You speak the truth. I’ve travelled south east Asia for months and it’s just as you say. They prefer older men, we treat them better, we’re not (generally) trying to bum them, or abuse them ,usually it’s just straight sex and maybe treat them to dinner and they will generally show you to a good local diner and take care of you not being ripped off. It’s just business and even though they may be well seasoned and hard as nails if they need to be, they seem to keep their femininity. I like them, you can get a tart in the UK for £30-70 but they always seem to be skanky, usually have a drug issue and not generally any better looking than my bull terrier.
You have to also keep in mind the Thai concept of "Kreng Jai", basically it's avoiding offense, embarrassment or inconvenience to another. (Also the basis of the famous "Up to you" response.). So if an old guy asked a Thai bargirl if she prefers young or old, she will say "Old". If a young guy asked the same question, the answer would be "young". You need to get an uninvolved 3rd party to ask her to get the real answer. Same in Laos, Cambo and Myanmar. All Buddhist and all basically the same culture. Not sure about the Viet chicks. Never been there ... yet. (Qualifications for this statement: 10 years living, working and observing in Thailand.)
Im 27 mate, your spot on, i spent 4 months in thailand and cambodia i had the odd free night, but its bullshit, actually alot of girls where not really interested in me as much as the older lads. But it didnt bother me too much. Love the vids
To all those young blokes watching this video and bagging what Eddie's telling you - guess what? You don't stay young forever guys! And by the time you get to your 50's or 60's or even your 70's (if you're lucky) Eddie's words will be making perfect sense.
Yes you are pal! Don't you think you are? I'll feel the same in a decade or so...especially when I'm retired over there as planned. Enjoy your trip mate!
How true, Yes I found they like older guys because we respect them more. They only like young guys for short time, wham bam thank you man! For me, and others in our 40s, we understand their life, they have bills just like the rest of us. Most my friends, treat them to a restaurant either the night before or morning after. We treat them as dates,not sex objects..and they respect us for it.
I wouldn't use the term respect more. Lets think about this logically. We all know Thai men sleep with working girls a lot. Have you ever seen a Thai bloke take a bargirl out in public? No, they wouldn't be seen dead doing that, because they'd lose face. There's a difference between bargirls preferring it because its better for them, and actually respecting it.
I like your matter of fact attitude. It gives me a true sense of what to expect when I visit these countries. I’m in the Philippines now but plan to visit Cambodia in the next few months. New subscriber by the way. Thanks for your information!
Edward Sweeney I have been to the Philippines twice and to be honest, when traveling overseas everyone needs to be aware of all people they encounter even taxi drivers. Here's just one example: I flew into Manila (The Ninoy Aquino International Airport) Dec 15, 2015 I met my girlfriend (now Fiancée) and after luggage retrieval we find a Taxi shuttle van to take us to our Hotel in Makati (12 km approx 7.5 miles). The driver wanted to charge us 3500 pesos = $68 US Dollars. I told my gf tell the driver this is not my 1st time here and i refuse to pay that much for a short drive. We were ready to jump out of the van and the man started dropping his price immediately...We finally agreed at $1800 pesos around $35 US Dollars, which i thought was still a little high, but it was close to Christmas so rates are always higher?
Once I had a taxi who used the meter to the airport it about 6 dollars 💸 that's why most drivers in Manila want a set price which is usually alot more than if they used the meters most Manila taxi drivers are professional scammers best is to get hotel 🏨 pick up saves you starting your holiday on a negative !
@@johnerdelyi48 Hello John I couldn't help but notice that you have a Magyar Surname. 🙂 You are absolutely correct about the taxi drivers in Manila. However, the taxi drivers that I encountered in Davao were completely honest down to the peso!
That 19 year old prick is why so many girls ask for the money up front. On many of the forums guys try to brag about all the free boom-boom. Most of the time someone will call bullshit on them - or the guys are just ignored until they leave the forum ha ha. It never hurts to be nice, or be respectful. Keep up the great work, mate!
As one monger to another one i can confirm you are speaking the truth Eddie. I first went in 89 and went 40 times untill 2010. Coming back out in 2 years to retire
A very interesting video Edward, thanks for all the straightforward information!!! I like how you cut through the crap!!! Very best wishes!!! 👍 Cheers 😊
I traveled with a friend in his twenties a few times and he keep buying into this they are going to do me for free thing because I am so young and handsome. I kept telling him "be careful it sounds to good to be true" but he would not listen and got rolled, scammed and ripped off several times in Souza, Angel City, Bangkok and never learned his lesson. It never ended well, the scammers saw him coming and played his vanity and ignorance. He got taken to an alley poker game and scammed, drugged twice, mugged, his stuff stolen while he was showering, a cop showed up while she was showering and claimed she was underaged and after they messed around she wanted a lot of money because he never talked about the price more than ounce. We quit traveling with him.
Is it really an achievement to deprive a young single mother who is working to support her children and support her parents? She is the daughter of a poor rice farmer and she has a primary school education from a bad rural school. If the guy is prepared to rip off such a person would you really want to employ the guy or associate with him?
Another great one buddy! I must assume that those photos you presented are some of the lovely ladies you have met. Very nice! As in most of your vlogs, I almost felt like you were speaking directly to me! I will be 65 at the end of this year. I still enjoy the ladies (and occasional lovely ladyboy). So don’t feel bad Eddie, I believe you are my junior. When I first visited Thailand I was only 19 years old and in the US military. But even at that young age I understood what was correct and polite when dealing with a “working girl”. I always paid them! But at that time, in Udorn Thani $2 USD was the going price for a long time!
