This is incredible!! So, so, so helpful! I will need to watch this video a few times. Your goals r beautiful! I definitely, definitely need an electronic reset! Thank you so much for sharing!
Love this video. Great work. That is a lot of goals to work on at once, and focusing on those small steps is a great idea so that the big picture isn’t too overwhelming. Having a clear why is a great way to keep yourself focused and help yourself reset when you need to. Love watching your videos
Out of all the “goal setting” vids, this one is by far the best one! I love it because there no fancy name behind it and no push as to why it’s the “ best way to achieve” or best method. Thank u for taking the time to break it down in a way that makes sense!
If you want to help people…… let me tell you that you have help me. I don’t know your whole story, but it seems like it’s something I’m familiar with. I enjoy your videos, and I wish you nothing but the best on your journey and goals.
Love this! Did something similar last year (not as detailed) and will definitely rewatch this a few more times to set myself up for success in 2023. One thing I want to try, and maybe might help you (you mentioned sometimes feeling like you’re just existing, I think you said, and I can relate), is to have a list of say 60, 45, 30, 15, 5, and 1 minute things that I can do to make some kind of progress. So say I only have 5 free minutes, instead of scrolling, I can do some journaling or meditate or put away some laundry, but instead of having to think of that thing to do or pick it from the 900 tasks floating in my head, I can just flip to the 5 minute list and pick something. Same with the other time increments. I’m hoping that makes it easier than having to come up with something from “scratch” and having too many options that I choose avoidance instead. All my best to you and yours!
oh my goodness, this is exactly what I needed today ~ thank you so much for sharing these tips and your process! You could be a life coach! I love how clearly you set out your goals and break them down, which has always been difficult for me. I'm so excited to try this out to bring some joy back into my planning and try to get myself back on course. Thank you again!
Amazing Becky !! I thought I had my goals all planned out in a good system (only started this year with proper goal planning), but OMG what a huge amount of great and useful ideas you got there !!! Thank you so much ! I’m using the Wonderland222 (A6) for my goals again next year. I’m ignoring the days, and use every week day as a different category - and they change from week to week; e.g. some weeks Finances can eff off 😊 and in other weeks that’s the main goal to look into. That I’ll keep, but I will be taking on big chunk of your guidance into the notes section where I outline the categories and individual goals. Thanks again !!
You absolutely help me! Your videos give me something to look forward to on hard days. I sometimes will click on your video just to like it, then I’ll exit out and save it for when the kids are in school and the baby is napping so that I have something in my day to look forward to that’s just for me. I hope that doesn’t sound silly, but RUclips has a way of making us viewers feel like we’re sort of friends with our favorite RUclipsrs, and you are my favorite!
Thank you so much for showing how to do this. I have been trying to figure out how to break down my goals into manageable tasks so that it isn't overwhelming. This has helped alot!
What a great video! I'm watching on a Friday and will be sitting down this weekend rewatching and taking notes. Thank you so much for all your hard work!
This is so great . I never take the time to sit down with a notebook and to do any of this. Thank you so much for the guide to breaking it down. I love how you thought out everything. I have basically been winging everything, my head cannot take it anymore. I need to free my mind. I will be rewatching this video, you explained it all and how to do it. You will feel good in your own skin very soon and will be taking lots of pics with the kids. You are already a good mom anda. good wife. We all just need a little work sometimes to realize and give ourselves credit for what we do or have done. Thanks again.
Thank you so much for this video! You really inspired me to write down my goals and make them happen! I also love your honesty about your goals. Sometimes i get embarrassed by my goals (not sure why) so seeing you say yours out loud and taking the steps to make it happen inspired me to do it! Thank you so much. Love from NYC, USA.
Super super useful! I feel we share very similar goals in life, also 40+, keep doing your videos because you really help people without even knowing! Thanks!!! 🎉
Thanks Becky! I just took the time to make my goals and the breakdowns as well. Sooooo looking forward to your new series of videos. I can’t wait! I watched your recent Sticker Haul for October and used your discount code for Alvie Planning Co. I appreciate these discount codes because in my mind I’m saying “ You can buy it! You have a discount code. It is just like buying something on sale!” Don’t tell the hubby though. 😉
Hi Becky! This was very, very useful video and thanks for the tutorial. I'm going to retire from next year in June and thus having big changes in my (income, having to manage with a lot less money to spend) and also, hopefully getting more me-time. Obviously I don't have small children anymore but my parents need my help, my mother mostly. You are helping me, a lot, with this goal planning tutorial. (btw: been using your codes for sticker shops in the UK but the taxes are so high as the UK is not in the EU anymore. Here's one goal for me to put down "planners, stickers, fountain pens, inks...." 😄 Keep up the good work Becky, I'll certainly will be buying your book whenever it will be published.
