A MUST WATCH ! This Is Why Hugging Is Generally Avoided In Indian Culture | Sadhguru

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  • Sadhguru explains why greeting by hugging someone is avoided, especially in indian culture.
    sadhguru himself keeps avoiding hugging other people because it effect's one's integrity.also there is something called as runanubandha that is touching someone will lead to memory transaction which will have impact on them.
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  • @rishabhsharma1241
    @rishabhsharma1241 3 года назад +10

    not just in Indian culture, but also in, Japanese, Chinese and Korean, and many other cultures, hugging is avoided, it doesn't mean it was completely avoided, it used to be done in very very very rare cases.. Like Ram and Hanuman,,, mostly used to happen in friend circles..

  • @samanthagibson979
    @samanthagibson979 3 года назад +272

    Idk how I feel. Hugging my kids fine but random people, I can’t hug. It doesn’t feel right or comfortable. Only if it’s my children or people I love

    • @blossming_babe
      @blossming_babe 3 года назад +8

      True

    • @samirmajumdar882
      @samirmajumdar882 3 года назад +9

      Yeah thats because you are making a connection with your kids and leaving an impression on their mind and body and its okay. But doing that with all so called "friends" or just a random person is not fruitful especially when you dont want to make a connection.

    • @alynahydar96
      @alynahydar96 3 года назад +6

      It doesn't feel right cuz you think they are bad people. You judge them very easily without knowing them.
      I don't hug anyone not even my family but sometimes I have to if I see someone in pain

    • @blossming_babe
      @blossming_babe 3 года назад +1

      @@alynahydar96... Dat's different thing. Everyone hug their family members.
      Here all r toking about outsiders.

    • @djosephine
      @djosephine 3 года назад +11

      I literally always thought there was something wrong with me because I see people hug so open and freely and I just cannot. It doesn’t feel right Americans are too touchy touchy & open with strangers. It’s blurred lines (I’m American by the way)

  • @cssuntherrao
    @cssuntherrao 3 года назад +64

    Hugging a saint who is full of love and compssion is not harmful or an obstacle in anyway. It generates loving vibes in the person hugged.

    • @msvenu544
      @msvenu544 3 года назад +11

      Yes people will get positive vibes from saint. But Saint May get negative vibes 😂😂😂

    • @missjae4033
      @missjae4033 3 года назад +6

      Once a person of light is in the room animals, babies and the especially the opposite sex are instantly attracted. They want the Saints energy. On an ordinary scale, it's still not wanted when people try to invade a person's space - period. It's not good for the Saint. Invasion of privacy with their energy. 😬 I become what society calls a B* because I am protecting myself. And if I open my sacred loving light I am a supply - a meal to hungry wolves. You tell me whose getting the worse end of stick here in society.. Let it sink in.

    • @cssuntherrao
      @cssuntherrao 3 года назад +2

      @@msvenu544 The he/she is not a complete Saint yet😊

    • @cssuntherrao
      @cssuntherrao 3 года назад +4

      @@missjae4033 Then further spiritual progress is needed. Till then, protection from negative vibes by refraining from hugging is ok😊

    • @liquidvelvet
      @liquidvelvet 3 года назад +3

      Might be part of Amma's power...

  • @MelanieWellard
    @MelanieWellard 3 года назад +274

    I was hugged and loved all the time when young I love hugging, I’m a tactile person, it can also be cultural, I resonate with people from Brazil, Tunisa as they are very huggy. When I hold and hug someone I love for a period of time, I feel my whole nervous system relax

    • @eeaotly
      @eeaotly 3 года назад +7

      I feel deeply relaxed even if I imagine that I am hugging someone I love!

    • @aghori2531
      @aghori2531 3 года назад +12

      @@eeaotly if you are in certain kind of ecstasy and joy... Hugging is the best thing you could do..
      But if you hug to the children or some friends just to feel relax and calm that means you're going through something and you're sharing your negative vibes with them and vice versa

    • @eeaotly
      @eeaotly 3 года назад +5

      @@aghori2531 I am not a "huggy" person. All I saying is that I feel deeply relaxed when I IMAGINE that I am hugging a dear friend. I am not even in the same room with that person.

    • @daniello9155
      @daniello9155 3 года назад +16

      I have great respect for Sadhguru but maybe what is correct in India may not be elsewhere. I get feel good hugs almost everyday and almost everywhere I go. Sometimes from complete and total strangers, even males. I think hugs can convey so much without all of the complications of it going further.

    • @aghori2531
      @aghori2531 3 года назад +9

      @@daniello9155 of course hugs helps to feel relax and happy, especially when we feel low..
      But what he is saying is that the human touch carries an enormous memory which can distract the path of a spiritual person.
      Being spiritual means being bliissful within ourself.

  • @crowmedicine3890
    @crowmedicine3890 3 года назад +39

    Hugging is very natural to our species. It's a simple, beautiful way to nurture a basic human need.

    • @fourtwentythree
      @fourtwentythree Год назад

      I’m not needy in that way but to those that are be well and hug 🙏 but couldn’t be me 😅

    • @ReturnJaguar
      @ReturnJaguar Год назад

      Hug yourself r consenting partners

  • @victoriale2792
    @victoriale2792 2 года назад +7

    i was hesitant about watching through the video, (because of the comments tbh) but now finishing, i see that it’s more than a question of should you or shouldn’t you hug someone. its about being conscious and maintaining a healthy integrity for yourself and your body.

  • @anoushkagokhale2723
    @anoushkagokhale2723 3 года назад +209

    Completely agreed! Why should I hug random people or guys who are just hugging for the sake of physical pleasure? That is mentally uncomfortable. I Believe in Hugging only those who care for you and are concerned about you.

    • @xrxs1020
      @xrxs1020 2 года назад +16

      "Why should I hug random people or guys who are just hugging for the sake of physical pleasure?''
      You shouldn't. But there are other dimensions of hugging. To me hugging is a sign of universal acceptance, love, harmony, and grace. It doesn't have to be extended to just anyone, but it fitting in certain kinds of spiritual or creative groups. This brand of hugging has nothing to do with sex. To me, hugging is like a foretaste of what's to come, symbolic of Heaven and Infinity.
      Besides that, speaking as a long-time social dancer, some of the best dancing is called Close Embrace, which is similar to hugging and is a beautiful way of dancing, along with more open positions. The two dancers needn't be lovers. Close Embrace is simply a closeness with another human being in which the closeness, or hugging as it were, isn't sexual.
      The world is largely unaware of the dance world.
      If one is in charge of one's self like Sadhguru is, then one simply handles it in a mature manner. Done. Simple. Beautiful. Not harmful, but wholesome and uplifting.

