An Autistic Kid with OCD Who Just Wants a Best Friend

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @karleymariee
    @karleymariee 7 месяцев назад +2162

    when she said “ i think i look pretty” the PURENESS. such a sweet little soul

    • @drchelseahansen
      @drchelseahansen 7 месяцев назад +62

      That one got me. ❤ We are so thankful she knows that she is beautiful, inside and out.

    • @seanwalsh5717
      @seanwalsh5717 6 месяцев назад +17

      @@drchelseahansen Agreed. One of the great things about our L2 autistic child (like many others) is that she is unencumbered by many of the social norms and constraints that limit love, honesty, and self-expression. It is beautiful and pure.

    • @miloubroekhuis9326
      @miloubroekhuis9326 6 месяцев назад +7

      Olivia's right about being proud of the way she looks (and thinks!) :)

    • @Surfcakermachine
      @Surfcakermachine 6 месяцев назад +7

      She is so beautiful ❤❤

    • @tuudurreikop5045
      @tuudurreikop5045 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@Surfcakermachine I agree to that as well

  • @rebekahsedillo
    @rebekahsedillo 7 месяцев назад +2937

    “No, I don’t take idioms literally.” She ate you UP with that 😂😂😂

    • @threeeyedraven9264
      @threeeyedraven9264 7 месяцев назад +144

      I noticed that too lol smart kid

    • @drchelseahansen
      @drchelseahansen 7 месяцев назад +82

      That’s Olivia! 😂😂😂

    • @honorabilis1
      @honorabilis1 7 месяцев назад +30

      @@threeeyedraven9264 ya i dont know what it means even after looking it up lol

    • @HenrikBSWE
      @HenrikBSWE 6 месяцев назад +26

      That would make a great shirt.

    • @Ganjaqueen92
      @Ganjaqueen92 6 месяцев назад +43

      @@honorabilis1 idioms in Dutch are called spreekwoorden. It's something that's been said about something in different words, not literal meaning, for example what he said, it's raining cats and dogs. That's an idiom. But it's not literally raining cats and dogs, it's just raining very hard. With a lot of people on the spectrum they can't seem to identify an idiom or sarcasm. She said that she takes a lot of things VERY literally but not idioms(one of the most hard things to identify as someone on the spectrum) she was not thinking about actual cats and dogs, but did wonder if it was actually raining.

  • @PinkkElephantt
    @PinkkElephantt 2 месяца назад +374

    I find her way of speech strangely calming. I could listen to her all day.

  • @tesseract1961
    @tesseract1961 6 месяцев назад +587

    Olivia, I'm an office manager for an ophthalmology practice in Maryland. If you are near please let me know. I'd love to show you around. I have twins who are autistic. My son was interviewed on this site as well.

    • @drchelseahansen
      @drchelseahansen 6 месяцев назад +51

      Thank you so much!! Can you send a link to his video? Olivia would love to watch it. :)

    • @artsybunny8680
      @artsybunny8680 5 месяцев назад +5

      Yeah Olivia would love to watch anything from other people❤❤

    • @fionarhiannonpitbullextrao5786
      @fionarhiannonpitbullextrao5786 5 месяцев назад

      @@drchelseahansen If this is an account for Olivia's family, I would like to introduce myself. I'm Jen, 44 years old, and I just found out 3 years ago that I share Olivia's Autism diagnosis, as well as ADD / ADHD. She officially has a friend and supporter in me, I will always have her back. If Olivia likes animals, she is more than welcome to look at all the videos of my dog, Fiona Rhiannon, on my RUclips page. I also have a few videos of my cat, Sasha Grace, on here too. Just a thought, if she enjoys pets. Sending her all my love and hugs.

    • @heatherelizabeth9008
      @heatherelizabeth9008 3 месяца назад +5

      Ugh love this comment!

    • @crimnclove1970
      @crimnclove1970 3 месяца назад +13

      I am pretty sure Olivia will break grounds in the ophthalmology field. :) This girl is sharp as a whip.

  • @skyofthelivingdead
    @skyofthelivingdead 6 месяцев назад +248

    This girl is gonna make a perfect eye doctor one day.

    • @J4M.ST4RS
      @J4M.ST4RS Месяц назад +1

      What- whats that supposed to mean 😭

    • @kendra.ivy1031
      @kendra.ivy1031 Месяц назад +8

      @@J4M.ST4RSbc her interests she said are vision and eyes and glasses?? How are you confused

    • @AlecS-p4b
      @AlecS-p4b 16 дней назад

      If her interest is intense and she can get through the school to get to that line of work, and she's still into it as an adult, yes. But school can be tough for some. If she's able to go through even more higher education, are there other professions that deals with eyes? Science of some kind?

  • @ashleymarie6585
    @ashleymarie6585 7 месяцев назад +1657

    Watching this with my 5 year old son and he said “Olivia! I will be your friend!” 🥺

    • @briannakimber3179
      @briannakimber3179 7 месяцев назад +80

      That's sooo sweet

    • @debbieschultz9768
      @debbieschultz9768 6 месяцев назад +62

      What a loving little boy you have❤❤❤❤

    • @tuudurreikop5045
      @tuudurreikop5045 6 месяцев назад +39

      That's so sweet ☺️☺️♥️♥️

    • @tuudurreikop5045
      @tuudurreikop5045 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@briannakimber3179Indeed ♥️♥️🥰🥰

    • @megankhatri116
      @megankhatri116 6 месяцев назад +25

      @@tuudurreikop5045 I bet he meant it, what a nice little boy❤

  • @seanwalsh5717
    @seanwalsh5717 7 месяцев назад +987

    2:24 Sharing a special interest is a way to express LOVE for an autistic child.

    • @KiraBirb-pi6sl
      @KiraBirb-pi6sl 7 месяцев назад +39

      So true!! Our youngest, 7, has an obsession with skunks and the Tiki Room from Disney World 😂🥰 We are in the process now of redoing her room into a Tiki Skunky Tiki Room, and I think by now the entire family are experts in both skunks and Disney’s Tiki Room 😆
      The best feeling is connecting and immersing yourself into their world. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @seanwalsh5717
      @seanwalsh5717 7 месяцев назад +7

      @@KiraBirb-pi6sl 100%

    • @xyzct
      @xyzct 6 месяцев назад +6

      Never have truer words been uttered.

