Good morning team LNN, What is your take home from our today's episode? You can reach Susan Njuki on her social handles @ SuzieYuleDiadem on both Facebook and Instagram. Also kindly check and subscribe to her RUclips channel on the link below: youtube.com/@Suzie-Yule-Diadem To share your story with us, send an email to info@LNN.digital for consideration Thank you so much for watching
I tried conceiving for seven years and it got to a point that I was totally okay with not having a child, it didn't bother me and I made peace with that. In 2020 out of nowhere , I got pregnant and as bad luck would have it I lost my son at 34 weeks. That killed me, I couldn't understand why God had to do that to me. The desire for a child was awakened and I really needed to get pregnant. Thankfully I got pregnant shortly after the loss and am now a mother. I thank God.
My mum got married in 1980 and got me after 12 years in 1992. She tells us that the stress from in-laws and society was too much but my dad stood with her believing in faith that at God's appointed time he will make everything possible. She gave birth to three of us.
Maybe it' was your father that was weak and couldn't make her pregnant. She should have tried with another man to see if she was the one with the mistake.
If children could keep marriages there would be no so many broken homes. Children do not make marriages work, on the contrary they add a stress to the marriage. Children should be the fruit of marriage and not the seed. They should be the decor not the foundation stones. Life has really sharpened her mind. She is a wise woman
You're so on point!! The father of my 3 kids left me for an older woman after 15 years of "marriage". It's really heartbreaking but God's grace is sufficient.
God performs miracles. My own niece had blocked tubes, later on she was discovered with big fibroids. The option was only to remove the uterus. But she refused and insisted that she will give birth. Long story short, at the age of 49 years she gave birth to a very health baby boy who is three months now. Yes God can perform a miracle
I'm a nurse n also aborn again Christian. I really wanted the uterus removed cos she was bleeding a lot. But she respectively refused n said she will continue trusting God for a baby. I kept praying for her that the bleeding would not push her badly. 15 years down the line, what we thought was menopausal turned out to be pregnancy. It was a nine months of daily walk in prayers. Scan after scan. By God's grace she got a bouncing baby boy scored very well n now growing very well.
Lacking a child in marriage is the worst experience . After 7 years of trying God did it to me. There is still hope to anyone one out there who is going through the same.
I love her. For me I have a daughter and right now am battling breast cancer stage four which has affected my spine but people still have the confidence to tell me I should add one child. People really need to understand that life is not just about marriage and children
Hugs mamaa,, there is a Kikuyu saying " tîgana na Andu"...meaning achana na maneno ya watu, focus on fighting the cancer and God is gonna come through for you
I'm really encouraged by the show of today, my dear Susan, thanks for bringing hope to us, I'm also a victim of the same, though on my case my husband has stood by me now for 12yrs and I thank God for him. I tell you the journey is very unbearable,we are ridiculed, judged, abused, blamed for not bearing children. It's very unfortunate that even our close relatives who are supposed to walk with us are the ones traumatizing our lives.I also believe that a family is complete with or without a child, and that's why we're still together with my husband despite the forces from outside.
I agree with her ,A woman shouldn't be defined by the ability to have children 💯, whether she has kids or not , she's still a complete established woman👍💯
The problem with the society is you get married today, tomorrow they want to see your stomach bigger 🤦as if you only got into it for bearing kids day and night, when will people learn to mind their own business and let God work in one's life time?the God of Sarah still lives mamaa♥️
@Agatha - It is not really "the most painful thing" as not every woman (or man), wants to have kids. There are too many orphaned and neglected kids in need of care.
You have the right to go out and find another man as well. So many dating apps out there. Don't ever feel like there is no one else but him. So many fishes out there and probably better tasting fish then him.
I went through tuboplasty (unblocking blocked fallopian tubes )And it never worked....the gynaecologist suggested IFV .Am trusting God for a child.All in all am a happy woman rocking life and i don't care how pole judge me.Happinness is free 🔥🔥🔥
This lady is very bright and sober. No one should say she didn't wait long enough. No! Waiting is waiting even if it's a day,what makes it more difficult is the pain that maybe attached to the journey. The most painful thing is when you know you are the problem. Ivf is a difficult journey from all the angles, I salute you girl,you gave your best.
I can testify to that my daughter went through that ivf for 3 times and now she's blessed with a very handsome boy. So never give up to every woman out there.
fumi (she is a content creator) got her son after 9 rounds of ivf at 48 i think. Please ladies dont give up if you really want a child and have the means.
I work in a fertility hospital in Kenya and such stories are my daily dosage. Suzy, you are strong indeed. A beautiful lady who has owned her story. @lynn,,, I am available to offer any guidance to those suffering from infertility.
I have been married for seven years and suffered six miscarriages in my first five years. The years were dark but I thank God for giving me unmeasurable grace to handle the losses. We opted for adoption and we are now happy n proud parents to a handsome boy... There so many babies out there who need family, love and care... Adoption is also an option.
I could not agree more. Being a mother and getting pregnant are two different experiences. Tha ability to raise and love a child is What makes you a mother.
Listening to Suzie for the second time from Metha ya kagoni.. and it's really sinking.. kids and being a wife doesn't define you being a woman,if someone is okay not having a kid it's okay,but for us who have kids let's be the best of parents, for those who don't have and they are longing to have one may God bless your womb🙏
Susie story is inspiring. I'm pastor and her story would really encourage many people in the church and community. Please let her give her telephone contact
@@Suzie-Yule-Diadem God bless your marriage, here again looking for this comment of the Year🎉😂🎉😂🎉😂 indeed God's timing is the best. You are an inspiration to the world hugs from Ireland 🇮🇪🌺🇮🇪🌺🌸🇮🇪
Wow. She’s authentic and happy despite her past. She owns it and she is very strong. God bless you Susan. Thank you Lynn for bringing Susan to the show.
