Being annoyed by little things like snoring isn’t what really annoys a person it’s after months or years of disrespect from that person that makes everything annoying about them.
And that's our own fault have to pay attention to you all's values and future. And if it annoys us we must address it up front with in ourselves and decide on how much of a deal breaker that is
I wish I had that . I'm on year 3.5 and it's like not working out but I love him so much I'm so confused. He's just like mean and grouchy all of the time .
@@amandarubino4316 it could be a rough season you all are going through, or something he is personally struggling with. Hope you all can fight through it. ❤️🙏🏽
@@amandarubino4316 Hey, it's worth checking your attachment style because it impacts the relationship the most. It's like playing the game with two players who play by totally different rules so simply can't enjoy the play as much. Check out Personal Development School on YT as it is hands down the best source of information and goes into great detail. Everything is possible, so is rewiring neurons in your brain to serve you better. I wish you the best of luck!
I don’t know why everyone says “it’s such hard work “ I’ve never felt like my marriage takes work. He is my best friend. I wouldn’t talk or treat him differently than my closest friend or sibling. We have been through a lot in our 2 decades together: unemployment, illness, infertility, but the adversity made us stronger. Even when we finally had our daughter, we came together so well, never needed to even talk about feeding schedule, bottles or other things, I can’t explain it. It’s like we have the same heart and brain. I love him to bits.
RELATIONSHIP PRO T!P: Research attachment theory and understanding attachment styles. This is a crucial part of understanding compatibility that often gets over looked.
Though helpful in helping us self-actualize as healthier adults, Attachment Theory is not evidenced based and people often do not exhibit a single attachment style: "...attachment theory seems to have posited that attachment is some kind of a monolithic relational mind map that applies globally, but recent research shows that individuals can be attached in different ways to different people. Indeed the child can have a secure attachment to his mother, but an avoidant attachment to his father, and an anxious attachment to an aunt, and so on." Google: Why Attachment Theory Is All Sizzle and No Steak
@@TheZlepno I think you are correct which explains why I can't place my last partner into a particular style. She was all the types in different scenarios. And so am I. Some people I am so annoyed by I automatically get avoidant with them. That's my mother. What I seem to have dropped is my anxious style apart from the week of the actual breakup. Overall I do seem to be more secure than ever.
There is some fire advice in here. I love the idea that there are THREE entities in any situation: me, him, and the relationship. Also the understanding that the PROBLEM is the problem, and how are we going to solve it as a team?
I needed to hear this way earlier in my life. I would’ve avoided so much heartbreak and frustration trying to fix things that should’ve never been to begin with.
In my experience and in my life, the following rules apply in relationships: - Remain Two Individuals - Work Together to Manage Finances - Best Friends and Forever Lovers A successful relationship is communication!
Tyler p 🦋we’ll back in the days of Adam & Eve, God knew that as humans we needed a spouse. D&C 131 1-4 Celestial marriage is essential to exaltation in the highest heaven
Im 49 yrs old and so naive on who i date .. i always get used, abused by a man .narc.. when i heard this i make sure that before i date a man i will need to know and test the guy .. thank u so much
The 2 episodes with this amazing therapist are ones of the most impactful episodes I ever heard/watched on relationship’s topic. No BS, actionable tips and learnings, clarity. You really nailed to have an impact with them. Congrats & thank you! ❤✨👌🏼💯 And now I have to translate it in French for the women I care about (France & Africa).
Very good advice by a wise woman. Thank you!!!! I should have heard this 20 years ago. It is a very sad truth that you only really know a person when you break up with him/her. I just survived a horrible divorce and see the man for the first time the way he really is. Never ever should I have married him so quickly and at such a young age... and have four kids with him..... I've learned the truth now.
I was raised to believe, that I should prove my worth to a man and that I should never be a "burden" to him. Of course I attracted a narcissist who abused and mistreated me. Thanks God I finally dumped him, but it was a terrible thing to realize my grandma (same as Lisa's) taught me to normalize abuse. 😕 By the way, my grandpa was also a narcissist.
