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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @naina7048
    @naina7048 6 месяцев назад +177

    Going through a hard breakup, don’t know how will I move on .. literally not able to eat, sleep . I just want this unbearable pain gone

    • @ellishasamuels6724
      @ellishasamuels6724 6 месяцев назад +18

      i understand it’s truly horrible . me right now , hoping you heal :(

    • @nina.bum24
      @nina.bum24 6 месяцев назад +19

      Take care of ur physical self first! I know it’s hard, but just tell urself u have to take care of ur physical wellbeing right now, make that your focus while u repair ur mind and heart slowly!! Trust, it helps a lot and once ur heart and mind catches up in the healing process u’ll be so happy u kept it up :)

    • @naina7048
      @naina7048 6 месяцев назад

      @@ellishasamuels6724hope you feel better ❤

    • @naina7048
      @naina7048 6 месяцев назад

      @@nina.bum24thank you so much , I have to see this person at office everyday as he is my colleague due to family’s emotional blackmail he is getting married very soon .. and I have to see everything.. very very hard .. not able to concentrate on work .. it’s Been 3 days since I’m on sick leave 😢.. it feels like i hv lost my father for the 2nd time coz the care and love he gave me it was like father daughter care💔

    • @Estherchow0
      @Estherchow0 6 месяцев назад +14

      TRUST ME IT'S GONNA BE THE BESST THING EVER

  • @desdemonamaghrebi8755
    @desdemonamaghrebi8755 6 месяцев назад +76

    To all the people who are going through a heartbreak:
    It'll pass and you are going to be fine
    Last year I was at the same position and I thought it'll never end, it was hard, it was painful, but now it's gone, and I feel more powerful than ever.
    I couldn't trust anyone who used to tell me it'll pass and you're going to be ok, but you trust me; time will fix it all, time is a miracle, just be patient and work on urself in any way you can❤

    • @fol761
      @fol761 5 месяцев назад

      Yes I was in this space too but now I’m grateful that happened

    • @mram5152
      @mram5152 2 месяца назад

      Thank you for reassuring us!! ❤

  • @nina.bum24
    @nina.bum24 6 месяцев назад +100

    Daaaamn was literally feeling sad and alone today, been getting over a situationship gone bad and apparently the universe heard

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  6 месяцев назад +11

      You've got this!

  • @happycreature3993
    @happycreature3993 5 месяцев назад +18

    hey lumma, today i realized that i want to be unbreakable woman. rejection is my power: my power to get out from such situation and find another things/places that defines me BETTER. rejection is not personal and doesn't define me as a person. relationship, friendship or job, if i got rejection, i would accept it and nothing personal about it. i would walk away

    • @happycreature3993
      @happycreature3993 5 месяцев назад +3

      thank you the universe for delivered me this message. and thank you lumma for being a wonderful woman

  • @catherineperrot4112
    @catherineperrot4112 6 месяцев назад +23

    This came at the perfect time I’m trying to get over a situation ship that ended last week been trying so hard to get over it and been feeling really lonely . Trying to heal and move forward . This video helped a lot

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  6 месяцев назад +5

      Aww! I've been so hard on myself always thinking that my videos aren't good enough, thank you for this comment x

    • @domenikahermida4633
      @domenikahermida4633 6 месяцев назад

      @@lummaaziz Your videos are perfect and with so much wisdome!!!

  • @uhoh7141
    @uhoh7141 6 месяцев назад +41

    its 28 days since our breakup and within 1 week he had a new girlfriend lol. I feel fine now, the last 3 weeks were brutal but I'm slowly coming out of my sadness.
    I think the biggest reason why it's easier for me to move on and be alone is seeing how fast he was to find someone else because he can't be alone. And I dodged a bullet to be honest.
    Thank you Lumma for your videos, they've truly been helpful the past month. God bless you always.

