"Never contact a woman again if you told her to get in touch with you". Damn, that one almost got me today. If I hadn't watched this video I would have done the exact opposite of what you're recommending even though in my head it sounded needy and wrong. I tried to make plans with this woman a few days ago. Told her I was heading to town sometime next week and that if she had the time, she could join me. Her response was "I don't know if I'm able to" even though I had asked her if she had plans that week (seems like low interest which is weird since she showed me pretty high interest when she first met me). I replied with "No problems, just get in touch with me when you're free" and she replied with a "yes". I'm pretty sure that was her very polite way of rejecting me.
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If you're in sales, like Coach and myself; and you're successful, then you know that the close happens on the open. In other words, if she perceives you as atleast minimally attractive, physically; sees you as interesting and high value through your initial presentation, then she'll literally be waiting for you to get her #. That's where true "center" becomes crucial because some women aren't too forgiving; and in fact are WAITING for you to unravel so they can weed you out quickly. Also, in sales; we know that once a prospect leaves our presence without a commitment; the likelihood of ever seeing that person diminishes drastically. That's why if you're not making dates on the spot you get a small investment by having her text YOU first, then closing the deal by getting her schedule and setting the date. That's what it means to have purpose. You don't get a woman's # to text all day, right? You want to see her!
Hey coach...purchased your audio book yesterday. Would just like to thank you and let you know i appreciate your work. For people struggling to read the book 10-15 times, i strongly recommend the audio book as you can listen to it on your journey to work, in the gym and so forth. i read the book in bed but due to long days would fall asleep a few pages in. No excuses to not sponge up the coaches info now. Thanks again Coach
Exactly what my problem was until I went through Audible. So much easier. Only wish I did this 3 years ago. I wouldn't have cherry-picked through his videos and I could have saved myself 2 years of disappointment and heartache. But hell, I'm so much better now that I've read his book (round 17).
The thing I love about Coach Corey Wayne's teaching besides finding your own purpose is the secret language of how to communicate to a woman your dominance, worth and boundaries without actually saying it. It's definitely an art. I desire to be extremely be fluent.
This video makes me want to bang my head against a wall because it could have saved me years of awkwardness that I had no clue I was causing. Best video you have done, Corey.
This is such a valuable video. It outlines virtually all the possibilities of asking a woman out and spells out what to do and what not to do. Off hand I'd say if I knew about this in high school I would have had hundreds encounters and dates that I killed off by being unaware of this. Thank you so much Corey. On my 23rd read. Getting close to memorizing parts of your book and applying so much!!!!
@@jCeeYourLove It doesn’t necessarily have to be 15 times but as many times as it takes in order for you to not have to refer back to it when confronted with real life, real time situations.
I just gotta say, im 19. Ive been seeing a girl from work(19) that just got out of a two year relationship(she was cheated on) and thanks to Corey ive picked up on all the red flags: Hot and cold, Aloof, Still talking to the ex, Expresses wanting to see me but wont accept or make definite dates/times and always has an excuse, blows sunshine up my as when I do the take away approach for a week. I know shes probably damaged goods but i cant help myself. Im on read through number 3 currently and everyone needs to buy his book to truly "get it." Thanks man!
I love this video. It's always important to read her tone after you make the offer to go out with you. If she doesn't sound enthused, go forward with caution, or find someone else.
I've read the book 7 times (slightly spaced out, though) but hadn't read it in the past month. I was stood up by a girl 2 days ago. I noticed a comment from the video that I don't think was in the book. "If you just met a girl and talked with her for 2 or 3 minutes, don't set a date for a week in advance." I had met several girls very briefly, with brief interactions and had set dates with a week in advance. I probably made a few mistakes in gauging her interestas well, though, because I did get a feeling she wasn't totally enthusiastic but just saying "sure" even though the date was definite. I always was setting up these dates a week in advance, and having had barely any interaction with some of these girls, I had been stood up more than once. One girl recently said to me "Oh I forgot it was today! You should have called me". Anyway, great tips Corey and I appreciate your material and how much you give to all of us. Blessings. Still, this comment from the video was not mentioned in the book, right? Do you think I should set dates SOON with girls I have interacted with only briefly and gave me their number when I asked?
This situation re: being stood up is somewhat interesting. I've had one similar incident 3 mths ago with one woman I was super confident would have shown up, as I had set definite date, & utilized the reservation option at the venue to send text to her ph instead of mine. She however stood me up on what she described as an error in judgement, ie. me not having called her to remind her, haha! The super brilliant converse to this was that I knew (Corey Wayne's fundamental) to continue in the same vein with the exact plan regarding another woman in the same month, mere days apart where the results proved that the first woman was just structured or spoilt by other guys who called her to 'remind' her (irrespective of reservations & tight planning) about the date. "Had it been Brad Pitt, would she require a reminder?"(Wayne). The first woman was wealthy 2 time divorcee, & structured, whilst the second woman was a wealthy (famous actress I've mentioned in a note re: my successful dating stints) tall blond whom I never reminded, although the date was 5 days into the future. She texted that she'd arrive 15 mins before me (I was late by 7 mins) which I believe speaks to her being adjusted, her confidence re: options & wanting a simple no complication, no paparazzi following. I'd deliberately set the date in a classy, but low keyed area, wink, wink!
