1) Ice 2) Bustle video 3) Feed yourself 4) Flats for happy feet 5) Emergency kit 6) Overnight Bag 7) Cash and ID 8) Tips 9) Water 10) Transportation 11) Reserved Seating signs for family 12) Photo Wrangler 13) Vendor Overtime 14) Vendor Meals 15) Music Selection 16) Marriage license 17) Gift Wrangler 18) Personal Items 19) Guest Book Pens 20) List of Items 21) Teardown Crew 22) Eyelash Glue 23) Bring your Invitation 24) Point Person 25) Breathe
@@beeblake7591 I just googled it, it's a video that teaches how to bustle a wedding dress. That is when someone essentially pins up the back of the dress, usually for the reception so it's not as big.
We had a buffet with a ton of food leftover. Biggest regret was not bringing tupperware for it because it was delicious and would have made a great snack at midnight.
Girl, same. We had a buffet and had a lot of food left over. We wanted to be sure the family got any extra food, but forgot to ask for some to take to our honeymoon with us. Could of saved us from having to resort to a convenience store trying to get basics the next day.
I would be careful with that, in Wisconsin (and likely other states as well) you can't take leftovers from a buffet due to health and liability concerns. I would check beforehand so you don't bring something you can't use.
@@Katie-io6fv a wedding is about two people, since the marriage is the combining of two people The bride is merely one half of that (unless of course, its two men getting married)
YES FEEDING THE VENDORS! Often times at my family parties we have a section (not just a table but like a section in a corner or something for them to put their stuff) just for the vendors with their own snacks and whatnot and we tell them that they’re also welcome to the food for the guests as well. We also let them in earlier than the guests so that if the want, they can eat before the event starts (ESPECIALLY the photographer) or they have some dry snacks that they can snack on throughout the event as well as some water
Excellent and very thoughtful. The boss of the event production company I worked for didn't do this or care. It was like pulling teeth to get him to provide water.
I just got engaged over the weekend, and I have gone into wedding planning mode (my fiancée has started calling it wedding brain) and your videos are super helpful!
Also, have someone collect all of the cash and gift cards together so that you can use them on your honeymoon. This was extremely helpful to me and my hubby
My clients always get so overwhelmed after they get engaged and they realize all that they have to do when it comes to wedding planning. These are great tips!
For #12 & #23...the photography reminders....YES!! I'm a wedding photographer and even though I tell my couples to have someone designated for wrangling people for family photos, it's like herding cats and takes up much more time than you realize! I also agree with reminding brides to bring an invitation for pictures, most brides don't. but they make for great detail pics!
Ooooh! Can you do a video on tipping vendors? Maybe just one on etiquette type things where you lump that in with a few other things? Like if gratuity is included with your food vendor for instance, how much do you tip on top? Do you tip on top? Do you tip the coordinator if her fee was an extra thing on top of renting the venue? So many tipping questions.
Ugh crying at number 25 right now. My partner and I got engaged this week and I needed that advice even in the planning stages. Thanks for the much needed reminder and tears. ❤️
Ice Bustle video Eat Bring flats Emergency kit (make up safety pins etc) Overnight bag Cash and ID Tip money in envelopes Water Transportation Reserved seating signs in first two rows Photo wrangler Vendor overtime cost Vendor meals Music selection Marriage license Gift wrangler Personal items cake topper cake knife cake server etc Guest book pens List of items and where they go Tear down crew Eyelash glue Bring your invitation for photos Point person Pause breather observe
Why have a vendor, when you could have a buffet where people put food into their own plates. I’d have a small wedding and have certain tables line up first so it’s no so chaotic. Also guest book is pointless. I think it’d be more fun to have a photo booth and have guests leave extra photos in a folder to make a scrap book later full of wedding picture from guests and the photographers as well.
