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I think another major tip that I tried is to listen to how people answer interview questions, Whether it's your favorite celebrity or a well spoken person. Listen to how they answer simple questions, or complex questions, or personal questions, or even how to reject answering rude questions. Usually celebrities have unique ways to answer questions. By listening to their interviews and how they respond, you will eventually start to fomulate your own answers based on the answers that stuck to you the most.
3:23 Rule 1: Have a clear purpose & structure 8:15 Rule 2: Speak simply 9:14 Rule 3: Learn to deliver (elements) 9:18 Eye contact 9:26 Gestures 9:33 Voice 9:43 Posture 10:25 Permit structure: Conclusion, provide your reasoning, give specific examples (practices) 11:35 Read regularly 11:43 Daily writing 11:50 Listen to good speeches 11:58 Record yourself Just like Ruri's first video that I've watched, and just like the vast majority of Dr.K's videos from the HealthygamerGG channel, this video somehow seems to have shown up at the perfect time of my life where such an issue seems to be most prevalent. During the vast majority of, if not my whole life, I've struggled to express myself properly/deliver my thoughts well enough, which has cost me more than once. Even now, I still sometimes struggle to express things clearly oftentimes, which makes me worried I'm not being taken seriously enough by the other people in a given conversation, especially once I run out of things to say; I also don't often hang out with other people in general which means I don't get to "exercise" enough in this (and I also feel embarrased to talk to/record myself even when I'm all alone); and in turn I become less willing to hang out with others in the first place out of worry that I might become an inconvenience to be around, and thus the cycle continues. I try not to think about this too much/tend to forget about it, but sometimes I'm reminded of all this and many other things and feel stuck. On that regard, this is one of the main reasons I chose to stick around Ruri's channel after watching her first video many months ago; I may not always be(come) willing to practice all the things that she suggests in her videos, but even mentioning the issues/possible tips at all makes me feel called out on a series of issues I need to fix about myself to become better as a person on the whole.
Hello Ruri where you been Dubai lol? You have not been on youtube for weeks. Any news on your new idea? Its good to see you back, enjoying video very creative. Jase zappermusic.
Love this, Ruri! Communication skills are very important. It really helps to have confidence in yourself. Action Builds Experience, Experience Builds Confidence, Confidence Destroys Fear!
Ya Posture is definitely something that I need to work on! I don't want to deviant from my own faults but honestly speaking ...all of my smart devices and hand held consoles are not helping XD
Even as an introvert, it's tough when people don’t seem to care about what we have to say, leading us to shut down more over time. This video, Ruri, is a helpful reminder of what we need to work on. Thanks for the encouragement, Ruri!
Hi Ruri, I'm 17 years old & watching your videos has completely transformed my mindset. 🌟 They are incredibly inspiring and have motivated me to push myself towards achieving my goals in mental health, physical fitness and financial freedom by the end of this year. Thank you for all that you do.Lots of love ❤,
Im trying to get into youtube, its so hard, I have all the equipment, been through alot, what do you reccomend, and what videos do you have to get me motivated, followed you for a while, fluctuate life changes. thank you
I have never talked about communication skills on my channel but you still watch even though you think they are the same. Therefore your comment is unnecessary lol
Hello Mam I Visited your RUclips channel and noticed it ranks lower than others. SEO seems to be lacking, though your content is fantastic. Wondering why your videos aren't attracting more views? One key factor is insufficient SEO (your videos' SEO score is 33/100%, that's why your video is not reaching out to the people and you do not have many subscribers, views, likes, watch time, and comments. I also noticed that your video thumbnail was good. If you'd like, I can assist you with improving it. I think your RUclips channel will make your dream come true. I am waiting for your response.
Write 750 words a day Speak at minimium 20 minutes a day - You can do 4 impromptu speaking - important to not ramble - Use the new A.I. technologies to "speak with someone else" Read a novel for 20 minutes Finish 1 mini crossword a day
hey, here is a video content request.. Could you pls make a video about surrounding yourself with like-minded people and change your environment for good?