I know this goes against Corey Wayne’s teachings, but I wouldn’t put too much emphasis on the girl’s initial level of attraction or interest upon meeting and texting, as long as you set up a definite date. I’ve had girls with initial high interest flake and girls with initial low interest actually show up all dolled up and come back to my place for seggs on the first date. Honestly I like it better when a girl is showing low interest, as long as she agrees to the definite date. It takes some pressure off because what do you have to lose? It helps you stay in a calm and masculine frame. Whereas when a girl is overly excited, it feels like I have to live up to some expectation she has of me in her head.
This is a video I know I needed. Practise makes perfect and I will do as my coach advises. Thank you so much Coach! Your work has helped me through such struggles with a narcissistic ex, and has made meeting others such a wonderful experience. We are the masters of ourselves, and our realities! Thank you again Coach Corey Wayne!
It really funny how the universe works but I could have used this video three days ago with this girl I been seeing for a couple mounts. But away thanks coach for the things you do. You haven't met all of us. But for the one you watch, listen, and practice the thing you teach is just awesome. Thanks for everything
@@JasonBrewer2509 Corey's advise definitely helped. Unfortunately I realized that this woman did not have the integrity that I wanted in a relationship. We broke up on good terms though and even visited each other later when she asked me to keep her company. read the book man, read the book.
The number one take away from this entire topic is only date women who are crazy about the thought of seeing you. Everything else you see in this video happens when you ask out low interest women and try to turn them into high interest women. Simply put you don’t have to be so precise with every little move when your with a high interest woman. It’s like shooting a ball when you’re in the zone. Everything you put up goes in the hole.
yes and no, I think you still have to put in effort even if you've been in a relationship for a while. Corey mentions that everyone slips up at some point
If every time you text a girl you feel like you’re on the bomb squad thinking which wire to cut, it’s best to move on. Or imagine her as this gross hairy chick, then you’ll have the mentality of 🤷🏻♂️ if she isn’t interested.
Coach I read your book and consumed all my time in it, I'm in the process of reading it a 2nd time, but I'm going to read it 15 times ! Thanks for all your help, finally I understand people.
I found out the hard way the truth of setting definite dates. I organised to meet up with a girl the next week on a certain day, she seemed excited. On the day I texted asking if she is good to go for the night. No answer. I thought it was a big flake and felt like a complete fool. A few days after she wrote profusely apologising but didn't know where and what time to meet because we didn't "set" it, desperate to meet up again as she truly lost her phone and there was no way she could contact me on the day. If only I set a definite date, time and place from the beginning we would have met up and I wouldn't have missed a great weekend because she said she had the whole weekend free. Lucky for me we were able to make up for the lost phone. Contingencies happen. Make a DEFINITE date.
😂 corey put it so perfectly. I definitely stroked my ego by making someone like me who didn't at first. Felt fucking great when we finally madeout and stuff. But corey is ultimately correct because that scenario takes too much goddamn effort to keep going.
I’ve read this book 16 times and it still blows my mind how the one’s I’m not interested in, I do it so effortlessly that I don’t even think of following a playbook. But I know with the ones I do like I’m still following the book like a fucking robot and so I need to read it to the point where it’s a natural state of being
So, girl I met in a bar, we hit it off. She showed very high levels of attraction. We made a date, but she cancelled a few hours earlier then called me to apologise and I asked, do you still want to hang out. She said of course! We made definite plans on Saturday to meet on Thursday at 4pm and I said, Okay, I will be there at 4pm, if plans change or anything comes up, I will let you know. Otherwise see you at 4 x. It’s been 4 days since then and I’ve heard nothing from her since. I’m know thinking that she’s possibly thinking I’m no longer interested or that she may just stand me up. I’m doing what Corey says but I’m in my head a little bit because I’ve already been cancelled on once. Should I just turn up and see if she turned up?
You shouldn’t have set another date after being canceled on dude. You should’ve told her to figure out a date to make it up to you. Now she has no respect for you. Of course she won’t reply.
hey coach I jus started using your tips on my girlfriend a couple of days ago and its really working exactly as you said but now am worried she gonna think am dating someone else.coz she had all the power in the relationship until I chkd out your videos now its turn up time.i jus stopped caring and now i cn c she's feeling the heat I hope she's not gon get it twisted and leave me coz I love her so much and I want to marry her but I want to train her....
Hey coach! Have you ever consider doing a podcast wherein you interview known dating gurus about different subjects? I think it would be nice to mix that up to your email response videos.
Wow, this made me realize so many things, i feel so good, even if this girl i was talking to is leaving me, i feel like i could have so many new oportunities just by learning this!, thank you so much :D
Great video once again. I been following you for a few years now (book, videos & newsletters) and I can say I'm am very I happy "stumbled" across you're videos when I did.
The challenge is when she doesn't come back with a time (Me: "When are you free?" Her: "I work M-Thurs" which is a non-answer.). I asked her twice and got non-answers. Then she continues to chat me up multiple times per day, everyday, on all sorts of topics, including affectionate. Not sure what to do. Maybe take the offer off the table or a THIRD (and final) ask, one too many?