I have gone through this journey.... being a Christian the way fellow Christians view you when you mention ivf, the family, the finances, the medication, the injections, the appointments, the waiting for results hoping for good news.... I have gone through hell financially, emotionally and physically because of this ..... I'm now living life a day at a time.
Wa i remember kuna mama falani alinitusi kuwa bara bara ati tasa wa mpka wa Leo sija all never forget wa ,but mungu naye ni Nani I have baby boy very cute boy
We always ignore the red flags and we end up regretting 😢....coming from todays episode n had to come n watch this.... Suzie may your union with Alex be blessed....and what if God gives you your own womb opener 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
This has really touched me in thousands ways ...mine was not fertility but my BP was always high everytime in pregnancy and unfortunately I miscarriaged twice and lost a baby at birth and was subjected like a barren woman, before I healed wuuueh my guy had cheated like 50 times after getting advice from all over I thank God I left and healed and found love again about kids we shall still try when mentally ready
Who came here after watching Susan and her husband on LNS January, 2024. What God cannot do, does not exist. Her interview on LNS connected her with her husband.
Am not married and no child am living my life to the fullest. And yes am very happy for my married friends. My life is in the hands of God and he knows why.
I know this journey too well.Fought secondary infertilty;never conceived in marriage-11 years.Hubby conceived with another woman!Went through hell and finally walked out on Dec 1st 2022.I will share my story someday!The pain of infertility is so wearing!!!
Great encouraging show thanks Lynn for ringing her on thee show, she’s a strong woman , acceptance is not easy and has sent Alot into early grave , depression denial etc, I know a lot experiencing the same will be encouraged with her story, life is too short to be sad and somethings we work hard , dream for things, get stressed for we may not get them if that’s not the will of God let’s embrace and accept what God has not given us and embrace what God given us, Africans should also accept people who don’t have children due various reasons , in Africa we don’t care whether the children are suffering in toxic families, coming from broken homes, poverty any thing that affects children all we value is have children a lot of children are in the streets cause of the belief to have children, it’s sad only if we can value also mostly things that affect children before they are born the pressure by African society to have children will reduce
It’s sad that fellow women(believers for that matter) are the ones who put so much pressure on mothers experiencing childlessness and women struggling to find a marriage partner. It’s like what makes a woman in Africa is marriage and being able to have children. God’s time is the best and He’s the one who gives us those things. I love how Susan has explained everything, she’s encouraged me a lot and I pray God gives children to women who’ve been waiting. God bless you Lynn
This was deep. Thanks Susan for sharing your story and am glad you have found peace within you and you are living a happy life. Sometimes we just have to love ourselves first. I got my baby when I had given up and like you i was happy with my life and it stopped bothering me. Then when I just turned turned 40 years God blessed me with a son after so many years of being without a child. Thanks for encouraging others
Children are a gift from God. It's unfortunate how women are tortured in a marriage when conception delays. I know couples who stood by each other as long as 20years before they received their miracles. Women who are supposed to be sympathetic towards fellow women are the very ones who are the tormentors. Currently, friends, sisters, paid ladies are very willing to be surrogate parents and its brought joy to families. Let's be supportive of each other during difficult and trying moments. Let's lend a helping hand if we can. Tx for the interview Lynn. God bless 🙌 Gifty from Ghana 🇬🇭
Dear Susan get encouraged, there's the story LYNN covered of the mom who was blessed with triplets (boys) after so many years in marriage without getting babies,she even talked of the mother in law finding another wife for the husband but the husband stood by her till they were blessed with triplets, May God bless your womb one day Susan . The best thing about your story is you love yourself and you're okay with you being you 🙏🙏
My grandmother is 96 years. She only gave birth to my mother and her sister. She is abused up to today that she as good as barren coz she never got a son. I can feel this lady. God will surely intervene my sister. You are still young.
Wow,how this brilliant lady has remained so positive in life despite her painful journey,can only be explained as devine intervention,may God continue beautifying your live dear
My friend was childless for many years she thought she cant have children then someone referred her to a homeopath in Kempton park South Africa the homeopath told her that if you are a woman and still gets periods there is no way she can’t have a child.he gave her treatment and as I speak to you she is 41 she has a baby boy. The lady referred another woman was struggling for 16 in mirrage with without a child the lady is 6 months pregnant now
Women we are enemies of ourselves aki, i remember after i got my son through c-section i met a certain lady who knew me and we started chatting about birth experiences and i could not relate to her story she was so angry and told me that women who go for c-section are not mothers because they don't know labour pain "ukitaka kujua mwanamke kamili ni mwenye ameenda labour ward" after that convo i blocked her.
This life has no balance as for me we parted way because I conceived anyway I love my baby so much no regret. Let as accept ourselves God has a purpose for every situation.
This woman Suzie is so beautiful in heart and wisdom, let alone looks. I fully affirm her and wish I could get such a woman in my life. Susan, know and believe that God is your father, protector and provider. Just like love is not enough, children too are not a benchmark to validate a human being. God purposes each one of us differently. Our destinies vary just like we have tall, short, fat, slim and people, so is our destiny. At the point you gave up and let God drive your journey to your destiny is where your peace of mind and self-care started working miracles to your life. We can't do things our way and succeed. Society pressure, scorn and invalidation to people like Suzie can be traumatising but for them who believes in God, peace is their portion. Suzie, maintain that spirit and trust me God's time is the best time. Anxiety and stress can cause one not to conceive and just when you have given up and lost hope is when God does His thing. Be patient. We love you but God loves you more🙌.
