It annoys me when people are like “Oh, you are 45, you look so young” People have set the bar so low pn appearance that they expect people to start aging horrendously at 30. Honey, if you take care of yourself, you shouldn’t start aging till you are 70.
I retired at 52 and honestly, I wish I’d done it sooner. The 9-to-5 grind always steals your freedom for a paycheck that barely scratches the surface. My advice? If you’re in your late 30s or early 40s, start saving for FIRE now (Financial Independence, Retire Early.) And if you’re in your 50s, invest smartly and break free from relying on your job. Market trends, like the Trump Effect, have made millions for many, including me. Stay focused, stay consistent, and remember financial freedom is within reach if you make it a priority.
Working with Lorrie Greta Hillard , a financial advisor, was a game changer. She helped me refine my savings strategy, including retirement planning, and provided expert guidance on investments and budgeting to maximize my savings.
Yes! I am 36 and I began my FIRE journey last year. I plan to "Barista" FIRE (working PT) by my mid-40s, 50 at the absolute latest. I am saving + investing a large chunk of my earnings and remaining debt-free. F these jobs, for real! I have dreams of doing nothing but indulging in hobbies that bring me joy for the majority of my days!
This video helped me. I just turned 30 instantly hit depression beginning of 2025. Suddenly felt clueless as to who I am, suddenly felt dark. Confused like who is this what is happening this isn't me. You touched on that, i thought i was losing my mind. Thank you for this video.
@@queenchrissy. You’re not losing your mind AT ALL, just growing. Almost always uncomfortable and sometimes comes with shadows. Just be present to it all 😉
I’m 24 & in my final year at Uni ,feeling so left behind 💔 because my peers are already working or getting married and then there’s me whose still trying to figure life out (so frustrating) but hopeful & trusting God’s timing 🤍
The timeline about the 20s and 30s is so accurate. I felt like you were speaking my life so far. My 30s started off so intense and the first year I had to learn how to be still. In my 20s I was the queen of pivoting and in my late 20s I got extremely burnt out. As much as we’re all living our individual lives we’re also living the same lives as well. Very beautiful perspective on aging overall. We’re constantly growing and changing and we need to stop and take it in. Being present in our current seasons. God is so good and our existence is proof of that.
I heard your South African accent come thru and I LOVE IT!!! I always love seeing brilliant South African women making their mark! Congrats on all your successes and thank you for the amazing video!
@@nenenicole8291 To be honest with you, you do know! You may need to more stillness to uncover it from within. You may need to cut out the noise from flashy things you *wanna* be good at, but that your soul’s not as interested in. I’d put money down that you know. And that telling yourself you don’t know is a temporary and *chosen* narrative that keeps you frustrated and off your true path. Find stillness. And know🌱😉
"I strive to thrive wherever am planted" what a beautiful quote that I've learnt today. Thank you so much for educating us from your own personal life journey. And you've given me hope today just by learning that you got pregnant at the age of 39! That's incredible and I wish you all the best
Just saw you pop up and am a first timer here. You look fabulous, you sound great, and right out the gate you are delivering. I’m new to the 40s club and love seeing people give back by sharing insights to help those younger than them. Keep going with this sis!!!! Subscribed!
To tell you the truth life begins @ 40. every stage of life have a lesson to be learned. We can't rush it. Even if you know about things experience is what's going to teach us. I'm so grateful for everything.
@@ham.h98 SO wise!!! Knowing it theoretically vs. experiencing it in your body is the whole damn point of life and the greatest teacher on earth. Imagine trying to teach someone what it feels like to fall in love without the actual experience 🤣😂🙈Life-through experience-teaches us. ✨
You look amazing! Beautiful dress, skin glowing, smile. I pray I make it your age and that wise. Thank you for this! I just turned 35 on Sunday. I’m looking forward to my future. 🎉
WOW! Thank you so much and Ok, 35🥰💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽Happiest Birthday. I love that for you and LOVE the part about looking forward to an AMAZING future--it's already done🌱✨
Just became subscriber #645, your video just popped up on my feed and I really needed to hear the message having just turned 34 and feeling somewhat lost in life. Thank you for the words of wisdom!
