Hello ladies! I appreciate all of your responses! Here are a few things as you watch the video: ➡️One’s relationship with God is key to being able to discern the things that please the Father and vice versa ➡️In the video, I shared my understanding from the holy scriptures as a Bible believing born again Christian as it relates to our natural hair and my experience of not using artificial in hopes that it inspires other women ➡️You have a choice to continue to use artificial hair but I have to add that we will all give account to God for everything we do whether we believe in God or not (Romans 14:12) ➡️Lastly motive is very important. We must examine why we do what we do and ask: “do those reasons give glory to God? (1 Corinthians 10:31) Again, it boils down to your relationship with God. If you don’t have a relationship with God, it will be very difficult to understand all this. If you have a relationship with God, I encourage you to pray about this and let the Lord lead you into all truth. Thank you for watching the video. -Mrs. Charity Umar❤️
Sis!....please stop!...Christ died for our Sins and to save our souls, please stop trivializing the work of Calvary with these mistakes interpretation of scriptures.....I get your opinion, but.....let's not seek to use scripture to reinforce your personal choices
You are so right, I struggled for years mentally when I use to wear fake hair. It was time consuming & a burden. I use to feel like a different person when I wore extensions (false confidence), then once I'd go back to my real hair I didn't feel secure neither content. When I got closer to God he led me to length retention videos, its not coincidence bc I asked him for longer hair. & For the first time in years I'm seeing that these methods work, my hair is at its longest. He also removed the desire to straighten my hair or wear extensions. It feels great to be at peace & not worry about worldly validation. A lot of women don't want to hear this bc deep down they are conveting & trying to look like someone they are not.
"When I got closer to God he led me to length retention videos, its not coincidence bc I asked him for longer hair. & For the first time in years I'm seeing that these methods work, my hair is at its longest." interesting!
Thanks Sis You're absolutely right, society has decived women. I was once like that not happy and caring for my hair, therefore I went on from weave ons to braids the same day at salons to look pretty. Now, I have been on my natural journey for almost 3 yrs. Whenever I wear my hair out, everyone admires it and was wants to grow theirs. My hubby encouraged me and I'm grateful to God for opening my eyes
I was just having this conversation with my sister. We are both naturals. I just suffered a major set back of breakage. Stuffing my hair under a wig and not caring for it is a major culprit in that set back! I started wearing wigs after my twins were born, two years ago. I had retained so much length and fullness and the fullness is gone due to breakage. I believe God led me to your channel so that my hair can be restored. My husband loves my natural hair and my goal is to restore it back to the glory it was created to be. God bless you sis! Keep making this content. Your life is such an inspiration all those who follow your channel! ❤❤❤❤ love you!
With you 100% women do no need to do all these things. The money they spend buying all these things should be spending buying things to care for their natural hair. Some of these women do not even need all these wigs and hairs , they have beautiful natural hair. It’s like a woman cut off her eyebrows and then redraw it with a pencil😏. So sad, invest in your natural hair! It is worth it
It’s not fair to judge or look down on others sense of style. Some wear wigs because they like the of variety of hairstyle or as a protective style . If you don’t care for wigs , you shouldn’t look down on women who do. Some women like a certain fashion style or look. Why do you make fun of them for shaping their eyebrows ?if you like the natural look, good for you . We all have preferences.
Natural hair care is sooo inexpensive. Im never going back. That money should go to bills and savings. And the extra time to get prayed and meditated up.
WOW! I just read the comments & I must say I’m surprised that so many women are attacking Charity’s message. People who love GOD must love others. I wore a weave for 5 years. I stopped Because my husband encouraged me to wear my natural hair. It’s now striving & so much cheaper than my weave was. I wasn’t convicted to remove it but I removed it anyway. I wear jewelry & I wear makeup & heels. You’ve given me something to pray about Charity. Don’t be dismayed & please don’t stop posting. There’s only one truth & that’s GOD’s truth! The word of GOD does not return void. Isaiah 55:11 ❤️
Thank you so much ma'am.......I really don't have to agree with you for this teachings to be true....I will sincerely say that I have had this kind of conviction........to love and cherish my God given hair..... please ma can you coach me on how to care for my hair please thank you ma...
Thankyou !!! Once upon a time I was literally ashamed of my natural hair.And I know many women who are like I was. They NEVER shown their hair for as long as I have known them. Is this honesty, is this christian?? really!! Ashamed of our God's own works when He said to all He created "And IT WAS GOOD !" Women shy away from what God has done. We make the Bible a liar when it clearly says "Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies." 1 Corinthians 6:19-20.
Teach Sis. Women are getting upset because the enemy will not allow them to understand the things of God and how we are supposed to represent the Kingdom. Remember they were upset with Paul for preaching in Corinth and people stopped worshipping the goddess Artemis. It put alot of silversmiths who prospered from making statues of her out of business. Can you imagine what would happen to the makeup and weave industries if people became obedient and followed the truth? You are stepping on toes and the devil is mad!
I am a Christian and I don't wear jewelry or extensions however, I think we misinterpret what the bible says about braided hair. I soley believe it depends on your reason for wearing it. If you are wearing it because you believe you are not pretty enough, that's wrong. However, a busy mom who has no time to style their hair daily I believe that is a valid reason. If braiding hair is wrong, wearing a false tooth is wrong. Let's move from the basic things and focus on higher things. Braids really cause breakage though. Have a great day.
If you look at our world, we are still at the basic things. I live in America. The church world looks like hip hop artists. It is not supposed to be a difference in us and the world?
The bible said what it says it is clear the bible interprets itself when we wear false hair is like you are saying God you have not done a good job let me help you out. We are fairfully and wonderfully made if the hair is short or long it is very good in God sight It is society cause us not to accept yourself I know if no one was seeing your hair you Would have been comfortable with it. EMBRACE YOUR NATURAL BEAUTY
@@katrinamalone5927 Not everyone is still at the basic things. There are people overindulging in the word daily desiring revelations and focusing on the saving of souls and keeping God's temple clean. When the bible spoke about adorning in relation to women it was not said to an entire generation. Anyway, I am not bashing Charity as those are her beliefs. I too thought that wearing jewelery was wrong and wearing extensions but I no longer hold that view. There is more to God than the external. If you work on the internal, the external has to come in alignment. Sometimes these beliefs hinders people from accepting the Lord. I have seen it way too often and I have seen person left the church because of these man made rules. Anywho...let us seek the Lord. He will reveal all we need to know to get by. God bless you.
@@nickynatro I agree with you..It's all about the heart..The Internal..All in all extension or not as long as you accept Christ as your Saviour you will be saved..
@@ninahsky351 the heart is important, but remember, Jesus said that all the evil in Earth came from man's heart. So if the heart is good, all of exterior will be good, you exterior shows your interior
On the jugement day God will bring this testimony to those who are giving their ideas about taking care of our hair. Let's be natural as God wants. Simple. I praise God I threw away All what was belonging to Satan. Wigs and high hills. May God continue to change me in and out for his glory.
Actually I’m not a deeper life member but I can relate to what she says. Ever since I got born again and started to grow with the Holyspirit he has revealed many things concerning hair to me. 1. Bright Colored hair pink, green yellow etc is from the devil and it is demonic 2. He also told me that I should do more natural hairstyles 3. When I did attachment dreadlocks he was not happy about it and many other things I can’t even say. It’s not easy at all to be totally natural but I try my best sometimes
It's not a matter of being a deeper life , it's all about our believe, deeper or not being a child of God and doing his will is the most important , shallom.
Preach! When I was younger I used to feel like I needed box braids and extensions to look better. Once I realized I felt this way I stopped wearing them. I haven't even straightened my hair since my sophomore year in college. I also left mascara and eyeliner which was the only makeup I clinged to at the time alone. #teamnatural
Yes I understand that people have different opinions but this one I never really understood. I love my natural hair and my hair with artificial hair. The reason I only wear my hair with artificial hair is because one my hair is tangled very easily to because it gives me more self-confidence and three because I think that it adds more color to my personality but this is my opinion I know people have different opinions, but this one I just never seem to catch on or agree with, but thanks for stating your opinion❤ God bless you
You are so right sis. I have been having this desire to stop all the extensions and different wigs lately and it has become more stronger than ever. I decided to wear my hair naturally and deciding to do sister / micro loc. you are so right. I came across the video just in time to give me that encouragement to just start wearing my hair and stop all the different extensions and wigs. God bless you my dear. I appreciate this video alot. Thanks again
So powerful and wonderful! Thank you sis for putting this out there. The Lord told me to stop wearing extensions and He specifically told me to take care of my hair. The scriptures and wisdom you shared is spot on and encouraging. You are so beautiful inside and out! Bringing the Lord in this is so wonderful! I so desire to glorify Him in every aspect of my life and I will even with my hair! Blessings to you!