Girl looks like an equestrian and only about 25.... How can she have been married 18 years with the complexion of a teenager. She must have good genes and a good husband 😊
I’m at that point now , never can get to the root of the problem, so know I’m checked out . Don’t sleep in the same bed anymore, don’t want to talk, and unfortunately we share a child together . The resentment is from numerous things and now I’m ready to move on. I wish I would’ve heard this message years ago however , after I heal, I know not to jump so fast and actually get to know this person and not the representative!
WOW, this was an eye-opening, amazing interview - I wish it was longer! the advice is so helpful, and hearing someone explore these topics from a factual perspective shines light on feelings. thank you Spirit and Lisa, and I hope there’s a following video covering needs, how to pinpoint what exactly your needs are, and how to communicate about them. Amazing!! 💛 coming from someone with past childhood neglect/abandonment and experience with toxic relationships/ codependency, I deeply appreciate these talks. xoxo
Spirit, you're my spirit animal. You say everything I need to hear and more. I have no friends who can advise like you do and preparing for marriage this is what I needed.
this video was so insightful. wow, it's so hard not to get caught up in your feelings and blaming the other person for not meeting your needs. I like how you reframed it to focus on the solution, trying something new for a set time and seeing if that works. "the perfect person" has their flaws! and you're bound to bump heads. not everyone can read your mind, and learning to communicate clearly what you need, and knowing what you need first is something I struggle with. I think I can learn a lot by not being fearful to speak up for myself, and trusting that the other person will be open and responsive to my needs. I need to try it or else I won't know.
I loved this so much! Spirit is such an amazing speaker and there is so much truth to everything she says. Also, absolutely love the way you engage with her and ask questions, Lisa!
I suspected my husband always texting a lady on his phone , We’ve been married for 18 years, we’ve both been happy together until recently when he switched side and I found out he has been cheating .I explained my story to a colleague at work then she introduced me to this genuine hacker, Darkwebprohacker who gave me access to his phone , I had complete access to his phone right on my own device and I could see all his activities for the past 2 years and also have access to new notifications, his text messages, Facebook messages,location, call logs, and I found out my husband was also flirting on dating sites..I love my husband a lot and I still don’t understand why he betrayed me, I have been a good hardworking wife and never for once cheated on him. I tracked him down and found out he was always going to sleep in another woman’s house with me thinking my husband is always at work for night shift. You can contact this great hacker who helped me found out the truth about my husband at darkwebprohack(at)gmail com or Whats app +19087998357 or text and call them directly on the same number.They helped me get access into his phone without even touching his phone.I have enough evidence against my husband and I am thinking of Filing for divorce.I want advice if I should give him another chance or let go ? We have 2 kids together it's a painful feeling but I believe things happen in life it comes as it goes, as it says what doesn't kills makes you stronger
I suspected my husband always texting a lady on his phone , We’ve been married for 18 years, we’ve both been happy together until recently when he switched side and I found out he has been cheating .I explained my story to a colleague at work then she introduced me to this genuine hacker, Darkwebprohacker who gave me access to his phone , I had complete access to his phone right on my own device and I could see all his activities for the past 2 years and also have access to new notifications, his text messages, Facebook messages,location, call logs, and I found out my husband was also flirting on dating sites..I love my husband a lot and I still don’t understand why he betrayed me, I have been a good hardworking wife and never for once cheated on him. I tracked him down and found out he was always going to sleep in another woman’s house with me thinking my husband is always at work for night shift. You can contact this great hacker who helped me found out the truth about my husband at darkwebprohack(at)gmail com or Whats app +19087998357 or text and call them directly on the same number.They helped me get access into his phone without even touching his phone.I have enough evidence against my husband and I am thinking of Filing for divorce.I want advice if I should give him another chance or let go ? We have 2 kids together it's a painful feeling but I believe things happen in life it comes as it goes, as it says what doesn't kills makes you stronger
I suspected my husband always texting a lady on his phone , We’ve been married for 18 years, we’ve both been happy together until recently when he switched side and I found out he has been cheating .I explained my story to a colleague at work then she introduced me to this genuine hacker, Darkwebprohacker who gave me access to his phone , I had complete access to his phone right on my own device and I could see all his activities for the past 2 years and also have access to new notifications, his text messages, Facebook messages,location, call logs, and I found out my husband was also flirting on dating sites..I love my husband a lot and I still don’t understand why he betrayed me, I have been a good hardworking wife and never for once cheated on him. I tracked him down and found out he was always going to sleep in another woman’s house with me thinking my husband is always at work for night shift. You can contact this great hacker who helped me found out the truth about my husband at darkwebprohack(at)gmail com or Whats app +19087998357 or text and call them directly on the same number.They helped me get access into his phone without even touching his phone.I have enough evidence against my husband and I am thinking of Filing for divorce.I want advice if I should give him another chance or let go ? We have 2 kids together it's a painful feeling but I believe things happen in life it comes as it goes, as it says what doesn't kills makes you stronger
This is not a profound comment. Spirit is such a beautiful woman! The type of beauty that is the mutual interaction between outward appearance and inner nature.