@@prettiegalswag So SO Grateful this landed and absolutely appreciate your being here🙏🏾🥰 The feeling of being lost is funny, more common than we think and part of helping us shift toward our purpose. It’s like a signal to pay attention. Keep going😉
I took all my youth in school and can’t find a job in my career. I missed out on the focus of a family. Chasing money and a career. Now I’m not married with no children. Think wisely
I am 29 and turn 30 in a month and I have the worst anxiety. Life feels so weird and everyone seems to hold it together. I am not doing that well tbh although I am accomplished
@@xy4669 Hey! First, Thanks so much for being here👋 I’m really sorry you’re going through tough anxiety. Have you ever listed to The Mel Robbin’s Podcast? Like you, she’s quite accomplished and is very open about her chronic anxiety and some of the tools that have helped her over the years (shes 50+). May resonate with you, idk. Just want you to understand you’re NOT alone and there’s 💯tools to help you and a different way of life. Also check out Oprah’s current book pick A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle- CHANGED my life!!! And she has a great recent podcast with him too. Just being honest is already winning. You got this😉❤️❤️❤️
OMGGG--THANK YOU so much! Your Being Here and sending this very kind note all the way from gorgeous Glasgow (always wanted to visit) means SO MUCH to me. Thank you🙏🙏🏽😉pls shout with any Qs/ideas for more content
This video and aligned message found me when you are at 555 subscribers. Love the synchronicity of the universe and all that is above it nudging me to accept the past, accept change, accept the journey, and be proud of who I am because it is leading me into what I will eventually become. 🙂
For me its the part sbout assuming everyone can do what i can do, i turn 32 this month and I wasted the last decade not fully utilising my talents, only now am i cultivating what makes me amazing without seing it as kust jobbies or personality traits. Learning to value oneself is truly important
Thank u very much for this video, I jus paused the video to go and purchased, I fuljoyed this video very much 🫂 more strength and power to you my love.
Ok, 42! Get in here🤩I think that's part of making it this far...all the shouldda couldda's. AND as soon as I can, I snap into: What about today? You're HERE 🙏🏽So let's get it💃🏽
It annoys me when people are like “Oh, you are 45, you look so young” People have set the bar so low pn appearance that they expect people to start aging horrendously at 30. Honey, if you take care of yourself, you shouldn’t start aging till you are 70.
I know I probably don’t fit in this topic. I’m 19 years old, turning 20 in a few months. All I do is write, work and explore my town. Still, it’s so hard to be nice to myself. I just don’t think I’m doing enough
Currently going thru that moment of 30- brain surgery at 29 and a loss of health effecting my employment/income. Things have been tough. So I started a RUclips channel. ctfu
The mental health I can relate. I feel successful I’m 34, married 15 years, for beautiful teens. But my husband and I have always had difficulty finding our paths financially. I’m in school now for nursing but my heart isn’t it. At times I feel so overwhelmed because I truly don’t know what direction to go in. I also have many talents, published author, make up artistry, public speaking, slam poetry, cooking. So much!!! Which doesn’t help me figure out a direction as well. 😩 but I had a mental breakdown and it helped me slow down a lot .
@@PrincessBeautyy Gurrrl! My heart goes out to you cause I resonate. What I’ll say is this: the breakdowns are sometimes more helpful steering us in “what direction to go in” than anything else. Because You can’t lie to depression/any mental challenge/breakdown. You can’t lie to it that you’re feeling something when you’re not. That information is powerful b/c it’s an unfiltered course corrector. You’re on your path. Keep going 🌱✨
This is how 40 is supposed to look like. 40’s are your 20’s you just happen to have more money and wisdom. People are used to seeing women who have struggled, bad relationships and unions, zero money thus the dog years aging.
Exactly. I'm 38, still rollerskate, eat right, meditate, laugh, get carded, get hit on by men in their 20's. It's an energy thing that keeps you young.