    • @GovilGirl
      @GovilGirl 6 месяцев назад +1

      That is just what a friend is - for nrs as well

    • @WakeupNOW888
      @WakeupNOW888 6 месяцев назад +7

      Did you know Anthony Hopkins is autistic. There are people out there who use their Special Interest to become successful. There’s a film Anthony Hopkins starred in. He was in the court room scene. He did that scene in one go because he learned all his lines!!

  • @drchelseahansen
    @drchelseahansen 7 месяцев назад +1221

    Chris, thank you so much for featuring Olivia on your channel. We have spent so many years watching your videos and learning from so many amazing interviews, and we are honored that you are sharing her story to help others. We are lucky to live in a world with you in it!

  • @NekaNicoleTheNinja
    @NekaNicoleTheNinja 6 месяцев назад +57

    “I dont take idioms literally.” -interview over. She wins. 😩🥰🖤

  • @olive6101
    @olive6101 6 месяцев назад +154

    My name is Olivia and I also am autistic and have OCD and look similar to her so I see my inner child in her 🥺 I know how hard it is to make friends being neurodivergent, I can never keep or make friends. If I could tell her anything I would say to keep being herself and you will find your people 🫶

  • @sarahf8521
    @sarahf8521 7 месяцев назад +515

    I could see Olivia growing up and becoming a wonderfully compassionate eye doctor! Or whatever she puts her mind to! 💕

    • @willows-and-reeds
      @willows-and-reeds 7 месяцев назад +24

      For sure! Olivia will do great things!

    • @grodjigoli9509
      @grodjigoli9509 7 месяцев назад +1

      Sad.😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @drchelseahansen
      @drchelseahansen 7 месяцев назад +8

      Thank you! ❤

    • @magscovers8924
      @magscovers8924 7 месяцев назад +20

      @@grodjigoli9509why on earth is this sad?

    • @kalyasaify
      @kalyasaify 6 месяцев назад +7

      she could be anything if NTs won't make it harder for her

  • @jeremysmith4620
    @jeremysmith4620 7 месяцев назад +495

    That "mhm" is amazing. The tone, the pacing, all of it is really unique and awesome. Olivia is going to make friends like crazy after this. Who wouldn't want to be her best friend? She's well spoken, polite, funny, and obviously very thoughtful about others and especially their eyewear.

    • @ygalel
      @ygalel 7 месяцев назад +29

      I knooow it’s like a signature phrase.
      I breaks me to hear that she struggles making friends 😢

    • @grodjigoli9509
      @grodjigoli9509 6 месяцев назад

      Sad.

    • @grodjigoli9509
      @grodjigoli9509 6 месяцев назад

      Sad.

    • @grodjigoli9509
      @grodjigoli9509 6 месяцев назад +1

      Sad.

    • @grodjigoli9509
      @grodjigoli9509 6 месяцев назад

      Sad.

  • @rachelg9873
    @rachelg9873 7 месяцев назад +575

    I just want her to know she isn't alone. ❤❤

    • @drchelseahansen
      @drchelseahansen 7 месяцев назад +17

      She appreciates this so much! ❤

    • @Bellakania520
      @Bellakania520 7 месяцев назад +6

      Me too

    • @AnEnemyAnemone1
      @AnEnemyAnemone1 6 месяцев назад +10

      Far from it! I’m a 25 year old man with autism and I feel very in tune with her in many ways. I would have loved to grow up with a best friend like her, she seems amazing!

    • @tuudurreikop5045
      @tuudurreikop5045 6 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@AnEnemyAnemone1I know what you're feeling. As a 21 year old male, who's also an autist, I can relate 100%. I feel way more comfortable and in tune with her than almost anyone else ever

    • @dfgbhcgvhb5126
      @dfgbhcgvhb5126 6 месяцев назад +5

      Hello from an aspergers and adhd girl from sweden

  • @gilbertcole8324
    @gilbertcole8324 6 месяцев назад +59

    I really hope she finds a best friend she really deserves it .

  • @beckiebuist803
    @beckiebuist803 6 месяцев назад +22

    She is such a sweetheart...I couldn't imagine anyone not wanting to be her friend. 😊

  • @kenrickbautista6141
    @kenrickbautista6141 7 месяцев назад +1350

    Growing up as a neurodivergent, believe me, finding and keeping friends is never easy. This isn't me being negative, I'm just speaking the truth.

    • @taoist32
      @taoist32 7 месяцев назад +72

      Very true. I had no friends growing up. Not until college, and most I found out years later are neurodiverse.

    • @kenrickbautista6141
      @kenrickbautista6141 7 месяцев назад +23

      @@taoist32 wow! Interesting. Guess you're lucky.

    • @taoist32
      @taoist32 7 месяцев назад

      @@kenrickbautista6141 Sure, but I have not made new friends since then and it’s been almost 30 years. Only two friends now, and no best friend. Not married as it is difficult to keep conversations going and be in relationships.

    • @lemondedetr
      @lemondedetr 7 месяцев назад +30

      Amen. But the few friends we make, are inconditional (I actually got that tattoed with my few people's handwriting).
      I see you, I feel you, you (all of you 💛💛).
      Olivia and everyone who feels out of place due to certain diagnosis are entitled to live a life worth living. Much love from Europe, you are not alone 🤍.

    • @lemondedetr
      @lemondedetr 7 месяцев назад +8

      @@taoist32 same. The truth never has to hurt if it is someone speaking for themselves.

  • @salmanvanoverberghe
    @salmanvanoverberghe 7 месяцев назад +368

    As an autistic person, I had the same feeling as Olivia. Dont give up, I believe in You :)

    • @MA5HAP
      @MA5HAP 6 месяцев назад +3

      same goes for you 🙃

    • @tuudurreikop5045
      @tuudurreikop5045 6 месяцев назад +1

      As someone with the same diagnose, I feel the same for her and for you ♥️♥️🥰🥰

  • @ssths
    @ssths 7 месяцев назад +142

    As an adult diagnosed late with Autism and OCD (amongst other things) Im glad this sweet little girl has very knowledgeable and caring parents who also care to help her understand her condition, and not to just learn about it themselves so they know how to deal with her. they want her to understand herself just as much. I think thats wonderful.

