Iam a middle class middle aged housewife and iam living my best life. I make the best out of wateva lofe has given me and am grateful for all the tiny blessings of life..i dont complain..n i stay away from toxic people..n im ok being a housewife..
Ur parents did a bad job of presenting marriage to u... Mostly our parents marriage is our blueprint... U need to have a normal healthy loving partner and your worldview will change..
@@sandysan177 No one has died of being single but many die a silent death everyday being with the wrong partner. Ours is a singles group for 40+, all never married and we all are very happy.
Marriage... being a wife... raising kids...is a thankless job... everyone moves on..men have colleagues..booze friends.... children when they grow up...focus on only their college.. friends ...career...they hardly think what their mother is going through..the lady is just left alone in the house as a watchman..( security....) keeper of the family house car ..pets.expensive furniture...etc..etc..there are no easy solutions..
Exactly, amazingly explained! Point is woman must take stand for herself,I mean she should even love and LIVE herself.Mentally, emotionally never depend on anyone.
Every relationship has two sides... Everyone thinks that we love more than our partner loves us... In reality every one of us is selfish & greedy ... We want more love, affection, understanding n caring! ❤
Very interesting. Each marriage has gone through this,and only some may be able to feel and articulate ...Good job Raj Extreme level of maturity and grace is required in each relationship though. Love the topics you bring in.
I like her as an actor , but just because she is in entertainment industry and she is famous, she or anyone can't make generic statements on marriages .
I understand this as my mom says all these to me. n we tried to convince her n to make her busy with something so that she doesn’t feel or think unnecessarily. being a children we should take care of our mom specially. I miss her a lot after my marriage but m lucky my brothers take her out for refreshments so that she doesn’t feel alone
Start cultivating ur hobby dear housewives .. also this is to all ladies who r housewives start from a start how did u landed in this situation.. blaming everyone else won't solve ur problem u also need to retrospect and introspect ... did someone forced u into this or it was ur choice? It was impulsive decision or well thought.. didn't u think about future? How it will look like ? And how u want it to be ? Be wise everyone plz
Raj, the point you make about differences in men and women has been explained in great detail decades ago in a very famous book called , "Men are from mars women are from venus."
Am a house wife my family not care of me, now kids get married and living their life saperatly.... husband has lots of mood swings..we don't talk much... unfortunately I don't have a single friend to cheer wd me due to my husband 's doubtful & jealous nature because he had also not a single friend 😢..am 58 yrs old.😮
Telling a Housewife to go out of house & enjoy is very easy. Going out & enjoying needs money. If she is not earning, husbands will never give her money just to Enjoy..!!
Sunday evening will Start doing ofc work now 😂🤪😵💫😭to avoid Monday blues... I am single stopped looking for someone serious to have relationship as got the understanding won't be able to get any.. stopped looking for alliances for marriage... Will be taking all the major life decisions alone .. and my whole youtube is flooded with marriage and relationships related serious videos 😝😁😆😅😅 WT*? But I am glad to have few sensible men around me like my bro and few of my male friends.. they sit and talk about serious stuff with me.. we do extract things together 🙂
With more women working, the issue of diminished domestic status due to a lack of professional status for middle-aged women has reduced compared to our previous generation. But it has brought about a feeling of entitlement in the current generation of women who tend to disrespect the men in their relationships because they can do everything that their man can. Women now earn. But men can still not have a baby. And with so many laws favouring men it is hardly surprising that the shoe is now on the other foot. And men being men will not share what they are going through. But the statistic of 70% suicides being committed by men should be an eye opener for society.
Iam a middle class middle aged housewife and iam living my best life. I make the best out of wateva lofe has given me and am grateful for all the tiny blessings of life..i dont complain..n i stay away from toxic people..n im ok being a housewife..
Wow well said
It takes courage to say this in today's world.
Kudos to u.
Same here
+1
I feel proud 😊 of being middle aged housewife
Marriage is a defunct institution. No one has died of being single but many die a silent death everyday being with the wrong partner.
Yes no wonder... divorce cases are on the rise...
Ur parents did a bad job of presenting marriage to u... Mostly our parents marriage is our blueprint...
U need to have a normal healthy loving partner and your worldview will change..
@@sandysan177 No one has died of being single but many die a silent death everyday being with the wrong partner. Ours is a singles group for 40+, all never married and we all are very happy.
What a excellent comment 👌
@@amrinsaini1303 🙏 Ours is a singles group for 40+, all never married and we all are very happy.
The feeling of always giving...and never been reciprocated by anyone is really painful
then don't give !!! finished Put your foot forward !!!
Marriage... being a wife... raising kids...is a thankless job... everyone moves on..men have colleagues..booze
friends.... children when they grow up...focus on only their college.. friends ...career...they hardly think what their mother is going through..the lady is just left alone in the house as a watchman..( security....) keeper of the family house car ..pets.expensive furniture...etc..etc..there are no easy solutions..