    • @ashnayawrr
      @ashnayawrr 6 месяцев назад +4

      oh my god literally me

    • @yennimarya
      @yennimarya 6 месяцев назад +5

      Girl believe me he WILL come back,😂😂 that clown will come back and text you, but it doesnt mean that he is still love you, he will lost your presence and decided text you. So my advice dont fall for his words. Because its literally happen to me 7 months ago since i watched Lumma's videos break up

    • @uhoh7141
      @uhoh7141 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@yennimarya Good thing I don't want him back and will not be contacting him back in case he does contact me, which I doubt because he seems so happy with someone else. Thank you for your advice tho!
      I'm positive he won't be coming back tho :)

    • @ArunimaMandal15
      @ArunimaMandal15 5 месяцев назад

      Naah that's just rebound and him coping. Don't even bother looking at him

  • @miamunguia6251
    @miamunguia6251 6 месяцев назад +9

    I’m so thankful to have found you, I truly have been able to view things differently and see how things can been okay. Even though I still feel sad over it I know I’ll make it through and move on and heal and be okay with it. I’m glad Lumma really made me realize things will turn out good. And to not depend on anyone for my happiness but me!!

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  6 месяцев назад

      Thank you for being here x

  • @nadirahmuhammad747
    @nadirahmuhammad747 6 месяцев назад +2

    Divine timing Lumma 🤞🏽❤️thank you for being you , I appreciate you and your videos. They continue to help me no matter where I am in life. Partner or no partner , emotional rollercoasters, anxiety and stress, productivity, family and friends … JUST EVERYTHING 🙏🏽my favorite RUclips girly !

  • @Leasophia337
    @Leasophia337 5 месяцев назад +3

    Taking that deep breath with you helped so much right now

  • @ankitaacore
    @ankitaacore 6 месяцев назад +3

    Needed this fr , i was thinking being alone is hard but now my perspective changed and i feel like being alone is not hard it's okay as i am learning to do things that i never used to do ;)

  • @hanhvu3716
    @hanhvu3716 2 месяца назад +1

    Going through a worst state of a breakup process now. Literally lost appetite! But thank you for your wonderful video! I will take things step by step!

  • @atticusv45
    @atticusv45 6 месяцев назад +25

    Don’t listen to those influencers who act like they on top of their sh*t doing emails and grinding work on flights! Resting, relaxing and refilling your cup again is just as important service TO YOURSELF! Trust, they got their lazy days off cam like all of us 😂

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  6 месяцев назад +3

      You're right, thank you!

  • @globuspallidus2457
    @globuspallidus2457 6 месяцев назад +4

    I really like your mindset, I consider you to be wise

  • @shotzbydani13
    @shotzbydani13 6 месяцев назад +5

    you’re literally my comfort person

  • @mermaidavenue8363
    @mermaidavenue8363 6 месяцев назад +3

    Lumma I think this is my favorite video from you it feels so real and relatable but also uplifting and motivating! I love this style of videos

  • @KaylaBayot
    @KaylaBayot 6 месяцев назад +1

    i did love this video! i’m actually going to the philippines in july with my family and u just got me extra excited about it. i also am at a time and place where i’m realizing that i need to just be alone. like literally stop trying to date and live in my aloneness and just be happy. ty for the advice!!

  • @DayandyDissanayaka-eb1zh
    @DayandyDissanayaka-eb1zh 6 месяцев назад +3

    Happy to see ma kind of people❤who are spiritually awaken in their journey...I felt so alone bcz I 'm so different from most of the people even from my family...but when I listen to you and others like jay shetty,lavendaire etc. I feel like connect with the right people❤love u lumma I'm just 20 years old listening to u ❤Love from sri lanka 🇱🇰

  • @chloeduffyboland3042
    @chloeduffyboland3042 6 месяцев назад

    How you love yourself is how you teach others to love you 🥰❤️✨

  • @Angeladwani9
    @Angeladwani9 6 месяцев назад +6

    I wld suggest to make a vid on discussing how to actually work hard manage life after getting out of heartbreak or depression how to again restart life?

