I do both. That's why I'm by myself and handle my business. But don't interfere with what The Creator made. We have different nature's for a reason. Unfortunately, we are now europeanized and lost all that made natural sense.
She don’t cook because she can’t. She’s rejecting the idea because it’s e request that is so simple yet she is incapable. And she’s feeling imminent rejection
NOW THIS is what we want. More people like u. Both men and women need to cook and clean in a house. Just like both men and women need to earn in a house. If a woman OR a man says that he/she does not have a basic skill of cooking/cleaning, it’s wrong for EITHER OF THEM.
You don't cook and clean then you don't have a place to stay in my house. If you work and pay part of the bills I'll be helping with the cooking and cleaning.
WHO IS GOING TO CLEAN AFTER HER, HIRE A MAID FOR HER? I guess the next thing she would say is, I can't stand these children, you need to get a babysitter for them.
I saw both sets of grandmother's doing this for my grandfather's, and both grandmother's were treated like queens. I grew up seeing my mother setting the table, formally, for my father, at every meal. Sundays, formal setting for the entire family. This is what family camaderie is all about. My brothers and I, teach the younger generation in our family, the importance of self worth, love, integrity, togetherness, and most importantly, how to cook.
Great commentary. A Carolina girl got me when I saw her make a sweet potato pie...from scratch! She rolled the crust too.I called my Grandmother and told her I found the one! Granny said, "Son, you're easy!" 😂
I don’t understand being proud about not cooking and cleaning for obvious reasons, but the pick me attitude of bragging about being able to do those things is embarrassing too because cooking and cleaning is literally the bare minimum any adult SHOULD be able to do (even tho most can’t these days but it’s literally the bare minimum anyone should be able to do to run a decent household.
My niece was taught by me to cook, clean, to be a traditional woman. She is 21, gorgeous, and is chased by excellent quality males. She is a darn good cook, that puts most chefs to shame. I nurtured her that way.
I enjoy cooking for my husband. He aint get that tummy for nothing 😅. He does the yard and cars and takes out the trash . And i just maintain the house. It works for us .
Teach your son those basic life skills too so he doesn’t end up an incompetent mamas boy that wants his woman to do everything and doesn’t play his part in a relationship.
Exactly… my mom taught me how to cook but not my brother. He seeks women that can cook… I noticed that after she passed. My father through all the responsibility on me just because I’m a female. He would wait until I came home after school to buy groceries and cook just like my mother. He didn’t do anything. And he didn’t work or nothing but be abusive and we lost her because of him. He treated us like slaves. Especially me. But I fought back. None of my other friends had domestic duties. And it’s crazy that you have men that think that’s all a woman is good for.
I don't know how people could live on fast food only. Smh. There's nothing like home cooked meals. It warms the soul. The love you put into it is loved and respected by your family. Even if you can't cook ladies, try.
4 years cooking school in Italy. I was born in Caribbean and my mom teach me to cook when i was 13 years . I have work for two cruise line company as a Executive chef. I happy i don't need them
Men are often told “You ain’t this, and you ain’t that” and we have to go and become good enough, we as men have to become “qualified” but women overvalue what they bring to the table and actually believe that they are good enough but don’t have the outcome to back it up.
Man this so true I’m dealing with a 46 yo friend who refuses to cook or clean for her man I told her 15 years ago that’s going to be an issue men like that and she has 4 kids so you got to do a little to keep a man vs these fresh 25yo with no kids u gotta stand out! Her exact words “well I just don’t think those things are important”. Ok I left it alone fast forward that wall has hit her like Tyson! Who wants a 46 yo baby momma who won’t cook or clean? NO ONE! Single af and crying about it lmaooo!