Useful, thanks! I recognise a lot of what’s going on for you, and can highly recommend the organised mum method for a cleaning routine. I was also swamped by overload and needed routines to help me get through, and I still use this one! (Took me a while though to realise she assumes you do the dishes and wipe the counters as you go) . Wishing you all the best as you move forward and reach those goals.
I normally do not watch videos as such but I actually enjoyed this video. Very informative and I do stand with you for better relationships with self and family❤️
This was just what I needed so thank you!!! I’m a homeschooling mum to 5 and juggling a lot of balls. There’s a lot a want to achieve and you breaking your goals down like this helped my type a brain see it’s doable. Would you mind sharing the link you mentioned for types of planners needed for goals please and thank you!
This was very through! I never taken the time to really drill down what I wanted. So this is a great encouragement. Will do something similar next month.
I am very much a paper + pen person, but the one place I prefer digital is for habit tracking. I can get better data points, records, etc with digital habit tracking. (Plus I can always go back and update a pretty paper tracker) There is an app called Routinery that I absolutely love for this. You can schedule routines and even put specific times for the task. For example - in your morning routine you can have "brush teeth" be set for 2 minutes and then it automatically starts a 2 minute timer. You can even set routines to specific days and times. What's super helpful for me is it tells me what time my routine should end, and it updates if I take longer or short to complete a task. I am neurodivergent and sometimes really suffer from "time blindness" or even just estimating how long something will take. There is a free/freemium version as well as a paid subscription. I think the free version limits you to like 3 routines?
For budget inspiration I would suggest Rainbow Budgets. She's great! And for your home keeping routines I'd suggest The Organized Mum Method. I have followed Flylady for 22 years but recently switched some things to fit more in the TOMM routines and 2 months in I'm really liking it. You've done a great job thinking things through and breaking them down into workable steps. Remember it's a lot! Don't get discouraged or overwhelmed trying to do everything all at once. It's a long process.
Hi Becky, Great video. Would you mind talking more about your self care routine? That’s something I’ve lacked my whole life. So much so, that I recently ended up in hospital for a few days with a life changing diagnosis. I need to make big changes and put myself first but struggle with that concept. 💜
Great on these goals. It’s never too late to make a better a life for yourself. But wow am I curious about what you’ve been thru that includes court cases! I’m so sorry to hear that.
Such a helpful video and definitely something I want to start doing and implement which is hard but your suggestions of mini actions go towards the end goal makes sense so much look forward to the rest of the videos on this 🥰
Becky this was an awesome presentation of an effective way to goal plan! You inspired me and gave me ideas on how I want to set up my 2023 yearly binder! Thank you! And I think your goals are awesome btw! Using your experience to help others have better ones- phenomenal. Best wishes!
Love this video. Was trying to figure out how to actually plan goals for next year. Let me know if you’d like to join me and and bunch of my friends in our accountability group for fitness and nutrition! ❤
Had a question for you, I am making some printables. I was wondering if I could send you the files and you could test them out and tell me what you like, don’t like that sort of thing. I like your honesty about the things you put on your channel so, this could help me out tremendously. If you don’t want to I totally get it but I thought you could get some free printables out of it and I could hear what you think, thanks Stephanie
This is the best YT video I've ever watched on goal setting. Thanks for sharing
I am going to have to watch again and take notes! This makes so much sense, thank you!
This is incredible!! So, so, so helpful! I will need to watch this video a few times. Your goals r beautiful! I definitely, definitely need an electronic reset! Thank you so much for sharing!
Love this video. Great work. That is a lot of goals to work on at once, and focusing on those small steps is a great idea so that the big picture isn’t too overwhelming. Having a clear why is a great way to keep yourself focused and help yourself reset when you need to. Love watching your videos
Out of all the “goal setting” vids, this one is by far the best one! I love it because there no fancy name behind it and no push as to why it’s the “ best way to achieve” or best method. Thank u for taking the time to break it down in a way that makes sense!
Wow, thank you! That is so kind of you to say. X
If you want to help people…… let me tell you that you have help me. I don’t know your whole story, but it seems like it’s something I’m familiar with. I enjoy your videos, and I wish you nothing but the best on your journey and goals.
