I got married at 40 and got pregnant very easily a few months later. It has been 5 years now and my family is such a blessing. I am happy I waited for the right man. Nothing is impossible with God ladies.
Lucky you got a good man. I tried last year at 39 and the guy I invested in was such a judgemental/critical asshole. If given the choice now, I'd rather have a good child than a good husband if I had to choose only one. I've been so jaded by the opposite sex it's not even funny. 😞
Being married is not the goal. Being married to the RIGHT person is the goal. Having kids with the wrong person is HELL. Kids are ALOT of work and responsibility. A lot of mothers aren’t even happy and resent it.
I was married and had my kids by him and it didn’t last but I was able to experience it. So many women are looking for this super duper relationship that never happens. Everyone goes into marriage thinking forever but if it’s not forever doesn’t mean he was the wrong man or you were the wrong woman just 💩 happens
I’m a 36 year old male who’s been married for five years with a 4 year old child. People need to stop harshly judging women who don’t have kids. Being a parent is the most difficult task in the world and requires individuals to be in a good place mentally, emotionally, financially, and physically in order to raise a child in the most ideal circumstance possible. If you are not ready then it is better that you don’t have children for the sake of that child. Being a good parent requires complete selflessness. There are times where I just want to relax and watch football but can’t because my child wants to play or has a dance class to attend. There are nights that I need full sleep but my child had a bad dream and we have to soothe. Marriage has been challenging at times since our child was born… arguing about our different parenting philosophies or feeling bitterness that one of us isn’t pulling our weight. With all that said, I have never been happier than the last four years of being a dad and my wife feels so complete as a family. I’ve been able to travel the world, own luxury cars, watches, and nice house. No amount of materialistic items and experiences has come close to what having my child has felt.
@@Luiz-w5syes, but who’s tryna be a father at 80? u men can say things like this bc u know that women do MAJORITY of their child rearing and upkeep of the home and most men dont. literally the reason why women aren’t rushing to have kids or don’t want any at all bc it’s ALOT of work and falls solely on the mother. Smh.
@@lastsam9846 Many people are getting married in their 40s now (men and women). Conversely, many people who get married in their 20s and have children are getting divorced. The absence of a partner/children at any age is a no longer a red flag nor is it indicative of some huge character flaws.
@@lastsam9846projection. She just doesn’t care for “pRiNcE ChArmInG” and the marriage like u incels do. why is it so hard for u guys to accept that someone can be happy not being a baby factory, or married to a man? we already have 8 billion ppl on the planet, we’ll all be fine. 😂😂😂
Social media has average women getting dm's from men around the world causing these women to believe that they are 8's 9's and 10's instead of the 5's that most women are. These women then believe that they all deserve high-value men, just because nga's be in they dm's, or they may have been flewed out and got smashed by an athlete or two. Average looking hard working men are invisible to most of these women because of how much attention they get on social media by posting provocative images of themselves. Then when they turn 35, that's when they start to realize that they wish they'd focused more on finding a good man, instead of expecting men out of their league to wife them. Women NEVER take responsibility for their poor life decisions. Like Kevin Samuels said, the 3 most prevalent characteristics of a woman is the need to shame, guilt and need to be right AT ALL TIMES.
You know, im in my late 30s and people ask me the same thing. But I figured out, let me put you on the spot and ask you why YOU had kids or wanted kids…you will start to get some answers that you may not have been expecting for them to say 🧐
@@dannicakes6837 Women are so solipsistic. You either ignored or turned down dozens of viable men during your early 20's into your early to mid 30's because they failed to meet your unrealistic expectations, and now that you are outside of your most attractive years as it relates to men, you are forced to create a new narrative about why you don't want children, when if fact deep down you probably do, but your inability to lower your standards and find a man on your level has prevented you from realizing your true purpose which is motherhood within a loving family. The average man earns roughly 50K, is 5'10 tall and is completely satisfied with that. This average man is invisible to 80% of single women who are all desperately chasing the top 20 percent of men and being used as sneaky links hoping to become the main chic.
@@THE-BASEMENTexactly lol talking about flipping the script asking why they want kids lol never trust a woman who doesn’t want kids or a family. If it doesn’t happen cool but not wanting it is just weird as a human being
These entertainment women are already married, they are married to their careers and the children are the performances and movies they get booked for. There is NO WAY on earth they will give that up to be with a man they love, admire and respect to start a family. Julissa and Roxy both could have married a respectable man years ago, but by being in the industry, they believe they some how qualify for a top tier, A-list man, when in reality they both are just average looking women. Their delusion keeps them without a husband and family. And this entire interview was meant to provide a safe place to cope.
Hopefully that isn't your reasoning for choosing that life, because a lot of them are happy too. Believe it or not we can manifest our dream life if we see ourselves as worthy.
Im 35 year young woman. I only want kids under the context of marriage. Outside of that I have zero desire. I only want to marry if the person makes sense and deeply respects me.
I don't want kids at all but I understand where you're coming from. If you don't mind me asking, If you found a man who deeply respects you and that makes sense, would you consider marrying him and having kids with him if he already has ,kid(s) from previous relationships and/or marriage?
@AnomalyBelleza next question do you have an active dating life because, you can have this but I just notice that the most principal sounding women expect these men to just knock on their doors it doesn't happen that way
@@imParisthoee Great observation. Slight adjustment. I noticed my statement probably doesn’t say exactly what I mean. What I mean is that I am totally open to children only under the context of marriage. Which probably shows you that I’m not really even desiring children in the first place. I’m more so open to it and welcoming of it, and I know that I would absolutely embrace it once married as opposed to not being married. I’m even open to not having children as a married woman if my spouse feels the same way. The nonnegotiable for me is me having children outside of a marriage.
@@rebaonematsau2069not really. Lmao, as long as u have friends, hobbies and I’m sure she’s a great aunt and sibling you are fine. don’t need to get married or have kids. Leave ppl alone.
Having kids is such a personal important decision in your life. Had my first in my mid 30s with my husband. I’m incredibly grateful and blessed as I was unable to have kids. After 17 years of marriage, a miracle happened and had my first born. Just gave birth to my second 3 months ago and now that I am a mom of 2 I can say they are my biggest accomplishment. Every time I look into their eyes, I see the miracle that happened twice in my life. I don’t judge anyone who doesn’t want kids but if you want them, go ahead! It’s work, it’s stressful but it’s the purest love I’ve ever experienced. 😢
I love Julissa being so honest about this and Rocsi even bringing it up. Shout out to our 106 & Park veteran ladies!! Love the growth in the their careers
I'm an older mom. I had my daughter at 35 and she is 8 and I regret not being married. I love my child to the depths of my being but I would have preferred a healthy marriage then the kid. The positives my child is absolutely beautiful, smart, funny, happy, bossy, sassy, and all the things. I’m learning to accept things as they are and change what I can control. It took 8 years to get here though. Kids or not live the best life you can. I will say my daughter motivated me to be better. ❤❤
Let me add although I'm a single mom we are not struggling. My daughter attends a great school, in activities, basketball, karate, tennis, volleyball, etc. I do not get child support. I work hard and I do what is necessary to provide her with options and opportunities.