@@xkaykay420xx Buffet is more expensive. If you have 100 guests: with a vendor you need 100 meals (everyone chooses their meals, ex: chicken, fish, veg.). With a buffet you basically need 100 of each option because you don't know what each guest wants. If people serve themselves and people take the vegetarian option for fun you might run out by the time an actual vegetarien comes through the line and then they might not be able to eat anything. Plus you can't control portion sizes if people serve themselves so you end up paying for way more food than you actually need so that you don't run out. If you're lucky the caterer will pack up all the extra food for you and you can freeze it for the next month but if you're not lucky you've paid for way too much food that might just end up in the garbage.
Yeah, we're cooking for our guests. Don't have any vegetarians on the list. We pulled off a funeral for 300+ people, with a food budget of $350. But our wedding will not be so large. Menu: Roasted pork Buns Salad Beans Chips & dips Cake Food for 100 +/- people = $150. 💜💜💜💜💜
You: "Hey, we're about to do the bouquet toss, what song am I supposed to play?" Me: A BOUQUET TOSS SONG!? *Frantically starts to Google* (Despite not even being engaged)
I didn't even know you could play one. I forgot about tossing the Boquet also.. Lol! Thankfully, my Wedding was postponed from this November to next June. (We might do July, though I know he wants to get married before Father's Day. I don't want a May wedding, he sujested March and I said no to that.. because it would be too cold for an outdoor wedding. We have had it snow in March, within the last couple years. So, not a good idea. But, June it would be nice weather.)
I found that wedding planners lack creativity & keeping track of the little ddtails you mentioned. I am now my daughter's wedding planner & everything is smoothe sailing & the $3000 we saved, we put into more flowers!
At the first wedding I planned/coordinated - I totally forgot to roll out the wedding runner. Didn’t dawn upon me until the bride and groom walked out. I slowly died inside 🤦🏻♀️
I just love the way you speak about it all, it just gives more fire and inspiration to work on this amazing day, insted of stressing out. I am so happy that I found you. People with whom you are on their wedding day are so blessed! You are amazing!!
100% I can not tell you as a planner how many times I have saved the day by bringing up Ice! So many of my clients just assume Ice magically appears. AND transportation! Lol
I had absolutely NO IDEA a wedding coordinator was necessary UNTIL WATCHING THESE VIDEOS 😭 now I’m stressing about having one ... about how much does a wedding coordinator charge ?? Does it depend on a lot of factors ? Or is it a flat rate ?
@@cristalrodriguez1589 A coordinator is not necessary for every wedding. But it's a must to have someone as a point person. Many brides pay a friend a fee just to be a day-off coordinator. Each coordinator offers different services, and charges different prices. Prices also vary by location. All will work with you from the beginning, some will offer partial service and almost all offer day-off services. It may seem pricy, but if you're having a wedding of over 100 people, and especially if distance is involved, (I live in Arizona, my daughter lives in upstate NY but the wedding is in Virginia) it is very helpful and worth the money. Google some in your area.
OMG! Listened to that and would've been so stressed out if I haven't had wedding already :) I remember one bride saying to the groom at 8 pm 'I just want this madness to end already'. I planned mine so that I would not need to worry, this was a party, I did not need all that. For eg. we did not throw flower petals and decorate church. The church was lovely and did not need stuff to be put there and a crew of cleaners after.
I FREAKING LOVE YOUR VIDEOS. It helps me so much with wedding planning, especially figuring out what people overlook and what's not important to spend money on. Thank you so much.
I'm writing frantically then at the end for #25 I burst out in tears thinking about how I'm only going to get that one day and I'm so unprepared and overwhelmed by these extra details... I'll do my best to enjoy the day, But I'm so incredibly overwhelmed already (5 months out).
