For those who are obsessed with self-improvement videos. | Cinematic vlog
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- Hi. It's Pair! this is my first-ever cinematic video using iPhone 12 and Sony a5100 from almost 10 years ago. I'm not planning to get a better camera until I hit 10k because your girl is a brokie lol
Hope you like this video and feel free to share feedback :)
Thank you for watching 💌
#selfimprovement #cinematic
Felt like crying watching this because it's exactly what I need to hear. I know how to lose weight, I know how to start connecting with people, I know how to stand up to my dad, I know how to learn those languages I've been wanting to learn. I just need to do it and actually do the work. Watching theses self-improvement videos makes me feel productive like I'm doing something (that's why I clicked on this video) but in all actuality I know where and how I need to improve myself. So thank you, I needed to hear this. I've subscribed and I'm saving this video so that I return to it every time I need this reminder.
Knowing how to do something and not doing it is because of your paradigme in your subconscious mind. I advise you to do some research on this.
hey be kind to yourself, take things even one small step at a time, and if things don't work out be kind to yourself and recover and then regroup and think about things you could do to gradually improve situation for you
just doing the process of goals helps a lot too, and small steps with your dad, maybe think about why is it he is being difficult, is it because he is concerned about you or is he just mean?
build your skills and learn things and maybe get a part time job and save up money in a secret online bank account you can use to get your own place one day
it might take a while but having small sreps you can do will help take your focus onto the things you can do and dry you results through time
i found that just not snacking between meals helps a lot, but if you excercise and get your movement up every day that will help you a lot to feel a lot better as it flushes out all the cortisol (heavy feeling biochemicals) from stress if we walk fast or run on the spot or do burpees for even a short time every day
i hope life will be really good for you soon
be kind to yourself is key though, and even just doing one small step towards making things closer to how we want them to be and fixing any issues that cause conflict helps a lot too
what is it your dad is being difficult about? I'll try to help you with advice if i can, I've been through a lot of similar things so i hope you will be ok, be kind to yourself is key, you are dealing with a lot and there's lots of people telling us how we should be, but you be you, you are Great i bet
Happy life to you
can relate to this in a spiritual level 😰😭🥴
Sending this comment, just incase you need your reminder again
Efectivamente, esto es CINE
Dude… this isn’t a video.. this is a FILM.
Underated. Amaze balls quality and uniqueness.
you know i saw so much improvement in myself after i stopped watching them. my life was in shambles before i started watching them but it was worse after i started watching them. it was great at first and then i noticed a pattern. in the videos those people "plan and do" meanwhile, "i was just planning the plan and never doing the do". the more i watched the more plans i made and even if i followed the plans once in a while, it never lasted long, no consistency or whatsoever. it made feel so bad about not being able to do anything even though i knew what exactly i needed to do. like it was a dark stressful period of my life. i felt like a complete failure. AND then i quit them. right now, i am still not there yet but i feel good about myself. i am very consistent with habits and routines. and actually getting my work done.
the thing is, those videos are helpful but so addictive. so i really think people should just quit them for good after a while. because planning things is easy and gives you an illusion of progress but in reality, you are still standing at the starting point, where you have always been.
this comment should be pinned┗( T﹏T )┛💌
Why this is not viral yet😭 it's a masterpiece ❤
This made my entire day! ❤
I know right RUclips please push out this gem🙏🏽
@@Pairandetc reminder of what made your day 4 months ago :)
I think it's on recommended now
Lol i try to quit watching self improvement videos and here i am watching another one 😶🌫️
Spoiler alert: it's toxic shame.
This is the only video that I needed to break out of my laziness cycle. Been doing nothing for a week, but surely watched tons of self-improvement videos already, and nothing happened. IT'S ONLY UP TO MYSELF, NOT ONLY TO THINK ABOUT DOING IT, I SHOULD ACTUALLY DO IT.
a quote of mine is “you have the capability to learn every ability” want to learn a language? start! you’ve already learnt one. learn an instrument? you won’t learn it by not trying! want to be more social? more confident? more happy? start to work on your goals, instead of letting them work on you. take them into your hands, and adjust your mindset. then, you’ll have the capability to learn abilities :)
Agreed, I think a lot of people get caught in those cycles. Same for learning art/software, an endless cycle of tutorials and never actually doing the thing. Since doing the thing is the scary part, what if it's not perfect, what if I can't do it at all etc.
