INFJ IN LOVE - 6 FACTS (MBTI)

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  • Опубликовано: 24 дек 2024
  • What happens when the INFJ falls in love? This video explains 6 things that happen when that type loves someone and how they handle their relationship. Very cute.
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Комментарии • 332

  • @basic-mbti
    @basic-mbti  3 года назад +152

    Are you an INFJ? We would love to hear what you think about these 6 things we mention about INFJs in love. Comment below!

    • @somethingwitty44
      @somethingwitty44 3 года назад +8

      I like it. Great job. Everything you said is on point!!!!

    • @vincenzotomarchio2347
      @vincenzotomarchio2347 3 года назад +4

      Very factual video- an infj-t

    • @lilcrystal9865
      @lilcrystal9865 3 года назад +3

      My mom always support the person she loves but she will slam the door to anyone who tell her to forget about the person she loves because they said love doesn't work if she was far apart. Can you imagine, she helps her worker until they find solution? Example she fought until she win. During the lockdown, she doing alms and send food aid to those in need regardless their races but no one knows of the deeds. Daddy D said mom is the original number 1 trouble maker but everything she does, she makes sure she did not against the law. 😅

    • @suzaruwrx81
      @suzaruwrx81 3 года назад +1

      I don't stay up dwelling on past encounters but besides that spot on

    • @thebloomintumors
      @thebloomintumors 3 года назад +1

      Dead on. I'm at the point in life, where it's been so freaking awful I have to give up. 🤣 It's stop hoping for it, or eat a bullet at this juncture. Women that appreciate everything I bring to the table don't even exist. There are a ton of gaslighting, lying, cheating, relationship scammers out there though... Oh boy... "I love you so much... oh, I'm sorry that you took it wrong, I can't be in a committed relationship, I was married 10 years ago and wasted my life on one penis." Meanwhile, it's just wasted a significant chunk of my life, that was already full of moments just like that. Ugh... We are suicidal incarnate.

  • @ally5045
    @ally5045 3 года назад +1336

    "They lie awake thinking about something embarrassing they did five years ago"
    I feel so attacked 😭😂

  • @KBowWow75
    @KBowWow75 3 года назад +696

    It's not about being choosy when it comes to partners. More that it is finding someone we feel accepts us and our way of seeing the world.

    • @YoursTAngel
      @YoursTAngel 3 года назад +44

      Exactly! I want someone to accept me for who I am and respect my privacy....i don't expect someone to agree with my viewpoint, but I just want someone who genuinely wants to listen me and respect my viewpoint ❤️

    • @iiCounted-op5jx
      @iiCounted-op5jx 3 года назад +1

      yep

    • @Cuteemogirl94
      @Cuteemogirl94 3 года назад +18

      Try looking for INFPs then. I met an INFJ online a few months ago...I'm the only person that understands him and that he's opening up to and he understands even little details and things I mention, like he understands what I mean all the time. I started to get a crush on him, so I told him hoping that my feelings will go away....I didn't mean for him to fall in love with me. I'm actually the first person that makes him feel this way, but I'm in a relationship with a ENTP, I don't want to give up on everything even though our relationship turned toxic, we are working towards fixing it rightnow. Since I'm interessted in personality types I asked the INFJ for his true and 100% opinion, oh it made me cry, but I asked for it, he had to fight with himself for being so honest with me because he didn't want to make me cry XD. Why are INFJ so cute when they are in love?

    • @dulminiwarnasekara1975
      @dulminiwarnasekara1975 2 года назад +8

      We choose one who can understand us totally ... it cannot be done by everyone ... only a few can d that

    • @dulminiwarnasekara1975
      @dulminiwarnasekara1975 2 года назад +1

      Otherwise the victims in a love are us

  • @maemagnolia
    @maemagnolia 3 года назад +741

    Lol she said “they can be a little weird” 🤣😂🤣😂

    • @charles2241
      @charles2241 3 года назад +34

      Yes, it is funny, because it sounds so robotic, and so much of a drone feel to it, and then all the sudden "they can also be pretty weird". Notice, they're not saying "a little weird" which would be more generic, but "pretty weird", which to me means a higher degree of weirdness. When I heard that I'm like, "What? That's a "weird" comment for a personality video".

    • @williambuck9744
      @williambuck9744 3 года назад +12

      Im not weird im eccentric. 😆

    • @KBowWow75
      @KBowWow75 3 года назад +8

      I felt so attacked.

    • @freshmints
      @freshmints 3 года назад +7

      im indeed very weird

    • @Gjappy
      @Gjappy 3 года назад +3

      Just a little... sometimes I think I may actually weird out my crushes a bit.

  • @viadumpvideos772
    @viadumpvideos772 3 года назад +666

    My boyfriend is an INFJ and I am an ENFP... And I'm so touched right nowwww because I know this is all true... 😭😭 INFJ are such sweet heartssss... And keepers.. and lovers... ❤️❤️

    • @youssefbhh4774
      @youssefbhh4774 3 года назад +23

      Hey, I'm an INFJ and I'm really glad for you that you have such a relationship with your boyfriend keep it up !!!
      Is there any possibility that you drop out or talk in private about something personal I would like to have an ENFP point of view about a certain situation? Thanks!

