That sentence got right into my heart, soo heavy, soo heavy and soo true 💯🌠 You guys are amazing, fantastic, spectacular. A real emotional big thank you to you two. My thank you is in to much emotion to even find a word for it but the closest to it would be thank you. Peace, Love, Light. Hope you are doing the best there is, thank you 🙏
It took me a while to understand that the best thing I could do for me & my twin was to do my own work and have acceptance of separation. You two know this journey and explain/share this journey better than any couple I have seen yet. I absolutely treasure stumbling onto you both. You are helping a lot of people ❤️
@@TwinFlameRevolution love you guys. I don't really understand the one aspect when you said the DM is doing work on them self by using drugs or alcohol and cheating? You are basically just enabling their bad behavior by allowing that. You're basically saying it's okay to a loser because it requires no work it's escapism. Or are you just saying they need to go through these negative experiences before they can rise?
James Cadzow hi! It’s not about enabling bad behavior, its about understanding that certain experiences are chosen by individuals to grow, experience and gain clarity. We are not saying that you should blindly endure or affirm behavior that doesn’t work for you, we are highlighting that even what we call “bad” behavior can bring growth through experience, contrast which brings clarity in a dualistic world.
@@TwinFlameRevolution that makes a lot more sense thanks for clearing that up. I'm actually the DF and she's the DM. I guess I can relate to that because I used to be an alcoholic 9 years ago and I basically had to hit rock bottom before I can start to heal because I was just prolonging my happiness by drinking everyday and was in such denial. I finally woke up one day and said I can't live my life like this anymore. I'm only hurting the people I love the most and I'm hurting myself even more.
I too have reached the conclusion I am not ready for the reunion. I literally dug so deep into my shadows I uncovered the real block and I realize I need time to address it. If she came back today I think I would be tempted to reject her out of fear and anger and that petty need for revenge. I would either hurt her or hurt myself by trying to please her too much and being in authentic and insecure. It's really eye opening to realize you are the reason your dreams don't come true. For me it's always because on the other side of sadness and yearning and anger and pain is the fear of being loved and seen. I am not ready and I am proud of that. It means I have plenty of time to work on me right now. And that is actually what I need. Thank you so much for this video. It came at the perfect time.
Vertiline Black I can fully agree with you on this. I've been experiencing the exact same blocks. And it's so strange too. Because I've been feeling like death noticing how much work I need to do on myself and feeling utterly rejected by my twin. Not feeling good enough. Then fear overwhelming me in the separation. Pushing my focus so hard on my twin. What's my twin doing, twin doesn't care, there must be someone else. Twin this twin that and I'm like dying because I literally feel the separation. Then going into a cycle of just expressions. Same crap using different words with no response. Then from that going into hurting myself by trying to please twin just to desperately try to keep twin for throwing me away entirely. Feeling weak and pathetic judging my twin going back and forth between hate and resentment and then longing and love over and over again. Just a hot mess. Then just today twin opens up communications with me and BOOM dov and nicole upload this video. Talk about epic timing about whats going on. I wish you so much success with your work. Thanks for sharing. You have helped me realize how I am not alone
I absolutely love y’all! I married my twin flame last year (on 11/11 of course) and quickly realized that the “work” had just begun. Thank you for being my guiding light through this marriage/reunion. I don’t know how I would navigate this beautiful love story without your transparent insight and wise perspective. ❤️
I have been working my butt of for a year now - awakening started about 3.5 years ago but my intense self healing has been a year now and holy the transformation is incredible!! I’m talking hours a day. Light language, frequencies, meditation, journaling, therapy, watching videos like this, talking with other DFs on a similar path......
It's funny how you can hear something once and think you understood it, but come back years later and hear it again with totally new ears. Thank you two for all of the ways you've made this world better just by being in it. 💕
Even if you feel like you are "done" with the twin flame journey, there's no getting off of it. You can try to ignore it....but you are still a twin. Your energy is still going directly to your masculine, either pulling them away and pulling them back in. your soul isn't going to let you NOT do the work. Sure, you can slow it down by resisting....but you cant stop it. There is no stopping or going backwards or undoing it
Oh man this made me cry. My twin told me that we aren’t meant to come into reunion in this life time. They told me we are meant to just be friends. The heartbreak is just like you said, there are moments when I feel like I can’t breathe. How do we know if they aren’t a false twin rejecting us to teach us to overcome rejection? There are moments when I’m just like “I have to accept their rejection.” And every time I do I sink into this weird hole of what feels like emptiness. Not because I’m not whole but because it feels like my purpose is being challenged. I sure wish I could afford your coaching
I have been watching so many of your videos lately and I can’t stop the tears as my heart is cracking wide open. I saw my twin for the first time in 3 years and I finally realised that why I was passing the blame onto him for not doing the work, not only was I keeping myself stuck, I wasn’t giving him the love and credit he deserves. When we went into separation, I didn’t even know what twin flames were but when we spent 24 hours together recently, I saw who we both were at the core and it was beautiful, I don’t even have the words 🙏😍 Thanks to you both for all the amazing work you do. I love you both so much 💞🙌😇✨
Watching this and it's 1.11. This has assured me I'm on the right path. I am so appreciative and grateful for my twin because although we're physically separated and haven't been in contact for years, she helped me found God and that's all it matters to me. Even if she comes back into my life or not, I'm just blessed I went thru hell so I can come out strong.
Thank you for this video. Woke up from a nightmare and felt so much anger I could not go back to sleep. Stumbled upon your video and now I feel more peaceful, calmer. Thank you TFR 🔥❤️
Oh this is gold. U have no idea how many times I’ve said Chris is so not on my level....he needs to step up right for us to be in Union! “Oh I don’t want him back until he’s woke because I can’t stand his low vibe behaviour” - THANK YOU for shifting my perspective.
You are the only twin flame couple I’ve been drawn back to again and again. I knew there was a reason I had to watch this. You’re relationship mirrors mine in soooo many ways. I’m the spiritual one doing the hard out spiritual energy work....he’s the one diving into addiction, deceptive behaviour, EGO....and for the longest time I had the mind set that he wasn’t doing the work and I was doing it all and he was just running and avoiding and being weak....and literally only the last month I’ve started to shift out of grief and anger and back into my heart....and now I feel nothing but live for him and holding space for our FINAL reunion that my intuition and spirit have shown me is so close now! Last year and this year thus far was a journey to self live for me, to clear abandonment karma, the illusion of separation, unhealthy attachment, etc etc. and finally I feel grateful for him and this journey not resentful.
