Once i found out God can lead us to our spouse. The bulb went on and my mind was made up that this is actually the easiest way to go about things. God really does the heavy lifting for us. No number of dates or cohabitation can ever prepare you for the future. Only God holds our future. Truly, It is in our best interest to trust Him in everything. His will=His process=His timing ❤ Thank You Samm n Del for your obedience to share.❤
Prolonged dating just promotes sexual immorality, people just keep sleeping around, dumping and being dumped in the name of dating, then it becomes a vicious cycle. We thank GOD for Ministers like you that HE has equipped to guide and help preserve the morals of this generation.
The entirety of this video resonates deeply with me. I equally didn’t believe in lengthy dating. My prayer was God send me someone who is true to you and good for me. And that was how it happened for me. God actually hears all those tiny little prayers we make. Mine was a verrry long distant courtship for 5months and my husband proposed 3 weeks after physically meeting me, he knew and I knew and God settled it. For me as well, what i appreciate most in this first year of my marriage is not in the butterfly moments but the things that make me very uncomfortable and humbles me. The Wait on God, and THE CALLING TO BE AND DO BETTER! God bless you both for sharing your journey with us.
Overtime I started to have the mindset that I have to know my husband for at least a year but some marriages like yours are making me see a new perspective that even 3months is possible. Just let God lead
@@ronkeeunice5500 with God all things are possible. Marriage instead is a journey and we are consistently growing and changing, getting to know ourselves how much more our spouses. So the idea to give 1 year, we will be doing it on our own which might work or not work. Rather than lean on the matchmaker to help us and direct us. Thank you Lord Jesus ❤️🔥
@@ronkeeunice5500yes, I've been wanting to make this prayer of knowing him first, but deep down, I know it won't be easy and that's why I haven't made that prayer yet😂😂😂. I want him to show up and let God open my eyes to see him
I thought I was crazy when I would say “what was the point of dating “ because whenever people used the term it was often a license to sin or a means to let’s see how this goes. It never made sense to me.
God hasn't shown me my husband. But one thing I've been convicted of is not dating. I don't need to date to find out if this is who God has for me. It's not a popular belief though. In times when it seems impossible, God always sends some form of encouragement. This video actually happens to be one.
Facts, it’s not about the destination. It’s about how I’m letting God work on my heart through the journey. God changed my prayer point from “God provide me a godly spouse to “God prepare my heart now, make become more like you daily as I wait for all the things you have prepared for me in the future”
This was great. Something I saw on social media recently that gave me great perspective is “dating and relationships do not equal proximity to marriage”. It’s true. God’s timing and His hand are the best.
Thanks Delphy and your hubby. Kingdom is the way to go!! We use to think dating for data(get to know ) is sensible but the devil is in the dating market big time. Hearing God and waiting on him is the safest place and you guys are embodying that for us so well. More grace on your marriage ❤❤❤
Thanks for sharing... God is fixing the church by fixing families and ensuring his children marry in his will And oh my Delphi you are beautiful 🥺😩 I love your dentition... You look like an ibo person, are you 🥺
Thabk yoy Del and Sam for obeying God and sharing your story. Im Greatly encouraged because at some point I asked Gid where my husband was and who He was and to my unexpectation He showed me the guy and told me it was not time yet and hence am waiting. So hearing your testimony i realise I am not crazy and i did not mishear God because turns out it happened to someone else so the possibility i heard right has just increased. Aside the peace am experiencing on this journey giving my mind some evidence is helping me on the journey. Thank you.
My my listening to Sam at point 17.02 to 22.26 and watching Delphine during that time you know they both are in sync. The careful use of language during the span, the amount of doctrine, the care to be careful to mean what he is saying without over sweeping, is admirable. I see that we have a deep Man of God indeed. I have picked up so much from the span in question especially although i have been blessed listening to the entire clip. May the Lord God who brought you together uphold and water your ministry in Jesus name. Amen
All of your videos are really coming to me timely cos your first video on how God chose your spouse really strike a cord in me and was like a form of confirmation for me, i see myself going on the same line of waiting as yours right now (God telling you about your spouse first). It is so strong that God is perfecting everything to the glory of his name.. will love to share on your platform when its finally done.....
Yes, I think the best way is to wait to hear from God about who to marry versus pursuing someone you have feelings for, because even if they are a good Christian but not God's choice for you, then you may end up heartbroken.