    • @adilbek.ermekov
      @adilbek.ermekov 3 года назад +41

      Thanks...
      I hope one day i'll find my ENFP...
      Or die alone...

    • @watchmanstella1197
      @watchmanstella1197 3 года назад +11

      @@adilbek.ermekov same here

    • @natashablue.locktasha
      @natashablue.locktasha 3 года назад +17

      The person I like is an INFJ and I am an ENFP. 🥺

    • @omiadi7485
      @omiadi7485 3 года назад +3

      💓💓💓🙏

  • @chikFromMTL
    @chikFromMTL 2 года назад +237

    1. They're loyal and protective of their relationship
    2. They help you grow and accept you for who you are
    3. They will open up to you at their own pace
    4. They will think about you a lot
    5. They love you, but sometimes they need space
    6. They keep their significant other in their heart, even after it ends

  • @wolfyp2687
    @wolfyp2687 3 года назад +126

    "They will push you to be your best self, while accepting you as you are" - This is absolutely me XD

    • @AGUNGKAYA
      @AGUNGKAYA 2 года назад +2

      I am looking someone who does this to me

    • @joytiston9769
      @joytiston9769 2 года назад +2

      And also me...

    • @V3rka
      @V3rka Год назад +1

      no jokes

  • @gentleman_Yu
    @gentleman_Yu 3 года назад +262

    As an INTJ, I really like INFJs. Similar enough yet different somehow.
    They're really sweet and I appreciate them so much

    • @KBowWow75
      @KBowWow75 3 года назад +6

      I bounce back and forth between testing as INTJ and INFJ. Like 60:40, 40:60. Depending on how much I focus on God's word, I'm either INTJ or INFJ.

    • @saloni.sharma
      @saloni.sharma 3 года назад +7

      @@KBowWow75 similar for me as well.. I score both on my tests so I'm either a very logical infj or a very emotionally aware intj which is weird 😅
      I think these two are the most intricate and similar types because of their almost same cognitive functions of INXJ

    • @josiahtaylor7967
      @josiahtaylor7967 3 года назад +4

      @@KBowWow75 If it's religious morals which make you more emotionally aware then you're probably INTJ because it's something you try to do, rather than something you naturally do, but it's nice that you can do it well enough to test as INFJ sometimes

    • @laurenzjor-elona8046
      @laurenzjor-elona8046 2 года назад +1

      I'm an INTJ, currently crushing on my INFJ friend.

    • @joytiston9769
      @joytiston9769 2 года назад

      Thank you ❣️

  • @robertholloway6612
    @robertholloway6612 3 года назад +210

    True Story: INFJ touches their ideal romantic partners hand, the ENFP. The ENFP looks at the INFJ, smiles, and ask "Whats that for?"
    The INFJ says with anxiety, "I just wanted to know if you're real." The ENFP looks at their hand then to the INFJ. "Am I real?"
    "I don't know yet," says the INFJ, looking at the ENFP... "I haven't determined that yet."
    The ENFP smiles and assures the INFJ, "Well, I AM a real person."
    "Of course you're a real person, my question is; are you the person of my imagination?" said the INFJ.

    • @flute5498
      @flute5498 3 года назад +21

      This will be definitely me if I'd ever find a guy who matches my imagination 😂

    • @cleos4217
      @cleos4217 3 года назад +15

      This is freaky I had this exact conversation with my INFJ boyfriend 😳(I'm an enfp)

    • @AKIForLeni18
      @AKIForLeni18 3 года назад +3

      @@cleos4217 wow

    • @andreahidalgo1780
      @andreahidalgo1780 2 года назад +3

      Oh my, I just feel like I just heard the conversation in the beginning of Taylor Swift's All Too Well Short Film.

    • @angelaguirre4694
      @angelaguirre4694 2 года назад +3

      Okay, im an infj and this is what i was telling my isfp boyfriend... I told him i dont know if you are real.. I need you to be real..

  • @laelae2408
    @laelae2408 3 года назад +120

    As an INFJ this whole video is 💯 correct, I view love as not only emotional but also as a spiritual inspiration and journey with my significant other

  • @somethingwitty44
    @somethingwitty44 3 года назад +145

    It seems very unusual that no one has commented yet after a month or more. Most videos or forums are so chalked full of comments and likes it seems futile to comment. INFJs look for understanding when nobody is looking. Even when it's only digital it feels good to be accepted, thank you.

    • @basic-mbti
      @basic-mbti  3 года назад +16

      Thank you too! Comments are obviously always welcome and appreciated. This channel is just in the beginning, it's basically a baby. Also there will be no more robotic voice in the future. Because it sounds impersonal. You are always welcome on this channel.

    • @lukula2934
      @lukula2934 3 года назад +3

      @@basic-mbti So glad to hear about the voice...The content was wonderful...

  • @jiac.2316
    @jiac.2316 3 года назад +102

    #6 - Met a guy and fell in love with him. It never amounted to anything but I will always thank him for allowing me to grow and be who I am today. He taught be a lot about myself. Even though we don't talk anymore, no bitter feelings. :) still think about him from time to time.

    • @MP-fk9em
      @MP-fk9em 3 года назад +11

      I related to your comment, had a similar experience and am so grateful for all of the great things that followed for me because of it💖

    • @mashalahmad4705
      @mashalahmad4705 2 года назад +4

      Same.