Thank you ❤❤❤ I am not in my truth or in my power. I am dancing around the margins, flirting with the possibility of being who I am, but I am nowhere near healed or ready to remove the mask (which I have only ever done... partially... with my twin). Twinsy isn't ready either. Plus we haven't met in person yet. I think that needs to happen so we can continue to trigger each other, but more intensely. Every time he comes back (like a boomerang lol), we have a wonderful time goofing around, and we trigger each other and then he takes off again. It's so silent and under the surface, the triggering. But it really does heal. It hurts like a bitch too. So does separation. I cry every day. But it's good crying lol Every time I think of him, I just send him love... then I do or say something nice to myself because I deserve the love too. This is the best work I have ever done... and the most painful. Hands down. Labour pains got nothing on this.
Oh, man....this is so timely for me!!! Spent last night and this a.m. looking at how I want to work on focusing on me (because childhood taught me otherwise...). I know my habits need to change! So, I'm working on observing myself and redirecting that little girl who blames and is defensive. Also, you're showing me how I keep intoning "I'm not texting him anymore...he has to show up, ready to come back to me.....he has to bring flowers and take me to dinner to talk....!!! etc, etc" The old dating paradigm, right? So, I just made myself a sign for my work space to take the place of that inner message. It says "my love will come to me in a loving way when he's ready to show up for us. I release expectations of How and When." Any input/suggestions are welcome! Thanx mucho for your heart-centered work. You 2 Rock!!
I know this video is from some months ago so you may not see this, but I wanted to put the energy out there. This is the 2nd video I've watched from you both and it brought me to tears. I wasn't specifically thinking of my twin (although I do daily), but I felt a block arise as I planned to pursue my mission independently. Nicole, your energy is so powerful. When you said that holding the space and holding love is not weak, it triggered me and I know that's where I'm blocked. I go thru waves of judging myself for holding space and onto love. It feels good for a while, then it feels stupid and foolish. It makes me fear going after my mission. Putting my heart and gifts out there...maybe no one will recognize the value. So thank you. I know that what I'm doing is the right thing, even if I never see physical reunion. Ultimately, I trust him to find his way and know he's doing what he needs to be doing. I will continue to love him no more or less...but my heart aches regularly for his physical presence and to share our lives together....
I'm still trying to figure out whether this twin flame thing is real, or whether this person is really my twin flame. It's a really confusing but having this videos that remind me to focus on the self and practice unconditional love for myself and others is really really really helpful. Because it's really hard to pull myself out of this "fuck you for leaving me, I feel like you don't care about me at all" moments. And these videos do that, so thanks ladies!
I’ve been in separation for 39 years now. I have gotten info over and over that he is bad for me and a false twin. We are married to other people. I inadvertently contacted him but was not in a chasing mode and never thought it would work. But contact happened and it’s less than two years since we spoke the last time. I’ve drawn my boundary and compassionately encouraged contact only when he is interested in owning his behavior. Thank you Nic for reminding me that to chase is to take away his progress. I’m doing the work. I’m growing towards forgiveness. I’m accepting, with the ho’oponopono, little by little, any eventuality of the future I just want to thank the both of you for your wisdom and your presence. I am really connected to Nicole which surprises me because I hold the divine feminine aspect and have felt so frustrated with the masculine. Divine. Thank you.
Two years later finding this, and it's reassuring because I feel my twin drifting further away and I feel myself detaching but working too... This gives me hope that we'll find each other again in time.
Oh babes! I just found You on YT and started from this vid - I'M SOOO ATRACTED BY YOU'RE ENERGY! ❤️❤️❤️ Feel You deeply! ✨ Thank You amazingly for being authentic and being here! 🤍🙏✨
This is so very true, thanks for your wise perspective. Been in this journey for the last three years, I can tell that when one is doing the work, the other is also working on something, but in a different way. I am the feminine part, I really do my inner work and despite de fact that my twin seems disconnected, because we are super telapathic I can feel in my body, in my soul, that he is purging, trying to find a way to deal with all the intense emotions that this journey brings us. I hated him in the beginning, but this journey is all about ourselves and the unique possible way is finding love and peace within. It is really good to hear advice from genuine twin flames, since there are a lot of mistaken informations about TF on the internet. You both have a generous energy, full of passion and purpose, wish you all the best!
you two are just such an earthy, relatable , reassuring influence for me right now. I'm in the middle of another little release and your words just soothe and heal me. From the bottom of my heart thank you ladies xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Goshhh LOVE you and LOOOVE your realness, laughing, sneezing, all of it so much ♥️ I really had a shift when Nicole talked about acknowledging the work the masculine is doing, that it looks different. And later Dov saying that even if they're not so concious, it's something I've always wondered and makes me feel like we're really in it together 😊 Thank you thank you thank you
My masculine and have been through it just as you described. Your videos; in this past week alone have helped me move mountains in the understanding and changing my perspective of my twin. 6 years of the same patterns coming up; always right in line with mercury retrograde. But every time we walked our journey in separation; we grew. And it’s been less and less of those same cycles each time; shorter separation; shorter in length away from each other. The work I’ve done and staying open; recognizing how my twin does his work; I’m now at peace. I see through it all. I’m patient; more kind; I’ve apologized for where I didn’t acknowledge what he was going through. We have gotten soo close energy wise. We truly see each other again. I’ve gotten better at not just giving him the answer to the “hell” he chooses to walk through. He has to walk it to get it on his own. As did I in previous years of separation. I know our path through the deceptive 3D aspects. So this time as it’s repeating; I’m now there for him. I’m his safe place again. And It’s like the movie Groundhog Day. We are almost to the end of the movie . So much peace; acceptance and love has been with me for days because I just know... I see what’s ahead and I’m grateful for it all. I see the rapid changes in us both and I’m so proud. Without spilling the tea in my manifestation phase; I’m grateful for your videos. It shined the light to help me end so many cycles and to purge all the crap. Thank you.. so very much
Love you guys!! ♥️ I stumbled upon one of your video’s back in January and I’m so glad I did. During that time I was in that phase of all the blaming and pointing at my twin. And didnt know what was going on, I didnt fully understood our connection why “seperating” felt like this intense pain once again, but that soon changed after watching some of your video’s. I realized I wasnt the only one going through this. I’m no longer pointing at my twin, right now im loving myself and him so much more. Whenever a negative thought is popping up in my mind, I’m not even allowing it to stay in my mind. I feel so much better than before and it took me 6 months to get here, im still working everyday. When the time is right, we’ll find our ways back to each other, like we always did. Thank you so much Dov and Nicole!