The first time I came across your video, I felt you were a lil girl. Like you young like in your teens. Then I saw “Mrs” and I am like, is she kidding? Father grant me the grace, wisdom and strength to manage all my activities and hair like Mrs Charity and to put you Lord above every thing. Amen
You are 💯 right. And also attachments make us not nourish our hairs properly. We leave it alone and nourish the attachments instead. We got it twisted. Girl I completely agree with you.
Thank you for this " they look like the real thing but they are not" I think it's lack of knowledge in Gods word and not seeing that we are complete in Christ and so no need for all this attachment. Please preach it dear, I tell young folks around me anytime I get the chance.
Mrs. Charity I came across your video and was quite taken aback from your content. I appreciate a fellow Christian woman sharing God's word. With that being said, I just wanted to take the time to address a scripture you quoted in your video. I do agree with mentioning 1 Corinthians 11: 15; however if you read at the beginning of the text Paul is addressing of being orderly during worship. As you probably know the Corinthians had a great deal of spiritual issues. The area of Corinth was the epicenter of sin, sexual impropriety, and idol worship. As you read through Corinthians 1&2 those folks struggled. One of the issues Paul addressed was determining the difference between men and women. If you closely read Chapter 11 Paul speaks about it being shameful for a man to have long hair and a woman to have short hair. Since a woman's hair is her glory, she should feel the need to cover her head with a veil if she didn't have long hair. This can be inferred by closely reading the text. There is no mention of fake hair. If we were to conclude by what Paul states, a woman with close cut hair or perhaps a shaven head would be considered a problem especially during worship. This is why Paul mentioned the veil hence if you have long hair as a woman, a veil isn't required. However if your hair is too short perhaps bald because of illness than you need to wear a veil. That way folks would be able to differentiate the men from the women in worship. Sometimes the Bible will give a direct command/ statement and sometimes a necessary inference can be concluded based upon the context. As far as women in general ignoring God's glory by using fake hair this logic wouldn't fit under most circumstances. Say for instance if a person loses a limb and later receive a prosthetic. Are they ignoring God's glory? Consider a person who has cataracts or just any deficit with their eyesight. If they were to wear eyeglasses or contacts are they too ignoring God's glory? We as Christians cannot hold standards and boundaries to folks if the Bible doesn't authorize it. God's word is the authority and we must impart his words correctly. If a woman wears a wig, extensions or whatever she isn't guilty of any falsehood. She is doing just as God commanded. Wear the veil so that people can ascertain that she is female. God bless ❤
Just today I was literally just contemplating to get my hair done in box braids. But God I just randomly came across this video, he really spoke to me.
Wow the comment section. I don’t think our sister is trying to make anyone feel guilty and you shouldn’t hear her message as such. This is what’s she’s glean from the Bible and it’s her conviction. She’s doing what she does according to her faith. If you wear hair extensions and don’t see a problem with it or haven’t been convicted. Continue and let’s not attack someone under their OWN video. Lol we don’t want her to stop posting.
@ Yaa Asafo. Beautiful. It's her truth. I love that. People should learn to differentiate between personal truths and convictions and general truths and convictions. As for sister Charity stopping to post videos, Nah she won't.😅😅😅 I'm pretty sure she understands.
I love how are explained the first point, about our hair being our glory. The way you explained it really gave me the conviction i needed. I was deliberating to do braids. Thank you for sharing this. God is using you in a very powerful way and u appreciate that you have obeyed. May God bless you my sister in Christ.
Although I've never worn extensions or hair that isn't my own I can not say it was because of my Christianity. I don't think I ever even thought of it in those terms. For me, it was just too much trouble to try to add hair, and I didn't understand how I could take care of my hair with extensions in it. I knew for certain that I wasn't going to let weeks pass without water and shampoo touching my scalp and hair so that meant that extra hair was not an option. Finally, I felt happy and satisfied with my own hair.
For anybody in doubt, simply ask God from the bottom of your heart not just justify yourself and be willing to obey. Cant we even see what all this artificial stuff is doing to our hair, face, and even skin? Some have grown older than their age simply because of addiction to make-up. No more confidence to go out without any artificial additions. Some are hooked to false eyelashes, nails, etc. The moment you add something else to God's glory you are losing that glory to satan (if you like say God forbid! but that is the fact) That is why it is difficult for us to remain natural cos we have compromised. I got delivered from every form of falsehood about 8years ago and I never looked back since.
Love your video… I’m looking forward to stop spending money on buying extension, I know it’s hard but with God grace I need his help. Your words was powerful n motivated me so much ❤🙏
You are soo correct, I even get self-conscious leaving out the house with no earrings which is not good. Thank you for this refreshing knowledge! God bless,
Thank you so much for this video🙏i can attest to what you are saying. I had artificial hair and when I was praying it was like the Holy Spirit was saying take this off, I even had a dream about it
Even when im natural, people are still confused because they don't believe my hair is real. Because of the kinky hair extensions. It's kind of sad that people have to ask and that if you're doing it well, you have to prove it because ppl don't believe it. Thank you for the tips.
I just love truth! God's truth His Word, HolySpirit convicted me to stop wearing weave I was surely faithful in wearing wigs,, weaves,, and braids and I did my own hair and was really good at it,and loved it lol! but I wanted to obey God and that's what I did, so I gave all that up, there are videos on you tube that show how weave is harvested and its people's real hair(lace wigs)(bundles) and these people are worshipping pagan God's..when women wear bundles your wearing someone else's hair on your head attached to your own hair...that was enough for me ..but just pray ladies God will teach you how to take care of your hair, Seek Him he will reveal the truth to you ,thanks for this video sis and for letting the HolySpirit use you, God Bless and keep speaking God's truth
I’m not going to lie you made me laugh with that “is that her her or is it not” that’s the point I guess lol. Yet I don’t agree with wearing heavy lace wigs 24/7 if someone is wearing hair similar to their own(kinky straight, curly)in the meantime and slightly enhancing it shows their intentions are simple. Not to deceive just to simply make it through in the world where hair is so “politicized” especially for black people. People quite literally are confused by our natural hair and trying to declare it is fake without us even doing anything.
I have to disagree. Wearing extensions is not a sin. It doesn’t make anyone any less Christian or less accepting of themselves to wear a HAIRSTYLE. If someone wants to braid up/ faux loc/ Senegalese twist up/ etc. their hair that’s their choice. God gives us free will and looks at our intentions not our external appearances.
Hey Charity, I just love your videos and I often come back to them when I need a positive uplift. I agree that we are fearfully and wonderfully made. I have to constantly keep my mind from reading and seeing certain things, even reading RUclips comments (I read today where someone’s mom bought her a gift card for Botox when she was 25…25!… I guess I just live in another world.. Botox was the last thing I was thinking about in my 20’s!) in my late 30’s now… What are your thoughts on foundation and blush for a woman as she ages?
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Today I have been at dentist as since I was young I had issues with teeth. Yes God gave me beautiful teeth however I am taking care of them as per the dental I brush twice, floss do all but I keep loosing them today I had to remove 2 and and next week to. I have no teeth to chew and the dentist suggested dentures or implant if I have money. Is this wrong? Should I live my mount with no teeth and only eat porridge? I believe the reason behind us doing something is what matters. Some ladies they were weave because they have lesser time to take care of such on daily bases however on daily bases the time they have is to carry the message of the Gospel and win others to Christ, love and pray for others, for the nations, vist the sick, help the poor, do the work of the ministry. While they have those weave on they are glorifying God by preaching this Gospel. They said Lord thank you by your Grace We are saved and by the Power of the Holy Spirit let you will and your purpose be done in my life. Let me be the labor to harvest as the harvest is ripe. They stood for Christ and his works. All their works are not glorifying God because of the external appearance that is not so pushed by immoral heart and though, but still look beautiful and dignified while they do the work of God guided by the Holy spirit and by the grace of God. We learn every day and the way to proper understand and learn is that we share our though and the Holy spirit guides us through the word of God To truly know the truth God want us to know and live by. God is the spirit. We are the children of Grace not the law. Much loveeeeeee.
