How to Survive A Job You Hate (and get through the day!)
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I give myself an end date. “Im quitting in September” and so it doesn’t feel like a life sentence. When that date lands I set it a little further and after 4-5 times then I switch jobs. Try and focus on the positive of the new job for as long as possible.
I did the same! It relieved a ton of hopelessness on my mind! Instead of feeling like a prisoner 5 days a week, it gaves me a truck load of motivation to create my exit solution before that end date! :)
I haven't even started the job and I already hate it.
hmmm really!? I suggest going into it with an open mind. Even if you do in fact don't like it, going into it with an open mind will allow you to learn from it.
@@ShainaLeis Sure, I'll try to keep my pessimism out of the game XD
Stay positive and take what you can get from the job but also work on a feasible exit plan when you go home
I feel this
i feel you. 2 weeks and already hate it. now i can't leave cuz its hard to look for another job in this pandemic
Is it bad that I’m watching this at work? Lmao
No its a great start
Same lol
same
Same
It's not like I hate my job. But it can be stressful and exhausting and honestly, there are timese where I'd rather stay at home
What job do you do?
@@lennymwale411 I work at a law firm as a secretary/assistant.
What makes me mad is when someone walks around doing nothing while I’m here working non stop
Why do you care what someone else is doing? We can't control anyone else!! Notice how much suffering YOU are causing yourself when you are all up in their business. They are an adult. They can act however they please.
IKR
@@ShainaLeis I know but I have some co-workers that don't do s*it all day and I have to do their work too! It is not fair. I also think they do it on purpose because I'm the young one who'll do anything so they don't do it because they know the manager is going to ask me to do their stuff too.
They get paid for doing nothing and I don't get paid for the extra work I put in.
@@ShainaLeis Na. If u work in retail like me. And someone else just sits at the front and doesn't help out it doesn't just affect them. It affects everyone.
@@ShainaLeis I don't agree here. As much as we can't really change anything about them not working, it really isn't fair and anger is warranted.
My boyfriend suffers this. He's part of management in a retail store and he's constantly on the go doing everything trying to get the store in order so it's functioning properly. Making sure all stock is out in time, making sure the shelves are tidy, dealing with unruly customers, watching out for shoplifters, cashing up the money, sorting out rotas etc. He gives other employees shit to do and some of them completely half ass it or don't even try and that ruins the whole flow for the day so then he has to stay behind longer than his shift to do shit they should have got done in the first place. It will be beyond frustrating when youre grinding your butt off and someone else is a lazy shit that doesnt care and has no thought for the other workers trying their best. If youre part of a team you work as a team.
It's not at all fair that they get paid for doing nothing while you slave away for the same wage.
Yes. I admit. We start liking our jobs/colleagues when we are about to leave or have 😑 resigned! Haha. It’s the same theory of loving / missing things that we are going to lose!! ✌🏽
Completely! Gosh we humans are so crazy sometimes lol
I can’t even enjoy my life because of my job. I work in retail but aspire to be a nurse one day. Customers are honestly so rude and I just hate the place overall, when I get time off I can’t even enjoy it, the day before I go back (today) I go through about 3 panic attacks in a day..
Look at your first sentence: "I can't even enjoy my life because my job!" Notice how poisonous that thought is. How do you FEEL when you think that? What do you do? You're denying yourself permission to feel good right now. And how we create new results is by feeling good.
Shaina Leis how can we fix that if we are genuinely unhappy with where we are right now :(
I work as a nurse . Its also shit . I am at work and watching this now ... patients are just ... man ... annoying is not enough to describe. Its a 24 hrs long shift at patients house . Sometimes its just shit their houses are old and filthy.. discusting...
@@ItachiUchiha-re6fx I think this is quite a judgemental comment. It’s not their fault it’s like that
omg please , i felt this
I hate seeing my co workers leave and move on while I'm still there stuck. My job is freaking shitty but I have it good. Great schedule, great pay, freedom do to what ever I want after I put it my bare minimum. It's the fact that I know that it's not what I meant to do and that is what kills me every day.