    • @eveline-d1p
      @eveline-d1p 2 года назад +7

      Who even hugs random people tho?? You don't even wanna touch or be touched by the strangers, isn't it??
      Hugging feels heavenly only when it's done with the ones you truly love & are attracted to.

    • @johnybrokeit
      @johnybrokeit 2 года назад +4

      @anoushka gokhale I don't want to agree that we hug for physical pleasure. But it Is complicated, not simply cuz I am Indian.
      When I hug someone I know I'm not going to get any sexual satisfaction from it, but the mere thought of hugging a girl, getting close to boobs (if I were to be blunt) works an intense chaos or series of explosions in a dude's brain.
      It also isn't a culture thing I must say, cuz, even my American friends have very little need to go out of their way to hug another guy friend. But with a girl, they jump on the chance without even a second's thought.
      The strange thing is that when you hug someone you can't feel the boobs or anything... cuz it's just fat, so it holds no ummm mass? I dunno... never needed to put this in words till now. We can't feel anything to be accused of doing it for physical pleasure. Unfortunately.
      But the sheer thought of getting close to a gorgeous girl and holding them, is enough to cause a preemptive strike on our funny male brains.
      But eventually when we are in the act (haha) we realize that it is pleasant and warm and comforting and completing for us. Just like it feels for women. And why I think hugs essentially are so uplifting especially in this chaotic world. Sadhguru makes a killer point here though.
      But yeah, I think it's complicated. So I avoid it as much as possible. Only when I'm leaving someone or meeting someone after say 5 to 6 months is when I hug either sex.
      A funny note also, is that, when you refuse a hug women sense it and they desperately neeeeed to hug you somehow because of it hahaha. Unbelievable. So I give up and let it happen (o poor me!).

    • @johnybrokeit
      @johnybrokeit 2 года назад +2

      @@eveline-d1p I'd hug a random person :) if I felt like they needed one. Of course I'm human and so my brain kicks in to cleanliness mode and starts firing me with demands to check if I could get any disease or dirt from them (yikes! I did day I am human haha).
      But when the heart says go, it's a split second decision and they get attacked with the hug haha. Genuinely not for me; evidence? A lot of times it's for guys! And I'm 110% not gay.

    • @RaVNeFLoK
      @RaVNeFLoK 2 года назад +4

      Guys who hug for physical (sexual?) pleasure must be so starved of it one can hardly imagine it. Or in love.
      I can tell you that most guys do not derive any sexual pleasure out of a hug. In my part of the world we think nothing of it - I hug my closest guy friends as well if I haven’t seen them in a while. When I hug a female friend it’s the same.
      One shouldn’t hug strangers though. That would indeed be weird and pushy. That’s what a polite hand shake is for - or just a nod of the head - I agree.
      Sometimes I just think some woman think guys more sex crazed and weird than we actually are.

  • @JatinderSingh-oz1hx
    @JatinderSingh-oz1hx 3 года назад +29

    Hug is an expression of love and affection, in India is it common to hug family and friends. In fact, it can uplift you and make you feel good. It is obvious that you not hugging random people, it is only known and close circle people fall under that category. In fact there is a Saintly lady in India who hugs people to heal them. People from far and wide go to her just for a hug, so nothing wrong with giving or getting a hug, positive vibes from one body get transferred to another.

    • @ericdreese9145
      @ericdreese9145 3 года назад +6

      Yes but dont forget that most humans are not capable or prepared to be useful in that manner, if you watch better most of the people around the globe are very toxic in their own ways and are not doing a great work with their basics of life. In this video its offered a knowledge which is useful and are going to do a good impact in most of the people, but it doesnt means that u cannot use in a powerful and good manner as you said, all depends on you, your capacities and clarity about what are you doing. And of course we cannot forget that when you are more of a public person the vast majority of your teaching are going to be basics in the sense of the circunstances in which you are involving yourself, in this case, this world which i think that i dont have to say how the people are living here because its very clear dont you think...?

  • @ssam3826
    @ssam3826 3 года назад +11

    Humans are made to love other humans. Hug is a way of doing that. Don't unnecessarily complicate things. Love people don't hate in the name of religion, caste, culture, nationality etc.

  • @Kshitij.with.nature-channel
    @Kshitij.with.nature-channel 2 года назад +5

    This is to be taught to every teen classmates in the world 😭😭😇😇

  • @hasanoshohilali10
    @hasanoshohilali10 3 года назад +10

    For corona reason may be,,but in reality hug is very important for selfless and lovely humanity

  • @rajendrabiswas
    @rajendrabiswas 3 года назад +9

    Indian culture now is superficial we have forgot to touch and hug completely if you like friends you must hug them

  • @melparadise7378
    @melparadise7378 2 года назад +1

    This is such a helpful talk. I don't like people in western society that get too touchy feel-y. Respect peoples' spaces.

  • @katisugarbaker7349
    @katisugarbaker7349 3 года назад +2

    I am a reluctant hugger. Still, I don’t think most ancient Indian wisdom is valid for Westerners today. God is a living, evolving God and to accept ancient wisdom as always wise for today’s life for every person is a way to become a sclerotic being, stuck on dogma instead of seeking through free thinking, clear feeling, and true willing to truly become. If hugging is right for you, prepare and protect yourself and do it when you feel it is right. There is a lot of good that can be shared with even an unasked for hug. I remember two times in my 60 years in which an unrequested hug was a gift of great importance to me.

  • @nehabhardwaj7141
    @nehabhardwaj7141 3 года назад +9

    Omg now I realised why my grandmother refused to give me salt in my hand

  • @sophiapatriot112
    @sophiapatriot112 Год назад

    A hug is so therapeutic. Especially for certain people who grew up without a caring human touch.

  • @ilikethisbetter
    @ilikethisbetter 3 года назад +3

    So dum. Hugging is healing. Don't lose touch of the power of a hug. With so much mental illness a lot of need is a hug. That hug could last a lifetime of hope. N hope makes us feel alive.