Thanks so much Charity!!!it's the bitter truth indeed.i really pray that one day I get rid of depending on artificial hair I have had the conviction for a long time...unrelated though love your Facial skin ❤️ 😊 😀 any tips?
Wow I came across this and so interesting I recently listened to a testimony a good friend of mines send me how this youth was delivered from demonic possession . Her mother was a witch . But this youth from Dominican Republic talked about the change the Holy Spirit did in her life . Today she is a great evangelist & the Lord uses her powerfully traveling around the nations . But God had to process her for more than 4 years before He began to use her … she says the first time she heard the voice of Gods spirit was when she was going to fix her wig at the beauty salon and change her hair color because she didn’t like white hair . She said she heard when God said to her I want you to take what was not given by me off . She also had fake nails . The Lord told her how important was for her to be the way God created her .. the natural way … and then the Lord worked on her clothing that was not appropriate . What is interesting was that she heard the voice of God and she obeyed .. and years later wow she had long beautiful hair all the way to her waist … she said her hair never grew .. but because she believed God at His promised and obeyed her hair grew long and beautiful. And she is a beautiful young girl and very anointed .. I heard people in the church always talk about the importance of dressing modest .. and also about being natural the way you were created .. very interesting .. God bless you .. and continue to give God the glory and to trust Him .. and honor Him first ..
This is legalistic. I have struggled with hair loss since I was a little girl and my only option at this current time is to where wigs. Ultimately that is not my end goal. But this overlooks the personal reasons for people to wear weaves. Things God created are good on their own but we live in a broken world where everything currently is not always in that good state. It’s similar to arguing that we should not season food, we should just eat it in its natural state because it is already good. To your second point, not every women is lazy while where wigs. Personally I moisturize my hair daily, and get my hair washed and trimmed monthly at the shop. I am just now realizing that my hair loss is a result of vitamin d deficiency, and it’s been a process getting my levels to stay at a certain point. This perspective is more or less devoid of grace, understanding and is as a result overly simplistic in regards to the complex reasons some women where weave
Why would you feel the need to figure out whether it her hair? Most people openly declare that their hair is weave. So a woman with alopecia or cancer is a liar, If they don’t want to go out shorn which the Bible says is shameful
Amen sis I do believe the hair is also used for idol worship and the hair oftentimes is chemically treated which can create scalp issues because it does not belong on our head I myself used to wear the braids weave extension but over a period of time instead of protected my hair it began to thin it out God bless you my sister for this teaching I have learnt to embrace what God gave me that is growing out of my scalp.
Good message. The main reason is satisfaction and that translates to loads of other things/areas in our l Iives. Too much material things hampering our journey.
So glad I am delivered from the fake hair. Our oppressors have put out that our natural beauty is unprofessional and that is what have caused black women to have low self esteem, when we are in the work place we have been told "Oh you have to do something with your hair, its too nappy, prompting us to flat iron, press and perm our hair or wear wigs. Some of this started when the Black Panthers in the 70s and black people who wore afros, they were being targeted to be killed because people with afros were seen as rebellious and problematic and that is what caused women to wear the wigs to cover her hair to keep from being killed, so our history of this fake hair was basically forced on us. All of this happening when we are in the image of the Heavenly Father and his Son. My hair is locked and is healthier than its ever been. All Praise to the Most High 🙌🏾 Many of our women are waking up now and being delivered because this wicked nation is under the Fathers judgment for their wickedness toward his people. Thanks for your message sister.
God bless you ma, you don't know how much you've done to me this morning through this video and I'm very sure many others too, please keep the good work, do not stop the Lord bless you
First thank you for this video I seen it just in time. I feel it was meant for me. I don’t wear wigs, weaves or braids or any kind of artificial hair. I do relax my hair. Do you feel from a religious standpoint that our Father is ok with relaxers? I would really love to hear your say on this. I’m looking forward to hearing from you. Thank you 😊
What she says is true!! But most people don't accept it because the world always shows us how to do things and we forget about what God want from us!! If you feel like you don't agree with her, instead of attacking her saying that you do things your own way, you are wrong, go and seek God and Pray tirelessly so that God can show you how you do things in a way that He approves and He will even show you the way you do your hair, and trust me, God will show you the right way He will like you to do your hair in a way that gives Him glory, and once you obey Him and do that! That's when you will feel being the real you, and start to have confidence in yourself and to start embrace the real beauty that God wants you to have. And it's your interest to know that doing what God wants from you it's the best choice because God will always show you to do things that are in your own interests! Because all that God wants from you is peace, love, happiness, satisfaction, wisdom, etc, and that's what everyone seek in this journey, so look for them at the right place.
The question I ask above what you've stated is how do we encourage young girls to love themselves when we don't show our natural self (most young kids may have weaves but they want to start using make up). Hear me out for a second, if I a mother/aunt wearing a weave because I am busy, or whatever reason I come up with, it could be I wear make-up to look professional, weaves are easy to maintain etc. and everything else that goes along with being a working woman, how am I showing the young girls, daughters, nieces, neighbours children, that you are beautiful the way you are. You don't have to have the straight hair or perfect face, straight nose etc. that your hair may not be straight but it is beautiful if I can't show it in my life. I love the natural hair movement because it has given many woman the strength to realise they don't need to straighten their hair to be beautiful, or professional, natural hair is good. If the young chldren are seeing the adults only going for weaves, make-ups etc. they will also want to follow suite, and if they don't like that naturally they hate themselves and can't wait to be grown so that they can buy these things for themselves. I believe, we have been convinced so much but not realising the damage to the self exteem of the young girls who are already living with a low self-esteem.
Amen sister!❤ Youre precious and beautiful. Also A LOT if not all of artificial hair is from the Marine Kingdom as well as most cosmetics!!! If using human hair be careful and prayful about it as most comes from East Indian and Asian population who dedicate and bless to many false gods of the false religions over there and so when you so it in your head it carries demonic attachments and curses.
The greatest gift is having a strong relationship with your Maker. As He transforms you, your life becomes a living testimony of His capabilities. Don't concern yourself with things yiu can't control. Just fast & Pray & God will avail Himself to them the same way He has done for you.
Amen! God bless you and I appreciate your boldness. We are God’s creation and we are fearfully and wonderfully made. So women know need to know that they are beautiful whether their is long or short because God doesn’t make mistake and like you said after He created nan, He thought it was really good. Hod bless you sis😊
Hello from South Africa, for long time l ignored my feelings "not satisfied with extentions" l was never all the time I do them myself which I thank God for l can but l used to remove them in 2weeks not more than that in the name of "l miss my hair" it daunt me 2nd of June 2023 after l did box braids for a week l removed them feeling unsatisfied and after Oooh dear sis l felt good very good and l will keep it like that going forward proud of my hair and l am enough as God created me 🎉❤. Thank you for these vedios love you.
Yeah unless cancer strikes, best to wear what GOD gave us. Even short tapered styles are nice if done well. Other long options to with OUR own hair. Good video.
I pray the Lord will restore your hair by His mercy. I encourage you to please refrain from the artificial hair and begin to nurture your natural hair.
What about headcovering? Some women are led to wear a headscarf 24/7 but that could cause their hair to be in a different states, since it is all covered up. What’s your take on that?
I have been natural since 2009 and I either wear a wig or wrap my hair. After I was burned in 2011 the crown of my hair has not grown back I have shoulder length in the back. So tell me what I’m suppose do then. I give God all the glory I’m still here 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏾.
I feel you. All our personal situations are different. Even about this situation you can pray and ask God what's best. I am happy that your life was speared though. You have a testimony.