My friend has had a bad experience that ide like to warn you about he went to pattaya and within a week he met a beautiful lady and fell for her she couldn't do enough for him she persuaded him to stay and they paid a lease on a bar between second road and soy back ow called father teds Irish bar they had planned to marry very quickly for legal reasons she had to be the major shareholder in the bar all was great to begin with but one month later she said she didn't want to marry him and as the major shareholder she asked him to leave the premises he refused and the following morning police arrived to arrest him he was soon deported back to UK having received nothing towards his investment I want back and found that surprise surprise the copper arresting him was none other than her husband they have still got father teds bar just be careful of a scam like this
some massage girls give it away for free but you have to treat them like a girlfriend. That's not hard to do because some of them are genuinely really nice people. I don't think it depends on age just your attitude toward them.
First, don't do a happy ending massage, get a foot massage and chat with them. If they seem nice exchange contacts on Line. Chat for a bit then if they seem interested ask them to meet you...I think massage girls are different from bar girls in that not all massage girls do boom boom for cash. I don't think age is important
If you don't want to pay you have to tell them first and if it's ok with them why not and it doesn't mean you can't be generous with them and enjoy each others company, and just be normal. There's nothing wrong with that.
Edward....you say and describe it, exactly the way it is........ Nothing is free, you cannot cheat these girls, respect goes both ways...enjoying your adventures.... will be back out there very soon.
Edward ... My last few visits, I stayed at the Royal Palace Pattaya, and the last time, I found a nice private condo just outside Bangkok maybe just a little to far away from all the fun, will message you next time before departing and hopefully you could recommend somewhere different for me to hang my hat for about 2-3 months Mid Jan to April next year Thankyou Mate. Thai people love good manners, and they cost nothing.
Good video and I agree with you!!! Looks and age don't matter haha, that's one of the reasons I love Pattaya!!! Hopefully Ed, the Thai babes will have our charms in 2021!! Take care good buddy!!!!
I have never had to pay once in all the times I have been to Thailand..... And if you believe that I have a bridge to sell you 😂, another great post and keep them coming. Im in the same age bracket as you and my experience is the same as yours.
ultimately I think that young kid didn't mean bar girls but he was to stupid to understand the difference. No matter what you are going to pay, either food, accommodations, transportation, clothing or jewelry. If you want a hot Thai girl, the ones in the bar charge you, the ones outside the bar will only go with a rich Thai. Farangs are not at the top of their food chain.
@@starcrafter13terran The truth has been spoken. As a divorced dude over 50 living in the USA, I will be traveling overseas for retirement and companionship. Let me repeat the words of a wise man who recently once said. . ."Women in the US are a waste of time even when it's available".
@@Swizzenator well of course when women have money and options, they will rarely choose an old man. who would? women have eyes, too. if they ever wipe out poverty, i am not sure what old men will do. suicide rates will sky rocket even more perhaps, as will rape etc
I’ve been travelling in South East Asia for the last 15 years or so. I still get guys in uk telling me about the place. Bullshit I say to them how often have you been. Never they say but a friend of a friend knows someone who once went to Thailand. The only good thing is they won’t ever go.
Great words, Big Mick A. My sentiments exactly. I can't stand bull s*****s. It's the, 'I know about this coz me mate's been there' that gets on my nerves. Thanks for your comments.
Lol yeah heard it so many times “I ain’t paying for it mate” I’ve had to point out the obvious again and again , what do you think the girls are doing down here ? I first came to Pattaya when I was 16 in the Merchant Navy. One night I missed the launch boat back to the ship , a bar girl let me stay in her room, naturally I was potless and yes I did try it on but as she said I’m down here working honey you’re ok to sleep but no sex , a lesson I never forgot
In my opinion generally speaking they prefer the older guys coz the youngsters can act a bit reckless when they are drunk. Also a lot of young mens egos cant handle it when a woman the same age as them asks for money, then the guys can become a bit nasty. The worst by far are some of the young western woman. After booking the holiday , flying out there, having a good time and getting pissed up they decide they are feminists and start acting disgusted as if they are above it all. Just discovered your channel and i appreciate your honesty and info. Been to Pattaya few times but never Cambodia so your vids are a great help, cheers . Also check out Disco Lounge by Kevin Macloud, its a good un.
Its not a old or young thing, its a money thing. I been in the Philippines for awhile, and the women do prefer older men. The women have personally told me they like older because they are easier prey. The object of the game is get as much money as they can with doing as little as possible. The older tend not to boom boom as much and they have some sort of steady income coming in. It really makes sense when you think about it. In their mind, the older the better. Spoiler Alert: They already have a boyfriend or husband their age, they just looking to make some extra income.
Cambodia was fantastic mate, I will be there again on December 17th, if your there on that date it would be fantastic to meat up for a few beers, I,m only there for 12 days though :(
I'm so glad it lived up to your expectations. It's such a great little country, and Phnom Penh is a real gem. I won't be there around Christmas time, other commitments, but keep in touch Mick. Really glad you had a good time.
I had a friend in panama that decided not to pay the woman after a night at his room. He ended up with a broken arm and an empty wallet after she made a call to her madam .
Met a girl in Pattaya told me a Swiss guy would not pay her after a week with her .big mistake . ended up broken arm .and other parts damaged..pay up or shut up .simple rule
HAHAHA!!!!!!! I love it - Ed you are so real I love to watch your stuff. Realistic and honest - hard to find in bullshit, post-modernist, feminist, PC 'West'
Young bloke i worked with said to me when he went to Thailand he picked up a glamour on tinder, he didn't even go bar hopping. He reckons there's a big tinder culture in thailand. A lot of the younger fellas just use tinder.
These girls will tell you anything to get a bigger tip. Do they prefer older men for the enjoyment, no, are older men more polite, likely. As you said they are selling and the guys are buying, they want a smooth transaction.