1: ice 2: bustle video 3: food (feed yourself) 4: bring some flats 5: emergency kit 6: over night bag 7: cash and ID 8: tips 9: water (hydrate) 10: transportation 11: reserved seating signs 12: photo wrangler 13: vendor overtime 14: vendor meals 15: music selection 16: marriage liscenes 17: gift wrangler and vehicle it goes in 18: personal items (cake knife, champagne opener, etc.) 19: guest book pins 20: list of personal items and where they go 21: tear down crew 22: eyelash glue 23: bring your invitations 24: point person 25: pause, breath, observe, and repeat ♥
I'm getting married this year in june . I'm more stressed whats going on then planning. Love your video. I do have a wedding degree but never used it . 🙂 great tips 👍
Photo wrangler!! I love that! Yes!! Lol I've had to do that as the photog and knowing no names it's ridiculous. Love all the wranglers, this is truly one of the least utilized, most needed, jobs. Lol cake knife- I spent lots of time hot gluing bows and flowers to mine and they got left at home.
I just found your channel, I’m getting married next September so I’m currently binge watching! Seriously so helpful and I love how straightforward you are!
This is so helpful in planning my wedding rn I got a year until the day but being prepared is better than not 😅 my fiancé isn’t the artsy organized type so a lot is on my shoulders
The only thing that’s frustrating about feeding vendors is that they are already changing you $1000 plus to be there and the meals cost $100 each. Everything unfortunately is just so damn expensive now.
You are amazing. Recently started my wedding planning business. I have used so much of your advice. I have two weddings coming up. I am using so many of your tips
Binge watching your videos in preparation for my wedding in Oct 2020. I totally get people forgetting these things...we tend to focus on all the big things and its all in the little details that we forget.
Darcy L And it’s the little things that actually make the biggest difference!! Let me know if there’s anything I can help with in your planning process 💕
Yiiiiiiikes, planning for our wedding coming up in April. I thought I had accounted for most of the things already, but there were quite a few I had forgotten! We already hired a month of/day of wedding coordinator to help tie up possible loose ends and help us be able to have more freedom to enjoy the wedding day. Nonetheless, these are all super helpful tips that I’ll still try to prep prior to our meetings a month out from the wedding!! Glad I found this video and excited to check out your other videos! 😊
I just subscribed, because I am getting married next year. This video was so helpful, and I want to here any other advice that you have. I am looking forward to watching your other videos.
Love the videos and have watched heaps in the last few days since discovering your channel but video idea: tips/advice on a morning wedding and/or morning/lunch reception. Bit wordy but hopefully that made sense.
Thanks for your videos. I am getting married this year, so any tips are helpful. I am excited to watch your videos; literally, watching while I am in class... lol
I absolutely love your content Jamie! I am getting married in December this year (Summer here in Southern Hemisphere) and your videos are giving me lifeee! Also love the Sandy vibes and your hair is looking fab xxx
There are SO many of these that wont pertain to us. But we arent doing what 99% of couples do for their wedding. We are getting married in the same place were staying, and not hiring vendors. However, ice....we didnt even think about ice!!!
Do you NEED a planner ? What are the pros and cons ? I just got engaged, i'm the first in my family to plan an actual wedding and to actually get engaged. I'm completely overwhelmed lol
I like how it’s always the women remembering everything haha....my fiancé is being held responsible for being on top of things. I’m not marrying myself. He’s gonna contribute to planning 😂👏lol loved this video. It was really helpful to us!!!
Thank you SO MUCH! These are great things that I am recently engaged and have already learned so much from you. My best friend will be getting married soon as well, and I was wondering if you would be able to do a MOH video -- what they need to know, what they should do, what their responsibilities are, etc. Thanks so much!!
Jamie Wolfer Oh and I saw ur video for the first time yesterday AND subscribed! I've learned so much in a day binge-watching ur videos. Its been fun :p
So helpful oh my gosh. I have planned events before, but my own wedding, end of April 2019. These small details are the things that I know drive me crazy for regular event. What state are you in? I am in Vegas let me know if you would be interested to come here? Loved #25 by the way you ar absolutely right I hear so many brides say it went by so fast that I dont remember much.
Just a think about the first 2 rows thing-I had one of the event planning people come up to me at my brother’s wedding and tell me that that spot was received for the groom’s parents and sister. I looked her dead in the face and said “I am the groom’s sister” hurt my feelings for her to assume I shouldn’t be there.
