Dr Dharius Daniels’ Keys To Masculine Leadership
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"Authority makes people follow. Influence makes people WANT TO follow." Man, that's a word!
This is the kind of masculinity that withdraws willful submission.
Oh my goodness watching these older videos I can truly see the growth of this platform and the growth in the hosts
´Tough enough to carry a cross, but soft enough to cry when his friend Lazarus died.´
Okay Dr. Myles Munroe quote “When purpose is not known, abuse is inevitable.”
Shout out to all the women whose purpose is family! 👏👏
#Boom ...she said it! Super proud of You.
Pretty much
Fact!💯
Our purpose here on earth is stewardship.
Yes, family but that's not our only purpose. We are given a purpose inside the family and many times outside the family. Think Proverbs 31...
The woman mentioned in Proverbs 31 is not actually one woman but what the writer was summing up for a person of wisdom to look like. We are to help procreate our children and then rear them in the right direction and maintain the structure for them to become who God created them to be. Then as you continue to read the proverb she had a business or other purpose outside of her family but it all was to edify her community and edify & enrich her family...just saying to be a little more specific for those who are offended by a woman's purpose is her family statement.
We can go even further to say it should align with her spouses mission and if he's hearing from and walking with God you'll have peace around all these things. This will take time, wisdom, mentorship, and discipleship to achieve. 😊 Still on my journey as a Proverbs 31 woman...😊😅
Being a good leader first starts with leading yourself. If you can’t lead yourself, if you enjoy blaming women, if you don’t know who you are, then your influence will be weak and no woman can submit to the your mission. Stay Focused!
Mercy!
Great convo. Dr Dharius Daniels is a treasure in this generation. Empowering and leading men is vital and necessary right now...Black men in particular. We love our men and need them.
Agreed!
Amen!!! 🙌🏽😇🙏🏽
Consistency is so important. That was the first thing I noticed about my husband. He's the most consistent man I know till date, I never have to guess, He's so true in who he says he is and I can trust that with my eyes close.
Also his confidence, oh chile, His confidence shocked me the first time I met him, not pride or arrogance cuz some get that confuse but he just had the surety of himself and the man that he is and wanna gonna be to me.
You all have invited comments so this is my opinion:
Two Things...
First...I'd like to encourage you all to match the conversational integrity and/or character of your guest.
Pastor Daniels is dope, we know what he stands for and what he represents.
That being said because he was respectful to accept your invite and respect your audience and platform...it would've been dope to see you all grant him that same courtesy with your language.
Meaning, granting him the honor and respect of his Age, his Character, his Conversation, and his office of position. Be disciplined enough to Code switch or Match that energy.
There is No Loss of authenticity nor loss of genuineness in doing that.
Malcolm X was taught that people curse or use profanity because their vocabulary is limited BUT, that not the case with the Hardly Initiated Host... You all are WELL read!
Secondly...I agreed with 98% of Pastor's answers, my disagreement comes with his initial answer to Purpose...
As a Christian myself, Biblically a Man's purpose to work and build things that have dual utility all in one... those things or that one thing that he builds is to bring Worship to GOD while bringing Prosperity to his own House...period.
That is a Very Heavy mandate, thus why over time a lot of men have abandoned it due to lack of examples, education, and affirmation thus they desire to stay children in adult bodies.
But, we can't escape it...Men are created and called to carry Heavy things...and It's only when men embrace that, That Life for a Man becomes extremely enjoyable. There's so much freedom in that!
1 Corinthians 13:11
And Biblically, a woman's purpose is Family and there is so much Beauty, Power, Opportunity, Work, Growth, Prosperity, and Fulfillment in that work of Purpose. There's so much freedom in that!
But, these modern times and single motherhood have tainted and or even poisoned the well.
This is why the Bible says a virtuous Woman is challenging to find because most "aren't that" although some will put in the work to "become that" while extremely very few are "already that."
Thus, their price is far above Rubies
Proverbs 31:10
#My2Cents
Thank you guys for having Pastor Daniels on. You all asked amazing questions. I thoroughly appreciated the convo. #My2Cents
Thank you. Your second point is huge and necessary. Part of the reason marriage is failing is because of elevating “who am I individually” over what God intended for men and women in marriage. And when marriages fail, church fails. I also think this is one of the reason men don’t do church because pastors don’t make it clear what men do and what women do in marriage.
Classic example of A-trak thinking in the age of streaming. It's really difficult for some men to accept virtuous women, just like the Proverbs 31 woman, can also be very successful, business women. Women - single and married - literally supported Jesus and the disciples. Women financially contributed! (Luke 8:3) They had money. And... Jesus allowed women to learn, to ask questions, to follow him, to lead (John 20:17)... this was unprecedented and bothered a few of his disciples! That was not a woman's place! But even Jesus understood every woman wasn't going to find "so much freedom in" the traditional roles. Martha complained when Mary was learning as she slaved in the kitchen. How did Jesus respond? He affirmed the actions of Mary.