I think the title for this amazing session should be conflict resolution. I'm from a dysfunctional and abusive home. I'm learning to do things the right way, the healthy way, for myself and my partner.
Yeah this older man who is 60 yrs met me right when he broke up with his girlfriend of 4 years, he met her when he was divorcing. Well he wanted to jump right into having sex. I am celibate so needless to say in the matter of 2 months I saw he was NOT the one. His moral values were not aligned with my purpose, etc. He is lost.
sOsOmega Why would you assume he is lost versus the two of you were just not compatible? Some could say you are lost but I’m sure you would disagree, right?
Keep your morals and values, you both are just in different places and he have his own things to deal with internally, allow him to politely move on and you don't take on his baggage....stay celibate....sex can confuse things and cloud things....
@Pink Salt one thing we know about social media is that people will embellish a story to fit their narrative. You assumed he wanted a free f*ck. A 60 year old man with a history of long standing relationships doesn’t spend two months trying to get a free f*ck. Time is no longer his friend. He’s more apt to move on if that was the case. Besides, It doesn’t take two months to determine someone only wants sex from you and is not compatible with your “morals and purpose.”
Fab topic. Thanks for introducing me to a new person! Hoping this is a 2 part episode (and not a technical error) so we can get more. For anyone who is wanting practical steps of this advice, The Gottman's have gone into the science of relationships. They have crafted brilliant resources which provide you with tools to tackle many of the things Spirit mentions here.
That's how responsible men handle problems in relationships. We use logic and are always in problem solving mode. Not emotional and not into venting to be just venting. We wanna end the vent by coming up with a solution to hen move forward to the next thing later we will deal with together.. And you have to have honest conversation for that to happen no matter how you feel about how it comes. It's all about getting better in the relationship. Communicate and solve the problems.
I can not find the right person in my 38, and I just broke up, agree with one thing: "break up first to see who is this person. It really shocked me" Good advice and I will really treat dating as a job interview and I will not hire anyone before this guy is compatible.
Hi lisa pls add one section in your podcast that what happen if somebody is married now and years have passed, what should they do now. What is best possible scenario now to live their life fullest.
Yes I have been in chemistry situation and difficult to get out of the toxicity... When we are young we don't really think abt all this and get trapped till we are adults and it's time to really marry and we have less time to really judge
Been single for years and I’m scared to get in a relationship because I feel we now live in a World where people have become expendables in the dating scene. No one wants to put effort to commit to a relationship when there are so many options to freedom. Marriage has lost its meaning and purpose. I honestly feel some factors of social media has a lot to be blamed for. I hate it. It’s depressing.
1st Take: "My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier." Yours sincerely, Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook 2nd Take: “My music is always going to make a woman feel like a bad bitch. When you make a woman feel like she’s the baddest bitch in the room, to me, that’s female empowerment.” Decently yours, Cardi B. My Humble Take: What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her soul. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way. *The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi *The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar *Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe *Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous Isaiah 3:12 *Childish* leaders oppress my people, and *women* rule over them. O my people, your leaders mislead you; they send you down the wrong road. Proverbs 31:3 Don't give your strength (attention, resources, mental point origen) to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.