Good day gorgeous ladies greetings 👋. I just wanted to add something here if I may. I’m a happily married woman ,mom of 3 beautiful kids two girls and one boy age 7,5,2 I love them to death,great husband he provides and protects all the things I wished for in a man but! In Oder to have all this I had to move far away from my family to have the family I have now ,so please don’t have any regrets life gives you it wants to give you there’s always some kind of price to pay. Blessings to you.
@@ajohonly3721 I’m the opposite. I stayed in the same city I grew up in. Unbeknownst to me I ended up being the primary caregiver for my mom until her death. I wanted to live in NY after college. Life has a way of teaching us things we never knew we needed. Congratulations on your marriage.
Kids aren't for everyone. They are a blessing, though. I have no clue who I would be if not for being my daughter's father. Not that I have no individual identity, but the reason for being is so heightened, and she's opened my eyes to so much. Some stressful times for sure, but what's life without any stress? I'd advise the masses to slow down and make sure things are built on a solid foundation, but not to avoid kids altogether in fear of how hard it'll be.
I married and had my child in my 30s. I was very happy while unmarried and happy married. Singleness is a gift most people do not appreciate. Enjoy it! It's beautiful too!
Julissa , if your deepest desire is to have a family. Don't let society talk you out of that dream. God put it in your heart for a reason. No matter what age you are. God can create beautiful miracles through you. He did it with Sara , Isaac , Elizabeth and he will do it with you. ❤ Con cariño 🇩🇴
I admire you for knowing yourself and there’s nothing wrong with your preference to not wanting children. You are clear on your why…The issue with some women is that they don’t want to admit their truth. I look at a lot of these women especially in Hollywood and you can see the sadness ie Vivica A. Fox.
@@absolutetreasures6877 FACTS! This is what I came here to say! Also, I dislike that people who may have been ill prepared to be a parent makes parenting seem so horrific! I get it may be challenging, but the greatest impact we can make on earth is to raise a decent human - IMO. I also respect those who know themselves well enough to know they don't want children. I just wish this conversation was more balanced.
@absolutetreasures6877 I don't think that's our place, to decide for another woman what she regrets or what she accepts about her life story. Just observe, focus on your own path and grow. Projecting on to others isn't cool
TBF, she doesn't even sound like she wants marriage and/or kids. It sounds like she's content with where her life is, but she hasn't yet learned how to ignore societal pressures. Prior to getting back with Nelly, Ashanti made it clear that she desired motherhood.
@@HighMaintenanceMinimalistYea should feel absolutely. This is why women shouldn’t be pressured into being married or having kids at any point of their lives. A women can wait 10+ years 2 degrees 6 figures and one husband later and once they have a child they absolutely hate being a mom. Even as a mom myself, it bothers me when people pressure women to be mothers. It’s beautiful and everything but it’s not light work at all!
@@simplysaiige Exactly. Society pressure women to have kids because they know all the burden of bringing up these children fall on the women never the men. I know women who got married young and had children young only to abandon their children.
I am 38 now and have a child who is now a teenager. I had my baby when I was in my early 20's. In all honestly I love my child, however, if I could rewind the tape and do it all over again, I probably wouldn't have had kids. Def it was the wrong person, wrong timing, and all the wrong reasons. Of course, you live and you learn and glad I did. I said to myself "well, your baby is now here but no more, one and done" and until this day I have kept it that way. One and done! My main focus now is supporting and watching my child grow while also focusing on me and enjoying life! This not just about just having kids, it is more than that!
I’m a man and I waited til I was over 40 to get married and if I had to do it over again . I will take my time and not fold to the pressure of to be married and have kids. I always appreciate a woman’s perspective!
As a first time mom, I can admit that I allowed the thoughts of being older contribute to having a baby. It’s not easy AT ALL. With that being said I will not allow nothing or no one manipulate me into a marriage.
But nothing worth having in life is easy - not getting an education, buying a house, planning a great vacation etc. Why would motherhood be any different? Life is hard
What else would you say? If your mother had that same selfish attitude, you would not even be here. Hope you have other siblings to carry-on your families bloodline, because if you are an only child, your relatives struggled and toiled throughout the centuries, only to have it come to an abrupt end because of your high standards and independence.
Because incels and the society keep shaming them making them feel like they have to be a baby factory and be married to have a happy fulfilling life, and that isn’t true. they use marriage and children to control women’s worth to make her focus all her energy on men, when she needs to focus her energy on herself and what she wants for her life, with or without the kids.
You're 40, not 60.. What is there to regret. Still have time to do all those things if it's for you. Kids are a blessing from God and should not be taken lightly. Stewart them well, and enjoy the blessings that come from your growing relationship as you age.
Women should have kids when THEY’RE ready….a man can leave and ALL the responsibility is yours! I love my marriage and my daughter is everything but I made sure I had my own, a great job which turned into a lucrative career, and living near my supportive family just in case. Also ladies not everyone looks bad and is miserable just because they’re married and have kids.
I needed this video. I overheard conversations about me or judged and told to in my face that I am selfish for not having kids or maybe because I want to keep my body and not ruin it, another was inappropriate when this woman mentioned to my foreman maybe I’m to busy satisfying myself and not getting enough from someone else. It is such an awful feeling how people conjure and assume these things and have no idea why I choose not to. It comes down to financial reasons or being sure I am in a healthy, trusting, stable relationship and so many other factors. And Yes people are upset and wonder if something is wrong with me. At it’s lowest it is insulting and degrading.
Having children is the most beautiful and rewarding feeling, but also if you don't at a certain age, thats fine too. You could be happy either way. As long as you surround yourself with love and support is important ❤
47 male no kid(s) no possibles. Fear of a baby momma was/is the main reason. I don't know anyone who went down that path who it wasn't any sort of bad drama. No regrets I'm not gonna lie and say sometimes I wonder but most of the time I'm extremely happy being able to do what I want. 25 countries 3 passport books in I'm happy 😊.
^^^ This is my friend yall!! Ladies, he’s a great catch, successful, good looking, and about his business. Please say hello so he can meet his special someone and retire from this forever bachelor ladies man lifestyle! 😂
@Ava2969ny depends on who you travel with and what you you do for fun. Couples I would say Central America and Europe. Singles a good portion of South America and the Caribbean. I haven't made it to Asia so no experience there.
