"You should enjoy where you're at even if you're not where you want to be." Thank you for that quote. It's exactly what I've been needing to hear lately
omg the notes app for why you shouldn't let toxic people back in is so helpful for me i highly recommend also. anytime certain someone texts me out of the blue i go back to where i saved our last interaction's details there so my anger doesn't diffuse too much over time and i let them back in (because i've let that happen toooooo many times!)
I made a lot of mistakes in active addiction. Dwelling on my mistakes would have kept me in active addiction. That was a great quote. That is powerful.
i have always loved your advice and how you give it with honesty but also care it's so refreshing. love you since the beginning and thats never changing girl 🩷
As someone who literally couldn't do anything without their mom, it takes time to be independent and feel like you can do something by yourself. It took me years and baby steps but now I run errands by myself all the time. I go to appointments by myself all the time, I'm not afraid to be by myself bc I realized nothing bad was going to happen and the world isn't going to end just because I'm alone. Having friends and being in a relationship isn't EVERYTHING, yes its a big part of life but there's so many people doing life by themselves and they're perfectly happy so it's DEFINITELY doable it's just a little scary. ❤
Glad you are still with us glad you are doing well it's struggle but you are working hard to get better. Been of fan of yours for years you're genuine sweetheart and hope things get better for you
andrea, you are AMAZING with words. all your advice was really sound and made complete sense to me. plus you have a good sense of humor so this video was entertaining AND inspiring to watch
When I’m panicking about what others think of me I try to remind myself that I don’t read that far into other people, don’t notice these things about them, etc… so other people aren’t doing it to me lol
I’m 50 years old and I’m so incredibly impressed by the advise you have given your followers in this video! You lived a lot of life so far and no doubt have learned even more.❤
My advice for the not caring about what other people think.....think about how much you care or notice other people because it’s (hopefully) not a lot and that’s how much they think/care about you
omg ive recently been realizing that nobody cares. ill be doing something i used to think was ridiculous because of other people's perception on it but like. no ones even looking. they do not gaf!!!
I was 14 when I realized to stop caring what people thought of me, how I dressed, what I did and I'm 53 now so that was... a long time ago. Life is much easier. The only time I "need" people is when I'm running my D&D campaign and well you can't do it otherwise.
As someone who was bullied from elementary to freshman year of high school, I wish I could still go back and tell myself "NOBODY CARES!!!!!" bc they really don't. Even if people pick on you, it may seem so huge and like the end of the world but it gets better and what people think of you is none of your business. As long as you're a good person and treat people right that's all that matters! Also more than likely if someone is being mean to you, they're probably envious of something you have or something about you!
Alternate advice for your man liking other girls' bikini pictures. Have a conversation about it with him. Express how it makes you feel and pose the question, "How would you like it if you constantly saw me looking at and liking hot half-naked guys' posts?" I had this conversation with my boyfriend when we met years ago. He had explained that he was following them all before he met me, but after realizing how it made me feel and how it would make him feel, he decided to unfollow them. Now we've been married for 3 years and have a child on the way. Find someone who respects you.
“You’re okay where you’re at. You should enjoy where you’re at even if it’s not where you want to be” is actually solid advice and something I needed to hear! 🥲
are your braids extensions?!! i’m struggling to find confidence in my hair (also side note struggling with my alcohol addiction & appreciate how open you have been)💚🩵☁️☁️
I made a lot of mistakes in active addiction. Dwelling on my mistakes would have kept me in active addiction. That was a great quote. That is powerful.
"You should enjoy where you're at even if you're not where you want to be." Thank you for that quote. It's exactly what I've been needing to hear lately
Love you since the beginning girl! I’m glad you’re still here, glad you’re thriving. 💙
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omg the notes app for why you shouldn't let toxic people back in is so helpful for me i highly recommend also. anytime certain someone texts me out of the blue i go back to where i saved our last interaction's details there so my anger doesn't diffuse too much over time and i let them back in (because i've let that happen toooooo many times!)
Girl not me watching at the living room with family I had to EXIT OUT QUICK 😭
I made a lot of mistakes in active addiction. Dwelling on my mistakes would have kept me in active addiction.
That was a great quote. That is powerful.
This girl is my comfort page / person as an og fan im so so glad you are back
I'm so glad that you are back! It's like having a friend that hypes you up and cares❤
i have always loved your advice and how you give it with honesty but also care it's so refreshing. love you since the beginning and thats never changing girl 🩷
The big sista moment I needed right now ❤
Wonderful advice. Thank you Andrea! 💞
I really needed to hear some of this, especially the part about forgiving yourself. That is not who I am. I have grown so much since those mistakes.
As someone who literally couldn't do anything without their mom, it takes time to be independent and feel like you can do something by yourself. It took me years and baby steps but now I run errands by myself all the time. I go to appointments by myself all the time, I'm not afraid to be by myself bc I realized nothing bad was going to happen and the world isn't going to end just because I'm alone. Having friends and being in a relationship isn't EVERYTHING, yes its a big part of life but there's so many people doing life by themselves and they're perfectly happy so it's DEFINITELY doable it's just a little scary. ❤
Glad you are still with us glad you are doing well it's struggle but you are working hard to get better. Been of fan of yours for years you're genuine sweetheart and hope things get better for you
6:23 yes. understood effortlessly
bro i needed this so bad wow
andrea, you are AMAZING with words. all your advice was really sound and made complete sense to me. plus you have a good sense of humor so this video was entertaining AND inspiring to watch
thank you queen i got $75 off lmao
Everything you’re saying girl makes sense. No more self doubt! Love you 😘
I needed this video so much, thank you! Love you Andrea!
