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Комментарии • 263

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 7 месяцев назад +96

    This is why it is DANGEROUS to PICK before you GROW. 💜💜

    • @autumnonpurpose
      @autumnonpurpose 7 месяцев назад +2

      This is so true!! ❤

    • @feliciadance1715
      @feliciadance1715 7 месяцев назад +1

      ‼️🙌🏼

    • @AbelBlog
      @AbelBlog 7 месяцев назад +1

      You don't need to grow alone to pick if you can pick someone you can always grow better with.
      Focus on potential!

    • @d3ntyne-ic3
      @d3ntyne-ic3 6 месяцев назад +2

      This!

  • @JordanJWilliams_
    @JordanJWilliams_ 7 месяцев назад +76

    Whoever the guy is in all PD’s videos who says “oooooooo that’s so goood” Woooooowwww” “ yessssss pastahhh”. Makes it even better for me 😂. Can anyone relate?

  • @SharraAmanda
    @SharraAmanda 7 месяцев назад +74

    This message was confirmation that leaving my relationship was God's protection despite what I wanted to do. I couldn't even have a conversation without being invalidated. Mental, emotional, psychological and financial anguish and toil. This is my closure. To God be the glory.

    • @tiffanyb3431
      @tiffanyb3431 6 месяцев назад +3

      going through the same thing. My heart aches while my mind is at peace.

    • @SharraAmanda
      @SharraAmanda 6 месяцев назад +8

      @@tiffanyb3431 I’m about 2 months out from leaving and it was so hard. I cried everyday for about 5 weeks. Then, I started fasting and being more intentional about seeking God. Be obedient to God in this season sis. Lay your burdens at his feet and seek His counsel. I’m fasting until Easter and I’m telling you, the sensitivity to the Holy Spirit is unreal and it’s allowing me to see without resentment. To own without possessing. To love without attachment. He has so much better for you and for us. Praying for your healing, restoration of joy, and the One whom He has for you. Head up love!!! ❤️

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 7 месяцев назад +36

    Emotional intelligence is maturity ❤

  • @nonya7099
    @nonya7099 7 месяцев назад +63

    Dont stop. I need 8hrs of this level of preaching. Speechless!!

    • @LilLynda
      @LilLynda 7 месяцев назад +1

      So underrated!!! Sis I feel the same way frfr!

  • @phyllisbelieves8148
    @phyllisbelieves8148 7 месяцев назад +19

    Prepare me for marriage Lord🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @kelaroberson
      @kelaroberson 7 месяцев назад +2

      Me too Jesus❤

    • @yolandawilliams6044
      @yolandawilliams6044 7 месяцев назад +3

      Don't pass me God, prepare me, God. I'm praying to be prepared for my husband and praying my husband is being prepared for me.

    • @briharvey7993
      @briharvey7993 5 месяцев назад +1

      🙏🏾 Amen

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 7 месяцев назад +23

    Truth without love is mean, love without truth is meaningless, truth in love is medicine. 💜💜

  • @l.victoriathomas8427
    @l.victoriathomas8427 6 месяцев назад +16

    Takeaway: Learning about how to RelationShift by knowing COMMUNICATION requires me knowing and applying the following four T's: Timing, Tone, Truth, and Trust.

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 7 месяцев назад +23

    You can't stay married to the same person forever they evolve so you gotta learn how to manage their evolution ❤

  • @msshaneaka3826
    @msshaneaka3826 7 месяцев назад +8

    “You know my proximity but you don’t know my location.” -Dharius Daniels

  • @MsChiTV
    @MsChiTV 7 месяцев назад +10

    Active listening is effective communication! It’s relational competency 👏🏾

  • @irawarren8034
    @irawarren8034 7 месяцев назад +25

    My childhood was riddled with hurt and pain. When the two people brought me into the world. Told me constantly that I was nothing. I'm using the word nothing" one. I wouldn't dare use the obscenities they used. My shifts happened later on in life when I began to search scriptures and learn God my created me and said iam royal priesthood, fearfully and wonderfully made, head and not the tail. Molestation, rapes, being ganged raped, homeless, stabbed, lost 2 babies to domestic violence . When I shifted me meaning my mind, comfronted my truama God sent my husband. I'm still shifting evolving and becoming who God created me to be. I've moved myself from people places and things that do not add to my life.

  • @ChateauMaisoneuDeiu
    @ChateauMaisoneuDeiu 4 месяца назад +1

    Preach!!!!!!!!!

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 7 месяцев назад +12

    God communicates to fix problems ❤

  • @lifecyclestyled6732
    @lifecyclestyled6732 7 месяцев назад +19

    😢Very unfortunate that many women are unhappy and probably never should have married him in the first place.