Wow. My twin flame and I have been experiencing separation, and we're kind of in limbo of trying to work on reunion, but both parties aren't completely ready. However, she (I believe dm incarnated in female body), has been putting in more effort than she has in a long time, to reconnect and to come back into union, and after a long night of her being out, she actually surprised me by calling in the middle of this video, and it happened to be 11:11. Even thought things aren't where I want them to be right now, I'm so thankful that she is putting in the effort necessary, and it gives me hope.
Again, you two are just spectacular. I'm so happy to know that i can confidently say that I have never been more ready for Union. I have done tremendous amounts of work, with very little effort focused on what my same-sex Twin is doing. Never badmouthed him publicly. This past week has been wildly weird, with feeling our connection and a massive increase in the flow of Love (we've not seen each other in a year). Just last night, I checked in with his energy and got this vibe of "OMG, I think I'm losing my mind." My immediate thought was "Oh, hunny, I remember what that felt like." and just held space for him to integrate whatever was going on. No freaking clue how we're going to be brought back together, but looking forward to however it plays out. 2.5 years of separation, with barely any interactions before that, has definitely run its course. So very exciting!
Man so much awareness, thank you. I am PISSED at the masculine today. When Nichole said she used to judge Dov I almost lost my shit. Literally saying in my head “who are you to judge the divine Fem?? I swear to god if you talk over her and start going off about your addiction story I’m going to throw my phone” I needed to hear Dovs humble power today. Thank you.
It's hard to believe that Nicole is a woman she talks exactly like man and all her body language but I really liked her I feel like she has a such beautiful heart
You guys made me cry, I wasn' t really paying attention to my TF recently since I am developing. I do think about him and feel him with me, I feel so much love. We spoke about our mission together, he mirrored the same mission and didn' t quiet know how to put it up. If we needed some time to develop ourselves in this mission or just take a shot together. I had to cry when you mentioned the mission, I really wished we could' ve be in more contact but recently we are going seperate ways. I know it is for a good reason, it is so important to keep on honoring our TF and the path of our own no matter how it goes. This happening to give us a way better end result so...No matter what happened in the past, I do not feel judged by my beloved and best friend
You guys came up with this one in my feed at the most ideal time! My twin & I reconnected after over a year & a 1/2 of no contact after he ended a long term toxic relationship. Things were good from the end of July through the 15th. Then right after, he changed. Stopped loving my texts, became passive & stopped responding. I’ve been confused by the shift. I know I still have work to do even though I’ve definitely done work over the years, lol but I feel he freaked out about how much he was opening up & backed out. I wasn’t expecting a relationship, only let him know I was there to support his new path.
My twin and I are married and we are also in separation at the moment. We of course are two women and although I dress like the “guy” and she the “girl” I am actually the DF..it is a hard journey and it’s hard to look past the clues we have given each other that we will eventually join again. I know that when I’m around her the words “not ready” pop into my head. It’s hard to stay focus when there are so many distractions but you guys have given me some type of template on where I should start for myself. I know this is an old video of yours but I thank you for it. Much love to you both!
I just realized just now that I put my ascension aside and tried to ascend on him, not with him or with myself. It's like I turned in to an addict for him. So blind. I did some very 3d level work no higher level work at all. How can he seem so awake and so in the mud at the same time. Learning to hold space for my DM especially in separation. I am coming home to me.
Thank you. I needed this soooo much right now. This is exactly where I have been for a while now. I realized I have been giving everything to my twin who's in a bad spot while completely neglecting to look inward driving myself to insanity and sickness.
My twin held space for me for 20 years stating he knew one day he would find me again. 22 years ago we fell in love, for me it was the min I looked in his eyes. We were in the bubble love and had no idea what the connection was. We were separated by forces of nature after 2 weeks. When we finally found each other again. ( he FB me in 2013, but i didn’t get the request on my end until 2016, the most ironic explanation of divine timing). We texted each other for a year, sometime getting triggered and dropping communication for months at a time. We finally agreed to meet up at a hotel in 2017, I drove 12 hours to meet up with him.. We were suppose to spend the weekend together. ( mind you I was awake to what I think is a TF connection , the dark night of the soul had already happened, I don’t think he realized the connection) 17 hours after meeting up he told me we would got to dinner at 5 , and right after that he said he was going out to his truck, and never came back. How can someone do that... hold space for 20 year and just go ghost 😢. I am now In the process of questioning if he really is my twin. I have been working on myself and are hoping one day he will reconcile and explain what happened. (Things were intense, and both of us just had problems communicating our feelings, even though in separation I could write him books). I totally blew up his phone in anger that night and the next day. Just recently sent a text explaining why I said the things and why I was so triggered. He said he would respond later... not sure how long later is, but still trying to make improvements on me. In his text he did show me a picture though of a gift I sent him that he travels with all the time. I thought he threw it away, he said he kept it because it was important and that was all he said. I am keeping the faith he will keep his word and respond, but after the dinner thing I just don’t know. Either way I love him unconditionally ( which is something I never knew before). Is all this normal on the TF journey?
I Love you guys soooo much!!! HUGE THANK YOU!! For doing the work..and changing the world! The world desperately needs this Love!! You are soo helpful...to me and my twin flame journey..It definately gets soooo hard at times..but after the feeling of being soo hard, comes the breakthrough, comes the solution..boom!! out of nowhere..it just comes!! It is an incredibly hard journey..I 100% agree but I would never want to take it back! I feel sooooo blessed to be a part of this journey! It is a HUGE blessing from God! I too...have endured very tough times in my life...this journey is what I asked for..and I am sooo close to reunion..I can feel it. We've been separated for almost 9 months now. Thank you again for everything!!!! Much Love n Light!!!!!
I love you guys. I never understood the real concept of twin flame until I've seen your videos. An intuitive person told me tonight that she thought me and my ex are twin flames. We both need to work on ourselves. I'm actively going to work on my wounds and we'll see if in the future we can come together in a healthier place.
y'all do not know how excited and happy i am that i just opened my youtube and y'all popped up! me and my twin are queer, we are currently in separation and i just kept asking for someone i could relate to and here y'all are! thank you!