  • @seablue693
    @seablue693 3 года назад +7

    Thats why we feel relief when we hug someone...is good for us when we are stressed but not for the other people cos he absorbs all our bad energy...🤔🤔🤔 maybe covid is very spiritual 😁😁😁

  • @trina8350
    @trina8350 2 года назад +1

    I was hugged a lot as a child. But when I feel joy and love I hug. I think of this as sharing my joy and my love. This is the first video of sadhguru that I can’t relate to.

  • @Uhlzone
    @Uhlzone 2 года назад

    Sadghuru this is deep and you are so right. My roots May be christian but, I'm an open hearted soul that understands this universe is beautifully made with so much truths to be discovered. My lady and I are looking to have kids in a few years and I don't want them to go through the desparate longing for bonding without realizing what"s going on like I did. Thank You for these wise words....

  • @Death-gate
    @Death-gate 2 года назад

    When I was fourteen I learned that the physical body has a consciousness of its own. So when I fight my ego gives that Consciousness permission to take control. It's a sight to behold.

  • @user-ib9tw4yf7d
    @user-ib9tw4yf7d 3 года назад +5

    🙏🙏 Always a beautiful learning ❤️

  • @andrewfahey8301
    @andrewfahey8301 2 года назад +1

    Salt used to be super expensive.. hence people didn't take it because they knew the person may not be able to afford it.. good manners Dear boy..!

  • @theharshtruth8563
    @theharshtruth8563 Год назад +1

    I hug my family. That's about it. They are the only ones
    that deserve it.
    Outside of that, hugs nowadays are mostly for a selfish
    public display show and are not sincere by any means
    so I don't hug anyone that I don't like or trust 100%.

  • @sbrina915
    @sbrina915 3 года назад

    7brothers 7 different minds.a little hug goes a long way..

  • @isha_sadhguru_follower5896
    @isha_sadhguru_follower5896 3 года назад +12

    Oh, and thanks for subtiles💪🏼
    Now I can share it with people who don't understand Sadhguru's English :)

  • @MikeD-tf7dk
    @MikeD-tf7dk 2 года назад +1

    Sadhguru says at 5:59 in the video it’s not like when you have a certain moment and you feel like you want to hug. It’s all about where someone’s coming from when trying to get a hug. The why matters as it is with most things.

  • @nikolayordanov3115
    @nikolayordanov3115 3 года назад +2

    Great. I've always disliked hugs.

  • @junapolines1617
    @junapolines1617 3 года назад +2

    I truly understand Indian culture and traditions..

  • @sudipsen6376
    @sudipsen6376 2 года назад +1

    Devine Soul.

  • @elenajunco9456
    @elenajunco9456 3 года назад

    The principle is in the intention...regardless of physical or not....

  • @aum8136
    @aum8136 2 года назад +1

    lots of confusion after watching this video and doing a google image search and RUclips image search for Sadhguru hug. It seems an exception is only hugging politicians and celebrities

  • @rawsunnata829
    @rawsunnata829 3 года назад +1

    Since my early childhood I do not like hugging.

  • @singawaybyVeronica
    @singawaybyVeronica 2 года назад

    In Romania, if people ask you for salt or any other food you give them
    It's about generosity. We might have forgot about those things

  • @Moon-magic109
    @Moon-magic109 2 года назад

    It’s my life and future is unknown. Therefore, let me live and do what I want with it.

  • @sonamgotmare
    @sonamgotmare 3 года назад

    Here I'm to improve on my English n my lifestyle with wisdom with this ..I'm practicing speaking on TalkNew app..it connects us with people around the world..it will help uh on speaking skills too.n best part is it's free too. Good luck!! Cheers!☺

  • @user-fj4po1lt1i
    @user-fj4po1lt1i 2 года назад +1

    I chose to hug to transfer energy. Get use to it

  • @oceansprings
    @oceansprings 3 года назад +3

    Our PM hugs all world leaders and transfers positive energy always⚡

    • @deepdiver849
      @deepdiver849 3 года назад

      😂

    • @evangelinemanickam7956
      @evangelinemanickam7956 3 года назад +1

      He's adopting Western behaviour 😀😂Don't see him hugging Indians that much 🙄?

    • @oceansprings
      @oceansprings 3 года назад

      @@evangelinemanickam7956 lets connect n discuss.

  • @phillipsamuels6719
    @phillipsamuels6719 2 года назад

    I truly believe in hugging its bonding with another human i believe its good for the soul sanghura is a very wise man but none of us have all the answers about different aspects of life we are all different in what we believe is true or good for us

  • @klaasvanstrien989
    @klaasvanstrien989 2 года назад +1

    He doesn't believe in the 'Heart' also. Hugging is very good, as long as it comes from the heart.

  • @thehappymagicalmind
    @thehappymagicalmind 2 года назад +2

    I don't care ...I love hugs and I'll keep hugging. In this moment we need hugs and love, connection, not disconnection anymore!

  • @victoriav9342
    @victoriav9342 3 года назад

    If a touch impacts this way, can you imagine what the new seudo science can do to the body? Very good information. Thank you!

  • @omtoolika
    @omtoolika 3 года назад +4

    Such a deep wisdom here... Thank u Sadhguru 🙏💖🌷

  • @skylersmith7
    @skylersmith7 2 года назад

    It was a growth of my integrity to grow attached and to share memory with another, and to lose that connection but preserve unconditional love. Is it against my integrity to want to be so loving to all forms? I don't understand why my integrity should have such prescriptive limits, is it that my integrity should instead be cultivated around the formless? I suppose so but, I ask anyway, Thank You Sadhguru

  • @candyflairsprojects6612
    @candyflairsprojects6612 2 года назад

    I never liked being touched by people. I'm so surprised to see this video. I never wanted peoples smells on me. This video will keep me sane 😁
    Virtual hugs are fine 😊

  • @lorenzovillegas2457
    @lorenzovillegas2457 2 года назад +2

    "Huggers are desperate and neglected"... Bahahaha! I'm a hugger, LOL I love it when guys pull away... I grab them even tighter. I'm sure they'll survive... How many people watched this because they are huggers?

  • @saivenkatramana5749
    @saivenkatramana5749 3 года назад +1

    It better to do Namaskarm in any action.... No hug at all

  • @moshedayan2810
    @moshedayan2810 4 месяца назад

    My 90 kg 34 year old nephew (whose nappies i changed when he was a baby) crushes me in a hug everytime we meet.. And let me tell you its amazing..