  • @kiannabella1191
    @kiannabella1191 7 месяцев назад +16

    I broke down yesterday and asked God to speak to me, I asked was I broken that I can't hear him, and came to this amazingly beautiful sermon and instantly was feed. I know he is speaking to me through you. Thank You ☺

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 7 месяцев назад +6

    It takes conversation to reveal the location of the relationship 💜💜

  • @gamingwithaydon4590
    @gamingwithaydon4590 7 месяцев назад +12

    Pastor Dharius just explained my whole 13 year marriage in 37 minutes. Communication was too late, we were in 2 different marriages cause he was in one location and I was in another mentally and emotionally. I asked several time, are we in the same marriage😂😂.
    Went to counseling for 6 months thinking we would get some tools to help with counseling but when you don’t acknowledge you have a communication problem, you won’t do the necessary things to fix it

    • @justtye5145
      @justtye5145 7 месяцев назад

      Are you guys still trying to work it out?

    • @gamingwithaydon4590
      @gamingwithaydon4590 7 месяцев назад

      @@justtye5145 no I moved out 12/13/23 while he was at work.
      Too much tension and stress

  • @candib7167
    @candib7167 7 месяцев назад +16

    Me, listening to the playback Monday morning yelling at at my phone,now this is good !! Imma stay single for awhile

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 7 месяцев назад +7

    Communication leads to elevation ❤

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 7 месяцев назад +10

    Inability to communicate leads to accumulation which leads to complaning and failure to address the need ❤

  • @rnbfreak74
    @rnbfreak74 9 дней назад

    Say that Pastor D.. and if I don't wanna fix me I need to be with me🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🎯❤

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 7 месяцев назад +9

    We need comprehensive skills in our relationships, listen to understand not to respond ❤

  • @deannareynolds7045
    @deannareynolds7045 5 месяцев назад

    MY GOD THIS IS CONFIRMATION

  • @AbelBlog
    @AbelBlog 7 месяцев назад +9

    You don't need to grow alone to pick if you can pick someone you can always grow better with.
    Focus on potential!

    • @lololang8718
      @lololang8718 7 месяцев назад +2

      Doing things the King's way 🙏🏼

  • @adriennetolbert151
    @adriennetolbert151 7 месяцев назад +11

    Great Relationships have to have Great Relation SHIFTS ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 7 месяцев назад +5

    Communication reveals location of the relationship ❤

  • @sarahzeno7893
    @sarahzeno7893 29 дней назад

    PowerFULL Perennial Sermon and Benediction Pastor Dr Dharius Daniels and it’s LOADED with WHOLE TRUTH Sir.
    You made it clear and I hope those that have ears heard it with clarity 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @lakeiba_
    @lakeiba_ 7 месяцев назад +26

    PD just came out the gate ALL GAS and NO BREAKS. This was truly a great one and VERY Valuable one. Application of these 4 in getting Communication right is sure to elevate any relationship. In any situation or circumstance these can be applied to reach healthy dialogue for positive results. Having the conversation too late causes chaos. I can't wait for PT 2. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❣️❣️

  • @kellygardner2779
    @kellygardner2779 5 месяцев назад

    This word is powerful!!!!

  • @iprogressstudios8357
    @iprogressstudios8357 7 месяцев назад +13

    SPIRITUAL, RELATIONAL and EMOTIONAL Intelligence is vital. Keep SHIFTING us towards GOD Pastor Daniels, IN JESUS' NAME, AMEN!

  • @AmandahallGodalways
    @AmandahallGodalways 5 месяцев назад

    Grow with each other

  • @amonmayoyo304
    @amonmayoyo304 7 месяцев назад +5

    Worship , work woman that was the order of Adam ❤

  • @valerietherobloxgamer7654
    @valerietherobloxgamer7654 7 месяцев назад +18

    You are an Anointed Vessel I thank you for your Obedience ❤❤❤❤

  • @sonyacovington1285
    @sonyacovington1285 7 месяцев назад +4

    THIS IS GOD SENT!!!

  • @ambernecho
    @ambernecho 7 месяцев назад +8

    Be better for Them 🤣🤣🤣 Love Pastor D teachings

  • @MK-es9go
    @MK-es9go 7 месяцев назад +19

    I watched 3 services because this message was🔥🔥🔥

    • @stephanietorres8168
      @stephanietorres8168 7 месяцев назад +3

      Yessss🙌🙌🙌🙌 I’ve literally been watching on repeat since first live 😆🙌🔥🙏👏👏

    • @njabulomchunu1562
      @njabulomchunu1562 7 месяцев назад

      @@stephanietorres8168 much needed service in deed. we thank God; watching From South Africa

  • @mimispence9773
    @mimispence9773 7 месяцев назад +11

    What an awesome and timely message. This message was nothing, but the gospel truth. I thank God for using you to speak the truth in my life.