Oh Oh Thai an Cambodian girls , don't need a man who understand her and f*** longer better . You speak the language ? No she need many , is so sympel . If you understand that so you understand Thai and Cambodian girls.
honestly you are not old fat and ugly... for your age you are in pretty good shape and for your age you do not look bad at all. if anything you look good don't let people talk bad about you I'm a 33 year old man and I know a lot about looks and you're doing good
Exactly, BRILLIANT and to the point! I love being our age now, wiser and take more time to smell the roses. I'm not retirement age but think woman like me more now that I'm wiser and a total gentleman. Since I got divorced 7 years ago, all girls under 35 and I'm now 56. Never had a problem with getting girls but now it's different. I see that woman are less attracted to a man sporting a six pack then they are to a man that is a gentleman! Woman want to be a woman and most younger guys are needing to much attention and act like girls. So funny! Like I said, wise now.
hi Eddy, i had two main favourite vloggers, you and bkk112, but the latter has remained silent for 5 months or so. that is why i'd watch sometimes your old videos. i was surprised to notice this very video is the one which made me to subscsribe....as for the content of this video, i agree 100% with you. in my response to someone claiming "young women prefer young men , fitter...", i told him, you, Eddy, are talking about WORKING GIRLS, not about young students or a girls interested in romance or in getting married...
Hi, Pique. Hope all is well. This video was 'rediscovered' about a year later, which I was very pleased about. Unfortunately, because of the current virus, it's not really the time to be making vids of any sort. All I can do is weekly livestreams to talk about what's happening. As for BKK112, well, I miss his videos, too. Let's hope some sanity returns to the world soon. Great to hear from you, my friend.
i agree and disagree , i had a few massage girls who's shop didn't offer special service however the girl(s) seem to be into me to the point where they give me their contact info and we hook up later. regular girls are my preference aka higher class citizens of SE Asia because they never have a desperate need for my wallet . age is really a myth because the older guys are more wiser while the young bucks tend to be more slick. either way we all have to pay for play whether it might be paying for meals, drinks, shopping , taxis etc. one of the funniest myths i heard was SE Asian woman don't like black men and only want white or Asian guys well i totally blew the lid off that tale, i did notice some males from other ethnic backgrounds tend to give a dirty look or send off jealous vibes because im walking around with a hot chick but i live by the saying "Don't hate the player hate the game" . great content btw cheers mate !
Thanks Edward, I'm a recent subscriber and appreciate the time you put into this as well as the info you provide. I was wondering if you will ever do any on the Philippines? Your prospective is needed.
I went to the Philippines many years ago, but any info I have is probably well out of date. It could be time for another visit. Thanks for watching, mate.
I think alot of it depends on the girl and what the guy is offering. I highly doubt women in the bars here would go for free with any guy young or old. If they are going to seriously date someone they are going to expect support of some kind. They might be more willing to offer a better deal if you plan to marry them. I anticipate there are many girls in the bars who don't want to be working in the bars and are hoping to meet a man who will marry them. I remember when i was living in the Philippines I had met a girl who worked in a bar and it did not take much to convince her to leave. I told her i thought she was attractive and she might be someone i might consider marrying. Then she asked me where I lived and I told her thinking she was not really going to show up there. The next morning I had a knock on my door and there she was. I think most bargirls would jump at the chance of marrying a foreigner especially if she is older than 25. Most women i have dated in Cambodia expect an allowance from their boyfriend and are willing to accept 300 a month. It might not be as good as what they would earn at a bar but it is still better than working at a supermarket or restaurant. If you marry them it will be a huge boost to their status especially when they get that mixed race baby that will make them the envy of their village. Not to mention financial security and an opportunity to live in the USA.
some people are so rude. you're a lovely guy and i/m speaking from my own experience and even if you are 10/10 fit af they still want you to buy them a drink or get whatever they can out of you whether its a kfc or actual cash in return for sex.
Actually other than money, In Asian arrogance isn't always seen as a good thing. Young Western men are stir quite a bit of trouble treating like their own home.
Mate ive been going to those places since 97 so i can tell you with some experience almost all what you say is true. However i have had freebies over the years. Couple of things to point out though what do you consider free because there is always some cost involved whether is buying them drinks dinner or both. Also lets not forget things where different in days gone by girls where more willing to go for not much as many were in a room with two others motorbikes were only for top end agogo girls not like now. So times have changed. Its been awhile since anyone offered to go for free ( which is fine as the free ones also come with many problems ) I will add before i forget free ones often have a sponsor or two so money is not so much an issue. My last trip ( end of march just as things started closing ) i got offered to go for free ( first time in long time ) in ibar this was only because she didn't like the girl i was with for 3 days and tried to get one up on her which i didn't want any part of big titties or not. That is only a brief overview there are many other situations as to why girls do what they do, they may have already had a few st's that day, they may have something lined up for later or boyfriend coming soon etc: list goes on and on. I will just point out those situations mentioned my intention was to never aim to or have no intention of not paying it's just what happened.
Only time i ever got freebies from bar girls was when i lived in Saigon for a year back in 2001. In summer if they hadn't got an overnight, they would ask if you have cold air in your room. Yes, i come home with you. Of course i felt obliged to by her breakfast.$2 well spent i think. Also had a bar girl use her American boyfriend's money to get me drunk and have her way with me. Oh to be 33 again.
I think you and the ladies would benefit from the Manscape Lawnmower 3.0 Well made, nick proof and waterproof. When the bush is trimed, the tree stands taller!
This is like the girlfriend experience stuff. She mind find you beautiful and good looking, you have boom boom for free but you still have to pay for accommodations, activities, food etc . So yeah, that doesn't come free.
I’m a 51 year old American man and can tell you young American woman like older men also. My beautiful wife 15 years younger been Married ten years. But I have other experiences weekly that supports my theory, it’s the money and security they seek.