I'm 37 years old, no wife, and no kids. I was once engaged to be married when I was 22 years old with my ex-fiancee at the time and that was the closest for me to ever getting close to being married. I would be open to it if it's with a decent woman
Make decisions that are right for YOU AND YOUR LIFE! DO NOT go off of what other people are doing! It doesn't matter if they are strangers, family, or friends, do whats best for YOU! Most people are followers and aren't strong enough to think for themselves throughout their life. A LOT of people need to be led. Lead yourself and have a vision for your life. If kids are what you want them have them but just be prepared to a T!
There is a big difference between other kids and your own creation. Stop coping and admit that you waited too long because of your unattainable high standards in men. You finally found a SIMP who allows you to wear the pants. He probably cooks for you while you sit on the couch watching NFL games.
@@THE-BASEMENTdifference is that latin american men dont date out, notice julissa bermudez date american males, and look at the results. guys in usa are not family oriented
@@kem1233 Because she is dating out of her league. She is an average looking woman in her late 30's, thinking that she can attract and keep high value men, but all they want from her is box. If she lowered her expectation and dated men according to her sexual market value, which is a average 9to5 man who makes 50K per year, she could find a decent man, but unfortunately those men are invisible to her because she thinks she deserves a high value man.
@@THE-BASEMENT no, its because she lives in usa and she is dealing with american males like you. she is average looking? have u seen american women lately, she is latina, she is better looking than your entire community yea because american males dont have care about marriage, even guys u said are average, decent guys, im sorry but those guys are not family oriented why u think gisele left USA and went to costa rica with a brazilian man. FACT SHE LEFT THE USA, what does that say about gisele n how she thinks of american guys sexual market place? im sorry but u guys are american males. look in the mirror, NOTICE U DONT SEE LOADS OF FOREIGN WOMEN TRYING TO GET TO USA AND GET AMERICAN MALES. NOO, u are guys are known as easy and easy to get money
40 years young and been with my partner for 3 years. He’s seven years younger than me. Best partner I could’ve ever imagined, after dating a lot of duds. Good things are worth the wait. Still don’t have kids, always knew I didn’t want them. A family is me, him and a dog. Kids are not necessary to have a “family” ladies. If you’re married, then your husband is your family. I’m happy for other people that have children that they wanted, but we all have to do it right for us. Do not succumb to societal pressure. I see more and more child-free married couples out there, and I’m sure that that number will continue to grow.
I have a friend who is in her mid 50s still not married and no kids and that’s ok. Sometimes God is not going to give us everything we want, sometimes it will come late but better for us. Enjoy your life ❤
Why is this still a relevant question to ask in 2024? There are many reasons why kids aren’t in the picture for some people. But we don’t know the future either. She may have her eggs frozen somewhere and is just waiting for the right partner to share kids with. We need to mind our business.
I'm 1992/32 but most days I'm sad im childless, not married and single. I'm always just to shy to express this with my friends and family, but alone I do cry. I'd be devastated to be 40 with no kids and no life partner. But, I'm glad she's happy, for me I can't say the same
Me too , as a teacher when my students who are 12 and 13 ask me my age..and tell me their mum is the same age as me im like what have i been doing all this time....intellctually i know that every avenue of life has its challenges but personally it feels like an existential crisis with perennial grief for how you prayed and hope life would be vs the actual reality
If it’s your desire to be married with children I pray the Lord will bless you with the right person and your desires will come to fruition. Remember delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart.
I met my husband after 30. Got married at 33, had child at 34. Yes there is a biological clock however I would wait till 30 again to really date and marry and have a child. I wouldn't be the mother I am in my 30s had I married in my 20s. You are not too late.
I had my daughter at age 24 and twins age 28 now I’m 30 . I just want to say that having kids is better when you wait for the right man and when you have a job/ career that works around your kids. I went into a field where I had to quit become the hours, pay and stress level didn’t align with my kids at all. In a perfect world I would of been a nurse and worked part time. And night shifts lol. But now my kids are at school aged and I’m still young enough to go back to school and become what I truly want and that works for my family. I’ve came across a lot of moms that get a degree and have to quit.
You can still pursue your nursing degree. If you're passionate about it go for it. I had a coworker who went to nursing school after her 3rd child. Granted she has a supportive husband and amazing support system. My dad always told me, "if there's a will, there's a way" ❤
Ladies while it’s your right to wait later in life, don’t gamble at the wrong casino. It’s very hard to get the man you want, to choose you later in life. You miss great opportunities at a husband and children while you’re focusing on something that doesn’t truly matter. While it’s your choice, he must choose you. Not that easy for the modern woman now.
There’s no such thing as simultaneously being ready for marriage AND kids. It’s assumed that once you marry, you rush to procreate. My husband and I married fairly quickly, but 8 years later we’re just now family planning. We always knew we wouldn’t have children within the first 5 years for various reasons. The best things our children can benefit in all of this is parents who have a strong marriage, are financially prepared, and who planned them in love.
People don talk about the pressure and the concept that you have to be perfect or double whole life is picked apart and torn into shreds! Julissa keep going ❤
What about the pressure you've put on decent men to meet your unrealistic expectations throughout your dating years? Then when that high-value man you thought you qualified for never comes, now you complain about all the pressure you're under? As an average woman, all you have to do was get with an average guy. But noooo, that is settling. We have an epidemic of average women all believing they deserve above average men.
The scary thing is being "delulu" at 40 is what will keep you single with no kids. You can get away with it when you're young but at some point you will have to sit yourself down and ask yourself do I want this or not? And if the answer is yes then stop wasting time and get to it. I'm tired of the "delulu" mentality it does nothing for you but keep you exactly where you're at as time passes you by. We need to be intentional and direct with ourselves about what we want from life, that's all.
Did they have any values when they were younger? That's the question. Sadly the US culture of sleep around with multiple people and get married later doesn't work for women; men don't want left overs.
to have or not have a family is her decision there's no right or wrong but regret now that's a totally different issue !! i've heard " i don't regret what i've done but i regret what i haven't done " if she's at peace then brava !!
I just had twins. It's NOT for the weak. Have them only if YOU want them. Not your husband, boyfriend, sneaky link, etc. Cause the burden is almost always left on the women.
I dont know why its so surprising for older women to be childfree. Its like do ppl see the state of the world and relationships. We all dont have to be the same. I dont care if a woman has 10 kids, just dont harass me for having none. I hope whatever Julissa ultimately chooses is right for her not others.