I recommend using pen and paper for notes taking and you won't have any problems with articulation or anything like that. Nowadays society is endlessly fighting the symptoms instead of the roots „digitalisation“ Simplicity is the key, this is the best state for transforming into effortless intuition, over-engineering is for robots, not for humans. Believe it or not it pen and paper has many positive psychological impacts than you can think of
1:04 do the whistle talk learn Turkish they do it in Peru too Sylbo La Guamera something like that Know? Just looked it up, too enticed and excited to 6 7 whistle why ... *\^*\^*|~*\^*\^*|~*; & *\*/|
I have the opposite I basically never plan and when I sit to present I make the best presentation as I am speaking from my hearth😂. Like this one-time I had to present about bullying I badically did no reacherch I watch and read books on booliying also I used to be bully and had ideas expect I did not take note I am more of a creative person so planning feel like a restaine and I had to stand in front of everyone to present. I am extrovert so it was no problem I stood thre and did Thebes presentation talking about my experience( and a friend I knew who killed herself because of bullying it was an emotional topic for me and trauma) I just stood there and spock the teacher eventually maeme make a presentation to the whole school I know crazy.
Would you guys be interested of a chanele that not only give you more information but give you step by step to follow along thoughout the video for free. To do inner work, change your subconsious, bas
What I notice is people mind absolutely got damaged by shortform content including mine. Tough to communicate nowadays unless it is something that concerns them
Hey I am from India. Your video are quite different and helpful. My story is same as like you“ My uncles scam my dad they stolen our property ” then we become poor. That time I small child. Now I am collage student try to become financially free and support my family. I think culture and language are different in world but human behaviour is same.
Şahsen iyi, kötü konuşuyorum başkasının ne düşündüğü çokta umrumda değil ama bazı insanlar çok düşünüp stres yapıyor. Ben bu kadar düşünümeye üşeniyorum, rahat yaşamak en iyisi.
I've been waiting for your video. I'm very happy. And your videos always contribute to my growth. Thank you for introducing such amazing tools! I'll start using them right away! これからも応援してます！😆
This will probably get lost in the sea of comments but you will LOVE the book: Difficult Conversations by Bruce Patton. Given to UN negotiators and relationship counsellers, it goes way deeper into effective communication.
I agree that moving your "yes" or "no" to the beginning of the sentence is very powerful. If you're struggling to get rid of saying "Um" while you think, it can sometimes be useful to replace it with, "Hmm," or, "That's a good question, let me think on that for a moment," so long as neither is overused. Thank you for this video! As a side note, I would be interested in knowing which makeup products you use, if you ever felt like keeping that information somewhere I would use those links.
Excelente vídeo, thank you 👍 we all are glad you are back 🎉 I just have a doubt: is it correct I assume that the simplest comunication is always better and safer or it depends?
i remember having this really bad when i was younger, its only once i hit 19 and kinda "stopped caring" and focused more on explaining whats in my head rather than presenting nicely, that things worked allot better for me. mind you im autistic which is important context for what worked for me, but things are hazy now that im 24
i realized long ago that i'm right about everything but nobody ever listens to me so now i just laugh in their faces and shame people publicly when they do stupid shit. works pretty well everywhere except the gym.
Ruri ! . have not watched a video from you in awhile cos ive been too busy . but i watched this one today during my lunch break .. and greetings from Northern Ontario Canada !
*Sometimes my head gets messed up when I try to answer with coherence, it frustrates me sometimes but I am happy to know that you share a solution you can help me fix that, appreciate it.* *Greetings from Morocco 👋* 9:20 😳
Try Gamma from here: gamma.app/
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Thanks cutie 🥰 ❤
I think another major tip that I tried is to listen to how people answer interview questions, Whether it's your favorite celebrity or a well spoken person. Listen to how they answer simple questions, or complex questions, or personal questions, or even how to reject answering rude questions.
Usually celebrities have unique ways to answer questions.
By listening to their interviews and how they respond, you will eventually start to fomulate your own answers based on the answers that stuck to you the most.
You have a thick accent and do not articulate your English words properly. Did you really not know that?
@@sirmister1827 Your English writing is poor. I very much doubt that you speak well.