    • @benjib2691
      @benjib2691 2 года назад +7

      Same but for me it was a girl (I'm an INFJ male). She was so nice with everyone and there was something in her that I found beautiful, maybe that was grace. When I was finally able to confess my love to her (after a few years, yeah I know that's quite a long time) I was relieved that she listened to all the things I had to say (not like a previous experience I had). Turns out she wasn't on the same wavelength as me but she haven't broke my heart by telling so. We have lost contact since then but from time to time I have a feeling which makes me think of her. I hope she is alright in the world and that she is happy in her life.

  • @carow4763
    @carow4763 2 года назад +20

    1. They are loyal and protective (0:30)
    2. Growth and acceptance (1:10)
    3. Slow to open up (1:44)
    4. Lots of thinking [about you] (2:27)
    5. They need space (3:26)
    6. They honor their ex (4:05)

  • @TheDjangoJoEShowOfficial
    @TheDjangoJoEShowOfficial 3 года назад +198

    The main reason for the "clinginess, loyalty, etc". The INFJ is the "functional PTSD" personality type. With that in the air, we do everything for you. But the MOMENT, you show you are not for me. I will study you, and drop you in an instant....
    This is why we dont have alot of relationships. INFJs are lowkey narc magnets due to us being empathic. People die in narc relationships daily [No1 talks about this enough]. So we are literally that 1 in a million. Hence why we are abundant before the age of 25, and rare as hell in real life after that. Compounded betrayel, will do something to you.
    So if you got an INFJ, love that person, like that person, drop your ego and grow with that person. Cause now'a days, single is stable. If you aint stable, I aint able 🤣🤣

    • @bshrful
      @bshrful 3 года назад +3

      sonds like the infj is the narcisist

    • @TheDjangoJoEShowOfficial
      @TheDjangoJoEShowOfficial 3 года назад +7

      @@bshrful sounds like the infj is the one the narcissist copies.....

    • @mirani2571
      @mirani2571 3 года назад +5

      @@TheDjangoJoEShowOfficial infj has two types in it : INFJ-A & INFJ-T . A is for assertive & T is for turbulent . you can say that these two are like the light & dark sides of infj. as we're an idealists , based on our ideals (good or bad) we turn out that way. some examples of infj's are adolf hitler , mahatma gandhi etc.,

    • @TheDjangoJoEShowOfficial
      @TheDjangoJoEShowOfficial 3 года назад +1

      @@mirani2571 there are more sub types then given credit for. Thx for your response😊

    • @mirani2571
      @mirani2571 3 года назад +2

      @@TheDjangoJoEShowOfficial yea ik but I said the major two types

  • @btdu2789
    @btdu2789 3 года назад +81

    All true. I didn't know what I was like in my 20's or even 30's, and my 40's understood more about myself not knowing I was an INFJ.

    • @basic-mbti
      @basic-mbti  3 года назад +10

      Learning about yourself is a life long process I guess

    • @kristinaseitaj5699
      @kristinaseitaj5699 3 года назад +5

      So True! Before find out my type of personality i thought i was so weird

    • @香中帐梨鹅
      @香中帐梨鹅 2 года назад +1

      Same here , I got tears of now I’m found myself

  • @sabrinawanderer7560
    @sabrinawanderer7560 3 года назад +101

    Idealism means a person who wants just all honesty and genuine personality...be yourself but don't be rude...don't love a person because they are rich, showing off their fake achievements! Love a person for who they are, not what they are......

  • @jeanneratterman
    @jeanneratterman 2 года назад +3

    The man who swept me off my feet was active, intelligent, great sense of humor, compassionate, clever, talented, attractive, and had a unique natural smell to him which i could not never get enough of.
    Almost 13 years since he died (40 years together) and i miss him every day. Never dated since, as i have not met nor can i imagine being so blessed twice. Being alone is okay. I have kids and grandkid and a handful of very dear friends. They are blessings.

  • @edwinasabater6642
    @edwinasabater6642 3 года назад +27

    True an INFJ SIGMA, can give unconditional love if they find close connection with a partner, but still maintain their own strong inner core, since their inner world which followed the Divine protection morals and integrity is intact. They accept the flaws and strength of their partner, and invites them to learn the lessons life had given them , to follow their partners own path.

  • @anonymousanon8366
    @anonymousanon8366 3 года назад +30

    That one dislike is the real INFJ.

  • @raularmas317
    @raularmas317 3 года назад +6

    Love is about having the courage to make self-sacrificing choices and telling the compassionate truth.

  • @michellesonia1246
    @michellesonia1246 2 года назад +14

    As an infj who fell in love with another infj, I thought I found the perfect partner but apparently he was still stuck with an ex. I know the fact that he is “honouring his past relationship” but I just can’t help but notice that I wasn’t exactly what he wants so I had to let go. It’s so hard to find that one person you can really get along with and I thought I found it in him but apparently he’s another story that I have to put in the past. Yet, I still do think of him every now and then.

  • @Ultiferion
    @Ultiferion 3 года назад +26

    Fact number 6 is so true... Thought it wasn't normal... I still think about my first few crushes when I was a little boy (not supposed to have such feelings at such a young age? )... I then try to think of, what my life would have been like if they were still part of it, still remembering how they gave me butterflies in my stomach.
    Things like this that makes INFJ males appear weak or feminine...instead as badass, loyal guardians.