We all do the best we can with what we got and what best suits our personalities. I've come to really appreicate that and learn from planners, cause Lordt knows I'm not a super planner🤪
Am 26 and I feel so tired already.. I don’t know my purpose… I don’t know what I can do better.. I have no skills no nothing.. to make it worse I even don’t know what I would want to do if asked 😭 I feel like a failure
Funny story: a famous philosopher way back in the day got respect for being the one dude willing to admit he didn't know what he didn't know. That's Socrates. I think we underestimate the value of being in the phase where you are--questioning everything and being humble enough to admit we don't know. Keep your heart open and present to the Qs, they can lead you to real answers, aka inner knowledge 🥰🌱
I am 40 and what I learned is that people with money have a better start in life.all of my friends that came from wealthier families got better jobs families and overall they are happy.it is very difficult to escape poverty even if you get a college degree.if I could go back to when I was 20 I would learn some sort of trade and I would try not to have friends because they just distracted me from my goals
Soon 30 just dont feel myself no more,even when i accomplish something it just dont make me feel happy.suffering from depression all my life from since i was 12.got anger issues.im scared of myself and got social anxiety
@@Nickyhustla Nicky, Happy Birthday! 30 is a big number, like I shared here. And a mix of things have helped me out of depression in the past. Def recommend therapy and spiritual work in tandem-basically finding your own mix of mental health tools with the help of professional who can help you see clearer. It’s like learning about the factory settings your brain came with, except each brain has its own unique wiring. Professionals can sometimes help you read your own brain manual in a way that’s tricky when you’re also trying to be inside that brain. Hope this makes sense. And Rooting for you. You are not your social anxiety, depression or fear, no matter how long those very real things have laid claim on your power. ❤️❤️❤️🌱
@LoveOnstage Thanks really appreciate how you took the time to explain to me some very important self worth benefits..do u have a contact or gmail where i could get incontact with you if thats okay..love ur reasoning abilities
Girl 42 where? you are so youthful and radiant!🌸
@@mindfulfairy46 LOL🤣 You already know how Black do…appreciate you🥰
Because she is wearing her natural hair….it makes us black women look even younger❤
Guuuurrl 42? I am 26 and you look older than me 😅😅❤
@Feminine-p4sdo you mean she looks younger?
Yes because 42 is still young boo lol.
Lots of people here think 42 is supposed to look old and haggard. When you get to that age you'll realize it's still young 😂
@@jessgirr1728 Lol! But remember when you thought 40 was ancient? Now I see 60 and I’m like, Oh! That’s like high school 🤣😂
Very true
So true 😂
I think I look young, definitely feel young 😅
It annoys me when people are like “Oh, you are 45, you look so young”
People have set the bar so low pn appearance that they expect people to start aging horrendously at 30.
Honey, if you take care of yourself, you shouldn’t start aging till you are 70.
Not her sitting there looking 23 talmbout she got grown woman wisdom. ❤
I’m 43 and learned. You are stunning.
@@MarieAmicalola 🤣😂🙈Takes one to know one! Thank you Beauty!
Education won't guarantee success but without it, it's going to be harder. 😢
That is why we are all trying to explain to boomers who thinks we can get a job by asking for one
@@mollymo6229 😂🤣🙈OMG, THIS!!!! And the way you phrased it just cracks me up 🤪
@@JanT-f8t Mayyyyn! This should be printed in the front of every textbook. ESP the ones you pay stupid money for in college/grad school😂
1-understand economy
2-stillness
3-value your gifts and experiences
4-embrace whats coming from life
5-the power of speaking with intention
Ok, coming through with a GREAT summary! THANK YOU😊
I retired at 52 and honestly, I wish I’d done it sooner. The 9-to-5 grind always steals your freedom for a paycheck that barely scratches the surface. My advice? If you’re in your late 30s or early 40s, start saving for FIRE now (Financial Independence, Retire Early.) And if you’re in your 50s, invest smartly and break free from relying on your job. Market trends, like the Trump Effect, have made millions for many, including me. Stay focused, stay consistent, and remember financial freedom is within reach if you make it a priority.
Exactly My point! The 9 to 5 grind is just not worth it the stress and low payoff. What specific steps did you take to break free?
Working with Lorrie Greta Hillard , a financial advisor, was a game changer. She helped me refine my savings strategy, including retirement planning, and provided expert guidance on investments and budgeting to maximize my savings.
Got it! Thanks for the tip! I was curious, so I looked up Lorrie
I have 5 more years and I can’t wait to retire!
Yes! I am 36 and I began my FIRE journey last year. I plan to "Barista" FIRE (working PT) by my mid-40s, 50 at the absolute latest. I am saving + investing a large chunk of my earnings and remaining debt-free. F these jobs, for real! I have dreams of doing nothing but indulging in hobbies that bring me joy for the majority of my days!