Phil your 100% right! 😂 I put being older than me being a deal breaker a few years ago and within 30mins some women in her late 30s liked my profile. It's almost like I could feel the anger and argument that was about to happen! 🤣
I don’t get women who don’t cook or clean what does your home look like or your fridge ? I’m not coming over to no fast food house having a girls night ! 😂or no dirty home be forreal
Let me tell ya them houses be stank unkempt laundry everywhere dishes in the sink leftover food on the counter bathroom nasty af room looks a bomb went off in it I can attest my dad father was right if they won’t clean they house everyday they probably ain’t washing something else everyday he was 100 percent accurate she didn’t shower daily that relationship ended real quick
How does a woman not cook and clean and feel proud about that? I like my home clean because I just feel better in a clean home I can't stand filth! I like organization! My family eat out every once in a while for the heck of it, but that's costly and I am cheap! I like home cooked meals and that's why my family members are in good shape.
I don’t care if a woman can’t cook as long as she’s willing to cook because I am amazing at cooking and can always teach her how to make the meals I enjoy but a woman who refuses to cook is a problem. But as long as she’s willing to learn then I can work with that
How hard is it to put a roast and potatoes carrots celery bouillon and Italian seasoning in a crock pot and turn it on for 8 hours and walk away . Everybody will love that stuff.
Stay single if you want to be lazy. Don't become burden on someone's life. If you cant prepare meal for your husband who works allday to provide a home n come home for mess n no meal, you dont need to be in relationship.
Cooking and cleaning is basic life functions. If you don't cook, then you're eating out every meal and probably unhealthy. If you don't clean then your house or wherever you stay is gonna be nasty, and most times that includes personal hygiene. So to say you dont cook or clean, is to say your not even close to being an adult and a nasty person.
If someone tells me that they don’t clean…I naturally assume they’re dirty, disgusting, their personal hygiene is 🤮, and that they do not care about their health nor of the people who live with them. That’s what these people convey
I’m done cooking. I used to enjoy it. Grew up in a Hispanic household where it’s the woman’s job but my husbands kids disrespect my cooking whether it’s packaged or from scratch not bc it’s not good but bc I’m not their mom and I AM DONE
Bingo.. It sounds good to them but they would be out cheating in no time if they ever got what they say they want. Would get old fast to the man with someone laying around waiting for you to smash and they bring nothing else to the table.
My personal opinion: if a woman wants a career instead of cooking and cleaning but she uses that salary to pay for a house keeper and a meal service, then I'm okay with that. I'm happy if long as my house is clean and my stomach is full.
a woman who loves her man will learn how to cook and would want to cook for i assume her beloved husband, a woman who point blank says no is disrespectful and has no respect for her man kick her as to the curb
Another thing, when you cook your OWN food, at least you know what's IN IT. You can't trust what's in the grocery stores, let alone what's in your fast food.
If any woman refuse to learn how to cook and clean leave her immediately. What happen to our women now? Not all but many. This woman belong to the street and so in the words of the alte KS "get a cat or dog and die alone".
If a woman can't cook I'm not living with her anyway or marrying her. You gotta bring more than just your looks and your body. If you want to make a husband you see in the house everyday happy
It's funny you mentioned the part about the dating app bio because I did that during the pandemic, and you're right about them being upset. No kids, no tattoos, no smokers, no drinkers, no overweight women etc. My dm's stayed full of bitter women🤣
I loved to cook when I was in undergrad and grad school in Israel. I made Shabbat meals for my friends and we had great meals together. My best friend helped clean the dirty dishes after Shabbat.
Men don't have to be desperate to have a Woman living with them because majority of Men knows how to cook, clean and take care of themselves. Majority of Men have Peace with themselves
@@Rosemary46840 you need to go and sit down in the corner. Always a Dummy trying to act like they know everything. You need to stop messing with bums and know how to deal with a Real Man. Majority of Black Women don't know how to deal with a Real Man because you are not a Real Woman.
I shared with one of my coworkers, ironing is a woman’s job! He joked about me being from outer space because he said that phrase hasn’t been heard of in about 100 years!!! 😊😂😅
Cook him some hog maws and chitlins with a side of collard greens, and potatoe salad and some conebread. 🎉😅😂 Then take him upstairs and lay it on him.🤣 Ps. My bad. He'll probably be dead after he eat all that.😂
A lot of women today don't have to cook or clean because she is in a financial place where she can afford to hire a housekeeper. Many of my younger female family members don't cook or clean. They pay to have these tasks done. I am proud of them. The homes are sparkling.