Remember when she cursed out Kim K to defend Adrienne, and Adrienne turned around and went back, being buddy buddy with the Kardashians???😩 Hope that was a lesson for her....
i dont want kids, ever but i want to get married so bad some day.. it'll be so hard because most men want kids, even if they dont even plan on taking care of them lol. to some of them having kids is a personal accomplishment and then their job is over. I dont want kids for many reasons and i wish i could meet a sweet man who happens to also not want kids. So hard...
Most people have allowed other peoples influence them into a marriage they shouldn’t be in and in some case alone with children. Every woman has a different journey, we don’t all have to do it in the same way.
38, single and not interested in kids, I wanna focus on creating an amazing lifestyle for me and dating myself and will consider having a family in my own time. Loving the comments ❤
I am a 52-year-old woman and have felt like her. I love kids and work with them, but I was always on the fence about having any, so I chose not to. That is a decision you better be 100% sure about. I can't believe people are still pressuring folks mainly women to have kids in 2024. You can be a man who wants to be a woman, but you can't be a woman who does not want kids.... MAKE IT MAKE SENSE
Right!!! such a vain perspective. I have a child. I'm 41 and I don't think I look older because I have a kid. Is just life. Blessed to live long enough to get old 🙏🏾
I think so, but I don’t think she means it in a vicious way. It’s the stress, depression, anxiety that comes from having children. I think it ages you faster. I also think it’s harder to take care of yourself
Fam, best believe this woman has had her share of men since she was a teenager. She's had her pick of men that she could have married... Odds are she was attracted to men that were not suitable for marriage. But ultimately, she is the reason why she isn't married.
This conversation is being ran all the way into the ground. When will we learn that everyone’s life will look different. Some people will have families … others will not. It’s just life. You are not incomplete as a person if you don’t have kids. Just to add: There are plenty of women who do have children and look youthful. Smh If you get married at 25 or 45 as long it’s healthy and with the right individual the age does not matter. Just live your life without comparison.
I got married at 40 and got pregnant very easily a few months later. It has been 5 years now and my family is such a blessing. I am happy I waited for the right man. Nothing is impossible with God ladies.
Needed to read this
Thank you.
I'm 36
Patiently waiting 4 God to bless me
@@christinarivera8216 Praying for you.
@LisaS483 thank youuuu
Lucky you got a good man. I tried last year at 39 and the guy I invested in was such a judgemental/critical asshole.
If given the choice now, I'd rather have a good child than a good husband if I had to choose only one. I've been so jaded by the opposite sex it's not even funny. 😞
Amen God bless 🙏✝️
Having kids should not be taken lightly
should NOT! and I wish I was taught that
THANK YOU!
There are A LOT of people who feel this way who have kids! I agree it's not something to just do. It should be well thought out and planned from A-Z
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@@OurPerez Yet must be prioritized.
Being married is not the goal. Being married to the RIGHT person is the goal. Having kids with the wrong person is HELL. Kids are ALOT of work and responsibility. A lot of mothers aren’t even happy and resent it.
you got that right!
You will meet the right person if you stop giving up box prior to marriage. Why would a man need to marry you if he already getting the box prior to?
I was married and had my kids by him and it didn’t last but I was able to experience it. So many women are looking for this super duper relationship that never happens. Everyone goes into marriage thinking forever but if it’s not forever doesn’t mean he was the wrong man or you were the wrong woman just 💩 happens
@@THE-BASEMENTThis is an overly simplistic and obtuse comment.
@@stockholmsweden1142 Sht cho ShawShank Redemption arse up.
I’m a 36 year old male who’s been married for five years with a 4 year old child. People need to stop harshly judging women who don’t have kids. Being a parent is the most difficult task in the world and requires individuals to be in a good place mentally, emotionally, financially, and physically in order to raise a child in the most ideal circumstance possible. If you are not ready then it is better that you don’t have children for the sake of that child. Being a good parent requires complete selflessness. There are times where I just want to relax and watch football but can’t because my child wants to play or has a dance class to attend. There are nights that I need full sleep but my child had a bad dream and we have to soothe. Marriage has been challenging at times since our child was born… arguing about our different parenting philosophies or feeling bitterness that one of us isn’t pulling our weight. With all that said, I have never been happier than the last four years of being a dad and my wife feels so complete as a family. I’ve been able to travel the world, own luxury cars, watches, and nice house. No amount of materialistic items and experiences has come close to what having my child has felt.
How did you afford all of that stuff at a relatively young age! I even get curious but JEALOUS of young, rich people it's really not fair!
@ my wife’s an attorney and I’m a radiologist. You seem to be missing the point of the context of my comment though.
You still can be a father at the age of 80yo. Women can't. They have a time limit to it.
That’s a long ass comment
@@Luiz-w5syes, but who’s tryna be a father at 80? u men can say things like this bc u know that women do MAJORITY of their child rearing and upkeep of the home and most men dont. literally the reason why women aren’t rushing to have kids or don’t want any at all bc it’s ALOT of work and falls solely on the mother. Smh.
Julissa is drop dead gorgeous. She’s doing something right. Look at her. God is never late ❤
That attractive no prince charming and cutes babies, she's definitely has a dark side that much her beauty and runs men off.
@@lastsam9846 Many people are getting married in their 40s now (men and women). Conversely, many people who get married in their 20s and have children are getting divorced. The absence of a partner/children at any age is a no longer a red flag nor is it indicative of some huge character flaws.
@@lastsam9846projection. She just doesn’t care for “pRiNcE ChArmInG” and the marriage like u incels do. why is it so hard for u guys to accept that someone can be happy not being a baby factory, or married to a man? we already have 8 billion ppl on the planet, we’ll all be fine. 😂😂😂
She’s right .. I’m 33 and people always want to ask me why I don’t have kids, why am I just having kids to have kids
Social media has average women getting dm's from men around the world causing these women to believe that they are 8's 9's and 10's instead of the 5's that most women are. These women then believe that they all deserve high-value men, just because nga's be in they dm's, or they may have been flewed out and got smashed by an athlete or two. Average looking hard working men are invisible to most of these women because of how much attention they get on social media by posting provocative images of themselves. Then when they turn 35, that's when they start to realize that they wish they'd focused more on finding a good man, instead of expecting men out of their league to wife them. Women NEVER take responsibility for their poor life decisions. Like Kevin Samuels said, the 3 most prevalent characteristics of a woman is the need to shame, guilt and need to be right AT ALL TIMES.
You know, im in my late 30s and people ask me the same thing. But I figured out, let me put you on the spot and ask you why YOU had kids or wanted kids…you will start to get some answers that you may not have been expecting for them to say 🧐
@@dannicakes6837 Women are so solipsistic. You either ignored or turned down dozens of viable men during your early 20's into your early to mid 30's because they failed to meet your unrealistic expectations, and now that you are outside of your most attractive years as it relates to men, you are forced to create a new narrative about why you don't want children, when if fact deep down you probably do, but your inability to lower your standards and find a man on your level has prevented you from realizing your true purpose which is motherhood within a loving family. The average man earns roughly 50K, is 5'10 tall and is completely satisfied with that. This average man is invisible to 80% of single women who are all desperately chasing the top 20 percent of men and being used as sneaky links hoping to become the main chic.
