of their unhappiness..
The reason that our society is so screwed up is, because modern women are becoming letsbefriends.....Life is knowlonger about leaving something implanted into the next generation. Now it's about finding constant happiness & gratification and as soon as the new 🚘 car smell runs out they're out.
I think the basis of being happier single as a woman is not having the added responsibility or expectation of "keeping a man." So not having the expectation to cook or have sex "x" times a week. It's like I can come home from a stressful day and order food and decompress vs feeling like I have to clock back in. Sometimes people prefer being single because they are honest with themselves about how limited their capacity is.
Actually as adults we all have added responsibility when we get in a relationship and we should understand that when we go into a relationship that I'm not only required to evaluate my ups and downs but I'm also required to someone evaluate my significant others ups and downs.. most women nowadays can't even cook the way our mothers and grandmothers cook so a lot of men do the cooking so it's not just about cooking and as far as sex women like sex just as much as men some even like sex more than men so I don't think it's sex either ..the reason why I don't believe women when they say they are happier single is because statistics show that women are more depressed .. record numbers of women are on antidepression meds now, and also all the women who get divorced still seeking another mans company! and women who are single are always in and out of different men's lives with their situationships but they are still having these men babies! And a lot of women like to be so called single so they can sleep around with a lot of different guys and get money from different dudes they can get more money from a lot of dudes then getting money from just from one man..! Females be up on social media fibbin & cappin.🎉
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On a short term basis, I can see what you mean. However, do you honestly believe in the long term those would be most women's preference? Being able to come home to no expectations?
I actually agree with you and essentially how you worded it. I will say however, "keeping a man" that you respect, is far more rewarding than being a name on a piece of paper for a corporation that views you as a replaceable commodity that will work you till there's nothing left all while paying you crumbs in comparison to the value you bring. You know, closer to modern day slavery. But then again, it's all in perspective.
@@ItsHim-m7jin this day and age- yes
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fr. great panel.
These females are close to the average normal types out here.
Men need to stop being in these fake relationships...just be friends and hangout once in awhile...if you need sex? Then just pay for it and keep it moving...if you pay a professional. You dont have to worry about having a baby with the wrong person. No child support or alimony
You don’t have to worry about having a baby if you wrap up every single time but even then mistakes happen!
I believe Ashley is speaking more of a spiritual need...and the connection. We as human being all need and want a connection...it's natural.
Women happy being single but on depression medication 😂
Women logic
Because of the last previous relationship 🥹😭💀 you never know what someone has been through.
Men committing suicide at the highest rates cause they lonely😅
Bro men exceed this stat. Women in marriages and relationships take More meds than single women.
Certain depression (like bipolar) are Genetic~ it’s a chemical imbalance in their brain (not solely based on feelings) this is needed to regulate their chemical output - just like insulin does sugar.
Men also take their lives 35% more times then women.
Trust single women are the happiest demographic compaired to all others - which is why we are choosing singleship.
@@masixchell men don't say they're single and happy while on depression meds 🙃. Women live life on easy mode so they live longer and commit less suicide.
I always tell women to be happy if you are happier alone, but stop complaining when you are single.
I've never heard happy people complain about something they don't want or need. Where they do that at?
It depends on the person. People are all different with different personalities. Many people get stressed out when they have to constantly interact with someone and prefer to be alone most of the time. There is nothing wrong with that. Plus women throughout most of modern history didn’t really have a choice not to be married- you literally could not have a bank account with just your name on it. Now there are more options for one’s life and many women are choosing differently AND are incredibly happy and fulfilled. Guess what.. that’s perfectly OK. Women don’t need someone else to cater to their every need at every moment. They can find happiness and peace in just them and then contribute emotionally to their family and friends (when they want to). It’s a beautiful thing imo!
Had the kids had the marriage I’m cool with my cat … relationship n kids that family life is not for everyone… it’s ok to be single and childless u was born by yourself …
I wasn’t happy single until I went thru hell in a couple relationships. I’ve been single and celibate for 3 yrs. I had my son at 20, I’m now 37 so it’s not like I’m needing a man to have children. I am content being single now because my life is more peaceful.
Relationships aren't easy, but there is a huge potiental for growth for the both of you. It's not about being happy or peaceful, it's about cultivating your character. My relationship has taught me to be more patient, tolerant, forgiving, understanding etc.... I would have not developed all this on my own.
With a child, when they get out of line, you can put your foot down and tell them what to do, that same mess ain't gonna work on a spouse, you guys gotta learn to work shit out, and it's hard.
A relationship is very challanging, but it's rewarding if you find the right spouse who is willing to put in the work. Like going to the gym, sure it's easier not to work out, but working out has benefits that you can't get sitting peacefully on the couch.
Always enjoy these conversations. Keep up the good work, brothers.