Both men and women should be able to cook and clean.
It’s called being an adult.
If we both work… we both cook and clean.
Case closed😘
💯
I do both. That's why I'm by myself and handle my business. But don't interfere with what The Creator made. We have different nature's for a reason. Unfortunately, we are now europeanized and lost all that made natural sense.
@@wilfordgainer9134 Cooking and cleaning is not in a woman’s nature. That’s some sh!t males made up.
Sit down somewhere.
And women should fix their own tires, change their oil, and go 50/50
ABSOLUTELY!!!!
She don’t cook because she can’t. She’s rejecting the idea because it’s e request that is so simple yet she is incapable. And she’s feeling imminent rejection
💯💯💯💯💯
I cook and clean for myself. If a woman doesn't, I don't take her seriously.
Agreed! BOTH adult men and women should have the basic skills of cooking and cleaning.
NOW THIS is what we want. More people like u. Both men and women need to cook and clean in a house. Just like both men and women need to earn in a house. If a woman OR a man says that he/she does not have a basic skill of cooking/cleaning, it’s wrong for EITHER OF THEM.
You don't cook and clean then you don't have a place to stay in my house. If you work and pay part of the bills I'll be helping with the cooking and cleaning.
Exactly!
WHO IS GOING TO CLEAN AFTER HER, HIRE A MAID FOR HER? I guess the next thing she would say is, I can't stand these children, you need to get a babysitter for them.
Soooo, I can’t just lay around your house looking cute?
😂😂
Damn what has this world come to? 😂😂😂
@@alfredkay3210 White men do it.
@@PheonixBluezshe should go get one
Their mothers didn't raise them right.
I saw both sets of grandmother's doing this for my grandfather's, and both grandmother's were treated like queens. I grew up seeing my mother setting the table, formally, for my father, at every meal.
Sundays, formal setting for the entire family.
This is what family camaderie is all about. My brothers and I, teach the younger generation in our family, the importance of self worth, love, integrity, togetherness, and most importantly, how to cook.
I know that’s right uncle Phil, I love cooking for my husband ❤
Mine did too
Great commentary. A Carolina girl got me when I saw her make a sweet potato pie...from scratch! She rolled the crust too.I called my Grandmother and told her I found the one! Granny said, "Son, you're easy!" 😂
Cooking and cleaning is everything to me. I couldn't care less about a degree.
Modern women are lazy. This is why a lot of men are getting passports and leaving.
For real?
Degree or no disagree you still care about going 50/50 and you want her to cook and clean. Lol
@@Nihdem Are you a modern woman?? Because if you are, we have a problem.
@@Nihdemexactly.
Some of these modern women are really proud about not cooking and cleaning. That’s frightening 😮😵💫
Lauren Reed this is most women in the U.S.
Notice the ones that don’t cook or clean are usually single
I don’t understand being proud about not cooking and cleaning for obvious reasons, but the pick me attitude of bragging about being able to do those things is embarrassing too because cooking and cleaning is literally the bare minimum any adult SHOULD be able to do (even tho most can’t these days but it’s literally the bare minimum anyone should be able to do to run a decent household.
If only there weren’t so many 50/50 men out here…
It’s is especially if they have children.
My niece was taught by me to cook, clean, to be a traditional woman. She is 21, gorgeous, and is chased by excellent quality males. She is a darn good cook, that puts most chefs to shame. I nurtured her that way.
Ok so I’m convinced everybody got an Auntie Judy. I mean they may not all be as good as you and my Auntie. But I am convinced we all have one 😂😂😂💕💕
@Judith
MORE POWER TO YOU SISTER JUDITH!!!!👍👏👍👏
And that means what??
@@MsLisalisa24
That means she was taught to be a WOMAN!!!!
Good cook or not black women aren't it.
I wouldn't even insult my husband with a frozen pizza for dinner or lunch..
This! Thank you!
Amen sister.
Lmao 🤣
That is insulting and I be offended if a man did that to me.
