for those who feel like giving up - my story

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  • Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024

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  • @ruriohama
    @ruriohama  Год назад +352

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    • @10Peace
      @10Peace Год назад +4

      R u still in Turkey because I wanted to meet with you ❤❤

    • @En_theo
      @En_theo Год назад +2

      Didn't know you were Turkish. I know the mentality there (lot of Turkish friends) and yeah sometimes it's not easy for women, but nowadays it's going better.

    • @10Peace
      @10Peace Год назад +2

      @@En_theo yep that’s right

    • @getinthering7309
      @getinthering7309 Год назад +1

      could you talk about our lovelife & or what made you mistrusting ppl ??
      i cannot be the only one being intersted in what happened & moreover, what conclusions you pulled from that. of u are still poundering about those things & your thought process, steps etc..

    • @10Peace
      @10Peace Год назад +1

      @@getinthering7309 I don’t have a love life but it’s harsh for women here because they disrespect women so much here and it’s not good

  • @mindsetofthefew
    @mindsetofthefew Год назад +511

    If you are reading this, always remember that the only person that has to believe in you no matter what is YOURSELF. Don't get approval from others. It should start within you. Thanks Ruri!❤

    • @Miu-chan
      @Miu-chan Год назад +2

      ❤❤❤

    • @Marci-Ana-GMM
      @Marci-Ana-GMM Год назад +3

      "Don't get approval from others"
      Also this channel:

  • @HeisenbergFam
    @HeisenbergFam Год назад +1702

    If you believe no one believes in you, just know that there are at least 2 people believing in you: Ruri and me, congrats on 1m subs

    • @ralba.n
      @ralba.n Год назад +24

      heisenbergfam 🥹🫂⚗️

    • @jollylucario2051
      @jollylucario2051 Год назад +25

      Thanks Heisenberg

    • @erva2130
      @erva2130 Год назад +13

      Let's make it three

    • @tifamai
      @tifamai Год назад +11

      And we believe in you Heisenberg

    • @NertoFurity
      @NertoFurity Год назад +4

      thanks, I also believe in you if you don´t

  • @markherzog1186
    @markherzog1186 Год назад +406

    Dearest Ruri,
    I am a 55 year old man, husband, father of a 12 year old with adhd. We live in Atlanta.
    I just want you to know that I just completed my meditation and exercise routine for this morning and am sitting here sobbing. Thank you, thank you, thank you for sharing your incredible story.
    I discovered your videos a week ago and listen to your videos over and over.
    Please continue fighting. There are many of us out here cheering for you.
    I am trying to get my son to watch your adhd videos.
    You DO offer sincere help to all of us and it is appreciated.
    Please continue speaking the truth. Human beings need truth, not information that is censored.
    Much love to you and your lovely parents from Atlanta, USA.. :)

    • @kokannob.3082
      @kokannob.3082 9 месяцев назад

      Atlanta Georgia O.o you...?

  • @michelle-rose
    @michelle-rose Год назад +204

    This is so motivating thanks for sharing, I'm really inspired. It's certain that the only person who will believe in you is you. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it! I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗

    • @andreblechynden4578
      @andreblechynden4578 Год назад +2

      Congratulations sis! Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too

    • @michelle-rose
      @michelle-rose Год назад +6

      Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on...
      I hope it is useful to you.

    • @feihong6477
      @feihong6477 Год назад +3

      How did you grow to 6 Figure ? I’m honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.

    • @gerainduany5710
      @gerainduany5710 Год назад +2

      Congratulations to you Rose that's a great accomplishment keep it going

    • @michelle-rose
      @michelle-rose Год назад +6

      I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.

  • @Leona_pits
    @Leona_pits Год назад +13

    Idk about being beautiful but I always remember what Marilyn Monroe said about it, "but my goodness doesn't it help?".

  • @mrgreen4874
    @mrgreen4874 Год назад +228

    Ruri. You shouldn't excuse how you felt at the time by addressing your depression and financial problems as a "privileged experience". You felt that way, and no one should be so ignorant to lash out on you for telling your story. Congraulations on 1M and Lots of love from Sweden!

  • @Joex0f
    @Joex0f Год назад +118

    Hi Ruri,
    I don’t know if you’ll see this message, but I want to thank you personally. I found you in 2021, during a real dark time in my life. I want you to know that your story really resonated with me and you have been one of the biggest inspirations in my life AND RUclips.
    Because of your inspiration and my hard work, I was able to go from 50 subscribers to almost 3k subscribers, now as a RUclips partner. Your continuous hard work pushed me and I just want you to know how grateful I am you helped me by being you.
    Thank you so much and keep being you.