  • @chitskirits
    @chitskirits 3 года назад +1

    How can you hug an untouchable when you can't allow his shadow to fall on a "Hindu Guru". In Hindu India, you can be discriminated against from the day you are born. A great country with a lot of good people but it needs some religious reformation

  • @kangkanabezbaruah681
    @kangkanabezbaruah681 3 года назад +2

    Science is everywhere

  • @antoniotreminio
    @antoniotreminio 3 года назад +1

    This is the first time I strongly disagree with Sadhguru.

  • @elsloonstra
    @elsloonstra 3 года назад +2

    I am hugged so much in my childhood (my mother still want that special bond with me and I am already 61) that I love to be on my own and not being touched too much. I have a very sensitive soul and It is if other persons are taken my life energy, when they come too close to me. I always thought that I am weird ..but now Sadhguru gives me another insight....

  • @rohiniv6385
    @rohiniv6385 2 года назад +1

    Beautiful 🥰

  • @lunalou8888
    @lunalou8888 2 года назад +1

    I was never hugged as a child and I hate hugging now lol

  • @arjansiamyout5485
    @arjansiamyout5485 3 года назад

    Shri Sadhguruve Namaha 🔹🔷❤️

  • @kallurisubrahmanyam4350
    @kallurisubrahmanyam4350 3 года назад +2

    Samskaara (thought impressios) transfer too happens via physical /emotional closeness...

  • @niftydom
    @niftydom 3 года назад

    I don't like to hug or be hugged. I stay away from physical touch as much as I can. People drain me.

  • @absoluteashish
    @absoluteashish 3 года назад +1

    The time is near when our beloved guru will ask us to avoid the other "hugging".

  • @giovanniamore2438
    @giovanniamore2438 2 года назад +1

    in germaný we onlý hug people we WANT energý transaction with. this is WHY we do it

  • @sahaya1234
    @sahaya1234 2 года назад +3

    In cold countries, you hug to exchange warmth. In warm countries like India, if you hug, it's sweaty and smelly...so just bow. But, in general, children need a good hug...it makes them feel loved. If you don't hug them, then children will be deprived of love and they'll fall for Guru's business love when they grow up.

  • @shrutijagtap1872
    @shrutijagtap1872 3 года назад +4

    Oh my god I have that bad habit to shake hands and hug my relatives after meeting a long time now I get it I'll take care of not to hug or shake hands with anyone ☺

  • @harshchaturvedi3255
    @harshchaturvedi3255 3 года назад +3

    🙏🙏

  • @zamoraobed
    @zamoraobed 3 года назад +160

    I always wondered why I disliked physical contact especially from random people who try to touch me for no reason.

    • @yanniegeerdink7183
      @yanniegeerdink7183 3 года назад +3

      Or in my case family and nephews /nieces; had to adjust !)

    • @Zoe-nr6vv
      @Zoe-nr6vv 3 года назад +7

      maybe because it's weird that a random person wants to touch you. that's it

    • @aghori2531
      @aghori2531 3 года назад +2

      @@Zoe-nr6vv lol.. What u talking about dude

    • @Zoe-nr6vv
      @Zoe-nr6vv 3 года назад +5

      @@aghori2531 if u don't know you've been neglected or you're dumb

    • @rishitagautam7905
      @rishitagautam7905 2 года назад

      @@yanniegeerdink7183 same

  • @talori5417
    @talori5417 2 года назад +217

    One time I was at a money seminar and everybody was walking around giving each other encouraging high fives, when this monk walks up to me and gives me the warmest embrace. I lightly hugged him back with the pat on the back thinking it would soon be over but he kept holding me, I nearly broke down and cried. He then released me and did the same thing to another person. I wasn’t a very touchy-feely person before this. I vow to be a great hugging healer one day. 🙏🏾🌹

    • @AmiStidhamMyHealingJourney
      @AmiStidhamMyHealingJourney 2 года назад +11

      Beautiful 🙏🏼💖

    • @brendabrenda6738
      @brendabrenda6738 2 года назад +14

      How the hearts connect

    • @jonasfonn1638
      @jonasfonn1638 2 года назад +4

      Beautiful story. 🙏
      MMI intensive?

    • @theresasquirestheresa
      @theresasquirestheresa 2 года назад +14

      Thank u for sharing, I loved reading your comment 💚
      It's been scientifically proven that ALL living things NEED to be touched...

    • @debbieangel9376
      @debbieangel9376 2 года назад +8

      @Ta Lori A hug is healing, I beg to differ with Sadhguru

  • @Zoe-nr6vv
    @Zoe-nr6vv 3 года назад +30

    hugging someone is affection and that's what your body will remember.....love

    • @aartishah7988
      @aartishah7988 Год назад +3

      But everyone doesn't have the same pure thought while hugging

  • @Anna-li8dy
    @Anna-li8dy 2 года назад +25

    I personally love hugging and see nothing wrong with it😍

  • @neilaleksandrov2655
    @neilaleksandrov2655 3 года назад +138

    Not sure I agree with this, by hugging my friends and family members I always feel amazing positive energy and notice how it overall brings greater feeling of peace and love overall, not simply a nurturing feeling for me but for everyone. I have certainly never felt odd or negative energy from hugging people but that being said I don't give hugs to strangers. I will continue hugging my family and friends Sandghuru all due respect.

    • @jonnalagaddasaisumanth6228
      @jonnalagaddasaisumanth6228 2 года назад +4

      "...that being said I don't give hugs to strangers..." - That part. If you, your family and your friends are emotionally and physically fulfilled and with full of integrity, it works IMO.

    • @sebastianbolt7886
      @sebastianbolt7886 2 года назад +18

      Just because he says his view, does not make it true for everyone, I hug instinctively those who want a hug instinctively, it's all relevant to the individual. You are your own master.

    • @brendabrenda6738
      @brendabrenda6738 2 года назад +2

      This man is one of those puppets!

    • @valrosenbaum6435
      @valrosenbaum6435 2 года назад +8

      As always, take what adds to your life, let the rest go. I agree with you.

    • @debbieangel9376
      @debbieangel9376 2 года назад +1

      @@sebastianbolt7886 I Agree with you

  • @lisathomas1622
    @lisathomas1622 3 года назад +24

    About ten years ago my body was ill in the exact same places as my granny. I knew nothing about self healing at the time and went to the doctors as usual. They gave meds to manage my various issues. Well I found that unacceptable. I was only in my forties and definitely not ready to slow down for old age! Thank goodness I took up yoga! What journey it launched me on! I’m not sick with any of her symptoms anymore.