This Interview was too short .But very good thank you 👍🌹❤Please more dating advices for the decisions in a dating procces when the person you date shows disrespect behavior or do something you really dont like in his behavior but you think everything else is okay and he is a keeper. Can you learn us HOW TO SPEAK A MAN -WITH MANY EXAMPLES. Because man dont like to be critizise they act than like kids....or enemys....you know what I mean.Hopefully😅😄
First ask yourself, why it is bothering you. Is it against your values and beliefs? Was he acting disrespectful? Most of the time, you can tell right away. Tell him, that his behaviour makes you feel certain way or is against you values and explain exactly what. If he takes no responsibility at all, not even considering to think about or talk with you trough it, he is too immature.
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I did that same shit with each one...trying to stay loyal to someone wven after they became assholes to maintain being a "good" girl. You have to give yourself permission to make yourself happy.
I'm confused about compatibility. I've been told there's such thing as compatibility, but how much do we need to be compatible, and how much do we need to compromise? Because we are all different people, we can't always find someone who's 100% compatible?
Being annoyed by little things like snoring isn’t what really annoys a person it’s after months or years of disrespect from that person that makes everything annoying about them.
Wow, for me that is the hammer on the nail. You hit that so on point ❤👍🙌
Yes agreed. And we not speaking up about those annoyances.
That's where I'm at in my relationship
For me it's everything....after being disrespect for all those years. 😤
And that's our own fault have to pay attention to you all's values and future. And if it annoys us we must address it up front with in ourselves and decide on how much of a deal breaker that is
Been with my husband almost 15 years and we both still act like the first time. I get butterflies and fuzzy feelings everyday for my hubby
I'm so happy to read this! We need more empowering real love stories 🙂
This is absolutely amazing. I believe in happily forever😁
I wish I had that . I'm on year 3.5 and it's like not working out but I love him so much I'm so confused. He's just like mean and grouchy all of the time .
@@amandarubino4316 it could be a rough season you all are going through, or something he is personally struggling with. Hope you all can fight through it. ❤️🙏🏽
@@amandarubino4316 Hey, it's worth checking your attachment style because it impacts the relationship the most. It's like playing the game with two players who play by totally different rules so simply can't enjoy the play as much. Check out Personal Development School on YT as it is hands down the best source of information and goes into great detail. Everything is possible, so is rewiring neurons in your brain to serve you better. I wish you the best of luck!
I don’t know why everyone says “it’s such hard work “ I’ve never felt like my marriage takes work. He is my best friend. I wouldn’t talk or treat him differently than my closest friend or sibling. We have been through a lot in our 2 decades together: unemployment, illness, infertility, but the adversity made us stronger. Even when we finally had our daughter, we came together so well, never needed to even talk about feeding schedule, bottles or other things, I can’t explain it. It’s like we have the same heart and brain. I love him to bits.
You're so lucky! I want that one day too
You two are very fortunate to have found each other!
Spirit is amazing. She explains things so well.
Yes, she does. She looks so good as well.
I agree, she broke down the concepts and made it so simple to understand.
I need to watch this again to learn to articulate as well as you too! Thank you 🙏🏼
@@tiffanysaddler3964 LLC
She is super emotionally intelligent!!
RELATIONSHIP PRO T!P: Research attachment theory and understanding attachment styles. This is a crucial part of understanding compatibility that often gets over looked.
Though helpful in helping us self-actualize as healthier adults, Attachment Theory is not evidenced based and people often do not exhibit a single attachment style:
"...attachment theory seems to have posited that attachment is some kind of a monolithic relational mind map that applies globally, but recent research shows that individuals can be attached in different ways to different people. Indeed the child can have a secure attachment to his mother, but an avoidant attachment to his father, and an anxious attachment to an aunt, and so on."
Google: Why Attachment Theory Is All Sizzle and No Steak
@@TheZlepno I think you are correct which explains why I can't place my last partner into a particular style. She was all the types in different scenarios. And so am I. Some people I am so annoyed by I automatically get avoidant with them. That's my mother. What I seem to have dropped is my anxious style apart from the week of the actual breakup. Overall I do seem to be more secure than ever.
Check out Personal Development School channel, she explains the attachment styles so, so well
@@MaliMaslacak526 Yes! I love her channel. Its great. Even signed up for the school. Well worth it. Thank you
@@superwaxx Wow, great! I'm so glad to hear that 🙂
I wish you all the best 🙌🙋♀️
There is some fire advice in here. I love the idea that there are THREE entities in any situation: me, him, and the relationship. Also the understanding that the PROBLEM is the problem, and how are we going to solve it as a team?