  • @myheadphonesarebroken
    @myheadphonesarebroken 7 месяцев назад +19

    Hi Ruri. Maybe you'll not see this but i want to leave a comment here.
    I saw your channel 3-4 years ago. I was feeling lonely and desperate. I didn't have motivation for anything, was spending my whole time in my room, trying to force myself to be more productive.
    After I started to watch your videos, you gave me the motivation I was looking for for months. You taught me that being productive is not a miracle that happens suddenly but is a process. It was a "start line" for me. I studied with your videos, learned many things. I believed that you are gonna be successful from the beginning. I am not a person who comments so much on videos but here I am. Because I wanted to thank you.
    Thank you for everything. Congrats on 1m subscribers.

  • @ramazanDOGNA
    @ramazanDOGNA Год назад +10

    As a Turkish guy thank you for all this story. You are good girl with have a good hearth. U are so strong because of your past. U wouldnt be this Ruri if you dont live this problems. Just keep goin because you cant lose while you are fighting, the only way to you lose is to surrender 💪🏻

  • @danielpam6310
    @danielpam6310 Год назад +132

    Please, DON'T BE SORRY! Thanks so much for opening up about this. For YEARS up to Now, my Filipino Grandma has been supporting us and saved my life too!
    You indeed bring so much value to the world! You're truly the definition of a strong woman, Ruri!

    • @kuethmok3431
      @kuethmok3431 Год назад +1

      I have to see😂you very times again in next I'll never forget you 🎉

    • @kuethmok3431
      @kuethmok3431 Год назад +1

      I😂wish to you😂 families good job and with health bodyguard women in

    • @kuethmok3431
      @kuethmok3431 Год назад +1

      I understand English but I can't to learning and then will not speaks with you very i am sorry you 🎉

  • @sequencereversed3261
    @sequencereversed3261 Год назад +41

    "Her channel is growing just because she is pretty" is exactly what I thought when I came across your channel for the first time, I'm glad I was open minded and gave you a chance, that was truly inspiring, Hope you sustain that growth for as long as possible since being a RUclipsr is quite a volatile job.

    • @mika-yy7gk
      @mika-yy7gk Год назад

      you cant lie shes bad asfffff

  • @theotakuweeb193
    @theotakuweeb193 Год назад +30

    Ruri dont ever let this world fail you. You're strong, stronger than me actually. All this struggle that you've been through is ending because you ended it. Now good days will come, sure struggle is always there, but so is happiness. Keep that fire lit in your heart, and "Set your Heart ablaze"

  • @studiozone2203
    @studiozone2203 Год назад +38

    This young woman is awesome. A great role model or inspiration for anyone wanting to better their lives.Much respect! P.S. When you have hate coming your way, that means you're doing something right.

  • @elliecha4240
    @elliecha4240 11 месяцев назад +10

    I am a single mom with two teen children. i came across your video last week and have been feeding on them. As a subscriber, i admire you for all your sharing. With deepened respect, i look up to you as an inspiration now that i heard what you just shared. Thank you for having me in your life journey!

  • @thortremble2794
    @thortremble2794 Год назад +72

    Great job Ruri. You're a living example of RESILIENCE. My favourite part about your videos is your AUTHENTICITY. You mentioned speaking in front of a camera is your talent. Yes, for sure, I can feel your energy when I watch you speak. Your authenticity & emotion, I can feel that. I've never seen a person like you before in my life with your personality so to me, you're not just another pretty face. Your content & authenticity with your videos is so real & relatable that I respect that a lot about you. Great work & congratulations! ❤

  • @hiddentreasure1119
    @hiddentreasure1119 Год назад +18

    I love how you don't sugar coat the monetary aspect of your profession. The way you explain things about RUclips and views and the cut-throat competition made me realize how hard it actually is to achieve what you have, as opposed to what I was lead to believe by other channels.

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 Год назад +29

    Congratulations dear Ruri for 1 Million Subscribers I am so so so happy for you and you deserve it🙂💫💓💐🎊🎂

  • @guptacorp
    @guptacorp Год назад +14

    You are touching and changing lives for the Better. One suggestion: do NOT apologize when you did no wrong. IF someone feels "triggered" or that you are "privileged", that is THEIR wrong thinking. Never be afraid to Speak Your Mind and Share Your Thoughts. Some may criticize, but they do not matter. The people you inspire, uplift, encourage, mentor and give Hope to are the ones to focus on. God Bless You and your family on your incredible Journey!