The notion that men think being single is so you can hoe in Peace is pretty tragic 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
That's what women on the Internet say themselves
@Joshua-eo5hr who bottle girls and escorts, broken impoverished sexy red baby mamas...so low self esteem, never had a role model women..and u really think all women fit that..once again..u and them..tragic
@@Joshua-eo5hr well you “men” are dumb af to believe every woman does that but wonder why y’all get treated and talked to the way that y’all do🤷♀️
She said that like it’s men doing that nah it’s women holding 3/4 of the debt…
Man come on that one chick is the prime example of being materialistic….😂
IT IS NOT HEALTHY TO BE ALONE ALL THE TIME!!!
College debt is a real thing for these ladies, most men sent that college debt while in school….
That's the baggage they cone with while only offering boring repetitive convos/kitty cats🤷🏽♂️
@@meldonsleep5298Stay single then . Oh but yall don’t want high earners . I’m in college for the third time, guess who doesn’t have student loan debt. Most of yall don’t even go to college to have that debt , and most black men don’t make more than 50k a ( check the statics ) yet yall are always complaining about the “debt “ you swear all women have! Some of us , a lot of us actually have our shit together and black men are bums for real . Women are opting out of these bullshit struggle love relationships , even if you might ( and I use might loosely) be a decent dude all be broke as fuck , I work for the school system where young black men are under performing ( shit 40 percent of adult black men can’t read past a fourth grade level) more than half of our students from 4-8 do not read on grade level. Man I could go on y’all are not worth the time and attention you think you are !
Living with your adult child is a mutual decision, not a luxury. It is often a mutual necessity. Calling these strategic decisions a "luxury" minimalizes the intricacies of the household dynamic. I was surprised to see her say that. She knows 1st hand as the present benefactor of a healthy home.
I've been happy being alone, not getting used abused and cheated on, I've been successful had my everything since I was 19, all I needed was love, all I got was used abused and pain.
Sorry for the bad experiences, keep ya head up and enter into relationships in good faith. Usually those men start with good will n run into heartbreak by 15-16 kuz women already have options and usually choose the older more experienced guy which turns the younger guy into the guys that return foul behavior…. Horrible cycle 🤷🏽♂️
Yall love saying this after choosing the RayRay's and Pookies, then judge all men cuz the guy YOU WANTED wasn't the man that was good for you. I hope you heal tho cuz real men BEEN out here.
str8 factsssss@@ImperfectD
You picked that person
@@russelljohnson437 They were a devil in sheep's clothing, I'd never want anyone to just hurt me. Thank you for your concern.
Come on fellas. More push back please. Getting a little soft
This is a cool episode! I like that all the women were a little different but smooth!
Thank you!
@@iamgenesisnyc definitely 😉
I’m glad more women are not getting into relationships, more time to discover ourselves
The intro was fantastic. Keep it up fellas
Much appreciated!
All of the women are attractive in different ways. Also Yals least histrionic panel.
LOL aren't most women histrionic???
Most women are that bro lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣
You cannot place your value in materialism but just like being single or in a relationship there are pros and cons i choose to be single and avoid mistreatment or under value myself
What was the last celebrity that we heard about taking their own life because of materialism? Or did we hear about a celebrity ending themself buy a drug overdose
So glad I don't have the pressure the young ladies have now to "chase the bag", especially in this economy. There is nothing wrong with getting your money, you just have to put things in perspective and make sure it's what YOU want to do and that you're not out here trying to compete with other ladies on the innernet (misspelled on purpose lol) or even around you who are walking around "drippin'".
They are coping with some with deep deep depression, but they ALL happy in being single, anyways do y'all Lol 🤣🤣🤣
Word
And they ain’t knocking on your doors either 😂
Love your podcast.Makes my fridays keep up
Appreciate that
I think it's because women provide each other emotional support during lonely or challenging times. So we can cope with singleness better because of it.
Good convos no doubt I liked all the ladies on the panel. Everybody view point was valid and I liked how all the guys upped eachother can tell y’all really respect one another that’s wassup
My partner and I got each other's back, with an understanding that the need for help isn't because the money is gone cause you was not managing your shit. Legit help and receipts to show...it's just clear.
Happy...lol😅😅😅 when women look to a man to make them "happy" is a red flag!!
RUN, get to the chopper!!!!!!
True! No one should depend on anyone to make them happy! It’s a recipe for disaster!
Yow just on the intro. I know this one is a banger.
Livelihood and Foundation with your partner, spouse, lover....
Easily one y’all’s best shows, keep it up fellas!
You guys keep great topics,
I live a polygamous marriage life. Bring me on.
Send us a dm
They don’t HAVE to go by nothing…. She way off on the prenup concept 😂😂😂
Y’all should have “it depends on the person “ as not a answer fr
lmao facts
Do some Women think they’re spiting someone else by staying alone??