Tuned in ready to hear, learn and be inspired. Children are gifts and blessings from God. Having or not having children should not define or divide women Good morning Lynn
I agree with my beautiful sister Suzzie, having a child is not what defines a woman. I've been through this journey for 10 good years now and I can tell you people it's not easy 🙆🏻♀️😭 I still believe that God will come through for us and to the society, just be nice to the people around you because you never know what they're going through 🥰🙏 sometimes I feel like people talk so ill about us forgetting that none of us requested to be like this. I believe a testimony is cooking somewhere in Jesus Mighty Name 🙏🙏🙏
Going through a lot wish i didn't get children reason because i got my third born and got so sick I'm on my deathbed in a foreign country not knowing what to do with this kids.
It's has been 3 years now wuueeeh I don't like holding anyone child😪I find peace being alone job kwangu sometimes you feel like everyone is talking about you😪
Her story is like a move in Nigeria called the proposed, the lady found that the husband was cheating then he ask him to marry her so they can get children,
I love her story and I believe she’s enough and God has a reason why we go through what is going on in our lives. I’m happy to learn from her story ❤. Much love Lynn 🥰
Till we understand marriage precedes children women are in a big trouble and I hate when people keep asking a woman when are you giving birth,I believe God is the one who bless us with children it's not our hardwork.......
Susan have you ever thought of becoming a professional counsellor? If not, maybe you may wish to pursue the same. Your reasoning capacity, eloquence, live-experience, self-care state, self-awareness, humility and values are top-notch. I wish I could get someone like you for companionship. Keep it up Suzie. I have subscribed to your channel to support you. Lynn this was a good pick for inspiration 👏 🙌
True definition of a strong Lady,,,this gal has gone through alot regarding her health issues, I recall back then in high-school, I was her high-school mum."my mono"....Suzie God love you so much. TRUST IN HIM.
Am in the same position,I feel guilty,feel like am not a woman enough,feel incomplete,worthless,useless and sometimes I ask God why am I still living,sometimes I feel like I should take my life but God gave me a good hubby he always say it’s okay if we can’t have kids and always tell me they are gifts from God he is the one who decides whom to give and not give children and God’s timing is the best or he tells me I have u,you are the cake and kids are like icing sugar,i can still have a cake without icing sugar but still I feel guilty 😭
So it's you putting yourself down if you're husband is telling you those nice words can you wait for God time coz He knows you better imagine dieing when you're in Heaven God ask you,why have you come? It's because of lack of children and He say You have make wrong decision coz even your life to see your age is only me
@@blessingtwinsjjjackli Thanks ,am now stronger after this woman’s story and after reading through some comments am not alone,just have to accept and love myself and leave wat the society thinks about me
It takes a strong lady, a lady who isn't just thinking about herself to tell her man,"we have tried this but it's not working, get a woman to sire kids with," very few women can do that,this lady is a good lady.
Salvation/ marriage is unconditional. God changes not. Humans change chasing happiness. Happiness is not in marriage, it's not being single, it's not in having children or not.....true happiness is found in knowing who God is and doing what God wants. Life is too short to chase things for happiness. Let people relax God's way
The kind of stories that should make people sensitive about asking when they'll have kids. @LynnNgugi, I watched a story of a young man on Tuko who was lured into donating a kidney, only to be damped while still healing. His life has been threatened on many occasions, his phone stollen and announced dead on social medias. The guy is hopeless as at the moment and waiting on death to come any time before he gets to 30. He's been suicidal and tried suicide over 10 times and spoilt the one kidney he was left with. He's waiting on death either by kidney failure or being killed by the people hunting him down. Watching that story, there might be a scheme of people stealing other people's kidney. If it's the case then it should be brought to awareness. Lynn, I know you've always said you don't like repeating other people's stories on your show, but this one is worthy. If it's something happening out there then people need to know. Just like the other story you did a while back of the boy from KU who got framed for getting an underage girl pregnant and turned out to be a scheme, this story might be another one. The guy also needs justice. He needs therapy, security and support. I've never questioned humanity after watching that story. The story was aired yesterday, please reconsider.
*A home is complete with or without a kid* I hope those who have ability to conceive and go ahead killing their babies can see what who are not able to carry pregnancy are going through.The only way of getting along with infertility is just accepting yourself as you are. God is the giver of kids and no human should judge the barren for not being able to sire kids
Morning to you,for two years you gave up quickly,as for me I got married in 2003 until 2006 when I was blessed with my daughter,my husband would beat me up whenever I got my periods but finally I became a mother bad luck after two years the man died,gone through alot and from there I have tried to conceive all in vain I don't use any contraceptive my daughter is now 16 , I thank God for my only child but no hope for more children.
I can totally relate to her saying that she wasn't really prepared. I made the same mistake of getting into a relationship before getting to really know the man. It was the biggest mistake. I had to leave him, even though it hurt him so badly. I would have saved us a lot of heartache, if I had known him a little more and realized he wasn't the one for me
I had the HSG condition after my 1st baby which was detected after an ectopic so l had one functional tube. Thereafter I had a day care surgery at MPShah when they put some dye and it was very painful. After that I have had 3 kids. No condition is permanent. Having kids is good but does not define a real woman.