I agree but they are sacrificing sexual attraction. That is why you dont see this that often with rich women. It also depends a little on how the older man has maintained his body
For those women that prefer older men, maybe I'll wait till I'm 100 to go there. They should really love me then. Although, I'm not sure what I would do with them then.
bar girls don't give it up for free .Disregard the negative and actuate the positive. Sir Edward I like your informative videos. Your a Gentleman and a scholar and a judge of fine women plus there a very few of us left. Good day to you Sir.
Depends on the girl and situation but OFC you pretty much got to pay if she's a bar girl, even if you're handsome and not just "hansum man". Older men can have a good time but be realistic and don't always believe "I like old man" it's just like " I don't like Thai man" yeah whatever. An issue many girls have with older guys is they're hard work because they just aren't strong anymore, more effort to get a result. Depends how old.. what shape.. just be realistic yeah My friend, good looking 40yr old BG got offered the world by a 70 yr old guy, said no, doesn't want to spend her time with grandpa, rather be broke. Admittedly other girls would have fleeced him. Pays your money takes your choice.. have fun out there
Sir Edwards, I've watched several of your videos and I enjoy watching them . They are very informative and educational. It's certainly a shame that people will text you nasty emails when you haven't did anything to them. They are extremely jealous that you're enjoying your life with a lot of beautiful girls... which is something that they probably want to do... but financially can't. Don't even give those jerks a second thought. I'm glad that you're doing the right thing by those girls. My advice to the so called young good looking guys....watch how you talk to and treat people. Looks doesn't last forever....you can have a handsome face today and could be caught up in a burning house fire tomorrow. You never know what GOD has in store for you. Keep on doing what you're doing. Last but not least.... those young guys who are laughing at or criticizing you...they should pray and hope that they even live to acquire the age that you're at. You're nice man.... please take care and have a great day!!!!
Your so right about the young kid stealing, and that's what he did by not paying her, but he will do that to the wrong girl. She will leave, make a phone call, and it won't take long for him to see he is about to have a very bad day.
That was great information me and my son and a few older and younger guys from Scotland have been going to Thailand for 12 years now and you are bang on what you say treat the lady’s with respect and kindness and you will have the best time of your life I am 56 ex para keep myself in not bad shape but makes no difference thank you again me and my son is in Pattaya on 15 March good to meet u have a beer thanks again keep up the good work
You speak the truth. I’ve travelled south east Asia for months and it’s just as you say. They prefer older men, we treat them better, we’re not (generally) trying to bum them, or abuse them ,usually it’s just straight sex and maybe treat them to dinner and they will generally show you to a good local diner and take care of you not being ripped off. It’s just business and even though they may be well seasoned and hard as nails if they need to be, they seem to keep their femininity. I like them, you can get a tart in the UK for £30-70 but they always seem to be skanky, usually have a drug issue and not generally any better looking than my bull terrier.
You are exactly right about British tarts. A man would have to be really desperate to pay for them!
I'm at least a decade ...plus older than you and have spent 30 years back and forth to SE Asia. I agree with you, 101% Mate!
You have to also keep in mind the Thai concept of "Kreng Jai", basically it's avoiding offense, embarrassment or inconvenience to another. (Also the basis of the famous "Up to you" response.). So if an old guy asked a Thai bargirl if she prefers young or old, she will say "Old". If a young guy asked the same question, the answer would be "young". You need to get an uninvolved 3rd party to ask her to get the real answer. Same in Laos, Cambo and Myanmar. All Buddhist and all basically the same culture. Not sure about the Viet chicks. Never been there ... yet. (Qualifications for this statement: 10 years living, working and observing in Thailand.)
I somehow hooked up with a trust fund girl in Thailand. I was 23 and totally clueless. There are miracles.
Im 27 mate, your spot on, i spent 4 months in thailand and cambodia i had the odd free night, but its bullshit, actually alot of girls where not really interested in me as much as the older lads. But it didnt bother me too much. Love the vids
To all those young blokes watching this video and bagging what Eddie's telling you - guess what? You don't stay young forever guys!
And by the time you get to your 50's or 60's or even your 70's (if you're lucky) Eddie's words will be making perfect sense.
I'm 71, I guess I must be lucky by your reckoning. I will be going for 30 days again this year.
Yes you are pal! Don't you think you are? I'll feel the same in a decade or so...especially when I'm retired over there as planned. Enjoy your trip mate!
@@BadApe351 Thank you.
How true,
Yes I found they like older guys because we respect them more.
They only like young guys for short time, wham bam thank you man!
For me, and others in our 40s, we understand their life, they have bills just like the rest of us.
Most my friends, treat them to a restaurant either the night before or morning after.
We treat them as dates,not sex objects..and they respect us for it.
Nice words, Steven.
It's about years of experience and character building that gives most older men an advantage. I'm 71 and still going there to have fun.
I wouldn't use the term respect more. Lets think about this logically. We all know Thai men sleep with working girls a lot. Have you ever seen a Thai bloke take a bargirl out in public? No, they wouldn't be seen dead doing that, because they'd lose face.
There's a difference between bargirls preferring it because its better for them, and actually respecting it.
I like your matter of fact attitude. It gives me a true sense of what to expect when I visit these countries. I’m in the Philippines now but plan to visit Cambodia in the next few months. New subscriber by the way. Thanks for your information!
Cheers, Calvin. Have a great time.
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Edward Sweeney
I have been to the Philippines twice and to be honest, when traveling overseas everyone needs to be aware of all people they encounter even taxi drivers. Here's just one example: I flew into Manila (The Ninoy Aquino International Airport) Dec 15, 2015
I met my girlfriend (now Fiancée) and after luggage retrieval we find a Taxi shuttle van to take us to our Hotel in Makati (12 km approx 7.5 miles).