I really like how calm Samm is yet speaks so manly humbly and with such depth. Please the last part of this video was not completed🥹🥹can Sam please complete what he was saying about “waiting honourably, try not to go back to your ex, and being truthful to yourself seek counselling and having pple around that make you feel better”……🤔🤔🤔 I feel like it’s a very important thing he was saying and I could relate personally but it didn’t land well so I didn’t quite summarise his point. Please
It is far far better to be in the perfect will of God, which means being patient as he set the stage up and bring you together in due time. Thanks for sharing your testimony may God continue increase you all and favor you❤
Thank very much for this Spiritually well defined and detailed explanation man of GOD. I've been exactly in this situation where I have to ask GOD to guide me in making the right choice.
Both of you are already looking alike,GOD GIVES EVIDENCE EVIDENCE WHEN MAKE HIS CHOICE OUR CHOICE. MORE ABUNDANT ALL GOOD GRACE TO YOU BOTH IN JESUS NAME-AMEN
Del I really admire your natural beauty. Your hair is beautiful, your complexion and makeup is natural and pretty. Your whole love story is inspirational. I am a divorcee. When I got married almost 28 years ago, I intended it to be forever, but when I entered into marriage I cannot remember ever praying about the matter despite my being a christian and believing that I was following God’s will at the time. I was abandoned and divorced until now I still do not understand why. But sometimes God takes things away from us that he knows is not right for us and I believe where God has taken me and where he is still leading me, my former spouse, could not or refused to go with me. I am now happily single. My marriage produced four offspring who are now grown up. My marriage break up could have killed , or totally destroyed my sanity but I praise God for helping me to come out of this journey a better person and closer in my relationship to God. My best wishes to you both as you continue to allow God to lead in your life (you are one flesh).
Everytime IV prayed IV been shown a particular guy for marriage I still don't know how to like him but he's the only one shown to me for marriage it's bn years but I still don't really like him
If you really believe God is speaking, pray that God makes him attractive to you. If you pray sincerely and it happens, then you’ll know it’s God’s will. If you pray and you still do not like him then you’ll know it’s not God’s will. God will not force you to like him. Try again and see what happens.
I agree with you, Her will is important, i even believe if its God, He would have prepared her heart before she met the guy. Let her check her heart. What is it she doesn't like about him? Has God corrected her about it before. Or else, maybe its not God@@alexandraigolo
DELPH U SAID "I want to hear from GOD &" "do ,not prove anything to" "anybody," this is where GOD IS GLORIED,YOUR RUclips is just GOD,NOT FOR SHOW-OFFS, PLEASE KEEP IT CONTINUALLY JESUS REVEALING &JESUS & GLORIFYING, I SEE JESUS IN EVERYTHING YOU DO HERE BECAUSE U ARE STAYING BEHIND THE CROSS& ALLOWING THE ONE WHO DIED ON THE CROSS TO BE BEFORE,INFRONT OF THE CROSS, WE SEE JESUS IN UR YOUR TUBE KEEP IT UP❤ MUCH ❤ SAMDELPH. WE LOVE ❤U BOTH
Hi my life is much different I am a married woman and it has fail I for 11 years now and am separated now and whil you all were speaking and happy for you don t get me wroung but my life is hurt and pain for my marrage
As you praying GOD will align each other to get strengthen through him with scripture and fasting and prayer God will make a way for you both 🙏 ❤️ 😂 amen FAITH THATS what GOD want you to share his FAITH Has increase in you both WHEN GOD choose for you he will construct the path 🙏 ✨️ 🙌 blessings 🙌 to you both 🙏 ✨️ Congratulations 🎊 👏 💐 Jesus Christ ✨️ is the key amen 🙏
I love Del's faith. However, Sam asked good questions that many people think about. People have choices and you cannot make them follow what the Lord is saying.
Does Sam know who to relax n enjoy life/ marriage?he seems like he spiritualized everything not saying it's bad is he in love with del or it's God's will
Dear Mary, this video isn't for you to peruse their body language in order to analyze the romance in their marriage. The video is for spiritual education as regards the institution of marriage, looking through their personal experience. We need to stop being too involved in people's lives in intrusive ways. I think it's toxic. Why're you invested in knowing if someone who's married is in love or not? Social media and the idea of fake romance it's painted has put false ideas in people's minds on how love should be shown or what love even is.
If you're looking for entertainment or comedy... You're in the wrong place These are instructions.... Besides you can't just use 45 mins videos to judge him. You don't know how many people lives God is saving through this video. Take the instructions as it applies to you and leave Sam's seriousness alone.
