Yes, but the craziness thing is (from my anecdotal observation), the more money a woman makes, the higher and unrealistic expectations they have. Maybe that's why more "successful " women are NOT married
100% agree, why would someone marry anyone, man or woman who puts their career 1st? You can't change people. They won't magically put you 1st. Love requires sacrifice of one's self for the other, but a lot of people don't want to do that yet expect others to sacrifice for them. Good luck with that.
@@ejbatuI find this to be true as well through my experiences. But more so with American women it seems most predominant. I only say that, because I’ve lived in other countries.
@@stacey6229it’s simply not true. Men take on great risk and sacrifice. We give our women time and money that we are engineered to put to our work, business endeavors and careers. We expose ourselves to financial risk that, for those of us that are high earning, often ends with exes staking claim to the fruits of years (sometimes decades) of our labor. It’s not unusual for men to lose their shirts and face the prospect of starting over in their 40s and 50s. We generally have great empathy for women and voluntarily over compensate to correct for inequities women face. But suggesting that men rarely sacrifice shows the empathy gap - the lack of empathy for men. The lack of empathy feeds a gender war that doesn’t serve us.
That can’t actually be true. Not all men sacrifice for women just like not all women sacrifice for men. Don’t date those. Date the one that does sacrifice willingly. A true biblical gentleman who is willing to lay down his life for is wife.
Historically men had to provide for their family. Women historically did more of the nurturing duties and took the role of the house wife. Today it is very difficult to live in a one income household. Also, gender roles are no longer being adhered to so everything has been flipped upside down.
@tyisha2015 AMEN! and that's what society is WILLING to accept. But if a woman chooses the same, she's a man eater, she hates men, she's an alpha, she'll always be alone...blah, blah, blah! Women can AND will do as they choose to with their OWN lives, and if a man is not the priority, OH WELL... that's what's best for that woman!
Historically men had to prioritize careers because they knew that was the income that was coming in to feed the extra mouths they had to feed. Men who are married with kids tend to make more money, not because they get to but because they have to. It's not a privilege it's a duty. Taking care of a woman is hard, taking care of a child is harder, taking care of both is the hardest.
Ya’ll feel me. Rosci is “choosing her career” at the expense of also prioritizing getting married or, more importantly, staring a family. Let’s not act like someone can’t do multiple things at once. It’s bs.
Joe, why didn't you give her that ring? She deserves it. I'm assuming she was referring to R&B singer Joe, the ex who disappointed her on her 40th birthday.
If a man doesn't put a ring on it, he must have seen something in her he didn't like Or, he's not a marriage material kind of man. As a woman, if you are not able to figure this out within 6 months of in the relationship, you're wasting your time. You'll look back in your 40th and regret
Bc she didn't require it. If you act like you are ok going with the flow they will just keep you right where you at...going with said flow...of going nowhere.
Rocsi still beautiful and vibrant. Continue to work on loving yourself and deal with any undealt with trauma and pain. Forgiveness is key, you will attract a man who will love you and treat you well.
I know. The delusional thinking, not being accountable for the choices she made and wanted a child but doesn't want one now (@ 40 likely hood is very low). You can hear So much unspoken unguarded decisions
She wasted her time with a man for years and he never married her at 40 you don't have that type of time to waste. 2 years or less if you not talking marriage BE OUT!
She was well taken care of that’s why she didn’t complain and stayed ,let’s be honest . She just didn’t get the results she wanted at the end. If he was a bum and not benefiting her for the time she would have left.
Disappoint me like that on my 40th after being together for years and it’s a wrap. Stop wasting my time. You got 1 year to propose. Ex did it in 6 months.
I wish more women let their desires be known instead of going with the flow out of fear of coming across as a nag. Wasted years, waiting for something that wasn’t even on his radar. But I’m sure she ignored the signs. Could have just asked if he saw a future with her
I don't think you necessarily have to choose career over a relationship. The problem is you have control over your career whereas with relationships you are very dependent on your partner. You can invest a lot of time and energy and your partner can still leave whereas if you did the same with your career then you can see a return on that investment.
Can’t you also get fired from a job? Be Aged out of job? Get injured on a job and lose the job? Can’t you get overlooked for a promotion even though you’re more deserving? Nothing is guaranteed.
@@HappyHairCoilyCurls A career isn't just a job though. And even with those variables, you are building resume with every job opportunity. You can take that resume and continue moving up the ladder. You can't say the same for a relationship. You can put all the time and energy into a relationship and still get mistreated, left, cheated on, etc. So while you are single, you should focus on the things in your control and hopefully that will attract your person.
Sounds like you don't really want to be married. If you can never prioritize your relationship, then it may be tough for someone to feel comfortable committing to. Sucks the last person ruined it but if u don't open yourself back up then success with loneliness may be her outcome.
Good points. I wish people understood how easy it is to turn others off relationships by how your treat them. I don't know her backstory, but I'm met other women who are choosing their careers as well, and they've put relationships on the back burner because of how much energy it often takes to have/maintain a relationship, and hopefully the other person is on the same page as you.
No she is talking about the fact that she requires a certain level of commitment though (he needs to pay her bills). And I understand that. She has to keep hustling in case the relationship ends.
@@acd1168 she's not going to get commitment if she doesn't prioritize the relationship. its the man's job to prioritize career & provide. not the woman. if women do that, this is what happens. they remain single while trying to be men.
As long as women work, relationships will suffer. I fully support women who hustle. Message for men - you can't blame women. It is just life. Stop moaning.
@@asdfxcvbn746 Your comment and all the other bandits crying in the comments clearly shows you care.🤣🤣 You are NOT the center of a woman’s life. Get over it.