13:17 Great point
Love the show it’s possible to be unequally yoked. If both people make a significant amount and they want or spend money differently. I e 10 high end designer bags and savings don’t match he can really be in to her but don’t agree with how she spend. Like the homecoming sendoffs thousand for school dances not the marriage.
It's definitely possible for couples to have different spending habits and financial priorities. Communication and finding a middle ground is key in maintaining a healthy relationship!
I have noticed that when talking about being single vs in a relationship, most women always bring up damn near the worst scenarios of being in a bad relationship to justify why its better to be single.
Cos most women have bad relationships to speak of. It tells
us women to stay away from the male race. There’s a movement in Korea by women- no sex, no children, no dating, no relationships/marriages. It’s spreading worldwide.
Even Africa, women are done with men. Men can’t be bothered to change so y’all can date each other 😂. Y’all campaign on women backfired.
Stop shaming us for being single.
Us being single, makes yall single too lol
I think most people especially women don't really understand the true meaning of the word "Happiness", there's a very thin line between "happiness" and immaturity
We human are divine beings, we were not brought here on earth to find "happiness" We're here for a purpose. A life full of regrets is what awaits most people
The study that showed unmarried women are happier, was done by Paul Dolan, who has since retracted this statement. He claimed that he misread the study.
I wonder what Paul would say about women and cats. Cats seem to be better companions! They don’t cheat, kill and abuse.
@@meganakinsanya4702Cats don't kill? Six endemic species of birds have gone extinct because of feral cats. And they don't just kill for food, they kill for sport, research it if you want.
I tell women this all the time, if you don't like men, go live in mother nature, see how she treats you. Everything in the wild wants to kill you, even water that's full of bacteria and parasites. The plants want to kill you, animals everything.
You wouldn't make it a year in the wild by yourself, without the infrastructure created by men you would die. I think women forget how comfortable men have made the world. Sure there are a few bad apples, but it's far better than dealing with mother nature.
As a man 26 years old neva being in a relationship ive gottin used to being single 💯 I occupy myself with other stuff n find myself not even thinkin about em I actually choose to be single its not easy but yeah
Eric Badu got every psalm and uncle quote on deck :P
That makes so much sense...that is a prenup for sure...but to have one before is strategic for real
A decent grouping af ladies for the show!
17:00 at that moment that could have been a teachable moment for her. By explaining to her, you see how you reacted to what I stated is exactly what we have already. Just said you don't want to hear us telling you our emotional intelligence when it comes to our feelings because you automatically assume it's attacking you except taking that ass while I hear you. I understand you less work through it together. You took it ass. I hear you. This is what you actually meant and this is what you wanted to say to my face and went from comprehension to anger. If Amanda doesn't feel comfortable enough to open up to you because you making an area of anger, gaslighting or shaming tactics, then why should he trust you?
Lovin' this discussion
soulection shirt on point!!!
How is buying red bottoms preparing for parent hood
It’s my choice. I’ve been waiting my whole life for this moment and if I want matching shoes with my daughter then I’ll have that. You seem to also miss the part where I said she also has a bank account…
Great video
Glad you enjoyed it
2030 will be wild
Yup, you strong independent ladies do you. Me and my stay at home wife, who thinks ur all stupid will just be doing us yah.😊
Congrats?
I hate trendy terms. Celibacy is a vow to never marry which, by extension, includes abstinence from sex. You are practicing abstinence. 😮
You understood what I meant…
11:21 She's wrong sixty percent of women report stashing money for a backup plan...... Men don't do that because we have to use all our money to provide for the household.....
75% single mothers they ain’t stashing not a damn thing FrFr
@@michaelmayojr.2730 Who's talking about single moms.... The entire subjects about couples....
What episode is this? I wanna watch in full
"RED, GOLD, && GREEN ×2 WAVE..." Kabaka Pyramid & Damian Marley.
As young people, just understand that yall don't know shit. If you can wrap your head around that, you already know more than most.
Nah I remember sis in the black, mad cool, but i just felt i couldn't provide what she wanted at the time tbh.
A lot of this are Young people's concerns quite honestly that don't translate to Mature Relationships.
Thank you for sharing your perspective! Some concerns may indeed be more relevant to young people, but it's important to remember that relationships and their challenges can vary for everyone, regardless of age.
Do they even think about what they are going to say?!!!😂😂😂😂
Word.Slim shorty in the white shirt be losing me a little 🤔
Lol, yeah I don't even introduce to them Haagen Daas till they're 12 and if they can buy it themselves...they don't know how to appreciate good ice cream before then.
Im here im there ...