The driver wanted to charge us 3500 pesos = $68 US Dollars. I told my gf tell the driver this is not my 1st time here and i refuse to pay that much for a short drive. We were ready to jump out of the van and the man started dropping his price immediately...We finally agreed at $1800 pesos around $35 US Dollars, which i thought was still a little high, but it was close to Christmas so rates are always higher?
Hi, mate. That sounds like an extortionate taxi fare. Hope you had a good time in the Philippines.
@@STEADY599
YES sir i can't wait to go back...maybe next year? 👍
Once I had a taxi who used the meter to the airport it about 6 dollars 💸 that's why most drivers in Manila want a set price which is usually alot more than if they used the meters most Manila taxi drivers are professional scammers best is to get hotel 🏨 pick up saves you starting your holiday on a negative !
@@johnerdelyi48
Hello John I couldn't help but notice that you have a Magyar Surname. 🙂
You are absolutely correct about the taxi drivers in Manila. However, the taxi drivers that I encountered in Davao were completely honest down to the peso!
That 19 year old prick is why so many girls ask for the money up front. On many of the forums guys try to brag about all the free boom-boom. Most of the time someone will call bullshit on them - or the guys are just ignored until they leave the forum ha ha. It never hurts to be nice, or be respectful. Keep up the great work, mate!
Thanks, time, fine comments.
As one monger to another one i can confirm you are speaking the truth Eddie. I first went in 89 and went 40 times untill 2010. Coming back out in 2 years to retire
A very interesting video Edward, thanks for all the straightforward information!!! I like how you cut through the crap!!!
Very best wishes!!! 👍 Cheers 😊
Thanks, mate. I'm sure you had a great holiday.
I traveled with a friend in his twenties a few times and he keep buying into this they are going to do me for free thing because I am so young and handsome. I kept telling him "be careful it sounds to good to be true" but he would not listen and got rolled, scammed and ripped off several times in Souza, Angel City, Bangkok and never learned his lesson. It never ended well, the scammers saw him coming and played his vanity and ignorance. He got taken to an alley poker game and scammed, drugged twice, mugged, his stuff stolen while he was showering, a cop showed up while she was showering and claimed she was underaged and after they messed around she wanted a lot of money because he never talked about the price more than ounce. We quit traveling with him.
Thanks for your info, mate.
Is it really an achievement to deprive a young single mother who is working to support her children and support her parents? She is the daughter of a poor rice farmer and she has a primary school education from a bad rural school. If the guy is prepared to rip off such a person would you really want to employ the guy or associate with him?
Not all the girls are doing it to support their families..they want Iphones amd jewelry and makeup and clothes...etc
Edward, great video with the straight scoop! I really enjoy your videos. Great advice from someone who’s been there.
Straightforward talking,. Great job Edward. Thanks.
Spot On Buddy totally agree - Great Watch!
Another great one buddy! I must assume that those photos you presented are some of the lovely ladies you have met. Very nice!
As in most of your vlogs, I almost felt like you were speaking directly to me! I will be 65 at the end of this year. I still enjoy the ladies (and occasional lovely ladyboy). So don’t feel bad Eddie, I believe you are my junior.
When I first visited Thailand I was only 19 years old and in the US military. But even at that young age I understood what was correct and polite when dealing with a “working girl”. I always paid them! But at that time, in Udorn Thani $2 USD was the going price for a long time!
My friend has had a bad experience that ide like to warn you about he went to pattaya and within a week he met a beautiful lady and fell for her she couldn't do enough for him she persuaded him to stay and they paid a lease on a bar between second road and soy back ow called father teds Irish bar they had planned to marry very quickly for legal reasons she had to be the major shareholder in the bar all was great to begin with but one month later she said she didn't want to marry him and as the major shareholder she asked him to leave the premises he refused and the following morning police arrived to arrest him he was soon deported back to UK having received nothing towards his investment I want back and found that surprise surprise the copper arresting him was none other than her husband they have still got father teds bar just be careful of a scam like this
Like your no-nonsense thoughts! Well done! 👍😎 ~Maverick
basically its about how good looking your wallet can make you
But you must have money in it at the end of the day.
They love my big bulge in my pants... my wallet ha ha
@@TitoTimTravels And they are very good at emptying it if you are not careful.
Who really wants a broke ass ? Nobody . What woman wants a man they cannot depend on or will never amount to anything ?
It's about being fat, how fat is your wallet/ bank
some massage girls give it away for free but you have to treat them like a girlfriend. That's not hard to do because some of them are genuinely really nice people. I don't think it depends on age just your attitude toward them.
shortmemory how do you treat them like a girlfriend in a massage parlor or are you saying take them out?
First, don't do a happy ending massage, get a foot massage and chat with them. If they seem nice exchange contacts on Line. Chat for a bit then if they seem interested ask them to meet you...I think massage girls are different from bar girls in that not all massage girls do boom boom for cash. I don't think age is important
If you don't want to pay you have to tell them first and if it's ok with them why not and it doesn't mean you can't be generous with them and enjoy each others company, and just be normal. There's nothing wrong with that.
Edward....you say and describe it, exactly the way it is........ Nothing is free, you cannot cheat these girls, respect goes both ways...enjoying your adventures.... will be back out there very soon.
Thanks, mate.
Edward ... My last few visits, I stayed at the Royal Palace Pattaya, and the last time, I found a nice private condo just outside Bangkok maybe just a little to far away from all the fun, will message you next time before departing and hopefully you could recommend somewhere different for me to hang my hat for about 2-3 months
Mid Jan to April next year Thankyou Mate. Thai people love good manners, and they cost nothing.
i was on walking street and i saw a lot of young guys alone in the clubs
Good video and I agree with you!!! Looks and age don't matter haha, that's one of the reasons I love Pattaya!!! Hopefully Ed, the Thai babes will have our charms in 2021!! Take care good buddy!!!!