@@THE-BASEMENTexactly lol talking about flipping the script asking why they want kids lol never trust a woman who doesn’t want kids or a family. If it doesn’t happen cool but not wanting it is just weird as a human being
Or why should I rush to have children with unsuitable partners???
Don’t let people guilt you into that life. Most of them are miserable. 💙💙
advice from bw is so kooky lol
These entertainment women are already married, they are married to their careers and the children are the performances and movies they get booked for. There is NO WAY on earth they will give that up to be with a man they love, admire and respect to start a family. Julissa and Roxy both could have married a respectable man years ago, but by being in the industry, they believe they some how qualify for a top tier, A-list man, when in reality they both are just average looking women. Their delusion keeps them without a husband and family. And this entire interview was meant to provide a safe place to cope.
Hopefully that isn't your reasoning for choosing that life, because a lot of them are happy too. Believe it or not we can manifest our dream life if we see ourselves as worthy.
yes exactly this! everyone I know with kids is MISERABLE!!!!
@@bnwo Yes because too much of it is ego driven. "Things didn't work out for me so let me promote the same to others."
Mom here 👋kids are a constant bill. Be prepared.
😂😂😂😂
Im 35 year young woman. I only want kids under the context of marriage.
Outside of that I have zero desire.
I only want to marry if the person makes sense and deeply respects me.
It seems like you don’t actually want kids if you only want them to complete a picture or fulfill a narrative. You probably shouldn’t have kids.
If you only want kids if your married, than please don’t .
I don't want kids at all but I understand where you're coming from. If you don't mind me asking, If you found a man who deeply respects you and that makes sense, would you consider marrying him and having kids with him if he already has ,kid(s) from previous relationships and/or marriage?
@AnomalyBelleza next question do you have an active dating life because, you can have this but I just notice that the most principal sounding women expect these men to just knock on their doors it doesn't happen that way
@@imParisthoee Great observation. Slight adjustment. I noticed my statement probably doesn’t say exactly what I mean. What I mean is that I am totally open to children only under the context of marriage.
Which probably shows you that I’m not really even desiring children in the first place. I’m more so open to it and welcoming of it, and I know that I would absolutely embrace it once married as opposed to not being married. I’m even open to not having children as a married woman if my spouse feels the same way.
The nonnegotiable for me is me having children outside of a marriage.
I’m 39 years old virgin never married no kids
really, how come?
do you regret it too?
How beautiful. You're not missing anything, you gem. ❤
you did GREAT! Many men are not worthy of bringing kids in this world
Enjoy it. You haven’t missed anything really. I enjoy running around and promiscuity but it is not for everyone for sure. 😂
good for u...pray to God to give u a good man,
49 no man no kids. I’m blessed anyway
Hello, I have a male friend that is looking for a wife, he’s a good man, single, 58 y/o, if you are interested to connect with him, let me know…
Careful now life gets really lonely after next year
@@rebaonematsau2069not really. Lmao, as long as u have friends, hobbies and I’m sure she’s a great aunt and sibling you are fine. don’t need to get married or have kids. Leave ppl alone.
Having kids is such a personal important decision in your life. Had my first in my mid 30s with my husband. I’m incredibly grateful and blessed as I was unable to have kids. After 17 years of marriage, a miracle happened and had my first born. Just gave birth to my second 3 months ago and now that I am a mom of 2 I can say they are my biggest accomplishment. Every time I look into their eyes, I see the miracle that happened twice in my life. I don’t judge anyone who doesn’t want kids but if you want them, go ahead! It’s work, it’s stressful but it’s the purest love I’ve ever experienced. 😢
Congratulations hun! What would you say is the most stressful thing about mommyhood and how do you cope with it? Any tips?
I love Julissa being so honest about this and Rocsi even bringing it up. Shout out to our 106 & Park veteran ladies!! Love the growth in the their careers
I'm an older mom. I had my daughter at 35 and she is 8 and I regret not being married. I love my child to the depths of my being but I would have preferred a healthy marriage then the kid. The positives my child is absolutely beautiful, smart, funny, happy, bossy, sassy, and all the things. I’m learning to accept things as they are and change what I can control. It took 8 years to get here though. Kids or not live the best life you can. I will say my daughter motivated me to be better. ❤❤
Let me add although I'm a single mom we are not struggling. My daughter attends a great school, in activities, basketball, karate, tennis, volleyball, etc. I do not get child support. I work hard and I do what is necessary to provide her with options and opportunities.
I agree!! Same here. I would have wanted a healthy marriage first, then my daughter.
Good day gorgeous ladies greetings 👋.
I just wanted to add something here if I may.
I’m a happily married woman ,mom of 3 beautiful kids two girls and one boy age 7,5,2 I love them to death,great husband he provides and protects all the things I wished for in a man but! In Oder to have all this I had to move far away from my family to have the family I have now ,so please don’t have any regrets life gives you it wants to give you there’s always some kind of price to pay.
Blessings to you.
@@ajohonly3721 I’m the opposite. I stayed in the same city I grew up in. Unbeknownst to me I ended up being the primary caregiver for my mom until her death. I wanted to live in NY after college. Life has a way of teaching us things we never knew we needed. Congratulations on your marriage.
@@lindadukes
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Kids aren't for everyone. They are a blessing, though. I have no clue who I would be if not for being my daughter's father. Not that I have no individual identity, but the reason for being is so heightened, and she's opened my eyes to so much. Some stressful times for sure, but what's life without any stress? I'd advise the masses to slow down and make sure things are built on a solid foundation, but not to avoid kids altogether in fear of how hard it'll be.
Im a 43 year old female and single with no kids and I like it
41 and me too!
I married and had my child in my 30s. I was very happy while unmarried and happy married.
Singleness is a gift most people do not appreciate.
Enjoy it! It's beautiful too!
Me as well. I feel no pressure
Same..I’m 47. 😊
47y/o. Same here!
Julissa looks so good! looking like late 20’s
NO
@@imtheslothking what you’re saying isn’t gonna change my mind you could of kept that to yourself it’s not that hard
@@imtheslothkinghater
Everyone has their opinion@@janomesteve3129
Honestly both of these ladies aged well. Looks like a healthy 30 something.