Mental health is so important. I’m 35 and have struggled with it a lot. Not married, no kids. 4 beautiful animals and a career in the trades.
Wheeeew! I could write a bible on the importance of protecting it and I still wouldn't be 🙈Protect yours!
I’m 27 and I am really working on myself.
I feel like a grandma lol 😭
Same ❤
@@EvolvingBombshell I think that’s the secret: always working on yourself. Keep at it😉💪🏽
You are nowhere near a grandma. Enjoy and cherish your time
This video helped me. I just turned 30 instantly hit depression beginning of 2025. Suddenly felt clueless as to who I am, suddenly felt dark. Confused like who is this what is happening this isn't me. You touched on that, i thought i was losing my mind. Thank you for this video.
@@queenchrissy. You’re not losing your mind AT ALL, just growing. Almost always uncomfortable and sometimes comes with shadows. Just be present to it all 😉
I’m 24 & in my final year at Uni ,feeling so left behind 💔 because my peers are already working or getting married and then there’s me whose still trying to figure life out (so frustrating) but hopeful & trusting God’s timing 🤍
I am in the same boat. Turning 24 on the 24th of this month and in my last year of school…
Todays affirmation : whereever I am planted I thrive ....I will keep that close to my heart ASE
Literally in the same boat too. 24, last year of school
24 is very young! Just focus on you and where you wanna go. Create a flexible plan and make it happen. ❤
I’m 22 but I’ll be 24 once u graduate mostly due to me not getting as much financial help. We got this !!!!
I’m in my 30s let’s hear it 😂😂😂.
@@ajohonly3721 Ok Dirty 30s-Get It💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
@@LoveOnstage
It was really good thank you so much for sharing.
🫶🏿
The timeline about the 20s and 30s is so accurate. I felt like you were speaking my life so far. My 30s started off so intense and the first year I had to learn how to be still. In my 20s I was the queen of pivoting and in my late 20s I got extremely burnt out. As much as we’re all living our individual lives we’re also living the same lives as well. Very beautiful perspective on aging overall. We’re constantly growing and changing and we need to stop and take it in. Being present in our current seasons. God is so good and our existence is proof of that.
@@kooliecurlz93 WOW! Your comment really means a lot to me. THANK YOU so much for being here and for taking in what I have to share🙏🏾🥰
I heard your South African accent come thru and I LOVE IT!!! I always love seeing brilliant South African women making their mark! Congrats on all your successes and thank you for the amazing video!
@@tylershaye Yaaassss-we HERE and we winning! Thanks for being here, owam!🤩🇿🇦
@@LoveOnstage 💕💕
I’m 29 and I really don’t know what I’m good at, it’s frustrating
@@nenenicole8291 To be honest with you, you do know! You may need to more stillness to uncover it from within. You may need to cut out the noise from flashy things you *wanna* be good at, but that your soul’s not as interested in. I’d put money down that you know. And that telling yourself you don’t know is a temporary and *chosen* narrative that keeps you frustrated and off your true path. Find stillness. And know🌱😉
The best way to find out is to do timed assessments, that’s what I’ll be focusing on
@@LoveOnstageI’ve never looked at this from that perspective, wow! Thank you, that was deep
I love this! I'm 42, and feeling/looking fabulous. Self-care and boundaries are key!
@@mariaj6551 YEssssss-GET It💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🔥
You deserve a medal for this comment!
I’m 26 and I was telling my sister that 26 is the new 40 - I feel soooo old!!! And you are sooo beautiful ❤️
@@itskamo332 LOL! Gurrrl-soak up 26, 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽you’ll be 30 before you can blink. And Thank you🥰
"I strive to thrive wherever am planted" what a beautiful quote that I've learnt today. Thank you so much for educating us from your own personal life journey. And you've given me hope today just by learning that you got pregnant at the age of 39! That's incredible and I wish you all the best
@@sharonaluoch809 Keep that hope SHINING and Alive, Life is so generous if only we open our eyes to her present gifts. ✨🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Just saw you pop up and am a first timer here. You look fabulous, you sound great, and right out the gate you are delivering. I’m new to the 40s club and love seeing people give back by sharing insights to help those younger than them. Keep going with this sis!!!! Subscribed!