I have never had to pay once in all the times I have been to Thailand..... And if you believe that I have a bridge to sell you 😂, another great post and keep them coming. Im in the same age bracket as you and my experience is the same as yours.
Thanks, mate. Now which bridge is it!? Appreciate your comment. Have a great week.
ultimately I think that young kid didn't mean bar girls but he was to stupid to understand the difference. No matter what you are going to pay, either food, accommodations, transportation, clothing or jewelry. If you want a hot Thai girl, the ones in the bar charge you, the ones outside the bar will only go with a rich Thai. Farangs are not at the top of their food chain.
How much is the bridge mate
@@tylerdurden1217 He had to know.i can't believe a bar girl would go to a man's room without establishing a price beforehand.
@@richardplantan4375 he either lied, she wasn't really attractive, or she thought there might be some other payoff
All I know is when I was young I never had to travel out of the US in order to get laid. Not until I hit my 50s did that change.
Yea. Even the 50 year old wrinkled skank cougars are lookin for dudes 20 years younger. If your over 50 in the USA . . . Good luck
Partly because western society and attitudes changed also.
@@Swizzenator Women in the US are a waste of time even when it's available.
@@starcrafter13terran The truth has been spoken. As a divorced dude over 50 living in the USA, I will be traveling overseas for retirement and companionship. Let me repeat the words of a wise man who recently once said. . ."Women in the US are a waste of time even when it's available".
@@Swizzenator well of course when women have money and options, they will rarely choose an old man. who would? women have eyes, too. if they ever wipe out poverty, i am not sure what old men will do. suicide rates will sky rocket even more perhaps, as will rape etc
I’ve been travelling in South East Asia for the last 15 years or so. I still get guys in uk telling me about the place. Bullshit I say to them how often have you been. Never they say but a friend of a friend knows someone who once went to Thailand. The only good thing is they won’t ever go.
Great words, Big Mick A. My sentiments exactly. I can't stand bull s*****s. It's the, 'I know about this coz me mate's been there' that gets on my nerves. Thanks for your comments.
@@STEADY599 They are no different from armchair athletes.
Lol yeah heard it so many times “I ain’t paying for it mate” I’ve had to point out the obvious again and again , what do you think the girls are doing down here ? I first came to Pattaya when I was 16 in the Merchant Navy. One night I missed the launch boat back to the ship , a bar girl let me stay in her room, naturally I was potless and yes I did try it on but as she said I’m down here working honey you’re ok to sleep but no sex , a lesson I never forgot
In my opinion generally speaking they prefer the older guys coz the youngsters can act a bit reckless when they are drunk. Also a lot of young mens egos cant handle it when a woman the same age as them asks for money, then the guys can become a bit nasty. The worst by far are some of the young western woman. After booking the holiday , flying out there, having a good time and getting pissed up they decide they are feminists and start acting disgusted as if they are above it all. Just discovered your channel and i appreciate your honesty and info. Been to Pattaya few times but never Cambodia so your vids are a great help, cheers . Also check out Disco Lounge by Kevin Macloud, its a good un.
Thanks for your comments, mate. Really appreciate it. Disco Lounge by Kevin MacLeod is a new one on me, but I will check it out. Cheers.
Its not a old or young thing, its a money thing. I been in the Philippines for awhile, and the women do prefer older men. The women have personally told me they like older because they are easier prey. The object of the game is get as much money as they can with doing as little as possible. The older tend not to boom boom as much and they have some sort of steady income coming in. It really makes sense when you think about it. In their mind, the older the better. Spoiler Alert: They already have a boyfriend or husband their age, they just looking to make some extra income.
Cambodia was fantastic mate, I will be there again on December 17th, if your there on that date it would be fantastic to meat up for a few beers, I,m only there for 12 days though :(
I'm so glad it lived up to your expectations. It's such a great little country, and Phnom Penh is a real gem. I won't be there around Christmas time, other commitments, but keep in touch Mick. Really glad you had a good time.
cheers mate, and will do
I had a friend in panama that decided not to pay the woman after a night at his room. He ended up with a broken arm and an empty wallet after she made a call to her madam .
Met a girl in Pattaya told me a Swiss guy would not pay her after a week with her .big mistake . ended up broken arm .and other parts damaged..pay up or shut up .simple rule
Great video Edward, I totally agree with everything you said, I've seen & experienced the same, cheers
Thanks, mate.
Another top vid matey.....spot on with everything you said fella... :) keep up the good work :)
Thanks mate.
where and when is your next venture overseas to S.E. Asia fella?
I've got a lot of traveling coming up very soon. Still working on the details, but I'll be out in Thailand and Cambodia for quite a while.
HAHAHA!!!!!!!
I love it - Ed you are so real I love to watch your stuff. Realistic and honest - hard to find in bullshit, post-modernist, feminist, PC 'West'
Thanks, Sasha. Appreciate your comments.
It's all about respect. Respect what these women are doing and they will respect you for being part of it.
Younger men also are more 3 minute men as opposed to older guys who savor the experience.
Lol
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Young bloke i worked with said to me when he went to Thailand he picked up a glamour on tinder, he didn't even go bar hopping. He reckons there's a big tinder culture in thailand. A lot of the younger fellas just use tinder.
These girls will tell you anything to get a bigger tip. Do they prefer older men for the enjoyment, no, are older men more polite, likely. As you said they are selling and the guys are buying, they want a smooth transaction.
Older men understand women better also.
And they last longer "much longer" in bed to make the ladies happy😅😅😅
No one understands women, NO ONE!
Oh Oh Thai an Cambodian girls , don't need a man who understand her and f*** longer better . You speak the language ?