  • @fionarhiannonpitbullextrao5786
    @fionarhiannonpitbullextrao5786 6 месяцев назад +41

    What a pure, sweet, innocent little angel she is. I am also autistic, 44 years old, and I volunteer to be her best friend.

    • @melissashanfield1028
      @melissashanfield1028 5 месяцев назад +3

      I'm Autistic and 37 and I want to be her bff too!

    • @KalebUnger
      @KalebUnger 5 месяцев назад +3

      Sammme!

    • @fionarhiannonpitbullextrao5786
      @fionarhiannonpitbullextrao5786 5 месяцев назад +2

      Well, looks like the 3 of us are starting up her BFF club. This special has earned her 3 new BFF's thus far. Quite possibly more.

    • @wargodest
      @wargodest Месяц назад +2

      I'm autistic and 25 and same 😊 she's such a sweetheart

  • @serasaurusrex
    @serasaurusrex 6 месяцев назад +16

    She is such a sweet girl it breaks my heart the struggles she has gone through and brought a tear to my eye. I wish Olivia and her family all the best and hope she makes as many friends as possible!

  • @calvinsmyth
    @calvinsmyth 7 месяцев назад +549

    After watching, I thought, a 3D printer for making eye glass frames designed by Olivia would be trendsetting.

    • @sweingold5686
      @sweingold5686 7 месяцев назад +12

      That is a great idea!

    • @natscat4752
      @natscat4752 7 месяцев назад +2

      Yey!

    • @theskyisfallingtom
      @theskyisfallingtom 7 месяцев назад +3

      Wow! That would so great for her!😮

    • @rebeccaammon9072
      @rebeccaammon9072 7 месяцев назад +3

      Love that!!! 💗

    • @ajp1929
      @ajp1929 7 месяцев назад +3

      buying! BUYING! just sign me up and no, I am not kidding.

  • @thejhonnie
    @thejhonnie 7 месяцев назад +132

    She is gonna be a great ophthalmologist or optometrist one day. Awesome she has such a practical interest

  • @alicestbrt
    @alicestbrt 6 месяцев назад +110

    As a fellow autistic, the one message you wanna send being “hi I’m Olivia and my interests are…” is SO relatable! Sharing my special interests is a way I communicate with/show appreciation for others. Olivia you seem really awesome and I bet you have thousands of people watching who want to be your best friend! 🥰

    • @kittenmimi5326
      @kittenmimi5326 6 месяцев назад +1

      I gotta say she has good tastes

    • @juliushenry9092
      @juliushenry9092 29 дней назад +1

      Yeah. I want to be Her Best Friend. I have Autism aswell. I take everything literally also. And I also rock and forth in a seat. So I definitely relate to Her a lot

    • @juliushenry9092
      @juliushenry9092 28 дней назад

      I also have a bit of OCD but not as much as my Autism. I don't really have any friends irl. So I completely understand Her. I also have great trouble wording things

  • @chriiiiis
    @chriiiiis 2 месяца назад +4

    This video almost made me cry like a baby. She reminds me of myself as a kid, and I hope nobody dims her bright personality or makes her feel ashamed for parts of herself she can't control.

  • @vi_vader
    @vi_vader 6 месяцев назад +18

    I would love to be her friend, I wish I had a friend like her. She seems like a really nice and genuine person.

  • @rebeccac.1758
    @rebeccac.1758 7 месяцев назад +224

    Daughter looks exactly like dad, and brother looks just like mom. Cute!

    • @highbloods
      @highbloods 7 месяцев назад +17

      OMG she looks just like her dad. so cute.

    • @elisa_740
      @elisa_740 7 месяцев назад +9

      I noticed that too!

    • @nathanchung27
      @nathanchung27 6 месяцев назад +7

      Not only does she look like her dad, it also seems like they're super close. They clearly have a special connection and a beautiful bond. Very sweet to see ❤

    • @nathanchung27
      @nathanchung27 6 месяцев назад +3

      Not only does she look like her dad, it also seems like they're super close. They clearly have a special connection and a beautiful bond. Very sweet to see ❤

  • @barneythepurpledinosaur7002
    @barneythepurpledinosaur7002 7 месяцев назад +161

    She’s too good! “I don’t take idioms literally” was certainly unexpected

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      @djeechizzy9818 5 месяцев назад

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      @MarkDaniel-yl6on 5 месяцев назад

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      @leahmolly9150 5 месяцев назад

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  • @Patricia-j6w
    @Patricia-j6w 7 месяцев назад +152

    It would be fantastic if Olivia invited three friends to her house to have a get-together where they could decorate some sunglasses with all kinds of jewels, etc. I think she and them would really love this! Olivia, YOU ROCK!

    • @sue5230
      @sue5230 6 месяцев назад +9

      I think that’s a great idea!!!

  • @rilianelucifen876
    @rilianelucifen876 19 дней назад +2

    This isn't a sad interview, but I still found myself tearing up regardless. I was diagnosed with autism in adulthood and it's so emotional, seeing that same desire for connection that I've always felt reflected in another little girl.

  • @joshnova9163
    @joshnova9163 5 месяцев назад +6

    Wonderful young lady, and lovely mom. The host has a gift for bringing out the best in people.

  • @Ida-dx3mr
    @Ida-dx3mr 7 месяцев назад +117

    i'm an autistic medical student and she reminds me a lot of myself! it's the best when you see something that reminds you of your special interest and it makes you so happy. my main special interest is the molecular pathology of hematological malignancies. like olivia, i have struggled with friendship and finding a friend group, especially in medical school because i didn't have any pre-existing acquaintances. but now i can happily say that i have finally found a group of friends there! you will find your people, you just have to be patient.