So I took a chance and asked a girl out that I met two weeks ago for one night at Dave and busters and even tho the night ended with her friend trying to argue with me she replied instantly to my date offer with she's down forsure felt good 😁
Apparently reading a person's message (or having it show "received"/"opened" (text message) or "delivered [timestamp]" (Messenger) is called "curving" just learned this term today
this is indeed a success!!! but I see there is more 97% women out here show us how to deal with them...nd skipping on to the next isn't always an option. like or respond so I know u got this. would love to elaborate on my story....your the fucking TRUTH BRO
I sadly rarely get a first date that often (once every three months approx) and then after the first date, they keep messaging small talk but i don’t get them arranging a set second date and so i lose interest. I tell them my availability too. I also don’t get men online believing this and they put me in the box of “not interested in her other than a text friend” so i say bye to them too.
Something quite annoying that happened with me three times in a row: I got the number, texted shortly, and then asked something like: "when are you free for a drink" or "what about a drink next week" The answer: "Im free at Wed" or "Yes, sure" and then when I try to set a definititve date like "see you at such place, at XXX time?" Vacuum \ No answer at all Anyone been in a similar situation?
It's just a rut bro, don't sweat it. Keep circulating. You'll discover that majority of women won't have a high level of attraction towards you, the ones that do make it really easy for you. You have to get through the no's to get to the yes's.
I'm having exactly the same problem. It's happened now with a lot more than three different girls haha, I can't seem to get past this. Always ask when they're free, they tell me, I ask something like "cool, how about we go to wherever at 5:00?" and get absolutely no answer. Just out of curiosity, how long do you wait after you get their number to text them? In my case a couple of them actually reached out to me first. Not that the result was any different.
Bro when you say when are you free for a drink and she says Wednesday, just say. Great, how about i pick you up from your house Wednesday at 8pm? or ask her to meet you a such and such a play at 8pm? its important that you ask her in a question format so it doesn't seem like your bossing her around.
My 2 cents is that you didn't judge properly their level of attraction to you. This is a very important part of coach's dating principle (rtfb). You have to judge her level of attraction when you meet her. If she is above 5, go for it. If not, don't waste your time. I am 47, please trust me, don't waste your time, because three days ago, I was 25...next girl. Trust me, you won't get rejected then.
A girl messaged me after i hit on her and she said "well when do you want to meet up?" I responded "wanna hang out tonight? I can come pick you up, where are you?" She responded "dunno of i can tonight. Let me see. Im in clearlake" i responded and said "k well let me know". She never got back to me. Its been almost a couple weeks. I guess i should have asked her her schedule first, and done the take away after she gave me the "maybe". Should i message her back and ask her schedule or should i just drop it?
what if you say 'get back to me when you know your schedule' but next time you hear from her its not about rescheduling the date or her telling you when shes free, and its just her chatting about whatever. or what if she just doesnt get back to you about the date? how do you bring it back up?
corey....about making dates at your place...What if you can't invite them to your place because of family, etc... is it always best to meet them at their place or will a cheap motel also work?
Correy Wayne needs to do a video for those that have TMobile service 😂 I can't remember how many friends told me they texted me and I never received it lol
@@ntala3399 wrong mate, i clean up with your women, i'm half arab half english, your girls would pick me over your weak feminine ass any day and I have my pick of the naturally beautiful arab girls anyways so how about you check your weak perception of life
I met this girl who seems cool... I’m nervous to call her...would Corey or someone from his team call her for me? My mom won’t, she says that’s uncool. Thanks
Hay Corey Wayne, you early talk about Take Away technic, and when a girl you date her in the past or you fucked up was giving you maybe response, which page is on your book?
Hello, Mr. Wayne. So Last night I was talking on the phone to my girl-friend (wink-wink!) and she sounded a little off, so i asked her what's up? She said "I don't wanna talk about it", so I "Tell me all about it, and don't leave out any details", but she still sticked to "I don't don't wanna talk about it", so i asked"Are you sure" and then she said "Yeah, It has nothing to do with you". So I playfully said "Well, keep it bottled in, if you end up driving yourself crazy, don't come crying to me" and i laughed. She said "I'll be fine". I ended up changing the subject. Question 1.) - Should I have persisted? - Leave it and give it some space? Question 2.) - Did what I say was the right thing? If not, then what should I have asked/said? Question 3.) - Should I bring it up again next time we talk? (Which is the first Sunday in June) Any other tips/advice? PS: I've been listening to your audio book, I'm around 4 and a half hours in, first time listening to it. Lol. I love everything I'm hearing so far, especially the part about her doing most of the talking. It's much easier lol. Thanks for everything you've taught me so far. Yours truly, Jae.
Thomas Begen We're long distance for tha moment, so setting up dates isn't exactly an option, else i would have done that a loooong time ago. We have phone convo once a week. Am not too slick? I should have persisted? or try n get her to open up about it?
You're not her therapist. You only try to gather infromation and try to help her if she's your girl. Other then that you shouldnt connect your presence with a negative atmosphere. And stop talking her so much. Wait until your both in the same city to set a date. Your chit chatting her like you're pen pals. Pen pals dont fuck on paper.