  • @cheyennecarroll2626
    @cheyennecarroll2626 5 месяцев назад

    My favorite video so far. So relatable. Thank you Lumma for being so real.

  • @ayaelhazime5091
    @ayaelhazime5091 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for your incredible videos. They have been a great source of comfort and strength for me during a very difficult time. Your advice and insights have truly helped me heal and move forward after a heartbreak. I can't express enough how grateful I am for the positive impact you've had on my life. Keep up the amazing work, and please know that you're making a real difference in people's lives. Thank you!🥺❤️

  • @OrlandoOsuna
    @OrlandoOsuna 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for being real and sharing how hard things can be. I feel like most people on youtube only make it seem like life is always rosie and beautiful all the time...and actually life can be pretty hard and that happens more often than not.

  • @rihab8720
    @rihab8720 5 месяцев назад

    I like seeing you hang out before talking it is normal and inspiring

  • @amimusiic
    @amimusiic 6 месяцев назад +1

    Hi Lumma. I started watching you around 5 months ago - your content has helped me through some dark days. To answer your question - I love this style of video!! But sometimes I listen to you while walking to work etc. It would be helpful if you could put a little tag in the video for when the pep talk starts so we can skip if we're unable to watch. Keep it up - you're my faveee!!

  • @sarahunoke2116
    @sarahunoke2116 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much Lumma. I've been feeling this way for a while now so this video is a blessing to me rn

  • @JenniferBañaga-Salva
    @JenniferBañaga-Salva 5 месяцев назад

    I am happy to hear that you've had so much fun when you visited our country - the Philippines🇵🇭.

  • @thaatsdopee
    @thaatsdopee 6 месяцев назад +2

    Please make a podcast. I can listen to you talk all day😊

  • @ajohonly3721
    @ajohonly3721 6 месяцев назад

    In June 2019 I hang out with a friend and I felt so much anxiety after that meeting that I made it thing to be alone for a while.
    Now I can even travel alone without feeling anxious .

  • @Japhiaaa
    @Japhiaaa 6 месяцев назад +2

    I always look forward to your videos, thank you for spreading your love and light!🤍🤍

  • @heartshapedglasses1340
    @heartshapedglasses1340 6 месяцев назад +4

    divine right timing💞

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  6 месяцев назад

      Thank you for being here x

  • @MissAri23
    @MissAri23 6 месяцев назад +4

    curious as to how you and your boyfriend maintain your connection/relationship if it seems like the two of you never spend time together. What’s keeping you guys together ? genuinely interested, maybe a video?

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  6 месяцев назад +1

      I mean we live together! HAHAH I didn’t explain very well. We’ll sit together and do a video in the next few weeks x

  • @nwabisasibanda4622
    @nwabisasibanda4622 5 месяцев назад

    Lumma this video hit. But thank you for giving such amazing advice. It has opened my eyes to a new perspective. Love your videos

  • @user-eh1es3hr9u
    @user-eh1es3hr9u 5 месяцев назад

    thankful for finding you and your helpful content

  • @Denghuysmans
    @Denghuysmans 6 месяцев назад +1

    I literally wanna be your friend!We just bought a house in Spain but then it’s cancelled because the seller suddenly did not respond anymore! I’m so frustrated! And Lately I’ve been feeling so confused and lost to what God wants me to do. Feeling a bit stuck but I know for sure that I just need to be patient because everything has its own perfect time! BUT YOU KNOW WHAT! ONCE THIS HOUSE PURCHASE IS DONE, Come to Spain!! It’ll be so crazy to meet you! Let’s meeeet! ❤ Btw I’m originally from Philippines and like you I feel like I don’t belong anywhere! The worst part is I feel like I also don’t belong to my hometown anymore! I’m just navigating life as it is! But I truly enjoy every moment of Now. That’s what I’m trying to learn is to be more present and not really think too much of the past and the future! 🙏

  • @smickos
    @smickos 6 месяцев назад +10

    New apartment is dope

  • @joyceomg9125
    @joyceomg9125 6 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks for this!!!I really need this