In my country, women who work dont throw it in their men's face .. they dont call themselves "boss babes" .. they spend most of that money on their own parents and siblings, while the man spends his money on his parents, siblings and his own family!
@@TsarOfRuss Check your ego. A woman saying she works or choosing her career isn’t “throwing it up in a man’s face” What is she suppose to do? hide it? Never talk about her accomplishments. Go somewhere🙄
Eddie Murphy, Rafeal Saddiq and Joe L. Thomas....ijs. She is not gonna find a man because she likes celebrities! Look into your friend zone. Your husband is there!
@zerotolerance2026 Chicks don't know how to pick men!! That's why you see all these NERDs with baddies because women can control them and get spoiled by them!
@zerotolerance2026 women panicked during COVID and choose wrong out of desperation. Once those relationships and or situationships failed, they went on revenge dates and found out that the dating Apps became hookup apps.
@zerotolerance2026 Yeah, women are clue less when choosing men...! That's all these nerds have baddies because she can't control what you really want from the men that are highly attractive.
As someone who just celebrated my 50th birthday and ended my 24 year relationship last year because the man whom I adored didn't chose me, I completely relate to every single word that Rocsi said. 1,000%
he gave you 24 years but he didn't choose you? something not adding up. you definitely gonna regret that decision. women's options get worse as they age, not better.
@asdfxcvbn746 Wow. So we're just going to immediately assume that I'm the problem. Interesting. Maybe the fact that he never kept a steady job, I paid all the bills for every household that we lived in, he cheated on me as if it was an Olympic sport and never celebrated my birthday could have been one of the reasons. But yeah, I'm the problem. And for the record he was 5 years older than me which means he had 5 more years on this earth of adulthood and never attempted to become an adult.
i never said you were the problem, i said your story is not adding up. being with somebody for 24 years doesn't match up with "they didn't choose me" if he was a bad man & a cheater that never kept a job like you say, you STAYED with him for 24 years. you could've left after 6 months if he was the problem. but you LIKED the drama. thats why you stayed with him for 24 years. you're an adult & not taking accountability for staying that long. sounds like YOU have some growing up to do smh
@asdfxcvbn746 Love doesn't have a timeline, and if someone is good at lying, it will take a long time to see someone's flaws. I applaud you for using this platform to start banter. Good job. Would love to talk to whomever you've dated.... Wishing you a good day and an opportunity to talk to anyone other than me. Be well..
You can't "think"you gonna get a ring😂😂. A man will waste your time if you let him while he sat there knowing exactly what you wanted. Givin "wifey" with no ring? Sigh.
If marriage is not a priority for the woman or man, the suitor or partner will leave to find another relationship with someone who wants to get married.
She was also linked to Eddie Murphy and recently dated Joe. Life will pass u by without a husband or kids and old age soon approaching for her. Time is not on her side.
I dont understand what is so hard or jarring for men AND women to hear a WOMAN say she does not want to be married and/or have children! That is NOT a priority or necessity in a great number of women's lives, including mine! Everybody should ALWAYS prioritize themselves!!! And for those too broken or too ignorant to understand that, those people are not meant to be a part of your life! #PERIOD
@canonymous8035 she wanted a baby in early years. Now that she's older and cannot have a child, she's saying she doesn't want a child. Also she has been dating men that are not available and still show her they won't marry, but she stuck around...diabolical and delusional
its jarring when they say that & then every other interview they do is her saying the opposite & that she DOES want marriage & kids. if she doesn't want a husband & family, why can't she stop talking about it? lol smh
@ She prioritized her career because she had to in order to support herself. The men she was involved with weren’t supporting her financially. Then they would have a problem with the demands of her career, for example, long hours, travel, etc. It was ridiculous of the men to have a problem with her career when she needs it in order to support herself. What was she supposed to do? Be homeless, but have a man? So, she said marriage is not a priority for her. She’s making sure she can support herself instead of risking her welfare with men who never promised to provide for her. THAT’S why she’s smart.
why should the men pay her bills if she won't prioritize them? sounds like selfishness to me & thats why nobody married her. she was in relationships with multiple rich men & nobody chose her because they all knew she slept around the industry & prioritized career over family. so they left her "goods" on the table. nobody is buying what she's selling smh
I get it , but in order to reach that level with someone….there is some sacrifice involved. You have to reprioritize to show your level of commitment. Doesn’t mean you have to quit your job or turn down gigs but you do have to make sure the other person feels like they matter.
pray about it & then proceed to put in no effort, while prioritizing career & telling men they're going to be put on the back burner until they pay her bills... that'll work out well lol smh
It all sounds good and by all means I don’t think you should settle for anything or choose to not do what you’re used to doing (hopefully making you happy) but time waits for no one and with each passing day those wants slowly become not attainable. I hope you find someone that gives you everything you deserve and you can continue to live a happy life. And not all men feel that way (I’m one of them)
One thing about a good woman we can say we don't want a man at that time due to past trauma or watever...but let the right one come we know who to adjust too..THEY JUST HAVE TO BE READY AND COME CORRECT 💯PERIOD..WHEN U LOVE HARD U JUST DONT GOVE YOUR HEART AND BODY TO ANYONE IT HAS TO BE THE RIGHT ONE! AND HIS ACTIONS WILL SHOW U THAT ...NOT WHAT COMES OUT OF HIS MOUTH💯💯💯💯💯
It was her priority when she thought he was going to propose for her 40th birthday she wanted marriage and was ready and when he disappointed her now the story and words are changing grow up Roxy
If you are a wife, it doesnt even take that much .. some women are so feminine, it only takes few months for a man to make up his mind! even his friends will be pushing him like "bro, dont mess this up" ... his friends wont even let him cheat, cus they will be on her side!
