@ when I was younger I mistakenly thought the way to build friendships and form close bonds was to tell people confidential personal information and be vulnerable. One day I had an eureka 💡 moment that why should I intentionally place my safety at risk to test to see if someone is a friend? That’s not smart. There’s way less dangerous ways to build a bond and test people.
The title alone, so true, "people are noisey." People can't sit still, be quiet, take nature walks with their rescue doggies ... stay away from scrolling and chattering online. Humanity is very sick.
Yeah humans have different intensities of how strong the ego is. And by ego, I mean a false, mind-made sense of self. An idea of who they are in the head. For example take a few achievements and your job, and make a sense of self from that. And proportional to how strong the ego is, the individual will want to partake in social-status dominance games. And this includes bullying, posting on instagram, gossip, try to "become something more" by buying more fancy things etc. Its an illusion. It happens when people dont know themselves. But there are also lots of people who have little to no interest in gossip, so its not as if humanity is screwed. Its a gradient in society. Buddhist munks on the no-ego end, and Kanye West and my aunt on the high-ego-high-gossip-end.
I'm in America. A woman I knew for a few years decided to trash me because I live in a apartment, not a house. For her apartments aren't good enough.That's the mindset of many ( not all) women in America.
@@RedPillOptionand what really pissed me off was she was a single mother, getting child support and government assistance. So she gets help financially.
How's it going Nick. Yah bud nosy people suck! I tend to stick to myself and mind my business. Life is too short to even listen to gossip, you hear it from people now and then and sometimes you have no choice but it's the chronic gossip monsters that I can't stand. Another thing I can't stand is people that love to hear themselves talk and don't give you 2 words literally. LOL, I was at Krown yesterday getting my vehicle rust proofed here in Ontario, anyways... sitting outside waiting for my car in the the sunshine this guy starts talking and wouldn't stop, I was ready to snap! lol. but just went inside the waiting room. $hit I hope that's not gossip? lol
People keep gossiping about me when they find out I sleep with a 5 foot Brian Griffin from Family Guy plush as I’ve had a crush on him for many years and I have no friends nor family. Im a compkete loner man.
Red Pill Option, my mind has never been “normal” when it comes to romantic attraction. Not only do I have crushes and intimate desires for the same gender, males instead of females, but I have these feelings toward male cartoon characters I watched on TV as a kid like Brian Griffin from Family Guy or Wile E Coyote.
A few months ago, a former work colleague who I hadn't seen for two years contacted me. She wanted to know how I was doing in life. I just replied that I was doing very well. She then seriously asked again how I was doing and if there are things happening in my life. It's just laughable how people who have nothing to do with you think you have to give them information about your own life. I'm convinced she just wanted something new to talk about with her group of friends.
I always hated people criticizing others for living with their parents, why don't people mind their own business? You have people making videos about it, society likes to shame you for just about everything. it's pathetic.
Do NOT tell people your plans 💯💯💯
I don’t care what people think of me, I don’t think about them AT ALL 😂
Workplaces are the worst. Like being back in school, but with adults.😣
I agree. People don't change much when becoming adults, they are in many ways still like immature kids.
People who gossips a Lot are envious and frustrated with their own life
Gossip makes People feel better about themselves . People stay people , nice to see you again nick😊 from Belgium
I heard a guy say on another channel, “focus on your house, not the White House.” I liked that.
That’s why I love a private life. I tell people personal things on a need to know basis and even then I mitigate risk
That is what I do now after not learning my lesson in the past.
@@adonaiel-rohi2460 I had to learn to not say anything to anyone. People are treacherous.
@ when I was younger I mistakenly thought the way to build friendships and form close bonds was to tell people confidential personal information and be vulnerable.
One day I had an eureka 💡 moment that why should I intentionally place my safety at risk to test to see if someone is a friend? That’s not smart. There’s way less dangerous ways to build a bond and test people.
people will always assume things for the majority of their life to be honest
The title alone, so true, "people are noisey." People can't sit still, be quiet, take nature walks with their rescue doggies ... stay away from scrolling and chattering online. Humanity is very sick.
Humanity is very sick indeed.
Not noisy, he said “Nosy”
@FART-REPELLENT 🤣🤣🤣 Yeah, but both work.
Enjoy these chats very much. Thank you! 👍 gossip sucks.
Yeah humans have different intensities of how strong the ego is. And by ego, I mean a false, mind-made sense of self. An idea of who they are in the head. For example take a few achievements and your job, and make a sense of self from that. And proportional to how strong the ego is, the individual will want to partake in social-status dominance games. And this includes bullying, posting on instagram, gossip, try to "become something more" by buying more fancy things etc. Its an illusion. It happens when people dont know themselves. But there are also lots of people who have little to no interest in gossip, so its not as if humanity is screwed. Its a gradient in society. Buddhist munks on the no-ego end, and Kanye West and my aunt on the high-ego-high-gossip-end.
I'm in America. A woman I knew for a few years decided to trash me because I live in a apartment, not a house. For her apartments aren't good enough.That's the mindset of many ( not all) women in America.
Yea so many just want to trash talk but you gotta ignore them.
@@RedPillOptionand what really pissed me off was she was a single mother, getting child support and government assistance. So she gets help financially.
How's it going Nick.
Yah bud nosy people suck! I tend to stick to myself and mind my business. Life is too short to even listen to gossip, you hear it from people now and then and sometimes you have no choice but it's the chronic gossip monsters that I can't stand.
Another thing I can't stand is people that love to hear themselves talk and don't give you 2 words literally. LOL, I was at Krown yesterday getting my vehicle rust proofed here in Ontario, anyways... sitting outside waiting for my car in the the sunshine this guy starts talking and wouldn't stop, I was ready to snap! lol. but just went inside the waiting room.
$hit I hope that's not gossip? lol
The irony😅
Maybe we have to start a anti Gossip community . That would be something . People would have nothing to say😂😅
People would be a lot better off if they focused on their own life. If they did, they would come out a lot better.
💯 Agree!
people gonna talk bad no matter what you do in life you can't please everybody
Very true
People keep gossiping about me when they find out I sleep with a 5 foot Brian Griffin from Family Guy plush as I’ve had a crush on him for many years and I have no friends nor family. Im a compkete loner man.
Red Pill Option, my mind has never been “normal” when it comes to romantic attraction. Not only do I have crushes and intimate desires for the same gender, males instead of females, but I have these feelings toward male cartoon characters I watched on TV as a kid like Brian Griffin from Family Guy or Wile E Coyote.
A few months ago, a former work colleague who I hadn't seen for two years contacted me. She wanted to know how I was doing in life. I just replied that I was doing very well. She then seriously asked again how I was doing and if there are things happening in my life. It's just laughable how people who have nothing to do with you think you have to give them information about your own life. I'm convinced she just wanted something new to talk about with her group of friends.
@@LindaDivine777 I totally agree with that. None of their damn business.
I always hated people criticizing others for living with their parents, why don't people mind their own business? You have people making videos about it, society likes to shame you for just about everything. it's pathetic.
So true!
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Are you in Brazil? Probably you have notícied things are a little worst over here.
Ya way more gossip that's for sure. Envy is at a all time high too.
@@RedPillOptionpoverty is everywhere in Brazil