Tommy Nguyen Talking to her once a week is too much? WE're not in the same country btw. The shit-chatting part- you're right -- i think you re referring to me saying -- well if u go crazy, don't ry bla bla bla .. probably wasn't the best thing to say lol. she wants me to talk to her more often during the week, says it bothers her that i don't tlak to her more, don't know if i should...
Coach not sure if you read this. What if the girls that have that high level of attraction for me are only woman I am not attracted to? Keep playing the field?
So I just tried to call a girl and I got her voicemail. I didn't know what to say in the voicemail so I panicked and just hung up after she didn't answer. Should I have left a voicemail? What should I have said in the voicemail? Should I call again?
Hi everyone. I hope U guys can help me, there's a video Corey did a while back in which he shares the story of a going who is going out with this girl that keeps making plans with him. She tells him to meet her at a hotel but then she cancels and tells him to go away. I really want to watch this video but I can't find it, hopefully one of you remembers the title.
Off topic but my ex gets mad when I try to get her to do something for the kids and always doesn't want to put in the extra effort for the kids when I ask her about it she tells me no gets mad and hangs up now she called me the other day I didn't get the call when I call she says don't worry about it then I ask again and she says she was seeing if the car was fixed so I could get the kids she also posted a snap and hasn't in forever knowing I would see it seems like she wants me back but doesn't want to let me know directly wanted to know what you think Corey Wayne she's calling me more frequently now to even though she knows it's only about the kids but she's only suppose to call when it's a emergency but always makes it about the kids and was even questioning why I didn't answer her calls and was nice when she call vs her text which she threatened me to court for the kids
Coach could your dating advice be applied to us dating guys? If I set up a date with a girl from my highschool, how can I build anticipation if we see each other everyday?
Give her the same attention as always and back off a little. Let her be the one to come to you, if she doesn't then you shouldn't. Either way you have a date set for you two to get intimate. That's when you should be showing her attention, not when you're in school and have zero privacy.
had a first date set up.....2 hours before she cancelled for a 'family reason'.....she re scheduled for a few days later (coming up)....I'll see what she does with that now :).........haha how many times have I done that 7:55
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This video is 100% dead on correct! A woman who is into you will make it extremely easy for you to be with her.
Truth!!!
Absolutely
"Never contact a woman again if you told her to get in touch with you". Damn, that one almost got me today. If I hadn't watched this video I would have done the exact opposite of what you're recommending even though in my head it sounded needy and wrong. I tried to make plans with this woman a few days ago. Told her I was heading to town sometime next week and that if she had the time, she could join me. Her response was "I don't know if I'm able to" even though I had asked her if she had plans that week (seems like low interest which is weird since she showed me pretty high interest when she first met me). I replied with "No problems, just get in touch with me when you're free" and she replied with a "yes". I'm pretty sure that was her very polite way of rejecting me.
Something like this happened to me too, you just have to be patient and not give a shit. If she hits u up, she hits u up. Don’t text her
@@692mexico Sadly, a few days after, my emotions got the best of me and I f:ed it up... Don't make the same mistake
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If you're in sales, like Coach and myself; and you're successful, then you know that the close happens on the open. In other words, if she perceives you as atleast minimally attractive, physically; sees you as interesting and high value through your initial presentation, then she'll literally be waiting for you to get her #. That's where true "center" becomes crucial because some women aren't too forgiving; and in fact are WAITING for you to unravel so they can weed you out quickly. Also, in sales; we know that once a prospect leaves our presence without a commitment; the likelihood of ever seeing that person diminishes drastically. That's why if you're not making dates on the spot you get a small investment by having her text YOU first, then closing the deal by getting her schedule and setting the date. That's what it means to have purpose. You don't get a woman's # to text all day, right? You want to see her!
Great comment
Thank you, sir!
Exactly!!!! You only have a 3secs window to sell your center
I always say to myself, What Would Corey Wayne Do?
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Haha Same here, Everytime!
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This video is hurting my ego lol. I fucked up so bad before... but im young so I can fix it. Thanks coach.
you are never to old to fix it
Hey coach...purchased your audio book yesterday. Would just like to thank you and let you know i appreciate your work.
For people struggling to read the book 10-15 times, i strongly recommend the audio book as you can listen to it on your journey to work, in the gym and so forth. i read the book in bed but due to long days would fall asleep a few pages in. No excuses to not sponge up the coaches info now. Thanks again Coach
Exactly what my problem was until I went through Audible. So much easier. Only wish I did this 3 years ago. I wouldn't have cherry-picked through his videos and I could have saved myself 2 years of disappointment and heartache. But hell, I'm so much better now that I've read his book (round 17).
The thing I love about Coach Corey Wayne's teaching besides finding your own purpose is the secret language of how to communicate to a woman your dominance, worth and boundaries without actually saying it. It's definitely an art. I desire to be extremely be fluent.
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This video makes me want to bang my head against a wall because it could have saved me years of awkwardness that I had no clue I was causing. Best video you have done, Corey.