He probably pays them bills 😂
If I have to go to Golden Coral or Old Country Buffet to get fed everyday, we will not be together
She should just get a cat
That's by the old school. Mom told men you got to learn how to cook for yourself
They don't cook! They don't clean! & never getting a ring 💍 😅
😂
Ring around the rosy ring around the tu
For every ALPHA FEMALE born, a CAT gets a new home
And less headaches. We can spend time doing other things that are more meaningful than being a slave to a male.
😂😂
@@PheonixBluez hit dog hollar
@@PheonixBluezgo feed yo cats
@@gregkareem9824 long as I'm not feeding an able bodied grown man...🙃
I CANNOT STAND a filthy house. I may not cook a lot but I STAY cleaning up
The kitty cat has become extremely overvalued in this society. And if they don't cook, that's all they have to offer. Not worth it.
Every female got one. So what's so special about hers ?
@@theawakeningblk Exactly.
That's why only fans and all these female rappers are so successful.
Also, both parties are working so both parties should cook and clean!
I enjoy cooking for my husband. He aint get that tummy for nothing 😅. He does the yard and cars and takes out the trash . And i just maintain the house. It works for us .
Amen sister.
SYSBM get your PASSPORT.
I don't want no woman who keeps a nasty house
Teaching my daughter all the essentials since she was 5 because I refuse for her to lack basic life skills...
Thank you for being a real mother!!
@@esthernichols4451 thank you for your positive comment. 💚
Teach your son those basic life skills too so he doesn’t end up an incompetent mamas boy that wants his woman to do everything and doesn’t play his part in a relationship.
Exactly… my mom taught me how to cook but not my brother. He seeks women that can cook… I noticed that after she passed. My father through all the responsibility on me just because I’m a female. He would wait until I came home after school to buy groceries and cook just like my mother. He didn’t do anything. And he didn’t work or nothing but be abusive and we lost her because of him. He treated us like slaves. Especially me. But I fought back. None of my other friends had domestic duties. And it’s crazy that you have men that think that’s all a woman is good for.
It's amazing how they want to tell men what they want. It's hilarious actually.
More so vice versa. On the other hand many men say they want one thing but actually want another.
I don't know how people could live on fast food only. Smh. There's nothing like home cooked meals. It warms the soul. The love you put into it is loved and respected by your family. Even if you can't cook ladies, try.
Men, from a woman’s perspective, if a woman can’t cook or clean, don’t give her the time of day; she is not worth a damn. These are the basics 🤦🏽♀️
And vice versa.
4 years cooking school in Italy. I was born in Caribbean and my mom teach me to cook when i was 13 years . I have work for two cruise line company as a Executive chef. I happy i don't need them
I'll be like ughhh dont you want a clean house? What do you eat bcuz I know you not eating out everyday....
Men are often told “You ain’t this, and you ain’t that” and we have to go and become good enough, we as men have to become “qualified” but women overvalue what they bring to the table and actually believe that they are good enough but don’t have the outcome to back it up.
You are right
Vice versa.
I don't deal with women who use filters and us obsessed with social media
Enjoy being by yoself ma’am 😂😂😂, don’t cry when the wall hits yu 😂
Baby the wall always hits men too.
Man this so true I’m dealing with a 46 yo friend who refuses to cook or clean for her man I told her 15 years ago that’s going to be an issue men like that and she has 4 kids so you got to do a little to keep a man vs these fresh 25yo with no kids u gotta stand out! Her exact words “well I just don’t think those things are important”. Ok I left it alone fast forward that wall has hit her like Tyson! Who wants a 46 yo baby momma who won’t cook or clean? NO ONE! Single af and crying about it lmaooo!
Men see cooking and cleaning is a must in a woman.... Period....
I won't deal with a woman that won't listen
She better hit the door quicker than I pull out pots and pans to cook for myself then..matter of fact, don't come to the steps
If you need to be on medication, please take it and don't let anyone shame you for seeking mental health care.
One thousand percent true!