    • @chaoticgood_420
      @chaoticgood_420 7 месяцев назад +6

      Omg im a cytogenetics tech(oncological) and am thinking about getting a Masters to become a pathologist assistant for hematolgical malignancies bc its super interesting, what a small world

    • @katehopper8509
      @katehopper8509 6 месяцев назад +7

      Wish I had gone to med school. Nursing school was pretty easy academically, but I REALLY struggled to connect there. So, I'm glad you found your group. I feel like, within the higher level sciences, there are probably a lot of folks on the spectrum or with autism traits - probably because being an expert with an intense focus works in those fields - just a hypothesis.

    • @magscovers8924
      @magscovers8924 6 месяцев назад

      That’s great to hear! I’m autistic and was always interested in medical stuff but my family always told me I could not do that because I wouldn’t be able to connect socially with patients and coworkers. I became a data analyst because with that, you can study or analyze any kind of special interest you want. I wish you luck in medical school.

    • @dawnapm
      @dawnapm 6 месяцев назад

      I've been hearing alot about using zero carb to treat some cancers. That it's a metabolic disease that survives and thrives on glucose and that when starved of carbs, it shrinks a lot of the time. What are your thoughts on. And if this is true, then I wonder why they supplement cancer patients with Ensure, that could potentially make their condition worse.?
      I just thought I'd take advantage of the fact that you're a med student and seeing your work with malignancy, you might find this topic interesting and be able to answer my question! Lol I'm sure you're busy and if not, that's cool too. 😁👍

    • @LevelUpNate
      @LevelUpNate Месяц назад

      ⁠@@magscovers8924 I’m sure I have a bit of autism and adhd

  • @charlenemack7040
    @charlenemack7040 7 месяцев назад +156

    I am 72 years old. I am absolutely amazed at people who are autistic. I find them to be extremely creative people. Yes sometimes a little shy, yes sometimes a little quiet… But extremely creative and loving and kind people. 😊❤️💙❤️💙

    • @AnneAndAnly
      @AnneAndAnly 6 месяцев назад +5

      THANK YOU :3💖🥹

    • @goofball2228
      @goofball2228 6 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you so much

    • @HelloKittyyQueen
      @HelloKittyyQueen 6 месяцев назад +2

      Thanks😊

    • @thecringeof2666she-her-hers-
      @thecringeof2666she-her-hers- 6 месяцев назад

      Aw that's do sweet

    • @melissashanfield1028
      @melissashanfield1028 5 месяцев назад +7

      Thank you for being so accepting. I have high functioning Autism and used to volunteer in nursing homes (it counted for High School credits as a Work Study) and it was a great match for me because I was shy but people would draw me in like "come sit next to me" and I loved listening to their stories. It gave me the strength to go to high school afterwards and get through my day. Kindness has power at any age, and you have clearly got a wonderful heart.

  • @Iamtheelorax
    @Iamtheelorax 5 месяцев назад +5

    So happy That She can talk about Autism and OCD Such a brave girl She will grow up to be such a kind Person xxx

  • @hannahbananamontana79
    @hannahbananamontana79 5 месяцев назад +3

    I love how he's so gentle and sweet with her, it's so heartwarming 💖

  • @TheSecretPassword
    @TheSecretPassword 7 месяцев назад +76

    As an autistic adult woman with OCD that also struggled to make a friend, I wish this little lady nothing but the best ❤ it’s like listening to my childhood self that had no idea why I was alone

    • @bbybudaluna
      @bbybudaluna 7 месяцев назад +8

      Right! 💗🥰

    • @blondie3743
      @blondie3743 6 месяцев назад +4

      Same, it's funny how similar the two are to begin with. I only have OCD but see my younger self in her so much.

  • @anomite121
    @anomite121 7 месяцев назад +251

    the way she says mhm is so cute ❤❤

    • @FullTimePatient37
      @FullTimePatient37 7 месяцев назад +15

      Veryyyyyyy 😇💎

    • @shoelacedonkey
      @shoelacedonkey 7 месяцев назад +22

      I wondered if that was a thing she was tought to do. As a kid I've learned to 'hum' at regular intervals in a conversation to express to the other person that you're listening to them without interupting them with actual words.

    • @anomite121
      @anomite121 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@shoelacedonkey that would explain why she says the same way every time

    • @kellymichelley
      @kellymichelley 6 месяцев назад +3

      I agree. Suuuuper cute!

    • @drchelseahansen
      @drchelseahansen 6 месяцев назад +15

      @@shoelacedonkey She wasn't. She actually just started doing her cute "mhm" thing about 6-7 months ago. Usually it is accompanied by a little thumbs up. 🥰

  • @TruggyDude
    @TruggyDude 7 месяцев назад +67

    My daughter is neurodivergent and I remember her saying the same thing about a bestie. It took her a little while to find her group of friends, but she did and you will too. I believe in you! Some of the best doctors are neurodivergent. My daughter is becoming a behavioral therapist. Young lady, you can do anything you want to if you believe you can. I wish you the absolute best of luck. Mom and Dad, you ROCK! I wish all neurodivergent parents were as awesome as you.

    • @NASCAsual
      @NASCAsual 7 месяцев назад

      Do😂

    • @drchelseahansen
      @drchelseahansen 6 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you so much! I am inspired by you, and by your daughter!

  • @Madison._..0712
    @Madison._..0712 Месяц назад +2

    People with "disabilities" are always the most pure. Olivia seems like a true angel

  • @dovahkiinlokheim2837
    @dovahkiinlokheim2837 6 месяцев назад +5

    Olivia. You are amazing. I am 35 and was diagnosed only a few years ago. You are the first person that reminds me of me. I don't feel alone thanks to you

  • @ishadow6044
    @ishadow6044 7 месяцев назад +51

    I’m glad this channel exists ❤ I don’t feel so alone

  • @Arkanius1984
    @Arkanius1984 7 месяцев назад +58

    The way the mum and dad look at their daughter, you can tell they really love her and I can see why. She is such a sweet girl who just needs a few friends in her life, the rest of her is perfect.