No she need many , is so sympel . If you understand that so you understand Thai and Cambodian girls.
Correct. In Pattaya the girls also don’t like Indian and Midle Eastern guys In WS they love the Japanese 😃😃😃😃
Right on Ed! Your the man!
Thanks Again for sharing another awesome video update.
Thanks, mate.
honestly you are not old fat and ugly... for your age you are in pretty good shape and for your age you do not look bad at all. if anything you look good don't let people talk bad about you I'm a 33 year old man and I know a lot about looks and you're doing good
Exactly, BRILLIANT and to the point!
I love being our age now, wiser and take more time to smell the roses. I'm not retirement age but think woman like me more now that I'm wiser and a total gentleman.
Since I got divorced 7 years ago, all girls under 35 and I'm now 56. Never had a problem with getting girls but now it's different. I see that woman are less attracted to a man sporting a six pack then they are to a man that is a gentleman!
Woman want to be a woman and most younger guys are needing to much attention and act like girls. So funny!
Like I said, wise now.
Thanks for your comments, Michael.
hi Eddy,
i had two main favourite vloggers, you and bkk112, but the latter has remained silent for 5 months or so. that is why i'd watch sometimes your old videos. i was surprised to notice this very video is the one which made me to subscsribe....as for the content of this video, i agree 100% with you. in my response to someone claiming "young women prefer young men , fitter...", i told him, you, Eddy, are talking about WORKING GIRLS, not about young students or a girls interested in romance or in getting married...
Hi, Pique. Hope all is well. This video was 'rediscovered' about a year later, which I was very pleased about. Unfortunately, because of the current virus, it's not really the time to be making vids of any sort. All I can do is weekly livestreams to talk about what's happening. As for BKK112, well, I miss his videos, too. Let's hope some sanity returns to the world soon. Great to hear from you, my friend.
i agree and disagree , i had a few massage girls who's shop didn't offer special service however the girl(s) seem to be into me to the point where they give me their contact info and we hook up later. regular girls are my preference aka higher class citizens of SE Asia because they never have a desperate need for my wallet . age is really a myth because the older guys are more wiser while the young bucks tend to be more slick. either way we all have to pay for play whether it might be paying for meals, drinks, shopping , taxis etc. one of the funniest myths i heard was SE Asian woman don't like black men and only want white or Asian guys well i totally blew the lid off that tale, i did notice some males from other ethnic backgrounds tend to give a dirty look or send off jealous vibes because im walking around with a hot chick but i live by the saying "Don't hate the player hate the game" . great content btw cheers mate !
Hank you for your informative videos. Your information has been truthful and to the point.
Good job mate.. totally agree and not even been there
Thanks, mate. I'm sure you'd love Thailand and Cambodia.
You should go and experience it.
Yes that's true they prefer older man.. nice upload big like from my side 👍
Thanks, mate.
Thanks Edward, I'm a recent subscriber and appreciate the time you put into this as well as the info you provide. I was wondering if you will ever do any on the Philippines? Your prospective is needed.
I went to the Philippines many years ago, but any info I have is probably well out of date. It could be time for another visit. Thanks for watching, mate.
I think alot of it depends on the girl and what the guy is offering. I highly doubt women in the bars here would go for free with any guy young or old. If they are going to seriously date someone they are going to expect support of some kind. They might be more willing to offer a better deal if you plan to marry them. I anticipate there are many girls in the bars who don't want to be working in the bars and are hoping to meet a man who will marry them. I remember when i was living in the Philippines I had met a girl who worked in a bar and it did not take much to convince her to leave. I told her i thought she was attractive and she might be someone i might consider marrying. Then she asked me where I lived and I told her thinking she was not really going to show up there. The next morning I had a knock on my door and there she was. I think most bargirls would jump at the chance of marrying a foreigner especially if she is older than 25. Most women i have dated in Cambodia expect an allowance from their boyfriend and are willing to accept 300 a month. It might not be as good as what they would earn at a bar but it is still better than working at a supermarket or restaurant. If you marry them it will be a huge boost to their status especially when they get that mixed race baby that will make them the envy of their village. Not to mention financial security and an opportunity to live in the USA.
if you're a young guy who's tall and masculine you can get any girl for free easily.
some people are so rude. you're a lovely guy and i/m speaking from my own experience and even if you are 10/10 fit af they still want you to buy them a drink or get whatever they can out of you whether its a kfc or actual cash in return for sex.
She should have negotiated a price before hand. That's the golden rule.
It all depends...... just too broad of a scenario to be one way or another.
But I will say that I do like their sense of humor, in general.
Lot of bar girls simply think younger men are going to have a girlfriend back home and many thai girlfriends.
Same as older men then.
This is really a great video my dear friend!
Thankyou, Viviana. Have a lovely weekend.
Great information my friend.
Older men are typically more generous, have more money, and are less demanding. As you said, Eddie, it's all about the $$$.
Very true iv spoken too tons of asian girls.and they all said young guys are not on there menu many reasons behaviour a big one etc etc .
Actually other than money, In Asian arrogance isn't always seen as a good thing. Young Western men are stir quite a bit of trouble treating like their own home.
Mate ive been going to those places since 97 so i can tell you with some experience almost all what you say is true. However i have had freebies over the years. Couple of things to point out though what do you consider free because there is always some cost involved whether is buying them drinks dinner or both. Also lets not forget things where different in days gone by girls where more willing to go for not much as many were in a room with two others motorbikes were only for top end agogo girls not like now. So times have changed. Its been awhile since anyone offered to go for free ( which is fine as the free ones also come with many problems ) I will add before i forget free ones often have a sponsor or two so money is not so much an issue. My last trip ( end of march just as things started closing ) i got offered to go for free ( first time in long time ) in ibar this was only because she didn't like the girl i was with for 3 days and tried to get one up on her which i didn't want any part of big titties or not. That is only a brief overview there are many other situations as to why girls do what they do, they may have already had a few st's that day, they may have something lined up for later or boyfriend coming soon etc: list goes on and on. I will just point out those situations mentioned my intention was to never aim to or have no intention of not paying it's just what happened.