This is very inspiring. It is time for my to Experience and relearn the unconditional love. It gonna to be the way to heal myself too. And I want it to be my consistent state of being. And I do not want to be a overly sensitive cautious scared person. Thanks a lot!
I can't even express how happy I am that I've found you two!!! Thank you for keeping it real and explaining the TF connection in such an amazing way. To good, the bad and the beautiful!!!! THANK YOU!!! 💜
This is so refreshing!! I am a same sex twin flame. I am a DF watching for the first time 🌻 definitely intrigued by you two. I saw a mention of you all in the comments section of a reader I adore named here as “DIVINE CONVERSATIONS”, and I am so grateful to have found you both! Love and light 😌
What an inspiring video!!! Thanks for that perspective of two different ways to work on ourselves and to take the focus away from them! So grateful with you!
OK first of all, who are you and where did you come from?? lol I stumbled upon one of your videos and thought 'Oh they look interesting.. twin flame topic? sure why not'. That was 2 days ago and countless hours spent watching these videos. I have heard about twin flames and soul mates and I like to think I am evolving and open to these such things but hearing all of this has brought me to a new level. I'm actually not even sure what to do with this information yet lol. I believe that I may have a twin and we are currently separated, oceans between us actually and no contact. This would be our second breakup and there has always been a deep forgiveness and understanding on my part when he wants to go. I can understand why he runs. I am not in my space or taking care of myself. I have never been able to stop loving him and it never feels 'over'. Without understanding why, anytime we broke up I immediately had this enormous URGE to delve deep into myself and transform my life and be the best version of myself possible. The first time I said to myself ' this will not have been in vain, I know what I was lacking and what it cost me so I will not let that happen again'. This time however, I knew I was enormously triggered and had a lot of pain to deal with and I stopped loving myself and being true to who I really am and honouring that and immediately got to work.. Its been 7 months, today actually, and all I can think now is I wonder what happens next. Will we ever reconnect? Either way I know I am loving and trusting in myself more and more every day. You both are gems. I can't even. Keep up the amazing work! Lots of love. End rant lol Ps. I literally created an account so I could comment on your video lol #obsessed
Honestly, I am in this place of triggers and being totally overwhelmed by emotions. I have been feeling reunion is very close then out of nowhere the shit has hit the fan. It’s so hard to believe my twin loves me when I am seeing things that do not seem loving in return. I completely understand how this works but it’s so hard to understand that aspect when I feel so much pain. It’s tough
i love you both so much! watched u and felt a really strong connection like im getting connected to my higher vibration. thank you good job you guys! wishing you strength, good luck, light and love with all that you do for our exsistance here. Really glad I found u..
You guys are awesome. 🦋 I thought I met my twin, but it was my near twin. I am yet to meet my twin. I have no idea who he is but I know his name. That’s it. I am working through my ego, fears and holding space with no expectation of reunion. It’s definitely a process.
So much pain.... excruciating...separation.... cried all thru this like a wee babe.... Thankyou for reminding me yet again..... love you both..... i will keep working.... so much pain.✨✨
I love this unconditional love ❤💪you guys share it with us too and it is great. I did unsubscribe a lot of readers bcause i feel i want to focus on me. Not on what is dm doing. He will do what he has too. I give that to god
yessssssss I haven't seen him for two months then he shows up it was obvious he hasn't done all his healing I'm like go back home finish healing or I can't be with you he cried do hard which he doesn't do so I know he is trying to heal and learning but he's not ready for this union I don't want to separate again 3 months down the road I would rather get it right the first time
Oh my god this helped me soo much! I cried my eyes out 10 min into the video...so loving and it guiding me back to light and truth. Love you soo much, you are so precious and gifted ❤️❤️
I've recently found a new focus on me, expressing myself through art and my blog and not obsessing about my twin. Of course, now my twin wants to meet up again and I would love to, but I feel worried that I will drift off into her and lose track of the momentum I have on my own stuff. I appreciate your video today - brilliant. x Love you both xxx
Just seeing thus feb 2021 and my twin came into physical union bk in august and he even said ..maybe he thought he was ready when maybe he wasn't he loved me past his fears ..and one thinks once ur in physical union things will be be like a traditional relationship and omg was i wrong triggers and ghosting and inconsistency is sooo real ..this still a rollercoaster and idk what i should be doing now other than give him his space
“This world is so conditional, but you came here to be unconditional!” 😭😭😭 I love you guys!!
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That sentence got right into my heart, soo heavy, soo heavy and soo true 💯🌠
You guys are amazing, fantastic, spectacular. A real emotional big thank you to you two. My thank you is in to much emotion to even find a word for it but the closest to it would be thank you.
Peace, Love, Light. Hope you are doing the best there is, thank you 🙏
It took me a while to understand that the best thing I could do for me & my twin was to do my own work and have acceptance of separation. You two know this journey and explain/share this journey better than any couple I have seen yet. I absolutely treasure stumbling onto you both. You are helping a lot of people ❤️
Shelly Watson thank you! We are so honored to hear that and that we are of service. We love all of you dearly
@@TwinFlameRevolution love you guys. I don't really understand the one aspect when you said the DM is doing work on them self by using drugs or alcohol and cheating? You are basically just enabling their bad behavior by allowing that. You're basically saying it's okay to a loser because it requires no work it's escapism. Or are you just saying they need to go through these negative experiences before they can rise?
James Cadzow hi! It’s not about enabling bad behavior, its about understanding that certain experiences are chosen by individuals to grow, experience and gain clarity. We are not saying that you should blindly endure or affirm behavior that doesn’t work for you, we are highlighting that even what we call “bad” behavior can bring growth through experience, contrast which brings clarity in a dualistic world.
@@TwinFlameRevolution that makes a lot more sense thanks for clearing that up. I'm actually the DF and she's the DM. I guess I can relate to that because I used to be an alcoholic 9 years ago and I basically had to hit rock bottom before I can start to heal because I was just prolonging my happiness by drinking everyday and was in such denial. I finally woke up one day and said I can't live my life like this anymore. I'm only hurting the people I love the most and I'm hurting myself even more.
