PhD and Boyfriend? Good advice from Lee Kuan yew

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  • Опубликовано: 27 янв 2025

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  • @limingchin
    @limingchin 25 дней назад +432

    When this first came out, not many educated female Singaporeans were pleased at that time. Many of my friends were indignant. Years have passed and once again, the wisdom of our late prime minister had proven correct.

    • @joet4811
      @joet4811 23 дня назад +67

      That angry sentiment is due to western feminism, but once they hit their 30's onwards, they'll know what they're missing out on and you'll see them with cats/dogs or on dating sites 😂😂.

    • @eagleeyemind4800
      @eagleeyemind4800 21 день назад

      Many of those women will never learn, especially later on. Cognitive dissonance is too strong

    • @fredhaas-l2k
      @fredhaas-l2k 21 день назад +6

      at least singaporean feminists can speak singapore so that will make everything ok 🤣😂

    • @eagleeyemind4800
      @eagleeyemind4800 21 день назад

      @ it’s called mandarin you doof

    • @joet4811
      @joet4811 21 день назад +1

      @@fredhaas-l2k nah, their saving grace is Malaysia. They can hop over to the causeway and try to snag a man over there.

  • @YV-2000
    @YV-2000 Месяц назад +328

    He was not disrespectful at all in my opinion. His recommendation comes from genuineness. Great man.

  • @sherthek
    @sherthek Месяц назад +206

    LKY is so straightforward ... I lived in Singapore for some years during his time...and there was this debate about the salaries for ministers....he was so forceful and said he will hire the best surgeon in the country to be the health minister, the best engineer to be in charge of ports and so on and he will pay even more than what they can earn in private sector, he wants the country to be run by the best talents and they should not have any reasons to regret.... I was checking over the past years like LKY said in this interview 13 years ago, Singapore is still granting citizenship to 23K per year!!!!

    • @anhbaoconnecticut3128
      @anhbaoconnecticut3128 Месяц назад +8

      A true leader will cultivate and employ talented experts to help with decision making!

    • @kevinlee3465
      @kevinlee3465 21 день назад +2

      We are an immigrant and will continue to be.
      Without immigrants building our country decades ago, we can only remain as a fishing port

    • @mojazzz284
      @mojazzz284 18 дней назад +2

      No all Singaporeans are immigrants. Some minority are indigenous.

    • @honor9lite1337
      @honor9lite1337 11 дней назад

      Ok

  • @TaharaLocc
    @TaharaLocc Месяц назад +232

    Here is a true leader who spoke sense and did not try to please crowds by lying!

  • @Gurugurustan
    @Gurugurustan Месяц назад +275

    I respect the girl who asked that question. She's about 2 yrs younger than me. I almost forgotten the time since when Singaporeans started becoming aware of the rising immigrant population then this video reminded me. It was a valid question that many Singaporeans would ask. Yes Mr Lee did answer the question with the reason why we need immigrants, economically and statically. But the part of the question about how do we remain cohesive and sense of belonging, was quickly shot down with that he disagreed and cited the stagnancy of Japan's policy at that time.
    A bit embarrassing for the girl when the crowd laughed, but respect to her for taking it and answering the dare with true answers. She could have skirted around it with yes she had a BF.

    • @barondino4628
      @barondino4628 Месяц назад +22

      "Cohesiveness and sense of belongings" are great, but a luxury only populations that reproduce themselves can have.

    • @Navak_
      @Navak_ Месяц назад +23

      He answered the part about how to remain cohesive and have a sense of belonging while taking in foreigners. He said integration is important, a higher priority even than maintaining a young population, and we can integrate 25,000 per year at the most, so that's what we will do.

    • @CCEnt-lu9ko
      @CCEnt-lu9ko 16 дней назад +13

      I think he did answer - get married, have more children who will be naturally integrated, cohesive, and with a sense of belonging. Then we won’t need that many migrants.

    • @boxoffisa
      @boxoffisa 14 дней назад

      Was this you trying to analyze the Dialoge they had? I am reading your comment to help myself to avoid misunderstanding others. I mean he answered everything rightly. And I don’t think she was embarrassed she took it as funny given the way she laughed.

