Would you like to change your sexual orientation? | Vinay Chandran | TEDxNITTrichy

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  • Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
  • Can medical treatment cure homosexuality?
    Why is the Article 377 obsolete?
    What's wrong in the society's view of homosexuals?
    In our society, living a homesexual life can be looked upon as a taboo. They have to put up with gender discrimination everyday. Many are forced to change their sexual orientation. Watch Vinay Chandran talk as he digs deep into Article 377 of India, enlightening us about the injustice it is causing everyday to the sexual minorities.
    Vinay Chandran is the Executive Director of the Swabhava Trust, a charitable trust which reaches out to the sexual minorities who are otherwise marginalised. Swabhava Trust, in Bangalore, India, has given the LGBT community over 15 years of strong support, fighting for their rights.
    In this talk, he gives a really convincing perspective about the Article 377 of India and its flaws. He also talks about the atrocities against the transgenders. His talk is an eye-opener for anyone who would want to know more about LGBT and the Article 377.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

Комментарии • 140

  • @GK1S41
    @GK1S41 3 года назад +45

    I wish I was straight. Being bullied everyday ain't fun

    • @Rina-or5vc
      @Rina-or5vc 2 года назад +8

      I wish I wasn't straight, same genders understand each other better so means a good relationship

    • @justforfun6370
      @justforfun6370 2 года назад +5

      @@Rina-or5vc but there is minority for same genders so they will not meet easily and that makes their life tough

    • @priteshhazare1270
      @priteshhazare1270 2 года назад

      @@Rina-or5vc lie...white lie!!!

    • @RJIS
      @RJIS 2 года назад +5

      You can be straight if you want. If you wish to date the opposite gender, that’s you wanting to date the opposite gender.
      Don’t hate yourself over it though

    • @sammylpt9076
      @sammylpt9076 Год назад +2

      For me it definitely is a choice. Have you analysed why exactly you’re attracted to who you are? Just exactly what features make you desire that person? I’m not saying you should change, all I’m saying is for me, I can convince myself that if the change is necessary, I can do it and believe it.

  • @anabolicstephen8387
    @anabolicstephen8387 4 года назад +74

    bisexuals: allow me to introduce myself

  • @skar8009
    @skar8009 3 года назад +30

    Everytime they say "there's nothing wrong" I instantly know it is wrong and I should be totally skeptical about what THEY want me to be.

  • @lamisa6719
    @lamisa6719 4 года назад +27

    Im straight and bored

  • @shaanp9796
    @shaanp9796 4 года назад +16

    Everyone who thinks this is an anti-LGBT(...) talk, watch the 2nd half.

    • @evangelianickolas6850
      @evangelianickolas6850 4 года назад +3

      Literally was scrolling though comments to see if it was haha. thanks!

    • @shaanp9796
      @shaanp9796 3 года назад

      @Dow John oh no. A pro-lgbtq opinion.

    • @mochi-mochi
      @mochi-mochi 2 года назад

      i feel like the guy genuinely does not care who does what-

  • @bobbyandersan5155
    @bobbyandersan5155 3 года назад +14

    Im aromantic and asexual and I want to change because I feel like I'm missing out on the whole purpose of life. Idk it's kinda depressing for me.

    • @thelogicalaspect1323
      @thelogicalaspect1323 3 года назад +2

      I hate myself , my life , everything about me bkz i have tried my level best to change my orientation but nothing happened . Now i m considering to quite

    • @HermitKing731
      @HermitKing731 2 года назад +2

      im in the same boat. ive been crying for the past several days thinking of what im going to miss out on. im really hoping for the day we may be able to change someones orientation some day. i really dont want to go to my grave as an asexual aromantic. this feels like a curse really. Like a cruel joke by the universe. But unfortunately there isn't much research being done on how to change someone's orientation. So I guess we will both be cursed until we die.

    • @boy5580
      @boy5580 2 года назад

      @@HermitKing731 asexuals still marry
      I think you need a partner who understands you and be happy with who you are
      Don't worry
      Soon you will find your honey
      😊😊😊

    • @sammylpt9076
      @sammylpt9076 Год назад

      @elliot blaise, are you still feeling like that? I hope not.