Girl, you made good points from the second one but the first point I beg to defer. There is nothing in these world that can overshadow the glory of God in one's life, Absolutely Nothing... John 1:5 - The light shines in darkness and darkness cannot comprehend it. It's quite insultive to say something made by man can overshadow the light of God in one's life. The glory of God is the Light of God...It is a spiritual covering, it is not physical...So Nothing physical can out do the spiritual. As a Christian, you should know we are first spirits before physical and we worship God in Spirit and in Truth. God, Himself is Spirit. Also, intent is what matters....Prob 16:2, Prov. 21:2, James 4:3... Our intent/motives is what matters. Even if I were to agree with you on this table, I'll take extensions out because it doesn't totally cover the hair and the Bible does refer to women braiding their hair. However with the advent of all sorts of wigs which totally shields the entire head/hair/nature of a woman giving them a totally different look you can barely recognise them at times, then perhaps one can discourage that if the motives was wrong which we know most do these days.... They want to look like what they are not and give others false impression which burdens on deception and like you said sometimes people are shocked when they find out those aren't their real hair. However, extensions don't give such mirage. I can go on but I'll stop here. Also,.I don't expect you to agree with this ok. Just giving another perspective. I do understand your church gave you that doctrine. However you should search God's heart for you and also know God has different expectations for everyone sometimes e.g the story of Samson, he was not to cut his hair... However, men are allowed to cut their hair in the Bible. So my point sometimes an instruction giving to one is not for all.
I have never used make up. Never had the desire. I haven't even pierced my ears. Never will coz I don't have the desire. I've only won weave twice in my whole entire life. Never won a wig in my life. I used to have braids but I stopped using artificial hair. I now use Brazilian wool or yarn to style my hair. But nowadays, I've just been wanting to be very natural, no extensions, nothing but my natural hair. I started growing it out last year and this year I pray it reaches my shoulder. 🙏🏾 But I'll now be doing just twists and use head wraps. Also, African threading. I noticed that grows hair.
After taking out my twists from listening to this video, i realized that my hair is my glory. I agree that the "human" hair has been sacrificed to false gods and is cursed - i dont wear it. Twisting my hair is ok, if i am not made to feel convicted in my spirit. I know my struggles with being a single working parent and a homemaker. If i have to weave it to achieve it, that's my business. Ancient African and ancient Jews braided their hair with extentions all the time, and they had relatuves to assist with maintaining their hair care. I think people should really mind their own business and stop meddling in others, especially if they dont know our struggles. If you still covered byna husband, you have peace. If not, protect your hair with caution and keep your peace. The Bible also says that a women is supposed to have "well set" hair and she is supposed to adorn her temple and smell good. Its nothing wrong with wearing jewelry, etc. We just supposed to be humble, meek & quiet, and not lifted up in pride and vanity. YAH made us beautiful, and it is Ok to protect our crowns. Their is NO condemnation to those that are in Christ Jesus and who can bring anything to the charge of God's elect. He will justify the daughters of Zion, because we are in HIS-TORY. Many of the women making these videos appear to be humble but really are lifted up in pride and vanity, false in sheep clothing. They have sold-out and are only making these videos for more money. All godly men want their women to be adorned like Solomon's temple and Queen Esther. Being pretty and a lady is not vanity. Understanding is a beautiful thing! Yah is a understanding God. When we stand before Him with the royal crown, im sure we will have the hair He desires, nice robes, and jewelry! He owns it ALL! GET understanding and let no man take your crown or your joy! Look good, feel good, be good. ONLY God is good!;🎉❤
I do not agree with you saying Christians should not wear hair extensions. . What about people who lost their hair through cancer and alopecia. I think being a good kind loving and forgiving person is what we should focus on . Also spreading the word of God. . You having extensions doesn't stop hod loving you.
I am honestly wondering what women with textured hair used to do in yhe days of Abraham or Noah. Thing is that society has normalized braids wigs etc. I am gonna do a research on it.
What glory? My hair looks like a dandelion or a bush. How am I supposed to walk around looking crazy? I don't have hair of the person represented in Song of Solomon wavy and down my back. I don't understand if God loved me, why did he give me nappy hair? There is no amount of 'loving myself' that will fix this.
My hair!! all the way... No way will i give much attention to onlookers as opposed to what God wants of me. I am Not going back to artificial hair. What God has done to create me the way i am is enough. Am not going back. I cannot face judgement in artificial hair. Doing all to the Glory of God. Mine is not as long as yours but i choose to walk this earth in it. It's what God wants and cannot be altered by me. Let's do all for the glory of God
Charity I like some of your videos but this one I have to respond. You have long beautiful natural hair . If a person like me who suffers from thyroid disorders and have problems with hair falling and breakage, it means that God is going to condemn me because I use a wing of extension. What about the sisters that are bald or losing their hair due to alopecia or cancer. Should they remain bald and has hole in their hair because God going to condemn them.Charity I think you should put your self in other people shoes before you make a video about why people should not use extension or wings. Charity; I love you as a Christian person but I disagreed with you.
First of, I am sorry about your thyroid issues and it’s impact on your hair. Also, it’s okay to disagree with me. As a previous oncology nurse, I know that hair grows back after receiving chemotherapy. Also, in many cases people with alopecia will experience hair growth with the right treatment. Society has made artificial hair the only option for hair loss; but it shouldn’t be. There are hats and head wraps that are on sale for women suffering from various hair loss issues as they seek treatment without opting for artificial hair. Generally speaking as a Christian woman having hair loss issues, have you prayed about it and waited for God’s leading, guidance and direction instead of opting for what is socially acceptable? I share my content to inspire. While I know that not everyone will agree, I have the divine obligation to fulfill the demand and I trust the Lord that lives are being impacted for the Kingdom’s sake. I will also add that despite all that I share, viewers have the right and choice to do as they please with no judgment from my end. I pray that the Lord will heal your thyroid and cause your hair to flourish. Thank you for watching my videos, Monica.
Yes wear head wraps and hats to the pool and the gym and to church and school and at your corporate job. Everywhere you go wear a stylish hat even though she just finished talking about not covering up God's glory #makeitmakesense 🤔🤷🏾♀️
This woman is going through similar lifestyle like you take care your hair in the mean time and grow it under the wigs. She won’t be able to speak for your life.
Sister, Slavery did affected our foreparents mentality emotionally physically and it's passed down to us look at our Community and YAHUAH says that when HE COMES BACK HE WILL REMOVED ALL THAT WE HAVE BEING THROUGH AND STIL GOING THROUGH TO THIS DAY our ONLY DEFENSE IS KEEPS HOLDING ON TO HIM.
Hello ladies!
I appreciate all of your responses! Here are a few things as you watch the video:
➡️One’s relationship with God is key to being able to discern the things that please the Father and vice versa
➡️In the video, I shared my understanding from the holy scriptures as a Bible believing born again Christian as it relates to our natural hair and my experience of not using artificial in hopes that it inspires other women
➡️You have a choice to continue to use artificial hair but I have to add that we will all give account to God for everything we do whether we believe in God or not (Romans 14:12)
➡️Lastly motive is very important. We must examine why we do what we do and ask: “do those reasons give glory to God? (1 Corinthians 10:31) Again, it boils down to your relationship with God. If you don’t have a relationship with God, it will be very difficult to understand all this. If you have a relationship with God, I encourage you to pray about this and let the Lord lead you into all truth.
Thank you for watching the video.
-Mrs. Charity Umar❤️
Good day sis how can I make my hair grow?
Sis!....please stop!...Christ died for our Sins and to save our souls, please stop trivializing the work of Calvary with these mistakes interpretation of scriptures.....I get your opinion, but.....let's not seek to use scripture to reinforce your personal choices
You are so right, I struggled for years mentally when I use to wear fake hair. It was time consuming & a burden. I use to feel like a different person when I wore extensions (false confidence), then once I'd go back to my real hair I didn't feel secure neither content. When I got closer to God he led me to length retention videos, its not coincidence bc I asked him for longer hair. & For the first time in years I'm seeing that these methods work, my hair is at its longest. He also removed the desire to straighten my hair or wear extensions. It feels great to be at peace & not worry about worldly validation. A lot of women don't want to hear this bc deep down they are conveting & trying to look like someone they are not.
Well said my dear 🤗
"When I got closer to God he led me to length retention videos, its not coincidence bc I asked him for longer hair. & For the first time in years I'm seeing that these methods work, my hair is at its longest." interesting!
Thanks Sis
You're absolutely right, society has decived women.
I was once like that not happy and caring for my hair, therefore I went on from weave ons to braids the same day at salons to look pretty.
Now, I have been on my natural journey for almost 3 yrs. Whenever I wear my hair out, everyone admires it and was wants to grow theirs.