Love the video and had a wedding planner for my wedding last month! She was exceptional and even though my day wasn't completely perfect, it went smoothly with the help of my planner!
I am all of my friend's tear down crew! Some how, I always know to stay till 3 am! Hahaha. I'm never asked. I just know. I send my daughter home early with a family member because they know too.... :)
1) Ice
2) Bustle video
3) Feed yourself
4) Flats for happy feet
5) Emergency kit
6) Overnight Bag
7) Cash and ID
8) Tips
9) Water
10) Transportation
11) Reserved Seating signs for family
12) Photo Wrangler
13) Vendor Overtime
14) Vendor Meals
15) Music Selection
16) Marriage license
17) Gift Wrangler
18) Personal Items
19) Guest Book Pens
20) List of Items
21) Teardown Crew
22) Eyelash Glue
23) Bring your Invitation
24) Point Person
25) Breathe
kattwin1 thank you!
What's a bustle video?
@@beeblake7591 I just googled it, it's a video that teaches how to bustle a wedding dress. That is when someone essentially pins up the back of the dress, usually for the reception so it's not as big.
@@MizzSophiistiicated8 thanks!
Omg bless your heart thank you so much!!
We had a buffet with a ton of food leftover. Biggest regret was not bringing tupperware for it because it was delicious and would have made a great snack at midnight.
Girl, same. We had a buffet and had a lot of food left over. We wanted to be sure the family got any extra food, but forgot to ask for some to take to our honeymoon with us. Could of saved us from having to resort to a convenience store trying to get basics the next day.
That's a great tip!
Yes! We forgot 2 and forgot cake! We had only had the piece of shared cake and it was so good.
I would be careful with that, in Wisconsin (and likely other states as well) you can't take leftovers from a buffet due to health and liability concerns. I would check beforehand so you don't bring something you can't use.
lifebrarian In Illinois, we were not allowed to take leftover buffet items-and that was a shame.
A groom, don't forget to get a groom. That's important for a wedding. Or a bride...
I have noticed many brides that seem to have this idea that the wedding is all about her
I never understood it
I knew I was forgetting something!
@@Yetaxa the wedding is all about her, she’s the one who normally takes care of all the wedding details. So yeah it’s gunna be about her.
@@Katie-io6fv a wedding is about two people, since the marriage is the combining of two people
The bride is merely one half of that (unless of course, its two men getting married)
@@Yetaxa I'm not sure how many weddings you've had but they're about the bride
Planned my own wedding and didn't forget a thing! Yaay
Please share your tips
YES FEEDING THE VENDORS! Often times at my family parties we have a section (not just a table but like a section in a corner or something for them to put their stuff) just for the vendors with their own snacks and whatnot and we tell them that they’re also welcome to the food for the guests as well. We also let them in earlier than the guests so that if the want, they can eat before the event starts (ESPECIALLY the photographer) or they have some dry snacks that they can snack on throughout the event as well as some water
Good idea
Excellent and very thoughtful. The boss of the event production company I worked for didn't do this or care. It was like pulling teeth to get him to provide water.
Honest question- where to seat the photographer at my wedding? With other guests feels wrong to me..
I appreciate how you get straight to the point but also explain things thoroughly! You're adorbs.
The Photo Wrangler is probably the most slept on wedding detail... it does wonders
I just got engaged over the weekend, and I have gone into wedding planning mode (my fiancée has started calling it wedding brain) and your videos are super helpful!
Cara Brokes Congrats Cara 🎉🎉💍 Haha wedding brain is for sure a real thing! Let me know if there’s anything I can help you with 💕
Also, have someone collect all of the cash and gift cards together so that you can use them on your honeymoon. This was extremely helpful to me and my hubby
My clients always get so overwhelmed after they get engaged and they realize all that they have to do when it comes to wedding planning. These are great tips!
For #12 & #23...the photography reminders....YES!! I'm a wedding photographer and even though I tell my couples to have someone designated for wrangling people for family photos, it's like herding cats and takes up much more time than you realize! I also agree with reminding brides to bring an invitation for pictures, most brides don't. but they make for great detail pics!