PD's metaphor of abusing the microphone was spot on! You don't predicate purpose on gender alone - this is another reason why so many women feel unfulfilled when they are told their purpose is solely family. This is archaic y'all. Some men are more nurturing, some women are lionesses. In addition to this, pastors should teach men how to follow - like the disciples. Men do not just lead. Teach men how to be submissive - as scripture instructs every follower of Christ - one to another. Create whole human beings that know how to lead and submit. Lion and lamb.
Another reason this binary model is faulty is because all women won't get married or desire to get married, all won't have children or can even have children... what is the role of the single, child-free woman? Who is the head of her house? (Remember, Paul said singleness is a gift.)
Finally, Let's be clear, sIngle motherhood is absent fatherhood. Is this the attitude you shepherd single mothers? Do you prefer women leave children on the streets?
PD is truly a treasure. This comment that encapsulates views I hear far too often from fundamentalist makes me appreciate him so much more. New supporter for sure.
@@taylorfit1941 WOW... Thank you Taylor for taking to time to read my long comment...LOL... your reply is sobering... it's always dope to see when others can understand what you're trying to articulate. Again Thank you.
I agreed with both of your points. I think with our context you might not realize your speaking about purpose in general for genders which apply to everyone and Pastor Daniels is focusing the unique purpose of the individual. As Christian’s, male/female we have things were supposed to do and as individuals with unique God given talents we have unique purpose to fulfill as well.
These a huge difference between listening to red pills podcasts to listening to podcast like this, I feel like I learned a lot from just watching this. Thanks Hardly initiated. ❤
So happy to see PD dropping his knowledge. When I attend church service, it is disproportionately female. PD understands that he has work to do outside of the church to reach the male audience. Despite all the propaganda we repeatedly see, I desire a black man who is a sound leader that will steward the household. However, one without character cannot expect another with discernment to follow. Having PD as my pastor has transformed my life in so many ways! He just gets it!
"Whatever Purpose is misunderstood, abuse is inevitable"
Dr Myles Monroe statement sis 👏🏾
-Myles Monroe
- Dr. Myles Monroe should have been quoted!!! 📌📌📌📌
“Real” grown men know that healing is needed. Boys that call themselves men don’t think there’s anything wrong with what they’re doing, saying, or how they’re living. Grown folks know that change and growth happens and is necessary. Folks who call themselves grown don’t care for either to occur. I don’t watch y’all regularly (I just came upon it while I was scrolling), but this particular episode was a good one. I have seen Pastor Darius Daniels; he’s a really good Pastor, and he’s wise. Good show, guys!!
Dr Daniels, spitting major facts - sheesh ❤
Oop, Dr. Dharius, what was that last pathway regarding purpose? We have
1. Unique Design
2. Unique Dreams
3. Unique Discontent
This podcast is AMAZING. As a single millennial woman who is actively seeking the kingdom of God, practicing celibacy, defining my purpose, and striving for a level of excellence that no one around me has before, it is REFRESHING to know that there are men out here in my generation who care enough about the healing and growth of themselves for their future. I truly had started giving up on finding a man who has these kinds of mindsets as a 20- something but y’all are restoring my faith. Grateful for this legendary platform y’all are building. Praying it reaches everyone it was designed to 💗💗💗
Both adults are the leaders and head of the household they are one👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🥰❤️🖤💚
Thanks for inviting this great man. I tried to sit through the swearing because of this man. A lot of gems. Its life changing to see this type of positivity in the male space and I applaud you for that. Confirms that all black men are not dogs. There are some good black men. Our community really really needs you. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
As a woman, I will say that I trust PDs judgment, so I'm more receptive. Men, please hear. We don't nag. We just feel like we have to circle the same tree 1000xs to find a little fruit... Christ gave that tree one time to not produce, and He cursed it... be fruitful did not just mean have kids😂❤ Love you bookie
I love this comment. Is asking you to elaborate making your point lol. Cause I would love to hear more on this topic
@J'LEN TAYLOR hey I'm speaking from a Christian faith believing perspective, so my expectations may be a bit different. But the fruit that is expected is The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control…” Those who are in Christ are distinguished from unbelievers in that they have been gifted with the Holy Spirit, enabling them to bear fruit. I've consistently heard men say they can't help it. It's their nature to "be fruitful and multiple." Misusing scripture because Jesus corrected lustful minds and sent us all a Helper that helps us correct, uproot and manage our own tree aka self. The Holy Spirit is our accountability partner! Amen, be blessed🙏
@@QYOUNG10_03 I’m also a believer that’s a great explanation i appreciate it
“Be fruitful didnt just mean having kids” Yes to this!