Very insightful video I'm finding closure within myself
This is such a valuable video. It outlines virtually all the possibilities of asking a woman out and spells out what to do and what not to do. Off hand I'd say if I knew about this in high school I would have had hundreds encounters and dates that I killed off by being unaware of this. Thank you so much Corey. On my 23rd read. Getting close to memorizing parts of your book and applying so much!!!!
Macio, 23th?
How long did it even take you?
To read it 23 times
@@jCeeYourLove It doesn’t necessarily have to be 15 times but as many times as it takes in order for you to not have to refer back to it when confronted with real life, real time situations.
@@chloroplast8611 As long as it will take. Come on man read the book lmaooo. How many reads so far?
I just gotta say, im 19. Ive been seeing a girl from work(19) that just got out of a two year relationship(she was cheated on) and thanks to Corey ive picked up on all the red flags: Hot and cold, Aloof, Still talking to the ex, Expresses wanting to see me but wont accept or make definite dates/times and always has an excuse, blows sunshine up my as when I do the take away approach for a week. I know shes probably damaged goods but i cant help myself. Im on read through number 3 currently and everyone needs to buy his book to truly "get it." Thanks man!
Alex Fry What happened?
I love this video. It's always important to read her tone after you make the offer to go out with you. If she doesn't sound enthused, go forward with caution, or find someone else.
I've read the book 7 times (slightly spaced out, though) but hadn't read it in the past month. I was stood up by a girl 2 days ago. I noticed a comment from the video that I don't think was in the book. "If you just met a girl and talked with her for 2 or 3 minutes, don't set a date for a week in advance." I had met several girls very briefly, with brief interactions and had set dates with a week in advance. I probably made a few mistakes in gauging her interestas well, though, because I did get a feeling she wasn't totally enthusiastic but just saying "sure" even though the date was definite. I always was setting up these dates a week in advance, and having had barely any interaction with some of these girls, I had been stood up more than once. One girl recently said to me "Oh I forgot it was today! You should have called me". Anyway, great tips Corey and I appreciate your material and how much you give to all of us. Blessings. Still, this comment from the video was not mentioned in the book, right? Do you think I should set dates SOON with girls I have interacted with only briefly and gave me their number when I asked?
This situation re: being stood up is somewhat interesting. I've had one similar incident 3 mths ago with one woman I was super confident would have shown up, as I had set definite date, & utilized the reservation option at the venue to send text to her ph instead of mine. She however stood me up on what she described as an error in judgement, ie. me not having called her to remind her, haha!
The super brilliant converse to this was that I knew (Corey Wayne's fundamental) to continue in the same vein with the exact plan regarding another woman in the same month, mere days apart where the results proved that the first woman was just structured or spoilt by other guys who called her to 'remind' her (irrespective of reservations & tight planning) about the date. "Had it been Brad Pitt, would she require a reminder?"(Wayne).
The first woman was wealthy 2 time divorcee, & structured, whilst the second woman was a wealthy (famous actress I've mentioned in a note re: my successful dating stints) tall blond whom I never reminded, although the date was 5 days into the future. She texted that she'd arrive 15 mins before me (I was late by 7 mins) which I believe speaks to her being adjusted, her confidence re: options & wanting a simple no complication, no paparazzi following. I'd deliberately set the date in a classy, but low keyed area, wink, wink!
I know this goes against Corey Wayne’s teachings, but I wouldn’t put too much emphasis on the girl’s initial level of attraction or interest upon meeting and texting, as long as you set up a definite date. I’ve had girls with initial high interest flake and girls with initial low interest actually show up all dolled up and come back to my place for seggs on the first date. Honestly I like it better when a girl is showing low interest, as long as she agrees to the definite date. It takes some pressure off because what do you have to lose? It helps you stay in a calm and masculine frame. Whereas when a girl is overly excited, it feels like I have to live up to some expectation she has of me in her head.
I find myself looking through your videos whenever I'm unsure how to proceed with a new prospect. Bless you Corey!
This is a video I know I needed. Practise makes perfect and I will do as my coach advises. Thank you so much Coach! Your work has helped me through such struggles with a narcissistic ex, and has made meeting others such a wonderful experience. We are the masters of ourselves, and our realities! Thank you again Coach Corey Wayne!
This video's one of my all time favorites from the coach!
it s treasure, very informative
It really funny how the universe works but I could have used this video three days ago with this girl I been seeing for a couple mounts. But away thanks coach for the things you do. You haven't met all of us. But for the one you watch, listen, and practice the thing you teach is just awesome. Thanks for everything
lol a couple of mounts.
Haha same thing happened to me many times going through Coaches videos
Gary Michael mount Rushmore mount Kilimanjaro
Its called quantum physics
How the universe works
Coach, thank you so much for answering my email! I'll give an update on how things go!
@@JasonBrewer2509 Corey's advise definitely helped. Unfortunately I realized that this woman did not have the integrity that I wanted in a relationship. We broke up on good terms though and even visited each other later when she asked me to keep her company. read the book man, read the book.
Page 133 in the book, this really made sense, kinda like the aha moment! This study really does help. Thank you.