Lyn why dont you try talk to this hospitals offering ivf so that they can atleast give you some offer or some insurance should consider treating infertility since am a victing buttling infertility but raising pesa ya ivf inanilemea sana praying that one day ntapata and will try ivf one day
Yes, happiness begins with you. Children are a gift and a blessing from God, so no pressure if you don't have any, just wait for God appointed time & place, meanwhile work on ur happiness. #CharityBeginsAtHome 💝🌻☀
Good morning team LNN,
What is your take home from our today's episode? You can reach Susan Njuki on her social handles @ SuzieYuleDiadem on both Facebook and Instagram.
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Thank you so much for watching
I had to subscribe first
Good job Suzie , you're inspiring so many people in this world not Kenya only 🙏💯
I have a journey, would wish to share soon. I love this woman
Sorry take heart
Lynn I tried to email you regarding my mom's medical support appeal please, kindly consider
Who else is watching this story after watching the second episode where she gets married and her man spotted her from this show 🎉
Me
Me too
Am here❤
tuko wengi😁😁
Me
I tried conceiving for seven years and it got to a point that I was totally okay with not having a child, it didn't bother me and I made peace with that. In 2020 out of nowhere , I got pregnant and as bad luck would have it I lost my son at 34 weeks. That killed me, I couldn't understand why God had to do that to me. The desire for a child was awakened and I really needed to get pregnant. Thankfully I got pregnant shortly after the loss and am now a mother. I thank God.
Amen thanks to God
We thank God...
Amen🙏 I tap the blessing in Jesus name🙏
Amiina
Amen 🙏
My mum got married in 1980 and got me after 12 years in 1992.
She tells us that the stress from in-laws and society was too much but my dad stood with her believing in faith that at God's appointed time he will make everything possible.
She gave birth to three of us.
My mom too passed through similar experience but we are three of us and we thank God
Amen
Woow amaizing
Wow
Maybe it' was your father that was weak and couldn't make her pregnant.
She should have tried with another man to see if she was the one with the mistake.
Why is it that I have a feeling that this lady will one day be able to conceive. There is a God who never fails
Well said. Thank you. 🎤🎤🎤🎤❤❤❤
In Jesus name she will get her birth kids
I agree with you too. I have mentioned it on someone else’s comment
In Jesus Name Amen 🙏
Me too she will in Jesus nam
If children could keep marriages there would be no so many broken homes. Children do not make marriages work, on the contrary they add a stress to the marriage. Children should be the fruit of marriage and not the seed. They should be the decor not the foundation stones. Life has really sharpened her mind. She is a wise woman
children should be the fruit not the seed of marriage. What a beautiful statement Full of wisdom
Very true
You're so on point!! The father of my 3 kids left me for an older woman after 15 years of "marriage". It's really heartbreaking but God's grace is sufficient.
God performs miracles. My own niece had blocked tubes, later on she was discovered with big fibroids. The option was only to remove the uterus. But she refused and insisted that she will give birth.
Long story short, at the age of 49 years she gave birth to a very health baby boy who is three months now. Yes God can perform a miracle
Does still have a uterus ? Like were they able to remove the fibroid and secure her Uterus 🙏
Waaa,what a testimony
Wow! That's your niece is a woman if faith
I'm a nurse n also aborn again Christian. I really wanted the uterus removed cos she was bleeding a lot. But she respectively refused n said she will continue trusting God for a baby. I kept praying for her that the bleeding would not push her badly.
15 years down the line, what we thought was menopausal turned out to be pregnancy. It was a nine months of daily walk in prayers. Scan after scan. By God's grace she got a bouncing baby boy scored very well n now growing very well.
Hallelujah 🙌🙌🙌
Woow! Ivf failed on me for 4 times . Today i am a mother of 4. God is able. I will do my story oneday God willing.
Congrats first of all.
Kindly share to encourage a lady out there
Congratulations 🎉
Thank you for remaining strong and waiting on the Lord by Faith❤
Wow..i thank God for you..
Waouw 🥹God is indeed wonderful.... Congratulations 👏🎉
Mungu ni mwema
Congratulations go to the show and give hope to many @lynn ngugi
coming here on 18/1/2024 show today after she is now married and GOD willing soon🤱🚼 🤲❤.
Hope ladies who can conceive naturally but are killing babies are taking notes that those who can't conceive go through a lot of pain
Both issues not related don't guilt trip them unless you mean they can donate their unwanted babies to those who can't conceive.
Lacking a child in marriage is the worst experience . After 7 years of trying God did it to me. There is still hope to anyone one out there who is going through the same.
I love her. For me I have a daughter and right now am battling breast cancer stage four which has affected my spine but people still have the confidence to tell me I should add one child. People really need to understand that life is not just about marriage and children
Sorry. May the Lord give you strength. May the Christ preserve you
Sorry for this, may God heal you my sis!
Wah !sorry mama may the healing of jehova Rapha locate you in Jesus name..
Hugs mamaa,, there is a Kikuyu saying " tîgana na Andu"...meaning achana na maneno ya watu, focus on fighting the cancer and God is gonna come through for you
Pole my dear jipe nguvu ukiskiza ya mwanadamu utajipata pabaya.. kabla hawajaongea wangejipima hicho kiatu chako kwanza
I'm really encouraged by the show of today, my dear Susan, thanks for bringing hope to us, I'm also a victim of the same, though on my case my husband has stood by me now for 12yrs and I thank God for him. I tell you the journey is very unbearable,we are ridiculed, judged, abused, blamed for not bearing children. It's very unfortunate that even our close relatives who are supposed to walk with us are the ones traumatizing our lives.I also believe that a family is complete with or without a child, and that's why we're still together with my husband despite the forces from outside.
Weeh do such men still exist
But this woman is strong from her heart.