Also love all the creative shots you got, this is a great showcase for how underrated the A5100 is and you're showing perfectly how expensive gear doesn't really matter :)
You're so right especially with the fear. And when I end up doing those things, eventually it doesn't feel so scary or hard. It's just bc I'm spending extra time on it, which is completely normal. Smh the human mind sometimes...
you don't need "self-help" videos or books, you just need to be conscious and start small.
if you have eat badly, use social media, have a bad sleeping cycle, just acknowledge it and start with the small stuff
press pause, close your computer/phone, and read a couple of pages of that book you never opened :)
I watched so many videos of self-motivation... until I literally closed a video and said: "in place of learning in videos how to live... I will just live". And, from myself, I started being who I really want to be! And right now, I have my own daily morning routine! And my brain is way more peaceful than before 🙏🏻
I really hope she gets popular, her cinematography skills are so good
Y E S 🙌
Even youtube knows my problem. I am the one who avoiding it :(
relating a bit too much to the beginning of this video 😅 literally just went down a rabbit hole of self improvement videos while not doing any of the ACTUAL changes i've been meaning to do (and putting off) for months now. really appreciated this video: from the meaningful message, to the way it's shot and edited and i also did enjoy the "imperfect" audio by the water, it felt more... idk real? like a friend talking to me, more authentic and easier to connect, if that makes sense. anyway gonna put my phone down now and do some journaling and then go to bed for a reasonable time for once so thank u! 😊
this is exactly what i needed: stop blaming myself for putting into the work but starting from authenticity to put my work into the moving
cinematography is amazing!
SO WELL MADE. The color grading, the perspectives, the writing itself. Just wow.
I don't agree
Because my life has immensely changed when I started watching such videos.
I found great people that literally improved my life so much.
It's nice to see a person go through there own personal version's of self improvement. I'm glad I watched your video and thank you for sharing a snippet of your bigger picture. 🦑
Something that has been ringing in my head from another video. “You’re never gonna feel like it.”.. so I kick my own butt and start doing it.
There are those that watch and those that do. First comes action, then motivation follows, most people get that mixed up. You can't steer a parked car.......get into motion and the rest will get figured out in the doing.
Great film by the way, super professional editing
She is soooo right!!! These days I find myself deleting every self improvement videos on my phone. And I started working out today. It's scary and i do feel like quitting, but i won't. The beginning is always very hard...
Thank you darling. Thank you for telling it as it is. It is very relatable. Love ❤❤❤
Direct to the point that go do the work as planned.
But there are times people are so anxious unable to write a plan or even 3 things to do next or simply go out for 15 mins walk but keep binging on online media.
We need to not seek perfection but simply start. Success in a small task that matters most will feed into more success and discipline for a complex task.
Nice reminder. Let me get started with work.
hi Pair! we're about the same age and i think you're right - by that time, we KNOW what to do. I just watched a couple videos on how to get myself out of a rut, and the tips were exactly what I was already trying to do. it's just HARD. we know what to do, we just like the idea that someone has magically found an easier way. maybe I should just assume they haven't. thank you for this!
mood. 💯 thanks for making and sharing!
Pair, this is such an incredible film! I love your cinematography + typography! I can't imagine how much work it took to get all the different b-rolls and perspective shots! You're an incredible filmmaker and I'm really looking forward to your future work. Subbed!
"The question is....are you willing to feel the discomfort that comes with the change." Amazing video Pair! Looking forward to what yu produce in the future!
the message is delivered beautifully. thank you. a creative peace of art
this was an AMAZINGGGG film. i could 100% relate to the overconsumption of self improvement videos, and you just end up falling into this massive rabbit hole!! so proud of you for making this commitment to yourself, and so excited to see what you create
I just recently came substituting my time on social media to spending time on youtube as it had been a real long time since I was actively using youtube. I am super glad to have come across your wonderful content as you have stimulated me to learn more about videography and follow the path of cinematic vlogs that you are currently walking on! Thank you for creating this lovely piece of work. Sending warm hugsss
God I'm so glad I clicked on this instead of another self-improvement video where they literally trash the same thing over and over again. At the same time, I'm so sad that it took another 'validation' from the outside for me to fully accept it. As I type this now, I realize that my problem with self-doubt and not listening to myself has only gotten worse with the consumption, no, DEVOURING of such content. This silly belief that others know better than me, that in order for me to do something, someone has to say 'yes, do it' or else I'll remain static, has only become ingrained. Thank you for saying that, and presenting it so beautifully. The video is perfectly shot and edited, to convey this message in five minutes is a delight. Simple and clear. I subscribed immediately. If you read it, please share what program(s) you use to edit your videos.
Beautiful cinematography and colour! 🔥
Instant subscribe. The first half was so good i stopped everything i am doing, made full screen( i don't watch on full screen usually) and just was soaked into it. so captivating, so cinematic, its a film. the good one. hope to see more of such videos.
Thank you for this. Mental Masturbation is something I've heard a few humans speak of but for some reason, it took YOUR video to hammer the thought in my brain. THANK YOU.