I've been on 5 dates with your advice and I don't have any trouble getting numbers but I just wanna improve on setting dates and getting second ones.
read the book 10-15 times
Make love to the book, only then will you really experience it
The number one take away from this entire topic is only date women who are crazy about the thought of seeing you.
Everything else you see in this video happens when you ask out low interest women and try to turn them into high interest women.
Simply put you don’t have to be so precise with every little move when your with a high interest woman. It’s like shooting a ball when you’re in the zone. Everything you put up goes in the hole.
yes and no, I think you still have to put in effort even if you've been in a relationship for a while. Corey mentions that everyone slips up at some point
If every time you text a girl you feel like you’re on the bomb squad thinking which wire to cut, it’s best to move on. Or imagine her as this gross hairy chick, then you’ll have the mentality of 🤷🏻♂️ if she isn’t interested.
ik i used to do these thing but it just makes me laugh hearing other people make mistakes. it really shows how much I've grown. God bless Corey Wayne
Coach I read your book and consumed all my time in it, I'm in the process of reading it a 2nd time, but I'm going to read it 15 times ! Thanks for all your help, finally I understand people.
How are things going now? Do you still follow Corey’s advice?
Taco Palace.
I found out the hard way the truth of setting definite dates. I organised to meet up with a girl the next week on a certain day, she seemed excited. On the day I texted asking if she is good to go for the night. No answer. I thought it was a big flake and felt like a complete fool. A few days after she wrote profusely apologising but didn't know where and what time to meet because we didn't "set" it, desperate to meet up again as she truly lost her phone and there was no way she could contact me on the day. If only I set a definite date, time and place from the beginning we would have met up and I wouldn't have missed a great weekend because she said she had the whole weekend free. Lucky for me we were able to make up for the lost phone. Contingencies happen. Make a DEFINITE date.
😂 corey put it so perfectly. I definitely stroked my ego by making someone like me who didn't at first. Felt fucking great when we finally madeout and stuff. But corey is ultimately correct because that scenario takes too much goddamn effort to keep going.
I’ve read this book 16 times and it still blows my mind how the one’s I’m not interested in, I do it so effortlessly that I don’t even think of following a playbook. But I know with the ones I do like I’m still following the book like a fucking robot and so I need to read it to the point where it’s a natural state of being
Lol Corey destroyed me in everything I did wrong.
I’m glad I watched this, I can now move onto the other girls I didn’t mess up with.
23:20 was brutal Coach. Laughing so hard right now.
So, girl I met in a bar, we hit it off. She showed very high levels of attraction. We made a date, but she cancelled a few hours earlier then called me to apologise and I asked, do you still want to hang out. She said of course! We made definite plans on Saturday to meet on Thursday at 4pm and I said, Okay, I will be there at 4pm, if plans change or anything comes up, I will let you know. Otherwise see you at 4 x. It’s been 4 days since then and I’ve heard nothing from her since. I’m know thinking that she’s possibly thinking I’m no longer interested or that she may just stand me up. I’m doing what Corey says but I’m in my head a little bit because I’ve already been cancelled on once. Should I just turn up and see if she turned up?
You shouldn’t have set another date after being canceled on dude. You should’ve told her to figure out a date to make it up to you. Now she has no respect for you. Of course she won’t reply.
It sounds like you are unsure of your schedule, why don't we just do it another time - (The Take Away in Sales)
Coach Wayne is life
Fascinating. A guy commenting about a guy commenting about a girl being around.
Learning every day. Thanks Coach.
hey coach I jus started using your tips on my girlfriend a couple of days ago and its really working exactly as you said but now am worried she gonna think am dating someone else.coz she had all the power in the relationship until I chkd out your videos now its turn up time.i jus stopped caring and now i cn c she's feeling the heat I hope she's not gon get it twisted and leave me coz I love her so much and I want to marry her but I want to train her....
Good job my man! Trust me bro, we lucky as crap to know this stuff.
Man your videos are hilarious and truthful. Subbed
Hey coach! Have you ever consider doing a podcast wherein you interview known dating gurus about different subjects? I think it would be nice to mix that up to your email response videos.
Wow, this made me realize so many things, i feel so good, even if this girl i was talking to is leaving me, i feel like i could have so many new oportunities just by learning this!, thank you so much :D
"Makes you look like a puss-whaaaaa!!" lmao I freakin love your videos brother!
Potentially my fav Corey Wayne video ever😂❤
Corey, you are indescribably AWESOME!!
Great video once again. I been following you for a few years now (book, videos & newsletters) and I can say I'm am very I happy "stumbled" across you're videos when I did.
Greetings from Rio de Janeiro, Brazil! Keep up the good work!
The challenge is when she doesn't come back with a time (Me: "When are you free?" Her: "I work M-Thurs" which is a non-answer.). I asked her twice and got non-answers. Then she continues to chat me up multiple times per day, everyday, on all sorts of topics, including affectionate. Not sure what to do. Maybe take the offer off the table or a THIRD (and final) ask, one too many?
jesus man just tell her you'll pick her up Friday.
So I took a chance and asked a girl out that I met two weeks ago for one night at Dave and busters and even tho the night ended with her friend trying to argue with me she replied instantly to my date offer with she's down forsure felt good 😁
good shit!!! you are so real with your videos!! KEEP up the great vids coach!