I really like my job, it is the change of staff that I dislike. The good ones have moved on and sadly been taken over by very two faced individuals. No matter how much I distance and focus on my work, I have to work with these people. There is so much toxicity and whilst I am trying to keep an open mind and a positive vibe, it is a struggle. But I keep saying to myself that better opportunities will happen when you least expect it.
It’s my first day on the job.. I’m sitting in the car on my lunch break.
Thank you, needed this. I have a job at our local flower shop and I feel like I am stuck in this cycle, that repeats every week. De day before I go to work I feel depressed all the time, and the morning before I have to go, I sometimes cry.
Honestly I feel kinda the same way, I work at Tropical Smootie. It’s not really bad but there are times where I just feel like giving up in this cycle of going to work, I really just need motivation
Its so true how many people are stuck in a rut at their jobs but its great to see you highlight the positives and new opportunities for how we can live full out
I try me best 😉
I literally go to work in 30 minutes.
Im 17 and am at my second ice cream job, and wanna bawl my eyes out cus im gng in 2 hours earlier than planed.
Faith Lininger I’m in a similar position right now, I work at a clothing store and I’m constantly working closing shifts (10 or 10-15pm) and I’m ALWAYS being called by my manager to cover shifts on days that I’m already working for 6+ hours as a 17 year old
Bruh
I am 14 and work at a nursery and have to pull weeds for 8 hours and make the same as u I would rather work at ur job
@@tanner6423 i moved to a new place, but its not much better. For months they refused to schedule to my availability. I do get paid 11 an hour which is y im staying, but the customers are cruel, the bosses are worse.
Bruh I’m a fucking dishwasher, u have it made
I am in a part time job and I absolutely don’t like it but it’s the only job I can get right now
Hey Shaina, you've really inspired me. I am quitting my job in a warehouse on May 18th so I can pursue my passion of becoming
a Health Coach. My goal is to bless people and help them explore where health and wellness can take them. I told my company this week that I quit and I already have a lot of amazing opportunities and I've networked with lots of cool people who are passionate about health. About a month ago I found your videos and you've really encouraged me.
Oh wow! Good for you Dan!! I'm thrilled to be a little piece of your journey. I hope my collection of old (and new videos) help you all the way through 😀 Please keep us posted!
How has this gone for you?
Also, another great note, daydreaming about your hobbies or passions. For example, I love to travel to different areas. So during the day I would kinda plan out in my head what I’d like to do or see. Maybe something fun or funny I could do. It really makes the day go by quick.
Needed this so bad! So thankful for your channel girl💕
You're very welcome 😘
I have a couple of questions. When you say to be grateful to have a job like I get it that people want to work and have jobs but what if your dream of never having to work? You also say that it won't last forever but what if you get paid the most you'll probably ever get paid so you'll probably work there until you die so what if it does last forever? I go to work everyday dreading it and barely making it to the end of the day then having to repeat the cycle. Sometimes I cry on my break because I feel so suffocated and trapped.
Same
Girl, same. Except in 2023.
I hate my job so much it makes me cry, I am not grateful for it, nor can I even take advantage of all the perks. I would like to quit but then how will I be able to pay for my trips or bring my parents free food, etc. Sometimes I think I won't ever stop working.
Ok so you definitely have some messy thinking going on around your job situation. I highly encourage you to get your mind right. You're thinking too much about the hows which is turning into a lot of BUTS. Work what's in your control right now and that's your thinking. regain your power girl.
Mom got me a job for a week. And i'd love it exept that i am requiered to speak to people about they're experience in a store. The problem is that not only i have all my day busy mornings being School and evenings work but i am really REALLY anxious and i couldnt speak to strangers If my life depended on IT. I really hope IT works. My first day was terrifieng!!!
I recently started working and everytime I hafta work the next day I get rlly scared and Get super Anxious
So many loud sounds,not a huge fan of the smell of all the grills and friers, And time feels like it goes on forever
Sometimes I get asked to come in and I feel so bad cause its my day off and Ik i can say no; but I just feel bad when I do
I am only 11 and I have been working at are farm of over 4 years!!!!!!