    • @sirius3592
      @sirius3592 6 дней назад +2

      ​@@boxoffisaThe lady, Ms Joan Sim, gave an interview to TNP some time after - she felt humiliated after that exchange

  • @vince7597
    @vince7597 26 дней назад +56

    I am from the Philippines and Lee Kuan yew is I think a very smart leader. He stands from logic and not on how people see or view him.
    I hope our politicians and leaders will learn from him.
    Also I commend Singaporeans for acknowledging a great leader! I also hope my fellow Filipinos will someday learn how to select a smart and humble leader like him.

  • @tkyap2524
    @tkyap2524 Месяц назад +95

    The man has left us, but his words are a legacy.

  • @bigthings
    @bigthings Месяц назад +122

    Oh man. How I long for leadership like this again

  • @HuyBui-v4b
    @HuyBui-v4b 17 дней назад +9

    every of this man speech contains the amount of knowledge and wisdom of all the politicians in the US combine. He is the ultimate type of leader that has a very broad knowledge across many different fields, and has succesfully applied it into running his country, what a respectable man, opposite to all the politician clowns nowadays who could not even bring up a good debate

  • @sitcom1971
    @sitcom1971 27 дней назад +36

    Would love to see updates on Phd girl.

  • @Krypton-r17
    @Krypton-r17 14 дней назад +5

    What a wiseman, thank you for your hard work that transform where Singapore is today.

  • @huiking
    @huiking Месяц назад +105

    I think many missed the answer to the question which show lky is a statesman. He answered it immediately and the answer is we are not going to intergrete the foreign worker. Send send them home after they have slogged in Singapore for entire lifes when they are no longer econonically productive. But he cannot say this publicly. So he inferred it and gave 2 long reasons for this.

    • @raptorhacker599
      @raptorhacker599 Месяц назад +2

      😂

    • @GaneshPalraj1991
      @GaneshPalraj1991 29 дней назад

      Man everywhere the thought is the same , i'm genuinely asking.
      for example if the foreign worker is indian , so he should slog away his productive years to singapore and should be deported to his country.
      But people of chinese and other east asian descents can stay because they are from the same mongoloid group.
      Is that your assertion?
      and the guy who posted the video, I gather that he agrees with the statement made.

    • @nnaaeee
      @nnaaeee 18 дней назад +11

      While you are not wrong, your answer is just one part of the equation. You can integrate the foreign worker, but only certain groups. 60,000 applied each year, and out of that, the most 'integratable' 20,000 will be chosen. So, its not like we are not going to integrate the foreign worrker, its just that most are just not a good fit with the Singaporean society.

  • @knowlife4486
    @knowlife4486 Месяц назад +27

    A good father like leader.

  • @nl7247
    @nl7247 Месяц назад +40

    Some people having more education and doing a phd as young as possible are good for their future… Some of them become out of touch or have no touch with the real world. ❤

  • @RahimRahmat
    @RahimRahmat Месяц назад +53

    Well, there you have it - the case in point was ironically asking the question!

  • @piyassarkar6290
    @piyassarkar6290 Месяц назад +84

    This guy is way ahead of its time

    • @aduhaneh1057
      @aduhaneh1057 Месяц назад +5

      yep, but he came at the right time.

  • @vernitan5184
    @vernitan5184 Месяц назад +22

    All said … great statesman (greatest ever in my view) …I am so so proud of our LKY…. done so so much to our little red dot…what amazing foresight 🙏🙏👍👏👏👏

  • @summery111
    @summery111 20 дней назад +27

    On the other hand, how many men would be able to provide for 3 persons, 2 children + wife + not forgetting himself, decent living expenses, if birthrate is to hit 2?

    • @nofanfelani6924
      @nofanfelani6924 16 дней назад +17

      If man can provide for a family of 4 or more in the past, but cannot in the present. There is something wrong with our society today.
      We are not progressing into better life, but into harder life.

  • @edlicsathiamurthy4520
    @edlicsathiamurthy4520 Месяц назад +54

    LKY's pragmatism is truly great

    • @Bubba-z4s
      @Bubba-z4s Месяц назад +5

      Nah, too old-fashioned but then he was an old geezer.

    • @SeanAnthony-j7f
      @SeanAnthony-j7f Месяц назад +2

      Everybody is essentially always valuing utility. But I don't know why not all is like Singapore. Wait, maybe because of corruption. Yes it is! 😂

    • @PurpleDoritos666
      @PurpleDoritos666 12 дней назад

      @@Bubba-z4s Why change something if it works?