My hubby encouraged me and I'm grateful to God for opening my eyes
I was just having this conversation with my sister. We are both naturals. I just suffered a major set back of breakage. Stuffing my hair under a wig and not caring for it is a major culprit in that set back! I started wearing wigs after my twins were born, two years ago. I had retained so much length and fullness and the fullness is gone due to breakage. I believe God led me to your channel so that my hair can be restored. My husband loves my natural hair and my goal is to restore it back to the glory it was created to be. God bless you sis! Keep making this content. Your life is such an inspiration all those who follow your channel! ❤❤❤❤ love you!
With you 100% women do no need to do all these things. The money they spend buying all these things should be spending buying things to care for their natural hair. Some of these women do not even need all these wigs and hairs , they have beautiful natural hair. It’s like a woman cut off her eyebrows and then redraw it with a pencil😏. So sad, invest in your natural hair! It is worth it
It’s not fair to judge or look down on others sense of style. Some wear wigs because they like the of variety of hairstyle or as a protective style . If you don’t care for wigs , you shouldn’t look down on women who do. Some women like a certain fashion style or look. Why do you make fun of them for shaping their eyebrows ?if you like the natural look, good for you . We all have preferences.
@@solarlola5953 Its not about what you want its about what God wants.
Some people do not have tall hair..the bible says that a womans tall hair is her covering...so what if her hair isnt tall what then..
Whatever amount of hair God puts on your head is the right amount❤
Natural hair care is sooo inexpensive. Im never going back. That money should go to bills and savings. And the extra time to get prayed and meditated up.
WOW! I just read the comments & I must say I’m surprised that so many women are attacking Charity’s message. People who love GOD must love others. I wore a weave for 5 years. I stopped Because my husband encouraged me to wear my natural hair. It’s now striving & so much cheaper than my weave was. I wasn’t convicted to remove it but I removed it anyway. I wear jewelry & I wear makeup & heels. You’ve given me something to pray about Charity. Don’t be dismayed & please don’t stop posting. There’s only one truth & that’s GOD’s truth! The word of GOD does not return void. Isaiah 55:11 ❤️
Thank you so much ma'am.......I really don't have to agree with you for this teachings to be true....I will sincerely say that I have had this kind of conviction........to love and cherish my God given hair..... please ma can you coach me on how to care for my hair please thank you ma...
"I stopped Because my husband encouraged me to wear my natural hair." beautiful!
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Thankyou !!!
Once upon a time I was literally ashamed of my natural hair.And I know many women who are like I was. They NEVER shown their hair for as long as I have known them. Is this honesty, is this christian?? really!!
Ashamed of our God's own works when He said to all He created "And IT WAS GOOD !"
Women shy away from what God has done. We make the Bible a liar when it clearly says
"Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies."
1 Corinthians 6:19-20.
Teach Sis. Women are getting upset because the enemy will not allow them to understand the things of God and how we are supposed to represent the Kingdom. Remember they were upset with Paul for preaching in Corinth and people stopped worshipping the goddess Artemis. It put alot of silversmiths who prospered from making statues of her out of business. Can you imagine what would happen to the makeup and weave industries if people became obedient and followed the truth? You are stepping on toes and the devil is mad!
No because people are too invested in what women do.
I am a Christian and I don't wear jewelry or extensions however, I think we misinterpret what the bible says about braided hair. I soley believe it depends on your reason for wearing it. If you are wearing it because you believe you are not pretty enough, that's wrong. However, a busy mom who has no time to style their hair daily I believe that is a valid reason.
If braiding hair is wrong, wearing a false tooth is wrong.
Let's move from the basic things and focus on higher things. Braids really cause breakage though. Have a great day.
If you look at our world, we are still at the basic things. I live in America. The church world looks like hip hop artists. It is not supposed to be a difference in us and the world?
The bible said what it says it is clear the bible interprets itself when we wear false hair is like you are saying God you have not done a good job let me help you out.
We are fairfully and wonderfully made if the hair is short or long it is very good in God sight
It is society cause us not to accept yourself I know if no one was seeing your hair you Would have been comfortable with it.
EMBRACE YOUR NATURAL BEAUTY
@@katrinamalone5927 Not everyone is still at the basic things. There are people overindulging in the word daily desiring revelations and focusing on the saving of souls and keeping God's temple clean. When the bible spoke about adorning in relation to women it was not said to an entire generation. Anyway, I am not bashing Charity as those are her beliefs. I too thought that wearing jewelery was wrong and wearing extensions but I no longer hold that view. There is more to God than the external. If you work on the internal, the external has to come in alignment. Sometimes these beliefs hinders people from accepting the Lord. I have seen it way too often and I have seen person left the church because of these man made rules. Anywho...let us seek the Lord. He will reveal all we need to know to get by. God bless you.
@@nickynatro I agree with you..It's all about the heart..The Internal..All in all extension or not as long as you accept Christ as your Saviour you will be saved..
@@ninahsky351 the heart is important, but remember, Jesus said that all the evil in Earth came from man's heart. So if the heart is good, all of exterior will be good, you exterior shows your interior
I love the tone of your message. It's love and humility filled.
When you are giving the illusion of what is not is also called DECEPTION'
On the jugement day God will bring this testimony to those who are giving their ideas about taking care of our hair. Let's be natural as God wants. Simple. I praise God I threw away All what was belonging to Satan. Wigs and high hills. May God continue to change me in and out for his glory.
I agree but there is nothing wrong with high heels
Actually I’m not a deeper life member but I can relate to what she says. Ever since I got born again and started to grow with the Holyspirit he has revealed many things concerning hair to me. 1. Bright Colored hair pink, green yellow etc is from the devil and it is demonic 2. He also told me that I should do more natural hairstyles 3. When I did attachment dreadlocks he was not happy about it and many other things I can’t even say. It’s not easy at all to be totally natural but I try my best sometimes
It's not a matter of being a deeper life , it's all about our believe, deeper or not being a child of God and doing his will is the most important , shallom.
Preach! When I was younger I used to feel like I needed box braids and extensions to look better. Once I realized I felt this way I stopped wearing them. I haven't even straightened my hair since my sophomore year in college. I also left mascara and eyeliner which was the only makeup I clinged to at the time alone. #teamnatural
Your video literally put tears in my eyes. Thanks so much for your motivation and encouragement may God bless you abundantly for sharing his truth.
Your hair is BEAUTIFUL, Sis! Praise and Honor to the Most High! Thank you!
Yes I understand that people have different opinions but this one I never really understood. I love my natural hair and my hair with artificial hair. The reason I only wear my hair with artificial hair is because one my hair is tangled very easily to because it gives me more self-confidence and three because I think that it adds more color to my personality but this is my opinion I know people have different opinions, but this one I just never seem to catch on or agree with, but thanks for stating your opinion❤ God bless you
You are so right sis. I have been having this desire to stop all the extensions and different wigs lately and it has become more stronger than ever. I decided to wear my hair naturally and deciding to do sister / micro loc. you are so right. I came across the video just in time to give me that encouragement to just start wearing my hair and stop all the different extensions and wigs.
God bless you my dear. I appreciate this video alot. Thanks again
So powerful and wonderful! Thank you sis for putting this out there. The Lord told me to stop wearing extensions and He specifically told me to take care of my hair. The scriptures and wisdom you shared is spot on and encouraging. You are so beautiful inside and out! Bringing the Lord in this is so wonderful! I so desire to glorify Him in every aspect of my life and I will even with my hair! Blessings to you!
Well expressed.. you hv echoed my heart to God all glory and honor belongs to Him.
Hello miss Charity, you ve given me hope. I followed your path and now my hair is blossom. I couldn't believe my eyes. Thank you. I love you ❤
The first time I came across your video, I felt you were a lil girl. Like you young like in your teens. Then I saw “Mrs” and I am like, is she kidding? Father grant me the grace, wisdom and strength to manage all my activities and hair like Mrs Charity and to put you Lord above every thing. Amen
You are 💯 right. And also attachments make us not nourish our hairs properly. We leave it alone and nourish the attachments instead. We got it twisted. Girl I completely agree with you.
You are preaching my sister. God spoke to me through this message. Father you are so good!!!
Praise God!
Thank you for this " they look like the real thing but they are not" I think it's lack of knowledge in Gods word and not seeing that we are complete in Christ and so no need for all this attachment. Please preach it dear, I tell young folks around me anytime I get the chance.