@@Regina.Clarke Sis! Thank you for being here 😉❤️I know you KNOW!
Women who live in their purpose, grow beautifully. You're proof of that. 40 where???💕
@@avSCompact Ahhh, That’s so sweet. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🥰
She loves so good. Age I think it’s just a number that we have to count.
To tell you the truth life begins @ 40. every stage of life have a lesson to be learned. We can't rush it. Even if you know about things experience is what's going to teach us. I'm so grateful for everything.
@@ham.h98 SO wise!!! Knowing it theoretically vs. experiencing it in your body is the whole damn point of life and the greatest teacher on earth. Imagine trying to teach someone what it feels like to fall in love without the actual experience 🤣😂🙈Life-through experience-teaches us. ✨
@LoveOnstage very true. You look amazing 😍 btw. Thank you for your video.
@@ham.h98 🙏🏾🥰
You look amazing! Beautiful dress, skin glowing, smile. I pray I make it your age and that wise. Thank you for this! I just turned 35 on Sunday. I’m looking forward to my future. 🎉
WOW! Thank you so much and Ok, 35🥰💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽Happiest Birthday. I love that for you and LOVE the part about looking forward to an AMAZING future--it's already done🌱✨
It’s giving 20 something.. ur taking care of yourself well! I’m 31 and listening.
31 & STUNNING! Thank you for being her Beautiful🤩
I’m 45 and I’m watching taking notes ❤
@@ShaniOnSinai Yessss! Gurrrl, you know we STAY learning. 40s is just the start😉👌🏾
Girl!!! you're GLOWIIINNNNGGG 😩💕
Ahhhh! Gurrrl, you know how we be. THANK YOU 😉
I turned 36 last November. Im so glad i came across your video.
Happy Birthday, 36! That's such a yummy time. I remember feeling like the luckiest human alive then. Hope you do too and THANK YOU for Being here😉🙏🏽
Just became subscriber #645, your video just popped up on my feed and I really needed to hear the message having just turned 34 and feeling somewhat lost in life. Thank you for the words of wisdom!
@@prettiegalswag So SO Grateful this landed and absolutely appreciate your being here🙏🏾🥰 The feeling of being lost is funny, more common than we think and part of helping us shift toward our purpose. It’s like a signal to pay attention. Keep going😉
I took all my youth in school and can’t find a job in my career. I missed out on the focus of a family. Chasing money and a career. Now I’m not married with no children. Think wisely
I did the opposite and had two kids young with no education and now I’m raising them in poverty. There’s no perfect path.
Thank you both for being real.
Would rather spen mine 20s getting an education than focus on marriage and children. To each one their own though.
@@Hippidippimahm life doesn't have formula I wish people can understand that.
@@Hippidippimahm Louder for the ppl in the back 📣There’s no Perfect Path! Only the path we choose and only as beautiful/real/alive as we make it 🌱
I am 29 and turn 30 in a month and I have the worst anxiety. Life feels so weird and everyone seems to hold it together. I am not doing that well tbh although I am accomplished
@@xy4669 Hey! First, Thanks so much for being here👋 I’m really sorry you’re going through tough anxiety. Have you ever listed to The Mel Robbin’s Podcast? Like you, she’s quite accomplished and is very open about her chronic anxiety and some of the tools that have helped her over the years (shes 50+). May resonate with you, idk. Just want you to understand you’re NOT alone and there’s 💯tools to help you and a different way of life. Also check out Oprah’s current book pick A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle- CHANGED my life!!! And she has a great recent podcast with him too. Just being honest is already winning. You got this😉❤️❤️❤️
Look great for 40, thanks for the video
@@lamontevlogs appreciate you! 😉
This is how a black 40-year-old woman should look radiant and useful. It’s not as old as people make it seem.❤
I’m 32 and can’t wait to be in my 40s and 50s I pray God have me living by then 🙏🏾🫶🏽👌🏾🩵🤍
Yes older wiser and closer to The Most High
Loooove this! So beautiful to know the years ahead are a Gift! Hope you're blessed with many more💐🫶
Girl we are here with you. Almost 40 and am like what I should have done in my 20s.