  • @Ангелина-ь8з7л
    @Ангелина-ь8з7л Год назад +3

    "If i want something, i will go and get it and nobody can stop me"

  • @TheStrugglingShiba
    @TheStrugglingShiba Год назад +24

    This video resonates with me so deeply it almost hurts. Coming from a good family, sometimes people always see whats on the surface, never what's below. Not many people will bother to take the time to know that everyone has deep struggles, and just because its not on social media, doesn't mean that it doesn't exist. When you said apologized for having good circumstances and also for not being in as "bad" of a situation as some others out there, it made me realize how easy it is for people to judge others behind a screen. People so often lack compassion towards others online and project all their insecurities on people that have what they do not. As the only child in the family to 2 retired parents, I recently had to take the role to provide for my family, so all your struggles are something I can really relate to. Your channel not only drives me to work even harder, it also gives me a realistic view on how there are so many ups and downs in each persons journey. Thank you for making this video, I thought there was nobody out there who could understand my circumstances, but I'm glad I found your channel when I was trying to learn Japanese. I admire you so much for achieving 1m subscribers, especially when English isn't your first language, despite being made fun of and called cringe, despite failing to get views for years, you pulled through. A girl stepping up to be the provider for her family and never quit until she succeeded, that is something nobody can ever take from you! I wish you nothing but success and I'll continue to support whatever you do moving forward! You've gained a follower for life :) Don't ever stop being yourself!!

  • @ultimateswx
    @ultimateswx Год назад +35

    You've gone through a lot of hardship and still came out on top. You're a huge inspiration! You dedication to your family and your career is so admirable as well. I hope one day I can be as disciplined and hard working as you.

  • @irfansajal4007
    @irfansajal4007 8 месяцев назад +4

    It’s not about making videos, the way you put emotion and passion to making videos, highly deserved a subscription. Thanks 🙏🏼

  • @Angelaknight2.0
    @Angelaknight2.0 10 месяцев назад +3

    The vulnerability in your story is amazing, I’m currently experiencing everything similar you’re explaining. Thank you so much for this

  • @munga
    @munga Год назад +22

    I very rarely comment on RUclips videos, but I would like to express my gratitude for sharing your story and for being a strong example of not giving up. I'm going through one of the toughest times in my life right now, where I'm putting myself back together piece by piece. Your videos, presentation, thinking, thoughts impress me, they help me a lot and I am glad that I found your RUclips channel. Good luck with everything! Forward to 2M subscribers so that more people know about you! 💪💜

  • @caychannelconnects
    @caychannelconnects Год назад +16

    You have touched people's lives and inspired me in many ways. Thank you for sharing your story. No need to apologize for our circumstance. We all have unique life story and I respect that. Congratulations, Ruri🎉!

  • @SinSationNation
    @SinSationNation Год назад +89

    Congratulations on making it to 1M subscribers. You absolutely deserve it and for those who bad mouth you for achieving that goal are jealous and envious because they only want what they don’t have and that’s…SUCCESS 😊

    • @Revament
      @Revament Год назад +3

      Your comment scared me lol I just saw that same picture I have been using for a long time and thought I had wrote someting I dont even remember.😆

    • @SinSationNation
      @SinSationNation Год назад +3

      @@Revament That’s funny ☺️because you are the only person besides me who has the same picture except that your picture is facing the opposite direction from mine

    • @Aurora-bv1ys
      @Aurora-bv1ys Год назад

      Damn this has to be a one in a million chance

  • @syndiosin
    @syndiosin Год назад +13

    ruri, i can't imagine how hard it's to have parents from 2 very different culture. i also feel depressed when my parents were in bad financial situation and seeing my dad struggling with it. i also blamed myself if i can't do anything for them :(
    i almost shed a tear listening to your story because i relate in some part. i hope our life are always getting better and better and congrats for your youtube achievement :)

  • @shiroyuki1943
    @shiroyuki1943 Год назад +3

    I'm crying, thanks for share your story with us

  • @MiljanBojovic
    @MiljanBojovic Год назад +17

    I just wanna hug her so badly for the weight she carries and the bad experiences she had. But honestly I'd mainly do it because she is opening all the experience and sharing them, letting us know things are possible. Not easy but in the end, it is possible to reach a goal.
    Thank you Ruri for being the inspiration and motivating us all.