Ooooh! Can you do a video on tipping vendors? Maybe just one on etiquette type things where you lump that in with a few other things? Like if gratuity is included with your food vendor for instance, how much do you tip on top? Do you tip on top? Do you tip the coordinator if her fee was an extra thing on top of renting the venue? So many tipping questions.
Mel Hassan YES! This one is so important! I don’t want to poorly tip someone because I was uneducated.
Maybe advice on reading the fine print on the vendor contract
I don't believe after hiring and paying so much money I need to tip the vendor on top of his or her prices/ #ridiculous
I don’t have a boyfriend therefore no fiancé therefore no wedding YETTT I am binge watching this girls wedding videos 😂
Brielle Imana You are not alone in that. 😂
I have been marred for 4 months and still banging this...
Same here
all that and I'm 19. my mom thinks I want to get married in seven years lmao
AYE
lol I'm not even getting married but I still watch... you're so funny, "please feed us!" I swear that is me all the time.
Same! She is so helpful!!!
Why am I watching this lol?
I’m a teenager who is supposed to
be doing homework😂
Because you are a bright and intelligent person and believe more info is better than little planning. the 🤗😎
Yooooo me lol I'm only 20 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Shawn Begay only 20? 😂 im 18 getting married in 9 months
@@NoName-ht2fw 18 and 20 are both young ages to get married.
Same
Ugh crying at number 25 right now. My partner and I got engaged this week and I needed that advice even in the planning stages. Thanks for the much needed reminder and tears. ❤️
Ice
Bustle video
Eat
Bring flats
Emergency kit (make up safety pins etc)
Overnight bag
Cash and ID
Tip money in envelopes
Water
Transportation
Reserved seating signs in first two rows
Photo wrangler
Vendor overtime cost
Vendor meals
Music selection
Marriage license
Gift wrangler
Personal items cake topper cake knife cake server etc
Guest book pens
List of items and where they go
Tear down crew
Eyelash glue
Bring your invitation for photos
Point person
Pause breather observe
Why have a vendor, when you could have a buffet where people put food into their own plates. I’d have a small wedding and have certain tables line up first so it’s no so chaotic. Also guest book is pointless. I think it’d be more fun to have a photo booth and have guests leave extra photos in a folder to make a scrap book later full of wedding picture from guests and the photographers as well.
@@xkaykay420xx Buffet is more expensive. If you have 100 guests: with a vendor you need 100 meals (everyone chooses their meals, ex: chicken, fish, veg.). With a buffet you basically need 100 of each option because you don't know what each guest wants. If people serve themselves and people take the vegetarian option for fun you might run out by the time an actual vegetarien comes through the line and then they might not be able to eat anything. Plus you can't control portion sizes if people serve themselves so you end up paying for way more food than you actually need so that you don't run out. If you're lucky the caterer will pack up all the extra food for you and you can freeze it for the next month but if you're not lucky you've paid for way too much food that might just end up in the garbage.
Kaylee Ettleson it depends on what you want. I personally don’t want a buffet, so it’s all based on what you want
Yeah, we're cooking for our guests. Don't have any vegetarians on the list. We pulled off a funeral for 300+ people, with a food budget of $350. But our wedding will not be so large.
Menu:
Roasted pork
Buns
Salad
Beans
Chips & dips
Cake
Food for 100 +/- people = $150.
💜💜💜💜💜
I'm not trying to be nasty but... These are very easily remembered.
This hair makeup combo has to be my favorite. The makeup with the vest makes it very punk rock
You: "Hey, we're about to do the bouquet toss, what song am I supposed to play?"
Me: A BOUQUET TOSS SONG!? *Frantically starts to Google* (Despite not even being engaged)
Single ladies by Beyoncé is very fitting!! Hehe
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I didn't even know you could play one. I forgot about tossing the Boquet also.. Lol! Thankfully, my Wedding was postponed from this November to next June. (We might do July, though I know he wants to get married before Father's Day. I don't want a May wedding, he sujested March and I said no to that.. because it would be too cold for an outdoor wedding. We have had it snow in March, within the last couple years. So, not a good idea. But, June it would be nice weather.)