Happy Birthday, 🥳🤩And listen--we do better when we know better! 40s aint ready for us, Let's GO 💃🏽
First two lines and I just subscribed, lady you’re a gem and I’ll be hooked. Watching from Glasgow Scotland
OMGGG--THANK YOU so much! Your Being Here and sending this very kind note all the way from gorgeous Glasgow (always wanted to visit) means SO MUCH to me. Thank you🙏🙏🏽😉pls shout with any Qs/ideas for more content
It doesn’t sound like you wasted your 20s or 30s at all, you’ve accomplished a lot.
@@simplymia3153 Thank you, 😉I see that too.
And I DEF see and appreciate the very real lessons I’ve learned along the way.
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I relate so much to taking personal skills for granted.
@@isabellavantichel4459 And I hope you also relate to this: That was then! Now I KNOW my skills are GOLD😉Keep Going💃🏽✨
You look so much younger than your real age. So beautiful ❤
@@rubykanja Thank you! 😉
This is how you do a video! To the point with some person wisdom and example. Subscribed! You’re beautiful and I love your accent.
@@SamanthaSmikle OMG, Thank you! And lol, pls don’t ever lemme lose my accent 😉
This video and aligned message found me when you are at 555 subscribers. Love the synchronicity of the universe and all that is above it nudging me to accept the past, accept change, accept the journey, and be proud of who I am because it is leading me into what I will eventually become. 🙂
@@soufwesthoustontx WOW! LOVE your insight and on the same path of learning to accept the change/past+journey and truly BE. Yeasssss💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🔥🙏🏾
I thought I knew everything at 30. I was on the right path. Grounded. Until I met a man who shifted my life.
no one can shift your life unless you let them you're in control I want you to realize this
In a good way or a bad way?
Hope you're fully back in the driver's seat. Cause this is it: ☝🏾life
The Lord blesses us, not because of works, but by faith & divine grace. You are a wonderful speaker.
WOW, Thank you so much for that kind word and fact about Divine Grace. Received and BEAMING right back at you 🥰😉🙏🏾
For me its the part sbout assuming everyone can do what i can do, i turn 32 this month and I wasted the last decade not fully utilising my talents, only now am i cultivating what makes me amazing without seing it as kust jobbies or personality traits. Learning to value oneself is truly important
Thank u very much for this video, I jus paused the video to go and purchased, I fuljoyed this video very much 🫂 more strength and power to you my love.
@@rockyrockdiworldnuh4749 Thank you so much! Appreciate that order too🙏🏾😘
I’m 42 as well, and I regret I didn’t follow my passions earlier! 🥺❣
Ok, 42! Get in here🤩I think that's part of making it this far...all the shouldda couldda's. AND as soon as I can, I snap into: What about today? You're HERE 🙏🏽So let's get it💃🏽
You look great and I truly appreciated hearing your story and reflections.
@@nikkiyevette Thank you so much! And appreciate your listening to my story 😉
Gratitude.
Wisdom = Priceless.
BIG Gratitude for your being here 🙏🏽😉
Beautifully said. New subbie here to stay 💃💃💃💃💃
@@professionalismwithpassion Thank you so much for being here! Appreciate you🙏🏾🥰
I needed to hear this so bad. Thank you!
SO Grateful the msg found you and you're open to hearing it. Keep Going😉💃🏽
Okay valuable lessons here. Next video, self-care tips to look this youthful and energetic at 40 please :)
@@JaniceIcheYT Thanks for seeing the value! And I love it…lemme see what I can cook up💧
@ yay! ✨
It annoys me when people are like “Oh, you are 45, you look so young”
People have set the bar so low pn appearance that they expect people to start aging horrendously at 30.
Honey, if you take care of yourself, you shouldn’t start aging till you are 70.
I like that the bar is so low, makes easy to stand out🤷♂️
Lol! I hear you. And I also their kindness in giving you a complement. Cause you DO look banging. 🔥
🤣😅 you got jokes!