  • @horisontial
    @horisontial 7 месяцев назад +57

    That "mhm" is just adorable

  • @yms4355
    @yms4355 6 месяцев назад +7

    As an adult with ADHD and OCD, I LOVE learning new things about medical stuff! I love Hello Kitty, I used to have a Hello Kitty backpack when I was Olivia's age. (I still wear it from time to time- and nobody can tell me otherwise!) I wear glasses. I'm a little near sighted. My glasses are really simple in design, but I like them that way! I love answering questions, and there are SOOOO many people who do! Your guessing game was very nostalgic to hear about. You SEE, I played the same game with my siblings! Olivia is such a fun kid, and nobody could tell me otherwise! Have a nice day :)

  • @hippie_snake
    @hippie_snake 6 месяцев назад +7

    Im autistic and she reminds me so much of myself as a kid. I hope she never stops being confident and 100% herself. She has a wonderful personality and deserves all the friends in the world.

  • @nonamenoface9838
    @nonamenoface9838 7 месяцев назад +41

    As a late-diagnosed autistic woman, this brings so much joy and peace to my inner child, who struggled for so many years with being “different” and having no answers. Thank you for sharing 💙

    • @heartroll8719
      @heartroll8719 6 месяцев назад

      I was diagnosed late too. I was 21 or 22 when I was diagnosed (don’t really remember) and I was always different in some ways.
      I have two friends only but they are so good and accepting, Olivia will definitely find friends someday.
      She seems so genuine.

    • @jenh9221
      @jenh9221 4 месяца назад

      Samesies

    • @jenh9221
      @jenh9221 4 месяца назад

      @@heartroll8719I was 40

  • @sketchels4037
    @sketchels4037 7 месяцев назад +46

    I love her little “mhm”!

  • @ChristopherLaw-qv4ou
    @ChristopherLaw-qv4ou 6 месяцев назад +26

    I feel so overwhelmed and touched by her story because she is so relatable.

  • @tanks7774
    @tanks7774 6 месяцев назад +3

    As someone with OCD and Autism who wasn't diagnosed until adulthood, it warms my heart to see this sweet girl receiving the support she deserves ❤️ I hope you get an amazing best friend, Olivia!

  • @openlybookish
    @openlybookish 6 месяцев назад +2

    Olivia's confidence is beautiful. I pray a best friend will come into her life who will be happy to answer her questions and be there for her. So thankful she has a supportive and loving parents and brother. What a sweet family.

  • @imwithyou38
    @imwithyou38 7 месяцев назад +114

    when i was a kid, i noticed when people didnt have friends and i made an attempt to become their friend no matter what others thought. i would then introduce them to other people i knew to put out there that they arent as weird as people thinkg that are.

    • @commonsense571
      @commonsense571 6 месяцев назад +8

      You totally rule💯.
      🌈thank you.

    • @Mylittlerebornworld
      @Mylittlerebornworld 6 месяцев назад +4

      😇

    • @goofball2228
      @goofball2228 6 месяцев назад +9

      As an autistic person with ADHD and OCD, thank you for doing that. It means so much to us

  • @briellerl034
    @briellerl034 7 месяцев назад +27

    Growing up not being able to connect unless it’s related to your special interest really isolates you! I relate to her so much, I’m Audhd with OCD

  • @seanwalsh5717
    @seanwalsh5717 7 месяцев назад +108

    Autistic kids are the BEST. So much honesty, kindness, creativity, and fun.

    • @tuudurreikop5045
      @tuudurreikop5045 6 месяцев назад +2

      Well, thanks. As a fellow autist, I take it as a compliment

    • @AnneAndAnly
      @AnneAndAnly 6 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you SO MUCH!🥹🫶🏻

    • @seanwalsh5717
      @seanwalsh5717 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@AnneAndAnly It is literally my pleasure!

  • @ofkhod3638
    @ofkhod3638 3 месяца назад +3

    So intelligent. I love this channel so much, never fails to make me feel hopeful

  • @woofnuggiez
    @woofnuggiez 3 месяца назад +13

    Just remember, making friends is nice, but its important to make friends with those who are like you as well, so you can be yourself, instead of masking or pretending to like or be something you're not.

  • @Truckerboy1234
    @Truckerboy1234 7 месяцев назад +50

    She seems so sweet! I’m sure she’d love photography as well. It’s almost similar to glasses, you’re looking through a viewfinder to see something.

    • @Brainalicious
      @Brainalicious 7 месяцев назад +4

      That's a great point! Photography is one of my special interests. I bet she'd enjoy making a camera obscura and seeing how different lenses affect the images.

    • @Truckerboy1234
      @Truckerboy1234 7 месяцев назад +3

      @@Brainalicious That’s so coooooool! I’ve inherited my dad’s Canon AE-1 from the early 1980s and have been really getting into film photography lately. I’ve been blessed to have a store in town not far from my school that sells and develops film (so I don’t have to worry about crazy chemicals). It’s such a shame all the 1-hour photo spots are gone.

    • @sweingold5686
      @sweingold5686 7 месяцев назад +1

      Good idea!

    • @blazertundra
      @blazertundra 7 месяцев назад +1

      Film is doubly fun, because in order to print a picture, you have to put the film through a projection lens to get the image to look the way you want.

  • @Goodhello369
    @Goodhello369 7 месяцев назад +18

    She already knows what “idioms” are wow. Such a smart gal. And an angel. I am rooting for her!

  • @AquaPisces1
    @AquaPisces1 7 месяцев назад +20

    Omg she’s a doll 🥰 And so smart! She’s a special person; thank you for introducing us to her.

  • @SunriseViewer
    @SunriseViewer 3 месяца назад +3

    Olivia seems like a wonderful person. I‘m glad you introduced her to us. :)

  • @kamigamez
    @kamigamez 7 месяцев назад +115

    Olivia seems so nice! I’d love to be her best friend. ❤

    • @caitlinw8351
      @caitlinw8351 7 месяцев назад +12

      ⁠@@Papamdms?? she said that because she thinks a person can only have one best friend. she thinks that means she can’t have a best friend because everyone’s already “paired up” (her words!!). of course she’s kind, don’t be rude.

    • @jadmohsen8880
      @jadmohsen8880 7 месяцев назад

      @@Papamdmsyou’re absolutely insane and unhinged. What is the matter with you?