Awww I love the way nicole looks at Dov with heart eyes. 😍😍
Jessica Zamarripa my favorite part of their videos 😌
I too have reached the conclusion I am not ready for the reunion. I literally dug so deep into my shadows I uncovered the real block and I realize I need time to address it. If she came back today I think I would be tempted to reject her out of fear and anger and that petty need for revenge. I would either hurt her or hurt myself by trying to please her too much and being in authentic and insecure. It's really eye opening to realize you are the reason your dreams don't come true. For me it's always because on the other side of sadness and yearning and anger and pain is the fear of being loved and seen. I am not ready and I am proud of that. It means I have plenty of time to work on me right now. And that is actually what I need. Thank you so much for this video. It came at the perfect time.
Vertiline Black I can fully agree with you on this. I've been experiencing the exact same blocks. And it's so strange too. Because I've been feeling like death noticing how much work I need to do on myself and feeling utterly rejected by my twin. Not feeling good enough. Then fear overwhelming me in the separation. Pushing my focus so hard on my twin. What's my twin doing, twin doesn't care, there must be someone else. Twin this twin that and I'm like dying because I literally feel the separation. Then going into a cycle of just expressions. Same crap using different words with no response. Then from that going into hurting myself by trying to please twin just to desperately try to keep twin for throwing me away entirely. Feeling weak and pathetic judging my twin going back and forth between hate and resentment and then longing and love over and over again. Just a hot mess. Then just today twin opens up communications with me and BOOM dov and nicole upload this video. Talk about epic timing about whats going on. I wish you so much success with your work. Thanks for sharing. You have helped me realize how I am not alone
Vertiline Black what a truthful and intense realization. We love you and are humbled to have been of service
I don't think I'm on a TF journey at all. I just love watching you two!
I absolutely love y’all! I married my twin flame last year (on 11/11 of course) and quickly realized that the “work” had just begun. Thank you for being my guiding light through this marriage/reunion. I don’t know how I would navigate this beautiful love story without your transparent insight and wise perspective. ❤️
bernadoobie so many blessings on you both. We are so happy we can serve ❤️
The way Nicole is staring at Dov during this video 😍❤️. Thank you for everything guys.
Nikki Nocturnal 🙏💜🙏
I have been working my butt of for a year now - awakening started about 3.5 years ago but my intense self healing has been a year now and holy the transformation is incredible!! I’m talking hours a day. Light language, frequencies, meditation, journaling, therapy, watching videos like this, talking with other DFs on a similar path......
It's funny how you can hear something once and think you understood it, but come back years later and hear it again with totally new ears. Thank you two for all of the ways you've made this world better just by being in it. 💕
Even if you feel like you are "done" with the twin flame journey, there's no getting off of it. You can try to ignore it....but you are still a twin. Your energy is still going directly to your masculine, either pulling them away and pulling them back in. your soul isn't going to let you NOT do the work. Sure, you can slow it down by resisting....but you cant stop it. There is no stopping or going backwards or undoing it
Oh man this made me cry. My twin told me that we aren’t meant to come into reunion in this life time. They told me we are meant to just be friends. The heartbreak is just like you said, there are moments when I feel like I can’t breathe. How do we know if they aren’t a false twin rejecting us to teach us to overcome rejection? There are moments when I’m just like “I have to accept their rejection.” And every time I do I sink into this weird hole of what feels like emptiness. Not because I’m not whole but because it feels like my purpose is being challenged. I sure wish I could afford your coaching
I have been watching so many of your videos lately and I can’t stop the tears as my heart is cracking wide open. I saw my twin for the first time in 3 years and I finally realised that why I was passing the blame onto him for not doing the work, not only was I keeping myself stuck, I wasn’t giving him the love and credit he deserves. When we went into separation, I didn’t even know what twin flames were but when we spent 24 hours together recently, I saw who we both were at the core and it was beautiful, I don’t even have the words 🙏😍 Thanks to you both for all the amazing work you do. I love you both so much 💞🙌😇✨
Watching this and it's 1.11. This has assured me I'm on the right path. I am so appreciative and grateful for my twin because although we're physically separated and haven't been in contact for years, she helped me found God and that's all it matters to me. Even if she comes back into my life or not, I'm just blessed I went thru hell so I can come out strong.
Thank you for this video. Woke up from a nightmare and felt so much anger I could not go back to sleep. Stumbled upon your video and now I feel more peaceful, calmer. Thank you TFR 🔥❤️
Oh this is gold. U have no idea how many times I’ve said Chris is so not on my level....he needs to step up right for us to be in Union! “Oh I don’t want him back until he’s woke because I can’t stand his low vibe behaviour” - THANK YOU for shifting my perspective.
You are the only twin flame couple I’ve been drawn back to again and again. I knew there was a reason I had to watch this. You’re relationship mirrors mine in soooo many ways. I’m the spiritual one doing the hard out spiritual energy work....he’s the one diving into addiction, deceptive behaviour, EGO....and for the longest time I had the mind set that he wasn’t doing the work and I was doing it all and he was just running and avoiding and being weak....and literally only the last month I’ve started to shift out of grief and anger and back into my heart....and now I feel nothing but live for him and holding space for our FINAL reunion that my intuition and spirit have shown me is so close now! Last year and this year thus far was a journey to self live for me, to clear abandonment karma, the illusion of separation, unhealthy attachment, etc etc. and finally I feel grateful for him and this journey not resentful.
Thank you ❤❤❤ I am not in my truth or in my power. I am dancing around the margins, flirting with the possibility of being who I am, but I am nowhere near healed or ready to remove the mask (which I have only ever done... partially... with my twin). Twinsy isn't ready either. Plus we haven't met in person yet. I think that needs to happen so we can continue to trigger each other, but more intensely. Every time he comes back (like a boomerang lol), we have a wonderful time goofing around, and we trigger each other and then he takes off again. It's so silent and under the surface, the triggering. But it really does heal. It hurts like a bitch too. So does separation. I cry every day. But it's good crying lol Every time I think of him, I just send him love... then I do or say something nice to myself because I deserve the love too. This is the best work I have ever done... and the most painful. Hands down. Labour pains got nothing on this.
Oh, man....this is so timely for me!!! Spent last night and this a.m. looking at how I want to work on focusing on me (because childhood taught me otherwise...). I know my habits need to change! So, I'm working on observing myself and redirecting that little girl who blames and is defensive. Also, you're showing me how I keep intoning "I'm not texting him anymore...he has to show up, ready to come back to me.....he has to bring flowers and take me to dinner to talk....!!! etc, etc" The old dating paradigm, right? So, I just made myself a sign for my work space to take the place of that inner message. It says "my love will come to me in a loving way when he's ready to show up for us. I release expectations of How and When." Any input/suggestions are welcome! Thanx mucho for your heart-centered work. You 2 Rock!!