Phil your 100% right! 😂 I put being older than me being a deal breaker a few years ago and within 30mins some women in her late 30s liked my profile. It's almost like I could feel the anger and argument that was about to happen! 🤣
I don’t get women who don’t cook or clean what does your home look like or your fridge ? I’m not coming over to no fast food house having a girls night ! 😂or no dirty home be forreal
Let me tell ya them houses be stank unkempt laundry everywhere dishes in the sink leftover food on the counter bathroom nasty af room looks a bomb went off in it I can attest my dad father was right if they won’t clean they house everyday they probably ain’t washing something else everyday he was 100 percent accurate she didn’t shower daily that relationship ended real quick
The people who dislike this video are the folks Phil's talking about. Facts!
How does a woman not cook and clean and feel proud about that? I like my home clean because I just feel better in a clean home I can't stand filth! I like organization! My family eat out every once in a while for the heck of it, but that's costly and I am cheap! I like home cooked meals and that's why my family members are in good shape.
A man who has himself together, should never settle for a woman who doesn’t.
I don’t care if a woman can’t cook as long as she’s willing to cook because I am amazing at cooking and can always teach her how to make the meals I enjoy but a woman who refuses to cook is a problem. But as long as she’s willing to learn then I can work with that
How hard is it to put a roast and potatoes carrots celery bouillon and Italian seasoning in a crock pot and turn it on for 8 hours and walk away . Everybody will love that stuff.
Thanks Phillip for saying that!!!!!!
This is a nasty women is you don't clean your house and cook. These are the basic things that you should have been taught as a child growing up.
Stay single if you want to be lazy. Don't become burden on someone's life. If you cant prepare meal for your husband who works allday to provide a home n come home for mess n no meal, you dont need to be in relationship.
Cooking and cleaning is basic life functions.
If you don't cook, then you're eating out every meal and probably unhealthy.
If you don't clean then your house or wherever you stay is gonna be nasty, and most times that includes personal hygiene.
So to say you dont cook or clean, is to say your not even close to being an adult and a nasty person.
I agree. Thank you for pointing this out.
Good assessment. I agree.
Brother, you are PREACHING!
If someone tells me that they don’t clean…I naturally assume they’re dirty, disgusting, their personal hygiene is 🤮, and that they do not care about their health nor of the people who live with them. That’s what these people convey
Passport bro's!
Some women been listen to cardi b way too often
And that is why I'm at my house,cooking my dinner,and single. 🙂
SAME 💯
This why I cook for myself and my kids. If she can't cook or clean that's a major turn off
So….. is there any cooking and cleaning going on with the women that have their own houses?
lady is 30+ years old talking like this. Then realizes why she hasn't gotten the results she wants.
I’m done cooking. I used to enjoy it. Grew up in a Hispanic household where it’s the woman’s job but my husbands kids disrespect my cooking whether it’s packaged or from scratch not bc it’s not good but bc I’m not their mom and I AM DONE
I do so much for myself that the only thing a woman can do is love me
that's so deep bruh
It sounds like she doesn't want to be a housewife. She should've just said that. Cooking and cleaning is a basic life skill.
Just Lazy! So all she wants to do is look pretty & lay up in the house all day. While you're at work.😡
Bingo.. It sounds good to them but they would be out cheating in no time if they ever got what they say they want. Would get old fast to the man with someone laying around waiting for you to smash and they bring nothing else to the table.
My personal opinion: if a woman wants a career instead of cooking and cleaning but she uses that salary to pay for a house keeper and a meal service, then I'm okay with that.
I'm happy if long as my house is clean and my stomach is full.
😂😂😂
Don't cook and clean keep it moving sweetie.
Thousands of years Mr Phil not millions the EARTH is not that Old
Dropping game on all the profile tips!!!
Someone you respect and care about. You introduce new and healthy things. Giving something they might have never known. Growth and maturity
There is nothing wrong with cooking fried chicken, hamburgers, barbecue ribs or chicken. I cook all that for my man and kids. They love it.
Correct. We Bout Done.