    • @Bubba-z4s
      @Bubba-z4s 12 дней назад +1

      @@PurpleDoritos666 It works for you but it may not work for others.

  • @MikeSmith-mp2dt
    @MikeSmith-mp2dt 16 дней назад +5

    This guy could see years in advance .
    A big fan from Italy

  • @yumik8833
    @yumik8833 19 дней назад +6

    Certainly miss LKY lots, my father's favourite man on earth. Missing both of them.

  • @smellybearc7411
    @smellybearc7411 16 дней назад +7

    He was talking to her as if she was her granddaughter lol. The world truly was blessed with some great leaders, wasn’t it?

  • @Alpha-jk3be
    @Alpha-jk3be 18 дней назад +7

    I was in Singapore a couple of months ago, the cost of living have gone way up. I work online and i now prefer going to countries likes Malaysia, Thailand, Philippines… you get more for your money in these countries… the best is the Philippines bcoz they speak fluent English…

  • @koruptorbesar9141
    @koruptorbesar9141 Месяц назад +29

    In life, we try to be gracious not to look at only negative of someone's life. A balanced view is always more constructive.
    LKY and his family are certainly not perfect. Yet he and his family have built Singapura, into a place where most people in the world would envy.

  • @prabutruth
    @prabutruth Месяц назад +26

    what a inspiring leader only if India or at least tamilnadu get a leader like him

  • @sbaumgartner9848
    @sbaumgartner9848 Месяц назад +13

    I love this man. He was tough but that's what Singapore needed to become the brilliant country it is today. If I was in my 20's and had skills Singapore needed I'd move there even if I couldn't get citizenship. Today people are lucky in they can get permanent residency and I can see why.

  • @yhmmmm9766
    @yhmmmm9766 Месяц назад +83

    Ironically his daughter didn’t get married or have any kids.

    • @cathdan
      @cathdan Месяц назад +25

      Nothing to do with his legacy. His sons though have multiple and even married twice.

    • @yong9613
      @yong9613 Месяц назад

      ​@@cathdanAnyone with their earning power can render cost of living moot enough to start a family with enough numbers to run a traditional farm without modern industrial farm machinery!!

    • @HoChoProductions
      @HoChoProductions 28 дней назад +6

      His sons did, so it doesn't matter.

    • @eagleeyemind4800
      @eagleeyemind4800 21 день назад +4

      Why am I not surprised

    • @mail4500-bx9lb
      @mail4500-bx9lb 19 дней назад

      Life is full of irony, isn't it ?

  • @kazumakiryuu2668
    @kazumakiryuu2668 Месяц назад +50

    He possessed a remarkable ability to offer guidance to others, skillfully navigating their dilemmas with wisdom and tact. Yet, when it came to his own children, he found himself at a loss, unable to extend the same clarity and counsel. Imagine being part of a renowned family-a name that commands admiration and respect. But what happens when the pillar of that family, the esteemed leader, is no longer there? The once-proud bonds begin to unravel, relationships deteriorate into fragments of what they once were, and the family becomes the subject of idle chatter in coffee shops, a cautionary tale for curious onlookers.

    • @pok1pok
      @pok1pok Месяц назад +3

      Power corrupts absolutely and power made LKY so absolutely corrupt in the sense, he began thinking of himself in immortal terms, like no stranger can step into his 'hallowed' house after his death. Consequently, so high handed was he, he willed his home to PM LHL (elder), then probably give instruction both public but seems especially to LHY the younger.
      His own family if not the entire nation is divided with his offspring suffering serious internecine conflict as a result, hopefully, his greed for power doesn't leave a time bomb which will unravel Singapore society in the near future.

    • @TalkOnly2024
      @TalkOnly2024 Месяц назад +15

      Hi when we talk about LKY, i think we need to have respect for him. He would have sacrificed his own life and family for Singapore. And he has, and likely he has spent more time at work building Singapore rather than spending time building his family. It is sad that when he is gone, his children fought over his house and tried to destroy each other, that they value the idea of the house over the value of their relationship.

    • @michaelyoong7
      @michaelyoong7 Месяц назад +10

      ​@@pok1pokLKY had talked openly about his house. He wanted it knocked down & the land re-developed so it would not be exploited for political capital/symbolism! LKY has visited Nehru's old house in India & was shocked at its condition & how it was exploited!