    • @suu1998
      @suu1998 7 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@Papamdmswhat is wrong with you

    • @kamigamez
      @kamigamez 7 месяцев назад

      @@caitlinw8351 What did @papamdms say? Just curious

    • @Papamdms
      @Papamdms 6 месяцев назад

      @@caitlinw8351 you basted

  • @FullTimePatient37
    @FullTimePatient37 7 месяцев назад +46

    Wow Chris 11:16 talking to her about your eye sight glasses and contacts is so cute of you ❤ loved that conversation!

  • @MrJking065
    @MrJking065 7 месяцев назад +58

    Young lady you have made a very strong impression on me. Never ever give up on finding a best friend. One day you will have a best friend.

    • @taoist32
      @taoist32 7 месяцев назад +2

      It’s difficult. Being autistic makes it very hard to make friends since most people are neurotypical. I had no friends most of my life until college. And those friends are mostly neurodivergent, although it took a while to figure out why we all got along so well. But still, at 50, I have no best friend. Hopefully she will have one.

    • @millermann123
      @millermann123 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@taoist32 You take the 'best friend' stuff too seriously. It's just your favourite friend. Every true friend is a 'best friend'. Other people are just acquaintances. Friendships can be very different. I have a 'best friend' on work. We don't share any interests. We just vibe. I have a 'best friend' who isn't neurotypical. We have a lot in common but we can't connect emotional (stil my favourite because we grew up together and always stick together). With the third one i have some in common but we connect emotionally a lot and i cried in his present a lot when i was depressed. 3 friends/best friends. Other people i don't even consider as friends.

    • @shoelacedonkey
      @shoelacedonkey 7 месяцев назад +3

      @@millermann123 "You take the 'best friend' stuff too seriously". Thing is that the girl in the video, and many other people, takes words like that very very serious, so it's not something to be taken lightly and just brushed aside as "something to not take that serious", because it is definitely serious. On the other hand it *is* an interesting topic to discuss, what friendship actualy is, what makes someone a 'friend' or just an 'aquaintance'... or when is someone a really good friend/best friend etc. Words, descriptions, terminology can be important, although still be different to other people.

    • @suu1998
      @suu1998 7 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@millermann123If every friend is a best friend then what's the point of adding "best"? That's what confuses autistic people like me. I see neurotypical people calling people they barely know friends so it gets confusing

    • @kellymichelley
      @kellymichelley 6 месяцев назад +1

      I always had a friend who was my 'best friend'. That person would be VERY important to me. I even had a best friend in my early twenties and we were attached at the hip. Tbh, I kinda wish I had a best friend at this point in my life.

  • @bettyberkey1047
    @bettyberkey1047 6 месяцев назад +1

    Loved this interview ! Olivia is such a sweet girl. I loved how she made eye contact as she became interested in the silly stories about contacts,etc.She was engaged in the conversation and you could tell she was enjoying it. Autistic kids are the best...so unique and talented in many ways NT people aren't. Thankful for your channel and love how well you relate to all your guests with true interest and caring.

  • @johnmccombe6342
    @johnmccombe6342 6 месяцев назад +1

    What an amazing, sweet and special girl!! I hope she finds lots and lots of friends cause those friends of hers would be lucky to have such a nice and genuine friend in their life!!! I hope Olivia realizes how much sunshine she brings into this world and that it is a better world with her in it!

  • @Emily_15100
    @Emily_15100 7 месяцев назад +36

    Early! 💗 I’m autistic too Olivia also you look so nice to be best friends with 🫶🏻 I struggle w things like friends and etc but I’m the same way connecting too 💗 just got my new glasses today! (got honeycomb lens in which is really cool) ⭐️✨

    • @tuudurreikop5045
      @tuudurreikop5045 6 месяцев назад

      ​@france6873Be mine too (yes, I'm a biological man aged 21 but I also have an autism)

  • @LadyS8985
    @LadyS8985 7 месяцев назад +23

    She melts my heart. I too have an autistic son with big dreams of lots of friends. It was vital for us to get him involved in groups of neurodivergent kids like him. It has been life-changing for him. I hope she has those opportunities where she lives. ❤

  • @foxtrotmcgee7399
    @foxtrotmcgee7399 7 месяцев назад +9

    I love what you do for all the kids/people by bringing light understanding and education to society about things that people don't understand, which ultimately causes negative stigma around many of the diagnosis and deficits that you essentially bring light to. As a mom to a little one with special needs, hypoxic ischemic encephalopathy resulting in cerebral palsy and several other secondary diagnosis... I am exponentially grateful for your channel

  • @timthomson5674
    @timthomson5674 6 месяцев назад +1

    Chris, you are an angel! I'm sure you leave a deep mark on all those beautiful souls you've interviewed. The way you communicate and look at them is unique. The world needs more people like you. Thank you very much for all your work.

    • @beckiebuist803
      @beckiebuist803 6 месяцев назад +1

      Angels are indeed very real.

  • @Nikkidafox
    @Nikkidafox 6 месяцев назад +1

    Chris I just want to say I am SO glad you are still doing these.
    I don't know if you have some sort of formal training but seeing you talk to these people with various disorders and just... discussing the disabilities with them while also treating them like not just a person, but a FRIEND. I used to be very cynical when you talked about meeting a "friend" since that term was often used by an old therapist of mine who used it in a demeaning way. But now I truly see that they ARE your friends. Thank you so much for this work you do!

  • @MinaWalker
    @MinaWalker 7 месяцев назад +31

    As a person with a visual impairment, I would gladly want Olivia as my eye doctor!
    Great interview, keep up the good work!
    Edit: if Olivia’s reading this, since she’s interested in eyes, I might as well explain more about my eyes.
    I have R.O.P (retnaopithy of prematurity) I don’t think I spelled that right, but I digress, which means that when I was a baby my retina detached (thankfully it’s alright now) but my retina detaching caused my legally blindness, as for my glasses, they’re thick with a real big prescription and without my glasses I wouldn’t be seeing much.
    Not sure if numbers will help, but my right eye is my better eye with 20/200 and my left (worse) eye is 20/100.
    So I fully encourage your interest in eyes and glasses, because who knows? Maybe you’ll be the one who makes this world more accessible, that’s all I have, adieu

  • @lavintella
    @lavintella 7 месяцев назад +48

    She sounds intellectually gifted as well and has a very good level of self-awareness.