The Jeopardy theme song?
I think it is soo cool that you invent yourself new in most of the videos. You look sooo different in most of them. I love experimenting with style
This was literally the most helpful video I’ve ever seen. Thank you a million times from a bride whose wedding is in two weeks!
I'm already married but I had a few of these issues, thanks for doing this so others can get the help they need
I found that wedding planners lack creativity & keeping track of the little ddtails you mentioned. I am now my daughter's wedding planner & everything is smoothe sailing & the $3000 we saved, we put into more flowers!
I watched this video back when I first got engaged. I'm now getting married in less than 3 weeks and, MAN, she has saved me from all these mistakes
I've learned so many things about American weddings from these videos
At the first wedding I planned/coordinated - I totally forgot to roll out the wedding runner. Didn’t dawn upon me until the bride and groom walked out. I slowly died inside 🤦🏻♀️
I just love the way you speak about it all, it just gives more fire and inspiration to work on this amazing day, insted of stressing out. I am so happy that I found you. People with whom you are on their wedding day are so blessed! You are amazing!!
Mens black sox. They always forget them
Montana D Extra nylons if anyone is wearing them.
100% I can not tell you as a planner how many times I have saved the day by bringing up Ice! So many of my clients just assume Ice magically appears. AND transportation! Lol
YAAAAAAASSSSS!
Jamie, I'm a wedding coordinator out here in Dallas and I was screaming my agreement with this video! So enjoying your videos :)
I had absolutely NO IDEA a wedding coordinator was necessary UNTIL WATCHING THESE VIDEOS 😭 now I’m stressing about having one ... about how much does a wedding coordinator charge ?? Does it depend on a lot of factors ? Or is it a flat rate ?
@@cristalrodriguez1589 A coordinator is not necessary for every wedding. But it's a must to have someone as a point person. Many brides pay a friend a fee just to be a day-off coordinator. Each coordinator offers different services, and charges different prices. Prices also vary by location. All will work with you from the beginning, some will offer partial service and almost all offer day-off services. It may seem pricy, but if you're having a wedding of over 100 people, and especially if distance is involved, (I live in Arizona, my daughter lives in upstate NY but the wedding is in Virginia) it is very helpful and worth the money. Google some in your area.
This is one of the most helpful wedding planning videos I’ve seen on RUclips (and girl, I’ve watched A LOT)!
I coordinated my first wedding in May, and I'm just a little proud of how many of these things I remembered.
I love your videos!
Can you make a video on what a wedding planner does?
Just so we have an idea on what we can expect from industry.
You look so much like Sarah Jessica Parker
I was thinking the same thing about!
She's much prettier than SJP
kellij91 agreed
I also thought this as well!
Agree. She looks like a mix of SJP and Jamie Lynn Spears.
You're giving off strong Carrie Bradshaw vibes with that hair and makeup. LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!
Definitely Ubered from our after the wedding bar spot to my house, classiest thing ever.
I love that tip, before you walk down the isle, stop for a second and just look and take it all in
OMG! Listened to that and would've been so stressed out if I haven't had wedding already :) I remember one bride saying to the groom at 8 pm 'I just want this madness to end already'. I planned mine so that I would not need to worry, this was a party, I did not need all that. For eg. we did not throw flower petals and decorate church. The church was lovely and did not need stuff to be put there and a crew of cleaners after.
I FREAKING LOVE YOUR VIDEOS. It helps me so much with wedding planning, especially figuring out what people overlook and what's not important to spend money on. Thank you so much.
Somethings are not needed!! Alot alot of things are not needed.. But thank god I never forgot any of this stuff ever.. Thank god
I'm writing frantically then at the end for #25 I burst out in tears thinking about how I'm only going to get that one day and I'm so unprepared and overwhelmed by these extra details... I'll do my best to enjoy the day, But I'm so incredibly overwhelmed already (5 months out).
