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    Featuring - Shefali Shah
    In today's episode of Figuring Out, Shefali Shah joins Raj Shamani for a heartwarming conversation. He is seen in movies like Darlings, Dil Dhadakne Do, and Three of Us. They explore her insights on marriage, relationships, and the struggles within. They also talked about her role in Dil Dhadakne Do and the fairness of exposing children to both the conflicts and positive aspects of their parents' marriages. They also discussed the common marital struggles and she shared a heartwarming story of how her kids surprised her on her birthday. The conversation also covers advice on the right time to marry, choosing a partner, and the dynamics between two ambitious people in a marriage. They also talk about the red flags in relationships and how to recognize when a marriage might not be working. The episode concludes with Shefali's thoughts on the movie 'Animal' and its impact. For more insightful episodes, subscribe to our channel.
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Комментарии • 100

  • @sandysan177
    @sandysan177 4 месяца назад +61

    Iam a middle class middle aged housewife and iam living my best life. I make the best out of wateva lofe has given me and am grateful for all the tiny blessings of life..i dont complain..n i stay away from toxic people..n im ok being a housewife..

    • @jacobgeorge328
      @jacobgeorge328 3 месяца назад

      Wow well said

    • @B-W.
      @B-W. 3 месяца назад +1

      It takes courage to say this in today's world.
      Kudos to u.

    • @pragyasingh9240
      @pragyasingh9240 3 месяца назад

      Same here
      +1
      I feel proud 😊 of being middle aged housewife

  • @Ahmedabad-Single-Souls
    @Ahmedabad-Single-Souls 4 месяца назад +160

    Marriage is a defunct institution. No one has died of being single but many die a silent death everyday being with the wrong partner.

    • @sapnamelanta2381
      @sapnamelanta2381 4 месяца назад

      Yes no wonder... divorce cases are on the rise...

    • @sandysan177
      @sandysan177 4 месяца назад +5

      Ur parents did a bad job of presenting marriage to u... Mostly our parents marriage is our blueprint...
      U need to have a normal healthy loving partner and your worldview will change..

    • @Ahmedabad-Single-Souls
      @Ahmedabad-Single-Souls 4 месяца назад +12

      @@sandysan177 No one has died of being single but many die a silent death everyday being with the wrong partner. Ours is a singles group for 40+, all never married and we all are very happy.

    • @amrinsaini1303
      @amrinsaini1303 4 месяца назад +2

      What a excellent comment 👌

    • @Ahmedabad-Single-Souls
      @Ahmedabad-Single-Souls 4 месяца назад

      @@amrinsaini1303 🙏 Ours is a singles group for 40+, all never married and we all are very happy.

  • @priyanam1776
    @priyanam1776 4 месяца назад +37

    The feeling of always giving...and never been reciprocated by anyone is really painful

    • @Eina777
      @Eina777 2 месяца назад

      then don't give !!! finished Put your foot forward !!!

  • @meenabengaluru2560
    @meenabengaluru2560 4 месяца назад +8

    Every relationship has two sides... Everyone thinks that we love more than our partner loves us... In reality every one of us is selfish & greedy ... We want more love, affection, understanding n caring! ❤

  • @sapnamelanta2381
    @sapnamelanta2381 4 месяца назад +60

    Marriage... being a wife... raising kids...is a thankless job... everyone moves on..men have colleagues..booze
    friends.... children when they grow up...focus on only their college.. friends ...career...they hardly think what their mother is going through..the lady is just left alone in the house as a watchman..( security....) keeper of the family house car ..pets.expensive furniture...etc..etc..there are no easy solutions..

    • @sunandanair9480
      @sunandanair9480 4 месяца назад +1

      Very true

    • @CreaTVT_77
      @CreaTVT_77 4 месяца назад +6

      Exactly, amazingly explained! Point is woman must take stand for herself,I mean she should even love and LIVE herself.Mentally, emotionally never depend on anyone.

    • @piyalidutta6497
      @piyalidutta6497 4 месяца назад

      Very nice and true

    • @pallavirane9092
      @pallavirane9092 4 месяца назад +2

      financial independance is very important for females.