Absolutely 💯% Being made whether you're a woman or man, man or woman = fruitfulness........ ❤🙏🏿
I was browsing and missed this one . I like to listen to men speak because I have a son . So I listen to learn to help me possibly add questions or conversation I can generate with my son being I am mom . Thank you 💙🙏🏾. Hardly Initiated I enjoy what your doing .
Great conversation! Wasn’t expecting a lot of cussing around a pastor though 😅
Great conversation brothers. One change, always honor and respect the position of the person you interview.
THIS IS THE COLLAB/INTERVIEW OF MY DREAMS! So happy you all posted. Love my Pastor!
Glad you enjoyed!
PD is on point! To God be the glory. Thank you guys for this platform!
Most of us Men know what we need to do to get ourselves together to be able to lead, the leader does those things, and tye non leader simply doesn't.
I don’t know about this. I’ve talked to countless men, particularly in prison settings, who have no idea. Their models and mentors came in the form of rap/hip hop lyrics. 70+% don’t have fathers in the home.
Some men know they need to do something, but haven’t a clue where to begin. That’s been my experience listening to real talk.
Appreciated the conversation. thank you Dr, Daniels for the gems. didn't understand the reason for the cursing by the facilitator. I feel that the "much respect" should have been shown to Dr. Daniels as a man of God
Dr. Daniels never disappoints!!!! Great interview with a TON of knowledge and wisdom for er’body, but specifically the men!!!
I like that he speaks to men having accountability and responsibility without saying it explicitly. I am working on learning this skill
They're not listening to you because you're a woman. No matter how you say it, they're still gonna be misogynists.
A women purpose is to serve and family a man purpose is to protect and provide..
It’s very simple. We can’t keep skirting around this to keep from upsetting women. It should be seen as a privilege, respected, and an honored position to be submitted to your husband and serving your family. I definitely think it should be spoken about that way especially by leadership.
@@taylorfit1941 As a woman, I can agree.
That not a woman’s purpose. For women in the comments to agree is disappointing. There is a difference between purpose and roles.
@@stephaniebrooks6211 it is
for a woman who god gave the gift of singleness, can’t have kids or is not married. What is her purpose.
this is so true! Consistency and Security is something I cant stressed this enough!!!!!!!! I love this thank you
Leadership is a necessity for men, which includes vision, action and accountability. The family either reap the benefits or are burdened by the lack thereof🤯
We need more of these conversations!
I must sincerely say I was blessed by this episode of your show! I am in Germany with my wife working for the Department of Defense and I was on my way home and this show popped up on my list of things to watch on RUclips, before today I never heard of your show but I give you brothers your props on doing a great job, I’m a Preacher so I was thrown at first by the initial cursing but once your show got started I was truly blessed and informed by what was said by the brother speaking and the input you two brothers gave, it was very insightful and so much if the information i received truly blessed me, o definitely want to read more content on your guest and will start watching your show thanks for being young brothers out here doing your thing to uplift others brothers as well as growing yourselves
31:54 I disagree. This is still unconditional love. You’re just enforcing your boundaries. For instance, Divorcing a spouse who continually cheats on you is an act of love because you are in a way rebuking their behavior and acting like a teacher. Your teaching the person that it’s not ok that they are treating you that way as opposed to you staying with them and giving them the impression that you are complacent with their bad behavior. Discipline and enforcing consequences is an act of love in itself. Just because you enforce your boundaries doesn’t mean that your love for them has changed especially when you consider that love isn’t just a feeling you have for someone.
Thank you Pastor Daniels for setting the record straight, self awareness and self assessment is necessary in relationship both ways. Mismanaged emotions can cause emotional damage to the other person. Boundaries need to be set and kept.
I believe love can be unconditional, however, commitment is absolutely conditional. It’s wiser not to conflate the two.
This was so good. I sent it to my husband. So appreciate Dr. Daniels and his wisdom. So proud to have him as my Pastor.
Dope conversation, content, empowering and informative! I am inspired to be better and to do better... Thank you for sharing!
Glad you enjoyed it!
i found this channel off of a video snippet and felt drawn to it, i now know why!!! thank you guys for this platform ✊🏾
These men weren’t truly ready for this knowledge and conversation. However, I can see they understood and learned through this conversation. And this is what the purpose of conversations are for. Knowledge and Growth! Thank you for always leaving a mark wherever you go Dr. Daniels, and Never a stain. You men all served your purpose during this show. And it was amazing and positive. AMAZING SHOW!
That's my Pastor/Mentor and COACH. He's the most humble, knowledgeable and one of the greatest communicators EVER!!!
❤I love when my husband be consistent at his job and he communicate. I can do the same❤
I love my Bishop PD. I love your perspective. I agree PD. People get better when they try to get better. Not just time. Self awareness and self leadership.