3:23 Rule 1: Have a clear purpose & structure
8:15 Rule 2: Speak simply
9:14 Rule 3: Learn to deliver (elements)
9:18 Eye contact
9:26 Gestures
9:33 Voice
9:43 Posture
10:25 Permit structure: Conclusion, provide your reasoning, give specific examples (practices)
11:35 Read regularly
11:43 Daily writing
11:50 Listen to good speeches
11:58 Record yourself
Just like Ruri's first video that I've watched, and just like the vast majority of Dr.K's videos from the HealthygamerGG channel, this video somehow seems to have shown up at the perfect time of my life where such an issue seems to be most prevalent. During the vast majority of, if not my whole life, I've struggled to express myself properly/deliver my thoughts well enough, which has cost me more than once. Even now, I still sometimes struggle to express things clearly oftentimes, which makes me worried I'm not being taken seriously enough by the other people in a given conversation, especially once I run out of things to say; I also don't often hang out with other people in general which means I don't get to "exercise" enough in this (and I also feel embarrased to talk to/record myself even when I'm all alone); and in turn I become less willing to hang out with others in the first place out of worry that I might become an inconvenience to be around, and thus the cycle continues. I try not to think about this too much/tend to forget about it, but sometimes I'm reminded of all this and many other things and feel stuck. On that regard, this is one of the main reasons I chose to stick around Ruri's channel after watching her first video many months ago; I may not always be(come) willing to practice all the things that she suggests in her videos, but even mentioning the issues/possible tips at all makes me feel called out on a series of issues I need to fix about myself to become better as a person on the whole.
amazing
unhealthygaslighter is the kind of person who would say the richest people are those who live on the streets. Rehab room exposed him
your the best
Thanks for time codes, bro. You are the best)
This is so heard in the beginning, I can't even present using my own voice because I am not comfortable with my own voice. Thank you Ruri for sharing!
I'm favoured, $22K every week! I can now give back to the locals in my community and also support God's work and the church. God bless America.
As a beginner what do I need to do? How can I invest, on which platform? If you know any please share.
Investing in crypto/forex is a good idea,
a good trading system would put you
through many days of success.
Investing $15,000 and received $174,000
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This young lady is a sharp cookie
Hello Ruri where you been Dubai lol? You have not been on youtube for weeks. Any news on your new idea? Its good to see you back, enjoying video very creative. Jase zappermusic.
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Love this, Ruri! Communication skills are very important. It really helps to have confidence in yourself. Action Builds Experience, Experience Builds Confidence, Confidence Destroys Fear!
Awesome quote, dude!
Damn good quote!!!
@@ruriohama thanks so much! Keep being awesome, Ruri!
@@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving Thanks? That's not your quote.😄
@@user-ij6ng5bi8jthat is my quote. I made it years ago on a video.
Ya Posture is definitely something that I need to work on! I don't want to deviant from my own faults but honestly speaking ...all of my smart devices and hand held consoles are not helping XD
Same same
To speak well you just need to read literature books and struggle a lot
Helpful
If you are reading this comment, don’t worry your channel is going to get better we all got this!
Even as an introvert, it's tough when people don’t seem to care about what we have to say, leading us to shut down more over time. This video, Ruri, is a helpful reminder of what we need to work on. Thanks for the encouragement, Ruri!
This is gonna be helpful, but first lemme get my steak ready ruriiiii
still she is best Mikasa cosplay i have ever seen
Hi Ruri,
I'm 17 years old & watching your videos has completely transformed my mindset. 🌟 They are incredibly inspiring and have motivated me to push myself towards achieving my goals in mental health, physical fitness and financial freedom by the end of this year. Thank you for all that you do.Lots of love ❤,
Damn girl you alive, thank God
I’m sorry for not postinggg
Production is good 👍
Thanks ☺️
Love from India 🇮🇳
Ruri you inspire me a lot. May God bless you with wealth, health and success. ❤
Great advice. I sometimes struggle with trying to articulate my thoughts so this video could help out on that. Keep up the good content Ruri!
Me : *speack something
Parents : "that's just BS"
Me learned communication skills
Parents : *loudly " That's sounds like disrespect ".
Wth
Ruri I am so so so glad to see you back again and I absolutely needed this video😀💖
I’m back!! Hope you will find it valuable
@@ruriohamaYes it is very valuable for me🥹🥹
I just needed this to implement onto my channel. thanks
Every introvert is grateful for this video, it's great!
Greetings from Venezuela, South America. 🇻🇪🖐️
I'm drawn in by your voice and your content.
At last you made it sis, I was waiting for your new video.