  •  5 дней назад +4

    women: "i'm happy with pursuing my education and my dream career"
    men: "no you're not, now go get married and bear children for TRUE happiness"

  • @CuriousCyclist
    @CuriousCyclist День назад

    This was so long ago but so foresighted. The issue of falling fertility rates in almost all developed countries is even more pressing now.

  • @Canq9133
    @Canq9133 20 дней назад +22

    😢His personal questions about married or not are unacceptable in Australia.... marrying wrong person could be damaging....it's the job of government to encourage birth rate through financial incentives and educate men to share households....not blaming women alone...

  • @markaurelius61
    @markaurelius61 20 дней назад +9

    It is great when leaders can speak the truth and do not worry about offending some demographic

  • @beluwuga
    @beluwuga 9 дней назад +6

    He teaches her not to be a stiff, forgetting what we’re truly fighting for. She’s dedicated and smart but if she ignores her personal life, before long, she’d realize she lost everything, but that’s when it’s already too late. He loves ambitious people, but then again, we are still people, not have personal life not building connections turns us into robots snd shunts us from the beauty that life offers.

  • @xiaolong174
    @xiaolong174 День назад

    during the year from about 05-07, the bar for getting a PR of singapore is very low. This also bring some issues.Fortunately, the policy changed quickly

  • @free2chasehappy
    @free2chasehappy 20 дней назад +1

    Lee Kuan Yew if often regarded as one of the most brilliant mind in politics. I wish the west would learn from him as his wisdom has proven right time and time again.

  • @nitishgobinda9563
    @nitishgobinda9563 29 дней назад +10

    He spoke like master Oogway. 😅

  • @NicO-cm2xo
    @NicO-cm2xo Месяц назад +60

    Simple solution but not easy; support childcare cost by 80%, legalize flexible wfh, and legalize childcare friendly offices.

    • @georgebrantley776
      @georgebrantley776 Месяц назад +2

      What would happen if the cost of childcare goods and services increase as a result of government subsidy to the cost?

    • @yong9613
      @yong9613 28 дней назад +1

      @@georgebrantley776 Please bring up some concrete statistics before you engage in Polemics

    • @mikolowiskamikolowiska4993
      @mikolowiskamikolowiska4993 27 дней назад

      Support with what? Grass? Air? Optimism? Be realistic

    • @mikolowiskamikolowiska4993
      @mikolowiskamikolowiska4993 27 дней назад

      ​@@yong9613every govt subsidy increases costs unsustainable

    • @AetherLemmie
      @AetherLemmie 26 дней назад

      @@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993Taxes 😂😂😂

  • @sandl3544
    @sandl3544 16 дней назад +1

    Without Mr Lee, there is no Singapore. Thank you.

  • @gurjotsingh8934
    @gurjotsingh8934 Месяц назад +31

    What a legend “Its more important and satisfying than your PhD”

  • @roysworld88
    @roysworld88 14 дней назад

    He is spitting truth. Just no one really heed how important it was. And today we see the impact of it

  • @cheryldisney90
    @cheryldisney90 16 дней назад +1

    Gosh I miss him… he is so cute with his response…. 😂

  • @trideba1132
    @trideba1132 8 дней назад

    Person with great sense of humor 😁

  • @yiming99
    @yiming99 Месяц назад +8

    it will be interesting if the media can do a followup story to find out the current marital status of the student who asked the question.

  • @olivierporte
    @olivierporte Месяц назад +38

    That woman who asked the question is 40 now? No doubt she earned her PhD; did she get married and contribute her "1.8" children? Or better yet "2.1" children?

    • @clarantromillo
      @clarantromillo 22 дня назад

      Women don't owe anyone bearing children. Not now, not anymore. Deal with it, we are not your incubators.

  • @karenjonstone8763
    @karenjonstone8763 18 дней назад +5

    Just saying - Lee Kuan Yew referring to people with down syndrome as 'Mongol" is offensive to the people of Mongolia, and equivalent to someone referring to anyone with a disability as 'Singaporean' just because they don't speak English the same way. Also there is a pre birth test you can do for down syndrome.