    • @laurensa.1803
      @laurensa.1803 6 месяцев назад +1

      So many do. This makes autism so unfortunate.

    • @blondie3743
      @blondie3743 6 месяцев назад +3

      People with OCD are often hyper self aware.

    • @blondie3743
      @blondie3743 6 месяцев назад +7

      ​@@laurensa.1803there's nothing unfortunate about autism. It's okay to be autistic lmfao

    • @omgwhythough
      @omgwhythough 6 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@laurensa.1803 How does being intellectually gifted and self-aware make autism unfortunate? 😂 It's the social isolation for me. 👀 Which isn't so bad if you can find other neurospicy (or at least non-judgemental) people to hang out with. It can be a challenge.

  • @dumpybear8664
    @dumpybear8664 6 месяцев назад +3

    I'm new to this channel, but this interviewer is fantastic. I have never seen an individual so in tune with the person he's talking to. As a parent of a child with autism, I am definitely taking notes from him on how to better interact with my son.

  • @Krammtacular
    @Krammtacular 25 дней назад

    I am consistently amazed at your ability to connect with people, you have such an amazing gift. Olivia, like all the kids you feature is so amazing. Keep up the great work!

  • @nicholassullivan1239
    @nicholassullivan1239 7 месяцев назад +13

    What an absolute sweetheart 😊
    I hope she finds MANY best friends asap.

  • @DhaniNMarie
    @DhaniNMarie 7 месяцев назад +86

    I'm autistic too and it has been really hard to make friends as well. I'm not on social media and I don't like what all the cliques like so I'm always alone. Sadly no one at my college likes Barbies, Pokemon cards, cartoons, Disney, and oldies music like I do 😢

    • @TraciHilbers
      @TraciHilbers 7 месяцев назад +8

      My youngest daughter is Autistic and a freshman in college and has a very small group of friends that are alot like her but there are some people that don't understand why she does the things she does and they can be mean,she loves making new friends and I am sure would be your friend😊❤

    • @AmeliaEarhart537
      @AmeliaEarhart537 7 месяцев назад +7

      I like Barbies 😀 And I don't know what year of oldies music you like but I like 1920s and 30s music.

    • @taoist32
      @taoist32 7 месяцев назад +5

      You will find friends at college. That’s where I made friends, and it’s been 28 years now. Have not made new friends, but still friends with a few from college. It is difficult, but you can do it.

    • @ticholopeluche
      @ticholopeluche 7 месяцев назад +10

      I also love pokémon and animated films. Did you try wearing pins or something of what you like on your bag so people can see it and know what are your interests? I suck starting conversations with people and one of my best friend started talking to me because one class I brough a cage I made with a pokéball painted on it. It was on English class (my native language is Spanish) on high school, we had to bring a object we like and explain why we like it in order to indroduce ourselves to the class.

    • @shewearsbowties
      @shewearsbowties 7 месяцев назад

      I know you mentioned you don’t have any socials but I think making an Instagram and posting your collections would find you friends that like the same as you.

  • @JudarianGaming
    @JudarianGaming 7 месяцев назад +34

    they are so many different dynamics of Autism, ive met verbal, low functioning, Asperger's, i have a 6 year old whos tall and non verbal, and he is a love muffin, hugs, movies, characters,. hes currently untestable for school. but we are working with him. this girl here is sweet also and looks just like her dad.

    • @r.o2938
      @r.o2938 Месяц назад

      Have you heard of S2C? A good friend of mine with a nonverbal autistic son is using it and it has been an amazing breakthrough for them. Of course, one size doesn't fit all but it might be worth a shot to try it with your son.

  • @polak56565
    @polak56565 5 месяцев назад +6

    I feel you girl, I also struggle to make friends :/
    Hope we all find our best friends one day.

  • @lacey6800
    @lacey6800 4 месяца назад +4

    I would love to be your best friend Olivia! Also, I love the color of your glasses! They look great! 💗🎀😊

  • @HearturMind
    @HearturMind 7 месяцев назад +6

    Those are great glasses Olivia chose. Her brilliance is so evident. I believe these children who are blessed with families like hers will have amazing lives making many contributions to society. But most of all I wish them a happy life with many friends❤❤❤❤❤

  • @A_Cute_Backpack
    @A_Cute_Backpack 6 месяцев назад +4

    This girl is so adorable, and you are a blessing to society.....
    I cry at every single one of these videos....

  • @DrinkinZima
    @DrinkinZima 7 месяцев назад +8

    She’s so precious. The innocence is just so pure.

  • @marcusaurelius49
    @marcusaurelius49 4 месяца назад +1

    This young lady is just awesome. I hope she find a friend that deserves her in their lives.

  • @Halfsmokedjoint
    @Halfsmokedjoint 5 месяцев назад +2

    She deserves the world oml she's so sweet 😭🫶

  • @shoelacedonkey
    @shoelacedonkey 7 месяцев назад +12

    Olivia seems to have so many qualities to become an excellent friend. Perhaps trying to befriend kids her own age is more difficult because no one knows themselves that good or what they want or need when they're younger... but when you get older and go out into the world somewhat more you'll find the people who will appreciate you more, and you appreciate them more.
    Asking questions and listening is such a good quality to have, to be willing to share someone elses interest is a huge one too. I have no doubt whatsoever that she will find what she is looking for in some shape of form.
    P.s. I've gotten the autism diagnoses waaay later in my life, though I do definitely recognise many things & traits described in the video. But to have a family around you to help you navigate your life better is invaluable.