  • @sararosenquist7565
    @sararosenquist7565 Год назад +1

    Finding someone who has the capacity to hold off on making assumptions based on the extroverted qualities that are readily apparent and be curious long enough to really see you is pretty nearly impossible…sigh

  • @sarahatkinson1092
    @sarahatkinson1092 2 года назад +18

    Yup. The fact about feeling others emotions …even physically. That’s strong for me. Another reason why I don’t spend long periods of time in big groups. I approve all of these though ♥️

    • @joytiston9769
      @joytiston9769 2 года назад

      And it's 💯 percent true to me as well Hahaha... It feels like draining my energy inside 😅

    • @lok6314
      @lok6314 Год назад

      @@joytiston9769 even if its 24/7 positive emotions?

    • @humongswlth9964
      @humongswlth9964 Год назад

      True.

  • @smartalecl4
    @smartalecl4 2 года назад +6

    I'm a 19 year old INFJ and have never been in a relationship. The closest I've gotten was a single date, and she only saw me as a friend. I've never been asked out aside from a cruel joke by the popular kids in middle school, so I'm always the one asking. Every time I do ask someone out, they either make an excuse to get out of it or reel back in disgust

    • @manarmeziani857
      @manarmeziani857 2 года назад +6

      Being physically attractive helps (in shape, taking care of yourself etc.) and this is coming from a intj female. Dont seem desperate for love. Dont let it define your value, as tempting as it can be. Be the best version of yourself and love will come to you.

  • @khushbooprasad6519
    @khushbooprasad6519 2 года назад +2

    3. They open their hearts to you but slowly
    There's no rush to give away important information
    4. They will think about you a lot.
    Overthinkers. Wonder if they hurt or disappointed you in some way.
    They are quite sensitive. They feel their own emotions intensely but also feel the emotions you carry.

  • @garrysorensen9087
    @garrysorensen9087 3 года назад +14

    i was skeptical when the briggs myers test first came out, but the more i hear the more it just fits.
    im am an INFJ and this just hits the nail on head about me.
    i dont have unrealistic expectation, but i have been looking for love a long time and while every single person has broken my heart, i still care deeply about them and i am grateful to all of them to help me learn to open up and trust someone with my thoughts and emotions.
    to all my lonely INFP'S
    you are a breathtaking person with a brilliant heart and soul. you deserve to know the comfort and security of a deep love.
    just be yourself and never give up no matter what and one day you will find somebody, because you are worth it

    • @manarmeziani857
      @manarmeziani857 2 года назад +2

      I have a question. If you’re in a new relationship would the typical infj still think of their ex?

  • @angelalee6529
    @angelalee6529 3 года назад +19

    This is way too accurate. Goodness. I am speechless.

    • @williambuck9744
      @williambuck9744 3 года назад +2

      Im just learning this mbti stuff and its really scary how they can know so much about you based on a simple test and map you like this but its also a blessing to be able to understand yourself thru this. It would have helped in many ways to know my infj personality in my life.

  • @visalrithyserei7415
    @visalrithyserei7415 3 года назад +36

    I am an INTJ but I still think, since we are Ni doms. We would want someone who is loyal, faithful, to be themselves, but also show them a different view of the world. As for INFJ, I think their emotion would be more like calm water, it is compassionate and understanding, their logic will be high up with their emotion so they will aim to provide support and give their loved one protection, it is (Fe-Ti) after all. For INTJ, emotion is a private thing, for INFJ they don't have an emotion that is why they seek to understand emotion, they feel people emotions but not their own due to (Ti-Ni=Fe), so if they don't see a future with you, they will kindly say it to your face, but they can also be indecisive, therefore they need someone who is confrontational. INFJ can be seen as blunt sometimes if their Fe is not actually as develop as their Ti, so make sure if you meet this kind of INFJ, they will seek to understand your emotion but they won't express it to you, be affectionate to them and as times go by they will start to show their Fe through Ni, they will make a future plan with you.

    • @edwinasabater6642
      @edwinasabater6642 3 года назад +6

      Well said, then as an INFJ, I married one to balance me, and he cannot verbalize how he feels, that is my role to help him also. I'm not sure what his personality but both of us are loners, like Sigma.

    • @visalrithyserei7415
      @visalrithyserei7415 3 года назад +8

      @@edwinasabater6642 My girlfriend is ESTP, and she has the same problem with showing affection through verbal, so I have to put my Te aside and use my Fi to guide me.

    • @edwinasabater6642
      @edwinasabater6642 3 года назад +2

      You are right, then find some one that can balance you, and when you are tested by dealing with challenges in life, together you will be unbeatable. I think we had a batting average of 90%, and we travel in life parallel to each other, we know we have different path and different lessons to learn. We are able to do that, accepting that we are not perfect, accepting each others flaw and virtues. All the challenges in marriage we faced infertility, betrayal, long distance relationship, we did that, but the main theme for us is being yourself in the relationship. Our last challenge was bladder cancer and lupus. We overcome them together.
      We celebrated our 52 years of marriage, on his birthday 8/7/2021, he is 81 years, a Pediatrician and I am 75 years old also still working full time as Medical Technologist in the hospital laboratory.
      We just had a renewal of marriage vows at Sacred Heart Catholic church. Our being together is wonderful journey through life, never boring. So if you feel comfortable with your partner go with the flow. It is hard to find a partner that would stick around and not run at the first sign of trouble. It is a gift from the Lord.