  • @HnapaSailo
    @HnapaSailo Месяц назад +10

    Oh so sweet

  • @4178yasar
    @4178yasar 10 дней назад

    We all miss mr lee. 1 in a million

  • @w60496
    @w60496 Месяц назад +7

    its easier to get further studies and retrun to the workforce after you have a child compared to putting further studies and joining the workforce first.

  • @stevenheng8956
    @stevenheng8956 22 дня назад +3

    LKY is the best and always doing right. Why r ministers not even thinking about all these issues now??

  • @owenchan8431
    @owenchan8431 22 дня назад +7

    Such anecdotal evidence of the girl not planning marriage is case in point

  • @sevbjr
    @sevbjr 14 дней назад

    "My advise to you, don't waste time... it is more important and satisfying than your PhD" LKY spoke like a loving grandfather to his granddaughter. What a great leader!

    • @Narychitchat
      @Narychitchat 11 дней назад

      Well said!!

    • @yong9613
      @yong9613 8 дней назад

      Didn't know you can vote some stranger to be your grandfather 🤔
      Uniquely Singapore

  • @murphycooper3404
    @murphycooper3404 17 дней назад +2

    Speaking facts.

  • @Tom-tk3du
    @Tom-tk3du 7 дней назад

    LKY was a great leader. A true visionary and honorable person.

  • @bakerstreet101
    @bakerstreet101 Месяц назад +6

    Love how political correctness is not subservient to practicality in some places like Singapore.

    • @yong9613
      @yong9613 Месяц назад +1

      You mean in Reddit or Sammyboy forum?

  • @bruceerwin5430
    @bruceerwin5430 24 дня назад +3

    This man was such an amazing leader.

  • @latexdrc
    @latexdrc Месяц назад +18

    Recognize common in law relationships the same as married

    • @shin-ishikiri-no
      @shin-ishikiri-no 22 дня назад

      Why?

    • @xondeez757
      @xondeez757 22 дня назад

      You morally ruin your country if you allow that. Boyfriend girlfriend is not the same as marriage, do no morally degrade your country

  • @MrVirgo7
    @MrVirgo7 Месяц назад +6

    Let’s find this lady and see how’s she doing now .😊

  • @yoloboi9489
    @yoloboi9489 18 дней назад +2

    Should fast forward her life to today. Maybe she got her phd, married and have 2 children. 😊

  • @Zinnie988
    @Zinnie988 17 дней назад +1

    Presenting a statistic 'live' with series of questions like Daddy's do! 😂

  • @user-zs9ek1bx5z
    @user-zs9ek1bx5z Месяц назад +7

    Migrants help Singapore economy moving and growing 🙏⭐

    • @Athenswinslava
      @Athenswinslava Месяц назад

      Singapore migrants are very selective aka skilled migrants, not criminals from Latin America

  • @syebayip7661
    @syebayip7661 Месяц назад +3

    Can we find out where is this girl now?

  • @ewokmoses5909
    @ewokmoses5909 19 дней назад +2

    Is she a mum now ?? Been 41yo already. Kikekkekkkek.

  • @tunggulardiantoro5185
    @tunggulardiantoro5185 Месяц назад +3

    Good.❤❤

  • @jimmykohpbm1543
    @jimmykohpbm1543 Месяц назад +3

    Good 👍👍👍👍👍

  • @devclst
    @devclst 21 день назад +2

    when is this aired?

  • @mclovin6537
    @mclovin6537 21 день назад +1

    This or probably then most based man who ever lived

  • @benjamintaine4476
    @benjamintaine4476 21 день назад +2

    I wonder if the young lady eventually earned her PhD and found her boyfriend over time

  • @flikcof7910
    @flikcof7910 Месяц назад +34

    Fast forward to 2024. Cost went through the roof. Locals are losing their ability to compete for good jobs. Social cohesiveness is now non-existent. The only thing that the citizens are holding out for are the regular handouts. Every day you hear people say to vote wisely. I think it is clear that the locals are voting for their future now unlike the past. Majulah LMW

    • @Cl0udStrife1996
      @Cl0udStrife1996 Месяц назад +9

      People who always blame the government loses. Look inwards before always complaining about the surrounding circumstances. People don’t want to work hard these days, that’s the problem. Having a child was NEVER cheap no matter which generation it was. So stop claiming and use the time to think about how to upgrade yrself. I can now hire a virtual employee in the Philippines and Indonesia for 700USD a month, and works harder, less privileged. People like u still thinking about waiting for the government to help u get a job. Wake up ur idea

    • @yong9613
      @yong9613 Месяц назад

      ​@@iamayoutuberfromearthBring out statistics then talk

    • @Mao2Di2
      @Mao2Di2 20 дней назад

      How do you conclude that social cohesiveness is non existing or your other statement about citizens only holding out for handouts?

