I agree with everything you said. These are horrible sadistic people who couldn’t change even if they wanted to. Never let them know you know. Just quietly walk away and never look or go back ever.
I left my Narcissist last night after warning him what I'd do if he continued to snap and snarl at me. I'd been sat in his Kitchen quietly crying after he'd snapped at me earlier that day, thinking how it hurt me. I told him I was taking no more of his bullshit and told him him to his face he was a Narcissist and a Bully. I said all this quietly and calmly. As I did so, he said he was calling the Police to ask them what a Narcissist was. I thought wtf 😱? What a stupid bloody thing to say. I told himmon the way out I was blocking him and wouldn't answer any other numbers he would use. I told him I was afraid to be on my own, but I'd be Ok in the end. Anything would be better than living like this for another year.
You can do it! I left my husband with 3 children over a year ago. It's hard but you know what? You are tough and you got this! Start doing the mental and spiritual healing now. Tell yourself, " I am important" over and over. And it will take years but you will eventually start to believe it. This is the fire kindling you to be the diamond you are meant to be!You are so brave and have a wonderful future to look forward to! You are important❤
@@lwest8418you abandoned your children? That's selfish and ugly. And if you abandoned your children and left them with a narcissist that is even worse
If you fear the consequences, don't call them out. If you don't want to fear them, nor the consequences, you can call them out and don't give a F what they do afterwards. Depends on your character. But calling them out has a price indeed, since they are vindicative people.
I did it twice... one male one female.... it did not register and both had blank stares as if contemplating it. The others freak out.... Apparently empaths draw them. Big reason why i like to be alone.
Thank you Danielle, I called my narcex a narc to her face as she was walking out the door…it was very therapeutic for ME…does she hate me more and call me a narc?…really I don’t gaf…zero contact since that moment…she packed up and moved 900 miles away…she can narc on!
*"Give Name Rank and Serial Number ... **_thats it."_* *"By the terms established and regulated at the Geneva Convention that's all the information you are required to reveal."* *"Got it?"* *"Good!!!"*
My ex wife constantly blamed me for her abusive behavior. Every single time I said "that hurts don't do it" she would say why she was justified and blame me for it.
Sorry, not sorry. It is the best thing I ever did with the narc. She never ever contacted me again. No hoovering, nothing. My life has been drama free.
Truer words could not be spoken… especially when they have 7 of the 9 ‼️lol. The higher on the scale the worse their response will be from them. Either they turn it on YOU and project or they will lie their ass off and trick you for a short time before you are off your guard and they try and crush you 👍
Crazy ! She's so on point ! And that's scaaaary!! My ex covert narc fiancée was spying on my smartphone for 9 months ! And I didn't notice sh*t !! I discovered it the lastest month (the 9th one!). And you will not imagine what I 'm going to say. I broke up with her like 3 months after she put this vicious tracking software on my smartphone. She was acting like she was jealous. I had a new flat. And she was saying to me that women was coming for sex... Actually, she was pretending because she had full access to my phone from distance (messages, audios, applications, pictures, etc.)! The frightening thing was that I was fighting to prove her that our break up was based on our bad relation. Not because of an other girl. Guys, I had nobody and she knew it. She was playing me all this time. No text messages from women. Only colleagues. Or old friends from university that she knew about. A narc is no joke ! 😮💨🥴🥺
My ex did that I was super confused on why or how he freaking knew about who I was talking to or where I was going he was spying on both of my phone's just crazy
Well when you wake up to it and scream out narcissist. It's to late . At least I'm honest and can stand before God. I preached the Gospel to her . Now it on her I will get thru it.
@@trying2survive602 No. These people spend their lives seeking retribution on other people they perceive as having harmed them. Their brains are wired very differently from ours. They are experts at psychological and emotional warfare. They will find a way to discredit you and you will not enjoy it.
All narcissists are in a relationship with a narcissist. One is the actual narcissist and the other is the one who is accused by the other of being a narcissist. I wonder if two actual narcissists can ever be in a relationship with each other?
Definitely, I have seen it: one was more agressive, overt, crass and dumb (a female), her partner was a smarter, more suave, subtle one, but both are very self-serving and self-centered. What was crazy is that the male (a classical narcissist), even in a STEADY relationship with this female, she wasn't even part of his life - they had a so-called ''long-distance relationship'' and she was definitely the one clinging to the relationship, pathologically jealous and possessive. And he relished the drama and intrusions, since it was about HIM. How twisted.
Two toxic people can actually get on very well, for a while anyway: for example, one male narc may relish and be amused by the intrusions, crazy jealousies and drama of their narc ''other'', because attention is lavished on THEM, the drama is about THEM.
As a self aware diagnosed narcissist, it took several family members accusing me of being a narcissist and my very own research and my very own therapist, even after all of that, I didn't accept it right away. So it took me a couple months but needless to say calling out a narcissist or accusing them of being a narcissist, more than likely will not benefit you in any way shape or form.
![Seungmin "그렇게, 천천히, 우리(As we are)" | [Stray Kids : SKZ-PLAYER]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/kAzmhLHePqU/mqdefault.jpg)
I agree with everything you said. These are horrible sadistic people who couldn’t change even if they wanted to. Never let them know you know. Just quietly walk away and never look or go back ever.