I am a big fan of yours❤️
Yeah Ruri that's really a thing during our interaction 🤓
Ruri your as articulate as any life coach I have found on yourube. Been watching your videos for a week now n it's shifted me. Thank you ❤
first have something to say... everything follows if these are facts... if you have to invent it out of the blue it will be hard... this is so easy
Thank you Ruri, I just found your channel and it’s very inspiring :)😊
Thank you!!
@@ruriohama 70% of married couples end up having 3 some and may do swinging too. Never ever get married. All will end up divorcing you.
I just wanna say thank you so much for the the app cald minimalist tht I've make a video for its change my life
My fav person is coming back with new video ❤
Im trying to get into youtube, its so hard, I have all the equipment, been through alot, what do you reccomend, and what videos do you have to get me motivated, followed you for a while, fluctuate life changes. thank you
Bro shes so beautiful☺
you always make same video. therefore most of your videos are unnecessary.
I have never talked about communication skills on my channel but you still watch even though you think they are the same. Therefore your comment is unnecessary lol
I love this YT Channel.. it feels like it was just fit for me. Can you read my mind and this is a conspirancy to improve myself? 🤔
i follow you to learn how to make click-bait titles
sizin sözünüz bu noktavergün den başlayacak.
ezberleyin belleyin....
Hello Mam
I Visited your RUclips channel and noticed it ranks lower than others. SEO seems to be lacking, though your content is fantastic. Wondering why your videos aren't attracting more views? One key factor is insufficient SEO (your videos' SEO score is 33/100%, that's why your video is not reaching out to the people and you do not have many subscribers, views, likes, watch time, and comments. I also noticed that your video thumbnail was good. If you'd like, I can assist you with improving it. I think your RUclips channel will make your dream come true. I am waiting for your response.
She is back 🎉🎉🎉 welcome back ruri lot of love 😊❤
It is important
Write 750 words a day
Speak at minimium 20 minutes a day
- You can do 4 impromptu speaking
- important to not ramble
- Use the new A.I. technologies to "speak with someone else"
Read a novel for 20 minutes
Finish 1 mini crossword a day
Very helpful video about communication. I feel it's an important skill to have in life and someone's career.
A Fun Fact...
When a Beautiful Girl is talking to a Introvert Boy he doesn't understand anything...🙄
🤍❤ all your video's #RURI👍
hey, here is a video content request.. Could you pls make a video about surrounding yourself with like-minded people and change your environment for good?
Wow! thank you for sharing such a huge help! OMG are in Dubai? I just some place where we usually meet as a group 25H.
I recommend using pen and paper for notes taking and you won't have any problems with articulation or anything like that. Nowadays society is endlessly fighting the symptoms instead of the roots „digitalisation“
Simplicity is the key, this is the best state for transforming into effortless intuition, over-engineering is for robots, not for humans. Believe it or not it pen and paper has many positive psychological impacts than you can think of
1:04 do the whistle talk learn Turkish they do it in Peru too Sylbo La Guamera something like that Know? Just looked it up, too enticed and excited to 6 7 whistle why ... *\^*\^*|~*\^*\^*|~*; & *\*/|
Muscles 💪💪😅
I have the opposite I basically never plan and when I sit to present I make the best presentation as I am speaking from my hearth😂. Like this one-time I had to present about bullying I badically did no reacherch I watch and read books on booliying also I used to be bully and had ideas expect I did not take note I am more of a creative person so planning feel like a restaine and I had to stand in front of everyone to present. I am extrovert so it was no problem I stood thre and did Thebes presentation talking about my experience( and a friend I knew who killed herself because of bullying it was an emotional topic for me and trauma) I just stood there and spock the teacher eventually maeme make a presentation to the whole school I know crazy.
My exm has two day later still I'm not focus on study. Myself trying so hard to concentrate but not work .Give some any suggestion.
Would you guys be interested of a chanele that not only give you more information but give you step by step to follow along thoughout the video for free. To do inner work, change your subconsious, bas
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Communication seems really 😎 👶 important to articulate out thoughts
I don't like this much perfect and well organised videos ruri ... We want old genuine ruri back ...!! 🥺🫶🏻
Great insights! Thank you inspiring me for my new videos.
This is also very important for when you are streaming, being articulate, im not good at it
1:12 in La Gomera (Canary Islands) there is a way of communication like that one.