  • @yullyparraduque3694
    @yullyparraduque3694 3 года назад +50

    Living is becoming so fucking complicated, I hug whoever I want, whoever needs it.

    • @mikeyyoyo6464
      @mikeyyoyo6464 3 года назад +5

      Brilliantly put, too fkn complicated! We all get drunk, party from time to time & everyone hugs everyone it’s brilliant ❤️👍

    • @yullyparraduque3694
      @yullyparraduque3694 3 года назад +4

      @@mikeyyoyo6464 yes, my friend we are one, we need each other, we need to stop this dehumanization, this guy knows and shares interesting things but we have to start thinking by ourselves and not to do and accept everything everyone else's tells us to. Send you a big hug.

    • @daniello9155
      @daniello9155 3 года назад +1

      Yully I had to put this up twice as one was deleted? Who wouldn't want a hug from you, you have a beautiful sweet smile. OO

    • @janmejaypandey2424
      @janmejaypandey2424 3 года назад +1

      It's not complicated..It's becoming more conscious than compulsive 😁

    • @monamucci6708
      @monamucci6708 3 года назад

      You’re fortunate to not absorb others sadness and confusion. I cannot hug or shake hands because it leave a kind of residue on my soul, as I absorb their inner emotions. The same happens with sexual relations.

  • @TheSanbao
    @TheSanbao 3 года назад +23

    On some things I agree, but if I wish to really hug, I'll hug, even you dear Sadhguru are not for everyone. Same with diets, there is not one diet for all of humanity, not only one meditation for everyone.

    • @chan_for
      @chan_for 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/vWByAEGMaCU/видео.html

  • @djosephine
    @djosephine 3 года назад +87

    “Sadguru where is my hug “
    “It must be with you”
    Literally Me all the time 🤣🤣

    • @stopchildabuse7932
      @stopchildabuse7932 3 года назад +2

      I laugh so bad when our dear gurú said that

    • @beautifulrose8619
      @beautifulrose8619 3 года назад

      Notice you only put a heart like on people who agree. I can't wrap my head around this concept. I do agree that some cultures and people don't like touch, but to generalize and say what this "guru" says as to be the truth is cray cray. I've listened to some of his talks and he is okay. In my opinion, he is trying too hard to look and sound like he is important. My gut instinct is turned off by him. I clicked to hear because the title is so off. Whatevs.

    • @jenniferdavis2110
      @jenniferdavis2110 3 года назад +1

      SADHGURU

  • @sapphiresniles3523
    @sapphiresniles3523 3 года назад +209

    Finally my reluctance to hug clearly explained by sadhgru...I was insulted and psychologically bullied for not liking and agreeing to hug cause I don’t like the touch or energy exchange of certain people, it’s make me feel disturbed when I sense other people’s energetic memory...in reality I just comfortable with greeting someone with eye contact...thank you sadhguru, Om Namashivaya 🙏

    • @TheMysticWorld
      @TheMysticWorld  3 года назад +6

      🙏🙏🙏

    • @eddyed4713
      @eddyed4713 3 года назад +12

      And My liberal friends blamed me for practising brahminical hegemony or something of that sort when I didn't want to hug ...😂 ...

    • @rajkapoor4446
      @rajkapoor4446 3 года назад +3

      👍👍👍🏳️🏳️

    • @soulmate1960
      @soulmate1960 3 года назад +4

      True.

    • @PrajwalSedain
      @PrajwalSedain 3 года назад +9

      Sadhguru tries to make a fool of everybody by justifying every ancient hindu thing through science which is nothing but a piece of crap. He feeds on our ego that our culture is the best. The man is just some pandit from some gaun who has become mainstream through English language

  • @Imthesaviour
    @Imthesaviour 3 года назад +8

    For people who disagree they may not be with deeper understanding… Sadhguru didn’t say we shouldn’t hug… by hugging we can pass or share good our energy to weaker ones too… its all about what necessary and what’s not… Sadhguru❤️

  • @lolischester6895
    @lolischester6895 3 года назад +225

    In Japan it's not ok to hug even shaking hands is not common.

    • @bhagyagowda3501
      @bhagyagowda3501 3 года назад +25

      Even in India 🇮🇳 too

    • @SD-mi2ss
      @SD-mi2ss 3 года назад +4

      Very good 👌

    • @indiegirl02
      @indiegirl02 3 года назад +10

      Ya! India, Japan and South Korea share same culture and value.

    • @JustFiddler
      @JustFiddler 3 года назад +1

      i see. in indonesia too

    • @WizInsight108
      @WizInsight108 3 года назад +1

      In my culture too.

  • @cryptonite8237
    @cryptonite8237 3 года назад +23

    'this is just the same way of thinking which created the untouchables and touching the masters feet etc but that which is never touched by anything in the world that is the abode of Truth/God,
    in my opinion this way of thinking creates some snobbish attitude which is not that natural as children and animals flow in their play together touching/ hugging/ teasing fighting etc expressing joy health and Life

  • @reddykanta7337
    @reddykanta7337 3 года назад +183

    I think hugging and kissing loved ones strengthen the bond between them. It makes you feel special and loved. 🥰

    • @tstanmoysamanta
      @tstanmoysamanta 2 года назад +23

      He was not speaking against it....he was saying choose the right person.

    • @RajneeshSinghrsinghpaliwal
      @RajneeshSinghrsinghpaliwal 2 года назад +4

      He don't give a shit what you think...

    • @pinrayi7909
      @pinrayi7909 2 года назад +13

      My dear friend a Yogi saves his/her energy. A person who meditates should also keep this thing in mind because energy from a meditator is absorbed by others around him/her. It completely drains them if there are people who have weaker aura around them or who eats meat or have negative mindset. A Yogi suffers if he is around people for too long that's why they normally keeps distance.

    • @billwilliams2968
      @billwilliams2968 2 года назад

      @@tstanmoysamanta ⁹⁸8o8oooooooooooòo

    • @patriciaking7892
      @patriciaking7892 2 года назад +1

      Tanmoy Samanta, I agree with you 👌👌. Everyone doesn't have the same energy💞💞.

  • @atmamanifesta9749
    @atmamanifesta9749 3 года назад +282

    choosing to hug a person you love feels so great and the body produces oxytocin, better than any medicine ,isn t it ?