  • @francescashummingbird
    @francescashummingbird 6 месяцев назад +23

    My name is Olivia and I also have OCD and wear glasses! I am also looking to make friends, and it can feel difficult, but it’s something I really hope to do and am learning to do. I felt really excited seeing the title of this video, and I know 100% there are people out there who are meant to be Olivia’s friends! This video made me happy 💗😊

  • @garbhanmyles
    @garbhanmyles 6 месяцев назад +5

    Watching this amazing kid completely refuelled my soul. Such an awe inspiring and shiny wonderful young pure soul. Amazing parents too. Just incredible to see these amazing people. 🙏

  • @silviaanguiano3597
    @silviaanguiano3597 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much for these videos! Olivia is very sweet and kind! My daughter is 9 and she is also on the spectrum and is hard of hearing (wears hearing aids). I would love it if she could find a friend like Olivia as she also struggles to find friends. I’m reading some of the comments of adults that are autistic and how later in life they were able to find friends so that gives me hope 🙏🏼. Again, thank you so much for this. It helps us understand those on the spectrum and appreciate them more. It especially helps us not feel so lonely knowing there are other families as ours. ❤🙏🏼

  • @eliselaughlin1886
    @eliselaughlin1886 5 месяцев назад +2

    Olivia, you are so smart and funny. We all know you’re going to be an eye doctor in your future. I wish you the best success in your life. You’re going to do big things. You have an amazing family for support.

  • @DudeMichaelJackson
    @DudeMichaelJackson 7 месяцев назад +12

    I also have autism and OCD. I know all too well how it feels to struggle making friends. I wish Olivia happiness and peace. She's lucky to have such a great understanding family. Don't give up and you'll find the greatest friends!

  • @elizabethw6019
    @elizabethw6019 7 месяцев назад +4

    What a wonderful young lady!
    For me, I started to cry when mom talked about the social skills group. I have the same diagnosis’ as Olivia but I was her age 20 years ago and my parents just didn’t understand how to help me. I’m so happy she has this support ❤

  • @rosabellle
    @rosabellle 7 месяцев назад +15

    Hi Olivia! My name is Rosabelle, and I’m in college. I used to think I had autism, but I have found out that I more likely have a mild case of a similar disorder called NVLD. I also have OCD. Growing up with NVLD & OCD, I often struggled to make friends or had difficulty maintaining my friendships because my various neurodivergent ways of thinking could be difficult for my ‘NT’ peers to relate to or understand why I might have acted certain ways. It has been a long journey of self-discovery, but I am proud to say I now have multiple friendships that are very strong and healthy, both with other neurodivergent people and with neurotypical people. I am excited for the days in the near future when you can look back and be proud of all the strong relationships you have built. I know you are capable of finding people who get you, just like you will get them. I hope you enjoyed this experience sharing your story, and I would like you to know that it meant a lot you me to hear it. I also wanted to tell you that I wear glasses every day because I am nearsighted and struggle with seeing things past my arm’s length. I love colorful glasses and in the 10 or so years I have had glasses I have had purple, blue, turquoise, pink, clear, and yellow ones! I have only ever worn contacts a few times because I struggle with allergies and am someone who cries often, both affecting my eyes’ comfort with contacts. Plus, I like getting to have the ease of putting glasses on over my face instead of directly into my eyes. I hope you enjoy reading this, if you ever see it! Sending joy to you and your family!

  • @BobDraver
    @BobDraver 6 месяцев назад +2

    What a beautiful little girl. God bless her and her mom.

  • @ocdandanxiety
    @ocdandanxiety 6 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you for sharing this! ❤

  • @shoshannafachima1306
    @shoshannafachima1306 6 месяцев назад +8

    Olivia could easily become an opthalmologist in light of her deep interest and she would shine in that field because she is so sweet and caring

  • @mandymorgan8103
    @mandymorgan8103 7 месяцев назад +10

    Oh look at her face when he is telling the story! Totally engaged! My 6 yr old granddaughter is the same but still nonverbal though we do get the odd word that is not mimicking. She is beautiful, funny and enchanting. She is addicted to foreign languages!

  • @edmanr2010
    @edmanr2010 7 месяцев назад +26

    I hope Olivia makes many many best friends soon.

    • @Moonbunny55
      @Moonbunny55 7 месяцев назад +3

      She’s very sweet and kids would be lucky to have her as a friend. ❤

  • @lilsunflowerart
    @lilsunflowerart Месяц назад +2

    This really impacted me. I also have OCD, and I also wish I could have a best friend... It's REALLY comforting and refreshing to hear about others with the same experiences. You are all wonderful people, please take care of yourselves.❤

    • @Berry_Bushies
      @Berry_Bushies Месяц назад +1

      Stop because your so sweet!❤ your not alone, remember that okay?

    • @lilsunflowerart
      @lilsunflowerart Месяц назад +1

      @@Berry_Bushies Oh my gosh thank you so much! 💕 I definitely needed that. 😊

    • @Berry_Bushies
      @Berry_Bushies Месяц назад +2

      @@lilsunflowerart your so welcome! It’s okay to not have friends. When I was younger I did not have any friends either, it was hard on me. But it is okay to not be okay, take really good care of yourself your so kind❤️

    • @lilsunflowerart
      @lilsunflowerart Месяц назад

      @@Berry_Bushies Thank you, I feel so appreciated and understood 🥰 you're incredibly kind, I hope you have a wonderful day. I will remember what you told me

    • @Berry_Bushies
      @Berry_Bushies Месяц назад

      @@lilsunflowerart you have a wonderful day too! I will also subscribe to your channel❤️ I seen your Channel and your art is beautiful your so talented 😊

  • @paultatarski166
    @paultatarski166 5 месяцев назад +7

    She is so sweet and intelligent!❤

  • @evangeline6
    @evangeline6 7 месяцев назад +9

    Making friends is hard for me, too. I think anyone would be lucky to have you as their best friend. Your interest in ophthalmology is so cool!

  • @deanawells4395
    @deanawells4395 7 месяцев назад +11

    Olivia you have such a big heart and you will find many best friends in the world because of your beautiful spirit ❤

  • @xBeDjentle
    @xBeDjentle 7 месяцев назад +7

    Olivia, I'm nearsighted and I can tell you have Polycarbonate lenses, I do too! I was very similar to you when I was a kid and you make me so full of joy. Follow whatever you love wholeheartedly, and it's ok if it changes, you will never stop growing!