Love this! Did something similar last year (not as detailed) and will definitely rewatch this a few more times to set myself up for success in 2023.
One thing I want to try, and maybe might help you (you mentioned sometimes feeling like you’re just existing, I think you said, and I can relate), is to have a list of say 60, 45, 30, 15, 5, and 1 minute things that I can do to make some kind of progress.
So say I only have 5 free minutes, instead of scrolling, I can do some journaling or meditate or put away some laundry, but instead of having to think of that thing to do or pick it from the 900 tasks floating in my head, I can just flip to the 5 minute list and pick something. Same with the other time increments.
I’m hoping that makes it easier than having to come up with something from “scratch” and having too many options that I choose avoidance instead.
All my best to you and yours!
oh my goodness, this is exactly what I needed today ~ thank you so much for sharing these tips and your process! You could be a life coach! I love how clearly you set out your goals and break them down, which has always been difficult for me. I'm so excited to try this out to bring some joy back into my planning and try to get myself back on course. Thank you again!
Agreed! Wonderful job breaking goals down in an easy to understand and implement. Also, kudos to you for being so open and honest about your goals. :)
You already help people 😊
Great video 👍
Amazing Becky !! I thought I had my goals all planned out in a good system (only started this year with proper goal planning), but OMG what a huge amount of great and useful ideas you got there !!! Thank you so much ! I’m using the Wonderland222 (A6) for my goals again next year. I’m ignoring the days, and use every week day as a different category - and they change from week to week; e.g. some weeks Finances can eff off 😊 and in other weeks that’s the main goal to look into. That I’ll keep, but I will be taking on big chunk of your guidance into the notes section where I outline the categories and individual goals. Thanks again !!
You absolutely help me! Your videos give me something to look forward to on hard days. I sometimes will click on your video just to like it, then I’ll exit out and save it for when the kids are in school and the baby is napping so that I have something in my day to look forward to that’s just for me. I hope that doesn’t sound silly, but RUclips has a way of making us viewers feel like we’re sort of friends with our favorite RUclipsrs, and you are my favorite!
Best walk thur video to setup next year goals
Thank you so much for showing how to do this. I have been trying to figure out how to break down my goals into manageable tasks so that it isn't overwhelming. This has helped alot!
What a great video! I'm watching on a Friday and will be sitting down this weekend rewatching and taking notes. Thank you so much for all your hard work!
This is so great . I never take the time to sit down with a notebook and to do any of this. Thank you so much for the guide to breaking it down. I love how you thought out everything. I have basically been winging everything, my head cannot take it anymore. I need to free my mind. I will be rewatching this video, you explained it all and how to do it. You will feel good in your own skin very soon and will be taking lots of pics with the kids. You are already a good mom anda. good wife. We all just need a little work sometimes to realize and give ourselves credit for what we do or have done. Thanks again.
Thank you so much for this video! You really inspired me to write down my goals and make them happen! I also love your honesty about your goals. Sometimes i get embarrassed by my goals (not sure why) so seeing you say yours out loud and taking the steps to make it happen inspired me to do it! Thank you so much. Love from NYC, USA.
Super super useful! I feel we share very similar goals in life, also 40+, keep doing your videos because you really help people without even knowing! Thanks!!! 🎉
I do agree with you so much. I want to achieve many of the same goals. Here’s to our journey.
You’ve done some great work and soul searching here!
This is awesome. You are sooo detailed, I can certainly learn a lot
Thanks Becky! I just took the time to make my goals and the breakdowns as well. Sooooo looking forward to your new series of videos. I can’t wait! I watched your recent Sticker Haul for October and used your discount code for Alvie Planning Co. I appreciate these discount codes because in my mind I’m saying “ You can buy it! You have a discount code. It is just like buying something on sale!” Don’t tell the hubby though. 😉
Wow! There are so many great ideas here! Thank you and good luck this year.❤
Hi Becky! This was very, very useful video and thanks for the tutorial. I'm going to retire from next year in June and thus having big changes in my (income, having to manage with a lot less money to spend) and also, hopefully getting more me-time. Obviously I don't have small children anymore but my parents need my help, my mother mostly. You are helping me, a lot, with this goal planning tutorial. (btw: been using your codes for sticker shops in the UK but the taxes are so high as the UK is not in the EU anymore. Here's one goal for me to put down "planners, stickers, fountain pens, inks...." 😄 Keep up the good work Becky, I'll certainly will be buying your book whenever it will be published.