It’s a powerful perspective isn’t it?
I needed to hear this way earlier in my life. I would’ve avoided so much heartbreak and frustration trying to fix things that should’ve never been to begin with.
Exactly me too
I would too, now I'm free and single the best thing ever I can find back myself and be me for as long as I want and trust God plan for me.
So true. I should have had this advice before getting married too young and too soon. I'm glad I am learning it now. Divorced, but free again.
Me too.
If 2 people join together with this type of understanding, the possibilities are endless! 🥰
I agree!!
💜 I love spirit, please have her on again would love to hear more, especially on how to communicate effectively in a relationship.😊
I SECOND THAT!
In my experience and in my life, the following rules apply in relationships:
- Remain Two Individuals
- Work Together to Manage Finances
- Best Friends and Forever Lovers
A successful relationship is communication!
I’m
This woman is a diamond in the rough!! Whoa! I’m so glad I stumbled upon her content on diff RUclips channels! She’s amazing! So true!
What an amazing conversation. I'm beginning to take a closer look at my relationship.
Same! Give us updated. What did you learn?
Omg..trueee
🦋marriage is hard work, but it’s important to remember marriage is the greatest gift from God
Soooooo #true💯
Lisa Muchi 🦋you hit the nail on the head with the love drunk
how?
Tyler p 🦋we’ll back in the days of Adam & Eve, God knew that as humans we needed a spouse. D&C 131 1-4 Celestial marriage is essential to exaltation in the highest heaven
Good health and a secure loving childhood is the greatest gift from GOD
the way you ask questions, oh my goodness, just wow,
thank you so much for this interview.
Im 49 yrs old and so naive on who i date .. i always get used, abused by a man .narc.. when i heard this i make sure that before i date a man i will need to know and test the guy .. thank u so much
The 2 episodes with this amazing therapist are ones of the most impactful episodes I ever heard/watched on relationship’s topic. No BS, actionable tips and learnings, clarity. You really nailed to have an impact with them. Congrats & thank you! ❤✨👌🏼💯 And now I have to translate it in French for the women I care about (France & Africa).
Very good advice by a wise woman. Thank you!!!!
I should have heard this 20 years ago.
It is a very sad truth that you only really know a person when you break up with him/her. I just survived a horrible divorce and see the man for the first time the way he really is. Never ever should I have married him so quickly and at such a young age... and have four kids with him..... I've learned the truth now.
I was raised to believe, that I should prove my worth to a man and that I should never be a "burden" to him. Of course I attracted a narcissist who abused and mistreated me. Thanks God I finally dumped him, but it was a terrible thing to realize my grandma (same as Lisa's) taught me to normalize abuse. 😕 By the way, my grandpa was also a narcissist.
Girl looks like an equestrian and only about 25.... How can she have been married 18 years with the complexion of a teenager. She must have good genes and a good husband 😊
CxdO cch
She’s very thin but does look 40 plus
She’s does. She’s beautiful.
Blk don't crack
Ja bro
Relationships are like garage sales, they look good from a distance but up close it’s just a tonne of shit you don’t need 🤣❤️💛💚
Lol!
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😂😂😂😂
This is perfect
or you could find something amazing...
This interview was soooooo good
marcela diaz 🙌🙌
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I’m at that point now , never can get to the root of the problem, so know I’m checked out . Don’t sleep in the same bed anymore, don’t want to talk, and unfortunately we share a child together . The resentment is from numerous things and now I’m ready to move on. I wish I would’ve heard this message years ago however , after I heal, I know not to jump so fast and actually get to know this person and not the representative!
Please have Spirit on again with you & Tom. It would be a powerful chat on relationships. Love 🇿🇦
I love Spirit she is the best! This was Very informative! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Boom 🔥❤️
Spirit, once again you nailed it. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom.
angela fronda,I admire your lovely smile!
I just stumbled across these interviews and I LOVE THEM!