Champagne taste but beer money
That young woman in the hat she keeps making the statement that living with your family is a luxury it's not a luxury. You can have all you work hard to get ava have a major set back in life. Morning is ever, ever guaranteed to any person except death and taxes.. get real.
oh yeah, I charged my oldest...he's a good husband, daddy and son. Now I'm on my second...I charge her ass too!!! She work hard and who knows, she might be working at Hell's Kitchen soon..in the kitchen...I will continue to charge her ass. LOL.
Women swear that they're single by choice, but still have a sexual partner! You're single by his or her choice! When I say that I'm single by choice, I has custody of my daughter... I wasn't bringing some woman with a bad attitude around her! I wasn't trying to have someone imprint on them when I was raising them to be the opposite of a masculine woman!
Is the quean in the white top making no sense?
JEUU RIGHT 46:16 MARK. BECAUSE WOMEN FALL FOR WORDS. LOL
One thing my brother gonna do is tell me the harsh truth 😅 amen…
What the heck? Semen retention.
Semen retention refers to the practice of avoiding ejaculation. Proponents suggest that it has many potential benefits, from physical to emotional and spiritual.
choosing to be single means that you are being pursued by your ideal partner. for a man it means that the woman available to you are wifeable but you decide not to engage with them.
Some facts,but just not experienced.
Let em be happy alone until they day they die. Other countries have better women that don't over estimate their value.
The young lady who still standing with her family at 28 has the right idea.. I mean she's grown if she wants to stay out and spend the night with someone she can but this is the reason why the black family has split so far apart because as soon as they got of age a lot of the moms put their daughter's out because their ( men)/ boyfriends were looking at their daughters and they were in competition with their daughters..! Living with her mom she can stack her money and she still has to protection of her mother and her scandalous friends can't come over and cross her up and shack up at her house.! And anybody who doesn't understand that most of the world lives like that doesn't understand that when a woman leaves her mother and father's house she is supposed to have the protection of her fiance or husband.! Single women keep other women single!😊
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Shorty tryna talk about “30 years later” duh if my lil big man work I still want my girl to have a nice body
34:31
She way off on prenup. You can't negotiate child support b4 children are born.
Some people have kids and then get married.
You CAN it’s just not legally binding. I negotiated childcare on my prenup. It’s more for setting expectation purposes. I do not want my kids to live without both parents before 18. So my prenup says we will cohabitate until the youngest reaches 18. But this is not legally enforceable in court. It’s still want I want and if I ever get divorced and we go to mediation it’s what I would push for
@@terickastidbits2342 Very smart and cool tactic. If only it could hold up in court.
She don’t know about prenup
Big business want single people. Workforce is doubled so business can keep labor cost down and sell more products. Double in. How do you think CEOs make tens of millions of dollars.
Wolf❤
Prenups don't get thrown in the garbage unless you write it yourself. And she is right. Y'all you dudes need to further educate yourself.
She looks older then 27
I guess it’s a good thing that so many women are single and happy…until they aren’t. Stop the cap.
Women age like flowers, men age like trees
As a surveyor for the CDC y'all are wrong. We try to reach out to most Americans and y'all hang up when we call and ask to be put on the do not call lost. If you don't answer numbers you don't know and won't be on the phone for up to an hour and a half, Then don't try to say "they didn't survey me" it makes y'all look like a bunch of idiots 🤡🤡🤡
Y did bro say his girl would be checc to checc if they wasn’t together 😭, don’t put ya girl business out there like that at last have everyone else think she’ll do great even if you know different
I really would like to know where are they meeting these women. No matter what anyone says it seems like western women ain’t shit. It’s the exact thing which promotes the passport bros. Like so you two have NEVER came across a real woman?!🧐🤨🤔
Jeju be lying his ass off. Ain't no judge throwing out prenuptial agreement. He just lie to have a rebuttal when the guest be making sense. So annoying
Shiddd they threw out Tyrese prenup. Anything is possible with the law, if your have a good enough lawyer. It's always a loop hole somewhere.
You can have your pre nup thrown out if it was signed in duress. So, if you get a prenuptial, make sure you get your wife her own lawyer to walk her through the prenuptial. That's the only way it will stick. Talk what you know.
we just did an interview with a professional divorce attorney stay tuned for that episode
Non reciprocal = 🤡 behavior fellas 32:57
I am so tired of hearing people say this made up term call a high value man. I think since the pandemic and we had all this time everybody just came up with everything
I can understand your frustration. It seems like new terms and concepts are constantly popping up, especially with the rise of social media and the pandemic giving everyone more time to think.
@@DailyRapUpCrew It's a made up term. You all only follow what KS did. But not as good as he was.
@@Januarycap well you see how it turned out for him in the end and that will forever be funny🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@@zee608 damn
Money is ppl god it sad the bible real! Believe it or not! Mark of the beast system!
Stop trying to save people from themselves!!!