God bless that man keep praying
@ rehemaatieno8584
Hi. Pls can you side chart me
Mi too am trying so much it's 1yrs and some month but am asking my self many questions 😔😔😔
I agree with her ,A woman shouldn't be defined by the ability to have children 💯, whether she has kids or not , she's still a complete established woman👍💯
I really support that
@@bettiemathenge yes dear 💯
I agree with you too but the pressure that comes with it! Only ask the ones who have gone through they know it better
Waaaa
Haki Kasweetie in this our society u can never be established without kids as per say.
Am here after seeing her with her hubby after a lovely wedding🙏🙏
The problem with the society is you get married today, tomorrow they want to see your stomach bigger 🤦as if you only got into it for bearing kids day and night, when will people learn to mind their own business and let God work in one's life time?the God of Sarah still lives mamaa♥️
Marriage is for procreation according to the Holy Book
Yes true then after you give birth nobody is gonna help you take care of the baby😢😢the society become quite
@@nandisharon301 imagine 😢
Hugs to every woman looking for the fruits of the womb..May your prayers be answered in Jesus name🙏!!
Amen
Amen🙏
Amen
Amen
Amen
Infertility is the most painful thing you cannot wish even to your enemy. I know how it feels
Why the husband not going for sperm count test, also man can infertile
Not all agree,,,, I left my marriage because of a kid
@Agatha - It is not really "the most painful thing" as not every woman (or man), wants to have kids. There are too many orphaned and neglected kids in need of care.
@@2010JAHM don't say that coz you are not in her shoes😏
You have the right to go out and find another man as well. So many dating apps out there. Don't ever feel like there is no one else but him. So many fishes out there and probably better tasting fish then him.
Now I have understand my daughter who is now 39years no husband no baby and she is always happy
Nipatie number yake.
@@hesbornotwori8365 😂😂
Connect me with your daughter. We be friends. I am a female. Single and happy. I believe God's timing is the best
I also have my friend no child na husband but she's so happy,God bless them.
@@rilah3749 Amen
The beauty of this ministry is that it gives Hope to the hopeless strength to the weak voice to the voiceless
It's an ultimate equalizer💕
Am here after 33 minutes hata mimi nipewe likes jameni. God loves you all.
"God and time has a way of healing our hearts "....that's therapeutic ✨️
She's so adorable.
I went through tuboplasty (unblocking blocked fallopian tubes )And it never worked....the gynaecologist suggested IFV .Am trusting God for a child.All in all am a happy woman rocking life and i don't care how pole judge me.Happinness is free 🔥🔥🔥
Ohhh no😰😰...... Mungu wa Isaka, Yakobo na Yohana shukia wote wanaomba kupata mtoi..... Thank you God kwa kunibless na mtoi 8yrs bby boy now 🙏🙏
This lady is very bright and sober. No one should say she didn't wait long enough. No! Waiting is waiting even if it's a day,what makes it more difficult is the pain that maybe attached to the journey.
The most painful thing is when you know you are the problem.
Ivf is a difficult journey from all the angles, I salute you girl,you gave your best.
There's the option of ivf. I think it's easier than sharing a man.
@carolynthiwe8906 Have you really listened to her story? She knew this option, tried it out, and it failed.
I can testify to that my daughter went through that ivf for 3 times and now she's blessed with a very handsome boy. So never give up to every woman out there.
Was it through IVF or natural way
@@lucymugure4856 Ivf
fumi (she is a content creator) got her son after 9 rounds of ivf at 48 i think. Please ladies dont give up if you really want a child and have the means.
The pain of infertility..... Only God knows .
I work in a fertility hospital in Kenya and such stories are my daily dosage.
Suzy, you are strong indeed. A beautiful lady who has owned her story.
@lynn,,, I am available to offer any guidance to those suffering from infertility.
Your no please
Heloo,,one year in marriage,, waiting for that blessings,,hope it comes soon
I have been married for seven years and suffered six miscarriages in my first five years. The years were dark but I thank God for giving me unmeasurable grace to handle the losses. We opted for adoption and we are now happy n proud parents to a handsome boy... There so many babies out there who need family, love and care... Adoption is also an option.
What the process did you follow?
I could not agree more. Being a mother and getting pregnant are two different experiences. Tha ability to raise and love a child is What makes you a mother.
Listening to Suzie for the second time from Metha ya kagoni.. and it's really sinking.. kids and being a wife doesn't define you being a woman,if someone is okay not having a kid it's okay,but for us who have kids let's be the best of parents, for those who don't have and they are longing to have one may God bless your womb🙏
No matter what,that lady is loaded with Word of God
Susie story is inspiring. I'm pastor and her story would really encourage many people in the church and community. Please let her give her telephone contact
Salimia Philip n Peris
Then I realised you were not looking for me to minister in a church but in your house 😅😅😅😅 men men men😂😂
@@Suzie-Yule-Diadem God bless your marriage, here again looking for this comment of the Year🎉😂🎉😂🎉😂 indeed God's timing is the best.
You are an inspiration to the world hugs from Ireland 🇮🇪🌺🇮🇪🌺🌸🇮🇪
I watched you and Susie when she mentioned this comment, look at me here looking for it haha. Congratulations and happy marriage
Happy marriage
Wow. She’s authentic and happy despite her past. She owns it and she is very strong. God bless you Susan. Thank you Lynn for bringing Susan to the show.
I have gone through this journey.... being a Christian the way fellow Christians view you when you mention ivf, the family, the finances, the medication, the injections, the appointments, the waiting for results hoping for good news.... I have gone through hell financially, emotionally and physically because of this ..... I'm now living life a day at a time.
It is well dr, we are together in it.