Julissa , if your deepest desire is to have a family. Don't let society talk you out of that dream. God put it in your heart for a reason. No matter what age you are. God can create beautiful miracles through you. He did it with Sara , Isaac , Elizabeth and he will do it with you. ❤ Con cariño 🇩🇴
Yes!! 🙌
❤❤❤❤❤ thanks for reminding me
@@HealthWealth-sy2jq ♥️♥️
@@Jaycarbrownie12 You are very welcome 💕💕💕
@@Yarénisestherthanks for reminding me too! ❤❤
I really am not interested in being a parent…All it’s going to do is add extra stress and I know I can’t handle it.
I admire you for knowing yourself and there’s nothing wrong with your preference to not wanting children. You are clear on your why…The issue with some women is that they don’t want to admit their truth. I look at a lot of these women especially in Hollywood and you can see the sadness ie Vivica A. Fox.
@@absolutetreasures6877 FACTS! This is what I came here to say! Also, I dislike that people who may have been ill prepared to be a parent makes parenting seem so horrific! I get it may be challenging, but the greatest impact we can make on earth is to raise a decent human - IMO. I also respect those who know themselves well enough to know they don't want children. I just wish this conversation was more balanced.
@@absolutetreasures6877can you see the sadness or is that your own projection?
@@jas1565facts
@absolutetreasures6877 I don't think that's our place, to decide for another woman what she regrets or what she accepts about her life story. Just observe, focus on your own path and grow. Projecting on to others isn't cool
It’s not too late. Look at Ashanti ❤
TBF, she doesn't even sound like she wants marriage and/or kids. It sounds like she's content with where her life is, but she hasn't yet learned how to ignore societal pressures. Prior to getting back with Nelly, Ashanti made it clear that she desired motherhood.
I'm happily married with 3 kids and I cannot imagine life without them. My husband and children bring so much joy and purpose to my life.
Good for you. That's exactly how you *should* feel if you made the decision to marry and bring human beings into the world.
@@HighMaintenanceMinimalistYea should feel absolutely. This is why women shouldn’t be pressured into being married or having kids at any point of their lives. A women can wait 10+ years 2 degrees 6 figures and one husband later and once they have a child they absolutely hate being a mom. Even as a mom myself, it bothers me when people pressure women to be mothers. It’s beautiful and everything but it’s not light work at all!
@@simplysaiige Exactly. Society pressure women to have kids because they know all the burden of bringing up these children fall on the women never the men. I know women who got married young and had children young only to abandon their children.
I am 38 now and have a child who is now a teenager. I had my baby when I was in my early 20's. In all honestly I love my child, however, if I could rewind the tape and do it all over again, I probably wouldn't have had kids. Def it was the wrong person, wrong timing, and all the wrong reasons. Of course, you live and you learn and glad I did. I said to myself "well, your baby is now here but no more, one and done" and until this day I have kept it that way. One and done! My main focus now is supporting and watching my child grow while also focusing on me and enjoying life! This not just about just having kids, it is more than that!
I’m a man and I waited til I was over 40 to get married and if I had to do it over again . I will take my time and not fold to the pressure of to be married and have kids. I always appreciate a woman’s perspective!
Love this!
You are not a women so take your time bro
You’re also a man so you don’t have that “biological clock” or societal pressures the way women do
You think waiting til 40 isn't taking your time?
@Shalayah2010 Man do have a biological clock. Age affects everyone.
This woman is 40!? She looks so young!
As a first time mom, I can admit that I allowed the thoughts of being older contribute to having a baby. It’s not easy AT ALL. With that being said I will not allow nothing or no one manipulate me into a marriage.
But nothing worth having in life is easy - not getting an education, buying a house, planning a great vacation etc. Why would motherhood be any different? Life is hard
Having a child & buying a house don’t compare.
it's like women don't give themselves permission to say, I feel complete with no reservations or hesitation to be single and childfree
maybe they can't keep lying to themselves anymore?
What else would you say? If your mother had that same selfish attitude, you would not even be here. Hope you have other siblings to carry-on your families bloodline, because if you are an only child, your relatives struggled and toiled throughout the centuries, only to have it come to an abrupt end because of your high standards and independence.
@@lucasfrank8843What an obtuse comment.
Not me. Marriage and kids would make me miserable. I am single, childfree, not interested in dating either. I'm good
Because incels and the society keep shaming them making them feel like they have to be a baby factory and be married to have a happy fulfilling life, and that isn’t true. they use marriage and children to control women’s worth to make her focus all her energy on men, when she needs to focus her energy on herself and what she wants for her life, with or without the kids.
As a 41 year old man with no kids . I have no regrets . I love kids but I also enjoy my freedom and peace .
You're 40, not 60.. What is there to regret. Still have time to do all those things if it's for you. Kids are a blessing from God and should not be taken lightly. Stewart them well, and enjoy the blessings that come from your growing relationship as you age.
Society puts so much pressure on age, marriage, children. Everyone has a unique journey! We should embrace where we are.
Feminism has put most women on a specific journey which is a obsessive career and selfish addiction to thirst-trap attention on IG.
Julissa is a beautiful spirit!
Seeing women healthy and happy is so heart warming ❤
Women should have kids when THEY’RE ready….a man can leave and ALL the responsibility is yours! I love my marriage and my daughter is everything but I made sure I had my own, a great job which turned into a lucrative career, and living near my supportive family just in case. Also ladies not everyone looks bad and is miserable just because they’re married and have kids.
I needed this video. I overheard conversations about me or judged and told to in my face that I am selfish for not having kids or maybe because I want to keep my body and not ruin it, another was inappropriate when this woman mentioned to my foreman maybe I’m to busy satisfying myself and not getting enough from someone else. It is such an awful feeling how people conjure and assume these things and have no idea why I choose not to. It comes down to financial reasons or being sure I am in a healthy, trusting, stable relationship and so many other factors. And Yes people are upset and wonder if something is wrong with me. At it’s lowest it is insulting and degrading.
Having children is the most beautiful and rewarding feeling, but also if you don't at a certain age, thats fine too. You could be happy either way. As long as you surround yourself with love and support is important ❤
47 male no kid(s) no possibles. Fear of a baby momma was/is the main reason. I don't know anyone who went down that path who it wasn't any sort of bad drama. No regrets I'm not gonna lie and say sometimes I wonder but most of the time I'm extremely happy being able to do what I want. 25 countries 3 passport books in I'm happy 😊.
You are a be-ta male.
^^^ This is my friend yall!! Ladies, he’s a great catch, successful, good looking, and about his business. Please say hello so he can meet his special someone and retire from this forever bachelor ladies man lifestyle! 😂
@gingerspice108 you bastard 😂.
Which country/countries do you like the best and why? Asking because I plan to start traveling extensively too.