  • @cipriantaoshu
    @cipriantaoshu Год назад +20

    It can be seen that you are a person who suffered a lot in the past, but it's happy with his results.
    Your videos gave me the courage to overcome a little depression.
    Thank you very much, Ruri! :X

  • @circlesquare5216
    @circlesquare5216 Год назад +53

    Oh my heart when I saw you crying! Congratulations Ruri! We'll never be able to know how much work you've put for this. Thank you for your channel it has helped me not just once. And look at you sharing this again to inspire others. Will definitely continue to support you! I know a lot more people will come and support your channel like I've always believed since I've found it. Keep up! I might not know you personally but as a follower I am so proud and happy of you and for you. THANK YOU! Edit: Yes your story is so "triggering" it triggers me to work hard and not give up on my dreams. Gotta have to watch this again when discouragements come.

  • @teachmefriend.
    @teachmefriend. Год назад +3

    The tears in your eyes are the mixture of sadness and joy! ❤

  • @arashrq
    @arashrq Месяц назад

    I just cried with you. I totally understand the words you shared here, and they are deeply appreciated. Your resilience and determination to pursue your goals are truly valued. After watching this video, I realized that hope still exists somewhere in this world. Thank you, Ruri. I am truly grateful for you. 🙏🍀

  • @Wonderwillis522
    @Wonderwillis522 Год назад +16

    Dude your videos are so encouraging and inspirational for me. Thank you so much and keep doing everything you are doing

  • @Organicwatermelon123
    @Organicwatermelon123 Год назад +43

    So proud of you for coming this far, your vids have helped me so much and I'm glad you felt comfortable enough to share your story with us
    Keep up the good work! You're doing great!
    ❤️

  • @FebruaryWashington
    @FebruaryWashington Год назад +10

    The way you spoke your story is really great. Thank you for letting a girl believe in herself and try again.
    It's true that you weren't required to talk about having a loving family and being socially privileged, but as a trans woman it feels like my parents' love is conditional - that if I slip up, I fail.
    You just acknowledging this gave me the strength to forgive myself and try again tomorrow. ❤

  • @ketugrahagraha3673
    @ketugrahagraha3673 4 дня назад

    I am watching the video, crying. What a story! Thank you very much for sharing it.

  • @porobertdev
    @porobertdev 9 месяцев назад +2

    It was only about an hour ago I came accross your channel, while searching for calendar and time blocking. I'm so grateful that I have found you. And coincidence or not, it's 1st January.
    This is the best video I have watched since a while. Yes, it triggered me in a good way, to the point that I have got some tears, because I can relate to some things, including family.
    I'm currently trying to get into IT, specifically web programming, and I also get laughs from some people around me, but they can't stop me. They can't take the "inner fire" away from me, but I still have to work towards being more stronger mentally.
    You are a very inspiring, ambitious and hard working girl, and I can see how you will never give up.
    And you are right about money, but I think it depends on people too. They choose what type of content to consume, and that's why other videos that scam or provide a wrong value goes viral. I think social media would be a better place if there would be more people like you
    Thank you so much for sharing your story! You have improved another person's life🙂
    Cheers from Romania.

  • @ChurlzVA
    @ChurlzVA Год назад +36

    Hey Ruri, just wanted to say congratulations on your 1M subscribers. I was having a terrible day today, but your video lifted me up.
    I wish you and your family well.

  • @lightsaver7785
    @lightsaver7785 Год назад +6

    This is sooo touching, I'm rooting for you, your success, and your family!! Continue to evolve, learn and apply the knowledge in your life - thank you for the inspiration!

  • @3dgrade
    @3dgrade Год назад +9

    I've actually cried at the cafe watching this video. Congrats, Ruri! I promise, from now on I won't give up and will work hard alongside you. Thank you for all you do for us and your family! It was a long journey❤

  • @serenerei
    @serenerei 10 месяцев назад +3

    You are something to look up for. Thank you for helping me .

  • @trentw29
    @trentw29 3 месяца назад

    This post was wonderful, as are you Ruri. Thank you for opening up, and for all that you give. Bless you.

  • @Rusctrify9390
    @Rusctrify9390 Год назад +11

    You deserve the 1mil subscribers. The amount of heart you put into your videos is inspiring! I cannot wait to see you go further!💙

  • @lukeskywalkerthe2nd773
    @lukeskywalkerthe2nd773 Год назад +32

    I find your story deeply moving and inspiring in a lot of ways. Your tenacity and unwillingness to give up in spite of overwhelming odds, and your determination to help your family especially. You have truly earned your success, Ohama-san, and no matter what comes your way I know you will face your problems and solve them! I'm honored to be your subscriber! I find that my life is at a bit of a crossroads between what I really want, and how I'm tired of falling into the same old bad habits, knowing that I can be so much better than I'm being right now. But your videos and your story give me hope that maybe I can be a better person, and make a better life for myself and my loved ones. I just gotta take that first step. Happy 1 million subs! :)

  • @VincentVo-ni6mt
    @VincentVo-ni6mt Год назад +9

    Thank you for your story, Ruri. There is no word that can describe the feeling you bring to me through your story right now. Most people often see our results and form judgments, but they would never know exactly what we have experienced. You're so young, but your mind is not. I love the way you handle the issues you face in your life. Have a great day!