WOW, this was an eye-opening, amazing interview - I wish it was longer! the advice is so helpful, and hearing someone explore these topics from a factual perspective shines light on feelings. thank you Spirit and Lisa, and I hope there’s a following video covering needs, how to pinpoint what exactly your needs are, and how to communicate about them. Amazing!! 💛 coming from someone with past childhood neglect/abandonment and experience with toxic relationships/ codependency, I deeply appreciate these talks. xoxo
Lauren Karsant thanks so much for your feedback and so happy to help in some way ❤️
Our feelings,
Our thoughts,
Our behavior,
Human beings in a nutshell.
This content was highly informative.
This channel is so amazing! I always learn the best advice and it has truly changed my life. Thank you another great interview Lisa!!!
Nektaria Kleopoulos so glad you enjoyed it!
Lisa is ahmazinggg ❤️🔥
What is her SUPERPOWER? Is there a second part coming?
Loved this interview! 🥰
Going to bed at 2 with a 10 and waking up at 10 with a 2! 🤣🤣🤣
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Hhihihi hahahahaha 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Spirit You are Phenomenal!!!💜💜
Chemistry and Compatible
NRE: New Relationship Energy
Hi Spirit !! I Love how you explained the relationship process. Thanks. Love from St.Lucia.
Spirit, you're my spirit animal. You say everything I need to hear and more. I have no friends who can advise like you do and preparing for marriage this is what I needed.
Learned alot from that episode, def guna rewatch that a few times bc she was dropping gems!!
The fact that we are getting this for free wow!
this video was so insightful. wow, it's so hard not to get caught up in your feelings and blaming the other person for not meeting your needs. I like how you reframed it to focus on the solution, trying something new for a set time and seeing if that works. "the perfect person" has their flaws! and you're bound to bump heads. not everyone can read your mind, and learning to communicate clearly what you need, and knowing what you need first is something I struggle with. I think I can learn a lot by not being fearful to speak up for myself, and trusting that the other person will be open and responsive to my needs. I need to try it or else I won't know.
I wish I would have learned this earlier in my life. This is good.
The talking was SO GOOD I learn a lot! I cant stop watching to the end
I loved this so much! Spirit is such an amazing speaker and there is so much truth to everything she says. Also, absolutely love the way you engage with her and ask questions, Lisa!
I suspected my husband always texting a lady on his phone , We’ve been married for 18 years, we’ve both been happy together until recently when he switched side and I found out he has been cheating .I explained my story to a colleague at work then she introduced me to this genuine hacker, Darkwebprohacker who gave me access to his phone , I had complete access to his phone right on my own device and I could see all his activities for the past 2 years and also have access to new notifications, his text messages, Facebook messages,location, call logs, and I found out my husband was also flirting on dating sites..I love my husband a lot and I still don’t understand why he betrayed me, I have been a good hardworking wife and never for once cheated on him. I tracked him down and found out he was always going to sleep in another woman’s house with me thinking my husband is always at work for night shift. You can contact this great hacker who helped me found out the truth about my husband at darkwebprohack(at)gmail com or Whats app +19087998357 or text and call them directly on the same number.They helped me get access into his phone without even touching his phone.I have enough evidence against my husband and I am thinking of Filing for divorce.I want advice if I should give him another chance or let go ? We have 2 kids together
it's a painful feeling but I believe things happen in life it comes as it goes, as it says what doesn't kills makes you stronger
Wow! She was so articulate and knows what she's talking about. Thank you so much Lisa for the phenomenal content you bring to us!
I suspected my husband always texting a lady on his phone , We’ve been married for 18 years, we’ve both been happy together until recently when he switched side and I found out he has been cheating .I explained my story to a colleague at work then she introduced me to this genuine hacker, Darkwebprohacker who gave me access to his phone , I had complete access to his phone right on my own device and I could see all his activities for the past 2 years and also have access to new notifications, his text messages, Facebook messages,location, call logs, and I found out my husband was also flirting on dating sites..I love my husband a lot and I still don’t understand why he betrayed me, I have been a good hardworking wife and never for once cheated on him. I tracked him down and found out he was always going to sleep in another woman’s house with me thinking my husband is always at work for night shift. You can contact this great hacker who helped me found out the truth about my husband at darkwebprohack(at)gmail com or Whats app +19087998357 or text and call them directly on the same number.They helped me get access into his phone without even touching his phone.I have enough evidence against my husband and I am thinking of Filing for divorce.I want advice if I should give him another chance or let go ? We have 2 kids together
it's a painful feeling but I believe things happen in life it comes as it goes, as it says what doesn't kills makes you stronger
This is awesome!!!! From understanding that who you are in a relationship is a choice....this knowledge is so necessary!!! And she is a therapist!!!