    • @grootette1355
      @grootette1355 2 года назад +3

      I once fell in love with an INTJ simply because he fell in love with me (INFJ) first. That was the weirdest feeling. As he was closed off and I was confused nothing ever really came off it but I am thankful for this experience.

  • @nfk4437
    @nfk4437 2 года назад +9

    The more I learn about infj, the more scary i felt as it just too true. Like never in my life someone can explain my personalities like this. It just whenever i watch infj related video, i just can relate it to the core.

  • @takammama5723
    @takammama5723 3 года назад +32

    As an infj .
    I can confirmed its all true !❤️👍

  • @Dorothy1062
    @Dorothy1062 3 года назад +22

    This is the most accurate description I’ve heard since forever! Thank You!

  • @akpogublessing870
    @akpogublessing870 2 года назад +4

    So true!!!!
    But opening up to ppl is scary for me..they might leave unno Nd stuffs like that
    Being an INFJ Nd a Sagittarius is so great and contradictory

  • @sacharymateo1710
    @sacharymateo1710 2 года назад +6

    I Love being INFJ

  • @angeliquewu8318
    @angeliquewu8318 Год назад +2

    INTP with two INFJ friends...
    They're both super boy obsessed lolll
    One of them (girl) obsesses over their favorite past boyfriend while still liking a bunch of other boys at the same time, and the other (gay) tends to obsess over crushes for a while.

    • @saloma1979
      @saloma1979 2 месяца назад

      I was like that as teen, later i become so cold and distant and only obsessed with special. Nowdays, only one is in my heart who managed to erased all exes from my heart and mind. Something i thought will never happened.

  • @lebean1291
    @lebean1291 2 года назад +3

    This explains everything 😭 I don't settle in romance and friendships, I will be easily pushed away. But once I do find someone I love, I am very much serious and I try not to let it on cause I don't want them to be overwhelmed.

  • @khushbooprasad6519
    @khushbooprasad6519 2 года назад +2

    I came here expecting nothing and I'm freaking taking notes over here😭😂

  • @shota_kungun9548
    @shota_kungun9548 2 года назад +2

    "its a real release for them to open up to someone they trust.And it dosen"t happen very often."... really felt that as a fellow INFJ.... gezzz hope to get over this personality... hate this world

  • @qieenalubya
    @qieenalubya Год назад +1

    this is all true to me. Finding love surely so tough, I had to go through hundreds times of anxiety of not able to meet someone's right who understands me. I met lots of type of people, and honestly I'm not the type to try things out just for fun, but to test the water if I will ever find someone compatible with me:(

    • @andrewvincent7299
      @andrewvincent7299 2 месяца назад

      Try to look for an ENFJ, INFP, or an ENFP. Those would be the best matches for you. They'll be able to understand you, they'll be loyal, help and believe in you, and give you the space you need

  • @joshdudeguy2830
    @joshdudeguy2830 3 года назад +97

    Also known as the forever-alone MBTI type.. :/

    • @infj-tguy6275
      @infj-tguy6275 3 года назад +4

      If your red pilled like me it's the truth but not really, if you wait long enough artificial intelligence will become really advanced n will eventually become as complex as a human but without the flaws of humans like hypergomy n mens hyperbaly I think, I dont remember but just imagine bein able to buy the perfect girl and she's fully customizable and her ai will grow with you the longer you stay together, eventually she will grow to love you because if a human can do it then why not an ai? Imagine it for both guys and girls, never again will you feel worried they might cheat on you, never again will you have to worry about them trying to replace you with another person whose better, imagine 100% faithfulness n loyalty, imagine the potential possibilities for a magnificent family and you can rest assured that your significant other wont try to steal your kids in divorce coart, imagine slowly growing closer to that person over time, they wont be a slave that will obey you like a robot, they'll be a thinking and feeling life that's capable of real love, someone you could actually trust with your life because in a world full of wemon who will lie n cheat n replace you isn't it worth trying if it means the happiness you so desire?

    • @jbeezyproductions2580
      @jbeezyproductions2580 3 года назад +8

      @@infj-tguy6275 Nothing will ever fill my soul more, than the unconditional love of one others.

    • @andrewvincent7299
      @andrewvincent7299 2 месяца назад

      ​@@infj-tguy6275You're feeling the red pill rage and it's got you waiting for something that is false. It's not real. No matter how great the programming is for AI and how close it'll eventually get to talking to a real human being, it will just be fantasy. A program made by some man that you've fallen in love with. Don't let the red pill rage pull you into the type of despair where you'll accept fantasy.

  • @Coneman3
    @Coneman3 2 года назад +7

    I doubt anyone can love as deeply as an INFJ.

  • @chocoboasylum
    @chocoboasylum 3 года назад +13

    Being an actor in stock footage must be SO awkward...