  • @JhonHarvySernaVilla
    @JhonHarvySernaVilla 4 месяца назад

    I'm so glad of you Rumi. You make it! Even though in a hard position. Don't listen the others that want to hurt you and don't apologize because your feelings are totally valid. What you feel it's important. I appreciate all the eforts you've made for us. Congrats for the 1m subs!!!

  • @randall1fc616
    @randall1fc616 4 месяца назад

    Rui, I am impressed by your "never-say-die" attitude. Those horrible and demoralizing events and people you'd encountered are parts & parcels of life; they are character building. The harder it hit you, the more determined you are to rise up and run again, the sharper, the tougher and more knowledgeable person you'll become. Pls continue doing what you have planned and are planning for yourself. You'll be successful and happy gradually but definitely. I am the youngest in a big family but the brothers who would help me passed away, and the surviving ones are totally useful. I am more financially stable and happier now, than all of them; I have to thank those who turned away from me, as their actions revealed their true identity, and to due this, have made me become a much better and stronger person. Never bear grudges with those who failed you or it will only hurt yourself spiritually and mentally. Just forget their existence. Be happy.

  • @nilayustun
    @nilayustun Год назад +21

    Congratulations on 1M and Lots of love from Turkey. There are good and bad everywhere and in every family free from countries and cultures. Anyway, keep reading and learning and share with us :) Nilay, still with 25 subscribers :D

    • @kuvarss
      @kuvarss Год назад

      Aynen öyle her ülkede her toplumda kötü insanlar var

  • @ziyaerel2015
    @ziyaerel2015 Год назад +8

    I am so proud of you Ruri! Just like your parents do! I am a witness of your youtube journey…What an amazing thing that to see more than 1 million people believe in you! And also they love you! Life’s providing its gifts to you…Are you ready for more? Because you’d deserved each and every gift. You’ve choosen the difficult path every time! It’s time to take a deep breath and keep up the good work Rurisan!🤗👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @DKZshimi
    @DKZshimi Год назад +7

    Thank you so much for sharing! You are a pure soul and so inspiring to me and everyone of you followers. Good job Ruri. You don't need to apologise, we all have our own journey to walk.

  • @volkizengin
    @volkizengin Год назад +1

    I too had a difficult childhood. My father was in the military and so could never come home for half the year. The fear of losing my father, the stress my mother experienced, knowing the real problems of the country, the possibility of an attack at any moment, growing up without a father, I have seen wars, deaths, suicides, etc. since I was born. Ruri, I hope you read this article. Believe me, you have contributed a lot to me and I would like to have a nice long conversation with you one day, not in videos but in real life. I watched this video when you first shared it, but now I watched it again and this time I wanted to write about it. Thank you so much for everything.

  • @ElhusseinyWagehOfficial
    @ElhusseinyWagehOfficial 5 месяцев назад

    I really appreciate and respect you more after hearing that. Keep moving forward and never ever stop supporting your family. Really wishing you be 10M Subs Soon. All of us are proud of you as a content creator like your great small family.
    Keep hustling champ, you deserve the best :)

  • @coleVEkürek
    @coleVEkürek Год назад +7

    tebrik ederim Ruri senin adına çok mutlu oldum umarım başarılarının devamı gelir çok daha iyilerini hak ediyorsun

  • @Sinopluyosun
    @Sinopluyosun Год назад +4

    Seninle tanıştığım için çok şanslıyım. Bu videonda hem kendi derdinin hemde biz Türk gençlerinin gerçek anlamda tercümanı olmuşsun. Yalnız hissetmemek güzel Ruri, nice 1 milyonlara💙

  • @doc2ur_who
    @doc2ur_who Год назад +5

    Thank you for having the tenacity to succeed and continue to share your life and experience with everyone. You definitely helped me. ❤

  • @SofyaSimonova
    @SofyaSimonova 10 месяцев назад +2

    I'm struggling with anxiety-depressive disorder, and every day I just want to give up on life. I force myself to get out of bed, take a shower, go to work, do something useful. I'm trying to get better, I'm trying to change, but I feel like nothing is working out. But this video helped me a little. Thank you for that. I hope someday my dream will come true too.
    I'm sorry if I made mistakes, english isn't my native language :)

  • @칠전팔기하자
    @칠전팔기하자 8 месяцев назад +1

    Just found you today and got impressed a lot. Fighting ya! U showed such a strong mental and hard work, i may forget these days.