the irony is, she can actually watch this interview back & see exactly why she's single. the problem is she lacks the self-awareness too see which part of her mindset has caused her own single-ness for this long. Julissa Bermudez, Mya, LisaRaye McCoy, Vivica A. Fox, Tracee Ellis Ross & Taraji P. Henson are all in the same boat. They all chose career over relationships & regretted it. women like this can't be helped. they are totally brainwashed by feminism to prioritize career over family. she says she's independent because he's not "paying her bills" but when he attempts to make her a part of his life & pay her bills, she tells him "career first" & puts him on the back burner. then she loses potential mates over & over again until she's 40+ single & childless & her biological clock runs out. meanwhile she's sleeping around with men in the entertainment industry, gaining a poor reputation & lowering her dating market value by getting passed around. what if a man told women at the beginning of a potential relationship "i'm not spending any money on you, you're last on my priority list." all the women would leave. her saying "men have a problem with not being prioritized" is lowkey misandrist/sexist & is a cope to not take accountability for her own selfishness in her interpersonal relationships. anyone regardless of gender would take issue with not being a priority their relationship unless the priority is kids, which she doesn't even have. she's not intelligent enough to realize that the ENTIRE POINT of having a career is to save up money & resources to provide for your future family. but if you keep putting off having the family for your career, your biological clock runs out, you can no longer bear children & the family never happens. you'd think that last part I said would be a no-brainer, but apparently biological clocks are a difficult concept for modern women to grasp smh
@@zilnettah7339…they were together for ALMOST 10 yrs, but NEVER got MARRIED or had KIDS together!! She WAITED too long for a ring 💍…2 yrs is the MAX maybe 🤔 3 yrs!!
Hmmmm. I feel you, Rocsi, but I think the host is right and you just missed an opportunity for depth in healing. The issue was, is you gave your all to a boyfriend, who was never obligated to marry you. An man with intention does not need to date you for 10 years to know you are the one. The host is right; choosing your career first is the easy way out. Wish her all the best!
This is sad and I hope no woman get inspired to go down this path. When you're in a relationship, you give up "I" for "we". Align yourself with a man who's goals are the same as yours and YOUR bills will become OUR bills. He will encourage you to grind and not influence you to take time off. He'll be attentive enough to know when yall need a week vacation to keep from burning out. IJS those lonely nights add up. And if those don't, your body count sure will. Peace✌🏾
You can have the same goals and all of those things and a man will still bounce. Sounds to me like she needs more a more balanced approach and I'm not giving up "I" for "we" unless I have that type of commitment.
I WOULD LOVE TO HAVE SOME ONE LIKE HER BECAUSE I CAN UNDERSTAND HER AND I WOULDN'T LET HER JOB AND MY JOB HAVE A PROBLEMS BECAUSE IF WE CAN TRUST EACH OTHER IT WILL BE NO PROBLEMS PEOPLE DON'T NEED TO BE OTHER PEOPLE BUSINESS THATS WHAT WRONG WITH AMERICAN NOW WORRYING ABOUT SOME ONE ELSE'S BUSINESS WE ARE LIKE A BIG SOAP OPERA
Well, you stayed with him for what 9 years and you hoped your 40th birthday would finally be the one he proposed on? You stayed in that wayyy too long. Marriage clearly wasn’t/isn’t a priority for him, or not at least, with you. You gave him the notion that you were okay with the arrangement the way it was due to staying almost 10 years. He thought you were okay just riding the wave, since you never made it a REQUIREMENT. He’ll move on and either marry someone else much sooner OR she’ll get strung along too.
Further, if you’re not willing to prioritize your partner over your career, how can you expect one to prioritize marrying you? He probably didn’t propose because he didn’t feel like you’d prioritize him or the marriage, much less come with a proposal. Sounds like you want a wedding and not a marriage.
I would say you can have a thriving career and marriage, Both require expectation. If you desire marriage set that expectation from day one,( don’t compromise) set the standard treat boyfriends as such, not as husbands. Praying the best for Rocsi 🤍
That’s why she’s not married now not making her man the priority is why she’s single at her age. Dealing with a hyper independent woman takes a lot of patience
I remember her from 106 n park but what does she do again? That she gave up a family for? Women are soo lost these days… u dnt have to choose you can have both… She also inherently doenst believe a relationship can work hence the ‘I have to fall back on me’ At least she will always have a career 🤷🏾♀️
Men complain about splitting finances if a marriage fails but also complain about a career focused woman. Men also complain women's about age and weight. Women have to be self reliant.
Are you 6ft tall with long d!ck and very handsome millionaire ??? then you might have chance! the guy who broke her heart is a rich black RnB artist called JOE
Honestly, who cares. She'll end up just like the rest of them like Vivica Fox, Sanaa Lathan, Tracee Ross, Lolo Jones, LisaRay, Teraji Henson, and so on. All career women that are old now and no man on their level wants. When she hits 60, she'll be just like Vivica talking about dating. Nothing new here, just a different boss babe with no husband or kids to show for. She made her bed and she can lay on it.
If a women is not married she has to work duh to take care of herself she was just with a man who didn’t marry her after 8 years good thing she had her career
@@ShannonsBibleStudy Men say that because of women like her. Career women. They care more about their damn career than building a family. That's the issue. But somehow, women don't seem to get it. The evidence is there. Most successful women are single with no man on site. Especially, black women. There's more to life than career, money, big house, nice car and jewelries.