I don't hate it but some time its hard!!
I find it impossible to not have work destroy my life. I hate every job and my entire life because of work. I want to die.
I know it’s stressful but you have so much life to live! Try to go towards what makes you happy :)
@@themisadventuresofnaomij There isn't really anything that makes me happy, and work takes away what little pleasure there is in life. What is there except a tiring, boring,pointless grind just to have the means to occasionally get drunk, watch TV, or play games?
@@someonesomeone25 You have to take some time to get to know yourself to see what you truly desire. Let go of your thoughts about work for a minute and spend some uninterrupted time with yourself. When was the last time you remember truly feeling joy out of something? For example, you like to watch TV or play games? There are plenty of people who do movie reactions/tv show reviews for a living and are enjoying themselves. It mainly starts with learning more about you and what you like and what you will and will not tolerate and it's ok if you don't know yet; that's why it's important to spend time trying to figure it out and don't be too hard on yourself.
@@themisadventuresofnaomij I've spent a huge amount of time figuring myself out. That is how I know I hate all work and all jobs. What I enjoy are not only certain things that cannot be monetised, like getting drunk and chatting to friends, but the absence of things like responsibility, stress, dealing with idiots, conflict, boredom, tiredness, effort, difficulty, criticism etc. All work and every job has lots of those things which remove any pleasure I might get from the job otherwise. Note, I like to play games- I don't like to write about them etc. It is impossible to make make from only doing the things I enjoy, that is why work is work and not play.
@@someonesomeone25 In regard to playing games, you know you don't have to write about them right? People record themselves playing video games all the time like PewDiePie and he is making bank
Currently hate my job. Watch this on my shift. Thank you for tips! 💙
I just hate having to be expected to do everything right; I’m human and I forget and make mistakes and it seems like my boss has forgot that but like when I started he put me through training to do certain things and now, he’s not putting the new people in the same training he put me through like they’re better than me. Also, I just get stuck doing the “dirty” work, and I’m expected to be giddy about it. Can’t wait to leave!
Great video, one of the ways I got a job with no experience was by creating a video, made me stand out from the crowd, and they felt like they knew me before I even turned up to the interview!
I. Need. To. Rant.
Not a job but an internship. I can't stand it, I wonder how I will endure it any longer. I'm just trying to get time to pass as quickly as possible, but it goes by so slowly! It's not that I can leave this place either... If I do ANYTHING to leave this internship I will get kicked out of college. I can't get kicked out of college cause I NEED to graduate this year in order to go to nursing school.
I am an intern at a drugstore. I'm only starting my 3rd week on monday and already want to quit, but I can't. I still have 9 months, 2 weeks and 5 days left of this absolute torture.
My boss is rude to me, she called me stupid on the second day I was there because I didn't see that I forgot to put a bottle of shampoo on the shelf. I told her "Oh I thought it wouldn't fit there" and she said "Well then clearly you shouldn't think at all. Just push it back. You keep messing this up". And she also told me to "ignore it and suck it up" when an elderly woman cussed me out in the store for having a pimple on my chin. It shocked me and I went to the back of the store and cried a bit because the lady yelled at me in front of everyone and said "I hope you never get a job here if you walk around with diseases like that". I felt humiliated and my pride was hurt.
They know they don't have to pay the intern so they make me do all the hard work, made me collect peoples trash and throw it out in the back but then got mad at me when I didn't finish putting the products on the shelf before my shift ended. She told my form teacher I'm too slow of a worker and how I am not very customer friendly. I am in fact customer friendly. I always help people with a smile on my face EVEN if i don't have time, I often can't help them and ask my co-workers a lot of questions (which they find very annoying) because they know the store better than i do, yet now my form teacher has to come to the store on Thursday for a talk with my boss.
It's stupid, I AM customer friendly, my boss is literally always eating in the back of the store and on her phone so she wouldn't even know if I'm customer friendly or not, SHE'S NEVER THERE, she was with me ONE time and thats when I didn't say "Good morning" to one of the customers because my back was facing him and I was busy doing something so I didn't even notice him.