@Ava2969ny depends on who you travel with and what you you do for fun. Couples I would say Central America and Europe. Singles a good portion of South America and the Caribbean. I haven't made it to Asia so no experience there.
I'm 37 years old, no wife, and no kids. I was once engaged to be married when I was 22 years old with my ex-fiancee at the time and that was the closest for me to ever getting close to being married. I would be open to it if it's with a decent woman
“You don’t know what you don’t know”….most important statement in the whole interview…..
Love this! She’s happy with her life. God has a plan for us all with a family or without a family.
I had my twin boys at 32. The biggest blessings of my life!
Make decisions that are right for YOU AND YOUR LIFE! DO NOT go off of what other people are doing! It doesn't matter if they are strangers, family, or friends, do whats best for YOU! Most people are followers and aren't strong enough to think for themselves throughout their life. A LOT of people need to be led. Lead yourself and have a vision for your life. If kids are what you want them have them but just be prepared to a T!
38, in love, and so grateful I never had kids. I had to raise at least 10 kids growing up and Im not interested in going back.
Men from latin america. They dont see her as wife material she is americanized. Thats why she is stuck in usa.
There is a big difference between other kids and your own creation. Stop coping and admit that you waited too long because of your unattainable high standards in men. You finally found a SIMP who allows you to wear the pants. He probably cooks for you while you sit on the couch watching NFL games.
@@THE-BASEMENTdifference is that latin american men dont date out, notice julissa bermudez date american males, and look at the results. guys in usa are not family oriented
@@kem1233 Because she is dating out of her league. She is an average looking woman in her late 30's, thinking that she can attract and keep high value men, but all they want from her is box. If she lowered her expectation and dated men according to her sexual market value, which is a average 9to5 man who makes 50K per year, she could find a decent man, but unfortunately those men are invisible to her because she thinks she deserves a high value man.
@@THE-BASEMENT no, its because she lives in usa and she is dealing with american males like you.
she is average looking? have u seen american women lately, she is latina, she is better looking than your entire community
yea because american males dont have care about marriage, even guys u said are average, decent guys, im sorry but those guys are not family oriented
why u think gisele left USA and went to costa rica with a brazilian man. FACT SHE LEFT THE USA, what does that say about gisele n how she thinks of american guys
sexual market place? im sorry but u guys are american males. look in the mirror, NOTICE U DONT SEE LOADS OF FOREIGN WOMEN TRYING TO GET TO USA AND GET AMERICAN MALES. NOO, u are guys are known as easy and easy to get money
Y’all ain’t missing out on shit believe me you 😂.
I got 3 of them.
😂. Thanks love.
Lollll
Thank you for your honesty 😍
Thank you for sharing!!!!!
Frfr!! Tell em Sis 😆🤣😂 I have 2
40 years young and been with my partner for 3 years. He’s seven years younger than me. Best partner I could’ve ever imagined, after dating a lot of duds. Good things are worth the wait. Still don’t have kids, always knew I didn’t want them. A family is me, him and a dog. Kids are not necessary to have a “family” ladies. If you’re married, then your husband is your family. I’m happy for other people that have children that they wanted, but we all have to do it right for us. Do not succumb to societal pressure. I see more and more child-free married couples out there, and I’m sure that that number will continue to grow.
I have a friend who is in her mid 50s still not married and no kids and that’s ok.
Sometimes God is not going to give us everything we want, sometimes it will come late but better for us.
Enjoy your life ❤
It’s nice to hear from another woman being honest. ❤
Why is this still a relevant question to ask in 2024? There are many reasons why kids aren’t in the picture for some people. But we don’t know the future either. She may have her eggs frozen somewhere and is just waiting for the right partner to share kids with. We need to mind our business.
Society is obsessed with humbling women with no kids. That’s the only method of control they have over us and our worth.
I'm 1992/32 but most days I'm sad im childless, not married and single. I'm always just to shy to express this with my friends and family, but alone I do cry. I'd be devastated to be 40 with no kids and no life partner. But, I'm glad she's happy, for me I can't say the same
Me too , as a teacher when my students who are 12 and 13 ask me my age..and tell me their mum is the same age as me im like what have i been doing all this time....intellctually i know that every avenue of life has its challenges but personally it feels like an existential crisis with perennial grief for how you prayed and hope life would be vs the actual reality
Your time will come ❤ one day at a time
If it’s your desire to be married with children I pray the Lord will bless you with the right person and your desires will come to fruition. Remember delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart.
@@tishatarayI agree with @wonderingwendy
I met my husband after 30. Got married at 33, had child at 34. Yes there is a biological clock however I would wait till 30 again to really date and marry and have a child. I wouldn't be the mother I am in my 30s had I married in my 20s.
You are not too late.
I dont know her but shes so real and relateable
Great commentary❤
I had my daughter at age 24 and twins age 28 now I’m 30 .
I just want to say that having kids is better when you wait for the right man and when you have a job/ career that works around your kids.
I went into a field where I had to quit become the hours, pay and stress level didn’t align with my kids at all.
In a perfect world I would of been a nurse and worked part time. And night shifts lol.
But now my kids are at school aged and I’m still young enough to go back to school and become what I truly want and that works for my family.
I’ve came across a lot of moms that get a degree and have to quit.
You can still pursue your nursing degree. If you're passionate about it go for it. I had a coworker who went to nursing school after her 3rd child. Granted she has a supportive husband and amazing support system. My dad always told me, "if there's a will, there's a way" ❤
@ thank you for the encouragement ❤️🙏🏼
I think it's just a matter of choice but I would think it would be more comfortable to school before children and get financially stable
Enjoy your life! It goes by fast!❤😊
She has an unexpectedly deep voice
lol 😂 not unexpectedly she doesn’t look like she has some valley girl voice lol 😂 you need to get out more hello Alicia keys Beyoncé etc
It’s NY😂
I love it! Her voice gives character
Completely Complete! Well Said 🙌
Julissa is gorgeous! She will be just fine! She’s still
Young ❤
Ladies while it’s your right to wait later in life, don’t gamble at the wrong casino. It’s very hard to get the man you want, to choose you later in life. You miss great opportunities at a husband and children while you’re focusing on something that doesn’t truly matter. While it’s your choice, he must choose you. Not that easy for the modern woman now.
40 male. No kids no marriage. No stress. So happy.
No legacy also. That's sad.
There’s no such thing as simultaneously being ready for marriage AND kids. It’s assumed that once you marry, you rush to procreate. My husband and I married fairly quickly, but 8 years later we’re just now family planning. We always knew we wouldn’t have children within the first 5 years for various reasons. The best things our children can benefit in all of this is parents who have a strong marriage, are financially prepared, and who planned them in love.