People just want to see fan fare. Kissing, cuddling, touching between couples, so they can satisfy their ungodly validations. Newsflash, marriage is way more than that. And nobody owes you PDA for you to fawn over. I really dislike this habit of grown people gathering online to come sit and dissect the lives of people, judging, and deciding what is and what isn't.
Once i found out God can lead us to our spouse. The bulb went on and my mind was made up that this is actually the easiest way to go about things. God really does the heavy lifting for us. No number of dates or cohabitation can ever prepare you for the future. Only God holds our future. Truly, It is in our best interest to trust Him in everything. His will=His process=His timing ❤
Thank You Samm n Del for your obedience to share.❤
True
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Wow true
Amen
So true. 🛑 Putting time limits on God. He spoke a whole 🌎 world to have light in one day. Can he do the same for us?!
I do not believe in dating too. And it feels good to know that someone believes that also.
I don’t believe in dating as well. I’m glad more people are talking about this
Agreed
Prolonged dating just promotes sexual immorality, people just keep sleeping around, dumping and being dumped in the name of dating, then it becomes a vicious cycle.
We thank GOD for Ministers like you that HE has equipped to guide and help preserve the morals of this generation.
The entirety of this video resonates deeply with me. I equally didn’t believe in lengthy dating. My prayer was God send me someone who is true to you and good for me. And that was how it happened for me. God actually hears all those tiny little prayers we make. Mine was a verrry long distant courtship for 5months and my husband proposed 3 weeks after physically meeting me, he knew and I knew and God settled it. For me as well, what i appreciate most in this first year of my marriage is not in the butterfly moments but the things that make me very uncomfortable and humbles me. The Wait on God, and THE CALLING TO BE AND DO BETTER! God bless you both for sharing your journey with us.
Overtime I started to have the mindset that I have to know my husband for at least a year but some marriages like yours are making me see a new perspective that even 3months is possible. Just let God lead
Knowing the man ahead isn't always easy to deal with as a lady but it's a beautiful thing Sha ❤
@@ronkeeunice5500 with God all things are possible. Marriage instead is a journey and we are consistently growing and changing, getting to know ourselves how much more our spouses.
So the idea to give 1 year, we will be doing it on our own which might work or not work. Rather than lean on the matchmaker to help us and direct us.
Thank you Lord Jesus ❤️🔥
@@ronkeeunice5500yes, I've been wanting to make this prayer of knowing him first, but deep down, I know it won't be easy and that's why I haven't made that prayer yet😂😂😂. I want him to show up and let God open my eyes to see him
They had long delays right before courtship
I thought I was crazy when I would say “what was the point of dating “ because whenever people used the term it was often a license to sin or a means to let’s see how this goes. It never made sense to me.
God hasn't shown me my husband. But one thing I've been convicted of is not dating. I don't need to date to find out if this is who God has for me. It's not a popular belief though. In times when it seems impossible, God always sends some form of encouragement. This video actually happens to be one.
I don't believe in dating too and it's so refreshing to know that I am not the only one
Facts, it’s not about the destination. It’s about how I’m letting God work on my heart through the journey. God changed my prayer point from “God provide me a godly spouse to “God prepare my heart now, make become more like you daily as I wait for all the things you have prepared for me in the future”
This was great. Something I saw on social media recently that gave me great perspective is “dating and relationships do not equal proximity to marriage”. It’s true. God’s timing and His hand are the best.
The first thing that caught my attention was “the spirit is in the blood”! Loveeet!!!❤
I love the part you said you'rent trying to be successful and not just creating content rather hear God and do what he says.💘🔥Am blessed!
Sam Wonder is DEEP!!!!!!! My God! God bless you guys.❤ The Lord keeps you both in Him and for Him.
Thanks Delphy and your hubby.
Kingdom is the way to go!!
We use to think dating for data(get to know ) is sensible but the devil is in the dating market big time.
Hearing God and waiting on him is the safest place and you guys are embodying that for us so well.
More grace on your marriage ❤❤❤
When Sam speaks 🎉 thank God because the wisdom wow .
Thanks for sharing... God is fixing the church by fixing families and ensuring his children marry in his will
And oh my Delphi you are beautiful 🥺😩
I love your dentition... You look like an ibo person, are you 🥺
Thabk yoy Del and Sam for obeying God and sharing your story. Im Greatly encouraged because at some point I asked Gid where my husband was and who He was and to my unexpectation He showed me the guy and told me it was not time yet and hence am waiting. So hearing your testimony i realise I am not crazy and i did not mishear God because turns out it happened to someone else so the possibility i heard right has just increased. Aside the peace am experiencing on this journey giving my mind some evidence is helping me on the journey. Thank you.