    • @dylansvensson3336
      @dylansvensson3336 8 месяцев назад

      @@HermitKing731if i was you, i'd spend my life tryna find out since there are lack of studies, imagine you make it somehow

  • @iknowdeway3949
    @iknowdeway3949 6 лет назад +52

    I wanna become straight because I still have a crush on my ex gf 😂😂😂 (I'm a girl)

    • @plutoqueen7295
      @plutoqueen7295 4 года назад +4

      @USA Rocks IKRR but when ur tired of life and want to end it bcz the soceity ur living in is targeting u and everyone is judging id rather be straight or asexual 🙂✌️lol

    • @dominikbarsi746
      @dominikbarsi746 4 года назад +2

      @@spriterocks03 a lónak a faszát az
      Heck no it isn't

    • @Blaze-578
      @Blaze-578 4 года назад +1

      I'm in this statement and I dont like it

    • @skar8009
      @skar8009 3 года назад

      @@spriterocks03 "lgbt is awesome"? why would you like to be part of a minority that it's always controvertial when it comes to being represented in movies or tv shows?

    • @sunrose9211
      @sunrose9211 3 года назад

      😂😂

  • @l705
    @l705 4 года назад +28

    am a disappointment so I wanna change and be more connected with God. 🙏😞

    • @caseylane9162
      @caseylane9162 3 года назад +6

      love yourself the way you are dawg

  • @sjamv7447
    @sjamv7447 3 года назад +16

    Oh you’ve gotta be freaking kidding me! I’m too damn broke for conversion therapy, and just when I thought I finally found a video to help this dude pulls an uno reverse card on me.

    • @peachyaesthetic8918
      @peachyaesthetic8918 3 года назад +10

      No need of conversion therapy love yourself the way u are

    • @thunderlordd4
      @thunderlordd4 3 года назад +4

      i suggest seeking Jesus, He can change it for you

    • @LiseteL
      @LiseteL 3 года назад +4

      Naw! You can't ever change it beside whatever they say. You can go through much conversion therapy but you can't, so it's better to love yourself as you are. :)

    • @ava_bndrabbs1111
      @ava_bndrabbs1111 3 года назад +5

      @@peachyaesthetic8918 Impossible when everyone hates me

  • @bautistabanos8729
    @bautistabanos8729 4 года назад +7

    I cant believe people like this guy can give a ted talk

  • @LarkinDyer
    @LarkinDyer 7 лет назад +28

    Great talk. If you think being gay can be -- or even needs to be -- "cured", you are the one who could use treatment.

    • @queenvictoria5710
      @queenvictoria5710 4 года назад +3

      @@MyspaceEmo Having "no brain" is scientifically wrong.

    • @fahmiharhouri4531
      @fahmiharhouri4531 4 года назад

      @@vivianamaldonado5341 Can I talk with you ?

    • @VRINDHA639
      @VRINDHA639 3 года назад

      It will be work

    • @koscraftbuilds4937
      @koscraftbuilds4937 2 года назад +3

      it is wrong if it is forced on you (by a parent perhaps). If you yourself want to change - it should be your right to do so.

  • @thelogicalaspect1323
    @thelogicalaspect1323 3 года назад +12

    I want to be straight at any cost , Allah plz help me , i dont know why i m born this way . i hate myself

    • @courtneymalkin1225
      @courtneymalkin1225 3 года назад +1

      Heeey , its nothin wrong with love anyone it is much more beutiful than you may though so Love is Love
      ☀️🍀💫🌈🎈🌸🦕🎺

    • @idgafabtdis
      @idgafabtdis Год назад +1

      @@courtneymalkin1225 thats nice but it isnt abt that

    • @mshopubg7860
      @mshopubg7860 Год назад

      Same💔

  • @thelogicalaspect1323
    @thelogicalaspect1323 3 года назад +4

    I hate myself , my life , everything about me bkz i have tried my level best to change my orientation but nothing happened . Now i m considering to quite

    • @sofunny6886
      @sofunny6886 3 года назад

      Don't suicide

    • @thelogicalaspect1323
      @thelogicalaspect1323 3 года назад +1

      Now i m going for it in a few seconds , God bless u and ur cruel world , i m going back