I left my Narcissist last night after warning him what I'd do if he continued to snap and snarl at me. I'd been sat in his Kitchen quietly crying after he'd snapped at me earlier that day, thinking how it hurt me. I told him I was taking no more of his bullshit and told him him to his face he was a Narcissist and a Bully. I said all this quietly and calmly. As I did so, he said he was calling the Police to ask them what a Narcissist was. I thought wtf 😱? What a stupid bloody thing to say. I told himmon the way out I was blocking him and wouldn't answer any other numbers he would use. I told him I was afraid to be on my own, but I'd be Ok in the end. Anything would be better than living like this for another year.
You can do it! I left my husband with 3 children over a year ago. It's hard but you know what? You are tough and you got this! Start doing the mental and spiritual healing now. Tell yourself, " I am important" over and over. And it will take years but you will eventually start to believe it. This is the fire kindling you to be the diamond you are meant to be!You are so brave and have a wonderful future to look forward to! You are important❤
@@lwest8418you abandoned your children? That's selfish and ugly. And if you abandoned your children and left them with a narcissist that is even worse
Spot on. Never tell them what you know. Get out of that relationship and walk away! Thank you ❤😊
If you fear the consequences, don't call them out.
If you don't want to fear them, nor the consequences, you can call them out and don't give a F what they do afterwards.
Depends on your character.
But calling them out has a price indeed, since they are vindicative people.
EXACTLY CORRECT. I have made the mistake.
I did it twice... one male one female.... it did not register and both had blank stares as if contemplating it.
The others freak out....
Apparently empaths draw them.
Big reason why i like to be alone.
Thank you Danielle, I called my narcex a narc to her face as she was walking out the door…it was very therapeutic for ME…does she hate me more and call me a narc?…really I don’t gaf…zero contact since that moment…she packed up and moved 900 miles away…she can narc on!
i love her videos, informative, short, direct, and spot on!!
*"Give Name Rank and Serial Number ... **_thats it."_* *"By the terms established and regulated at the Geneva Convention that's all the information you are required to reveal."*
*"Got it?"*
*"Good!!!"*
Relationship ended. She stonewalled me immediately. Dodged a bullet. Sure it's not "over".
My ex wife constantly blamed me for her abusive behavior. Every single time I said "that hurts don't do it" she would say why she was justified and blame me for it.
If you go after a narc, make sure you don’t even leave ashes
It’s you vs them. Everyone else in the scene is being shown another story.
Sorry, not sorry. It is the best thing I ever did with the narc. She never ever contacted me again. No hoovering, nothing. My life has been drama free.
Truer words could not be spoken… especially when they have 7 of the 9 ‼️lol. The higher on the scale the worse their response will be from them. Either they turn it on YOU and project or they will lie their ass off and trick you for a short time before you are off your guard and they try and crush you 👍
Crazy ! She's so on point ! And that's scaaaary!! My ex covert narc fiancée was spying on my smartphone for 9 months ! And I didn't notice sh*t !!
I discovered it the lastest month (the 9th one!). And you will not imagine what I 'm going to say. I broke up with her like 3 months after she put this vicious tracking software on my smartphone.
She was acting like she was jealous. I had a new flat. And she was saying to me that women was coming for sex... Actually, she was pretending because she had full access to my phone from distance (messages, audios, applications, pictures, etc.)!
The frightening thing was that I was fighting to prove her that our break up was based on our bad relation. Not because of an other girl.
Guys, I had nobody and she knew it. She was playing me all this time.
No text messages from women. Only colleagues. Or old friends from university that she knew about.
A narc is no joke ! 😮💨🥴🥺
My ex did that I was super confused on why or how he freaking knew about who I was talking to or where I was going he was spying on both of my phone's just crazy
Thank you
Well when you wake up to it and scream out narcissist. It's to late . At least I'm honest and can stand before God. I preached the Gospel to her . Now it on her I will get thru it.
You're on fire lately
Aha. It s a chess game. And - they lost this game.
What if it's someone who has no impact on your current life? Can you call them out then?
@@trying2survive602 No. These people spend their lives seeking retribution on other people they perceive as having harmed them. Their brains are wired very differently from ours. They are experts at psychological and emotional warfare. They will find a way to discredit you and you will not enjoy it.
Wait, they really do all that for sport? Did you misspeak here or is that for real? (and I really started to feel sorry for them)
Seems Narcissists have invited evil demons into their soul instead of the Holy Spirit..!
You describe Donald trump..
ruclips.net/video/sVgrtOxLJqQ/видео.htmlsi=qfR1Uo4tQbOwGJr0
All narcissists are in a relationship with a narcissist. One is the actual narcissist and the other is the one who is accused by the other of being a narcissist. I wonder if two actual narcissists can ever be in a relationship with each other?
YES THEY CAN FYI:S
they get on well with people who are the same as them
Definitely, I have seen it: one was more agressive, overt, crass and dumb (a female), her partner was a smarter, more suave, subtle one, but both are very self-serving and self-centered. What was crazy is that the male (a classical narcissist), even in a STEADY relationship with this female, she wasn't even part of his life - they had a so-called ''long-distance relationship'' and she was definitely the one clinging to the relationship, pathologically jealous and possessive. And he relished the drama and intrusions, since it was about HIM. How twisted.
Two toxic people can actually get on very well, for a while anyway: for example, one male narc may relish and be amused by the intrusions, crazy jealousies and drama of their narc ''other'', because attention is lavished on THEM, the drama is about THEM.
My abuser was the product of two narcissists. Literally, Satan's puppet.
As a self aware diagnosed narcissist, it took several family members accusing me of being a narcissist and my very own research and my very own therapist, even after all of that, I didn't accept it right away. So it took me a couple months but needless to say calling out a narcissist or accusing them of being a narcissist, more than likely will not benefit you in any way shape or form.