THANKS! I almost forgot a cake cutter!! You're a life saver. I'm getting married Saturday!!
Girl I can’t thank you enough! Recently engaged and already binge watching your videos. AMAZING TIPS
1: ice
2: bustle video
3: food (feed yourself)
4: bring some flats
5: emergency kit
6: over night bag
7: cash and ID
8: tips
9: water (hydrate)
10: transportation
11: reserved seating signs
12: photo wrangler
13: vendor overtime
14: vendor meals
15: music selection
16: marriage liscenes
17: gift wrangler and vehicle it goes in
18: personal items (cake knife, champagne opener, etc.)
19: guest book pins
20: list of personal items and where they go
21: tear down crew
22: eyelash glue
23: bring your invitations
24: point person
25: pause, breath, observe, and repeat ♥
Bingeing on your videos because I am getting married in 2020 and currently planning. Love your videos!!! :) x
Good luck xx
Same!! What’s your date? Mine is October 10th
Literally same lol congratulations
Me to!💜
How did you guys make our with covid?
Getting married in 46 days! Your videos are so helpful!
I hope your wedding was amazing!
I'm getting married this year in june . I'm more stressed whats going on then planning. Love your video. I do have a wedding degree but never used it . 🙂 great tips 👍
Photo wrangler!! I love that! Yes!! Lol I've had to do that as the photog and knowing no names it's ridiculous. Love all the wranglers, this is truly one of the least utilized, most needed, jobs. Lol cake knife- I spent lots of time hot gluing bows and flowers to mine and they got left at home.
Thankkkk youuuuuu photo wrangler!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yesssss
Please don’t ever take this video down because I don’t know when I’ll get married but this will help!!!!!
As someone who works in catering we do typically feed the crew, if it's set up and requested
Also the hair and makeup is on point!
I just found your channel, I’m getting married next September so I’m currently binge watching! Seriously so helpful and I love how straightforward you are!
Congrats girl! You're doing awesome if you're already in the planning for next September!
This is so helpful in planning my wedding rn I got a year until the day but being prepared is better than not 😅 my fiancé isn’t the artsy organized type so a lot is on my shoulders
After an internship in wedding planning this summer...can’t relate to remembering to feed the vendors more 😂
This makes me SO thankful my wedding is so low key and easy going
The only thing that’s frustrating about feeding vendors is that they are already changing you $1000 plus to be there and the meals cost $100 each. Everything unfortunately is just so damn expensive now.
You are amazing. Recently started my wedding planning business. I have used so much of your advice. I have two weddings coming up. I am using so many of your tips
Number 25 was my favorite tip. Super helpful video and I’ve saved it to look back on periodically as my planning process unfolds. Thank you so much 😊
A wonderful review for a month before to go thru with wedding party and event creator
Your hair is literally always stunning and I am so impressed and jealous.
Binge watching your videos in preparation for my wedding in Oct 2020. I totally get people forgetting these things...we tend to focus on all the big things and its all in the little details that we forget.
Darcy L And it’s the little things that actually make the biggest difference!! Let me know if there’s anything I can help with in your planning process 💕
How's it going now?
This is extra helpful, I am planning a backyard wedding and I wont have a wedding planer so I am freaking out! Thank you so much!
The look is a vibe on you!
I've photographed 10 weddings so far and have only been fed at one and that was me sneaking food from the buffet. Honestly, feed us!
This is an absolutely life saving video! Thank you soooo much for sharing your expertise with all of us!
your channel is BEYOND HELPFUL. ugh thank you so much
3.5 weeks to my wedding so of course re-watching!!
Yiiiiiiikes, planning for our wedding coming up in April. I thought I had accounted for most of the things already, but there were quite a few I had forgotten! We already hired a month of/day of wedding coordinator to help tie up possible loose ends and help us be able to have more freedom to enjoy the wedding day. Nonetheless, these are all super helpful tips that I’ll still try to prep prior to our meetings a month out from the wedding!! Glad I found this video and excited to check out your other videos! 😊
I just subscribed, because I am getting married next year. This video was so helpful, and I want to here any other advice that you have. I am looking forward to watching your other videos.