    • @rishabh6523
      @rishabh6523 3 года назад

      I feel the same. Either God has to make me straight or I'll choose to end my life

    • @Lawrence1154
      @Lawrence1154 3 года назад +1

      @@thelogicalaspect1323 *E D G Y*

    • @bretbriers5221
      @bretbriers5221 3 года назад +1

      I struggle too. Thankfully I have friends that remind me that my value in their lives have nothing to do with who I'm attracted to. I thoroughly believe you have beauty and love that others feel and appreciate. We have to struggle, but we make it day by day. Some days are harder than others. But hang on for the good days, the ones that remind you that you are wonderful and loved.

  • @daemon2041
    @daemon2041 3 года назад +38

    I would love to be straight again

  • @personanon2879
    @personanon2879 Год назад +3

    I'm straight and want to change

  • @kingfiction5747
    @kingfiction5747 4 года назад +7

    I'm asexual but I still have feelings for women

    • @zapperhoan8904
      @zapperhoan8904 3 года назад +1

      king fiction asexuals can fall love lmao I’m asexual too btw💜🖤

    • @King123-r1u
      @King123-r1u 3 года назад +1

      Are you men or women ?

    • @HermitKing731
      @HermitKing731 2 года назад

      im asexual AND aromantic. how do you think i feel? im really hoping science can treat aroace people one day and change their orientation just like mine.

  • @learninglanguageswithwaifu4477
    @learninglanguageswithwaifu4477 7 лет назад +21

    I want to change my sexuality from 3D to 2D women. I have been through so much horrible treatment from three-dimensional women that I now have PTSD. I don't believe the future holds anything different for me.

  • @zototheo2580
    @zototheo2580 3 года назад +2

    I'm a bit skeptical about this... does this actually work?

    • @BlueStormBuG
      @BlueStormBuG 3 года назад +1

      Only works if you have latent bisexuality.

  • @wesleyshawnwilliamsthewild4574
    @wesleyshawnwilliamsthewild4574 3 года назад +5

    Heck yeah i would

  • @user-sf5fk6ox4c
    @user-sf5fk6ox4c Год назад

    Amazing truth spoken. Thank you good man !

  • @ace.and.dead222
    @ace.and.dead222 4 года назад +6

    I'm asexual OR grey-a OR demisexual. I'm not really sure...

    • @serialkiller288
      @serialkiller288 4 года назад

      what means demisexual

    • @ace.and.dead222
      @ace.and.dead222 4 года назад

      @@serialkiller288 google it :)

    • @yuxutin
      @yuxutin 3 года назад

      Is demi a real thing? Seems like a "normal" thing. Most of the people I've talked to have said that they "are" demi, but don't need to identify because it is literally a so common.

    • @ace.and.dead222
      @ace.and.dead222 3 года назад

      @@yuxutin idk i mean it seems like it or at least google says it's real

    • @yuxutin
      @yuxutin 3 года назад

      @@ace.and.dead222 I mean it is real because it's a basic emotion for humans, but it really isn't LGBTQIA+

  • @AmikYoungDon
    @AmikYoungDon 2 года назад +1

    I want to change just because I want to, not because God or others.

  • @theknownliar7100
    @theknownliar7100 Год назад

    Due to puberty I'm starting to think I'm abit of a backwards mechanic, I still like girls but it's getting lower. And if it gets lower, who am I gonna like? That's what I fear.

  • @matthewnelson9809
    @matthewnelson9809 3 месяца назад

    yes im stel laying low for the week until i hget done with this tough topic

  • @wiitherinq_rxses9196
    @wiitherinq_rxses9196 5 лет назад +9

    Im gray asexual ;-; and i dont wanna change

  • @matthewnelson9809
    @matthewnelson9809 3 месяца назад

    you knw groen engought to deal and get along etc you kne just he tsnaard part only right noe man im healing god bless them wit the best cure for them and me to ok

  • @JasonRodrigues72
    @JasonRodrigues72 9 лет назад +8

    Thank you, Blurr India for the wonderful videos!