Once GOD choose for you
On my part I don't think there is no reason of going back
The other relationship is already over
And that's when GOD STEPS IN
My my listening to Sam at point 17.02 to 22.26 and watching Delphine during that time you know they both are in sync. The careful use of language during the span, the amount of doctrine, the care to be careful to mean what he is saying without over sweeping, is admirable. I see that we have a deep Man of God indeed. I have picked up so much from the span in question especially although i have been blessed listening to the entire clip. May the Lord God who brought you together uphold and water your ministry in Jesus name. Amen
Amen & Amen 🙏🏽
Thank you for your kind words
Will definitely show him this comment.
@@TheDelphinatorTV
Thank you sincerely
Appreciate your response
All of your videos are really coming to me timely cos your first video on how God chose your spouse really strike a cord in me and was like a form of confirmation for me, i see myself going on the same line of waiting as yours right now (God telling you about your spouse first). It is so strong that God is perfecting everything to the glory of his name.. will love to share on your platform when its finally done.....
Ow! I believe this video is for me. Thank God for using you to reassure me of His great plans for me.
😂😂😂 for sure, David in Psalms is so many of us. I love his rawness with God. Yess been encouraged to continue to take my feelings to God. 27:41
My God! So timely 👏 Thank you for your obedience and quickening🙏
Yes, I think the best way is to wait to hear from God about who to marry versus pursuing someone you have feelings for, because even if they are a good Christian but not God's choice for you, then you may end up heartbroken.
I really like how calm Samm is yet speaks so manly humbly and with such depth.
Please the last part of this video was not completed🥹🥹can Sam please complete what he was saying about “waiting honourably, try not to go back to your ex, and being truthful to yourself seek counselling and having pple around that make you feel better”……🤔🤔🤔
I feel like it’s a very important thing he was saying and I could relate personally but it didn’t land well so I didn’t quite summarise his point. Please
You just explained my thought process of dating. Not necessary to do to find the spouse. Just ask God and wait.
We are married to God first until God brings you your spouse
Never disappoint with authentic conversation. So glad I found you ❤
It is far far better to be in the perfect will of God, which means being patient as he set the stage up and bring you together in due time. Thanks for sharing your testimony may God continue increase you all and favor you❤
Amennn❤Your submission to the Will of God is amazing!
Thank very much for this Spiritually well defined and detailed explanation man of GOD. I've been exactly in this situation where I have to ask GOD to guide me in making the right choice.
A Revelation to Me.Thank u.
I Agree, Believe, Receive/Claim it/Done.It is so Victorious/ Glorious.
Amennn.Hallelujah!!!
🙏🌈🔥💞👩❤️👨💍👏
Both of you are already looking alike,GOD GIVES EVIDENCE EVIDENCE WHEN MAKE HIS CHOICE OUR CHOICE.
MORE ABUNDANT ALL GOOD GRACE TO YOU BOTH IN JESUS NAME-AMEN
Del I really admire your natural beauty. Your hair is beautiful, your complexion and makeup is natural and pretty. Your whole love story is inspirational. I am a divorcee. When I got married almost 28 years ago, I intended it to be forever, but when I entered into marriage I cannot remember ever praying about the matter despite my being a christian and believing that I was following God’s will at the time. I was abandoned and divorced until now I still do not understand why. But sometimes God takes things away from us that he knows is not right for us and I believe where God has taken me and where he is still leading me, my former spouse, could not or refused to go with me. I am now happily single. My marriage produced four offspring who are now grown up. My marriage break up could have killed , or totally destroyed my sanity but I praise God for helping me to come out of this journey a better person and closer in my relationship to God. My best wishes to you both as you continue to allow God to lead in your life (you are one flesh).
Woman i love your voice, so full of patience humbled by long suffering resonant bright a resilient power. 😢😂😊
You are sharing what GOD wants you to share and guide other couple out there
As a Christian pray is the
Thank you for holding my hand through my journey ❤❤ God bless you 🙏
Once you get the conviction get it done📌
Thank you Del and Sam
But Del pls how did you break up with ur ex and how did he accept it was it easy on him or did he beg to come bck
Everytime IV prayed IV been shown a particular guy for marriage I still don't know how to like him but he's the only one shown to me for marriage it's bn years but I still don't really like him
If you really believe God is speaking, pray that God makes him attractive to you. If you pray sincerely and it happens, then you’ll know it’s God’s will. If you pray and you still do not like him then you’ll know it’s not God’s will. God will not force you to like him. Try again and see what happens.
