It's good advice, but extremely one sided, men require intimacy as much if not more then woman. There has to be a balance. Men may be excited easier then a woman but he needs to be warmed up emotionally and respectfully.
Agreed but it's life.. who cares about what we men feel.. luckily however men also receive better sex when the women are properly taken care of first.. its just the way the world works and we have to accept it as it is..
oh darling, this is not true. women want to take care of their man too, it goes both ways. Just because I recorded a video FOR MEN, it doesnt mean women dont search the same information about men. Just go on YT and search, and see all the book on amazon. the market is massive.
@MagdaKay you should talk with more men, men who have given all and then been handed divorce papers, men who have lost everything to woman they believed in trusted. Before you say it's not true do the real research. And you won't find it in books. As long as we separate the issue between men an woman we will never find the truth. Woman want to be treated like princesses but they are not treating their men like a prince
I enjoyed every bit of your powerful explanation on the importance of foreplay. That sounds the right way to approach and show respect your partner. Thanks 😊
As someone else mentioned, I think this might be good advice for younger people or for people early on in a relationship. As I have gotten on in years, I have had my ex-wife and more than one girlfriend tell me to just hop on already. I believe as we get older, you are with a person for a while, life's responsibilities start to creep in, what was once considered foreplay is now considered wasting time and familiarity leads to boredom, no matter how you mix it up. It is my experience that this is usually the beginning of the end your sexual relationship.
yes, but the problem is that women tell you to "hop on" because it's their way of not being vulnerable and going deeper. once you're in love, the stakes are higher. you risk being rejected and hurt if you show the truth of who you are. long, deep sex brings our wounds up. and its really scary. so women often try to rush or speed up sex so they wont stir these deep emotions.
@@MagdaKay You may have a point, which makes me look back at some of my relationships with sadness and disappointment. However, I was also commenting on another video where I mentioned that I read a 20 year statistical study on NIH that showed the difference in sexual desire in long-term relationships as that relationship progressed. While men's desire stayed relatively static up until 60 years old, women's desire started to become variable at age 40-45. Not as much as I would have thought, but definitely different. The reasons the study gave for that were varied and while none of what I read mentioned old wounds, I imagine it could very well be in some situations. My personal experience with people who have had a wounded past has been on both ends of the spectrum. One's sexual appetite grew as the relationship continued until it burned to the ground - the other withdrew nearly totally just as I thought we were getting closer. Either way, life's travails seem to get in the way of sexual desire for women more so than men. And since men need sex not simply for physical, but also emotional gratification, it becomes difficult for men to maintain that connection with a "hop on" type partner.
A very good point that you have made here. In the past I have rushed to get down there but you are right that what foreplay is for a man is different for a woman for most instances.
Dear Magda, Exactly what are your academic credentials as per intimacy counseling ? Would it be possible for you to provide a complete list of all STDs and what vaccines, condoms or dental dams that can prevent them ? In addition, what is all this talk about skin on skin transmission of what are considered STDs, but did not involve penetration or oral play ?
Well as a married man, I would expect my wife to be engaged as well. She's not been engaged in over 5 or 6 years but I stopped counting. I lost interest in it and actually don't care as much as I used to being physically intimate vs being what she wants, so I now act like a roommate and sleep in different bedrooms. When were active she expected me to be down there getting her off. I believe this information is for single persons. My neighbor's have more intimate times with their girlfriend or there go to male friends. At night, I try to have a conversation in bed about anything or a specific situation and she shuts me off so she can sleep. (Before I moved to a different bedroom)
@@MagdaKay thank you. I am just going to get myself better because it's physically painful along with the mental stress of continuous "why"! Sometimes I wish I just get them cut off and as to not feel the pain or be able to deal with the pain of having them while not being able to have intimate times. I just saw my new urologist and she's "why did you wait so long to see me"? Your groin is spasms and your testicles are throbbing and inflamed and I can't help you until these spasms and inflammation resides in all your groin area. Minimum of 2 weeks on prescription meds then waiting another 4 weeks until she sees if the meds helped or not.