I'm stressed! If I don't have a good reputation here then how am I gonna be allowed into nursing school? I'm not a cruel person, I have so much patience and respect for people even if they don't deserve it and now it will most likely cost me my future and my dream job.
I have a lovely form teacher though, that man is SO kind, I hope he will understand but my boss is SO fake to him. She laughed at smiled at him during the first interview we had, but then proceeded to look me up and down with a nasty expression on her face.
I don't mind dealing with cruel customers, I don't mind running around until my legs ache, I don't mind having to do multiple things at once and still having people ask me stuff, I don't mind to be busy constantly, I can do all of that with a smile on my face and a respectful and positive attitude. I mean, I want to be a nurse for heavens sake! Yet this, I can't, I don't get payed anything which I completely understand because I'm an intern but the amount of disrespect I have to take and put up with from not only the customers but MY OWN BOSS, the amount of work they make me do while my other co-workers sit around and do nothing, the insanely high expectations they had of me since the jump regarding how fast i do my work even though I never got any official training is baffling to me.
I feel like a slave.
Sorry for ranting, I needed to vent somewhere and couldn't help myself. I have to push through it, if this is what it takes to be allowed into nursing school then bring it on!
I will do anything in my power to become a nurse, it is my dream and it's gonna take so much work. My spirit guides are testing me and I know I have to push through it. I always get what I want as soon as I put my mind to it, I want to be a nurse, so I will do whatever it takes, even if it means having to be an intern at a horribly managed drugstore.. :/
Ugh. I'm never pessimistic, Universe give me strength. I will probably just give myself goals or deadlines or whatever.. "At the end of October I will be finished!" and then when I reach November I'll do the same thing "At the end of November I'll be done with it!" and then keep lying to myself like that until July when I can finally promise myself that at the end of July I really will be finished. :)
Blessed be!
I hope everything is going alright now or better, in the end of the day your mental health is most important
You are paying to be in school and going to this internship to learn skills, not be humiliated ans tortured by a horrible "boss " and shitty people. You really should speak with your school and let them know how you ate being treated and how unprofessional and inappropriate the situation is. You deserve better.
So how did it turn out for you? I hope you made it to nursing school.
Tysm for this vid, I been feeling really anxious to go to work everyday and I feel unmotivated. I just hope I can continue Tropical Smoothie for some time and maybe by the end of this year I’ll find something better😓😊
Love the list of things you DO like about your job... It's going to help my friend who HATES her job AND her boss!!
Oh my goddd ive found my people in the comments section!!!!!!!! Lol
I can’t wait to quit my job it’s the worst thing in my life right now the only reason I even go without crying is because I want to the see the face of my handsome co-worker, he just makes everything so much better. He is probably the only one that cares about how my day is going the rest act like I don’t exist. In different circumstances I would have dated him jeez
I know this video is 2 years old and I’m sure you’ve heard it a lot BUT Thank YOU!
You’re very welcome 😊
Hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah is the highest I praise 3 I
Thanks so much for this video. This has really helped me through a rough patch with my job.
I'm so happy to hear that!
I work at my dads company, I’m supposed to take over the company later in life. But atm the tasks I get are really hard to keep doing, ive been taking medals out of boxes for 3 days now and i am head of the stockroom so i shouldn’t even be doing this, i really just wanna quit tbh. I just know they’ll be disappointed 😕
I don’t know why I dread it but I really do
Just started my first a full time job today lol and I'm thinking how tf do people do this everyday 😐
Awesome video, Shaina! You were spot on with the points and content. Very relatable and nice 😊 thank you so much for making this video. Exactly what I wanted now!
I'm pretty sure you popped into my head while I was making it 😉
Shaina Leis 😂😂😂 Thank you, Shaina 😍😘
I have to do 7 more months before I can quit. Feels like torture. I hate it so much.
i recently joined this new job because it pays better but it is just non stop work, each n every day i am working 12 hours regardless of weekends and this is the pattern since the first day i joined and its been two months now and i hate it. My colleagues are arrogant assholes who dont wanna spare 5 mins to help me out and ridicule me for not being able to understand something quickly! I just hate it but i cant quit because I need the money bad! I know i have to suck it up but i needed to get it out of my system
I finally put in my notice and am done at the end of May. Although its a great feeling knowing that I am done, it's still scary (I have been here 15 years). I don't know that I will make it that long.. UGH.