  • @kenyacurtis7724
    @kenyacurtis7724 7 месяцев назад +2

    💥RHEMA💥

    • @ahug3341
      @ahug3341 6 месяцев назад +1

      Riiiiiight!!!

  • @tashafoster9737
    @tashafoster9737 4 месяца назад

    This ain’t nothing but the truth 👏🏾👏🏾…I see glimpses of it when u think ur gonna lose me

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 7 месяцев назад +3

    I need to be in relationship with someone that speaks my truth. 💜💜

  • @heygiirltv
    @heygiirltv 7 месяцев назад +7

    Wow and Wooow!!! I’ve filed this away in the “PD - Sermons for My Season”

  • @phyllisjohnsonshade7130
    @phyllisjohnsonshade7130 4 месяца назад +1

    Pastor Dharius you are truly talking my life imprisonment of this marriage. I have talked and prayed about this. Failure in a marriage is scary. I want shift in this relationship.

  • @TiffanySmith-n4k
    @TiffanySmith-n4k 7 месяцев назад +4

    Bless God for the message & the messenger 🙌🏾

  • @felicianorthard
    @felicianorthard 7 месяцев назад +3

    An in season word for my soul I NEEDED TO HEAR ALL OF THIS

  • @malaikamumba1910
    @malaikamumba1910 6 месяцев назад +1

    It’s dangerous to pick before you grow 👌

  • @tanyabrooks8577
    @tanyabrooks8577 Месяц назад

    Amen 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I love this.

  • @tanyabrooks8577
    @tanyabrooks8577 Месяц назад

    I needed this!

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 7 месяцев назад +51

    Use this single season to grow as much as you can because when you evolve your attraction does too!!!!💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

  • @mosanders8567
    @mosanders8567 7 месяцев назад +3

    I took too much abuse in ignorance... I am so thankful for You for this generation...because the next generations will be better

  • @AmandahallGodalways
    @AmandahallGodalways 5 месяцев назад

    Say what you mean and mean what you say. You feel sometbigh say it share all the timw not just when you feel like it. Stop going off emotions ❤

  • @ekwuemepreciousk
    @ekwuemepreciousk Месяц назад

    I truly love the audience, they are so interesting 😂😅 I laughed alot but I learnt more.

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 7 месяцев назад +2

    We will win here and be an example to others on what can happen when you do it the kings way. 💜💜

  • @laquashiabines162
    @laquashiabines162 7 месяцев назад

    Shift!!

  • @laquashiabines162
    @laquashiabines162 7 месяцев назад

    My GOD 🙏🏾🙌🏾 SHEEEEEEEEEW COME ON PASTOR!!!!!!!!!

  • @deewhit4964
    @deewhit4964 7 месяцев назад +1

    My God!!! Preach PD!!! Thank Father!

  • @niar3214
    @niar3214 6 месяцев назад

    Timing, truth, tone, trust!

  • @nesbitt686
    @nesbitt686 5 месяцев назад

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @fabioladosramos8020
    @fabioladosramos8020 4 месяца назад

    Amen 💙🙏💙 ❤

  • @PushRadio
    @PushRadio 7 месяцев назад +1

    So many gems. So much confirmation. On my 5th viewing and can't wait for next Sunday, PD!

  • @christinaangea
    @christinaangea 7 месяцев назад +3

    God bless you Pastor Dharius Daniels !

  • @karrongilbreath3230
    @karrongilbreath3230 6 месяцев назад

    Be good for them over there. Yes sir.

  • @ladye7950
    @ladye7950 7 месяцев назад

    💎 🔥 💎 🔥

  • @CassideLynn
    @CassideLynn 6 месяцев назад

    This is gooddddddd

  • @iprogressstudios8357
    @iprogressstudios8357 7 месяцев назад +1

    THIS IS GOOD! AWESOME WORD PASTOR DANIELS!

  • @Life.inthe6ix
    @Life.inthe6ix 5 месяцев назад

    This was such a great lesson. I need to listen it over and over and over again to let every word sizzle in my spirit and not forget…

  • @tawanamazyck84
    @tawanamazyck84 5 месяцев назад

    Not all relationships are not for ever.

  • @LR0620
    @LR0620 7 месяцев назад +1

    Kinfolk PD when you said TONE, I said...yes indeed ‼️🎯🔥

  • @marypittslive
    @marypittslive 6 месяцев назад

    This🔥🔥🔥

  • @sherilynrobateau8345
    @sherilynrobateau8345 5 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @Therealwithrael
    @Therealwithrael 7 месяцев назад +1

    This was so deep PD. We needed this!!!