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  6 месяцев назад

      Aww! Thank you for commenting

  • @kiwiclouds8256
    @kiwiclouds8256 5 месяцев назад +1

    hi lumma, i have a question for you doing a video about an important topic.. its about losing your friends,, and why its happening and what is happening.. you would really save my life bcs thats currently my life right now. 3 months ago everything started without any reasons and i know u could help me to organize my thoughts... and btw i lovee your videos and i am always thinking about your advice❤❤❤ much love your friend

  • @heidecali88
    @heidecali88 6 месяцев назад

    more vlogs and pep talks pls!!! 🥹 I'm always looking forward to watch your videos. Sending love from the PH ❤

  • @zkrhysf
    @zkrhysf 6 месяцев назад +1

    LUMMA SO PRETTY

  • @kawya7292
    @kawya7292 6 месяцев назад

    I always love your videos lumma❤I feel good and wholesome.This video popped up on the exact right time that i wanted.Im living alone with a busy schedule at work which doesnt give me a much me time.can u do more videos like this.I want to travel alone also but im scared of procedures..Thankyou lumaa❤

  • @deniseisdumb850
    @deniseisdumb850 6 месяцев назад

    Idk what it is about this video but it’s really calming and entertaining keep it up gurl 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @karenkado2755
    @karenkado2755 6 месяцев назад +2

    just passed divorce. ur advice helps a lot. hope one day i`ll do as better as you did.

  • @saseezg
    @saseezg 6 месяцев назад

    Dear sis Lumma
    Thañks for being a great sister 💗

  • @AllAboutFriday
    @AllAboutFriday 6 месяцев назад +2

    Your videos give me life :’)

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  6 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for being here x

  • @aprasharma1
    @aprasharma1 6 месяцев назад

    this was just a real one lumma... thankyou for being so damn real :)

  • @daniellaaas
    @daniellaaas 6 месяцев назад +2

    I love that robe!!!

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  6 месяцев назад +1

      From Target!

  • @Maaaay2
    @Maaaay2 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much, Lumma!

  • @sherylbelsolis9941
    @sherylbelsolis9941 6 месяцев назад +1

    Wow …thank you for Good review in our country Philippines ..im your followers im listening all your Blog

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  6 месяцев назад

      I'm actually Filipina!! Best country

  • @SamuelSurbrook98
    @SamuelSurbrook98 6 месяцев назад

    I could see you being a good friend. What have you thought 💭 about being a massage 💆‍♀️ therapist? That would be a riot.

  • @reeedle
    @reeedle 3 месяца назад

    we broke up recently because her family forced us to. shes actually the love of my life and we are being punished for being sinners. i am a sin. i have to wait until she comes back. i honestly feel like dying and i want to better myself but at the same time i want to give up. she told me we have to work on ourselves and she cant be with me right now. we cried together and we kissed goodbye for the last time. we cant be in contact with each other. i dont know if i can keep going. it feels like i cant breathe and my heart is shattered, will she wait for me ? will she still love me ? what would have happened if i had been born as a man. i dislike myself

  • @itsbettyjohnson
    @itsbettyjohnson 6 месяцев назад +1

    so I totally thought the light in the kitchen was a disco ball😂 and now I kinda want one in my kitchen

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  6 месяцев назад

      Get one!! It's so dope

  • @fhay1
    @fhay1 6 месяцев назад

    If you’re going to LA, you should try to get on the Viall Files podcast. You’d be great for giving people advice plus your story

  • @Alicaprile
    @Alicaprile 6 месяцев назад

    Really needed this

  • @بتولرزاقفليححسن
    @بتولرزاقفليححسن 6 месяцев назад +1

    maybe when i visit LA i will meet u ❤🎉

  • @JJG604
    @JJG604 2 месяца назад

    I don't know if this sounds strange but when you move to somewhere new and everything like that, how do you make friends? Like what steps do you take to find those people

  • @aliciacarreno5855
    @aliciacarreno5855 6 месяцев назад

    Love what you do ♡

  • @rhen64
    @rhen64 6 месяцев назад +1

    Are you eating Pansit Luma???? 😀😀😀 anyways been following you since the break-up video ♥️

  • @Meeeeeeeee377
    @Meeeeeeeee377 6 месяцев назад

    It’s been 1 year 2 months of my breakup……I still miss him…..he got married 3 months ago….I want to completely move on…..what to do?