@@ShannonsBibleStudy women & feminists changed the divorce & alimony laws to unfairly destroy men financially. if she has a good lawyer, even prenups aren't safe anymore. then women wonder why men aren't marrying lol smh
I believe u are the leader and just need sumone to follow and protect u. I myself would rather to be asked to marry so then i would kno what she wanted..and I don't mind that at all because im ALWAYS down ❤.
Your advice doesn't make sense There's no men in the world who will follow and protect a woman... it makes no logical sense. You can't have a feminine and masculine man at the same time. With this type of buffoonery, you'll be alone the rest of your life. Please stop it and get help 🙏
@@ShannonsBibleStudy she can choose better. plenty of men in her friendzone that would've married her. but she wanted the multimillionaire celebrity guy who has many options & no incentive to settle down. it is what it is.
She clearly made peace with that. That’s what a lot of woman over 40 with no husband/kids do. You can either cry and be depressed OR you can make peace with your life and fill that void with other things you love.
Men AND women want to be a priority. Not just men. All people want to feel important in relationships.
Yes, but the craziness thing is (from my anecdotal observation), the more money a woman makes, the higher and unrealistic expectations they have. Maybe that's why more "successful " women are NOT married
you think the boss should give same priority to worker.e not the same
@@ejbatu I respectfully disagree. Maybe that applies to SOME, but not all.
100% agree, why would someone marry anyone, man or woman who puts their career 1st? You can't change people. They won't magically put you 1st. Love requires sacrifice of one's self for the other, but a lot of people don't want to do that yet expect others to sacrifice for them. Good luck with that.
@@ejbatuI find this to be true as well through my experiences. But more so with American women it seems most predominant. I only say that, because I’ve lived in other countries.
Marriage can never work without prioritising the other. Love = sacrifice ..
Men rarely sacrifice.
@@stacey6229it’s simply not true. Men take on great risk and sacrifice. We give our women time and money that we are engineered to put to our work, business endeavors and careers. We expose ourselves to financial risk that, for those of us that are high earning, often ends with exes staking claim to the fruits of years (sometimes decades) of our labor. It’s not unusual for men to lose their shirts and face the prospect of starting over in their 40s and 50s. We generally have great empathy for women and voluntarily over compensate to correct for inequities women face. But suggesting that men rarely sacrifice shows the empathy gap - the lack of empathy for men. The lack of empathy feeds a gender war that doesn’t serve us.
@@stacey6229false
For women……
That can’t actually be true. Not all men sacrifice for women just like not all women sacrifice for men. Don’t date those. Date the one that does sacrifice willingly. A true biblical gentleman who is willing to lay down his life for is wife.
Eddie Murphy and that scandal with LisaRaye’s ex taught her to keep quiet about her dudes.
Never heard of this.
@ Google.
@@shaylaforever9048 youtube or google it - her name came up several times while both men were married or with someone. She never spoke on it.
@@shaylaforever9048not the Eddie Murphy part!
@@WinnieJean-Pierre-wm7kx Yes, I remember her dating Eddie!
Historically men have always prioritized their careers. Having a man is not the end all be all🙄
Men prioritizing their careers as opposed to what? 🤨.
Historically men had to provide for their family. Women historically did more of the nurturing duties and took the role of the house wife. Today it is very difficult to live in a one income household. Also, gender roles are no longer being adhered to so everything has been flipped upside down.
@tyisha2015 AMEN! and that's what society is WILLING to accept. But if a woman chooses the same, she's a man eater, she hates men, she's an alpha, she'll always be alone...blah, blah, blah! Women can AND will do as they choose to with their OWN lives, and if a man is not the priority, OH WELL... that's what's best for that woman!
Historically men had to prioritize careers because they knew that was the income that was coming in to feed the extra mouths they had to feed. Men who are married with kids tend to make more money, not because they get to but because they have to. It's not a privilege it's a duty. Taking care of a woman is hard, taking care of a child is harder, taking care of both is the hardest.
Ya’ll feel me. Rosci is “choosing her career” at the expense of also prioritizing getting married or, more importantly, staring a family. Let’s not act like someone can’t do multiple things at once. It’s bs.
🤨🤨 She doesn’t share but was trying to share Lisa Raye’s husband. Orrrrrrrr was it more to the story??? 🤔
Ooooooh I remember that
😂😂😂😂
Exactly, want someone else husband.
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Joe, why didn't you give her that ring? She deserves it. I'm assuming she was referring to R&B singer Joe, the ex who disappointed her on her 40th birthday.
Is that who she was dating at the time..? 😲
If a man doesn't put a ring on it, he must have seen something in her he didn't like
Or, he's not a marriage material kind of man.
As a woman, if you are not able to figure this out within 6 months of in the relationship, you're wasting your time. You'll look back in your 40th and regret
Bc she didn't require it. If you act like you are ok going with the flow they will just keep you right where you at...going with said flow...of going nowhere.
Black women its 2025. Their preference is our protection. Believe dat!!!
@@creamycazz1yes she was dating him 8 years or so. She was at his concert last year I went to.
I hope she gets everything she wants
Her career is everything she wants, she already has it.. you heard her
Rocsi still beautiful and vibrant. Continue to work on loving yourself and deal with any undealt with trauma and pain. Forgiveness is key, you will attract a man who will love you and treat you well.
This conversation feels very uncomfortable to watch....😮
I know. The delusional thinking, not being accountable for the choices she made and wanted a child but doesn't want one now (@ 40 likely hood is very low). You can hear So much unspoken unguarded decisions
Yes because I've noticed in interviews she gets defensive sometimes instead of listening
She ever ages just stunning!
Most single unmarried women age very well. No stress.
The power of makeup ofcourse!
but wait ... how much eggs does she have left? at 43 ... they are all fried up!
She wasted her time with a man for years and he never married her at 40 you don't have that type of time to waste. 2 years or less if you not talking marriage BE OUT!