    • @yong9613
      @yong9613 20 дней назад

      @@Mao2Di2 walking the ground, what else?!

    • @Mao2Di2
      @Mao2Di2 19 дней назад

      @ you see what you choose to see. It’s called a self fulfilling prophecy. Why don’t you migrate to a country which is better?

  • @dekapwt5618
    @dekapwt5618 11 дней назад

    How.. How About Freedom Of Exspression...?????.. Bolehkah Aku Memiliki Kekasih..???? (Random)

  • @yaomingfan1
    @yaomingfan1 11 дней назад +1

    I thought he was thinking of introducing his grandchildren to her

  • @ThantSinAung-ud4yx
    @ThantSinAung-ud4yx 16 дней назад

    My favorite politician of all time

  • @lillytaylor8262
    @lillytaylor8262 28 дней назад +4

    Did you delete all the comments from the feminists?

  • @jinshensoon2240
    @jinshensoon2240 22 часа назад

    People just wanted to get offended at every single small thing there is. Could have just taken this as something light hearted and a joke to ease in the more heavier conversation.

  • @SamYu7834
    @SamYu7834 16 дней назад +1

    Blown away

  • @bmno.4565
    @bmno.4565 Месяц назад +29

    If anyone else asked that question, it would be panned for sexism. But LKY's cult of personality is so strong in Singapore that it's laughed off and seen as 'good advice'.

    • @bunnystrasse
      @bunnystrasse Месяц назад

      It’s truer now, his words. The more educated women are, the less likely they are to birth

    • @4TFlowers
      @4TFlowers Месяц назад

      Sexism ❌
      Reality ✔️

    • @georgebrantley776
      @georgebrantley776 Месяц назад +7

      LKY didn't tell her not to do a PhD though. Of course she is free to do whatever she wants, as are men. But from a national level, it is true that population sustenance is a more important crisis than the people getting PhDs.

    • @mikolowiskamikolowiska4993
      @mikolowiskamikolowiska4993 27 дней назад

      It is good advice. You're the one in a cult of wokeism

    • @waiwai5233
      @waiwai5233 25 дней назад

      LKY is redpilled 😂.

  • @myrtlealley
    @myrtlealley 14 дней назад +1

    Ask yourself why does the birth rate need to increase and fix that problem. It's unrealistic to have 5 kids like people in the 50s did. 1 dads job isn't enough to raise a family so women have to work too. Women can't have a job and raise 5 kids at the same time unless the family lives with both sets of in laws that take care of that family and don't force their wishes on the kids.

  • @patoises
    @patoises Месяц назад +12

    should one sacrifice personal choice for nation building? The late Mr Lee thinks the latter is more important

    • @Motivational-Mango
      @Motivational-Mango Месяц назад +4

      Well you also need to consider your retirement. Who is going to take care of you and support society when you are retired if no new people are being produced? There won't be many young working people around, and for the few that exist, will they even want to take care of you?
      Personal choice bla bla bla. Personal choice is only valuable in a world or environment that is worth living in. That is why each person needs to not only care for themselves, but also for their nation or environment.

    • @patoises
      @patoises Месяц назад +9

      ​@@Motivational-Mango Having kids expecting a payback? Selfish much. You chose to have them-so be financially stable and give them a good life. Parenthood is about love, not securing your retirement. The days of popping out 8 kids to hedge against a high mortality rate are over. Welcome to the 21st century!

    • @Motivational-Mango
      @Motivational-Mango Месяц назад +4

      @@patoises Calling me selfish haha meanwhile you talk about personal choice vs nation building. What is personal choice if not a matter of selfishness? You are focusing on the individual, instead of the community.

    • @yong9613
      @yong9613 Месяц назад

      ​@@patoisesHigh praise for your 💩, the entire country has been operating upon the no free lunch narrative since independence!
      Selfishness is a quality forged in the fires of this social narrative brought to life!