Mrs. Charity I came across your video and was quite taken aback from your content. I appreciate a fellow Christian woman sharing God's word. With that being said, I just wanted to take the time to address a scripture you quoted in your video.
I do agree with mentioning 1 Corinthians 11: 15; however if you read at the beginning of the text Paul is addressing of being orderly during worship. As you probably know the Corinthians had a great deal of spiritual issues. The area of Corinth was the epicenter of sin, sexual impropriety, and idol worship. As you read through Corinthians 1&2 those folks struggled. One of the issues Paul addressed was determining the difference between men and women. If you closely read Chapter 11 Paul speaks about it being shameful for a man to have long hair and a woman to have short hair. Since a woman's hair is her glory, she should feel the need to cover her head with a veil if she didn't have long hair. This can be inferred by closely reading the text. There is no mention of fake hair. If we were to conclude by what Paul states, a woman with close cut hair or perhaps a shaven head would be considered a problem especially during worship. This is why Paul mentioned the veil hence if you have long hair as a woman, a veil isn't required. However if your hair is too short perhaps bald because of illness than you need to wear a veil. That way folks would be able to differentiate the men from the women in worship. Sometimes the Bible will give a direct command/ statement and sometimes a necessary inference can be concluded based upon the context. As far as women in general ignoring God's glory by using fake hair this logic wouldn't fit under most circumstances. Say for instance if a person loses a limb and later receive a prosthetic. Are they ignoring God's glory? Consider a person who has cataracts or just any deficit with their eyesight. If they were to wear eyeglasses or contacts are they too ignoring God's glory? We as Christians cannot hold standards and boundaries to folks if the Bible doesn't authorize it. God's word is the authority and we must impart his words correctly. If a woman wears a wig, extensions or whatever she isn't guilty of any falsehood. She is doing just as God commanded. Wear the veil so that people can ascertain that she is female. God bless ❤
Exactly!!!! Great post
Just today I was literally just contemplating to get my hair done in box braids. But God I just randomly came across this video, he really spoke to me.
Praise God! Thank you for watching 🙏.
@@MrsCharityUmar Hi please tell does brazillian wool and african theading count has fake hair ?
Wow the comment section. I don’t think our sister is trying to make anyone feel guilty and you shouldn’t hear her message as such. This is what’s she’s glean from the Bible and it’s her conviction. She’s doing what she does according to her faith.
If you wear hair extensions and don’t see a problem with it or haven’t been convicted. Continue and let’s not attack someone under their OWN video. Lol we don’t want her to stop posting.
Exactly it’s her personal truth we all can respect that and share beliefs in love.
@ Yaa Asafo. Beautiful. It's her truth. I love that. People should learn to differentiate between personal truths and convictions and general truths and convictions.
As for sister Charity stopping to post videos, Nah she won't.😅😅😅
I'm pretty sure she understands.
You are all so nice, I love you peeps!
May the good lord continue to protect you and your family, Amen.
I love how are explained the first point, about our hair being our glory. The way you explained it really gave me the conviction i needed. I was deliberating to do braids. Thank you for sharing this. God is using you in a very powerful way and u appreciate that you have obeyed. May God bless you my sister in Christ.
This teaching has blessed me too God bless you Woman of God
Although I've never worn extensions or hair that isn't my own I can not say it was because of my Christianity. I don't think I ever even thought of it in those terms. For me, it was just too much trouble to try to add hair, and I didn't understand how I could take care of my hair with extensions in it. I knew for certain that I wasn't going to let weeks pass without water and shampoo touching my scalp and hair so that meant that extra hair was not an option. Finally, I felt happy and satisfied with my own hair.
Ohhh myyy thank you so much for this video!
The sense of satisfaction with the hair God has given us.❤️❤️❤️
For anybody in doubt, simply ask God from the bottom of your heart not just justify yourself and be willing to obey. Cant we even see what all this artificial stuff is doing to our hair, face, and even skin? Some have grown older than their age simply because of addiction to make-up. No more confidence to go out without any artificial additions. Some are hooked to false eyelashes, nails, etc. The moment you add something else to God's glory you are losing that glory to satan (if you like say God forbid! but that is the fact) That is why it is difficult for us to remain natural cos we have compromised. I got delivered from every form of falsehood about 8years ago and I never looked back since.
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Love your video… I’m looking forward to stop spending money on buying extension, I know it’s hard but with God grace I need his help. Your words was powerful n motivated me so much ❤🙏
I just found your channel and love you so much... thank you for reminding me/us of our glory. No more for me.
You are soo correct, I even get self-conscious leaving out the house with no earrings which is not good. Thank you for this refreshing knowledge! God bless,
Thank you so much for this video🙏i can attest to what you are saying. I had artificial hair and when I was praying it was like the Holy Spirit was saying take this off, I even had a dream about it
This video has blessed me! Thank you! God bless you! 💗
Even when im natural, people are still confused because they don't believe my hair is real. Because of the kinky hair extensions. It's kind of sad that people have to ask and that if you're doing it well, you have to prove it because ppl don't believe it. Thank you for the tips.
It's because natural hair breaks off so much that length retention can be hard.
@@thewordsmith5440There’s so many that have found a way to retain yet people are still nosy
I just love truth! God's truth His Word, HolySpirit convicted me to stop wearing weave I was surely faithful in wearing wigs,, weaves,, and braids and I did my own hair and was really good at it,and loved it lol! but I wanted to obey God and that's what I did, so I gave all that up, there are videos on you tube that show how weave is harvested and its people's real hair(lace wigs)(bundles) and these people are worshipping pagan God's..when women wear bundles your wearing someone else's hair on your head attached to your own hair...that was enough for me ..but just pray ladies God will teach you how to take care of your hair, Seek Him he will reveal the truth to you ,thanks for this video sis and for letting the HolySpirit use you, God Bless and keep speaking God's truth
I’m not going to lie you made me laugh with that “is that her her or is it not” that’s the point I guess lol. Yet I don’t agree with wearing heavy lace wigs 24/7 if someone is wearing hair similar to their own(kinky straight, curly)in the meantime and slightly enhancing it shows their intentions are simple. Not to deceive just to simply make it through in the world where hair is so “politicized” especially for black people. People quite literally are confused by our natural hair and trying to declare it is fake without us even doing anything.
I have to disagree. Wearing extensions is not a sin. It doesn’t make anyone any less Christian or less accepting of themselves to wear a HAIRSTYLE. If someone wants to braid up/ faux loc/ Senegalese twist up/ etc. their hair that’s their choice. God gives us free will and looks at our intentions not our external appearances.
Yes I agree
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Hey Charity, I just love your videos and I often come back to them when I need a positive uplift. I agree that we are fearfully and wonderfully made. I have to constantly keep my mind from reading and seeing certain things, even reading RUclips comments (I read today where someone’s mom bought her a gift card for Botox when she was 25…25!… I guess I just live in another world.. Botox was the last thing I was thinking about in my 20’s!) in my late 30’s now…
What are your thoughts on foundation and blush for a woman as she ages?
I really need to talk to you in person 😂 so that you can show me everything I need to know about my hair
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Today I have been at dentist as since I was young I had issues with teeth. Yes God gave me beautiful teeth however I am taking care of them as per the dental I brush twice, floss do all but I keep loosing them today I had to remove 2 and and next week to. I have no teeth to chew and the dentist suggested dentures or implant if I have money. Is this wrong? Should I live my mount with no teeth and only eat porridge? I believe the reason behind us doing something is what matters. Some ladies they were weave because they have lesser time to take care of such on daily bases however on daily bases the time they have is to carry the message of the Gospel and win others to Christ, love and pray for others, for the nations, vist the sick, help the poor, do the work of the ministry. While they have those weave on they are glorifying God by preaching this Gospel. They said Lord thank you by your Grace We are saved and by the Power of the Holy Spirit let you will and your purpose be done in my life. Let me be the labor to harvest as the harvest is ripe. They stood for Christ and his works. All their works are not glorifying God because of the external appearance that is not so pushed by immoral heart and though, but still look beautiful and dignified while they do the work of God guided by the Holy spirit and by the grace of God. We learn every day and the way to proper understand and learn is that we share our though and the Holy spirit guides us through the word of God To truly know the truth God want us to know and live by. God is the spirit. We are the children of Grace not the law. Much loveeeeeee.