You are gorgeous! Here for the tea🍵
@@C0ffeesip11 Thank you, and Haha🤣😂she’s a hot and saucy little cup, drink up! ☕️🫖
I know I probably don’t fit in this topic. I’m 19 years old, turning 20 in a few months. All I do is write, work and explore my town. Still, it’s so hard to be nice to myself. I just don’t think I’m doing enough
@@JoannJoseph-bty You’re here. That means you’re ALREADY ENOUGH. know that as deeply as you can. And Ok, fellow Writer✍🏽 🔥I see you! 😉
@ thank you so much, you’re an amazing inspiration
You have such an infectious and lovely vibe ❤️💐
OMGGGG, Love me some Good Vibes--Thank you so much this means a lot to me, 💃🏽🙏🏽
Currently going thru that moment of 30- brain surgery at 29 and a loss of health effecting my employment/income. Things have been tough. So I started a RUclips channel. ctfu
not she on here looking 18 talking bout she wasted her 20s and 30s…life paid you back with youthful longevity love 🫶🏽
@@analog_geechee_girl 🤣😂🤪you ain’t lied tho
Two seconds into the video and already love her vibe.
OMG, We're on the same vibe! That's how resonance works and I'm so grateful for your Being Here🤗😉
strive to thrive wherever I am planted ✨🌱
Doesn't that just HIT!??? I'm telling you it still ROCKS me to hear it, esp when I'm acting out🔥🧨
This is so beautiful. Thankyou so much Be blessed.☺
@@ErisCamcorder WOW! thanks so much for listening with an open heart😉
Thank you for this!🙏🏾 Peace & Blessings ❤️
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You look amazing!! Thank you for this video
@@JoannJoseph-bty Thank you so much for being here😉!
The mental health I can relate. I feel successful I’m 34, married 15 years, for beautiful teens. But my husband and I have always had difficulty finding our paths financially. I’m in school now for nursing but my heart isn’t it. At times I feel so overwhelmed because I truly don’t know what direction to go in. I also have many talents, published author, make up artistry, public speaking, slam poetry, cooking. So much!!! Which doesn’t help me figure out a direction as well. 😩 but I had a mental breakdown and it helped me slow down a lot .
@@PrincessBeautyy Gurrrl! My heart goes out to you cause I resonate.
What I’ll say is this: the breakdowns are sometimes more helpful steering us in “what direction to go in” than anything else. Because You can’t lie to depression/any mental challenge/breakdown. You can’t lie to it that you’re feeling something when you’re not. That information is powerful b/c it’s an unfiltered course corrector. You’re on your path. Keep going 🌱✨
Girl 42, you look great! I'm turning 30 in May :D
@@JaniceIcheYT Thank you, Love! And YESSSSS Dirty 30, Get It💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
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Thank you for sharing your wisdom 👑
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Thank you for sharing so much gem!
Thank you for catching the gems😉✨
Instantly subscribed I love your energy! ❤
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I was meant to see this video for a reason ! Thank you for sharing your story and radiating such beautiful energy ✨ ! Happy to be a new subscriber 💖☺️
I needed to hear this. Thanks love. I'm subscribed.
@@dragonbae so glad this resonates. And thank you for being here🙏🏾
Thank you so much I want to be known for MY identity I Choose not what I went thru and operating out of victim mode
Oohhhph! This ONE! 🧨This lands very deep. Thanks for being here.
i just subscribed. good insights
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Thank you for this! ❤
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I love you, thank you for this.
Ahhh, THANK YOU! Receive and BEAMING back your LOVE🫶
Thank You for this video.
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Wise and looking 23 😊
😉🙏🏽Life teaches you!
Stay focus and positive ❤❤❤❤
This is how 40 is supposed to look like. 40’s are your 20’s you just happen to have more money and wisdom. People are used to seeing women who have struggled, bad relationships and unions, zero money thus the dog years aging.
@@Ubhntu3789 Thanks for watching! 😎
Exactly. I'm 38, still rollerskate, eat right, meditate, laugh, get carded, get hit on by men in their 20's. It's an energy thing that keeps you young.
@ youth is 💯💯💯 energy! That and lots of water and laughter😂🤣😉Thanks for being here 38 YOUNG
Thank you ❤
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Woow you’re soo stunning 😍 😍💛 love your point on life 🥰💛
OMG, Thank you and I see you too, Stunner 🥰😉Really appreacite your Being here!