I agree with you, Her will is important, i even believe if its God, He would have prepared her heart before she met the guy. Let her check her heart. What is it she doesn't like about him? Has God corrected her about it before. Or else, maybe its not God@@alexandraigolo
@@alexandraigolo thank you
GLORY TO THE MOST HIGH GOD!!!!!!!
Getting my popcorn now, sitting tight 😅❤
Is that your hair? It's so lovely
27:10 😂😂😂 kai 🔥🇿🇦
The Lord be praised in your marriage always 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Welcome back for me 😂as an oldie
Ayyyyyyye!
Lov how my sister steers at him❤❤❤🎉🎉
So sure she didn't make a mistake 😂
@@user-rj8cq4lf4n true eyy 😊
ThankGod for both of you. ❤
I have learnt a lot Thankyou.
Dale you abswer the question
Already 😂
This blessed me 🙏🏾
Del, God bless you. God keep your home. you are wise and say a lot i need to hear.
Love watching you both! God bless
I think you need to answer the question of re_marrying cause so many people need to hear that and might be able to access you.
Thank you both. Learning so much 🙏
Sit!!!I needed to hear that!
DELPH U SAID
"I want to hear from GOD &" "do ,not prove anything to" "anybody,"
this is where GOD IS GLORIED,YOUR RUclips is just GOD,NOT FOR SHOW-OFFS,
PLEASE KEEP IT CONTINUALLY JESUS REVEALING &JESUS & GLORIFYING,
I SEE JESUS IN EVERYTHING YOU DO HERE
BECAUSE U ARE STAYING BEHIND THE CROSS& ALLOWING THE ONE WHO DIED ON THE CROSS TO BE BEFORE,INFRONT OF THE CROSS,
WE SEE JESUS IN UR YOUR TUBE
KEEP IT UP❤
MUCH ❤ SAMDELPH.
WE LOVE ❤U BOTH
Thank God!
First to Comment. I was literally waiting for this.
Thank you del and sam God bless you both
So timely, again. Thank you so much
Hi my life is much different I am a married woman and it has fail I for 11 years now and am separated now and whil you all were speaking and happy for you don t get me wroung but my life is hurt and pain for my marrage
May God heal you completely and perfect His will for your life
As you praying GOD will align each other to get strengthen through him with scripture and fasting and prayer God will make a way for you both 🙏 ❤️ 😂 amen FAITH THATS what GOD want you to share his FAITH Has increase in you both
WHEN GOD choose for you he will construct the path 🙏 ✨️ 🙌 blessings 🙌 to you both 🙏 ✨️
Congratulations 🎊 👏 💐 Jesus Christ ✨️ is the key amen 🙏
God bless you both 🎉
Loving youre make-up
BEAUTIFUL couple.
I love Del's faith. However, Sam asked good questions that many people think about. People have choices and you cannot make them follow what the Lord is saying.
God asked you to do it for me.
Thank you
❤I love you both 💖
I can see you are lead bi God. I think tooo long dating puts temptation afire
So beautiful ❤❤
🎉
🔥🔥♥️♥️
fine girl Delo🤩
😘😘😘
❤
❤❤❤❤
I was holding God's trousers😅
😂
Does Sam know who to relax n enjoy life/ marriage?he seems like he spiritualized everything not saying it's bad is he in love with del or it's God's will
He really didn’t spiritualize everything. He gave a lot of practical examples as well. Now I do think their relationship seems very mature.
Dear Mary, this video isn't for you to peruse their body language in order to analyze the romance in their marriage. The video is for spiritual education as regards the institution of marriage, looking through their personal experience.
We need to stop being too involved in people's lives in intrusive ways. I think it's toxic. Why're you invested in knowing if someone who's married is in love or not? Social media and the idea of fake romance it's painted has put false ideas in people's minds on how love should be shown or what love even is.
If you're looking for entertainment or comedy...
You're in the wrong place
These are instructions....
Besides you can't just use 45 mins videos to judge him.
You don't know how many people lives God is saving through this video.
Take the instructions as it applies to you and leave Sam's seriousness alone.
People just want to see fan fare. Kissing, cuddling, touching between couples, so they can satisfy their ungodly validations.
Newsflash, marriage is way more than that. And nobody owes you PDA for you to fawn over.
I really dislike this habit of grown people gathering online to come sit and dissect the lives of people, judging, and deciding what is and what isn't.
What do you mean by being in love? Has been in love help anyone to sustain marriage?
🫶🫶