Love this!
I love yoooouuuuuuu guys, thanks a lot, so supporting!
I know this video is from some months ago so you may not see this, but I wanted to put the energy out there. This is the 2nd video I've watched from you both and it brought me to tears.
I wasn't specifically thinking of my twin (although I do daily), but I felt a block arise as I planned to pursue my mission independently. Nicole, your energy is so powerful. When you said that holding the space and holding love is not weak, it triggered me and I know that's where I'm blocked. I go thru waves of judging myself for holding space and onto love. It feels good for a while, then it feels stupid and foolish.
It makes me fear going after my mission. Putting my heart and gifts out there...maybe no one will recognize the value.
So thank you. I know that what I'm doing is the right thing, even if I never see physical reunion. Ultimately, I trust him to find his way and know he's doing what he needs to be doing. I will continue to love him no more or less...but my heart aches regularly for his physical presence and to share our lives together....
Nicole's twin is Christina Lopes. Go search her on youtube. They are look alike 😂
I'm still trying to figure out whether this twin flame thing is real, or whether this person is really my twin flame. It's a really confusing but having this videos that remind me to focus on the self and practice unconditional love for myself and others is really really really helpful. Because it's really hard to pull myself out of this "fuck you for leaving me, I feel like you don't care about me at all" moments. And these videos do that, so thanks ladies!
We have a ton of tools for you to use. If you would like more information, send us an email at info@twinflamerevolution.com.
going through the same fucking shit T_T
I’ve been in separation for 39 years now. I have gotten info over and over that he is bad for me and a false twin. We are married to other people. I inadvertently contacted him but was not in a chasing mode and never thought it would work. But contact happened and it’s less than two years since we spoke the last time. I’ve drawn my boundary and compassionately encouraged contact only when he is interested in owning his behavior. Thank you Nic for reminding me that to chase is to take away his progress. I’m doing the work. I’m growing towards forgiveness. I’m accepting, with the ho’oponopono, little by little, any eventuality of the future I just want to thank the both of you for your wisdom and your presence. I am really connected to Nicole which surprises me because I hold the divine feminine aspect and have felt so frustrated with the masculine. Divine. Thank you.
Dov style is so beautiful.😍❤❤
Two years later finding this, and it's reassuring because I feel my twin drifting further away and I feel myself detaching but working too... This gives me hope that we'll find each other again in time.
Oh babes! I just found You on YT and started from this vid - I'M SOOO ATRACTED BY YOU'RE ENERGY! ❤️❤️❤️ Feel You deeply! ✨
Thank You amazingly for being authentic and being here! 🤍🙏✨
This is so very true, thanks for your wise perspective. Been in this journey for the last three years, I can tell that when one is doing the work, the other is also working on something, but in a different way. I am the feminine part, I really do my inner work and despite de fact that my twin seems disconnected, because we are super telapathic I can feel in my body, in my soul, that he is purging, trying to find a way to deal with all the intense emotions that this journey brings us. I hated him in the beginning, but this journey is all about ourselves and the unique possible way is finding love and peace within. It is really good to hear advice from genuine twin flames, since there are a lot of mistaken informations about TF on the internet. You both have a generous energy, full of passion and purpose, wish you all the best!
This video is old but appeared on my recommendations just in time!! I love you too, I needed this
you two are just such an earthy, relatable , reassuring influence for me right now. I'm in the middle of another little release and your words just soothe and heal me. From the bottom of my heart thank you ladies xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Goshhh LOVE you and LOOOVE your realness, laughing, sneezing, all of it so much ♥️ I really had a shift when Nicole talked about acknowledging the work the masculine is doing, that it looks different. And later Dov saying that even if they're not so concious, it's something I've always wondered and makes me feel like we're really in it together 😊 Thank you thank you thank you
By far my favorite video, woah 🙏✨🙏
My masculine and have been through it just as you described. Your videos; in this past week alone have helped me move mountains in the understanding and changing my perspective of my twin. 6 years of the same patterns coming up; always right in line with mercury retrograde. But every time we walked our journey in separation; we grew. And it’s been less and less of those same cycles each time; shorter separation; shorter in length away from each other. The work I’ve done and staying open; recognizing how my twin does his work; I’m now at peace. I see through it all. I’m patient; more kind; I’ve apologized for where I didn’t acknowledge what he was going through. We have gotten soo close energy wise. We truly see each other again. I’ve gotten better at not just giving him the answer to the “hell” he chooses to walk through. He has to walk it to get it on his own. As did I in previous years of separation. I know our path through the deceptive 3D aspects. So this time as it’s repeating; I’m now there for him. I’m his safe place again. And It’s like the movie Groundhog Day. We are almost to the end of the movie . So much peace; acceptance and love has been with me for days because I just know... I see what’s ahead and I’m grateful for it all. I see the rapid changes in us both and I’m so proud. Without spilling the tea in my manifestation phase; I’m grateful for your videos. It shined the light to help me end so many cycles and to purge all the crap. Thank you.. so very much
Love you guys!! ♥️ I stumbled upon one of your video’s back in January and I’m so glad I did. During that time I was in that phase of all the blaming and pointing at my twin. And didnt know what was going on, I didnt fully understood our connection why “seperating” felt like this intense pain once again, but that soon changed after watching some of your video’s. I realized I wasnt the only one going through this. I’m no longer pointing at my twin, right now im loving myself and him so much more. Whenever a negative thought is popping up in my mind, I’m not even allowing it to stay in my mind. I feel so much better than before and it took me 6 months to get here, im still working everyday. When the time is right, we’ll find our ways back to each other, like we always did. Thank you so much Dov and Nicole!
Wow. My twin flame and I have been experiencing separation, and we're kind of in limbo of trying to work on reunion, but both parties aren't completely ready. However, she (I believe dm incarnated in female body), has been putting in more effort than she has in a long time, to reconnect and to come back into union, and after a long night of her being out, she actually surprised me by calling in the middle of this video, and it happened to be 11:11. Even thought things aren't where I want them to be right now, I'm so thankful that she is putting in the effort necessary, and it gives me hope.
Again, you two are just spectacular.
I'm so happy to know that i can confidently say that I have never been more ready for Union. I have done tremendous amounts of work, with very little effort focused on what my same-sex Twin is doing. Never badmouthed him publicly. This past week has been wildly weird, with feeling our connection and a massive increase in the flow of Love (we've not seen each other in a year).