I wanted to see this all the way through, but I'm sorry, it was just so motivating right off the bat that I had to shut the screen off and start the work. Even though I didn't finish it, thank you for it! If I finished, I would probably just click on another video.
I rarely write comments, but this time I have to. This is a masterpiece. From editing to storytelling it’s great. How do you have less than 5k subs???? Keep up great work 🙌
Seriously this only has 6.6k views? It should have at least 1 million views.
Thank you so much for this video cause I was addicted to so called self improvement video. Need to change myself from now on 💪🏻
simple and straight to the point, but shown beautifully
Sis is doing a video that mirrors our realities!
Loved the way she filmed everything 💗
Exactly what I knew and still needed to hear again!
?? Are you willing to feel the discomfort that comes with the change?? That Hit hard😪
I am SO happy this video came back up on my page. My phone died right before I was going to watch it a few weeks ago and forgot the title and your name 😭
Endless self-improvement can become a loop if we forget to be in the present. Aristotle taught us that virtue lies in balance-let's grow, but also live. 🌱
It’s not about becoming perfect, but perfectly you.
Keep evolving, but don’t forget to enjoy the journey! ✨
this a piece of art honestly so glad that ytb recommended this video to me u almost mentioned everything I had on mind, hope everyone enjoys their life and focus on reality and current moment then the world we do have after the screen
This video just called me out in the best way needed. I’ve been watching too many self improvement videos since last year, but I haven’t actually taken any action. Luckily it’s changing!
Hey, sis, I like everything you do here, so keep making these videos.
And those questions you asked us are so important for us to answer.
Are you willing to feel the discomfort that comes with a change?
Every time I embark on a task, I am aware that it will be difficult, but when it truly becomes challenging, I tend to feel overwhelmed. At this point, I know that I need to lower my goal and be consistent in doing the things I need to do, but I often see myself getting back on the old track and doing the easy things like watching movies and stuff.
If you have an answer for this, please share it with us.
I loved this! To everyone struggling I suggest reading the book “How to do the work” by Nicole Lepera. Title says it all! It’s an amazing read with actual useful tips on how to DO the work!
Precisava ouvir isso 🇧🇷 i felt watching a movie, love it! Lots of love from a brazilian sub ❤
I think you got such a cool thing going on here so I hope this feedback is okay with you!
Totally ignore this if you already know, but for your audio quality in the outside shot, I have some tips!
I'm thinking when you're recording a voice memo with your AirPods connected, it may be using your AirPod microphone. I don't think iPhone has the capability to let you choose your input, but I imagine there are voice recording apps that give you the capability. Or disconnecting your AirPod during time of speaking also works; it will automatically switch back to your iPhone mic, which is much better quality. To take it a step further, under the "Voice Memo" settings, there is an "Audio Quality" option you can change to "Lossless" so you get the uncompressed raw sound. This would take up more space, so that's just an option!
Buttt if the sound effect was a deliberate design choice, then everything I said here doesn't matter lol!
I'm just a rando on the internet that just stumbled upon your video. You are currently at 10.2k subscribers. Hope you are treating yourself to that new camera :)
I just wanted to say I really appreciate the effort you put into your videos! Great content! ❤
Thank you so much for this video!
I am quitting watching self improvement for atleast a few months . If I really get the urge to indulge in such content , I'll take up a book in the genre and read it for a few mins per day. Let's see how this works.
You're right these videos often fall under the umbrella of edutainment with the goal of keeping your attention for as long as possible
Yes, thank you.. I know this in my heart, yet self help videos are such a dopamine hit 💖 Logging off and going to Reiki now, then I'm off to my cabin at sea. Thank you!
OMGGGG I LOVED ITTTT, PLEASE KEEP GOING, YOU ARE THE BEST
I have 2 RUclips account and this is my old one, i just came back to this account today because i feel overwhelmed with the information and contents i have in my new acc( its about self improvement ) im so obsessed with self improvement videos / books / or any information but im still the same. And im very thankful this was recommended to me its like a wake up call to let go consuming self improvement contents
That was unexpected, and very refreshing. Subscribed.
Self improvement is ok BUT nothing beats self discovery and self acceptance ❤
For a long time I thought I need to constantly improve myself however I realized that I actually needed to find myself ❤
This was literally like a fresh breath on yt
You can do both. I like to watch them for motivation. Like when o was training for a marathon i was putting in the miles but I would also consume content about it to motivate me because it’s gets hard. Maybe I took it wrong but it’s weird that you’re discouraging ppl from watching videos that motivate them. I guess you’re referring to ppl who in my example are watching videos about workout motivation but NEVER working out. I will say watching too much therapy type channels eventually makes it worse because I was just thinking about all the things that’s supposedly wrong with me. Lately I watch a lot about self love and manifesting which I do need constant reminders.