  • @ayeshaagha9461
    @ayeshaagha9461 3 года назад +15

    If an INFJ has dumped someone in the past because INFJs also tend to see unnecessary red flags. And the. Wants to go back to them? I just want to ask will that work as INFJ would rather now feel guilty rather than true love

    • @Byteable
      @Byteable 3 года назад +14

      Trust me when I dump someone I feel like I’m the one being dumped because it hurt so bad to let go. I know when I do that I will never speak to that person again and it will be a permanent door slam.

    • @RyuuRider
      @RyuuRider 3 года назад +1

      @@Byteable I tried that with my ex, but he wanted to keep me in his life as a friend. I still loved him dearly, so I accepted in hopes that we could sort through our thoughts and maybe come back together, but now he's protecting his heart and doesn't want to try anything. It feels like the death of my heart, echoed once again to bear down on me. It's just fascinating how the grief of lost love rivals the highest highs of the relationship that once was. Still, as long as he feels it's for the best, I wish the best for him.

    • @estellelerecouvreux3916
      @estellelerecouvreux3916 3 года назад +2

      Got dumped by an Infj, he came back after a while.

  • @mehedifarazi
    @mehedifarazi 3 года назад +8

    Absolutely loved the video. Feels like an INFJ in talking in this video. Can't disagree with any single words.

  • @ermaautencio2985
    @ermaautencio2985 3 года назад +42

    I love to be an Infj..i fully appreciated this video a lot...Thank you so much...

  • @khushbooprasad6519
    @khushbooprasad6519 2 года назад +1

    1. Loyal and protective
    Top priority
    Do everything in their power to protect the relationship
    2. They push you further while still accepting you as you are

  • @BradGroux
    @BradGroux 3 месяца назад +1

    As an ENTP it kills me to be away from the INFJ in my life.

  • @hyokaxaz3339
    @hyokaxaz3339 2 года назад +1

    Everything is true. Hope we all find our loves someday, and even if not, I hope we'll stay happy with ourselves!

  • @ToluFunnel
    @ToluFunnel 2 года назад +2

    I just found out I'm an INFJ today and it both makes perfect sense and is overwhelming

  • @deniquearayyinah3344
    @deniquearayyinah3344 2 года назад +8

    As an INFJ with a Scorpio moon 🌚 I approve this message ! 🙌🏽 it gets tough sometimes 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @seojungood
    @seojungood 3 года назад +8

    Bc we r so slow to opening up after breaking up with a long relationship, i drown in a thought wondering whether or not ill ever be able to open up to someone ever again

    • @ingrid-xz2bf
      @ingrid-xz2bf 2 года назад +1

      How long does it take for you guys to open up or let your guard down?

  • @lilcrystal9865
    @lilcrystal9865 3 года назад +15

    My mom is INFJ, now she is far apart from my future father to-be but she always support him from far. I wish for her to be reunite with Daddy D after this lockdown.

    • @joshuabaskett2936
      @joshuabaskett2936 3 года назад +3

      "Daddy D". Huh?

    • @lilcrystal9865
      @lilcrystal9865 3 года назад +2

      @@joshuabaskett2936 yes, that's what he told us to call him because he likes to compose music.

  • @mikamelon5698
    @mikamelon5698 3 года назад +2

    Ruminating about past events is common in every insecure or reflective type and not specially common for INFJs. It's rather the "this could possibly happen" which keeps the INFJ awake at night or holds them back from taking action - because they already do but it's just in their heads.
    It's not the "what did happen" or the "what could've happened" - it's "this is probably gonna happen in the future" or the "I want to make this happen in my imaginative future".

  • @jamesgraham8581
    @jamesgraham8581 3 года назад +7

    Yes I'm INFJ. Words well spoken my dear friend, and I do feel a bit weird at times. I've been single for 21 years, still waiting for the one ♥️😊🙏

  • @Invisibility397
    @Invisibility397 3 года назад +7

    INFJ-T Male: Love only exists internally , Love does not exist externally. This is due to a lifetime of abuse mostly in Love and trust. So I will not allow anyone else in. I need nothing from no one to live this life because I do not rely on anyone to do anything. That is the lessons I have learned from society and the reasons for my 65% of 40 years lived in solitude. Now I commit to my 2 hands. Becoming that mythical island th a t no man can survive on. Yet I am a Robot 🤖. I don't dream as they are lies others describe. so I can garentee that I will not fail at anything I I program into my reality.

  • @izio1111
    @izio1111 3 года назад +5

    all the INFJ videos on RUclips are very accurate in my experience

  • @アヤト-f7d
    @アヤト-f7d 2 года назад +2

    I’m an INTJ female, my ex was an INFJ. trust me, it’s the worst combination together… the relationship was so exhausting for both of us, I said he is too sensitive and weak, always worried and scared of things. He said that I am too harsh, controlling, and kinda a bully… we loved and hated each other at the same time. I watched this type of videos, tried to study his personality so that I can understand him more, but it didn’t work no matter how hard I try. And now I’m with an ENFP… finally feels like I found a good match. I guess personality really matters.