No need to second guess yourself! You worded your advice beautifully. It's nice to see you posting on here :)
i’m so happy you’re doing well 🥹💖
When I’m panicking about what others think of me I try to remind myself that I don’t read that far into other people, don’t notice these things about them, etc… so other people aren’t doing it to me lol
this hair color is my fave on you. you're glowing
love you so much and needed this ❤️
I know you went through alot andrea! So glad your healthy and well. So happy your back!! Been here since long ago and never left! ilysm! ❤❤❤😊😊😊💕💕💕
Love this video 💜 needed all your advice “did that make sense” lmao love you!
i have been following you since 2015 i love you so much, I enjoy your videos. they bring me so much happiness. you mean the world to me .
I’m 50 years old and I’m so incredibly impressed by the advise you have given your followers in this video! You lived a lot of life so far and no doubt have learned even more.❤
Cried a lot through this lmaooo. It was a lot of things I needed to hear right now. Thank you.
I'm so happy you're enjoying the ride! I am looking forward to the vlogs soon!
Love you Andrea. Love this type of video feels like great advice from a big sister ❤
you’re amazing. hope to be as strong as you soon here in my life. thank you xoxo
My advice for the not caring about what other people think.....think about how much you care or notice other people because it’s (hopefully) not a lot and that’s how much they think/care about you
andreaaa i missed your vids so so much
I'm so happy you're back!!!😊
omg ive recently been realizing that nobody cares. ill be doing something i used to think was ridiculous because of other people's perception on it but like. no ones even looking. they do not gaf!!!
Glad to see you back on You Tube. Congrats on your sobriety.
I LOVE this hairstyle on you so much! I wish I have your hair
Can’t wait to watch this ❤
Seeing you Sponsored by Vibrators wasn’t on my 2024 Card
Here since the beginning - we are the same age and always look forward to your videos ❤
2nd to last question hit hard!
Dinner and a movie alone is prime!
Loved this video. I always look forward to seeing you.
you are the best big sister ever
We love you SO much. Thanks for being our big sis through the years ❤❤
I was 14 when I realized to stop caring what people thought of me, how I dressed, what I did and I'm 53 now so that was... a long time ago. Life is much easier. The only time I "need" people is when I'm running my D&D campaign and well you can't do it otherwise.
Hey girl I used to watch you in elementary school and now i’m gonna graduate from college in 🥰
obsessed w you tbh tbh 🫶
Love Bellesa ❤❤❤
Where was this video when I was 16 and wondering what to do with my life 😭 love u Andrea, following for more than 10 years ❤️
As someone who was bullied from elementary to freshman year of high school, I wish I could still go back and tell myself "NOBODY CARES!!!!!" bc they really don't. Even if people pick on you, it may seem so huge and like the end of the world but it gets better and what people think of you is none of your business. As long as you're a good person and treat people right that's all that matters! Also more than likely if someone is being mean to you, they're probably envious of something you have or something about you!
Thank you for being you ❤️
ily keep em coming
my day 1 youtube girly
Okay now we definitely need an Oddvice collab!!
Been with you forever I love seeing you again
I missed these videos sooooo much
Can't wait
ANDREA I LAUV U
Never been so early in my life. I love you Andrea
Andreaaaa ❤❤
Escape the night
Omg I'm 29 and will be 30 in October!!! ❤😂
Hope you're okay!
@andrearusett 😍🥰
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I missssssed youuuuu
" I'm a virgin "
Hello!!!!!
…Just Trish?
i luv ur brain 🤍
Love you babe but be upfront and say you win something after you spend money
Alternate advice for your man liking other girls' bikini pictures. Have a conversation about it with him. Express how it makes you feel and pose the question, "How would you like it if you constantly saw me looking at and liking hot half-naked guys' posts?" I had this conversation with my boyfriend when we met years ago. He had explained that he was following them all before he met me, but after realizing how it made me feel and how it would make him feel, he decided to unfollow them. Now we've been married for 3 years and have a child on the way. Find someone who respects you.
omg you are like so cool still 🫶🏽
do a tattoo tour
oh I’m finna go to town if I get a toy
i’d sponsor a facial
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TRRUUUMMPPPP 🤭
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“You’re okay where you’re at. You should enjoy where you’re at even if it’s not where you want to be” is actually solid advice and something I needed to hear! 🥲
are your braids extensions?!! i’m struggling to find confidence in my hair (also side note struggling with my alcohol addiction & appreciate how open you have been)💚🩵☁️☁️
You're so wise babe ✨️ ged. College. None of it makes you a better person, look at you! You're so talented and give such good advice! Thank you ♥️
I made a lot of mistakes in active addiction. Dwelling on my mistakes would have kept me in active addiction.
That was a great quote. That is powerful.