D-I-V-O-R-C-E She’s not upholding her side of marriage. I strongly suspect if your wife was in the dating market, she’d be making an effort to find and satisfy a man. If you aren’t worth the effort to her, move on. If she wasn’t getting what she wanted out of your marriage, don’t think for a second she would stay.
it's all HOW we communicate it. first, think of what could trigger her, and ease that, so she doesn't get defensive. this is the hardest part. we usually focus on what we want or our fear of being rejected and we come off too pushy so then the partner can't receive our request
Women are very smart. If she’s acting offended by your attempts to discuss this important topic, she’s absolutely faking outrage to avoid the discussion. She doesn’t care enough about your feelings to find a path forward. Move on, divorce can be expensive but it’s liberating and ultimately worth it. Find a woman that cares about you and your feelings.
Good advice, except it hasn't always worked for me. Sounds a lot like my lovemaking style. I tried taking it very carefully in my last relationship until she abandoned the relationship, just as intimacy was about to arrive.
Hello Magda I cannot give you a thumbs up. This is because I need to see in words during and after your talk what you have been saying either on the screen or in your words.
You say it takes women more to warm up. That's because most are emotional. Most men on the other hand are more visual. Now if men are expected to understand that then women need to understand men as well.
Since learning what women want, in my early 30's, I've used this approach and have always had explosive and wet results. Thanks Magda Kay🥰🥰🥰
Thank you Magda, I always learn something or get something from your videos.
Thank you!
Well I've never seen it by this perspective. Every time I learn something new from you. ❤
Really?
It's good advice, but extremely one sided, men require intimacy as much if not more then woman. There has to be a balance. Men may be excited easier then a woman but he needs to be warmed up emotionally and respectfully.
It’s not all about what women want, hello?
Agreed but it's life.. who cares about what we men feel.. luckily however men also receive better sex when the women are properly taken care of first.. its just the way the world works and we have to accept it as it is..
@@BadBuddhaPhotography I saw a RUclips today that said 50% of men and women in the USA have not had sex in a year! So any encouragement is good :)
oh darling, this is not true. women want to take care of their man too, it goes both ways. Just because I recorded a video FOR MEN, it doesnt mean women dont search the same information about men. Just go on YT and search, and see all the book on amazon. the market is massive.
@MagdaKay you should talk with more men, men who have given all and then been handed divorce papers, men who have lost everything to woman they believed in trusted. Before you say it's not true do the real research. And you won't find it in books. As long as we separate the issue between men an woman we will never find the truth. Woman want to be treated like princesses but they are not treating their men like a prince
Great tips as always Magda...Thank you!
thank you!
I enjoyed every bit of your powerful explanation on the importance of foreplay. That sounds the right way to approach and show respect your partner. Thanks 😊
As someone else mentioned, I think this might be good advice for younger people or for people early on in a relationship. As I have gotten on in years, I have had my ex-wife and more than one girlfriend tell me to just hop on already. I believe as we get older, you are with a person for a while, life's responsibilities start to creep in, what was once considered foreplay is now considered wasting time and familiarity leads to boredom, no matter how you mix it up. It is my experience that this is usually the beginning of the end your sexual relationship.
yes, but the problem is that women tell you to "hop on" because it's their way of not being vulnerable and going deeper. once you're in love, the stakes are higher. you risk being rejected and hurt if you show the truth of who you are. long, deep sex brings our wounds up. and its really scary. so women often try to rush or speed up sex so they wont stir these deep emotions.
@@MagdaKay You may have a point, which makes me look back at some of my relationships with sadness and disappointment. However, I was also commenting on another video where I mentioned that I read a 20 year statistical study on NIH that showed the difference in sexual desire in long-term relationships as that relationship progressed. While men's desire stayed relatively static up until 60 years old, women's desire started to become variable at age 40-45. Not as much as I would have thought, but definitely different. The reasons the study gave for that were varied and while none of what I read mentioned old wounds, I imagine it could very well be in some situations. My personal experience with people who have had a wounded past has been on both ends of the spectrum. One's sexual appetite grew as the relationship continued until it burned to the ground - the other withdrew nearly totally just as I thought we were getting closer. Either way, life's travails seem to get in the way of sexual desire for women more so than men. And since men need sex not simply for physical, but also emotional gratification, it becomes difficult for men to maintain that connection with a "hop on" type partner.
A very good point that you have made here. In the past I have rushed to get down there but you are right that what foreplay is for a man is different for a woman for most instances.
Thanks Magda, informative video.
I agree that building up to the act is important for both partners. Foreplay must be good for you both.
Thank you, Magda.
Excellent tips
thank you
Dear Magda,
Exactly what are your academic credentials as per intimacy counseling ?