Just last night, I checked in with his energy and got this vibe of "OMG, I think I'm losing my mind." My immediate thought was "Oh, hunny, I remember what that felt like." and just held space for him to integrate whatever was going on.
No freaking clue how we're going to be brought back together, but looking forward to however it plays out. 2.5 years of separation, with barely any interactions before that, has definitely run its course. So very exciting!
Such a beautiful couple literally helping me cope through such a . Difficult time with my twin
I need to watch you guys so I can handle it more efficiently and have hope. Seriously, thank you so very much for the awareness 💗
While I was in 5D, you guys were definitely by my side
Man so much awareness, thank you. I am PISSED at the masculine today. When Nichole said she used to judge Dov I almost lost my shit. Literally saying in my head “who are you to judge the divine Fem?? I swear to god if you talk over her and start going off about your addiction story I’m going to throw my phone” I needed to hear Dovs humble power today. Thank you.
re watching in 2021, ya'll are lifting souls up!!!
It's hard to believe that Nicole is a woman she talks exactly like man and all her body language but I really liked her I feel like she has a such beautiful heart
libra girl I never put too much thought into it
Thank you so much for the work that you do for the TF community❤️
“yasssss” always love when nicole says that 😂😂
Thank you for your love, guidance and support!
Guys, you are pure light 🫶✨🧚🏻♂️
Aww the way Nicole looks at Dove is full of unconditional love😍 I can feel it. You guys are amazing ❤️
You guys made me cry, I wasn' t really paying attention to my TF recently since I am developing. I do think about him and feel him with me, I feel so much love. We spoke about our mission together, he mirrored the same mission and didn' t quiet know how to put it up. If we needed some time to develop ourselves in this mission or just take a shot together. I had to cry when you mentioned the mission, I really wished we could' ve be in more contact but recently we are going seperate ways. I know it is for a good reason, it is so important to keep on honoring our TF and the path of our own no matter how it goes. This happening to give us a way better end result so...No matter what happened in the past, I do not feel judged by my beloved and best friend
Ahhh the part about being frustrated about the twin resonated and explained so much. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
You guys came up with this one in my feed at the most ideal time! My twin & I reconnected after over a year & a 1/2 of no contact after he ended a long term toxic relationship. Things were good from the end of July through the 15th. Then right after, he changed. Stopped loving my texts, became passive & stopped responding. I’ve been confused by the shift.
I know I still have work to do even though I’ve definitely done work over the years, lol but I feel he freaked out about how much he was opening up & backed out. I wasn’t expecting a relationship, only let him know I was there to support his new path.
My twin and I are married and we are also in separation at the moment. We of course are two women and although I dress like the “guy” and she the “girl” I am actually the DF..it is a hard journey and it’s hard to look past the clues we have given each other that we will eventually join again. I know that when I’m around her the words “not ready” pop into my head. It’s hard to stay focus when there are so many distractions but you guys have given me some type of template on where I should start for myself. I know this is an old video of yours but I thank you for it. Much love to you both!
I just realized just now that I put my ascension aside and tried to ascend on him, not with him or with myself. It's like I turned in to an addict for him. So blind. I did some very 3d level work no higher level work at all. How can he seem so awake and so in the mud at the same time. Learning to hold space for my DM especially in separation. I am coming home to me.
You guys are just amazing in every way. God bless your work and every word you say. This is a blessing to twins.... i love you guys...
Thank you. I needed this soooo much right now. This is exactly where I have been for a while now. I realized I have been giving everything to my twin who's in a bad spot while completely neglecting to look inward driving myself to insanity and sickness.
My twin held space for me for 20 years stating he knew one day he would find me again. 22 years ago we fell in love, for me it was the min I looked in his eyes. We were in the bubble love and had no idea what the connection was. We were separated by forces of nature after 2 weeks. When we finally found each other again. ( he FB me in 2013, but i didn’t get the request on my end until 2016, the most ironic explanation of divine timing). We texted each other for a year, sometime getting triggered and dropping communication for months at a time. We finally agreed to meet up at a hotel in 2017, I drove 12 hours to meet up with him.. We were suppose to spend the weekend together. ( mind you I was awake to what I think is a TF connection , the dark night of the soul had already happened, I don’t think he realized the connection) 17 hours after meeting up he told me we would got to dinner at 5 , and right after that he said he was going out to his truck, and never came back. How can someone do that... hold space for 20 year and just go ghost 😢. I am now In the process of questioning if he really is my twin. I have been working on myself and are hoping one day he will reconcile and explain what happened. (Things were intense, and both of us just had problems communicating our feelings, even though in separation I could write him books). I totally blew up his phone in anger that night and the next day. Just recently sent a text explaining why I said the things and why I was so triggered. He said he would respond later... not sure how long later is, but still trying to make improvements on me. In his text he did show me a picture though of a gift I sent him that he travels with all the time. I thought he threw it away, he said he kept it because it was important and that was all he said. I am keeping the faith he will keep his word and respond, but after the dinner thing I just don’t know. Either way I love him unconditionally ( which is something I never knew before). Is all this normal on the TF journey?
I Love you guys soooo much!!! HUGE THANK YOU!! For doing the work..and changing the world! The world desperately needs this Love!! You are soo helpful...to me and my twin flame journey..It definately gets soooo hard at times..but after the feeling of being soo hard, comes the breakthrough, comes the solution..boom!! out of nowhere..it just comes!! It is an incredibly hard journey..I 100% agree but I would never want to take it back! I feel sooooo blessed to be a part of this journey! It is a HUGE blessing from God! I too...have endured very tough times in my life...this journey is what I asked for..and I am sooo close to reunion..I can feel it. We've been separated for almost 9 months now. Thank you again for everything!!!! Much Love n Light!!!!!
Had a telepathic "I'm perfect" no "I'm perfect" moment with my twin. Laughs thanks nicole
You guys are so cute! So full of passion. Thankyou 🙏🏻💕
THANK YOU
I FEEL THAT SOMEONE UNDERSTANDS THAT I AM WORKING MY “SPIRITUAL” ASS OFF
I love you guys. I never understood the real concept of twin flame until I've seen your videos. An intuitive person told me tonight that she thought me and my ex are twin flames. We both need to work on ourselves. I'm actively going to work on my wounds and we'll see if in the future we can come together in a healthier place.