Very true
Exactly, amazingly explained! Point is woman must take stand for herself,I mean she should even love and LIVE herself.Mentally, emotionally never depend on anyone.
Very nice and true
financial independance is very important for females.
@@pallavirane9092 100%Right
Bina gunah kiye hue umrakaid ki saza suna di jaye it was marriage in our time 😢
Every relationship has two sides... Everyone thinks that we love more than our partner loves us... In reality every one of us is selfish & greedy ... We want more love, affection, understanding n caring! ❤
Very interesting. Each marriage has gone through this,and only some may be able to feel and articulate ...Good job Raj
Extreme level of maturity and grace is required in each relationship though.
Love the topics you bring in.
This is a universal problem growing with leaps and bounds.
Where each one takes for granted.
Superb ...n every emotion n word was true for both the genders....
Well caught..well captured..that too with this lady of substance
200% correct 👍
I like her as an actor , but just because she is in entertainment industry and she is famous, she or anyone can't make generic statements on marriages .
A lot of what she is saying is true isn't it?
She is a middle aged married woman too, so she is deserving to talk about it
I was a middle- aged housewife,now an elderly widow.
I am not depressed
Good for you... others might not be...
Very Nice Topic+ Discussion --Be the One Who get More Loved ❤ -So True
Many die silent every day every moment for just because their husbands are not taking stand on behalf of their wives 😢
Is she marriage expert to ask such questions. Every woman has her own different experiences.
What is marriage expert...?
She is a married women, so why not...
Real matured talks wonderful to hear ❤️👍
Marriage simply a gamble... nothing can ensure successful marriage...
Whether it is love or arranged... it's a gamble only...
I request you to please discuss this type of issue in hindi so everyone can understand, it is very good topic. So everyone can understand
I understand this as my mom says all these to me. n we tried to convince her n to make her busy with something so that she doesn’t feel or think unnecessarily. being a children we should take care of our mom specially. I miss her a lot after my marriage but m lucky my brothers take her out for refreshments so that she doesn’t feel alone
Absolutely correct bro
My mom 😢
Start cultivating ur hobby dear housewives .. also this is to all ladies who r housewives start from a start how did u landed in this situation.. blaming everyone else won't solve ur problem u also need to retrospect and introspect ... did someone forced u into this or it was ur choice? It was impulsive decision or well thought.. didn't u think about future? How it will look like ? And how u want it to be ? Be wise everyone plz
Raj, the point you make about differences in men and women has been explained in great detail decades ago in a very famous book called , "Men are from mars women are from venus."
Each one’s life experience , decisions are different. You both need not think that your opinion , experience is everyone’s.
Am a house wife my family not care of me, now kids get married and living their life saperatly.... husband has lots of mood swings..we don't talk much... unfortunately I don't have a single friend to cheer wd me due to my husband 's doubtful & jealous nature because he had also not a single friend 😢..am 58 yrs old.😮
Get into yoga meditation & follow a hobby forget your husband ,& his moodd
Try to do things together.
Make your spouse as your friend, spend quality time with him
See if you can get interested to do some kind of work, from home probably.. or somewhere closeby
@@manjularao8797yes, that’s the best thing to do.
What if a woman is working equally and she still suffers the same??
Telling a Housewife to go out of house & enjoy is very easy.
Going out & enjoying needs money.
If she is not earning, husbands will never give her money just to Enjoy..!!
Sunday evening will Start doing ofc work now 😂🤪😵💫😭to avoid Monday blues... I am single stopped looking for someone serious to have relationship as got the understanding won't be able to get any.. stopped looking for alliances for marriage... Will be taking all the major life decisions alone .. and my whole youtube is flooded with marriage and relationships related serious videos 😝😁😆😅😅 WT*? But I am glad to have few sensible men around me like my bro and few of my male friends.. they sit and talk about serious stuff with me.. we do extract things together 🙂
She is giving advice. ...
With more women working, the issue of diminished domestic status due to a lack of professional status for middle-aged women has reduced compared to our previous generation. But it has brought about a feeling of entitlement in the current generation of women who tend to disrespect the men in their relationships because they can do everything that their man can. Women now earn. But men can still not have a baby. And with so many laws favouring men it is hardly surprising that the shoe is now on the other foot. And men being men will not share what they are going through. But the statistic of 70% suicides being committed by men should be an eye opener for society.
Too good 👌👌👌
Ur podcast should also be there in hindi so that u can attrct much more audience
Comment section should chill out everyone's life is not bed of roses... shefali and the host was just highlighting middle life crisis
Seriously... always trolling
It's called co dependency
Ye itna padhta nhi h jitna bolta Hai.. I read that ;) I sometimes come here and recheck if I am watching beer biceps or a copy ;)
But now a days men are escaping from discussion and finding faults in their own women and discuss before 3rd people 😢
Amazing
Takes two to tango 😢
I dont go out out only
Very nice Boss
R u married anchor 😂😂😂😂😂
I just realised I am a man!!
hindi mai hote to maza aate
High Society women talking nonsense....