Thank you so much suzie, may God bless you abundantly.
@@selinandungu3625 here too,,we are together
Don't give up dear .God is still saying something in your life
Be strong always
Wa i remember kuna mama falani alinitusi kuwa bara bara ati tasa wa mpka wa Leo sija all never forget wa ,but mungu naye ni Nani I have baby boy very cute boy
We always ignore the red flags and we end up regretting 😢....coming from todays episode n had to come n watch this.... Suzie may your union with Alex be blessed....and what if God gives you your own womb opener 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
This has really touched me in thousands ways ...mine was not fertility but my BP was always high everytime in pregnancy and unfortunately I miscarriaged twice and lost a baby at birth and was subjected like a barren woman, before I healed wuuueh my guy had cheated like 50 times after getting advice from all over I thank God I left and healed and found love again about kids we shall still try when mentally ready
Who came here after watching Susan and her husband on LNS January, 2024.
What God cannot do, does not exist.
Her interview on LNS connected her with her husband.
Me ad u after watching it I didn't sleep waiting today to come so I watch this 😅
Am not married and no child am living my life to the fullest. And yes am very happy for my married friends. My life is in the hands of God and he knows why.
I know this journey too well.Fought secondary infertilty;never conceived in marriage-11 years.Hubby conceived with another woman!Went through hell and finally walked out on Dec 1st 2022.I will share my story someday!The pain of infertility is so wearing!!!
Hugs mummy ❤️❤️
Suzzie konditi u were in state hse gals?
Hugs 🤗🤗 mom
Hugs mama
Hugs dear 🤗🤗🤗🤗❤
Great encouraging show thanks Lynn for ringing her on thee show, she’s a strong woman , acceptance is not easy and has sent Alot into early grave , depression denial etc, I know a lot experiencing the same will be encouraged with her story, life is too short to be sad and somethings we work hard , dream for things, get stressed for we may not get them if that’s not the will of God let’s embrace and accept what God has not given us and embrace what God given us, Africans should also accept people who don’t have children due various reasons , in Africa we don’t care whether the children are suffering in toxic families, coming from broken homes, poverty any thing that affects children all we value is have children a lot of children are in the streets cause of the belief to have children, it’s sad only if we can value also mostly things that affect children before they are born the pressure by African society to have children will reduce
Wow she's so intelligent, I can listen to her everyday
Suzie, you are a real diadem, a beacon of hope to those going through hard seasons that God is God in all seasons. Baraka kwako mama.
It’s sad that fellow women(believers for that matter) are the ones who put so much pressure on mothers experiencing childlessness and women struggling to find a marriage partner. It’s like what makes a woman in Africa is marriage and being able to have children. God’s time is the best and He’s the one who gives us those things. I love how Susan has explained everything, she’s encouraged me a lot and I pray God gives children to women who’ve been waiting. God bless you Lynn
May God bless all Waiting Mum's as God remembered Hannah may he smile on you Susan❤️🙏
This was deep. Thanks Susan for sharing your story and am glad you have found peace within you and you are living a happy life. Sometimes we just have to love ourselves first. I got my baby when I had given up and like you i was happy with my life and it stopped bothering me. Then when I just turned turned 40 years God blessed me with a son after so many years of being without a child. Thanks for encouraging others
I hope my sis See's this. Haki its painful
Glory to God, He's timing is best and does everything beautiful
❤🎉p
I get her. She is only 35. Still capable of getting kids and yes remarrying. However that is the way to go. Waiting without desperation 👌
Children are a gift from God. It's unfortunate how women are tortured in a marriage when conception delays. I know couples who stood by each other as long as 20years before they received their miracles. Women who are supposed to be sympathetic towards fellow women are the very ones who are the tormentors. Currently, friends, sisters, paid ladies are very willing to be surrogate parents and its brought joy to families. Let's be supportive of each other during difficult and trying moments. Let's lend a helping hand if we can. Tx for the interview Lynn. God bless 🙌 Gifty from Ghana 🇬🇭
Dear Susan get encouraged, there's the story LYNN covered of the mom who was blessed with triplets (boys) after so many years in marriage without getting babies,she even talked of the mother in law finding another wife for the husband but the husband stood by her till they were blessed with triplets, May God bless your womb one day Susan . The best thing about your story is you love yourself and you're okay with you being you 🙏🙏
Team Lynn NGUGI tuko wapi jameni like like like like
Today I'm the first one here. May God see you through lyn. You've impacted lifes out here. And one day i will narrate my story
My grandmother is 96 years. She only gave birth to my mother and her sister. She is abused up to today that she as good as barren coz she never got a son. I can feel this lady. God will surely intervene my sister. You are still young.
People failed to understand that God is the one who blesses someone with kids and thanks to Suzan for being positive
Thanks, linny for thz show! It has really helped me am a victim for many years, I have passed through thin and thick 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
after removing fibroids the doctor told me i cant concieve bt i believe in God of eleveth hour HE come through after 17 yrs 🙏🙏🙏
Sure
God of Anne, God of Kambua, God of Everlyn, God of Gloria is with you. Nothing is too hard to our God.
Amen
The good thing with Lynn's channel,,is that it accomodates everyone ,and we love that keep itup lynn❤❤
Lynn waambiage wasimame tuone design bana am in love with her dress
Wow,how this brilliant lady has remained so positive in life despite her painful journey,can only be explained as devine intervention,may God continue beautifying your live dear
My friend was childless for many years she thought she cant
have children then someone referred her to a homeopath in Kempton park South Africa the homeopath told her that if you are a woman and still gets periods there is no way she can’t have a child.he gave her treatment and as I speak to you she is 41 she has a baby boy. The lady referred another woman was struggling for 16 in mirrage with without a child the lady is 6 months pregnant now
What is the cost?....