I'm sorry but where is your ring
Not called for but true af 😢
What I notice is people mind absolutely got damaged by shortform content including mine. Tough to communicate nowadays unless it is something that concerns them
You’re friends with Nischa? A surprise, but a welcome one!
she is so pretty
i always love those shots of ruri talking to a screenshot of a video call hahahah
Nice work keep it up 👍
If you're an attractive girl, everybody will listen
Lmao 12:01 my face every time I hear my own WhatsApp audios
and you don 't need anyone to listen to you , the main thing is to listen to yourself and your mind and heart❤
this is not how it works in life
Deep.. but, if you want to sell anything, have a youtube channel, or create anything at all you do lol.
I wonder how they whistle in Turkey of they are serving turkey?
❤️🩹 you listen thats matter forget about other's
Hey I am from India. Your video are quite different and helpful. My story is same as like you“ My uncles scam my dad they stolen our property ” then we become poor. That time I small child. Now I am collage student try to become financially free and support my family. I think culture and language are different in world but human behaviour is same.
So you are fluent in Japanese and Turkish?
Me Who doesn't even share cause I'm introvert 😂
Same😂
@@ruriohamathe video was helpful. Thanks ✨
This is why i have to improve the way I speak with everything in life!
I'd tried such 4 U, hope recognized..
Şahsen iyi, kötü konuşuyorum başkasının ne düşündüğü çokta umrumda değil ama bazı insanlar çok düşünüp stres yapıyor. Ben bu kadar düşünümeye üşeniyorum, rahat yaşamak en iyisi.
人間関係の質の高さ。それがこの世界に必要なすべてです.
Ruri! Want an application to speak to random people pleeeasee❤
@ruriohama where did you get those elbow arms?
can i ask you why do you use 2 watches?
swag purposes
u play roblox?
@@kalujules9205 yep
It’s not a watch it’s whoop
Thanks for the great video! I learned a lot!
I've been waiting for your video. I'm very happy. And your videos always contribute to my growth. Thank you for introducing such amazing tools! I'll start using them right away! これからも応援してます！😆
I have no influence, no credibility, no power, nothing. Who would listen to me?
Someone looking for a different perspective. Yours.
Are you going through a breakup, ruri?😢
My motivation ar girls...😂😂 Because I want to make money... because I want lot's of girls
..😄😂
found you recently, just wanted to say... in Korean Ohama roughly sound like sledgehammer XD fun fact.
tam da eski videoları izlerken bu videonun gelmesi xD
This will probably get lost in the sea of comments but you will LOVE the book: Difficult Conversations by Bruce Patton.
Given to UN negotiators and relationship counsellers, it goes way deeper into effective communication.
I agree that moving your "yes" or "no" to the beginning of the sentence is very powerful. If you're struggling to get rid of saying "Um" while you think, it can sometimes be useful to replace it with, "Hmm," or, "That's a good question, let me think on that for a moment," so long as neither is overused. Thank you for this video! As a side note, I would be interested in knowing which makeup products you use, if you ever felt like keeping that information somewhere I would use those links.
I was waiting 1 month for ur new video😮.
try you create your own podcast ruri💖🙂
Hey Ruri how did you edit this video. PLEASE TELL ME BECAUSE IT WILL BE HELP ME MORE ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Excelente vídeo, thank you 👍 we all are glad you are back 🎉
I just have a doubt: is it correct I assume that the simplest comunication is always better and safer or it depends?
i remember having this really bad when i was younger, its only once i hit 19 and kinda "stopped caring" and focused more on explaining whats in my head rather than presenting nicely, that things worked allot better for me. mind you im autistic which is important context for what worked for me, but things are hazy now that im 24
i realized long ago that i'm right about everything but nobody ever listens to me so now i just laugh in their faces and shame people publicly when they do stupid shit. works pretty well everywhere except the gym.
Ruri ! . have not watched a video from you in awhile cos ive been too busy . but i watched this one today during my lunch break .. and greetings from Northern Ontario Canada !
This video inspired me to build a approachable way for a introvert to communicate more，thx Ruri❤
*Sometimes my head gets messed up when I try to answer with coherence, it frustrates me sometimes but I am happy to know that you share a solution you can help me fix that, appreciate it.*
*Greetings from Morocco 👋*
9:20 😳
I'm the youngest of 3 and never put it together that my bad communication skills could be partly because of how I was raised as the youngest.
I never heard you talk japanese