    • @CreaTVT_77
      @CreaTVT_77 4 месяца назад

      @@pallavirane9092 100%Right

  • @lajjasp
    @lajjasp 4 месяца назад +7

    Very interesting. Each marriage has gone through this,and only some may be able to feel and articulate ...Good job Raj
    Extreme level of maturity and grace is required in each relationship though.
    Love the topics you bring in.

  • @littlepaws3164
    @littlepaws3164 4 месяца назад +8

    Bina gunah kiye hue umrakaid ki saza suna di jaye it was marriage in our time 😢

  • @soumilfun1792
    @soumilfun1792 3 месяца назад +4

    Superb ...n every emotion n word was true for both the genders....

  • @vrindashah7269
    @vrindashah7269 3 месяца назад +2

    This is a universal problem growing with leaps and bounds.
    Where each one takes for granted.

  • @SuperMahification
    @SuperMahification 4 месяца назад +2

    200% correct 👍

  • @ArtiSingh-rc2ji
    @ArtiSingh-rc2ji 3 месяца назад +1

    Well caught..well captured..that too with this lady of substance

  • @M.Born007
    @M.Born007 4 месяца назад +1

    Very Nice Topic+ Discussion --Be the One Who get More Loved ❤ -So True

  • @preetagopal5400
    @preetagopal5400 3 месяца назад +3

    I was a middle- aged housewife,now an elderly widow.
    I am not depressed

  • @latha_aradhana
    @latha_aradhana 3 месяца назад

    Real matured talks wonderful to hear ❤️👍

  • @rasmipsycho3662
    @rasmipsycho3662 4 месяца назад +4

    Absolutely correct bro
    My mom 😢

  • @fareesafaisal.5378
    @fareesafaisal.5378 3 месяца назад +7

    Many die silent every day every moment for just because their husbands are not taking stand on behalf of their wives 😢

  • @ashwinbhansali3448
    @ashwinbhansali3448 4 месяца назад +2

    I request you to please discuss this type of issue in hindi so everyone can understand, it is very good topic. So everyone can understand

  • @rubyvarma6716
    @rubyvarma6716 3 месяца назад

    I understand this as my mom says all these to me. n we tried to convince her n to make her busy with something so that she doesn’t feel or think unnecessarily. being a children we should take care of our mom specially. I miss her a lot after my marriage but m lucky my brothers take her out for refreshments so that she doesn’t feel alone

  • @pallavikowale3838
    @pallavikowale3838 4 месяца назад +9

    I like her as an actor , but just because she is in entertainment industry and she is famous, she or anyone can't make generic statements on marriages .

    • @anujoshi209
      @anujoshi209 4 месяца назад +3

      A lot of what she is saying is true isn't it?

    • @lovelyme531
      @lovelyme531 3 месяца назад +1

      She is a middle aged married woman too, so she is deserving to talk about it

  • @prabhapandey593
    @prabhapandey593 4 месяца назад +7

    Is she marriage expert to ask such questions. Every woman has her own different experiences.

    • @Aah292
      @Aah292 3 месяца назад

      What is marriage expert...?
      She is a married women, so why not...

  • @NoName-z2t
    @NoName-z2t 2 месяца назад

    Start cultivating ur hobby dear housewives .. also this is to all ladies who r housewives start from a start how did u landed in this situation.. blaming everyone else won't solve ur problem u also need to retrospect and introspect ... did someone forced u into this or it was ur choice? It was impulsive decision or well thought.. didn't u think about future? How it will look like ? And how u want it to be ? Be wise everyone plz

  • @pravasi6258
    @pravasi6258 4 месяца назад

    Raj, the point you make about differences in men and women has been explained in great detail decades ago in a very famous book called , "Men are from mars women are from venus."

  • @shobhagayathribhat1121
    @shobhagayathribhat1121 3 месяца назад

    Each one’s life experience , decisions are different. You both need not think that your opinion , experience is everyone’s.

  • @proudindian0910
    @proudindian0910 2 месяца назад

    Marriage simply a gamble... nothing can ensure successful marriage...
    Whether it is love or arranged... it's a gamble only...

  • @alkanigam5199
    @alkanigam5199 3 месяца назад +1

    What if a woman is working equally and she still suffers the same??