  • @luisalberto-cantantegarcia1046
    @luisalberto-cantantegarcia1046 Год назад +5

    CONGRATULATIONS RURI. I do celebrate your million subscribers. You inspire me to go on, I´m glad you made it. Sky is the limit.

  • @End_Domestic_Violence
    @End_Domestic_Violence Год назад +5

    Inspiring and uplifting! A paen to dragging yourself through the dark days and never giving up😆 I survived violence beyond imagination, and I'm determined to use my experiences to help other people in dark places. Our world is both extraordinary and terrible, we can appreciate one to survive the other. This is a glorious and moving channel! Ruri is still haunted by her trauma, may life bring her a golden happiness 😆

  • @RhinoJulie
    @RhinoJulie 5 месяцев назад

    This made me cry. I want to take care of my parents, too. Thank you.

  • @Kiowagoodfella
    @Kiowagoodfella 3 месяца назад

    You are an amazing young lady, I know your family is very proud of you.

  • @brunooadas
    @brunooadas Год назад +5

    Sending endless streams of love and support from the other side of the world to you Ruri, ur gonna make it girl ❤. We are more than a community, we are family, young spirits change the world.

  • @krishnasunilkumar6728
    @krishnasunilkumar6728 Год назад +5

    You really have no idea how much i needed this .I was losing it, but now I'm back on track .Thank you Ruri ❤

  • @misty_00.
    @misty_00. Год назад +6

    Congratulations, Ruri.. i just so much i admire you for your effort, and for not giving up even when times are hard.
    I do believe in you because i think with your determination and hard work, even though it's not easy, you can do anything! you inspire me a lot to just not give up in life ❤

  • @Abigailmwangi
    @Abigailmwangi 4 месяца назад

    I just found you recently and I really resonate with your videos. Thanks for being real and authentic. I wish I had a friend like you. ❤

  • @scottrobert
    @scottrobert 3 месяца назад

    Thanks for sharing your amazing story and being venerable and relatable- just love watching and hearing what you have to say, you have a rare gift and a kind spirit. I wish you nothin but extreme success in whatever you do!

  • @waadtriq
    @waadtriq Год назад +8

    Congratulations! You deserve it Ruri. I'm glad that I discovered your channel, you literally changed my mindset and my life. I was crying watching this video. I'm genuinely proud of you 🥺. Much love to your mom and family ♥️

  • @phen-themoogle7651
    @phen-themoogle7651 Год назад +14

    My dad also worked with his brothers and sometimes got financial issues or we suffered a lot too so I can understand some of the hardships you went through! Also congrats on reaching a million+ subscribers! I've been subbed and watching since around 100k or less (it's been a while I think xD)
    You deserve all your success , GG!

  • @Cosette-cz5xh
    @Cosette-cz5xh 5 месяцев назад

    Just found your channel and I can't believe how happy I am for a total stranger. I hope your channel keeps growing! Thank you for raising awareness about how some cultures believe in marrying young women off at a time when they don't have the skills to protect themselves. I feel privileged that I never encountered this myself. I have a lot of things to say but I'll preface it by saying the most important part - be kind to yourself.
    About what your uncle did to the business - I like to think ugly(on the inside) people come into our lives to remind us not to become complacent. They're pitiful in the sense that they can't find a way to 'win' without destroying someone else. You don't have to forgive them, just don't waste energy hating them (in my opinion). When my family's business took off we held many dinner parties and had many 'friends' but as soon as the business declined (politics/health issues) most people were suddenly 'too busy' to visit. It was a hard pill to swallow. The options were to 1. give up and ruminate about the 'what ifs' or 2. stop blaming yourself and move forwards. I'm so glad you chose the second. You're a survivor, it took a ton of work behind the scenes, be proud of it.
    I know this is getting boringly long but I feel it's important to say you're not selfish for wanting a different lifestyle and to do things your way to support your family. As cringey as it sounds, people forget that all change comes from within.
    One of my favourite quotes is: 'I hear and I forget. I see and I remember. I do and I understand.' - Thanks for the reminding me of it, it was all because of your video I remembered

  • @alsg0403
    @alsg0403 5 месяцев назад

    I chanced upon your content today and I needed to hear this. Thank you Ruri for your sharing your story and your words of encouragement. You're exactly the type of person I needed to come across to keep my morale high and trust in the divine timing of things ❤❤.