She was well taken care of that’s why she didn’t complain and stayed ,let’s be honest . She just didn’t get the results she wanted at the end. If he was a bum and not benefiting her for the time she would have left.
Disappoint me like that on my 40th after being together for years and it’s a wrap. Stop wasting my time. You got 1 year to propose. Ex did it in 6 months.
I wish more women let their desires be known instead of going with the flow out of fear of coming across as a nag. Wasted years, waiting for something that wasn’t even on his radar. But I’m sure she ignored the signs. Could have just asked if he saw a future with her
Ex 😂, what a nice guy .
These women simply choose the wrong men.
I don't think you necessarily have to choose career over a relationship. The problem is you have control over your career whereas with relationships you are very dependent on your partner. You can invest a lot of time and energy and your partner can still leave whereas if you did the same with your career then you can see a return on that investment.
Can’t you also get fired from a job? Be Aged out of job? Get injured on a job and lose the job? Can’t you get overlooked for a promotion even though you’re more deserving?
Nothing is guaranteed.
@@HappyHairCoilyCurls A career isn't just a job though. And even with those variables, you are building resume with every job opportunity. You can take that resume and continue moving up the ladder. You can't say the same for a relationship. You can put all the time and energy into a relationship and still get mistreated, left, cheated on, etc. So while you are single, you should focus on the things in your control and hopefully that will attract your person.
@@ItzDagreed
@@ItzDExactly!
In summary, careers are better than relationships, relationships are not that important, lets acknowledge that and move on
You can't expect a man to prioritize you in a relationship, when your not providing the same for him.
Sounds like you don't really want to be married. If you can never prioritize your relationship, then it may be tough for someone to feel comfortable committing to. Sucks the last person ruined it but if u don't open yourself back up then success with loneliness may be her outcome.
Good points. I wish people understood how easy it is to turn others off relationships by how your treat them. I don't know her backstory, but I'm met other women who are choosing their careers as well, and they've put relationships on the back burner because of how much energy it often takes to have/maintain a relationship, and hopefully the other person is on the same page as you.
No she is talking about the fact that she requires a certain level of commitment though (he needs to pay her bills). And I understand that. She has to keep hustling in case the relationship ends.
I thought she said she did prioritize it as certain points
@@acd1168 she's not going to get commitment if she doesn't prioritize the relationship. its the man's job to prioritize career & provide. not the woman. if women do that, this is what happens. they remain single while trying to be men.
@@asdfxcvbn746In today’s world most households are dual incomes and the man can’t provide fully.
She was last dating Joe.
Joe Rogan?
Joe who!?
@@ejbatujoe the r&b singer
Yep she sure was or still is.
It seems like she likes dating fantasies
Yikes @@IndispensableBeauty
As long as women work, relationships will suffer. I fully support women who hustle. Message for men - you can't blame women. It is just life. Stop moaning.
trust me when i say zero men care that she's growing old without having children. she alone will suffer for her poor life choices. not the men.
@@asdfxcvbn746 Your comment and all the other bandits crying in the comments clearly shows you care.🤣🤣
You are NOT the center of a woman’s life. Get over it.
@@zerotolerance2026 lets check back in with you when you're 50. i'm sure you'll have a different opinion then lol smh
In my country, women who work dont throw it in their men's face .. they dont call themselves "boss babes" .. they spend most of that money on their own parents and siblings, while the man spends his money on his parents, siblings and his own family!
@@TsarOfRuss Check your ego. A woman saying she works or choosing her career isn’t “throwing it up in a man’s face”
What is she suppose to do? hide it? Never talk about her accomplishments. Go somewhere🙄
Eddie Murphy, Rafeal Saddiq and Joe L. Thomas....ijs. She is not gonna find a man because she likes celebrities! Look into your friend zone. Your husband is there!
He’s frienzoned for a reason. NEVER back track out of desperation.
@zerotolerance2026 Chicks don't know how to pick men!! That's why you see all these NERDs with baddies because women can control them and get spoiled by them!
@zerotolerance2026 women panicked during COVID and choose wrong out of desperation. Once those relationships and or situationships failed, they went on revenge dates and found out that the dating Apps became hookup apps.
@zerotolerance2026 Yeah, women are clue less when choosing men...! That's all these nerds have baddies because she can't control what you really want from the men that are highly attractive.
@zerotolerance2026 bs they blocking my comments
As someone who just celebrated my 50th birthday and ended my 24 year relationship last year because the man whom I adored didn't chose me, I completely relate to every single word that Rocsi said. 1,000%
Beautiful he did you a favor that was God's blessing in disguise because he has someone special for you
he gave you 24 years but he didn't choose you? something not adding up. you definitely gonna regret that decision. women's options get worse as they age, not better.
@asdfxcvbn746 Wow. So we're just going to immediately assume that I'm the problem. Interesting. Maybe the fact that he never kept a steady job, I paid all the bills for every household that we lived in, he cheated on me as if it was an Olympic sport and never celebrated my birthday could have been one of the reasons. But yeah, I'm the problem. And for the record he was 5 years older than me which means he had 5 more years on this earth of adulthood and never attempted to become an adult.
i never said you were the problem, i said your story is not adding up. being with somebody for 24 years doesn't match up with "they didn't choose me" if he was a bad man & a cheater that never kept a job like you say, you STAYED with him for 24 years. you could've left after 6 months if he was the problem. but you LIKED the drama. thats why you stayed with him for 24 years. you're an adult & not taking accountability for staying that long. sounds like YOU have some growing up to do smh
@asdfxcvbn746 Love doesn't have a timeline, and if someone is good at lying, it will take a long time to see someone's flaws. I applaud you for using this platform to start banter. Good job. Would love to talk to whomever you've dated.... Wishing you a good day and an opportunity to talk to anyone other than me. Be well..