Thanks so much Charity!!!it's the bitter truth indeed.i really pray that one day I get rid of depending on artificial hair I have had the conviction for a long time...unrelated though love your Facial skin ❤️ 😊 😀 any tips?
You are so right sis.. they may not admit it but you are spot on!!❤❤
Wow I came across this and so interesting I recently listened to a testimony a good friend of mines send me how this youth was delivered from demonic possession . Her mother was a witch . But this youth from
Dominican Republic talked about the change the Holy Spirit did in her life . Today she is a great evangelist & the Lord uses her powerfully traveling around the nations . But God had to process her for more than 4 years before He began to use her … she says the first time she heard the voice of Gods spirit was when she was going to fix her wig at the beauty salon and change her hair color because she didn’t like white hair .
She said she heard when God said to her I want you to take what was not given by me off . She also had fake nails . The Lord told her how important was for her to be the way God created her .. the natural way … and then the Lord worked on her clothing that was not appropriate . What is interesting was that she heard the voice of God and she obeyed .. and years later wow she had long beautiful hair all the way to her waist … she said her hair never grew .. but because she believed God at His promised and obeyed her hair grew long and beautiful.
And she is a beautiful young girl and very anointed ..
I heard people in the church always talk about the importance of dressing modest .. and also about being natural the way you were created .. very interesting ..
God bless you .. and continue to give God the glory and to trust Him .. and honor Him first ..
This is legalistic. I have struggled with hair loss since I was a little girl and my only option at this current time is to where wigs. Ultimately that is not my end goal. But this overlooks the personal reasons for people to wear weaves.
Things God created are good on their own but we live in a broken world where everything currently is not always in that good state. It’s similar to arguing that we should not season food, we should just eat it in its natural state because it is already good.
To your second point, not every women is lazy while where wigs. Personally I moisturize my hair daily, and get my hair washed and trimmed monthly at the shop.
I am just now realizing that my hair loss is a result of vitamin d deficiency, and it’s been a process getting my levels to stay at a certain point.
This perspective is more or less devoid of grace, understanding and is as a result overly simplistic in regards to the complex reasons some women where weave
Why would you feel the need to figure out whether it her hair? Most people openly declare that their hair is weave.
So a woman with alopecia or cancer is a liar, If they don’t want to go out shorn which the Bible says is shameful
Amen sis I do believe the hair is also used for idol worship and the hair oftentimes is chemically treated which can create scalp issues because it does not belong on our head I myself used to wear the braids weave extension but over a period of time instead of protected my hair it began to thin it out God bless you my sister for this teaching I have learnt to embrace what God gave me that is growing out of my scalp.
Everything you said ♥️ God bless you
Great video sis, Thank You!
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Amen queen 👑 you speak a lot of true .I wore wigs for years thank God I love 💕 my own natural hair my hair is healthy and strong thank you
God bless you my sister for the massage. Keep it up, God bless you.
Good message. The main reason is satisfaction and that translates to loads of other things/areas in our l Iives. Too much material things hampering our journey.
So glad I am delivered from the fake hair. Our oppressors have put out that our natural beauty is unprofessional and that is what have caused black women to have low self esteem, when we are in the work place we have been told "Oh you have to do something with your hair, its too nappy, prompting us to flat iron, press and perm our hair or wear wigs. Some of this started when the Black Panthers in the 70s and black people who wore afros, they were being targeted to be killed because people with afros were seen as rebellious and problematic and that is what caused women to wear the wigs to cover her hair to keep from being killed, so our history of this fake hair was basically forced on us. All of this happening when we are in the image of the Heavenly Father and his Son. My hair is locked and is healthier than its ever been. All Praise to the Most High 🙌🏾 Many of our women are waking up now and being delivered because this wicked nation is under the Fathers judgment for their wickedness toward his people. Thanks for your message sister.
This is a beautiful message. Thank You ❤
I'm greatly inspired. Thank you for this
God bless you ma, you don't know how much you've done to me this morning through this video and I'm very sure many others too, please keep the good work, do not stop the Lord bless you
First thank you for this video I seen it just in time. I feel it was meant for me. I don’t wear wigs, weaves or braids or any kind of artificial hair. I do relax my hair. Do you feel from a religious standpoint that our Father is ok with relaxers? I would really love to hear your say on this. I’m looking forward to hearing from you. Thank you 😊
Ive been so tempted to get braids. Because I’m growing my hair out it’s short now.
Same
Totally agree. I had neglected my hair for years...
YOUR HAIR IS GOLD.
You have said everything that I wanted to say !!! 👏👏👏👏
I am really really inspired to keep pushing through
Whew I love this one right here Godbless you sister and not blow drying our hair as much as I’d like too had to add this one to my favs on today yes
Tnx u sis i have only watch two of ur videos am now in love with you tnx u for saying the truth
Thank you Jesus for this I’ve been battling with this loving on my natural hair because God told me to stop wearing weave
What she says is true!! But most people don't accept it because the world always shows us how to do things and we forget about what God want from us!! If you feel like you don't agree with her, instead of attacking her saying that you do things your own way, you are wrong, go and seek God and Pray tirelessly so that God can show you how you do things in a way that He approves and He will even show you the way you do your hair, and trust me, God will show you the right way He will like you to do your hair in a way that gives Him glory, and once you obey Him and do that! That's when you will feel being the real you, and start to have confidence in yourself and to start embrace the real beauty that God wants you to have. And it's your interest to know that doing what God wants from you it's the best choice because God will always show you to do things that are in your own interests! Because all that God wants from you is peace, love, happiness, satisfaction, wisdom, etc, and that's what everyone seek in this journey, so look for them at the right place.
The question I ask above what you've stated is how do we encourage young girls to love themselves when we don't show our natural self (most young kids may have weaves but they want to start using make up).
Hear me out for a second, if I a mother/aunt wearing a weave because I am busy, or whatever reason I come up with, it could be I wear make-up to look professional, weaves are easy to maintain etc. and everything else that goes along with being a working woman, how am I showing the young girls, daughters, nieces, neighbours children, that you are beautiful the way you are. You don't have to have the straight hair or perfect face, straight nose etc. that your hair may not be straight but it is beautiful if I can't show it in my life. I love the natural hair movement because it has given many woman the strength to realise they don't need to straighten their hair to be beautiful, or professional, natural hair is good.
If the young chldren are seeing the adults only going for weaves, make-ups etc. they will also want to follow suite, and if they don't like that naturally they hate themselves and can't wait to be grown so that they can buy these things for themselves.
I believe, we have been convinced so much but not realising the damage to the self exteem of the young girls who are already living with a low self-esteem.
All Vanity. Be Blessed 🌸
Amen sister!❤ Youre precious and beautiful.
Also A LOT if not all of artificial hair is from the Marine Kingdom as well as most cosmetics!!! If using human hair be careful and prayful about it as most comes from East Indian and Asian population who dedicate and bless to many false gods of the false religions over there and so when you so it in your head it carries demonic attachments and curses.
Thank you for the truthh. LOVE your hair and keeo ot moisturized 😊❤ Sis Joyce
Amen!!! Indeed, I was inspired! Thank you. May the Lord bless you abundantly, you and your entire household in Jesus Mighty Name.
😢😢😢😢😢 wish I had like minded Christians like you at my church…. Xoxo
Aw, pray for the Lord to lead you to a like-minded community of believers.
The greatest gift is having a strong relationship with your Maker. As He transforms you, your life becomes a living testimony of His capabilities. Don't concern yourself with things yiu can't control. Just fast & Pray & God will avail Himself to them the same way He has done for you.
Watching your video as I take my extension’s out😊❤
Amen! God bless you and I appreciate your boldness. We are God’s creation and we are fearfully and wonderfully made. So women know need to know that they are beautiful whether their is long or short because God doesn’t make mistake and like you said after He created nan, He thought it was really good. Hod bless you sis😊
Hello from South Africa, for long time l ignored my feelings "not satisfied with extentions" l was never all the time I do them myself which I thank God for l can but l used to remove them in 2weeks not more than that in the name of "l miss my hair" it daunt me 2nd of June 2023 after l did box braids for a week l removed them feeling unsatisfied and after Oooh dear sis l felt good very good and l will keep it like that going forward proud of my hair and l am enough as God created me 🎉❤. Thank you for these vedios love you.