Women have leadership roles as well because her purpose is to get the kids on board with the overall vision and expectation for the family
First time listening and this was really good. I like that you all were open to listen to different perspectives without being stuck on where you started. Dharius Daniels was the right person to speak on this! IDK how he gets it but he just gets it!
I’m so glad u all used pastor daniels he is great.
“Whatever purpose is not understood abuse is inevitable. “Dr D you said something right there. If you don’t preach another sermon, you preached a whole sermon right there. 🙏🏾
I love that so many men are watching this show…………this platform is really changing lives. I love being here to hear from logical men that actually seem to care about being healthy men…….partners. Thank you
This was simply amazing! Much more of this is needed . Thanks guys for sharing these gems and jewels with the public.
Being a man is something else
You gotta be a mixture at a right amount.. Can't be too empathetic, can't be too stoic
That's everybody regardless of gender.
Boundary work is goooood conversation. Y’all should do a talk on that! With an expert only 👌🏾
PD stay dropping gems 💎‼️💎
My favorite teacher, theologian and conversationalist. Hands down.
🎯I feel very good about sitting in on this conversation. Thank you for this authentically masculine and respectful conversation.🙏🏽🙌🏽 Can you just say that one more time for the men in the back about "consistency" and demeanor!!🙌🏽🙂 Bless you all!🙌🏽
I hope they invite Jerry Flowers, Mike Todd, and Kevin Olusola here.
Jesus!!! I'm shook!!! This resonated with me so much I literally can't move!!! This man is anointed!!!!
Sooo many jewels were dropped on this segment! Loved it🙏🏾💜!!
Watching this in 2024 and I have seen the more recent episodes before this one it’s amazing to see the growth in these hosts
This was an amazing conversation!!!!!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
This was soooooooooo good! THANK YOU SO MUCH
All three so intelligent and well spoken! God bless you guys.
Thank you for the Respect. For Real
This was incredible! Dharius Daniels has a new supporter.
26:13 💯 my best friend I’ve had since we were in kindergarten and that’s my bro for life and no matter wat and I’ve been with my wife since 9th grade no separation
This was AMAZING!!! Thank you
So many talking points ❤ love this
My brother on the right is an outstanding question asker. It’s an underrated skill.
Man, I just found you guys, and I really enjoyed this episode. He got me with that “broke number”… a lot of good lessons and wisdom coming from you guys. Great job!
I had both parents in the home and my father was very much a leader. But I still wish I had this explained to me before I got married. I’m 11 years in and I’ve learned more in the last few years between KS and this show. Good work Men.
If KS is what you perceive as a modeI leader... you need to open your eyes and look around more.
Amazing conversation!!!!
Great info and perspectives!
Whew, a word!!!
Yes 🙌 Pastor and Coach DD!
Great Discussion!!… Black Men when u win win … Support and Love to the man listening to this ❤
Dr. Dharius is dope
Fire episode!!!
Right constantly & communicate yes I enjoyed this
I really appreciated this conversation from start to finish. I will be sharing this video.
Loved this!
Please continue preaching
Great conversation 👌🏾
Love this
I truly enjoyed this not just because my Fav was on but just how real it was ! Awesome job men ❤
Gotta love my Pastor! This was a great forum!
Always appreciate a conversation from Dr. Daniels, he always gives a very well-rounded perspective!
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👋🏾Hi guys, I follow and watch Dr. D.Daniels and just watched this phenomenal interview.
I love the questions you guys asked and just showing my gratefulness for you all doing your purpose out here❤
Plus I’m the woman preparing for that spiritual deeply rooted Christian man that will still beat someone’s hind parts🤭
Much love you guys 💪🏾GOD go before you both and bless your journeys.
This my first video with this channel. Liked subscribed and shared. Keep this up. You’re needed.
I subscribed after watching this episode today. This is dope💯💯
Change Church ATL about to blow up with this podcast. This was so good. Three 🤴🏾 🤴🏾 🤴🏾 Kings dishing truth and faith.
I've loved what value is offered here, even for us women. Glad yall felt conviction to curtail the words, y'all are just as effective without it. But different strokes for different folks. So glad for this space and others who are adding value to our Brothers.❤ Blessings
You guys have overwhelmingly won me over with the phenomenal content that you guys provide! You all are my new, favorite channel hands down 💪🏾💪🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I'm binge watching your shows!
Excellent interview 👍🏾
Wow, I like the grocery store concept, it make
A lot of sense. this is very good information for men and women. This show speaks to both.
This was Awesome!!!!
I'm listening 👂👂👂
Wow. Feminizing the visualization of Christ… as a woman i never thought about it like that.. 🤯
Great episode!
Respect
I really enjoyed this conversation and information shared, I had to shared it with my husband.
I feel that women’s purpose is to help the men fulfill his vision right next to God and yes family
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