My coworkers told me they use a skowcooker frequently, as i do, its so easy, no reason not to have food to eat
a woman who loves her man will learn how to cook and would want to cook for i assume her beloved husband, a woman who point blank says no is disrespectful and has no respect for her man kick her as to the curb
Another thing, when you cook your OWN food, at least you know what's IN IT. You can't trust what's in the grocery stores, let alone what's in your fast food.
Agree completely 💯💯
If any woman refuse to learn how to cook and clean leave her immediately. What happen to our women now? Not all but many. This woman belong to the street and so in the words of the alte KS "get a cat or dog and die alone".
They are just keeping it real my brother ! I've met many of these liberated sistas with dirty houses.
That's a deal breaker period
If a woman can't cook I'm not living with her anyway or marrying her. You gotta bring more than just your looks and your body. If you want to make a husband you see in the house everyday happy
Keep it quick guys, she don't cook and clean, then I'm not gonna look and be mean.
It's funny you mentioned the part about the dating app bio because I did that during the pandemic, and you're right about them being upset. No kids, no tattoos, no smokers, no drinkers, no overweight women etc. My dm's stayed full of bitter women🤣
Oh wow, she can make a whole salad that takes 5 minutes to make 🙄
Bro her salad is a whole apple.
A woman with no meal plan but wants a relationship is weird
She getting a 😺 soon 😅😅😅
The ones with 4 legs or 2 legs ?
Four legs 😅😅
modern women who can't or don't do basic things but think they deserve a traditional man. 🤨
I loved to cook when I was in undergrad and grad school in Israel. I made Shabbat meals for my friends and we had great meals together. My best friend helped clean the dirty dishes after Shabbat.
Oh, I’m a Princess.
What did Cinderella’s step-sisters had her do?
Clean, clean, clean, clean.
Then her prince came.
No clean, no prince.
I’m from the south and I don’t eat all the BBQ ribs and pork and all. What’s wrong with these women.
Those women are not smart enough to open their minds to see What men do in different parts of the world. They have been too busy living in a fantasy😢
Men don't have to be desperate to have a Woman living with them because majority of Men knows how to cook, clean and take care of themselves. Majority of Men have Peace with themselves
You know it too.
That’s not true LMAOO, that was a good joke tho lml.
@@Rosemary46840 you need to go and sit down in the corner. Always a Dummy trying to act like they know everything. You need to stop messing with bums and know how to deal with a Real Man. Majority of Black Women don't know how to deal with a Real Man because you are not a Real Woman.
To each hes own, ladies & Gentleman.
And Theirin lies the problem.
@@jeffmiller9798 Yeah, to me is a problem.
I went out with this girl for a while and it was either I cook or go out and eat. The girl was pretty but she couldn’t make an egg sandwich.
No excuses, her mother failed her terribly, looks don't last forever
Amen brother
THIS NEEDS MORE VIEWS!!!!
I cook and clean..these women saying “oh I’m not cooking for no man”🙄 .. it is NOT hard to do lol
As a man I learned how to cook/clean at 13-14 years old. It is something how we on average are better cooks these days.
Preach, brotha!!!
MW: doesn't cook, doesn't clean and doesn't do housework. GOOD MEN: Naw, I'm good!!!
Truth!
it alright to eat baked foods, and clean house I do that sometimes I eat fry food every one awhile.
I shared with one of my coworkers, ironing is a woman’s job! He joked about me being from outer space because he said that phrase hasn’t been heard of in about 100 years!!! 😊😂😅
Good talk bro 😎
The cooking part can always be overcomed because it's a learning experience but for no cleaning? That makes me wonder of overall cleanliness.
Cook him some hog maws and chitlins with a side of collard greens, and potatoe salad and some conebread. 🎉😅😂 Then take him upstairs and lay it on him.🤣 Ps. My bad. He'll probably be dead after he eat all that.😂
Now she looks like she intake the fried chicken and burgers
Women that keep complaining about cooking dinner for their family. Cooking is an art form.😢.
Beyoncé says she does not cook or clean
A lot of women today don't have to cook or clean because she is in a financial place where she can afford to hire a housekeeper. Many of my younger female family members don't cook or clean. They pay to have these tasks done. I am proud of them. The homes are sparkling.