Yeah unless cancer strikes, best to wear what GOD gave us. Even short tapered styles are nice if done well. Other long options to with OUR own hair. Good video.
Amen! Back to natural beauty.
Please pray for me am bald right now! Artificial hair has destroyed my natural hair. My hair line is receding seriously. Any advice please!
I pray the Lord will restore your hair by His mercy. I encourage you to please refrain from the artificial hair and begin to nurture your natural hair.
@@MrsCharityUmar AMEN I touch and agree 🙏
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What about headcovering? Some women are led to wear a headscarf 24/7 but that could cause their hair to be in a different states, since it is all covered up. What’s your take on that?
I have been natural since 2009 and I either wear a wig or wrap my hair. After I was burned in 2011 the crown of my hair has not grown back I have shoulder length in the back. So tell me what I’m suppose do then. I give God all the glory I’m still here 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏾.
I feel you. All our personal situations are different. Even about this situation you can pray and ask God what's best. I am happy that your life was speared though. You have a testimony.
Good job woman of God. Teach us. May God bless u.
Gr8 video sis God bless, for like 6yrs now I have not used any extensions on my hair.
Your 👍 hair is beautiful 😍. Thank you for the hair tips 😂❤❤❤
Girl, you made good points from the second one but the first point I beg to defer. There is nothing in these world that can overshadow the glory of God in one's life, Absolutely Nothing... John 1:5 - The light shines in darkness and darkness cannot comprehend it.
It's quite insultive to say something made by man can overshadow the light of God in one's life. The glory of God is the Light of God...It is a spiritual covering, it is not physical...So Nothing physical can out do the spiritual. As a Christian, you should know we are first spirits before physical and we worship God in Spirit and in Truth. God, Himself is Spirit.
Also, intent is what matters....Prob 16:2, Prov. 21:2, James 4:3... Our intent/motives is what matters.
Even if I were to agree with you on this table, I'll take extensions out because it doesn't totally cover the hair and the Bible does refer to women braiding their hair. However with the advent of all sorts of wigs which totally shields the entire head/hair/nature of a woman giving them a totally different look you can barely recognise them at times, then perhaps one can discourage that if the motives was wrong which we know most do these days.... They want to look like what they are not and give others false impression which burdens on deception and like you said sometimes people are shocked when they find out those aren't their real hair. However, extensions don't give such mirage.
I can go on but I'll stop here. Also,.I don't expect you to agree with this ok. Just giving another perspective. I do understand your church gave you that doctrine. However you should search God's heart for you and also know God has different expectations for everyone sometimes e.g the story of Samson, he was not to cut his hair... However, men are allowed to cut their hair in the Bible. So my point sometimes an instruction giving to one is not for all.
🙏🙏🙌🙌 Stay blessed.
I have never used make up. Never had the desire. I haven't even pierced my ears. Never will coz I don't have the desire. I've only won weave twice in my whole entire life. Never won a wig in my life. I used to have braids but I stopped using artificial hair. I now use Brazilian wool or yarn to style my hair. But nowadays, I've just been wanting to be very natural, no extensions, nothing but my natural hair.
I started growing it out last year and this year I pray it reaches my shoulder. 🙏🏾
But I'll now be doing just twists and use head wraps. Also, African threading. I noticed that grows hair.
I agree with you ma 💯
I've never used attachment in my life.
God bless you ma
After taking out my twists from listening to this video, i realized that my hair is my glory. I agree that the "human" hair has been sacrificed to false gods and is cursed - i dont wear it. Twisting my hair is ok, if i am not made to feel convicted in my spirit. I know my struggles with being a single working parent and a homemaker. If i have to weave it to achieve it, that's my business. Ancient African and ancient Jews braided their hair with extentions all the time, and they had relatuves to assist with maintaining their hair care. I think people should really mind their own business and stop meddling in others, especially if they dont know our struggles. If you still covered byna husband, you have peace. If not, protect your hair with caution and keep your peace. The Bible also says that a women is supposed to have "well set" hair and she is supposed to adorn her temple and smell good. Its nothing wrong with wearing jewelry, etc. We just supposed to be humble, meek & quiet, and not lifted up in pride and vanity. YAH made us beautiful, and it is Ok to protect our crowns. Their is NO condemnation to those that are in Christ Jesus and who can bring anything to the charge of God's elect. He will justify the daughters of Zion, because we are in HIS-TORY. Many of the women making these videos appear to be humble but really are lifted up in pride and vanity, false in sheep clothing. They have sold-out and are only making these videos for more money. All godly men want their women to be adorned like Solomon's temple and Queen Esther. Being pretty and a lady is not vanity. Understanding is a beautiful thing! Yah is a understanding God. When we stand before Him with the royal crown, im sure we will have the hair He desires, nice robes, and jewelry! He owns it ALL! GET understanding and let no man take your crown or your joy! Look good, feel good, be good. ONLY God is good!;🎉❤
I do not agree with you saying Christians should not wear hair extensions. . What about people who lost their hair through cancer and alopecia. I think being a good kind loving and forgiving person is what we should focus on . Also spreading the word of God. .
You having extensions doesn't stop hod loving you.
Same thoughts!!
The sister is spot on. The majority can also be wrong
I am honestly wondering what women with textured hair used to do in yhe days of Abraham or Noah. Thing is that society has normalized braids wigs etc. I am gonna do a research on it.
So true my sister i recently started to feel like i don't want to braid my hair anymore.❤❤
What glory? My hair looks like a dandelion or a bush. How am I supposed to walk around looking crazy? I don't have hair of the person represented in Song of Solomon wavy and down my back. I don't understand if God loved me, why did he give me nappy hair? There is no amount of 'loving myself' that will fix this.
My hair!! all the way...
No way will i give much attention to onlookers as opposed to what God wants of me.
I am Not going back to artificial hair.
What God has done to create me the way i am is enough. Am not going back.
I cannot face judgement in artificial hair.
Doing all to the Glory of God.
Mine is not as long as yours but i choose to walk this earth in it.
It's what God wants and cannot be altered by me.
Let's do all for the glory of God
I totally agree. Preach.
Charity I like some of your videos but this one I have to respond. You have long beautiful natural hair . If a person like me who suffers from thyroid disorders and have problems with hair falling and breakage, it means that God is going to condemn me because I use a wing of extension. What about the sisters that are bald or losing their hair due to alopecia or cancer. Should they remain bald and has hole in their hair because God going to condemn them.Charity I think you should put your self in other people shoes before you make a video about why people should not use extension or wings. Charity; I love you as a Christian person but I disagreed with you.
First of, I am sorry about your thyroid issues and it’s impact on your hair. Also, it’s okay to disagree with me. As a previous oncology nurse, I know that hair grows back after receiving chemotherapy. Also, in many cases people with alopecia will experience hair growth with the right treatment.
Society has made artificial hair the only option for hair loss; but it shouldn’t be. There are hats and head wraps that are on sale for women suffering from various hair loss issues as they seek treatment without opting for artificial hair.
Generally speaking as a Christian woman having hair loss issues, have you prayed about it and waited for God’s leading, guidance and direction instead of opting for what is socially acceptable?
I share my content to inspire. While I know that not everyone will agree, I have the divine obligation to fulfill the demand and I trust the Lord that lives are being impacted for the Kingdom’s sake. I will also add that despite all that I share, viewers have the right and choice to do as they please with no judgment from my end.
I pray that the Lord will heal your thyroid and cause your hair to flourish. Thank you for watching my videos, Monica.
Yes wear head wraps and hats to the pool and the gym and to church and school and at your corporate job. Everywhere you go wear a stylish hat even though she just finished talking about not covering up God's glory #makeitmakesense 🤔🤷🏾♀️
This woman is going through similar lifestyle like you take care your hair in the mean time and grow it under the wigs. She won’t be able to speak for your life.
It has been blessing
Sister, Slavery did affected our foreparents mentality emotionally physically and it's passed down to us look at our Community and YAHUAH says that when HE COMES BACK HE WILL REMOVED ALL THAT WE HAVE BEING THROUGH AND STIL GOING THROUGH TO THIS DAY our ONLY DEFENSE IS KEEPS HOLDING ON TO HIM.
Headwraps for the Royal Women !
Wash and Go and Separate 🙌🏼🙌🏼🤎