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it's a painful feeling but I believe things happen in life it comes as it goes, as it says what doesn't kills makes you stronger
This is not a profound comment. Spirit is such a beautiful woman! The type of beauty that is the mutual interaction between outward appearance and inner nature.
@@lioydwilliams1850 Leave the woman alone. Stop preying on the woman
Omg i love spirit what a good conversation ! Lisa you are amazing please never stop your channel is a blessing ❤️
Spirit is AMAZING
I like this women, she is amazing, please one more but long interview with her ❤️
Thanks for the feedback!! ❤️
I think the title for this amazing session should be conflict resolution. I'm from a dysfunctional and abusive home. I'm learning to do things the right way, the healthy way, for myself and my partner.
Lisa i have to say it, you are SO adorable!
and soooooo smart!!!!!!
I like the hair 😘
true! 😊
This was amazing!! Thank you Spirit and Lisa🙏
Sandra Rosales 🙌
Yeah this older man who is 60 yrs met me right when he broke up with his girlfriend of 4 years, he met her when he was divorcing. Well he wanted to jump right into having sex. I am celibate so needless to say in the matter of 2 months I saw he was NOT the one. His moral values were not aligned with my purpose, etc. He is lost.
sOsOmega Why would you assume he is lost versus the two of you were just not compatible? Some could say you are lost but I’m sure you would disagree, right?
Keep your morals and values, you both are just in different places and he have his own things to deal with internally, allow him to politely move on and you don't take on his baggage....stay celibate....sex can confuse things and cloud things....
@sOsOmega I applaud you.
@Pink Salt one thing we know about social media is that people will embellish a story to fit their narrative. You assumed he wanted a free f*ck. A 60 year old man with a history of long standing relationships doesn’t spend two months trying to get a free f*ck. Time is no longer his friend. He’s more apt to move on if that was the case. Besides, It doesn’t take two months to determine someone only wants sex from you and is not compatible with your “morals and purpose.”
@@terryvans1420 me too
You are a fantastic host. You shine in glee knowing you are sharing your gift of a better life through better information.
Fab topic. Thanks for introducing me to a new person! Hoping this is a 2 part episode (and not a technical error) so we can get more.
For anyone who is wanting practical steps of this advice, The Gottman's have gone into the science of relationships. They have crafted brilliant resources which provide you with tools to tackle many of the things Spirit mentions here.
I love how she explains it🥰
Now this is life skills!
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I loved this, very educational. Thank you! ❤️
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I just love her energy!!
I know a part 2 is coming....PLEASE!
What do I like most about Spirit - her practical and objective options to this thing called 💕. With her I'm always a student 😂.
That's how responsible men handle problems in relationships. We use logic and are always in problem solving mode. Not emotional and not into venting to be just venting. We wanna end the vent by coming up with a solution to hen move forward to the next thing later we will deal with together.. And you have to have honest conversation for that to happen no matter how you feel about how it comes. It's all about getting better in the relationship. Communicate and solve the problems.
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤❤❤❤ This just saved my relationship! Thank you!!!
I Love all her explanations! Is it just me or the interview was longer than this? 😊
Love you Spirit. I am a clinician myself and always love learn from you as I want to strengthen my growth❤
16:06 is the truth 💯
The anology towards the end... 🙌🏾
I love this, I learned a lot
Spirit is my hero.
It's easy to see why her husband adores her, Lisa is ADORABLE
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Great episode, thank you!
Sprit you are an amazing clear, powerful therapist!!
Spirit is knowledgeable and pragmatic. After that she's beautiful and sensitive to the truth. Real talk.
Waw, this is mind boggling.
Loved Dr. Spirit!! Such solid, wise advice. Thank you!!
Gave up on love ...I really don't care for it anymore💔 ....
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LOVE your channel girl ❤️🙏🏽💯 keep it up, thank you!
Arlyn Famulaga thank you!! 🙌💕
Every word, was worth the listen. Just pure gold.