Am struggling too can you help by giving us contacts
@@annengige272 Anne Hi!
Wow great news
@@jpwabob8149 it was R3000 every month for 3 months
What is sad is the dr is old white man soon he will not be rendering his services
Women we are enemies of ourselves aki, i remember after i got my son through c-section i met a certain lady who knew me and we started chatting about birth experiences and i could not relate to her story she was so angry and told me that women who go for c-section are not mothers because they don't know labour pain "ukitaka kujua mwanamke kamili ni mwenye ameenda labour ward" after that convo i blocked her.
Story of my life. One day I will tell my story of 3 failed IVF's and a failed marriage. But God is truly faithful in everything.
Hugs 🤗😍
Hugs dearie.
You can try surrogacy
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Hugs Mummy
Hugs dear.... God's grace
This life has no balance as for me we parted way because I conceived anyway I love my baby so much no regret. Let as accept ourselves God has a purpose for every situation.
May God come through for you Susan you're strong ❤️
This woman Suzie is so beautiful in heart and wisdom, let alone looks. I fully affirm her and wish I could get such a woman in my life. Susan, know and believe that God is your father, protector and provider. Just like love is not enough, children too are not a benchmark to validate a human being. God purposes each one of us differently. Our destinies vary just like we have tall, short, fat, slim and people, so is our destiny. At the point you gave up and let God drive your journey to your destiny is where your peace of mind and self-care started working miracles to your life. We can't do things our way and succeed. Society pressure, scorn and invalidation to people like Suzie can be traumatising but for them who believes in God, peace is their portion.
Suzie, maintain that spirit and trust me God's time is the best time. Anxiety and stress can cause one not to conceive and just when you have given up and lost hope is when God does His thing. Be patient. We love you but God loves you more🙌.
Hello
God thank you for blessing me with two boys,9years and 4years ...God thank you
Weuuh!! When you grow older you come to understand some very deep true meaning of real life.
Only those who have or going through this journey can understand Susan so well.
Sure am one of them
Tuned in ready to hear, learn and be inspired.
Children are gifts and blessings from God. Having or not having children should not define or divide women
Good morning Lynn
My journey but thankfully I have 2 kids. Thank you Jesus 🙏🏽
Susie a good orator and aware of herself. Counselling suits her much. Thanks Lynn.
Suzie delay is not denial. God's timing is the best and by the grace of God you will carry your bundle IJN.
Am the first one Leo nipewe likes tu please
I passed through this for 6 years, God blessed with amazing little boys, unfortunately I lost.
Take heart dear.Pole sana.
oooh jamani pole sana.
😢😢😢
God will come through at the right time . Take heart
@Suzie Clearly what the entire world need to hear, Kudos Lynne for having her.
Lynn you're a blessing to many you're not changing lives you're changing the world, I'll tell you what you did to my sister soon
Thank you❤❤❤I appreciate it:)
@@LynnNgugi ❤❤❤🙏
I agree with my beautiful sister Suzzie, having a child is not what defines a woman. I've been through this journey for 10 good years now and I can tell you people it's not easy 🙆🏻♀️😭 I still believe that God will come through for us and to the society, just be nice to the people around you because you never know what they're going through 🥰🙏 sometimes I feel like people talk so ill about us forgetting that none of us requested to be like this. I believe a testimony is cooking somewhere in Jesus Mighty Name 🙏🙏🙏
Hugs dear 🤗
Going through a lot wish i didn't get children reason because i got my third born and got so sick I'm on my deathbed in a foreign country not knowing what to do with this kids.
@@deborahmwaura3321 wishing you quick healing dear Deborah
Amen and hugs darling
It's has been 3 years now wuueeeh I don't like holding anyone child😪I find peace being alone job kwangu sometimes you feel like everyone is talking about you😪
Her story is like a move in Nigeria called the proposed, the lady found that the husband was cheating then he ask him to marry her so they can get children,
This woman has wisdom, May God protect her❤️
Marriage life will never be understood, uko na watoto bado huna amani,na bado huna watoto,dramas hazikomi,where will we get the answer for this?????
True me too l wonder what is marriage is it for kids or companion
I love her story and I believe she’s enough and God has a reason why we go through what is going on in our lives. I’m happy to learn from her story ❤. Much love Lynn 🥰
Till we understand marriage precedes children women are in a big trouble and I hate when people keep asking a woman when are you giving birth,I believe God is the one who bless us with children it's not our hardwork.......
Susan have you ever thought of becoming a professional counsellor? If not, maybe you may wish to pursue the same. Your reasoning capacity, eloquence, live-experience, self-care state, self-awareness, humility and values are top-notch. I wish I could get someone like you for companionship. Keep it up Suzie. I have subscribed to your channel to support you.
Lynn this was a good pick for inspiration 👏 🙌
I think she said she has enrolled in a psychology class
You have shot your shot
Wow
Am here n believe we can give it a shot
True definition of a strong Lady,,,this gal has gone through alot regarding her health issues, I recall back then in high-school, I was her high-school mum."my mono"....Suzie God love you so much.
TRUST IN HIM.