Sometimes Thai girls hive told me. I not like young man. Want boom boom too much and not pay enough.
old men are better in that respect. less sex which works for the girl because sex with an old man must be a lot of work for her :-/ sad to say
Nice video brother.
Good job 👍
Left a like 👍 and full view
Thanks, Jimi.
another great video, Ed! My friend that I visit there has told me so many of the same stories. Always a good laugh.
Only time i ever got freebies from bar girls was when i lived in Saigon for a year back in 2001. In summer if they hadn't got an overnight, they would ask if you have cold air in your room. Yes, i come home with you. Of course i felt obliged to by her breakfast.$2 well spent i think. Also had a bar girl use her American boyfriend's money to get me drunk and have her way with me. Oh to be 33 again.
Just watched your video Ed well said you’re right on everything maybe one day I’ll meet up with you and buy you a pint cheers mate 🙏🏴
Thanks, Steve.
Well said and 100% true.
A great youTuber right down to Earth .you give it two them. I’m am new subscriber and this the is the reason why 👍
Thanks, Steven, appreciate your comments.
I’m fat and 42 perfect for them beautiful lady’s lol
I don't have to be handsome .. cause I have a good looking wallet.
Older men more often have more cash and are closer to the grave. Of course they would prefer that.
Of course they prefer older men! :-)
Well said Eddie. Good posting video!!!
Cheers, mate.
Really enjoy your vlogs, very entertaining, thanks
Cheers, mate.
Love the information and you are absolutely correct
just knew about that.. nice upload Edward!!!
Glad you like it.
Great info Fast Eddie.
I think your eyes are failing you ! You’re not fat and your maturing well 👍
I think you and the ladies would benefit from the Manscape Lawnmower 3.0 Well made, nick proof and waterproof. When the bush is trimed, the tree stands taller!
No money no honey age has nothing to do with it !!!
In Thai culture and in other asian countries, age equals respect and status. Treat people well and they will return the favour
I am 45.5 years old, am I old enough?
This is like the girlfriend experience stuff. She mind find you beautiful and good looking, you have boom boom for free but you still have to pay for accommodations, activities, food etc . So yeah, that doesn't come free.
Isn't that what you call a girlfriend
@@gsfcdy Quite right and the sex is consensual and honest, not in a time frame where she has to rush off and find her next victim, sorry customer.
I’m a 51 year old American man and can tell you young American woman like older men also. My beautiful wife 15 years younger been Married ten years. But I have other experiences weekly that supports my theory, it’s the money and security they seek.
I agree but they are sacrificing sexual attraction. That is why you dont see this that often with rich women. It also depends a little on how the older man has maintained his body
Nice video.
Great job 👍 brother
For those women that prefer older men, maybe I'll wait till I'm 100 to go there. They should really love me then. Although, I'm not sure what I would do with them then.
bar girls don't give it up for free .Disregard the negative and actuate the positive. Sir Edward I like your informative videos. Your a Gentleman and a scholar and a judge of fine women plus there a very few of us left. Good day to you Sir.
Cheers, Jim.
Depends on the girl and situation but OFC you pretty much got to pay if she's a bar girl, even if you're handsome and not just "hansum man". Older men can have a good time but be realistic and don't always believe "I like old man" it's just like " I don't like Thai man" yeah whatever. An issue many girls have with older guys is they're hard work because they just aren't strong anymore, more effort to get a result. Depends how old.. what shape.. just be realistic yeah
My friend, good looking 40yr old BG got offered the world by a 70 yr old guy, said no, doesn't want to spend her time with grandpa, rather be broke. Admittedly other girls would have fleeced him. Pays your money takes your choice.. have fun out there
Great Work Thumbs Up
Watching and supporting another video my friend!
Sir Edwards, I've watched several of your videos and I enjoy watching them . They are very informative and educational. It's certainly a shame that people will text you nasty emails when you haven't did anything to them.
They are extremely jealous that you're enjoying your life with a lot of beautiful girls... which is something that they probably want to do... but financially can't.
Don't even give those jerks a second thought. I'm glad that you're doing the right thing by those girls.
My advice to the so called young good looking guys....watch how you talk to and treat people. Looks doesn't last forever....you can have a handsome face today and could be caught up in a burning house fire tomorrow. You never know what GOD has in store for you.
Keep on doing what you're doing.
Last but not least.... those young guys who are laughing at or criticizing you...they should pray and hope that they even live to acquire the age that you're at.
You're nice man.... please take
care and have a great day!!!!
Thai ladies are lovely, and the more money you give them the lovelier they get!
Love your videos
Cheers, Kevin.
Edward Sweeney say hello to the queen for me!
To make a stay in Thailand you must have funds. So it does not matter what women prefer, it matters what you want :-) Interesting video
Thankyou, Mircea
Love your videos, Ed.
Thanks, Sean.
Your so right about the young kid stealing, and that's what he did by not paying her, but he will do that to the wrong girl. She will leave, make a phone call, and it won't take long for him to see he is about to have a very bad day.
That was great information me and my son and a few older and younger guys from Scotland have been going to Thailand for 12 years now and you are bang on what you say treat the lady’s with respect and kindness and you will have the best time of your life I am 56 ex para keep myself in not bad shape but makes no difference thank you again me and my son is in Pattaya on 15 March good to meet u have a beer thanks again keep up the good work
The real threat to these older men are the young good looking men that does have the money and play by the rules
Thank you for your info. I appreciate you. They prefer older men.