    • @patriciastewart2537
      @patriciastewart2537 3 года назад +15

      Even a SMILE.
      My son had cursed me, "That's not how it WORKS!", frowned, at my overnight ability to WALK!
      MYy hip pain came back.
      It hurt, and I was limping along.
      I met BUZ!
      An old friend.
      He gave me a big smile as I began a mile hike, and suddenly my healing came back!!!!

    • @aquaticplantsavage6625
      @aquaticplantsavage6625 3 года назад +18

      Wasn't there a woman in india that was healing people with just a hug? lol. Sorry sadghuru... love you but I disagree.

    • @beautifulrose8619
      @beautifulrose8619 3 года назад +6

      @@aquaticplantsavage6625 Amma the hugger. What a great point. I think I have to disagree with him also.

    • @dianemoril7612
      @dianemoril7612 3 года назад +13

      he said people you love or like aren't concerned. the ones who he pointed are the systematic hugging when you meet people you don't even know. americans do it a lot. in france we kiss on cheeks a lot. even unknown people. that is what he pointed. it's ok with family and close friends.
      listen again here: 5:58.

    • @dianemoril7612
      @dianemoril7612 3 года назад +2

      @@beautifulrose8619 this is different. this is her life's mission to give her own energy to other people in order to increase their consciousness.
      this is a totally different thing. and people should think twice before going to see Amma. because it costs her a lot.

  • @BedollitaYoyis
    @BedollitaYoyis 3 года назад +64

    Every single morning my son and I hug. We started because he was arriving from work as I was heading to mine. Its a wonderful thing!NAMASTE💫💞💫💞💫💞💫💞💖💫💖💫💝

  • @1shu
    @1shu 3 года назад +129

    That's why namaste and bowing is the best way of greeting. Never liked hugging and kissing each other's cheeks.

    • @SD-mi2ss
      @SD-mi2ss 3 года назад +2

      Correct

    • @bignavin10
      @bignavin10 3 года назад +4

      That has become so common with youngsters now... its a fashion, its trend, they feel its something superior way..

    • @eddyed4713
      @eddyed4713 3 года назад +5

      @@bignavin10 ya ..that's because of those "celebrities" they follow ..I have been called "gawar " by many because I couldn't control my laughter when I see people do it making stupid faces and utterring the muah muah sound ...🤣

    • @rajkapoor4446
      @rajkapoor4446 3 года назад +1

      There are ppl who criticize ppl like us by saying we're not modern enough

    • @jeevithakitdal4983
      @jeevithakitdal4983 3 года назад +2

      @@eddyed4713 I don't know why celebrities are brought into this topic

  • @sidneysantos379
    @sidneysantos379 3 года назад +5

    So, we must close ourselves tô others? For me this is nonsense!

    • @marinacoetzee9806
      @marinacoetzee9806 3 года назад

      He is talking absolute fucking bullshit as always. Supporting NWO. Supporting the inorganic ones. Supporting the fact that "they" want to turn us into machines.

  • @gigisalamangkera5524
    @gigisalamangkera5524 3 года назад +102

    Yes, for me it's true. Transfer of energy and memory, in some cases .....you can feel negative energy.....

    • @JustFiddler
      @JustFiddler 3 года назад

      indeed

    • @yanniegeerdink7183
      @yanniegeerdink7183 3 года назад +1

      True

    • @tallacoin439
      @tallacoin439 3 года назад +4

      There is always something transmitted be touching, whether you feel it or not.

    • @andreak4280
      @andreak4280 3 года назад +1

      @@brizayden 🤜🏼🤛🏼AGREE! 🙅🏻‍♀️🙏🏼

    • @andreak4280
      @andreak4280 3 года назад +7

      Yes! definitely you can feel “negative energy” same as you can feel positive energy! Learn to stay grounded and get a sense of the negative from a distance. If your energy is positive, centered & strong, your energy will not be swayed into negative. If you do feel it, shake it off with your inner positive (amplify) Somebody with some negative energy does not necessarily mean they are bad or of ill intent but their vibration is low and possibly in need of some positive! WE ALL go thru various positive & negative energy thru life simply because we are made up of energy. The key is to always try to keep within a higher vibration as much as possible via a healthy mind & body which all comes from good nutrition, sleep, exercise, relationships, meditation. The human touch when given in a respectful way can be healing for both the giver & receiver! Do not fear a hug.
      I also agree with the sentiment below made by Brayden Jack 👍🏼 but that is just both our opinions and we know what opinions are like 😉😅 may peace be within us all 🙏🏼🙏🏼 ☮️

  • @NGNGNG281
    @NGNGNG281 3 года назад +15

    It’s called proxemics, every culture has it and it varies but to connect one culture’s proxemics and traditions to changing your DNA is a bit of a far stretch. Many indigenous cultures in the pacific and the Americas exchange salt, touch and breath. What about the healing power of massage, physicians, nurses, occupational and physical therapists all through touch. I respect Hindu tradition of not touching and do not think that other cultures having different proxemics is to be judged negatively.

    • @1Chimonger
      @1Chimonger 3 года назад +1

      Please include in your studies, Epigenetic understanding.
      Some folks can feel someone who is angry, enter a room without even seeing them. Someone who is upset, who touches you, can make you feel weird..you are feeling that other person’s energy. And vice versa.
      And, what are feelings, if not chemical cascades of processes inside the body?
      And, what happens when from some chemistries; don’t some of them have impact on our DNA expression?
      And, when there is enough of reactions, enough impact, changing the way certain genes express, isn’t that a genetic impact?
      It’s known, proven fact, that an emotionally traumatic event of sufficient severity, can change the abused person’s brain structure, too..not just their minds & emotions…because…In order to change the anatomical structure, the issues must also affect how involved genes express.
      What we consume, daily, affects our epigenetics…”consume” includes everything, everybody, we encounter, all the moments we live. Any of it can potentially change how our genes express.

    • @NGNGNG281
      @NGNGNG281 2 года назад

      @Sai Keerthana Krishna Kumar what culture do I come from? Your comment is pompous, pretentious, and assumes a lot, yet here you are preaching spiritual progress 🤨

    • @NGNGNG281
      @NGNGNG281 2 года назад +1

      @Sai Keerthana Krishna Kumar I too am surprised that you comment with such certainty on a topic you know nothing about as a valid argument. You know nothing about me, my heritage, my upbringing yet are able to comment on it from your place of perceived spiritual mightiness. I understand by your comment that you are offended by me not agreeing with Sadhguru, who ironically lives in the west, however I am just mentioning that other ancient cultures such as Polynesian or most indigenous Americans & African rely on touch for healing and kinship, without putting some imaginary status on any culture. Some spiritual advise, I think your ego is getting in the way of your reading comprehension. Aloha 🤙🏽

    • @NGNGNG281
      @NGNGNG281 2 года назад +1

      @Sai Keerthana Krishna Kumar once again please read the original comment and the last sentence twice, read your response, and then tell me I am rude and unfair 🤦🏽‍♀️the ego extends to nationalism, fanatics, and the inability to allow others have a pragmatic view.You can believe whatever you wish and so may I, and comment on our perception of it.