  • @matthewnelson9809
    @matthewnelson9809 3 месяца назад

    stranget my part only and tyransit me im from down town SALT LAKE CITY

  • @Blaze-578
    @Blaze-578 4 года назад +2

    What if you're into being abused . . .

  • @NaveenJoshiYSFinnovations
    @NaveenJoshiYSFinnovations 5 лет назад +3

    Vinay is a darling

  • @dapedalist
    @dapedalist 3 года назад +1

    This Guy is good!

  • @matthewnelson9809
    @matthewnelson9809 3 месяца назад

    yes i come witha quit plan and next step kick off and it tat the start to cold turket plaan same format

  • @sarathchan93
    @sarathchan93 9 лет назад +5

    great work Jason and team :)

  • @Mashedup422
    @Mashedup422 4 года назад +7

    11:29

  • @matthewnelson9809
    @matthewnelson9809 3 месяца назад

    im actual free from every body to do my part and be strange and move with some thimg to show for y self and be godly good enguht to cover it all ok

  • @matthewnelson9809
    @matthewnelson9809 3 месяца назад

    peole who are mad to obey gping down in shame from a heaven left on the body and a confused by ill thought on verge of fowl behavior and laungaue why they dothat some times just why som wthing im doin and look into mauybe after this assigment

  • @matthewnelson9809
    @matthewnelson9809 3 месяца назад

    I HAVE A PLAN IT THIS JUST HELPS ME TO LAY LOW FOR LATER SO I ACN TRY TO ASH OUT MY MIND SET IN ONE FAST QUICK BEST OPTION WITH THE TIME I THINKIT JUST HE MONEY APRT OF THE RELTIONSHIP ON MY STYLE I SHAVED OFF MY EYE BROW FOR PURIT AND SIGN THAT IM GOIN OGG HT ROCKER WITH CALAMITY IM NOT INTERESTED INA LIFE STYLE CHANGE OVER AND I CASH THAT BRACKET NAD NO THANK ILL JUST TAKE THE DIETAND SET OINE AND REACHABLE GOAL

  • @matthewnelson9809
    @matthewnelson9809 3 месяца назад

    there just thught you dont have to push me around so mmuch to get the desied effect with but ok im done i have faith this will all smooth over

  • @matthewnelson9809
    @matthewnelson9809 3 месяца назад

    and see what i got to next

  • @olle6727
    @olle6727 3 года назад

    yes

  • @matthewnelson9809
    @matthewnelson9809 3 месяца назад

    i mean ratio

  • @matthewnelson9809
    @matthewnelson9809 3 месяца назад

    i was alway told not ot talk that ay with out checking out at last once too the lord or some pray not to bring or frant those thing peole dont want htrew jokes and games angey you knw of out of ration to amen

  • @ava_bndrabbs1111
    @ava_bndrabbs1111 3 года назад +1

    I wanna be straight cause I'm tired of being discriminated

  • @empireofengland6039
    @empireofengland6039 2 года назад

    I want change my sexualty from bi to asexual

    • @boy5580
      @boy5580 2 года назад

      Lol me too
      I think I am also bi

    • @boy5580
      @boy5580 2 года назад

      Maybe electric shock without seeing the person we want to attracted to would help to become asexual

  • @krystinmcdonald1346
    @krystinmcdonald1346 5 лет назад +16

    This is so toxic

    • @shaanp9796
      @shaanp9796 4 года назад +5

      Krystin McDonald How so? Read the description/ watch the 2nd half. He’s not actually anti-LGBT.

    • @Jake-tc3zl
      @Jake-tc3zl 3 года назад +1

      Its not anti-LGBT bruh

    • @zlxjtvpxk7669
      @zlxjtvpxk7669 3 года назад

      Single brain-cell activists are toxic

    • @ejs3563
      @ejs3563 2 года назад +1

      Watch the whole video?

  • @dhirajgore8306
    @dhirajgore8306 3 года назад +3

    if you do not know iPod phone, shame on you. LOL. iPod phone?😂😂. Since when apple designed iPod phones.😂😂

  • @skyisthelimit9897
    @skyisthelimit9897 4 года назад +6

    This is too damn funny! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @bobjones42069
    @bobjones42069 3 года назад +1

    bald kiryu