This is so different and cool. At the same time delivers a really important message. I am your 160th sub
Thank you for the support 🫶🏽 really appreciate it!!
Hi Pair! Great video, keep it up - I am sure your journey will inspire others.
I think the question here is to get out of your comfort zone, and you did it by quitting self improvement videos. Good luck with your cinematic vlogging! I liked and subscribed to help support :)
I’m just so thankful RUclips connects me with the sweetest people! 🫶🏽
@Pairandetc and I'm thankful RUclips puts such great videos in my algorithm :)
The fact that we both have the exact same gear and you were able to create THIS masterpiece. Wow, and thank you
The script in second person i.e. 'you' is so powerful, reminds me of the trailer for the show 'El Inocente' on Netflix, so good!
there problem imo is not in the consumption, rather it’s with what and how much we consume.
the most productive and creative people know they have to consume to get inspired and come up with ideas.
but there’s a fine line between wasting time and getting to action.
I don't comment often, never actually, but this was so creative, the editing, the shots, the music ! Not only the subject was very relevant to me but the whole video in it self was delightful to watch
Well i actaully feel you and i did the same krub! Stopped watching self imroving for a while and my mentality a bit boosted up! Now more into action than just planing and this really workk! START NOW would be the key!
Stumbled upon this video while watching videos about how to be creative instead of just freaking doing something creative :( thank you pair!
Added this to my “Self-Improvement” library
lol I have self-improvement library to XD
I love your authentic self and how high quality films you do, and all on your own and on top of your full time job and training Muay Thai. My badass friend, keep on going! All the best for you!
fkn kim possible calling me out on my self-improvement addiction with beautiful cinematography
this is good content, it's true. feels refreshing to know someone else out there has been where we all are and now we see them get into action
i love you for this so much. thank you!!
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this video is amazing, you are a great cinematographer. also, i want o to express how disturbing is to be obsessed with self improvement because it’s a constant reminder of how you are not good enough and keep comparing to others in order to love yourself. you know what to do, seek answers in yourself 🤍
First thing I saw was the style and I went "oh I love her style".
And yes, I did come looking for another self-improvement video 😢.
Thank you for this!
This really resonates with me, thank you
I feel this. I like watching self-improvement stuff and have started some of the work, but if I watch enough routines and videos, it feels like it will make my life better. With all my time consuming that content, I could've actually been present and focusing on LIVING that, rather than just idealizing it. I need to put my phone down lol
It’s always ‘Tomorrow’ for me lol 😂 btw love your sunshine smile. ❤
just watched all your content & I can just feel you're gonna blow up! The art of people watching was beautifully shot & your colour grading & editing is *chef's kiss*
The cinematic quotient is on point
Nice video !! it is cinema ! Thanks from Chile !
I'm in love with your channel!! Keep going, ur amazing.
The fact you chose rock music at 1:13 made this so much more enticing to watch, you instantly came across as a main character badass and I'm here for it
the whole video is amazing btw thanx for spreading the message, the truth
this was so refreshing! and the light in every shot is just *chef's kiss*
I just saw the title and I was like "Yes, it's me, you got me" (haven't seen the video yet)
edit: okay yes, this is what I needed it
Great video. As they say, to get something you never had, you have to do something you never did.
Greetings from Barcelona.
I am not even finished watching this Video but I LOVE it!!
Advice is amazing. But. This is so well done. Like a cinematic treasure. Glad to find blogs like this. Little nostalgic hangs with strangers to parallel play my work to. Appreciate the content. Looking forward to more and the new camera at 10k! 🎉
Just stumbled across your channel and WOW, I just love your storytelling, your scenes, your framing...everything!
Well done ! 👏🏼 👏🏼👏🏼
this is actually pretty cool Pair! keep working and don't listen to us
"That's why my name sounds made up" 😂 I love your name and this video! Thanks for posting because it confirmed what I've been doing and what I need to do less of: Consuming. More creating. ❤
This is one of the best videos I’ve ever seen.
Great storytelling and the content is very very valid.
Welldone. I’m glad you decided to stand up and make the cinematic video. 👍
i enjoyed watching this. it was timely😭🤚
This is so cute(how it was filmed). Enjoyable and informative. And, you're right. We know what we need to do.
The story is amazing and so relatable😶🌫️😶🌫️
I live in Thailand! Guessed from your condo lightswitch designs & side of road driving. Lovely film, thanks for sharing!
I was thinking about how nice was the cinematic, the camera moves, the transitions and narrative even before you said so! You really did the work