  • @NoName-z2t
    @NoName-z2t 2 месяца назад

    Sunday evening will Start doing ofc work now 😂🤪😵‍💫😭to avoid Monday blues... I am single stopped looking for someone serious to have relationship as got the understanding won't be able to get any.. stopped looking for alliances for marriage... Will be taking all the major life decisions alone .. and my whole youtube is flooded with marriage and relationships related serious videos 😝😁😆😅😅 WT*? But I am glad to have few sensible men around me like my bro and few of my male friends.. they sit and talk about serious stuff with me.. we do extract things together 🙂

  • @lathaiyer8065
    @lathaiyer8065 4 месяца назад

    She is giving advice. ...

  • @binitaanand8278
    @binitaanand8278 2 месяца назад

    Telling a Housewife to go out of house & enjoy is very easy.
    Going out & enjoying needs money.
    If she is not earning, husbands will never give her money just to Enjoy..!!

  • @kavitakaushik4694
    @kavitakaushik4694 4 месяца назад +2

    Am a house wife my family not care of me, now kids get married and living their life saperatly.... husband has lots of mood swings..we don't talk much... unfortunately I don't have a single friend to cheer wd me due to my husband 's doubtful & jealous nature because he had also not a single friend 😢..am 58 yrs old.😮

    • @manjularao8797
      @manjularao8797 4 месяца назад +4

      Get into yoga meditation & follow a hobby forget your husband ,& his moodd

    • @gillianchanga-nj4lm
      @gillianchanga-nj4lm 3 месяца назад +1

      Try to do things together.

    • @dahliajaji9547
      @dahliajaji9547 3 месяца назад

      Make your spouse as your friend, spend quality time with him

    • @gemkd
      @gemkd 3 месяца назад

      See if you can get interested to do some kind of work, from home probably.. or somewhere closeby

    • @leenzstyles
      @leenzstyles 3 месяца назад

      @@manjularao8797yes, that’s the best thing to do.

  • @gogettin12
    @gogettin12 3 месяца назад

    Ur podcast should also be there in hindi so that u can attrct much more audience

  • @Pooja-ds4jg
    @Pooja-ds4jg 3 месяца назад

    Ye itna padhta nhi h jitna bolta Hai.. I read that ;) I sometimes come here and recheck if I am watching beer biceps or a copy ;)

  • @kiyadarshan4737
    @kiyadarshan4737 3 месяца назад

    Amazing

  • @truepassion7026
    @truepassion7026 3 месяца назад

    I dont go out out only

  • @monaperry2635
    @monaperry2635 4 месяца назад +1

    It's called co dependency

  • @mohsin1129
    @mohsin1129 4 месяца назад

    Too good 👌👌👌

  • @adv2666
    @adv2666 4 месяца назад +1

    Takes two to tango 😢

  • @sowjanyapandula7364
    @sowjanyapandula7364 2 месяца назад

    But now a days men are escaping from discussion and finding faults in their own women and discuss before 3rd people 😢

  • @rahulkulkarni529
    @rahulkulkarni529 2 месяца назад

    With more women working, the issue of diminished domestic status due to a lack of professional status for middle-aged women has reduced compared to our previous generation. But it has brought about a feeling of entitlement in the current generation of women who tend to disrespect the men in their relationships because they can do everything that their man can. Women now earn. But men can still not have a baby. And with so many laws favouring men it is hardly surprising that the shoe is now on the other foot. And men being men will not share what they are going through. But the statistic of 70% suicides being committed by men should be an eye opener for society.

  • @dishamukherjee5939
    @dishamukherjee5939 3 месяца назад

    Comment section should chill out everyone's life is not bed of roses... shefali and the host was just highlighting middle life crisis

    • @Aah292
      @Aah292 3 месяца назад

      Seriously... always trolling

  • @ArjuAhamed10
    @ArjuAhamed10 4 месяца назад

    Very nice Boss

  • @SaasBahuFoodVlogs
    @SaasBahuFoodVlogs 3 месяца назад

    R u married anchor 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @sunrisingstar999
    @sunrisingstar999 4 месяца назад

    hindi mai hote to maza aate

  • @upasnakapoor7133
    @upasnakapoor7133 4 месяца назад

    I just realised I am a man!!

  • @shaloms6811
    @shaloms6811 4 месяца назад +5

    High Society women talking nonsense....