  • @kurosakiichigo4139
    @kurosakiichigo4139 Год назад +7

    You are really an example of motivation and hard work!! I really appreciate your history!
    success always!❤🇧🇷🙏

  • @Antitrust86
    @Antitrust86 Год назад +5

    One of the best channels on youtube 🔥

  • @zarabyss
    @zarabyss Год назад +6

    Ruri i watched your channel since your video that went viral. You always was my inspiration. For studying,getting and gaining success in life. You are very strong girl and keep it up. I like your channel especially your vlogs. Because thay are literaaly so motivating. By the way congratulations on 1 million subscribers. You deserve more🎉❤️

  • @DeanHutchens-m3s
    @DeanHutchens-m3s 5 месяцев назад

    You are inspirational to me Ruri. I am 53 and due to circumstances have no idea what to do and listening to you has me thinking

  • @painleroux9486
    @painleroux9486 2 месяца назад

    You worked So hard .. I am so proud of You and I hope the Best For You and For Your family

  • @MotivationMagic10
    @MotivationMagic10 Год назад +9

    Dear Ruri!
    As I sit here, reflecting on the journey you've traveled, my heart feels heavy with both sorrow and admiration. Your story is one of resilience and unwavering strength, but it is also a testament to the hardships you endured due to financial struggles.
    Life has a way of testing us, pushing us to our limits, and it seems you've had more than your fair share of challenges. I can only imagine the countless nights you spent sleepless, burdened by worries and anxieties, as you navigated through the maze of financial difficulties.
    Yet, here you stand today, triumphant against all odds. You've faced every obstacle head-on, refusing to let the weight of your circumstances define you. Your determination and perseverance have become the pillars that have held you upright, even when the ground beneath you seemed to crumble.
    The scars you bear may not be visible to the naked eye, but they speak volumes of the battles you fought silently. You've had to sacrifice and make tough choices, giving up comforts and luxuries that others took for granted. The road you walked was arduous, but your indomitable spirit carried you through the darkest of times.
    While it breaks my heart to know the difficulties you've faced, I can't help but feel a profound sense of admiration for the person you've become. Your experiences have sculpted you into someone resilient, compassionate, and wise beyond your years. Your struggle has given you a unique perspective on life, one that most will never understand.
    Today, as you look back at the path you've traversed, I hope you find solace in the fact that you have overcome so much. Your journey may have been marked by hardship, but it has also paved the way for a strength that can weather any storm. You are a beacon of hope, an inspiration to those who may find themselves in similar circumstances.
    Never forget the battles you've won and the resilience you possess. Life may have dealt you a challenging hand, but you have proven time and time again that you are capable of rising above it all. May your future be filled with brighter days, where financial worries become a distant memory.
    With deepest empathy and admiration,
    Amar

  • @straightuplittlesoldier8527
    @straightuplittlesoldier8527 Год назад +4

    girlllll you don't know how happy I'm for you my family have the same issue and I'm so depressed but this video really motivated me you deserve it all keep going🖤🖤

  • @Sandulvinsuka
    @Sandulvinsuka Год назад +5

    Congrats on the 1 mil Ruri! Well deserved!!! and thanks for sharing your story with the world!!

  • @followingthesoul
    @followingthesoul 6 месяцев назад

    Don't apologize, this really made me cry. I understood your story, have kinda the same. You should be proud of yourself. Cause I think your family in first place, people around you and subscribers are proud of you. Don't stop you're doing great job !

  • @juanbenavidesj
    @juanbenavidesj 5 месяцев назад

    Ruri, you don't need to apologize. As you said, we are human beings, with virtues and defects. But I'm really glad that you have built a routine with healthy discipline towards your goals, which also allows you to take care of your mental health. Congratulations on what you have achieved, keep going, a hug from a distance from Ecuador. 😃👍👏👋

  • @erzafjj
    @erzafjj Год назад +7

    I remember i used to watch your study w me videos during finals in high school and u motivated me sm not just with studies
    Now i’m in college and you’re still my motivational youtuber
    Thankyou Ruri!! And Congrats u deserve it sm ❤️

  • @playtops3605
    @playtops3605 Год назад +7

    First of all, Congratulation for achieve the million suscribers Ruri! You deserve it :)) and once again, thank so much for bringing us this motivational conten

  • @thelastdragan
    @thelastdragan Год назад +10

    Amazing video I watched it all. I felt your pain Heart and emotion through the screen, I'm sorry you had to experience what happen to you, but it made you strong. it made you wise, humble and understanding even a warrior to stay in the battle fighting. Your story reminded me that success and life doesn't come easy stay consistent hard working and don't forget where you've come from and where you are now. you taught me a lesson today thank you Ruri ^_^

  • @maneesh2oo7
    @maneesh2oo7 3 месяца назад

    the amount of emotion in your voice and eyes oh my god you are one of my biggest insperiations ruri lots of love from India

  • @Mindfulnessdiaries
    @Mindfulnessdiaries 4 месяца назад +1

    You are genuine, I feel you! Just subscribed!