I can not find the right person in my 38, and I just broke up, agree with one thing: "break up first to see who is this person. It really shocked me" Good advice and I will really treat dating as a job interview and I will not hire anyone before this guy is compatible.
Love it❤ Eye opening interview
Hi lisa pls add one section in your podcast that what happen if somebody is married now and years have passed, what should they do now. What is best possible scenario now to live their life fullest.
Awesome discussion and concepts but you both LOOK great as weill! 💝🌈🌈🌈🌈
So glad you enjoyed it!! 💕
Yes I have been in chemistry situation and difficult to get out of the toxicity... When we are young we don't really think abt all this and get trapped till we are adults and it's time to really marry and we have less time to really judge
Been single for years and I’m scared to get in a relationship because I feel we now live in a World where people have become expendables in the dating scene. No one wants to put effort to commit to a relationship when there are so many options to freedom. Marriage has lost its meaning and purpose. I honestly feel some factors of social media has a lot to be blamed for. I hate it. It’s depressing.
1st Take:
"My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier."
Yours sincerely,
Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook
2nd Take:
“My music is always going to make a woman feel like a bad bitch. When you make a woman feel like she’s the baddest bitch in the room, to me, that’s female empowerment.”
Decently yours,
Cardi B.
My Humble Take:
What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her soul. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way.
*The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi
*The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar
*Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe
*Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous
Isaiah 3:12
*Childish* leaders oppress my people, and *women* rule over them. O my people, your leaders mislead you; they send you down the wrong road.
Proverbs 31:3
Don't give your strength (attention, resources, mental point origen) to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.
This Interview was too short .But very good thank you 👍🌹❤Please more dating advices for the decisions in a dating procces when the person you date shows disrespect behavior or do something you really dont like in his behavior but you think everything else is okay and he is a keeper. Can you learn us HOW TO SPEAK A MAN -WITH MANY EXAMPLES. Because man dont like to be critizise they act than like kids....or enemys....you know what I mean.Hopefully😅😄
First ask yourself, why it is bothering you. Is it against your values and beliefs? Was he acting disrespectful?
Most of the time, you can tell right away.
Tell him, that his behaviour makes you feel certain way or is against you values and explain exactly what. If he takes no responsibility at all, not even considering to think about or talk with you trough it, he is too immature.
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@@sharinaa6533 Thank you .That is a intresting way to look at it.😀👍
Hello a man here. If he’s acting like a kid he’s not a man.
First ask yourself what kind of men are you looking for
Spirit and lisa 🙏🏼❤️ amazing woman who inspire me so much
🦋it’s because I slept with my first boyfriend that I stayed in a toxic relationship for as long as I did
I did that same shit with each one...trying to stay loyal to someone wven after they became assholes to maintain being a "good" girl. You have to give yourself permission to make yourself happy.
Screenplaywriter 🦋amen, people will use you & spit you out that’s why you should keep your bar high & not lower it
You have an AMAZING channel. Thank you 🙏🏽
I'm confused about compatibility. I've been told there's such thing as compatibility, but how much do we need to be compatible, and how much do we need to compromise? Because we are all different people, we can't always find someone who's 100% compatible?
Girls you always make me have a incredible day with such amazing information 🥰😘
Jaqueline T. Souza aww 🥰 thank you!
Love it . Thanks ladies ; ) Hugs and love from Belgium
Love this, so real and true, such a funny way of getting everything across. Made me laugh, bit really think👍🥰💛
Marie Mcleod 😉🙌❤️
Wonderful, thank you for your help!
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Thank you Spirit and Lisa.
Reality! Sex complicate things and tomes is always the master.no one should rush into a relationship tale the time to know the person.
This is the video I needed today, thank you
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SO helpful! Thank you Lisa & Spirit.
This was just brilliant!
I don't think I was born for a relationship I don't know what I am not doing or what I'm doing or am I doing too much 😪😪
Omg me too, apparently I shouldn't expect respect and shouldn't have opinions either hence 5 years single
THIS IS GOLD! Thank you so much
KNOWLEDGE BOMBS DROPPED IN HERE....WOW!!! THANK YOU!!!
Another great video!! Keep 'em coming Lisa!! Thanks for the amazing advice Spirit!!!
Good conversation!