Good morning, beautiful ladies. Thank you for your devotion to the universe. 😍
First video I watched of you two..... and am in love with this Twin Flame Couple.... So much positive vibrations....
Thank you again Dov, Nicole... through your steps I can see light shining through
I luv u guys so much. I asked my guidesfor assistance to heal what separates us and they brought me you two. Magical ✨✨✨✨❤️❤️❤️❤️
You guys are 1 of the best Twinflame teachers out here thank you for always keeping it 100 sending you both love & light xx
You two are amazing. I’m in awe of the gifts of communication you share with us. Thank you! 🙏🏻❤️🤗
y'all do not know how excited and happy i am that i just opened my youtube and y'all popped up! me and my twin are queer, we are currently in separation and i just kept asking for someone i could relate to and here y'all are! thank you!
Thank you for this…I really needed this❤
This is very inspiring. It is time for my to Experience and relearn the unconditional love. It gonna to be the way to heal myself too. And I want it to be my consistent state of being. And I do not want to be a overly sensitive cautious scared person. Thanks a lot!
I can't even express how happy I am that I've found you two!!! Thank you for keeping it real and explaining the TF connection in such an amazing way. To good, the bad and the beautiful!!!! THANK YOU!!! 💜
This video was amazing! Thank you 💙
This is so refreshing!! I am a same sex twin flame. I am a DF watching for the first time 🌻 definitely intrigued by you two. I saw a mention of you all in the comments section of a reader I adore named here as “DIVINE CONVERSATIONS”, and I am so grateful to have found you both! Love and light 😌
Y’all are so awesome-love your energy! 😻 thanks for the video!
What an inspiring video!!! Thanks for that perspective of two different ways to work on ourselves and to take the focus away from them! So grateful with you!
Dove, I'm crying while watching this. Just so happy for you guys 🌱
Thank you for this video, you are giving me hope.
I needed to hear this! Thank you!
the views at this moment are 25031, added up is 11
OK first of all, who are you and where did you come from?? lol I stumbled upon one of your videos and thought 'Oh they look interesting.. twin flame topic? sure why not'. That was 2 days ago and countless hours spent watching these videos. I have heard about twin flames and soul mates and I like to think I am evolving and open to these such things but hearing all of this has brought me to a new level. I'm actually not even sure what to do with this information yet lol.
I believe that I may have a twin and we are currently separated, oceans between us actually and no contact. This would be our second breakup and there has always been a deep forgiveness and understanding on my part when he wants to go. I can understand why he runs. I am not in my space or taking care of myself. I have never been able to stop loving him and it never feels 'over'. Without understanding why, anytime we broke up I immediately had this enormous URGE to delve deep into myself and transform my life and be the best version of myself possible. The first time I said to myself ' this will not have been in vain, I know what I was lacking and what it cost me so I will not let that happen again'. This time however, I knew I was enormously triggered and had a lot of pain to deal with and I stopped loving myself and being true to who I really am and honouring that and immediately got to work.. Its been 7 months, today actually, and all I can think now is I wonder what happens next. Will we ever reconnect? Either way I know I am loving and trusting in myself more and more every day.
You both are gems. I can't even.
Keep up the amazing work! Lots of love.
End rant lol
Ps. I literally created an account so I could comment on your video lol
#obsessed
God bless you both!!!! I got soul shivers!!!! Grateful to God for you 2!!!!
Nicole you're such a rhetorical talent! Incredible how much emotion and passion is in your voice! 💠
Honestly, I am in this place of triggers and being totally overwhelmed by emotions. I have been feeling reunion is very close then out of nowhere the shit has hit the fan. It’s so hard to believe my twin loves me when I am seeing things that do not seem loving in return. I completely understand how this works but it’s so hard to understand that aspect when I feel so much pain. It’s tough
I’m praying and waiting for our reunion . Working on myself now 🙏🏼
Right on time. Exact timing. Thank you guys.
Omg I love you guys 😭😂, this video was right on time.
i love you both so much! watched u and felt a really strong connection like im getting connected to my higher vibration. thank you
good job you guys! wishing you strength, good luck, light and love with all that you do for our exsistance here. Really glad I found u..
Omg me and Dov sneezed at the same time 😭
I was literally just thinking about this and realizing that I’m not ready for my reunion and then this video pops up lol
we need u both.. thx for everything.. much love
Thank you so much for sharing ❤️
You guys are awesome. 🦋 I thought I met my twin, but it was my near twin. I am yet to meet my twin. I have no idea who he is but I know his name. That’s it. I am working through my ego, fears and holding space with no expectation of reunion. It’s definitely a process.
Its been really helpful, thank you beautiful beings.
So much pain.... excruciating...separation.... cried all thru this like a wee babe.... Thankyou for reminding me yet again..... love you both..... i will keep working.... so much pain.✨✨
Yet.... thankyou.... time to shift focus
I love this unconditional love ❤💪you guys share it with us too and it is great. I did unsubscribe a lot of readers bcause i feel i want to focus on me. Not on what is dm doing. He will do what he has too. I give that to god
EYEOPENER! SPECIFICALLY, HOW THE WORK DONE BY THE TWO IS DIFFERENT. WOW! THANKS A TON, BUDDIES XOXO
Omg BLESS you. You have opened my heart and my eyes that I can not keep them in my Head :)) LOVE YOU
yessssssss I haven't seen him for two months then he shows up it was obvious he hasn't done all his healing I'm like go back home finish healing or I can't be with you he cried do hard which he doesn't do so I know he is trying to heal and learning but he's not ready for this union I don't want to separate again 3 months down the road I would rather get it right the first time
Oh my god this helped me soo much! I cried my eyes out 10 min into the video...so loving and it guiding me back to light and truth. Love you soo much, you are so precious and gifted ❤️❤️
I love your energy guys. Been feeling the pain.
I've recently found a new focus on me, expressing myself through art and my blog and not obsessing about my twin. Of course, now my twin wants to meet up again and I would love to, but I feel worried that I will drift off into her and lose track of the momentum I have on my own stuff. I appreciate your video today - brilliant. x Love you both xxx
LOVE u guys! in trance to watch u too talk just amazing!
Just seeing thus feb 2021 and my twin came into physical union bk in august and he even said ..maybe he thought he was ready when maybe he wasn't he loved me past his fears ..and one thinks once ur in physical union things will be be like a traditional relationship and omg was i wrong triggers and ghosting and inconsistency is sooo real ..this still a rollercoaster and idk what i should be doing now other than give him his space