I just re read that part in your book where you had to re-attract that girl in your book. Very helpful. Coach C
I needed this one...good stuff.
Apparently reading a person's message (or having it show "received"/"opened" (text message) or "delivered [timestamp]" (Messenger) is called "curving" just learned this term today
Corey U're the best! your book was kinda and Epiphany to me! THANKS!
I asked her when is she free and she replied, "why?".
lmaaaooo 😂
Delete that number
Lol,
just say 'to hang out have fun and hook up'
Perfect advice
this is indeed a success!!! but I see there is more 97% women out here show us how to deal with them...nd skipping on to the next isn't always an option. like or respond so I know u got this. would love to elaborate on my story....your the fucking TRUTH BRO
Great video Coach
What an amazing guy corey damn thank for your work
I sadly rarely get a first date that often (once every three months approx) and then after the first date, they keep messaging small talk but i don’t get them arranging a set second date and so i lose interest. I tell them my availability too. I also don’t get men online believing this and they put me in the box of “not interested in her other than a text friend” so i say bye to them too.
Something quite annoying that happened with me three times in a row:
I got the number, texted shortly, and then asked something like:
"when are you free for a drink"
or "what about a drink next week"
The answer: "Im free at Wed" or "Yes, sure"
and then when I try to set a definititve date like "see you at such place, at XXX time?"
Vacuum \ No answer at all
Anyone been in a similar situation?
+Alan Lopez 3 different girls.
It's just a rut bro, don't sweat it. Keep circulating. You'll discover that majority of women won't have a high level of attraction towards you, the ones that do make it really easy for you. You have to get through the no's to get to the yes's.
I'm having exactly the same problem. It's happened now with a lot more than three different girls haha, I can't seem to get past this. Always ask when they're free, they tell me, I ask something like "cool, how about we go to wherever at 5:00?" and get absolutely no answer. Just out of curiosity, how long do you wait after you get their number to text them? In my case a couple of them actually reached out to me first. Not that the result was any different.
Bro when you say when are you free for a drink and she says Wednesday, just say. Great, how about i pick you up from your house Wednesday at 8pm? or ask her to meet you a such and such a play at 8pm? its important that you ask her in a question format so it doesn't seem like your bossing her around.
My 2 cents is that you didn't judge properly their level of attraction to you. This is a very important part of coach's dating principle (rtfb). You have to judge her level of attraction when you meet her. If she is above 5, go for it. If not, don't waste your time. I am 47, please trust me, don't waste your time, because three days ago, I was 25...next girl. Trust me, you won't get rejected then.
Corey's expressions are hilarious! 😎
Waited for the txt from gf and was told am i not good enough to txt. Carnt win
Absolute legend
A girl messaged me after i hit on her and she said "well when do you want to meet up?" I responded "wanna hang out tonight? I can come pick you up, where are you?" She responded "dunno of i can tonight. Let me see. Im in clearlake" i responded and said "k well let me know". She never got back to me. Its been almost a couple weeks. I guess i should have asked her her schedule first, and done the take away after she gave me the "maybe". Should i message her back and ask her schedule or should i just drop it?
Drop it. You were to available with the tonight shit
Very good video coach
Corey, your advice is 💯 , but how am I going to use it in Tinder messaging
what if you say 'get back to me when you know your schedule' but next time you hear from her its not about rescheduling the date or her telling you when shes free, and its just her chatting about whatever. or what if she just doesnt get back to you about the date? how do you bring it back up?
I'd ask did u find out when your free.
@@justjokeswegettinmoney thanks
corey....about making dates at your place...What if you can't invite them to your place because of family, etc... is it always best to meet them at their place or will a cheap motel also work?
White Rabbit 😂😅
Maybe is a yes.
What if the girl is too shy or nervous around me?
Hm this was intresting. Thanks for the lesson coach! This might have saved my sorry butt if I knew this weeks ago.
Correy Wayne needs to do a video for those that have TMobile service 😂 I can't remember how many friends told me they texted me and I never received it lol
26:08 A LESBIAN ! Alright I Like Lesbians :D haha
yea but no one likes arabs and muslims
@@ntala3399 wrong mate, i clean up with your women, i'm half arab half english, your girls would pick me over your weak feminine ass any day and I have my pick of the naturally beautiful arab girls anyways so how about you check your weak perception of life
You gotta follow the fundamentals
Corey's reactions have me fucking dying!!!
I met this girl who seems cool... I’m nervous to call her...would Corey or someone from his team call her for me? My mom won’t, she says that’s uncool. Thanks
Why does Corey always look like a soccerplayer after a match?
22:00 Lmfao. No words spoken yet so much said.
What if you ask when she’s free and she says, “Monday, I think lol”. Is that a maybe date?
Tell her to confirm her schedule
Lots of laughing on this one....Thanks Corey!
Hay Corey Wayne, you early talk about Take Away technic, and when a girl you date her in the past or you fucked up was giving you maybe response, which page is on your book?
How is it spontaneous if it's only on her time?
you can't see her when she isn't available.