    • @josephjoestar77
      @josephjoestar77 6 месяцев назад

      sounds like an immature story, idk either one of you weren't actually dropping any kind of ego and actually trying to focus on maintaining the relationship at all

  • @ayand.3174
    @ayand.3174 8 месяцев назад

    I'm an INFJ woman from East Africa, raised across many continents. This video moved me to tears, as it felt like it was revealing parts of my inner world, capturing feelings of seeing potential in everyone and the struggle to make people believe in their innate, seed size, purpose, waiting to flourish and keep giving. Often, betrayal is the deepest pain that seems unmatched, yet we are called to be lights in a dark world, a clear notion in John 8:12, where Jesus proclaims, 'I am the light of the world. Whoever follows Me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.' There are INJF models we can learn from, like Jesus, Mahtma Gandhi, Martin Luther King, etc. And, despite life challenges, as shepherds, we lovingly keep finding ourselves reenergized, continuously giving and guiding many towards that long forgotten inner light. LIVE WITH INTENTION! ❤💫 ❤

  • @richardcurley1129
    @richardcurley1129 11 месяцев назад

    I got lucky and met a wonderful woman who wasn't sure why, but her curiousity won out. She's passed now. But yes, I'll always hold her close. She didn't understand me, but no one has. I didn't even understand this until i found these videos.
    But for me, you're right.
    An infj will understand this. But, when you find the one, even with kniwing what will be. Its still an amazing ride. I knew how it would end for us, i just forgot to watch the time pass. Got caught up in the moment. Then it proved i see too much. But im so glad she bought the ticket and took the ride.

  • @nadineappesbacher952
    @nadineappesbacher952 2 года назад +1

    The last one hit me and is so true!

  • @mashalahmad4705
    @mashalahmad4705 2 года назад +1

    4:20 hits on another level. Considering that I wrote a whole diary for my love after breakup.

  • @meepmeep545
    @meepmeep545 2 года назад +2

    if you can't love someone for who they are, regardless of what they are not, you will always grumble about what they cannot be, and you will never appreciate what they can become

  • @williamderickjohnson3986
    @williamderickjohnson3986 2 года назад +1

    I’m an INFJ in love. It’s been pretty weird because I don’t know how to properly communicate.

  • @ankita_pal_0305
    @ankita_pal_0305 2 года назад +2

    Everything mentioned is sooooo true!!!! Thank you for letting me know myself better❤️❤️❤️

  • @neofulcrum5013
    @neofulcrum5013 3 года назад +6

    As someone who dated once, this is pretty accurate.

  • @sanchitasaha2316
    @sanchitasaha2316 3 года назад +2

    I opens up to people so less that being an infj i know how each of them is important to me, it doesn't matter in what kind of relationship an infj is in, they value each of them.....
    Not just because I am an infj so I am saying this but really I am like this

  • @sevenabrown8859
    @sevenabrown8859 2 года назад +1

    I’m a ENFJ and my boyfriend that I’ve been with for over a year now is a INFJ. ❤️

  • @vitoriagabriella9
    @vitoriagabriella9 2 года назад +1

    I'm Infj and my best friend unfortunately had to move to another state, I'm really bad about it because she was one of the people who understood me the most

  • @freshmints
    @freshmints 3 года назад +6

    I think of my crush too much that i end up dreaming about them

  • @569times9
    @569times9 2 года назад +1

    "Not only are they Introverts, But they are weird"
    Bruv, savage

  • @iara7549
    @iara7549 2 года назад +6

    wow this made me wanna date myself

  • @annaaa9113
    @annaaa9113 Год назад

    this is the most relatable video ive found on youtube ever 💙

  • @benmagnus0858
    @benmagnus0858 3 года назад +2

    This is actually true. I am an INFJ. I feel the exact same way. I would really do anything to help my crush. I wish, I could help her, when she is sad and tell her, what a wonderful person she is. But I think, she wouldn't ask me for help, because she doesn't like me that much. A friend of her told me, that she didn't want to hurt my feelings and I think, thats ok then.

  • @jeremyevans9918
    @jeremyevans9918 2 года назад +2

    Powerful facts. True of past love and emerging love. I recently learned that I am an INFJ and I am learning so much about myself. 🙏💕🦅

  • @jishnubhattacharyya37
    @jishnubhattacharyya37 2 года назад +1

    I love this channel damn, it's so helpful!!!

  • @iq138plays
    @iq138plays 3 года назад +4

    90 percent infj would be watching this for fun to know if it is true or not. i am infj too

  • @AGUNGKAYA
    @AGUNGKAYA 2 года назад +1

    I am an INTJ and had an ex of INFJ. I feel she were so soft and warm. She wanted to have a time together. But she can notice a slight change of my habit and she wouldn't angry to you, just leave with a silent move. Just be careful of your saying to INFJs

  • @Thilosophocl3s
    @Thilosophocl3s Год назад +1

    I maintain that I don’t fantasize, but experience the fantasy of my partner… then they gaslight me into thinking it was my dirty mind, but I know how dirty my mind is…. It wasn’t that dirty….

  • @febrylia13
    @febrylia13 3 года назад +3

    5 is truly accurate!!😂

  • @TatahLaila
    @TatahLaila 2 года назад

    I'm dating someone who I think is an INFJ and I'm an INFJ myself. I think that's must be one of the reasons we get along so well

  • @rubynovel
    @rubynovel 2 года назад

    That's The Truth Ruth.

  • @kivebeats9321
    @kivebeats9321 3 года назад +2

    I feel like I'm a terrible person ... why do people always leave?