I can relate to what she is saying 100%
People don talk about the pressure and the concept that you have to be perfect or double whole life is picked apart and torn into shreds! Julissa keep going ❤
What about the pressure you've put on decent men to meet your unrealistic expectations throughout your dating years? Then when that high-value man you thought you qualified for never comes, now you complain about all the pressure you're under? As an average woman, all you have to do was get with an average guy. But noooo, that is settling. We have an epidemic of average women all believing they deserve above average men.
Marrige is not for everyone, it's even written in the bible. Live your life ❤
Sex before marriage is also a sin. Live a celibate life by all means if you choose.
The scary thing is being "delulu" at 40 is what will keep you single with no kids. You can get away with it when you're young but at some point you will have to sit yourself down and ask yourself do I want this or not? And if the answer is yes then stop wasting time and get to it. I'm tired of the "delulu" mentality it does nothing for you but keep you exactly where you're at as time passes you by. We need to be intentional and direct with ourselves about what we want from life, that's all.
two beautiful women, single with no kids in their 40s, make it make sense. maybe its the industry they are in ... someone chime in
Did they have any values when they were younger? That's the question. Sadly the US culture of sleep around with multiple people and get married later doesn't work for women; men don't want left overs.
Itll happen when the time is right❤
I really like freedom lol it just is what it is
Me too
Please let em know, bc the freedom i have rn, id never trade it 👌🏾😌
@@lisalisa3223 💯💯 Yes to this!!
Enjoyed the video ❤ love you two
Kids are overrated, enjoy your life, freedom and body
you were once a child that comment makes no sense
Vivica Fox shut cho olld asssssss up.
You clearly have no kids, and if you do, and still made this comment, they should be taken away from you. Ok that was a bit harsh. Sorry about that.
@@MelvinsCleaningSolutionsOkay and? She is saying having kids is overrated goofy
@@marcushicks5635You are mad weird lmfaooo
to have or not have a family is her decision there's no right or wrong but regret now that's a totally different issue !! i've heard " i don't regret what i've done but i regret what i haven't done " if she's at peace then brava !!
I just had twins.
It's NOT for the weak. Have them only if YOU want them. Not your husband, boyfriend, sneaky link, etc. Cause the burden is almost always left on the women.
I dont know why its so surprising for older women to be childfree. Its like do ppl see the state of the world and relationships. We all dont have to be the same. I dont care if a woman has 10 kids, just dont harass me for having none. I hope whatever Julissa ultimately chooses is right for her not others.
Remember when she cursed out Kim K to defend Adrienne, and Adrienne turned around and went back, being buddy buddy with the Kardashians???😩 Hope that was a lesson for her....
Sure was 😂
Very good response, the honesty.
You can always adopt, if you really want a baby because you can be a blessing to adoption ❤ ladies always remember please 🙏🏽💞
i dont want kids, ever but i want to get married so bad some day.. it'll be so hard because most men want kids, even if they dont even plan on taking care of them lol. to some of them having kids is a personal accomplishment and then their job is over. I dont want kids for many reasons and i wish i could meet a sweet man who happens to also not want kids. So hard...
No way she’s 40 im 39 and she was never just one year older then me know way lol
lol right ! Didn’t know we were so close in age
I have kids. My friends stare at me searching for grey hairs/ wrinkles because I look great too for 40.
Never settle ❤
she didn't prepare for these questions ...it hurt watching her. She is amazing and very successful so please stop asking.
Most people have allowed other peoples influence them into a marriage they shouldn’t be in and in some case alone with children. Every woman has a different journey, we don’t all have to do it in the same way.
38, single and not interested in kids, I wanna focus on creating an amazing lifestyle for me and dating myself and will consider having a family in my own time. Loving the comments ❤
We all have choices until the options is no longer on the table.
Understandable, however your biological clock is real.
@@VW777 yeh and men expire too when they reach mid 40s
I am a 52-year-old woman and have felt like her. I love kids and work with them, but I was always on the fence about having any, so I chose not to. That is a decision you better be 100% sure about. I can't believe people are still pressuring folks mainly women to have kids in 2024. You can be a man who wants to be a woman, but you can't be a woman who does not want kids.... MAKE IT MAKE SENSE
Ok Ms Julissa, are you saying women with kids looks older..
Right!!! such a vain perspective. I have a child. I'm 41 and I don't think I look older because I have a kid. Is just life. Blessed to live long enough to get old 🙏🏾
I think so, but I don’t think she means it in a vicious way. It’s the stress, depression, anxiety that comes from having children. I think it ages you faster. I also think it’s harder to take care of yourself
@@SabrinaFernandez-j3kAgreed. Having kids ages one - that’s FACTS!
Hell yeah , having kids makes women look older . The stress ages you
@@raquelr8775 you must not take care of yourself
Fam, best believe this woman has had her share of men since she was a teenager. She's had her pick of men that she could have married... Odds are she was attracted to men that were not suitable for marriage. But ultimately, she is the reason why she isn't married.
All you need is a loyal man who will sacrifice. Raising kids is hard and requires loyalty, compromise, and sacrifice.
One could be complacent with the world or be eager for love. I think one can only be satisfied one way
This conversation is being ran all the way into the ground. When will we learn that everyone’s life will look different. Some people will have families … others will not. It’s just life. You are not incomplete as a person if you don’t have kids.
Just to add: There are plenty of women who do have children and look youthful. Smh
If you get married at 25 or 45 as long it’s healthy and with the right individual the age does not matter. Just live your life without comparison.
She dodged a bullet with Maxwell though.
Oh Lawd❤❤❤❤❤❤
YOU AINT MISSING OUT ON ANYTHING AND THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. THE WORLD SHOULD NORMALIZE NOT HAVING CHILDREN.
Super immature to say that she wouldn’t look the way she looks. That’s her priority
Botox and surgery can help. No issue there.
Julissa Bermudez 💫💫💫💫
Kids don’t age you, age ages you. Selfish.
Oh, take a joke and relax 🙃
If she were to have little kids in her 40s she would be miserable!! Late 20s early 30s is the time.
But she will/ and is regretting it!!
Very true
She should explain why she was dressed up as an angel at a diddy party pictures are everywhere
Like a Wiseman said. You can't make this shit up 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Why did i think she had a kid with Colin Kapernick?!?! 😵💫😵💫 Am i thinking of a diff person?!?! I must be 🤦🏿♀️
Different person
What did I just watch
This is quite sad, and she seems to be lying to herself.
Rocsi could have worded that question better smh
I thought she was the best looking female host on 106 and Park.If she looking I'm single.
date a regular guy who will appreciate u trust hardworker
u will never be happy
So help me understand, someone gave birth to us, but we don’t want to give birth ourselves. How is that not selfish?
So get pregnant and report back