    • @talos1279
      @talos1279 Месяц назад +3

      @@patoises You may want to rethink how you believe in the idea that being financially stable will help yourself in old age. The traditional family model in which the young generations takes care of the elderly has existed for thousand years or even longer. Just because there are pensions and nursery houses now, it does not mean that elderly does not need the support from younger generation.
      Having kids looking after you at old age is a reasonable desire and action. There may be a lot of inequality, unfairness, lack of love in the past. However, it's undeniable that many rich and long-lasting cultures have developed around it. There are many failures in the past, but at the same time, there are also many successful families.

  • @firdausbj1
    @firdausbj1 23 дня назад +3

    6:41 How old are you now ?

  • @stigie19781
    @stigie19781 10 дней назад +3

    I am honestly a bit offended by this. Why must female education take a back seat to ensure the country replaces itself? But it comes from a place of honesty and genuiness so I decide to respect it, no matter how rubbish it is!

  • @madrasman8883
    @madrasman8883 21 день назад +2

    Singaporeans are unfortunately sober and worker class than entrepreneurship. That could be a mistake by its leaders over decades

  • @MarketStoic
    @MarketStoic 14 дней назад +1

    2025: so did she finally get married?

  • @funmapi
    @funmapi 19 дней назад +4

    Imagine being savaged by the founder of your country.

  • @hbting714
    @hbting714 Месяц назад +10

    Did she eventually get her phD and a boyfriend? Where is she now?

    • @davidc4408
      @davidc4408 Месяц назад +6

      Homeless, PhD drop out and washing car windows 😂 No. I am sure she graduated and successful

  • @MK-zz1dt
    @MK-zz1dt 6 дней назад

    Getting baby is expensive. I have 2 kids, and the cost of healthy growth and decent education is much more than average household can afford. One man with middle income can't afford. So, think before having babies.

  • @papa-dt1cv
    @papa-dt1cv Месяц назад +6

    How to afford HDB with AI coming to take more jobs...😢 allow kids to buy at earlier age?

  • @tanweili4507
    @tanweili4507 7 дней назад

    Its not easy to get married or get a companion mate as the environment n culture has changed thru years. Sense of family bonding is getting weak n has weakened in this internet world. 😢

  • @gerrardlinjh
    @gerrardlinjh Месяц назад +1

    The question is Is she married and have children now?

  • @dabocousin
    @dabocousin 20 дней назад +1

    8:02 what a legend

  • @justin9136
    @justin9136 10 дней назад +1

    I wonder if she's married now and has kids ...after getting his feedback

  • @Oc34nbluu
    @Oc34nbluu 13 дней назад +1

    He identified low birth rate as problematic then instead of providing solutions, he distracted the audience by being rude & intrusive towards the girl. Boo 👎 👎

    • @fafoy17
      @fafoy17 11 дней назад

      If you think every leader should have all the answers to all it's problems maybe you should run and realize you have a fraction of the iq that man has

  • @feistyburrito1
    @feistyburrito1 22 дня назад +1

    How long ago was this conference?

  • @AI-xi4jk
    @AI-xi4jk 15 дней назад

    Just out of curiosity what happened to this girl? Did she follow the advice?

  • @8dholland
    @8dholland Месяц назад +1

    Wow, nice fellow. Why did he speak in English? It was good English too.

    • @mauryroblovich
      @mauryroblovich 20 дней назад

      Lee Kuan Yew is a native English speaker. According to Wikipedia, he was a 3rd generation English speaker and didn't learn Chinese until his 30s. Also, the national language of Singapore is English

  • @siewkimng1085
    @siewkimng1085 10 дней назад

    The worst part of this is that the woman will accept no less than a double PhD for a boyfriend. Those don't much exist...

  • @undrgrnd734
    @undrgrnd734 25 дней назад +3

    its not like a elder statesman addressing his citizenry
    its like hes talking to his granddaughter lmfao.

  • @spjasperc5267
    @spjasperc5267 13 дней назад

    Wise

  • @jamesboulger8705
    @jamesboulger8705 24 дня назад +1

    1.01 is so rough

  • @hakuei7530
    @hakuei7530 Месяц назад +2

    What year was this?

  • @letterZach
    @letterZach Месяц назад +5

    Hard truth

  • @Riz-Khan
    @Riz-Khan Месяц назад +7

    That was personal, Mr. Lee