Victim mentality is holding you back | Cafe Qahwa

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  • Опубликовано: 27 июл 2024
  • Salam alaikum my lovies :) A lot of you asked me to just sit down in front of the camera and do a chit chat style video like I do on Tiktok so I obliged! This is a topic that has been on my mind lately as I am currently on my Islamic self-improvement journey and assessing what is holding me back. Hope you like it, please leave a comment on what I should talk about in the future on this channel :)
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    Chit Chat
    Islamic self help
    Islamic self improvement
    Muslim advice
    Islamic life hacks
    Islamic spirituality
    Growth mentality
    Victim mindset
    Victim mentality
    Man's search for Meaning
    Quran
    Sunnah

Комментарии • 20

  • @mibbyk1636
    @mibbyk1636 29 дней назад +13

    Salam, Khanom. I listened to your video while I was painting. Masha’Allah you got your message across beautifully and it really resonated with me in regards to what I’m going through at the moment. Jazak’Allah. Your words were from Allah for me to hear. I pray Allah fills your life with Imman and happiness. I wish I had Muslimah friends like you in my life, so that we could encourage each other and grow together in our deen. ❤️

  • @hana.xplorz_GB
    @hana.xplorz_GB 28 дней назад +3

    I really needed this. I don't know why I went through what u did. Everyday I ask Allah to be able to relive my youth again b4 marriage.

  • @hana.xplorz_GB
    @hana.xplorz_GB 28 дней назад +3

    Im the scapegoat. The narcissits in my family have made me a scapegoat.

    • @rani1835
      @rani1835 28 дней назад +1

      Sorry you’re going through this. Please feel your feelings, process them, and begin to set goals and make a plan to improve your life so you’re no longer stuck with these people. Boundary work is essential.

  • @rani1835
    @rani1835 28 дней назад +1

    I love to hear your Islamic reflections. You share some excellent advice here. May Allah SWT increase you in every good in the duniya and akhira 🤲🏽🌹

  • @iqralala6244
    @iqralala6244 17 дней назад +1

    Sister, thank you for posting here. I benefit from your wisdom. Ever since i deleted tiktok, i missed all your beneficial knowledge. Love thissss, please dont stop posting ❤❤🎉

  • @fries1609
    @fries1609 10 дней назад

    Something else I thought about when you said human beings don't realize that they're in control of their own actions is how when we commit a sin, some of us will justify it by saying that "I just have low iman right now" or "it's so hard not to do this because it's so normalized". Yes, you are valid for feeling that way and yes, you're iman will be low sometimes but don't take that as an excuse to sin. This is something that I need to work on insha'Allah.

  • @SS-qi3ck
    @SS-qi3ck 28 дней назад +2

    Truly appreciate your videos

    • @SS-qi3ck
      @SS-qi3ck 28 дней назад +2

      May Allah swt grant you the best in this world and the hereafter

  • @Rs-cz6pj
    @Rs-cz6pj 19 дней назад +1

    Allahumma barik you are really gorgeous sis inside and out ❤️
    Whenever I watch your videos I feel like you are directly speaking to me. You are really good at explaining difficult concepts in simple words. I would love to see more videos on negativity/shaytan and our nafs.

    • @KhanomQahwa
      @KhanomQahwa  16 дней назад +3

      Jazak allahu khairan my dear sis, I am so happy Allah SWT has allowed our paths to cross 🥹🩷

  • @ariesvaries7903
    @ariesvaries7903 17 дней назад

    You are doing great, keep going 👍👍

  • @purr3568
    @purr3568 15 дней назад

    Please keep making more vids!!

  • @jojomeeescreen8704
    @jojomeeescreen8704 28 дней назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @muhammadabid7327
    @muhammadabid7327 17 дней назад

    Very nice video

  • @Muslimahvlogss.
    @Muslimahvlogss. 28 дней назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @hoopukhti
    @hoopukhti 17 дней назад

    السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبر كاته

    • @hoopukhti
      @hoopukhti 17 дней назад

      Hope ur aware that posting yourself is not permissible and beautifying yourself for the public, you can still give dawah and help other Muslims out without having the need to post yourself. May الله bless you and your family امين