  • @whichwitchiswhich9765
    @whichwitchiswhich9765 3 года назад +75

    But it is also said that kids who are supposed to hug more grew up as happy adults .

    • @kkb2687
      @kkb2687 3 года назад +27

      Yeah. That's what he said. They should be hugged and played with by their parents sufficiently

    • @ayushkumaryadav1073
      @ayushkumaryadav1073 3 года назад +19

      Don't believe any guru blindly..that's all I want to say

    • @cevonnegut1894
      @cevonnegut1894 3 года назад +3

      @@ayushkumaryadav1073 best reminder ever!

    • @yanniegeerdink7183
      @yanniegeerdink7183 3 года назад

      Unless it goes with brutality.

    • @soulmate1960
      @soulmate1960 3 года назад +1

      Must not be with any random person.
      That is how most children are harmed and parents remain blind to it most of time.

  • @ntnt2057
    @ntnt2057 3 года назад +9

    So body won't change memory by changing food habits or location but will adopt new memory by just touching and hugging ... 🤔

    • @pjoshi1983
      @pjoshi1983 3 года назад +3

      If u touch and hug only with a certain level of involvement. Otherwise its just another physical gesture.

  • @Jagritidhariwal
    @Jagritidhariwal 3 года назад +144

    As a teen i have always felt this, i never wanted to hug anyone or get touched, i always felt like people are sucking the good energies off you when u hug them. I used to feel drained. Now i feel like my own energies are so strong that i don't need hug from strangers to make me feel good.

    • @janmejaypandey2424
      @janmejaypandey2424 3 года назад +4

      It's right... unless you get a hug from sadhguru 😁

    • @Jagritidhariwal
      @Jagritidhariwal 3 года назад +10

      @@janmejaypandey2424 i don't like being touched until i really love that person so it would be NO for sadhguru as well.

    • @janmejaypandey2424
      @janmejaypandey2424 3 года назад +7

      @@Jagritidhariwal Chill..Sadhguru is too sensible to make this mistake 😂

    • @dinesh.shenoyrenjal9167
      @dinesh.shenoyrenjal9167 3 года назад +3

      U r right.those who are spiritual..it happens

    • @jaykeane25
      @jaykeane25 3 года назад +3

      Yeah. I don't like rapists I want to kill them. So If I hug or hand shake someone . Sometimes I feel disgusted and uncomfortable after the encounter.
      Its difficult balance between being nice to everyone you greet.
      But my good energy is transferred to them so it's a selfless sacrifice.

  • @sakurabonita9905
    @sakurabonita9905 3 года назад +64

    Insightful....people need this information and knowledge about physical memory....less discussed topic...

  • @nadirahlewis3031
    @nadirahlewis3031 3 года назад +12

    My mom held me all the time when I was a baby, even took me to interviews. Carried me while cooking. But I am guessing as I got older my mother became emotionally unavailable because she was a single mother of 3. I don't remember my father at an early age 🤔 only from 13 and up. I will definitely discuss this in Therapy thanks Guru, I have always said I was a hugger but now I see the deeper meaning behind it 😉

    • @Lou-Lou8343
      @Lou-Lou8343 2 года назад

      You sound like a kind and compassionate person. I think it's strange that a kind and caring gesture towards others is tantamount to a failure to thrive. I think people who were not embraced enough by their mothers can have a greater understanding of the importance of a simple hug. It doesn't mean you're needy or flawed as this man suggests. It's just him using a narrative to fit his culture ,his way of life ...his opinion. Of all the things in life we can choose to make ourselves better people, to stop hugging one another isn't one of them. We should stop all the shooting, cursing, hating, hurting, ostracizing, ignoring, killing, marginalizing, bullying, torturing, murdering, abandoning, lying, raping, abusing, humiliating, and all the other evil things people do to one another....but hugging? Hugging doesn't belong on this list.

  • @cuttostah
    @cuttostah 3 года назад +98

    Lol so many people just not getting it in the comments. I mean I understand you hug everyone in your culture but Indians naturally keep a distance. It only changed after young teens of 2015 started thinking it was a cool thing to do. Runanabandha is real. If you think about a friend who hugged you recently, you're body will instantly remember the feel of that person's hug. You don't want no accumulation of unwanted energies around you, do you?

    • @simransingh3399
      @simransingh3399 3 года назад +27

      That's true.. Even I feel really irritated when people come very close to me, you know near a certain boundary. No matter what their gender. Physical contact has never been my thing.

    • @chinnabangaaru
      @chinnabangaaru 3 года назад +4

      Wow, thts true👍🏼

    • @redshift8302
      @redshift8302 3 года назад +2

      So if I see somone lying on the floor and needs help I should not try to lift him up even if he is in the middle of the road, because I would affect him/her negatively because of runanabandhana?

    • @cuttostah
      @cuttostah 3 года назад +20

      @@redshift8302 Now you are purposely exaggerating it. You very well know that's not what we mean when we talk about Runanabandha. Your reply is so childish, simply to argue about something you didn't fully understand. Don't @ me again I won't waste my time. Thanks.

    • @romilmahant2971
      @romilmahant2971 3 года назад +4

      Hahhahah wow you understood very well, but how do you know that hugging with another can accumulate energy from that person, are you on weed ,like your guru? There are many western countries who are much more prosperous and developed than India, but hugging is part of their culture, so by your bullshit each one of them might be ready to explode from the accumulated energy spirit bomb bullshit, grow.up kid!

  • @bradleyhenderson1198
    @bradleyhenderson1198 3 года назад +5

    4:54 If nobody gives salt, how do you buy salt? And isn't buying salt then potentially a problem? Or if you set it down do the memories it contained leave? Or is it just that certain things are conductors of memory?

    • @yeslek
      @yeslek 3 года назад +2

      That topic probably should have been omitted entirely if that's all the explanation/info he can share...