Yesterday was my 2nd day, every inch in my body hurts, it's such a hard job
Edit: 1 hours a day drive to work and 1 hour to home
Update:got 1st paycheck bought only needed things, and saved 270 euros, 2nd paycheck in 6 days
Hope you’re doing better now. Send you good vibes. Stay strong, you can do it!
Update: 2nd paycheck, saved 1,070 euros, once saved 5k i hope to start my own thing
How about the free stationery & every so often batteries 🔋 to "borrow" 😆 & whatever else the office has to offer 🤷♀️
This video helped, thank you
I don't absolutely hate the job but it makes my body ache. It pays a lot so I need to keep it for a while.
First day at ups as a package handler in 2 hours at 5am. Haven’t slept 😀
Try to get some sleep 😉
Shaina Leis Awww thank you. Thats very kind.
This video touched my soul! Thank you 🙏🏽
You're welcome :)
Just started a new job yesterday and I hated my first day lol. This is just how I am though. I always hate a new job when I first start, however I grow to actually enjoy the work sometimes after I get assimilated. The only difference here is that I feel like I’m losing most of my social life working 2-11. I used to dread morning shifts, but now I feel like I absolutely need them. I used to look forward to hitting the gym after a nice and early shift of work so I could take my time and stay at the gym for two hours If I wanted to. Now I can barely go because my gym closes at 10, so my only option is to start going in the morning. I just feel like I live a degenerate lifestyle when I don’t have to wake up early in the morning. Oh well, I’m sure the job will grow on me. I just keep telling myself that I had to step out of my comfort zone at some point lol.
I really dont wanna go to work. I have two hours till my shift. I feel nothing but dread. It pays better than any job I've ever had. I can easily take care of my family. Benefits. But damn bro, I wanna be home with my wife, my kids. Life is so short. My daughter's three now and I swear we just had her a few months ago. I feel like I'm missing out not just on time with her, but on life.
I have benefits and 5 weeks vacation each year so you would think I would be happy, but ah no so overly depressed at my job I want to cry. I wanted this video to help me enormously, but I am so stuck at my job of over 19 years I don't know it helped that much. I have 10 years and 10 months before the earliest I can retire at 30 years. Trying hard to accept it and get through each day, but it's getting harder by the year. Plan your escape plan and I really am trying that to the point I have a countdown app. I feel that! If only we got free coffee... I have to bring in the kcups myself if I want any. 😞
I love my place of work and all of the benefits but I work in a call center so taking call after call all day gets rough
Ok I have 12 days left ( 4 weeks) I will start tomorrow ( I do 3 days x week) after that I’ll finally end my job. God please help me to survive these days. Thank you ! I hate it so much and also people! They are so negative I can’t tell!
I don't hate the work just the salary and the co-workers
Wow this was an amazing video it was very informative and completely shifted me into a motivated and grateful mindset!
Happy it helped!!
This video made me feel better about hating my job. Thank you.
You’re welcome. Thanks for watching!
Congrats on 24k I'm your 24000th subscriber hi!
Wow congrats to you too !! 😊
What if you hate your job bc you haven’t gotten a lunch break in 3 months and work until 7 or later everyday? 70 hour weeks?
I'd still give the same guidance! I have lots of videos on the topic. Make sure you check them out
Shaina Leis I will! Bc I’m on the verge of throwing myself of a cliff.”
Literally can relate❤️
❤️hope it could help!
*Aww Shaina, I don't know how I got unsubscribed but I'm so glad to be back with your channel!!*
Ahhh 😯 so glad you’re back!! Haha
Great video 💕 Thanks
You are so welcome!