You can't "think"you gonna get a ring😂😂. A man will waste your time if you let him while he sat there knowing exactly what you wanted. Givin "wifey" with no ring? Sigh.
If marriage is not a priority for the woman or man, the suitor or partner will leave to find another relationship with someone who wants to get married.
Dear Rocsi, The right one is coming girl ❤ the right one is going to loveeeee your ambition and support it more than you could have ever imagined! ✨✨✨
Now we're into story telling?
She was also linked to Eddie Murphy and recently dated Joe. Life will pass u by without a husband or kids and old age soon approaching for her. Time is not on her side.
Don't forget Lisa Raye's husband.
Love Rocsi! Just a beautiful soul inside and out!
I don't blame Rocsi for making that choice..We have to do what's best for us. Men and women . Live your best life sister.
P.o.p.
I dont understand what is so hard or jarring for men AND women to hear a WOMAN say she does not want to be married and/or have children! That is NOT a priority or necessity in a great number of women's lives, including mine! Everybody should ALWAYS prioritize themselves!!! And for those too broken or too ignorant to understand that, those people are not meant to be a part of your life! #PERIOD
@canonymous8035 she wanted a baby in early years. Now that she's older and cannot have a child, she's saying she doesn't want a child. Also she has been dating men that are not available and still show her they won't marry, but she stuck around...diabolical and delusional
It seems she very much still wants both, just isn’t willing to do the work to be a good partner
its jarring when they say that & then every other interview they do is her saying the opposite & that she DOES want marriage & kids. if she doesn't want a husband & family, why can't she stop talking about it? lol smh
She didn't say that.
@@asdfxcvbn746 The interviewer asked about marriage and children,
Quit crying already🙄
She just did Dutch 2 which was a surpise that she got lead role
Rocsi being single is inexcusable at her age. She’s too pretty for that
Smart girl
Nothing she said is smart... she wanted marriage, and she didn't get it because she prioritized her career. Did I miss something here?
@ She prioritized her career because she had to in order to support herself. The men she was involved with weren’t supporting her financially. Then they would have a problem with the demands of her career, for example, long hours, travel, etc. It was ridiculous of the men to have a problem with her career when she needs it in order to support herself. What was she supposed to do? Be homeless, but have a man? So, she said marriage is not a priority for her. She’s making sure she can support herself instead of risking her welfare with men who never promised to provide for her. THAT’S why she’s smart.
why should the men pay her bills if she won't prioritize them? sounds like selfishness to me & thats why nobody married her. she was in relationships with multiple rich men & nobody chose her because they all knew she slept around the industry & prioritized career over family. so they left her "goods" on the table. nobody is buying what she's selling smh
@@asdfxcvbn746They weren’t going to pay her bills either way and she had to support herself.
I can relate. Thank You for your story sis.
On the end page you put watch the full ep on RUclips but then the full clip isn’t here. Thats annoying.
Check again girlie
I get it , but in order to reach that level with someone….there is some sacrifice involved. You have to reprioritize to show your level of commitment. Doesn’t mean you have to quit your job or turn down gigs but you do have to make sure the other person feels like they matter.
Exactly sounds like some balance is missing
Get on your knees and tell God exactly what you want.....and it will happen....and don't leave nothing out....lol
pray about it & then proceed to put in no effort, while prioritizing career & telling men they're going to be put on the back burner until they pay her bills... that'll work out well lol smh
Ma’am it’s not that serious 🤣
My nosey butt trying to figure out who she's talking about 😂
People above said the singer Joe. Apparently they were together for 8 years. I never knew they dated
Choose someone outside of the industry..
Of course you don't share except Lisa Raye's husband🤔
Who's Lisa's husband?
Is it for sure she shared?
@@ejbatu That's what LisaRaye said. He was the Premier of Turks and Caicos.
That man was with everybody.
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Um huh. I remember. Now you want commitment. Girl...
It all sounds good and by all means I don’t think you should settle for anything or choose to not do what you’re used to doing (hopefully making you happy) but time waits for no one and with each passing day those wants slowly become not attainable. I hope you find someone that gives you everything you deserve and you can continue to live a happy life. And not all men feel that way (I’m one of them)
Ladies this ain’t the goal fr. The only thing she has is her career that’s why she loves it.
even adopting a child makes women feel happier than career .. i've seen alot of such cases, choosing career over kids is the path to loneliness!
Very relatable.
One thing about a good woman we can say we don't want a man at that time due to past trauma or watever...but let the right one come we know who to adjust too..THEY JUST HAVE TO BE READY AND COME CORRECT 💯PERIOD..WHEN U LOVE HARD U JUST DONT GOVE YOUR HEART AND BODY TO ANYONE IT HAS TO BE THE RIGHT ONE! AND HIS ACTIONS WILL SHOW U THAT ...NOT WHAT COMES OUT OF HIS MOUTH💯💯💯💯💯
It was her priority when she thought he was going to propose for her 40th birthday she wanted marriage and was ready and when he disappointed her now the story and words are changing grow up Roxy
happy new year you are very beautiful peace
So there's no Latino who wants to marry her?🤔🤔
Honestly I’m choosing my career. I have a kid but I work hard to build the life I want to live.
so you are just another woman who cant keep a man??
If a man wants to propose he will no longer than 2 years
If you are a wife, it doesnt even take that much .. some women are so feminine, it only takes few months for a man to make up his mind! even his friends will be pushing him like "bro, dont mess this up" ... his friends wont even let him cheat, cus they will be on her side!