  • @christinajanejulian6645
    @christinajanejulian6645 3 года назад +4

    True Love and yes I am very picky don't give a crap what people think

  • @goldenz81
    @goldenz81 2 года назад

    All what said in this video are very accurate true at least from the way I see it being an INFJ, Thanks for sharing this

  • @nahlaali8169
    @nahlaali8169 2 года назад

    Lmfao @ up at night awake thinking about something embarrassing they did 5 yrs ago 🤦😂

  • @weneebebe2161
    @weneebebe2161 3 года назад +10

    is it possible to change a person's personality type? I don't wanna be an INFJ anymore. 😭😭

    • @sinavaianaaiolupotea512
      @sinavaianaaiolupotea512 3 года назад +3

      Lol, I feel you. Legit been searching videos on how to change your personality type 😅😓

    • @TheBest-gz9ku
      @TheBest-gz9ku 3 года назад +3

      Yo I feel so proud to be an infj lol

    • @saloni.sharma
      @saloni.sharma 3 года назад +4

      Well you can't change your dominant cognitive functions BUT you can develop your secondary functions through therapy, conditioning or cognitive training methods.
      For example, I score both infj and intj on my tests because my prominent auxiliary function is Fe(I think), but I developed my secondary judging function Ti to match it as a defence mechanism (after a few horrible years with a narcissist partner and betraying friends who thought "I'm too emotional". Sorry for TMI.😅)

    • @danicaignjatovic3956
      @danicaignjatovic3956 3 года назад +1

      @@saloni.sharma hey, if your dom function is Fe, you can't actually be infj, infj's dom function is Ni :') (not saying you aren't one 100%, just saying infjs are Ni doms, auxillary function is Fe, then Ti and Se). I feel like you should explore cognitive functions more, FJ has really good explanations on cognitive functions here on yt :) Congratulations on leaving that narc by the way!! Keep going :D

    • @saloni.sharma
      @saloni.sharma 3 года назад +1

      @@danicaignjatovic3956 first of all thanks. It was hard to do but I'm glad i could leave 😊
      Secondly, I did mention that i score both INTJ and INFJ (more specifically INTJ-T and INFJ-T) on my tests and talked about developing secondary functions but yes, it's my bad i should've clarified that i meant prominent auxiliary function when i said dominant lol.
      But among both the common results i get that my Ni is most definitely the strongest function i have. However among my judging functions i lean towards Fe Ti (as per my observation, I'm still unsure though).
      Thanks for pointing out. I will edit that part to avoid confusion for others. 😅

  • @absolutepojar2956
    @absolutepojar2956 3 года назад +3

    I hope my ex come through this video❤ this is 100% accurate

  • @scrimgamingchannel9573
    @scrimgamingchannel9573 2 года назад +1

    Im so damn lucky… paired with infj ~intj

  • @AnnieIsaLau
    @AnnieIsaLau 2 года назад +2

    God I love my INFJ so much!

  • @arpitaanushreepatra9703
    @arpitaanushreepatra9703 3 года назад +5

    The accuracy of this video, I 🥺

  • @cindychang1054
    @cindychang1054 3 года назад +8

    Yeah, I can love an anime character for 8 years :)

  • @b0lie
    @b0lie 3 года назад +7

    I've tested personality, my personality is INFJ

    • @basic-mbti
      @basic-mbti  3 года назад +2

      Great thing!

    • @christopherj5780
      @christopherj5780 3 года назад +1

      Me too. Its type. Each type comes in many flavors. But the traits we share are our blessing and curse. But we are a tough breed we got this

    • @basic-mbti
      @basic-mbti  3 года назад +1

      @@christopherj5780 Speaking of blessing and a curse: Just yesterday I made a video about the INFJ #1 problem (and how to solve it): ruclips.net/video/24NVTgtDIwc/видео.html

  • @Rosalyn_Damiana
    @Rosalyn_Damiana 3 года назад +2

    I always get a little weird 😅

  • @alicey.8243
    @alicey.8243 2 года назад +1

    I guess I'll just send this video to my partner with their welcome goody bag.

  • @Vikk3233
    @Vikk3233 Год назад

    very good video

  • @DedaraHozuki
    @DedaraHozuki 3 года назад +7

    It's all facts!!😂😭

  • @ronnieunderwood1951
    @ronnieunderwood1951 11 месяцев назад

    I'm an INFJ and everything is absolutely true in this video. Only thing is I'm still single and frustrated ugh!!

    • @basic-mbti
      @basic-mbti  9 месяцев назад

      Here's a piece of advice: Team up with an ENFP friend (we hope you have one), and hit the bar! You'll be engaged in no time ;)

  • @christinakong8202
    @christinakong8202 3 года назад

    Now I finally understand why my crush acts differently

  • @obra743
    @obra743 3 года назад +7

    4 is VERY relatable

    • @HandleDeleted
      @HandleDeleted 3 года назад +1

      Unus Annus?

    • @obra743
      @obra743 3 года назад +1

      @@HandleDeleted u mean hee hoo and Eef?

    • @HandleDeleted
      @HandleDeleted 3 года назад +1

      @@obra743 Unus Annus!
      The wild Hee Hoo and the hilarious Eef

  • @duanenash9474
    @duanenash9474 3 года назад +2

    It has got me in trouble and scared girls when they figure out how much I think of them... and it kills me inside that I have scared them. Fucking sux.