  • @shreegovindabalram1614
    @shreegovindabalram1614 3 года назад +6

    Bollywood have brought all these cultures ..... Hugging men and women is common for them

  • @Carolina0873
    @Carolina0873 3 года назад +48

    This is just a “cultural” opinion- Respectfully, I disagree- In the Latin cultures we give two kisses, we hug , we hand shake- all these are signs of respect-

    • @chan_for
      @chan_for 3 года назад +8

      I have Latin friends, and their parenting need to improve. Don't be mad. It is not about whole race but we can improve individually.

    • @ladybookworms
      @ladybookworms 2 года назад +5

      Does this mean then that people who are uncomfortable with hugging and kissing people they don't know and if they refrain from imitating this 'culture' are disrespectful? If one is in the Latin countries and one doesn't want to hug someone else but shows respect in their own way I think it should be acceptable. The same way 'culture' shouldn't override the individual.

    • @ashokwwf
      @ashokwwf 2 года назад +2

      Not during corona times though.

  • @SWoodcheke
    @SWoodcheke 3 года назад +41

    This actually explains a lot ... Not just physical touch. I could be sitting on a train absorbed in my book and be disturbed by someone sitting at a distance who is staring at me. Nowhere near close enough to touch. A sort of 6th sense. How many times have I walked down a quiet street and been startled by the presence of another person behind me who wasn't there before. And this person not even close enough to touch, making no sound.

    • @akumaku7930
      @akumaku7930 3 года назад +8

      I had that exact experience in class during college. I was in the back, the person was in the front, this person literally to turned around kept staring at me. I was aware this person was staring yet I never looked kept working on my assignments, however it very uncomfortable.

    • @bewusstsein3527
      @bewusstsein3527 3 года назад

      @@akumaku7930 why it made you uncomfortable?

    • @bewusstsein3527
      @bewusstsein3527 3 года назад

      May i know why?

    • @akumaku7930
      @akumaku7930 3 года назад +8

      @@bewusstsein3527 Sure, Its their energy/vibration didnt set well. Their stare was hungry eyes wanting something..

    • @bewusstsein3527
      @bewusstsein3527 3 года назад

      @@akumaku7930 didnt sit well.. okay.. how do we detect it? Do we have 6 or 7th sense aside from tge normal 5 senses? How can we use it and the enrgies that sorround us?

  • @danielally2682
    @danielally2682 3 года назад +5

    I don't know who wants to hear this but stop saving all your money. venture into investing some,if you really want financial freedom

    • @cryptocrewuniversity4258
      @cryptocrewuniversity4258 3 года назад +2

      Beautifully said,I tell this to my folks every day.it's good to save money but most people don't understand how the market moves and tend to mislead in facts like this and always depend on money in the bank

    • @jovensdenegocios51
      @jovensdenegocios51 3 года назад

      People have lost everything they've got while we watch. We couldn't help because the government were involved.

    • @cryptocrewuniversity4258
      @cryptocrewuniversity4258 3 года назад

      @@jovensdenegocios51 Well, I think this is a problem crypt•currnces are solving. Ever since I started nvestng and graduated into trding, my life has never been the same. Never!
      The bl○ckch@¡n made it impossible for the government to keep off people's hard earn money.

    • @cryptocrewuniversity4258
      @cryptocrewuniversity4258 3 года назад

      The bl0ckchan made it impossible for the government to keep off people's hard earn money.

  • @laureehammel4316
    @laureehammel4316 3 года назад +4

    I think hugs are very important there was a lady in the store oh young lady and she was crying because she lost her job and she didn’t know what she was going to do for income so I said to her come here Can I hug you that helped her and another lady after I hugged the girl she went and hugged her as well I think she needed that and it made her feel good Maybe it just depends on what country you come from I live in the USA

  • @NiraliiKrishnaPriye
    @NiraliiKrishnaPriye 2 года назад +3

    EVERYONE SHOULD UNDERSTAND THIS. I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY YOU HAVE TO TOUCH SOMEONE WHO IS NOT YOURS. like really...? maintain the space please.

  • @Sammy_Kaur
    @Sammy_Kaur 3 года назад +6

    I prefer it when people do not touch me let alone hug me. Unless it’s certain family I prefer no hugging, but I do reciprocate if people hug me as it would be rude not to

  • @elangovan1592
    @elangovan1592 3 года назад +44

    Don't ever question Indians. They know everything.

  • @aparnamandal7309
    @aparnamandal7309 3 года назад +4

    In India hugging is not general. Yes we do hug our own family members or people known to us, but not randomly anyone or just met people. People here talking about giving pleasure/happiness/support by hugging and a change of mood by hormone release, but personally if I am sad/suffering, I would like to have a person beside me who can listen to me, encourages me, give mental support so that I can overcome the situation not just only a temporary change of mood by hormone release. No outsider (including family members) can change my sufferings unless I myself willing to change it. And this covid period must have teached the world not to get into physical contact randomly by hugging or shaking hands as it spread diseases.

  • @jeralynmartinez7546
    @jeralynmartinez7546 2 года назад +4

    Human touch is necessary and vital and should be done with absolute consent, love and mutual respect. It should never be forced.
    If you are uncomfortable, then politely decline. Easy-peasy.

  • @juliosanchez95
    @juliosanchez95 3 года назад +64

    This is such soothing and seductive nonsense

    • @agotahorvath
      @agotahorvath 3 года назад +3

      haha well said !

    • @ananas3163
      @ananas3163 3 года назад +3

      Couldn't say it better!!

    • @GodIsLoveAndTruth
      @GodIsLoveAndTruth 3 года назад +1

      U wanna live a normal life ...not exploring the extend of possibilities...this is tradegy

    • @beautifulrose8619
      @beautifulrose8619 3 года назад +1

      lol

    • @Priska_Kelly
      @Priska_Kelly 2 года назад +5

      Not totally wrong though.its got some truth in it .we partly believe in it in Africa too that's why we believe kids who are very pure and innocent refuse to be touched or hugged anyhow by people .they feel their energy .lots of cultures believe in this even though they explain it differently. In countries like Japan Korea and all those countries hugging is not common.in Eastern Europe either .they rarely shake hands too its a new thing really .they say hello .without necessarily having physical contact.all the people I did hug while being deeply involved emotionally if I close my eyes I can feel their hug still as if its happening now .body truly has a memory.but I guess it depends of your level of awareness. I couldn't speak or understand what is saying now 10 years ago .I would have probably agree 100 % with you