Thanks for the tips, I do comedy skits on my channel. I use that as a tool to keep pushing because it makes me happy knowing I go to a job i hate then come home and film and do something that i love.
I absolutely love that! It's so important to have a daily purpose and goals :)
The fact that I got 2 items on my list as to why I should like this job before sitting in silence and seriously struggling to get another 3, then putting ‘no uniform’ as an item is seriously concerning for me. Red flag!
Thank you so much.
You're welcome!
You said 'this is not ideal but I am okay' but right now with the pandemic, I'm not okay. I'm not safe at work as a bartender. But without a job I'm out on the street. I don't know how to make the time pass without stressing myself out for the full 10 hours I'm there.
Great video! When you said Alexa in your video mine went off and said the same thing that yours did lol
haha, I didn't think about that happening, but I'm not surprised! Alexa has very good ears lol
I just find it hard to work evenings because i dont want to leave my house lol
Any tips on how to make a hour go by
Thank you somuch.. I need this❤️
You’re welcome!
@@ShainaLeis I'm very grateful I found your channel, I'm a new subscriber❤️ I'm sure the contents will helps me and guides me to have a new mindset in this kind of work that I started to hate.. Morepower💐❤️
This was impressively helpful, thank you!
You're welcome!
I work in construction and sometime theres not much to do but you can’t leave until later thanks 🙏
It was my first day today. What the hell.
SUCH great advice!!! thank you
You're welcome
Your awesome! Loved the video!
Thanks! Glad you enjoyed it :)
I'm trying my hardest to get to this point.. I been hating my job for a while now.. Been there way too long. Not that I haven't tried to leave either.. Unexpected life stuff came up, crappy economy etc so I just stayed. But not it's to the point where I was going on interviews for jobs I didn't want just to get out lol and now we are home cause of the virus.
I'm happy at least to be home so I'm using that time to search other jobs and see what's going on. Hopefully things will pick up again and I could get back in to trying to escape lol
See, my problem is I have no idea what I am doing or doing to do with myself at 21 and sadly my job is the best one I've had and I dont ever see myself moving up even if I want to because of how depressed I am and how much I lack motivation.
Needed this today ❤️
Thank you for this !!!! Much appreciated
You're welcome!
Thanks for making this video. it really helps me feel better. :)
You're welcome!!
Its my 2nd day and i wanna run away
Im so tired every inch of my body hurt and the boss is still not happy
I don't have any friends there.
Thank you. I really appreciate this.
You're very welcome!
You are so funny😂
CVS pharmacy tech is so hard prayer
i cant even make one reason i like my job lol
I work in a ware house packing orders and shit and honestly am going to die I work a night shift so from 9 to 9 12 hours it’s my second day and I hate this shit I honestly want to die the work never stops and we are not allowed to take our phones inside with us and I don’t know any one there and I need the money I honestly want to die like I pack 120 orders a day at least
9-5 making me go crazy
🙏🏼🤦🏾♂️
Bro 6-2 is more annoying:/
Thanks
Love you so much
what video software do you use? love the title bars
Final Cut Pro...but actually these older videos were just iMovie I think.
I have 5 days to work this week and after that im going to leave the job 😂 i need to leave it now can't I? 😂
I don't know, can you???
@@ShainaLeis yes i did and now im free thank you for being so nice❤️
@@hebaalbarari244 You're welcome!
Lol. I can use this trick now haha
You look a lot like the actress Beverley Mitchell from 7th Heaven
Oh my gosh...I used to get that ALL the time when I was in middle school haha and the show was on the WB
I need to get the stress ball
TT Smasher lol hey, do what you gotta do..for YOU!
Hope
🙏🏻
Music intro was way to loud. Over powering your voice in beginning
It's not the job... it's the people.... very toxic environment.
I love her bedroom..😍
That's my old bedroom 🙃 but I liked it a lot back then too!!
Anyone else's Alexa turn on and sync with hers? 😅🙋
I'm too smart for this repetitive bs if I didn't need the money I'd walk out
Hello how are you💙
First comment 💬yayyy
Oh wow a lot of comments LOL. Thanks, luv ya too!
Heyy
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