That’s true
19:54 or my favorite: "Places to go people to do"
I've been doing better on definite, I use to forget the time and sometimes the girl had to remind me.
How do you use these principles on Instagram or any other dating app Coach?
9:30 "Something came up." "My girlfriend's mother's parakeet died.... It was very tragic"
16:44 I don’t get it? What’s wrong with saying that you want to make plans?
What is the best response for "Maybe Thursday"
how about just get back to me when you figure out your schedule and are available. never settle for a maybe
8:03 "Pusse wahhh" 🤣🤣🤣😂😂
@coachcoreywayne My favorite so far hands down
How much is the book ? I’m kind of low on money haha
Hello, Mr. Wayne.
So Last night I was talking on the phone to my girl-friend (wink-wink!) and she sounded a little off, so i asked her what's up?
She said "I don't wanna talk about it", so I "Tell me all about it, and don't leave out any details", but she still sticked to "I don't don't wanna talk about it", so i asked"Are you sure" and then she said "Yeah, It has nothing to do with you".
So I playfully said "Well, keep it bottled in, if you end up driving yourself crazy, don't come crying to me" and i laughed.
She said "I'll be fine".
I ended up changing the subject.
Question 1.) - Should I have persisted? - Leave it and give it some space?
Question 2.) - Did what I say was the right thing? If not, then what should I have asked/said?
Question 3.) - Should I bring it up again next time we talk? (Which is the first Sunday in June)
Any other tips/advice?
PS: I've been listening to your audio book, I'm around 4 and a half hours in, first time listening to it. Lol.
I love everything I'm hearing so far, especially the part about her doing most of the talking. It's much easier lol.
Thanks for everything you've taught me so far.
Yours truly,
Jae.
Thomas Begen We're long distance for tha moment, so setting up dates isn't exactly an option, else i would have done that a loooong time ago. We have phone convo once a week. Am not too slick? I should have persisted? or try n get her to open up about it?
Okay, thanks.
Rodney Hill Are you talking to me? We don't text very much. We have phone sessions once a week. Though she wants me to contact her more often lol.
You're not her therapist. You only try to gather infromation and try to help her if she's your girl. Other then that you shouldnt connect your presence with a negative atmosphere. And stop talking her so much. Wait until your both in the same city to set a date. Your chit chatting her like you're pen pals. Pen pals dont fuck on paper.
Tommy Nguyen Talking to her once a week is too much? WE're not in the same country btw. The shit-chatting part- you're right -- i think you
re referring to me saying -- well if u go crazy, don't ry bla bla bla .. probably wasn't the best thing to say lol. she wants me to talk to her more often during the week, says it bothers her that i don't tlak to her more, don't know if i should...
Coach not sure if you read this. What if the girls that have that high level of attraction for me are only woman I am not attracted to? Keep playing the field?
Self care and pursuit of excellence. The hotter women go to you then.
What if you text her with a date and she replies with sorry won’t be able to make it I died last week?? 😂😂
I got ghosted when I used the take away, 😂.
Saved ur self some hassle
She wasn't interested in you to begin with. She would have jerked you around for the next 3 months 😂
Corey what if she says just as friends or ..........?
Thats right are you worth my time
So I just tried to call a girl and I got her voicemail. I didn't know what to say in the voicemail so I panicked and just hung up after she didn't answer. Should I have left a voicemail? What should I have said in the voicemail? Should I call again?
Hi everyone. I hope U guys can help me, there's a video Corey did a while back in which he shares the story of a going who is going out with this girl that keeps making plans with him. She tells him to meet her at a hotel but then she cancels and tells him to go away.
I really want to watch this video but I can't find it, hopefully one of you remembers the title.
I believe it's called The Power of Walking Away
marsaneth Thank you! That's exactly what I was looking for!
Off topic but my ex gets mad when I try to get her to do something for the kids and always doesn't want to put in the extra effort for the kids when I ask her about it she tells me no gets mad and hangs up now she called me the other day I didn't get the call when I call she says don't worry about it then I ask again and she says she was seeing if the car was fixed so I could get the kids she also posted a snap and hasn't in forever knowing I would see it seems like she wants me back but doesn't want to let me know directly wanted to know what you think Corey Wayne she's calling me more frequently now to even though she knows it's only about the kids but she's only suppose to call when it's a emergency but always makes it about the kids and was even questioning why I didn't answer her calls and was nice when she call vs her text which she threatened me to court for the kids
Coach could your dating advice be applied to us dating guys? If I set up a date with a girl from my highschool, how can I build anticipation if we see each other everyday?
*To us Highschool guys I mean*
Yes. Women are different, yet they are all the same.
+FlakMonky20k Have you read his book? If so how many times?
Give her the same attention as always and back off a little. Let her be the one to come to you, if she doesn't then you shouldn't. Either way you have a date set for you two to get intimate. That's when you should be showing her attention, not when you're in school and have zero privacy.
had a first date set up.....2 hours before she cancelled for a 'family reason'.....she re scheduled for a few days later (coming up)....I'll see what she does with that now :).........haha how many times have I done that 7:55
how did it go?
you're so fucking funny man you have me crying in nearly every video you do hahahah
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