The last part is where 90% miss , Lynn said GOD BLESS YOU 🙏,Lynn may God bless you too dear 🙏💕♥️
Am in the same position,I feel guilty,feel like am not a woman enough,feel incomplete,worthless,useless and sometimes I ask God why am I still living,sometimes I feel like I should take my life but God gave me a good hubby he always say it’s okay if we can’t have kids and always tell me they are gifts from God he is the one who decides whom to give and not give children and God’s timing is the best or he tells me I have u,you are the cake and kids are like icing sugar,i can still have a cake without icing sugar but still I feel guilty 😭
Same here I have 5 miscarriage na two pre term baby who dies after deliver ..but ilifika mahali nikasema I can without a kid .
Be strong. Be happy and everything will fall in place when you least expect. Gifty from Ghana 🇬🇭
@@stanrose278 sorry dear but thanks for your comment it makes feel strong wen I know am not alone
So it's you putting yourself down if you're husband is telling you those nice words can you wait for God time coz He knows you better imagine dieing when you're in Heaven God ask you,why have you come? It's because of lack of children and He say You have make wrong decision coz even your life to see your age is only me
@@blessingtwinsjjjackli Thanks ,am now stronger after this woman’s story and after reading through some comments am not alone,just have to accept and love myself and leave wat the society thinks about me
It takes a strong lady, a lady who isn't just thinking about herself to tell her man,"we have tried this but it's not working, get a woman to sire kids with," very few women can do that,this lady is a good lady.
God should be our only option.. I was unable to conceive for years and I went down on my knees in prayers. It is GOD who gives children...
I like her. I had thought ATI she allowed him to have another lady and still stayed. Kudos for leaving before being broken. You are okay Sue.
I wish it was possible to like more than a 1000 times!
Salvation/ marriage is unconditional. God changes not. Humans change chasing happiness. Happiness is not in marriage, it's not being single, it's not in having children or not.....true happiness is found in knowing who God is and doing what God wants. Life is too short to chase things for happiness. Let people relax God's way
The kind of stories that should make people sensitive about asking when they'll have kids.
@LynnNgugi, I watched a story of a young man on Tuko who was lured into donating a kidney, only to be damped while still healing. His life has been threatened on many occasions, his phone stollen and announced dead on social medias. The guy is hopeless as at the moment and waiting on death to come any time before he gets to 30. He's been suicidal and tried suicide over 10 times and spoilt the one kidney he was left with. He's waiting on death either by kidney failure or being killed by the people hunting him down. Watching that story, there might be a scheme of people stealing other people's kidney. If it's the case then it should be brought to awareness.
Lynn, I know you've always said you don't like repeating other people's stories on your show, but this one is worthy. If it's something happening out there then people need to know. Just like the other story you did a while back of the boy from KU who got framed for getting an underage girl pregnant and turned out to be a scheme, this story might be another one. The guy also needs justice. He needs therapy, security and support. I've never questioned humanity after watching that story. The story was aired yesterday, please reconsider.
Even 6months ago...he was in obinnas channel....I think same
Good idea 👍
Hope our Girl Lynn sees this
#Lynnngugi
I saw the story too and it really broke me,some human being are Soo heartless
*A home is complete with or without a kid*
I hope those who have ability to conceive and go ahead killing their babies can see what who are not able to carry pregnancy are going through.The only way of getting along with infertility is just accepting yourself as you are. God is the giver of kids and no human should judge the barren for not being able to sire kids
Must watch this lady a second time from Metha ya Kagoni she has a testimony which will help many who pass through what she went through.
Morning to you,for two years you gave up quickly,as for me I got married in 2003 until 2006 when I was blessed with my daughter,my husband would beat me up whenever I got my periods but finally I became a mother bad luck after two years the man died,gone through alot and from there I have tried to conceive all in vain I don't use any contraceptive my daughter is now 16 , I thank God for my only child but no hope for more children.
May be you got PCOS.... this would be the reason. I wish you can see a doctor 💊 called Dr. Ondari...Gyn/oby...
He will be of good help...
U are lucky coz am here asking God to at least give me one but no good news yet😭😭😭😭😭
@@kyomuhendo963 God is faithful ,he will give you one his time is the best feel encouraged
LYNN umenitaja ama nimesikia aje , Kasweetie Tena 😂😂😂 I love you 💯💕💕💕
Hahaha…nimekutaja mimi staki pressure😂😂😂😂
Love you too❤❤❤
@@LynnNgugi unitaje pia nilale na viatu😊😊😊
Sijui ata mimi nibadilishe jina nijiite kalollipop ndio nitajwe...uko poa lakini?
@@LynnNgugi 😂😂it was good "tajaring" me
I can totally relate to her saying that she wasn't really prepared. I made the same mistake of getting into a relationship before getting to really know the man. It was the biggest mistake. I had to leave him, even though it hurt him so badly. I would have saved us a lot of heartache, if I had known him a little more and realized he wasn't the one for me
i did the same thing
The same mistake I also did...so hurting
Me too, ten years after
@@jedidahakinyi9681me too. I wasted 11good years
I had the HSG condition after my 1st baby which was detected after an ectopic so l had one functional tube. Thereafter I had a day care surgery at MPShah when they put some dye and it was very painful. After that I have had 3 kids. No condition is permanent. Having kids is good but does not define a real woman.
Hsg is very painful.
Thnks for giving me hope ,,,also going through that HSG
May almighty father open your womb in Jesus name 🙏🏼
Lyn why dont you try talk to this hospitals offering ivf so that they can atleast give you some offer or some insurance should consider treating infertility since am a victing buttling infertility but raising pesa ya ivf inanilemea sana praying that one day ntapata and will try ivf one day
You got this baby girl...pole pole tu don't quit
Yes, happiness begins with you. Children are a gift and a blessing from God, so no pressure if you don't have any, just wait for God appointed time & place, meanwhile work on ur happiness. #CharityBeginsAtHome 💝🌻☀