Not to prioritize your relationship is selfish to start with.
but she wants him to pedestalize and prioritize her though ... see the problem?
the irony is, she can actually watch this interview back & see exactly why she's single. the problem is she lacks the self-awareness too see which part of her mindset has caused her own single-ness for this long. Julissa Bermudez, Mya, LisaRaye McCoy, Vivica A. Fox, Tracee Ellis Ross & Taraji P. Henson are all in the same boat. They all chose career over relationships & regretted it.
women like this can't be helped. they are totally brainwashed by feminism to prioritize career over family. she says she's independent because he's not "paying her bills" but when he attempts to make her a part of his life & pay her bills, she tells him "career first" & puts him on the back burner. then she loses potential mates over & over again until she's 40+ single & childless & her biological clock runs out. meanwhile she's sleeping around with men in the entertainment industry, gaining a poor reputation & lowering her dating market value by getting passed around.
what if a man told women at the beginning of a potential relationship "i'm not spending any money on you, you're last on my priority list." all the women would leave. her saying "men have a problem with not being prioritized" is lowkey misandrist/sexist & is a cope to not take accountability for her own selfishness in her interpersonal relationships.
anyone regardless of gender would take issue with not being a priority their relationship unless the priority is kids, which she doesn't even have.
she's not intelligent enough to realize that the ENTIRE POINT of having a career is to save up money & resources to provide for your future family. but if you keep putting off having the family for your career, your biological clock runs out, you can no longer bear children & the family never happens.
you'd think that last part I said would be a no-brainer, but apparently biological clocks are a difficult concept for modern women to grasp smh
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Is she talking about the R&B singer Joe?
4:38 🫰🏾🫰🏾🫰🏾
To all the males crying in the comments, you are NOT the center of a woman’s life.
Find a purpose and get over yourselves.
Well she’s with the singer Joe, right?!
Never mind. I see that they are no longer together. That sucks. But you have to do what’s best for you.
@@zilnettah7339…they were together for ALMOST 10 yrs, but NEVER got MARRIED or had KIDS together!! She WAITED too long for a ring 💍…2 yrs is the MAX maybe 🤔 3 yrs!!
@@zilnettah7339 Nobody will marry another person who doesn't prioritize them
Hmmmm. I feel you, Rocsi, but I think the host is right and you just missed an opportunity for depth in healing. The issue was, is you gave your all to a boyfriend, who was never obligated to marry you. An man with intention does not need to date you for 10 years to know you are the one. The host is right; choosing your career first is the easy way out. Wish her all the best!
It’s interesting 🤔 I thought in a relationship that leads to marriage you should prioritize your partner?
Terrance J is not married. They might have to circle the old block
@@vsights He’s engaged.
he way out of her league now. rocsi curved him when they were young. bet she's regretting that now lol smh
Why can can’t find a man to pay her bills? Housewives in Oklahoma get their bills paid.
I know she was dating Joe, the singer. Don't know if they are still dating.
She looks like that actress from glee
Deion Sander’s Woman‼️ Mark my words.
This is sad and I hope no woman get inspired to go down this path. When you're in a relationship, you give up "I" for "we". Align yourself with a man who's goals are the same as yours and YOUR bills will become OUR bills. He will encourage you to grind and not influence you to take time off. He'll be attentive enough to know when yall need a week vacation to keep from burning out. IJS those lonely nights add up. And if those don't, your body count sure will. Peace✌🏾
You can have the same goals and all of those things and a man will still bounce. Sounds to me like she needs more a more balanced approach and I'm not giving up "I" for "we" unless I have that type of commitment.
@@CeeP211 choose better.
@@asdfxcvbn746 Women are realizing choosing better means choosing yourself. Thanks for the advice.
She made the right choice. Most married women with or without children are miserable.
Most people are miserable
I thought she was dating the R&B singer Joe
She was but they’re NOT together anymore!!!!
What Career? I am being serious.
IDK 🤷🏽♀️…I’ve ONLY seen her a few times after 106 & Park ended!!
She’s a host. Entertainment tonight was one of her big gigs.
I WOULD LOVE TO HAVE SOME ONE LIKE HER BECAUSE I CAN UNDERSTAND HER AND I WOULDN'T LET HER JOB AND MY JOB HAVE A PROBLEMS BECAUSE IF WE CAN TRUST EACH OTHER IT WILL BE NO PROBLEMS PEOPLE DON'T NEED TO BE OTHER PEOPLE BUSINESS THATS WHAT WRONG WITH AMERICAN NOW WORRYING ABOUT SOME ONE ELSE'S BUSINESS WE ARE LIKE A BIG SOAP OPERA
Well, you stayed with him for what 9 years and you hoped your 40th birthday would finally be the one he proposed on? You stayed in that wayyy too long. Marriage clearly wasn’t/isn’t a priority for him, or not at least, with you. You gave him the notion that you were okay with the arrangement the way it was due to staying almost 10 years. He thought you were okay just riding the wave, since you never made it a REQUIREMENT. He’ll move on and either marry someone else much sooner OR she’ll get strung along too.
Further, if you’re not willing to prioritize your partner over your career, how can you expect one to prioritize marrying you? He probably didn’t propose because he didn’t feel like you’d prioritize him or the marriage, much less come with a proposal. Sounds like you want a wedding and not a marriage.
I would say you can have a thriving career and marriage, Both require expectation. If you desire marriage set that expectation from day one,( don’t compromise) set the standard treat boyfriends as such, not as husbands. Praying the best for Rocsi 🤍
Are you in that type of relationship?
If not, would you provide an example?
@ Provide an example of what exactly?
@@nathaliapunch7954 relationship you described
Is she still with Joe?