Useful, thanks! I recognise a lot of what’s going on for you, and can highly recommend the organised mum method for a cleaning routine. I was also swamped by overload and needed routines to help me get through, and I still use this one! (Took me a while though to realise she assumes you do the dishes and wipe the counters as you go) . Wishing you all the best as you move forward and reach those goals.
I normally do not watch videos as such but I actually enjoyed this video. Very informative and I do stand with you for better relationships with self and family❤️
This was just what I needed so thank you!!! I’m a homeschooling mum to 5 and juggling a lot of balls. There’s a lot a want to achieve and you breaking your goals down like this helped my type a brain see it’s doable. Would you mind sharing the link you mentioned for types of planners needed for goals please and thank you!
Loved this video. It really helped me. Thank you. P.S. you are already a lovely lady.
thanks so much -- very helpful & simply brilliant!
I love this, so inspiring thank you!!!!!!!!!!
This was super helpful and detailed. I love how your broke it all down. I really think this will help me and I can’t wait to set it up! 😊
Bec, you are a beautiful women! Your an amazing mom and wife. Thank you for sharing your plans. I’m thinking of doing something like this too. ❤
Definitely very helpful !! ❤❤
thank you this was super helpful 👍
This was very through! I never taken the time to really drill down what I wanted. So this is a great encouragement. Will do something similar next month.
Watching from USA. Hello and thank you for a great video. You gave me so many new ideas and reminded me of a few I had forgot about 😊
I've been using the FlyLady system to get on top of clutter and cleaning and it's been helping tremendously!!
I am very much a paper + pen person, but the one place I prefer digital is for habit tracking. I can get better data points, records, etc with digital habit tracking. (Plus I can always go back and update a pretty paper tracker) There is an app called Routinery that I absolutely love for this.
You can schedule routines and even put specific times for the task. For example - in your morning routine you can have "brush teeth" be set for 2 minutes and then it automatically starts a 2 minute timer. You can even set routines to specific days and times.
What's super helpful for me is it tells me what time my routine should end, and it updates if I take longer or short to complete a task. I am neurodivergent and sometimes really suffer from "time blindness" or even just estimating how long something will take.
There is a free/freemium version as well as a paid subscription. I think the free version limits you to like 3 routines?
For budget inspiration I would suggest Rainbow Budgets. She's great! And for your home keeping routines I'd suggest The Organized Mum Method. I have followed Flylady for 22 years but recently switched some things to fit more in the TOMM routines and 2 months in I'm really liking it.
You've done a great job thinking things through and breaking them down into workable steps. Remember it's a lot! Don't get discouraged or overwhelmed trying to do everything all at once. It's a long process.
I’ve never clicked on a video so fast
Hi Becky,
Great video. Would you mind talking more about your self care routine? That’s something I’ve lacked my whole life. So much so, that I recently ended up in hospital for a few days with a life changing diagnosis. I need to make big changes and put myself first but struggle with that concept. 💜
Great on these goals. It’s never too late to make a better a life for yourself. But wow am I curious about what you’ve been thru that includes court cases! I’m so sorry to hear that.
So helpful, thank you!
Such a helpful video and definitely something I want to start doing and implement which is hard but your suggestions of mini actions go towards the end goal makes sense so much look forward to the rest of the videos on this 🥰
Becky this was an awesome presentation of an effective way to goal plan! You inspired me and gave me ideas on how I want to set up my 2023 yearly binder! Thank you! And I think your goals are awesome btw! Using your experience to help others have better ones- phenomenal. Best wishes!
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The status of my home is almost also the status of my mental health. Messy house=messy mindset, clean house=clear head
Love this video. Was trying to figure out how to actually plan goals for next year.
Let me know if you’d like to join me and and bunch of my friends in our accountability group for fitness and nutrition! ❤
Had a question for you, I am making some printables. I was wondering if I could send you the files and you could test them out and tell me what you like, don’t like that sort of thing. I like your honesty about the things you put on your channel so, this could help me out tremendously. If you don’t want to I totally get it but I thought you could get some free printables out of it and I could hear what you think, thanks Stephanie
Of cause hun. Send me an email beckymowbray@hotmail.com
Thank you so much! I will send you an email very soon 😊
I am right there with wanted to be med free but I will never be sadly I am on 25 pills a day it sucks