  • @ms.tripwright4499
    @ms.tripwright4499 6 месяцев назад

    LISTEN!!!!! This here!!!! Thank you for reading my heart. I'm soooo tired of dysfunctional "churchy broke marriage" love. "I stayed bc of my relationship" MY with God" YOU PREACHING

  • @TyroneEpps
    @TyroneEpps 6 месяцев назад

    This is what i need in my reatioship.

  • @davinvader
    @davinvader 6 месяцев назад

    Powerful , I so Receive This 🔥🔥
    Galatians 5: 18-27
    But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. Let us not be desirous of vain glory, provoking one another, envying one another.

  • @shariamartin9618
    @shariamartin9618 6 месяцев назад

    I was on the edge of my seat the entire time 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @wendell6468
    @wendell6468 6 месяцев назад

    first time hearing this young man. alot of truth to what hes saying. been married 32 years. pure hell. listen to him to keep yourselves out of a horrible situation. y'all better learn to communicate...🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 if u dont.

  • @evambote9816
    @evambote9816 7 месяцев назад +2

    This was amazing, such a blessing🫶🏾. At the end PD began talking about the relationships we need to get right and the first one he mentioned was 1. Fixing our relationship with Jesus. Does anyone else who may have attended in person know what the other items he mentioned were ?

  • @gabbichristinia2061
    @gabbichristinia2061 7 месяцев назад

    Sir you are preaching!!! Sheesh!

  • @chichimapani7489
    @chichimapani7489 6 месяцев назад

    Wow..

  • @MsChiTV
    @MsChiTV 7 месяцев назад

    Go head on and be better for somebody else, love you 🥰

  • @lloyd_ad
    @lloyd_ad 7 месяцев назад +1

    This is too good! 🔥🔥🔥

  • @tianaj8816
    @tianaj8816 7 месяцев назад +1

    This message is 🔥 🔥 🔥. You betta TEACH PD!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @dalleanemcnichols1149
    @dalleanemcnichols1149 7 месяцев назад

    Great word!!!! Speaking my language.🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @MsChiTV
    @MsChiTV 7 месяцев назад

    LordPastor Darius is 🎯

  • @marrickaengram2911
    @marrickaengram2911 7 месяцев назад

    Paaaaaasstaaaah D! Why you all up in my business😂😂😂!!!! My Gawd I had to let go of a relationship because of everything that this sermon is saying!!!! Lawd Jesus this ain't nothing but the TRUTH🙌🏾 . Thanks PD❤

  • @AmandahallGodalways
    @AmandahallGodalways 5 месяцев назад

    Amen ❤❤❤❤❤🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @MyLifeAsTaija
    @MyLifeAsTaija 7 месяцев назад

    i was the one that was toxic. everything he said that was wrong, i did wrong. he was trying to tell me all of this and i didn’t listen to him. he is a good man, and i would do anything to get him back. i’ve been praying and trying to grow in this single season. God I need you 😢

  • @reginadavis1028
    @reginadavis1028 7 месяцев назад

    COME ALL THE WAY ONNNNNN!!! THAT GLIMPSES PART DOH!! MYYY GAWWWDDD!!!
    And that committed due to holiness! Smh. May God do what he does, no matter what that looks like!

  • @sarahzeno7893
    @sarahzeno7893 7 месяцев назад

    Great Teaching Pastor Dharius Daniels!!!

  • @sircharles7682
    @sircharles7682 6 месяцев назад

    Let's talk!!❤

  • @mariasolomon419
    @mariasolomon419 7 месяцев назад +2

    WHEEEEWWWWW!!!!

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 7 месяцев назад

    If you want to shift you need to talk because some relational transformational is on the other side of the right conversations 💜💜

  • @moniquemeghie7709
    @moniquemeghie7709 7 месяцев назад

    I needed to hear this. I’ve been just still and waiting for words and direction from God and this was it. I’m watching all of them. ❤

  • @reginamuskeyvalley73
    @reginamuskeyvalley73 7 месяцев назад +1

    PD You cuttin UP!!!!!!

  • @Morena_do_Rei
    @Morena_do_Rei 7 месяцев назад

    Glory to God! God bless you PD! 🙏✨

  • @76pcarter
    @76pcarter 7 месяцев назад

    You preaching Sir!!!!

  • @lipstickqueen2184
    @lipstickqueen2184 7 месяцев назад

    Tight but Right

  • @denisevarnado5491
    @denisevarnado5491 7 месяцев назад

    PD brought the word today

  • @destinyvenus5627
    @destinyvenus5627 7 месяцев назад

    THANK YOU 🙏🏾

  • @sarahzeno7893
    @sarahzeno7893 7 месяцев назад

    The King’s Way