@ awww you’re soo sweet 🥰💛🫶🏻 thank you ☺️
Never too late❤❤❤
@@lastchance7323 ‼️‼️‼️starting right now😎
Bless your soul! You are such a positive mind. ❤
Subbed right away cuz I’m 42 also! Cheers 🎉
@@westelevenlane Yesssss 1980s forever babe🤣😉-Thank so much and Welcome🥰
Hello, every morning as u rise up, there is chance and opportunity. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@@lastchance7323 AMEN! Appreciate hearing this truth✨👌🏾
I'm 26 and trying to work to improve myself and my life
LOVE That! Big and necessary work at every age and 💯the way to create a present you, that you can be proud of. Keep going💃🏽
Love this video thank you! I’m a new subscriber here and I’m happy to find your channel. 💕
@@adss5576 Thanks so much for listening and BEING here🙏🏾
Good one !
@@AmaraReyal thank you!
#Stillness ❤ what I am currently learning about myself and being intentional about it moving forward. Thank you for sharing thus
Girl I need tips for my 42 single self
@@aestheticallypleasing9119 LoL! Gurrrl-you and me both 🤣😉🤪
People plan out their lives too much. just try to make the best decision possible and move on.
We all do the best we can with what we got and what best suits our personalities. I've come to really appreicate that and learn from planners, cause Lordt knows I'm not a super planner🤪
You look amazing ❤
THANK YOU, Beautiful! I see you 😉🔥
Hi! Just wanted to help you with the typo in your title - it should spell 'everything'. Hope this helps and thanks for your video 😊
@@IzzyEze Wow! Great catch-Thanks so much 🙏🏾😉
42 as in like what?
Am 26 and I feel so tired already.. I don’t know my purpose… I don’t know what I can do better.. I have no skills no nothing.. to make it worse I even don’t know what I would want to do if asked 😭 I feel like a failure
Funny story: a famous philosopher way back in the day got respect for being the one dude willing to admit he didn't know what he didn't know. That's Socrates. I think we underestimate the value of being in the phase where you are--questioning everything and being humble enough to admit we don't know. Keep your heart open and present to the Qs, they can lead you to real answers, aka inner knowledge 🥰🌱
I am 40 and what I learned is that people with money have a better start in life.all of my friends that came from wealthier families got better jobs families and overall they are happy.it is very difficult to escape poverty even if you get a college degree.if I could go back to when I was 20 I would learn some sort of trade and I would try not to have friends because they just distracted me from my goals
@@MurnaKota Hey, thanks for giving this a listen! Not sure I agree with some of your takeaways. Raising a glass to your happiness at 40 and beyond 🥂😉
Thank you
Thank YOU for watching! 😉
Nice ❤
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Street smarts and worker smarter gets you to your drams not getting A's and Masters degrees.
@@TheChariot99 Lol! Yes AND! Those masters and As never hurt nobody! 😉🤪
Yeah right🙄 are the 4 and 2 in the same building let alone room with us?😂
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42 was never ready for you honey ❤
@@arethaworld9529 ‼️‼️‼️🤪🤣Ahhh, you so kind🙈😉Thank you 🍯
Thanks for Sharing thank u so much
@@AasReally Thank you so much for watching! 😎🙏🏾
Soon 30 just dont feel myself no more,even when i accomplish something it just dont make me feel happy.suffering from depression all my life from since i was 12.got anger issues.im scared of myself and got social anxiety
@@Nickyhustla Nicky, Happy Birthday! 30 is a big number, like I shared here. And a mix of things have helped me out of depression in the past. Def recommend therapy and spiritual work in tandem-basically finding your own mix of mental health tools with the help of professional who can help you see clearer. It’s like learning about the factory settings your brain came with, except each brain has its own unique wiring. Professionals can sometimes help you read your own brain manual in a way that’s tricky when you’re also trying to be inside that brain. Hope this makes sense. And Rooting for you. You are not your social anxiety, depression or fear, no matter how long those very real things have laid claim on your power. ❤️❤️❤️🌱
Tjank you very much i really appreciate how you took the time to encourage me@@LoveOnstage
@LoveOnstage Thanks really appreciate how you took the time to explain to me some very important self worth benefits..do u have a contact or gmail where i could get incontact with you if thats okay..love ur reasoning abilities
@ Hey, so grateful this lands! All my contact information is in the description box of each video😉
We gotta stop acting like 40 is old! It is quite young 🎉
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Thank you❤
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