  • @su_zuki_2310
    @su_zuki_2310 Год назад +4

    I guess you published a video like this in a perfect time
    Because not only i want to start making money of my art, i also have an urge to start a RUclips channel (also huge financial struggles is a big motivation factor here 👀💔)
    And you're always inspiring..but recently i just find myself scrolling much more often on your channel because i get super anxious and doubtful about making new big decisions.. and watching videos like yours help me clear my mind and believe in myself a bit more
    So yeah thanks for existing and congrats for hitting 1M subs friend!❤❤ Keep growing🔥❤

  • @scottpierc7519
    @scottpierc7519 Год назад +10

    I just wanted to let you know, Ruri - You have a good soul…and never let anyone tell you otherwise or make you feel the lesser.
    Sending you love and light! The future is waiting for you with open arms.🙏🏻✨❤️✨❤️🌟🤗

  • @AmericanScholar82
    @AmericanScholar82 Год назад +6

    Good Luck with your RUclips Career, Ruri. You're story is inspiring. I guess what is most inspiring is the ability to bounce back after such betrayals and setbacks. Even though I haven't experienced the same kind of challenges, there are some things you said and have said in other videos that I can relate to.

  • @Pants_areanillusion
    @Pants_areanillusion 2 месяца назад

    This was really beautiful, heartfelt, and honest - thank you. I definitely benefitted from watching it. You are inspiring and I like your no nonsense attitude about money and business -- and providing for your loved ones.

  • @Maci-k1b
    @Maci-k1b 9 дней назад

    How beautiful you are, how wonderful are the tears of joy, your love is killing me ❤

  • @SergeantSponge
    @SergeantSponge Год назад +4

    Hey Ruri,
    I only may have just discovered your channel about 2 months ago, but I just want to say thank you so much for all the incredible videos you have made. I recently felt like my life was out of my control and your videos and advice really helped me change my mindset and inspired me to become a better person. So please ignore whatever the haters say and keep doing you. Congratulations on 1M and lets hope this is just the beginning! ❤

  • @arturorueda2576
    @arturorueda2576 Год назад +6

    Eres muy joven, inteligente y tienes mucho futuro por delante, tus temas son interesantes y básicos para aprender idiomas, te deseo excelente proyección y que tengas muchísimos logros, vas muy bien 👍🙏🔥

  • @markarianjocson1210
    @markarianjocson1210 23 дня назад

    Amazing story and perspectives Ruri. Made me emotional. Now i do what i do for my family. Inspired to start my RUclips journey. Thank you for your story. 🙂

  • @jhefdailytalks1338
    @jhefdailytalks1338 Год назад +1

    Such a beautiful story. Thank you.

  • @sadkebab
    @sadkebab Год назад +16

    Slayyyyyy girl 💅
    I have been following your grind since may/june 2021 and it has been really cool to see you grow 10x in less than 2 years.
    Truly inspiring to see and it's so cool that you are fully open about your walk on this platform and how you manage to do what you do.
    You are probably the only creator I look up to regularly despite I don't feel like I am in your target for 90% of your videos (unfortunately, most of the time I end up finding them quite shallow in substance, nothing wrong with it tho).
    Yet I find your presence behind the camera very charismatic and looking at your regular incremental progress was a genuine morale booster for my own incremental progress in my field and I expect you to do notch content in the future on a regular basis.
    Senin için çok mutluyum (つ✧ω✧)つ

  • @kunalkabir6591
    @kunalkabir6591 Год назад +4

    First of all Congratulations Ruri finally you did it ,after struggling for many years you achieved one of your goals and second don't get disheartened life is a rollercoaster ups and downs are always there , it's important to learn from mistakes, and third your video really motivates us a lot , bring smile on our faces and i am happy we are of same age , i thought you were 28-30 🤣 , again Congo

  • @atheist231
    @atheist231 Год назад +3

    I don't know who's reading this, i love you❤

  • @Clazers
    @Clazers 2 месяца назад

    Such a cool, well, emotional and heart felt, story. You are such a champ, Ruri. You are very inspirational and motivating.

    • @Clazers
      @Clazers 2 месяца назад

      What a captivating recount. Thanks for sharing. I love your channel.