Would it be possible for you to provide a complete list of all STDs and what vaccines, condoms or dental dams that can prevent them ?
In addition, what is all this talk about skin on skin transmission of what are considered STDs, but did not involve penetration or oral play ?
Thank you Magda!
It has been at times,finishline for both.❤
@@rickthoma6428 I dont no the woman you mess with but the dollar makes them holler 🤩💯👍
This is the best outcome.
I always like to say, "food is foreplay if you're doing it right." 😉
yep :)
Well as a married man, I would expect my wife to be engaged as well. She's not been engaged in over 5 or 6 years but I stopped counting. I lost interest in it and actually don't care as much as I used to being physically intimate vs being what she wants, so I now act like a roommate and sleep in different bedrooms. When were active she expected me to be down there getting her off. I believe this information is for single persons. My neighbor's have more intimate times with their girlfriend or there go to male friends. At night, I try to have a conversation in bed about anything or a specific situation and she shuts me off so she can sleep. (Before I moved to a different bedroom)
tm sorry this is where your relationship is
@@MagdaKay thank you. I am just going to get myself better because it's physically painful along with the mental stress of continuous "why"! Sometimes I wish I just get them cut off and as to not feel the pain or be able to deal with the pain of having them while not being able to have intimate times. I just saw my new urologist and she's "why did you wait so long to see me"? Your groin is spasms and your testicles are throbbing and inflamed and I can't help you until these spasms and inflammation resides in all your groin area. Minimum of 2 weeks on prescription meds then waiting another 4 weeks until she sees if the meds helped or not.
Get rid of her.
Yes I know exactly how you feel same old crap
D-I-V-O-R-C-E
She’s not upholding her side of marriage.
I strongly suspect if your wife was in the dating market, she’d be making an effort to find and satisfy a man.
If you aren’t worth the effort to her, move on.
If she wasn’t getting what she wanted out of your marriage, don’t think for a second she would stay.
Good English Speach.
“I did not have sex… with that woman…”
We know who said that..😊
"Ah did have a relationship with Miss L. which was inappropriate. In fact it was WRRong-"
I THOUGHT 'ORAL' IS TALKING'. . .'CAN YOU TALK' TO 'BETWEEN THE LEGS?
Yes❤
This woman has not met my girl!
😂😂😂😂😂
magda you are very very beutiful thank you
thank you
If she is reluctant to discuss on sexual matters and that vocabulary (vulger , village words ) what can a huband do ? She gets angry ..in that case 😅
it's all HOW we communicate it. first, think of what could trigger her, and ease that, so she doesn't get defensive. this is the hardest part. we usually focus on what we want or our fear of being rejected and we come off too pushy so then the partner can't receive our request
Women are very smart.
If she’s acting offended by your attempts to discuss this important topic, she’s absolutely faking outrage to avoid the discussion.
She doesn’t care enough about your feelings to find a path forward.
Move on, divorce can be expensive but it’s liberating and ultimately worth it.
Find a woman that cares about you and your feelings.
Chocolates & Wine -
Confusing of what she is saying
Good advice, except it hasn't always worked for me. Sounds a lot like my lovemaking style. I tried taking it very carefully in my last relationship until she abandoned the relationship, just as intimacy was about to arrive.
im sorry this happened.
❤❤❤loveyou❤❤❤
I think I would rather watch RUclips.
🙏
we got wet even though it did not rain❤❤❤
Hello Magda
I cannot give you a thumbs up. This is because I need to see in words during and after your talk what you have been saying either on the screen or in your words.
In other words she doesn’t really want it! Just wants to be the focus - ie if men never did anything nothing would ever be done…
you sound hurt
OK. So you want men to understand that women thought processes are different than ours but you don't want to accept the same about men.
how are you drawing this conclusion?
You say it takes women more to warm up. That's because most are emotional. Most men on the other hand are more visual. Now if men are expected to understand that then women need to understand men as well.
👍
This makes sense.
Men are like an "On/Off" switch.
Women are like a rheostat.
Good luck these men you talking about doesn’t exist
hmm... just because you are not one of them, doesnt mean there are no men like this.
Stop the bull mess the money is the for play then she performs better I no 😂
Got a stroke just by reading that "bull mess"
😂😂
We make self-fulfilling prophecies of who we'll attract. Believe it and make it happen.
I'm for real i,did it🤩👍