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I agree we need to take care of ourselves yes
That’s why she’s not married now not making her man the priority is why she’s single at her age. Dealing with a hyper independent woman takes a lot of patience
Gyrllll 😮
I remember her from 106 n park but what does she do again? That she gave up a family for? Women are soo lost these days… u dnt have to choose you can have both…
She also inherently doenst believe a relationship can work hence the ‘I have to fall back on me’
At least she will always have a career 🤷🏾♀️
Men complain about splitting finances if a marriage fails but also complain about a career focused woman. Men also complain women's about age and weight. Women have to be self reliant.
Is she still dating the singer Joe Thomas?
nope 👎🏾
Wasn't she dating Joe the singer for quite some time?
YES she was!! I 💭 when she mentioned getting a ring 💍 @ 40 but he didn’t PROPOSE she was talking about Joe!!
@teriewilliams8614 Oh shit
Wait for me Rox
Are you 6ft tall with long d!ck and very handsome millionaire ??? then you might have chance!
the guy who broke her heart is a rich black RnB artist called JOE
What career does she have tho?? Wat does she do? I'm confused
she's always been a host/media personality.
@asdfxcvbn746 ohhhhhh thx!
This attitude aint gonna get you down the aisle… she’s in the wrong circle of friends/ community. It takes more than looks to hook
The man needs to want to marry. Most of them don't.
So I guess she's not with Joe anymore
Joe who?
Joe the R and B singer
@shantaerios7718 thanks had no idea they were a couple...would have never put them together
nope 👎🏾 she’s not
Her expiration date hit
She's selfish. When you're in a relationship, you have to make sacrifices on both ends in order to make it work.
Rumor was that she messed with Eddie Murphy in the past #allegedly
Future cat lady as a Man U have to recognize a fun girl from a wife!
You need a man that will worship you
😂😅
Delusional advice
Damn so Joe will do 'All the Things' but propose huh? Smh.
Thays why you are single!!!
She looks pregnant
you are PAST your prime if you EVER had one. Keep your career a priority and invest in a rocking chair and buy a cat. ENJOY you.
She's cap she just didn't want to settle down with someone who makes less money than her
Honestly, who cares. She'll end up just like the rest of them like Vivica Fox, Sanaa Lathan, Tracee Ross, Lolo Jones, LisaRay, Teraji Henson, and so on. All career women that are old now and no man on their level wants. When she hits 60, she'll be just like Vivica talking about dating. Nothing new here, just a different boss babe with no husband or kids to show for. She made her bed and she can lay on it.
If a women is not married she has to work duh to take care of herself she was just with a man who didn’t marry her after 8 years good thing she had her career
Men are all over the internet saying they don't want to marry. Women don't have much say in the matter.
@@ShannonsBibleStudy Men say that because of women like her. Career women. They care more about their damn career than building a family. That's the issue. But somehow, women don't seem to get it. The evidence is there. Most successful women are single with no man on site. Especially, black women. There's more to life than career, money, big house, nice car and jewelries.
@@aprylwalk6887 choose better.
@@ShannonsBibleStudy women & feminists changed the divorce & alimony laws to unfairly destroy men financially. if she has a good lawyer, even prenups aren't safe anymore. then women wonder why men aren't marrying lol smh
I believe u are the leader and just need sumone to follow and protect u. I myself would rather to be asked to marry so then i would kno what she wanted..and I don't mind that at all because im ALWAYS down ❤.
Your advice doesn't make sense
There's no men in the world who will follow and protect a woman... it makes no logical sense. You can't have a feminine and masculine man at the same time.
With this type of buffoonery, you'll be alone the rest of your life. Please stop it and get help 🙏
Yuck
She'll be married when 50 🤣🤦🏽♀️
Terrence J be punching air lol
that man is dating badder chicks half her age. if anybody is punching air its rocsi because she curved him 20 years ago, now she's old & single.
She not going to every get married. I thnk she knows that.
Welp. She tried. 🤷🏿♀️
@@ShannonsBibleStudy not very hard. oh well.
She is 43!!!!!!!! It’s over why is this even a conversation 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I had two aunts who remarried in their 60's. People get married older all the time. Stop being chronically online.
@ that’s impossible unless the guy needs a care taker! Stop it!!! No man worth ANYTHING will seek a wife that old
@@Aaron-gc7pnif he old too there’s no problem….women take better care if their health than men anyways
If the man didn't propose what is she supposed to feel bad about? She wanted to marry but she loved a man that didn't.
@@user-dv3kq3rm4h to simps that are far below their standards. they definitely settled for lower quality men at 60 because of their age.
She's beautiful and it's sad she most likely die alone.
We all die alone duh we all get buried alone
@aprylwalk6887 without any love ones .
She clearly wanted to marry. She can't do anything if her boyfriend didn't want the same.
@@aprylwalk6887 no we don't. just women who make poor decisions like rocsi.
@@ShannonsBibleStudy she can choose better. plenty of men in her friendzone that would've married her. but she wanted the multimillionaire celebrity guy who has many options & no incentive to settle down. it is what it is.
This is the end of this age, So her career is OVER.
Baby girl alone... She aint winning in the end...
She clearly made peace with that. That’s what a lot of woman over 40 with no husband/kids do.
You can either cry and be depressed OR you can make peace with your life and fill that void with other things you love.
@@Janiece3not to mention many married women are in absolute hell
Making peace with it doesn't mean she's not laying down on bed alone not thinking about it.
When you make peace with ANYTHING , there is no laying down thinking about IT. That's not peace. Hopefully, she is at peace.
Her boyfriend didn't propose. She obviously wanted to marry him. What is she supposed to do?