Heather Perry Congrats on your engagement Heather! Let me know if you have any planning questions 💕
We are having a diy micro wedding soon. This video is incredibly helpful!
Love the videos and have watched heaps in the last few days since discovering your channel but video idea: tips/advice on a morning wedding and/or morning/lunch reception. Bit wordy but hopefully that made sense.
Love the idea for the reserved seating signs!
Thanks for your videos. I am getting married this year, so any tips are helpful. I am excited to watch your videos; literally, watching while I am in class... lol
So exciting! Congrats!!
Another topic you completely nailed! So many good things to think about for my upcoming wedding. Thanks again, you’re awesome!
Her tips are definitely awesome!
So helpful!! Crunch time for my October wedding and some of this i forgot!!
I absolutely love your content Jamie! I am getting married in December this year (Summer here in Southern Hemisphere) and your videos are giving me lifeee! Also love the Sandy vibes and your hair is looking fab xxx
Definitely a Jennifer Lawrence look! You look great
Here I am four years later and this is still a great video!!
EYELASH GLUE!!! I keep some on me for any and every event haha
She said emergency kit and I thought, "First aid for my feet, bandaides, bandages, ice pack, ibuprofen..."
There are SO many of these that wont pertain to us. But we arent doing what 99% of couples do for their wedding. We are getting married in the same place were staying, and not hiring vendors. However, ice....we didnt even think about ice!!!
Saving the day one video at a time - superweddinghero! ❤
Do you NEED a planner ? What are the pros and cons ? I just got engaged, i'm the first in my family to plan an actual wedding and to actually get engaged. I'm completely overwhelmed lol
How's it going now?
I like how it’s always the women remembering everything haha....my fiancé is being held responsible for being on top of things. I’m not marrying myself. He’s gonna contribute to planning 😂👏lol loved this video. It was really helpful to us!!!
Thank you SO MUCH! These are great things that I am recently engaged and have already learned so much from you. My best friend will be getting married soon as well, and I was wondering if you would be able to do a MOH video -- what they need to know, what they should do, what their responsibilities are, etc. Thanks so much!!
You are amazing! Thank you so much for making a video like this. It will be very helpful when my wedding comes along 😁❤
Jamie Wolfer Oh and I saw ur video for the first time yesterday AND subscribed! I've learned so much in a day binge-watching ur videos. Its been fun :p
Thank you!!! Wedding in 12 months and you bring calm to our lives lol 😍
So helpful oh my gosh. I have planned events before, but my own wedding, end of April 2019. These small details are the things that I know drive me crazy for regular event. What state are you in? I am in Vegas let me know if you would be interested to come here? Loved #25 by the way you ar absolutely right I hear so many brides say it went by so fast that I dont remember much.
Question, what's the "tip rule"? Like what's a good amount to give?
Your hair looks AMAZING
Awwwww Jamie I just love you. Thanks for this video! Two months until my big day and I’m loving your vids
Just a think about the first 2 rows thing-I had one of the event planning people come up to me at my brother’s wedding and tell me that that spot was received for the groom’s parents and sister. I looked her dead in the face and said “I am the groom’s sister” hurt my feelings for her to assume I shouldn’t be there.
Your curls are gorgeous
When did it fall out of favor to put the MOH and/or BM in charge of gifts/cards?
Love the video and had a wedding planner for my wedding last month! She was exceptional and even though my day wasn't completely perfect, it went smoothly with the help of my planner!
I am all of my friend's tear down crew! Some how, I always know to stay till 3 am! Hahaha. I'm never asked. I just know. I send my daughter home early with a family member because they know too.... :)
I’ve just come across this video by chance. It’s so incredibly useful. Thank you.
Love your videos, Jamie!
Could you do a video on having a DJ vs doing music yourself with a playlist vs live band? Would be useful!
Love the hair and make-up reminds me a little of Carrie from Sex and The City!