  • @stephaniemarieshephard3848
    @stephaniemarieshephard3848 6 месяцев назад

    Hello from New York! ❤❤

  • @boop3260
    @boop3260 6 месяцев назад +5

    How did you meet your new partner?

    • @lummaaziz
      @lummaaziz  6 месяцев назад +5

      We need to do a video! The story is pretty crazy

  • @sadiasayeed5172
    @sadiasayeed5172 5 месяцев назад

    I’ve been having a hard time moving on from my ex I don’t know who I am or what I like it’s sad and idk what to do

  • @ziaakbar2535
    @ziaakbar2535 6 месяцев назад +5

    You are so beautiful love cute. Love you so much ❤

  • @kaylacoates1361
    @kaylacoates1361 4 месяца назад

    Come to the US❤❤

  • @deanneazalea1326
    @deanneazalea1326 6 месяцев назад

    Wheres your podcast 😭😭😭😭

  • @trshajsl
    @trshajsl 6 месяцев назад +1

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Tatiana-rz6nk
    @Tatiana-rz6nk 6 месяцев назад

    What’s your height? Love your channel

  • @theonlyone332
    @theonlyone332 6 месяцев назад

    I lost my best friend,my boyfriend and now I am all alone.I feel lonely

  • @Malekfahad420
    @Malekfahad420 6 месяцев назад

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  • @alaskayoung777
    @alaskayoung777 6 месяцев назад

    create a group chat pleaseeeee

  • @dengma8246
    @dengma8246 5 месяцев назад

    Hello,how can I reach out to you? I’m a single person and looking for a meaningful relationship

  • @RihabElMoutaki
    @RihabElMoutaki 4 месяца назад

    lumma Im a girl and i really wanna be ur friend

  • @alexklara816
    @alexklara816 6 месяцев назад +2

  • @jazmynejackson6866
    @jazmynejackson6866 6 месяцев назад

    TIMING

  • @emelynortiz8289
    @emelynortiz8289 5 месяцев назад

    Cue paramore ain’t it fun

  • @raidtheairwaves42
    @raidtheairwaves42 6 месяцев назад

    Babe, being lonely and spending 1 month away from your man who already isn’t around much is not gonna help your loneliness. Wish the best for you fr!!

  • @deeburns6
    @deeburns6 6 месяцев назад +2

    Could I get to know you

  • @devenderkhanna8517
    @devenderkhanna8517 6 месяцев назад

    Lumma.
    Mama podcastt on Spotify when???

  • @skk175
    @skk175 2 месяца назад

    Is stupid to be in the past.
    Men have fear to be rejected by any hot woman. Woman have fear to be rejected by any hot guy. All we have different kinds of a hot Girl.
    In my case I ❤ Latinas ( Jenna Ortega is definitely my type) .
    But, also I love Hot Girls that are Brunette, Blondes and Red Head.
    I love Black Girls that are very hot .
    Like Tate Mcrae says :
    I want to love myself
    Sammy R.G

  • @jman1263986
    @jman1263986 5 месяцев назад

    i fucking love your energy 24/7. you bring me out of the trenches 🫶🫶

  • @deiitime
    @deiitime 6 месяцев назад +1

    your videos got me through one of my biggest heartbreaks, your pep talks are so helpful to another LEVEL. you guide me to become a better version of myself 🤍🤍

  • @asiakaylynn
    @asiakaylynn 6 месяцев назад +1

    so inspiring lumma 🤍